Haitham al-Haddad – Tafsir Surah al-Mujadilah (58) #2 – Legislation is the right of Allah

Haitham al-Haddad
AI: Summary © The transcript describes the history and significance of Surah Alayson, the first book on the legal journey of the Prophet sallimm. The title is Surah Alayson, and the story of theational journey of the Prophet sallimm. There is confusion and distraction, but the speakers eventually come to a conclusion that the discovery of the first Surah is a result of a legal discussion between different people. The importance of learning from the story of a woman who was close to others is emphasized, and the speakers stress the need to not lose hope and trust in Islam. There is discussion of various rulings and issues related to the heart, including the use of words like "will" and the importance of not making statements about the actions of Islam. The conversation ends with a discussion of the negative impact of missing a wedding and the need for people to be present when married.
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smaller Rahim Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa salatu salam ala Ashrafi lamblia, mousseline Nabina Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa salam, ala Sleeman kathira.

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As you know my dear respect to the brothers and sisters, we are trying to go through the tafseer the explanation of Surah Al medalla.

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So, we mentioned last time that Surah medalla is among the maggot, the madonie surah the chapters that were revealed in Medina and it is part of this juicer

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that includes so many that includes sewers chapters that were revealed in Medina mainly. In fact, it is preceded by Salatin Hadith and say a lot of Hadith was preceded by Surah tillbaka Surah tilaka is a murky Surah Surah Al Hadid is a madonie surah and then we have surat al moja della and that is that chapter of the Quran is called Juju al Muda. That I will use called Semia. Normally we call it user Semia. And maybe you can see

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some of the some of the most helps. Okay.

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Part of the must have is printed, as sometimes you see the last use of the most half is printed Judo AMA, and sometimes they see this quarter, okay, Juju I'd Semia from artsonia all the way until the old pot Semia or quarter of Utsunomiya. It is from Semia all the way until the end of the Quran surah Mujaddid, or al Mujaddid includes 22 verses, most of the scholars say that it includes 22 verses according to some others. It includes 23 verses, the last verse is divided into two verses. It is among the light sewers that were revealed maybe in the fifth year of Elijah, either before

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the Battle of Allah or just immediately after that.

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The main theme of the solar is that any relationship between that chapter and the chapter preceded that which is Al Hadith and the chapters that follows what is the chapter that follows after animal del della and hasher Okay, is that any link between Surah Al Hadid

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and then saw that hasher some scholars said there is an inc some other scholars said maybe there is no link Allahu Allah. Okay, but maybe the main theme for Surah 10 Hadith, you can say it is an infarct.

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And in fact, that was the main focus of Surah 10 Hadith, the surah that preceded this chapter.

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This the main theme of this chapter, as we said is the etiquettes of discussing or arguing with others or talking to other they are tickets of talking

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the surah till hasher Surah Tasha was talking about the rulings regarding those who were those who are other than Muslims within the Muslim estate. So the surah Tasha was talking about the Jews who were living in Medina. So you can see that there are rulings here different rulings. So rattle Hadith was talking about mainly involved here. It is the etiquette of discussion and then after that is Surah 10. How shall we have the rulings regarding Musa ora living with the non Muslims and the rulings related to the non Muslims without the enemies of them or the non enemies of them? Allah Allah is there is a pattern but they are different rulings. Each surah is dealing with different

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rulings. So rotten medalla is very, very rich in terms of its rulings.

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Okay, we mentioned that the reason for the revelation of the sutra, or at least as some scholar said, the revelation of the beginning of the surah is the story of cola or Hawaii, the bento Salah

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how Allah came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa aalihi wa sahbihi wa sallam complaining to the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam about what her husband our Sabino Sami did. And this hadith is inside al Bukhari and in other Malaysians different than nations. She said, Ya rasool Allah, my husband, who is our house, I had an argument with him, and then, as a result of the argument he beat

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I'm angry and he said Auntie Alia Calvary on me. You are considered to be like my mother. He used this expression which is vital. Remove our Hara, yeah. Or sorry they are not on mobile Ha ha ha. He said to her you are or my relationship with you or you are to me like the back of my mother, the Bank of my mother it is a Canaria as they say that I cannot touch my mother because she is my mother. She is the most haram for me, I cannot touch her. Okay, I cannot be close. Be close. Okay to her from a sexual perspective. So you now you are like my mother or you are like the back of my mother to me. Okay, this is the hub, the hub from the word VA from the word VA. Okay, it is

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mentioned twice in the Quran. In surah Tila exurbia and you want to view it Dr Allahu Allah to plan caffeine on Manasa Tina, in Allah Cana and even Hakima then Allah, Allah Allah says that Allah Allah Allah Allah mentioned bodyholiday You know, like you don't I mean communism. So Allah, Allah Allah mentioned they are so this is the second time in this Surah Surah Al muda de la or al muda de la by the way, as we said, I don't know whether we said this and muda or al muda de la yeah and Miguel de la is invalid. And it is the name of the lady or the title of the lady that argued with the Prophet sallallahu wasallam al moja della means that discussion or the argument that took place there so the

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matter is easy, although most of the Messiah have considered it as what Al muda Did ya the matter is easy as we said. So,

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this is so the surah was revealed because of that story. So the man also been Assam it said to his wife, he came from a journey and he found his wife praying, and then he wanted to have a relationship with her. So

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she she, she she was delayed because she was praying and she was after Salah. So he became angry, frustrated, and then he said to her as a result of this frustration, okay, which led to argument he said to her and Dr. Lai Acaba, hurry on me as we said that you are like haram, you okay? As Haram as my mother is to me, okay. So, that lady, that lady was so upset, she wants to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and she said, yeah rasool Allah, Ya rasool Allah, how does od Yeah, no sir Tula who Bethenny means I gave him everything. I am halal for him. And I have children with him in my mom to whom he VAWA in Burma Matome Ella Jo, if I give him my children, yeah, he will not be able to look after

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them. If I took the children to look after them, I cannot work okay. So they will be hangry and he is my cousin and he is my beloved husband, and he made this legal. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said in one narration, he said you became haram for him, okay? And she said, How come you have a soul Allah? How come I become haram for him? I am his wife, and he is my husband. Yes. The Prophet sallahu wa sallam said, I don't know anything other than that. Okay? So she said the artists who will Allah How come? And then he said, I don't know anything other than that. Then she said I should Turkey il Allah He was. I complained to Allah and His messenger. So I said, I'll be allowed

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Darla Anna, as we said, she was sitting in the same room, and then she could not hear the discussion between herself between that lady and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and she said, I was so amazed that Allah, Allah Allah. She said in one narration, she said, I was coming, the Prophet SAW Selim her, and then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam started to receive revelation. And then I said, to the lady, stop, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam received the revelation, and then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam recited that those are yet shall not be allowed to Allah and he was so amazed that she said Subhan Allah, the semi semi who was Subhana Allah He was some who who is

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How come Subhana glorify the one who's semuc encountered or

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heard all that as what? I could not hear her discuss.

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And I was in the same room and Allah, Allah Allah from above the seventh heaven. Herb Hersh. subhanho wa taala. And then Allah Allah Allah Allah not only that immediately revealed those verses consuming our whole call allottee to daddy look at these odd outage techie Illa Wallah who is now to howl Akuma in Allah Semyon Basu.

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So, this is the reason for the revelation of at least the beginning of this surah the meaning is clear or the semi Allah Allah Allah T to JAL De Luca fees with the help Yeah.

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As we said, either the beginning of this surah was revealed or the entire surah was revealed. And as we said, this is this surah is mainly talking about the rulings of, of, of Muhammad have discussion of discussion between, between all people, it seems Allah Allah, it seems, or I mean, between all types of people, it seems that Allah, Allah, Allah wants to say to us in the beginning, this discussion, any discussion, any argument, the main thing that you need to be aware of, is, you need to be aware that Allah, Allah, Allah knows everything Allah, Allah, Allah hears everything, and that's why in the beginning of the Surah, but the semi Allahu Allah allottee to judge the look of

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his odor or taste the key illallah wa Allahu you're smarter how nakoma in Allah some Jambo save the attribute of Allah, Allah, Allah assembler, that Allah, Allah, Allah heals everything. Moses mentioned it three times. So this is the essence the essence of the etiquettes of discussing anything with others is to remember, man y'all filming Colin Illa la de la table it that whatever you mentioned, whatever you utter, shouldn't be according to the guidelines that Allah Allah Allah has revealed to us according to Islam according to Sharia, and you need to remember that Allah de la Allah hears you when you talk, let alone that Allah Allah Allah appointed angels to write whatever

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you say, this is, as they say, This is a map that land this is the essence this is the main point about any discussion. Yeah, the main guideline is to remember that Allah, Allah, Allah knows everything Allah, Allah, Allah, He is everything. So don't say something that is haram. fullest.

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Okay, so this is the they they this is the same, the theme of the surah. And this is how you need the beginning of the surah goes in line with the rest of the chapter with the rest of the surah. They mentioned Yeah, as we said that this chapter has 22 verses. This is Yanni they said this is the only chapter in the Quran where laughable jalala is mentioned in every single verse. Yeah, this the only chapter in the Quran were lovable. Gela Allah Allah is mentioned in every single verse of this chapter. Okay? The general meaning of the first verse indeed Allah, Allah Allah has heard the statement of hola been to the one who argues okay with you with regards to her husband, and then she

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complains to Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah and Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, here's the discussion that is taking place between both of you indeed, Allah, Allah, Allah, all here, all seer, okay. So that this is the general meaning of that we said, if you remember that, in this beginning, this first verse, Allah Allah Allah, Allah mentioned what Allah Allah Allah mentioned, hold, and Allah Allah, Allah mentioned what Mujaddid Allah and Allah Jalla Allah mentioned what is Tika and Allah Allah Allah mentioned what no Hara and there are difference between all of them. Look how in a small verse, Allah, Allah Allah mentioned all these types of what have Kalam in just one small verse, and

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you see that it went very smooth. You did not feel disturbed about it. Okay, I mentioned last time by the way, that moja that was mentioned in the Quran a three times actually that was wrong, okay. Because I realized on someone who mentioned it, and it was wrong, actually. Okay, one of the brothers pointed that unless they're meant that there are three types of medalla no Mujaddid was mentioned in the Quran more than three times, but more how was mentioned

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Three times in the Quran okay?

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But the semi Allah Oh Allah Allah T to daddy Luca Samia here God, but the meaning is clear indeed but from Arabic perspective, the word God has to

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its meaning its general meaning is clear, but it can be okay if we want to talk about the detailed meaning I that it is a confirmation that this has happened by the semi Allahu Allah allottee to the ideal coffee zodia Indeed, okay it has been confirmed that Allah Allah Allah Allah has okay heard

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this, or they say this is Tawakkol household, they say.

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The prophets Allah, Allah, Allah says, Allah knows that Allah, Allah, Allah hears, so there were the prophets I send them never doubted that Allah, Allah Allah hears this. Yeah, but the prophets of Allah and Islam and this lady, they were expecting something from Allah, Allah Allah. So Allah Allah, Allah, Allah wanted to say to them, yes, I have heard of this, and I will be giving you an answer. So they said this is the a taco. Yeah, this is the meaning of a deal is not a big deal, but maybe you read it in Arabic, so that's why I explained it, but they sent me Hola Hola. Hola, T to Dr. DE LUCA Fiza. We said Is it is it suitable for the lady to argue with the Prophet sallallahu

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Sallam because here to jaggy Luca and it seems to me okay from my reading that Mujaddid can be Bilbao PL yes and medalla can be will have it depends on the context. So argument can be good and can be okay. Negative Yes. In the Hadith the Prophet sallallahu sallam said and Iman Baba be another Iman be bathed in fear. What's up al Jana lemon teracle JUDAH Well who am I? Okay, I will guarantee a house okay, in general for a person who abandons or leaves arguments even if he is what? okay even if he is on the truth. Normally generally speaking, it is true general is free speaking the doll is what is negative, but it seems that okay, sometimes doll can be positive. And it seems that this is

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this is it. Okay when the person is trying to achieve his help? Yeah. So that's why the lady was discussing with the province or SLM and the province IS LM said I don't know. Okay, and she said back then Now am I haram? Am I going to live my husband my beloved husband, he's my cousin. He is the father of my children, okay.

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He is the father of my children but send me Allah Allah Allah Allah Tada de lo Caffee is OG here? She is arguing with you in her husband. This is the Arabic Tron the literal translation arguing you and her husband? No, of course it is not this literal translation in or related to her husband. Yeah, t shirt and his OG here. So here this shirt is Milo Fisher and is OG. And then she is complaining to Allah Allah Allah Allah when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam told her that I don't know anything. Yeah, and Allah, Allah Allah Yes. Maruta how Allah Kuma Allah de la Anna here he did not say well Allahu Yestermorrow Jed della Kuma, Kuma, Allah, Allah Allah chose the word to Howard

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Hakuna. Why? To be honest with you, I could not come up with a solid answer. Why Allah Allah Allah used the word Taha coma and instead of Musa della, in Allah semi Amber said Indeed, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah or the healer or see it, this is the general meaning of this, from this we take Subhanallah first of all, my dear brothers, we will come to we will come to the other half. But from this beginning, as we said, this beginning is showing the general guideline or the general principle regarding what regarding the etiquette when you discuss something with others, which is what to remember that Allah Allah knows everything Allah, Allah, Allah, He is everything. Okay? There are a

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number of things there is that the reason for the revelation of the surah Yeah, is the story of this lady, Allah Allah. Allah did not mention the name of this ladies, but certainly Allah, Allah. ality, because names are not important. The main issue is what lessons to be taken from the story. Okay. Moreover, among the lessons too

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be taken from this is how close hola hola hola. Okay is to the person who is complaining to him when the person is in a desperate situation immediately hola hola hola real revealed this chapter in order to work to help this poor lady and when the person when that Allah, Allah Allah is closest is close to all of us. But Allah, Allah Allah in particular is closer to those who are what? Coming to him in a very desperate situation. When they come to Allah, Allah Allah showing to Allah, Allah Allah desperate to need for the help of Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah Allah immediately reveals or sends his help upon people. So that's why the Prophet sallallahu sallam said the elgiva

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Allahu Minh connote a daddy, Allah, Allah, Allah is surprised how people become dispersed. Yeah, how they lose hope in their God and to allow Allah Allah is very close to them. So this is a very important lesson for us that whatever happens, we should not lose hope or lose our trust in our launch Allah Allah. Yeah. And as now we see what is happening to Syria, to the Syrian people what is happening in Syria, what is happening in Jota, we should not lose, okay, you hope in what Allah in in Allah, Allah Allah, we should not lose hope at all. In fact, maybe losing hope in Allah Allah Allah is one of the reasons for defeat. In fact, it might be the biggest reason for defeat is what

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is to lose hope in Allah Allah Allah Allah. That's why the Prophet sallallahu Sallam encouraged us to continue making dua continue making dua continue making dua. Yes, Allah Allah, Allah, Allah will eventually answer you will. But what happens? You despair or you lose hope, then you stop doing then hulless you stop da so Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah doesn't see you making dua. So Allah Allah, Allah, Allah will not give you because you are not asking for it. But if you continue to do dua to Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah is Hayyan Karim. Allah Allah Allah, Allah is Karim is generous and Allah, Allah Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah Allah is, is that one who feels shy enough to

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give you after you show him that you are so desperate for his help and his support? Allah, Allah Allah is not that one who lacked his slave. Keep asking him and he lets him down. He doesn't him doesn't answer him. This is not Allah Allah, Allah Allah. Allah Allah Allah Allah is above that Allah, Allah Allah is greater than that. Allah Allah Allah Allah is the Greatest Allah Allah Allah Allah is the most generous. This is an important lesson that we take from this also we take from this law that Subhan Allah Yeah, but the semi Hola Hola. Hola. Hola. De to da de Luca. Feasel Jaya. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to that lady, I don't know. I have no answer. Look, the

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Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said what? I don't know. I don't know the answer. Yeah. And he who who? Who is he? He is the Prophet SAW Selim. This is a proof that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam is the last one to what to add or something. Yeah. To add or something that he doesn't know of. And the Prophet sallallahu Sallam himself admits that he doesn't know. Okay, and this is again a clear proof that the Prophet SAW Selim doesn't draw except what Allah Allah Allah has told him, and in this situation, it is clear that the Prophet sallallahu sallam was waiting for revelation. Okay. There are some other lessons where they will come in Java then after that Allah Allah Allah says

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Allah Dena Yoba here on amin cominis. Him ma who know Maha team, those, yes, those among you who make their wives, unlawful to them by this Bihar by this process of the heart, they cannot be their mothers here. Their wives are not their mothers and Latina Allah He wrote them in communities, him them their wives are not their mothers. Their mothers are those who gave birth to them in Omaha to whom Illa Allah

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and Indeed, indeed, yes, indeed they utter an L

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Word and they mentioned lies, they utter law they uttered ill words, bad words, evil words or wrong words. And not only that, but they have given. They have mentioned lies, or they have mentioned wrong testimonies or lie testimonies. This is zoo we're in Allah Allah Allah on for however Allah Allah Allah is off. pardoning of forgiving. Okay, I'll let you know Yola, you don't I mean communism, we mentioned this layout, there they are is for is when the man when the husband says to his wife, you are like my mother, or you are like the back of my mother. Lucha, Lucha is the back. Yeah. So this is the hub. You are like the back of my mother means it you are haram to me, like my

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mother is haram to me. This is the hub.

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Look, Allah, Allah Allah said, How come they consider their them as what? As their mothers? They are not their mothers. Their mothers are those who gave birth to them. Yeah, in Omaha Tamil Allah, Allah Jinnah their mothers are those who gave birth to them. Yeah. And what they have done what they have said is mooncup Look the Allah Allah Allah Allah is angry of this so angry okay with this so he called it as mancha evil in of itself and it is an wrong evil testimony. Yeah, zoo you know, the Prophet sallallahu sallam said allow a power of zoom Allah shahada to zoom out and zoom means you tell lies especially if it is a testimony here they are making a testimony wrong testimony a lie

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What is that testimony that they are considered their wives as their mothers Okay. And now this they have my dear respected brothers and sisters What is this they are they are is when as we said when the person considers his wife or says to his wife, I will treat you okay from

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older you are haram to me as my mother is haram to me or as the back of my mother haram to me, this is the heart The heart has so many there is a chapter in the in the books are called kita double the hub. Yeah the charter of the hub, the rulings of the hub okay. And as we said it was mentioned in the Quran twice. They are as we said this is the ruling of the hub. Yeah, sorry, this is of the heart of the heart is haram. Yeah. And some scholars consider it as what as one of the major sins of the heart is haram and some scholars said that it is a major sin Okay.

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As we are proceeding, Okay, before we proceed, actually why have they is haram

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Why have they had is haram and we will see here that Allah Allah Allah mentioned in the last idea that okay, what Tilka who do do Allah while carefully in other lives, followed by in an arena you had during Allah Allah Sudha who couldn't be to come back we'll be Tillery and I'm in comedy. This man said something just a statement. He did not work made more Hara Yeah. Or he did not go against Allah Allah. Yeah, that's why and how Allah Allah Allah said in Alladhina had dune you had dune means going against Allah, Allah Allah. And look, the cat Farah okay that expiation for of the heart is so severe. So severe. Why is this

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why is this? Yes. Is it because

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of jihad as a as a social customer quite

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recently affected.

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Because shahada, you're making a testimony. You're gonna break that testimony then.

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Yeah, to discourage people from doing it. Yeah, but why it is so severe.

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Yes, this is why it

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It's so severe because what because it is the Hareem OMA or halala

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Yeah, the Hareem are what? Ma halala

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the puluh Allah Allah Hema Allah Tala MO Yes, for in Allah Dena if that one Allah Allah and Kariba livelihood this Yes. While at Apollo democracy for Alsina to komolika Diva the Hello alone. Wha ha. How long?

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Yeah. Don't while at Apolo the merciful center to communicate Eva Hello No, no ha ha. Don't make anything that Allah Jalla Dante change the rulings of Allah Jalla Allah don't make it don't make what is halal haram and don't make what is haram? What? Halal this is part of Allah Allah Liberian to utter something on behalf of Allah, Allah Allah without to knowledge. Yeah, that's why Allah Allah Allah says 123 khubilai email immunity V Sultana one Taku Allah Allah Hema data mon and that's why all of us know Allah Allah Allah Allah says in in hook more inland in LA. Yeah, Allah Allah Allah says, Allah Allah Allah says warmer Karna remote meaning La Mina either Allahu Allah Zulu I

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Hakuna Mohammed Farah, yes and Allah, Allah Allah says

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yeah you Alladhina amanu Allah to cut them obey nya de la you Allah Sudhi all those verses. Conclude one thing which is what? Whatever Allah Allah Allah legislate You have no right to change it. Allah Allah Hello, hello. Well Ahmad, yeah two things belongs to Allah. Allah Allah alone. Creation and what legislation?

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Yeah, okay. Legislation. That's why even the machete came. When Allah Allah Allah condemned them by saying Marga Allah long in the hierarchy when you get in well I will say that in Walla Walla Cana Latina cafardo, yes, Corona, Allah, Allah he'll Kevin, look at this. Allah, Allah Allah becomes angry. When Allah Allah Allah makes something halal. Okay, and you make it what haram or it is haram and you make it what? Hello? Oh Allah, Allah Allah said to who? To Muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam, you are Johanna B. Lima to Henry mama. Hello. Hola. Hola, aka WW Mahabharata as rhotic Yeah, and this is who this is the prophets Allah Allahu Allah you it was obvious and that's why that it is the

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expiation of this liha Yeah is so severe is so harsh. Yeah, it is one of the harshest actually expansions and we will see how to exfoliate that. But the main lesson is what and we will see the conclusion of the IR is what what are the Colima Joseph wants to communicate him or her the halal and haram only through Allah Allah al Qaeda, whatever Allah Allah Allah made halal, it is halal. Whatever Allah, Allah Allah made haram. It is haram Dong to change it. It is not for you to change it. This lady he she is his wife. Why she is why Allah Allah Allah made her halal for you after she was what haram for you how she became your Halal she became your Halal after marriage. It is not for

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you or anyone else to make her haram. Yeah, to make her haram for you. That's why Allah Allah Allah Allah, Allah, Allah Allah became angry. And now as we said, that this chapter is talking about the etiquette of kalam of talking of discussions of all arguments. The first thing that you need to be aware of and careful of after shield is what is not to why you are talking with others. This discussion should not push you to make what is haram halal and what is halal haram. The this is the main thing that you need to be aware when you discuss okay with other people because this is the right of Allah Allah, Allah Allah and normally the right of Allah, Allah Allah comes first after

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shift, okay, regarding the discussion, this is the main problem is to to change that

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law of Allah, Allah Allah. Yeah. And also you can

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See that? This is, you know, this refuge or this response to the seculars because the seculars they say what is for Allah is for Allah what is Yanni among? Yeah and what we need to live by. This is up to us. No, even in this small matters, you might think that it is a small matter, Allah Allah Allah says what it is up to me to decide it is not up to anyone to decide. Hola Hola. Hola. Hola. Como el amor? Yes, Allah Jalla. Allah is the one who creates Allah Allah Allah Allah is the One who legislates. It is not for any one of you in any matter. Look, this matter how you deal with your wife. It is not a matter related to governance. It is not a matter related to hukum ruling politics.

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No it is a social matter. However, it is up to who it is up to Allah, Allah Allah to tell us what is halal and what is haram so there is no room for secularism okay.

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Then Allah, Allah, Allah here in this idea, of course, we can't mention all the benefits of from those ayat but just quickly,

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Allah Allah Allah Allah here, he gives he gave the ruling, but he also gave what the foundation for the law, the ruling, he explains the Hikmah and he uses Apple yeah Alladhina Yola here on I mean come in Is it him? How come you make them as your mother's now who now Mahatma him in Omaha to him ill Allah. It doesn't go it is. Again. It's common sense think about it. They are not your mother's. Okay? Your mothers are those who gave birth to you. Okay.

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Then Allah Allah Allah Allah gave us the expiation. Well, Ludhiana. Yoba here on a minister in those who do this okay to their wives. So may or will do in an email, then yes, so may I do that Mr. Carlos, the general meaning of that, then they want to continue their relationship with their wives as husband and wife, they want to continue the matrimonial relationship. This is the general meaning okay of it. However, from an Arabic language, it is bit

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bit unclear, so may or who do not follow? Yeah. Some very few scholars said to me, or who do not follow means they repeated the WR. Yeah, they did it again. That because the version of the statement, so maybe we'll do another Mikado, how he translated

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how he translated that and those who make unlawful to them and wish to free themselves from what they uttered. No, no, no, he did not go for the literal translation, but the literal translation that some may or will do not Mr. calo then they go back to what they have said Yeah, then they go back to what they have said. So some very few maybe one scholar said then they have they go back to what they have said means they repeated what they said no, this is the all most of the scholars said this is around meaning no. So Maya will do not Mr. Carew means they go back, okay. And they regretted what they have done. Okay, what they have said, and they want to continue their

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relationship with their wives

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from an Arabic perspective, so Maya una Lima, Carlo, some scholar said to me, oh, Dona and MA Paro. Yeah, from an Arabic language. So may I will do an AMA means they left what they have said or some may or will do in a day. My follow. They go back to what they have said that they don't want to do it. And they want to do it. Yeah. Is the meaning clear brothers?

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Yeah. So they want to go back on to resume read their relationship with their wives, okay.

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Those who want to those who said their utter devout they are but now they want to continue their relationship with their wives. They must work feta hurry, Aurora Cava teaming. Coverley. at Mercer, they have two three a slave before they resume their relationship as husband and wife before they resume the matrimonial relationship. They have to work they have to free what a slave. Yeah. Or the husband sorry, has to free what a slave yeah

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Okay, so this is the first one, normally factor hero Lacava where do we see the hero Lacava we see it as an expansion in Kafala Tilly Amin and Inca Farah Alcatel Yes. When they have to minimal damage and no before that

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Ken Ken Coleman thing kind of in Poland and it will look on wah wah momentum factory Ebola poverty minute. Yeah in Surah Nisa, there expiation of what? of killing someone by mistake. Yeah, killing someone by mistake. So Allah Allah Allah Allah mentioned that the expiation is what to free, a slave, but there in Coverity, cattle as a scholar said as the if Atari role aka Mina, they the expiation of killing someone by mistake is what to free a Muslim slave, but here for the Harrier Rolla kava it is unconditional, just generally okay for tehidy Rolla, kava and you know, there is a discussion between the scholars, they say this can be understood in light of that one or not. So,

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can we say that here, it means that our hero Robert MENA or not, this is not the remit of Yanni the discussion, but it is so severe that the expiation is what it starts with what the one who does that, okay he needs to what to exfoliate for the sin that he has committed to what he has uttered. Why first three, what a slave then okay to free slaves before they resumed their matrimonial relationship. If he can't free a slave, then what?

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Fast thing two consecutive months again before there is you what their matrimonial relationship if he can't have free if he can't, if he asleep, and then he can't fast two consecutive months as Allah, Allah Allah said, yeah, for a PA Musa Tina Myskina he should work. He should feed 60 poor people. Yeah, this if he can't do that, then he moves to the second one. If he can't move to the second one. Then the last result for him is to what feeds 60 poor people. This is the expiation for what yeah, for

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the rehab, which is someone to say to his wife, you are haram to me like the back of my mother. Okay.

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We don't want to discuss the rulings of the hub there are so many rulings but among the common mistakes or common problems we see with some Muslim communities when they become angry they say to their wives Auntie haram and Allah yeah yeah, in some communities when they become angry with each other they say Auntie haram on Alia okay or auntie Alia haram, you are haram to me. Yeah, this haram to me you you have to be careful brothers, okay. If your community uses this, it is a problem either it is considered to be the heart. So the expiation is this or it is considered to be a polyp and in some modahaus It is

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a revocable Tala or it is a Yameen Yeah, it is an oath okay. So it is not just a statement and you just use it okay. When you argue with your with your wife, okay. And you use that is statement. There are many rulings regarding VR as we said we will not talk about them. Okay. Well Latina yoga you don't I mean design Zumaia will do that. Mr. Otto feta hurry Euro Raghava, this is the first level Yeah, they have to free what a slave and as we said, is it a lot of Amina or not discussion between the scholars? It has to be free before what mean covered as I said, before they resumed the matrimonial relationship some scholar said before they resume any kind of matrimonial relationship

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and some other scholars said no before their resume their full sexual relationship. Then look at this. Allah, Allah Allah said that they come to our own be he this is Allah Allah Allah, Allah is admonishing you. Okay, is admonishing you by that is an admonition to you. Yeah.

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That will come to are gonna be

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Yeah daddy come to are gonna be here. Yeah Allah Allah Allah Allah is admonishing you wala who be mad that they do in a heartbeat and Allah Allah Allah Allah is well acquainted with what you have done, as we said, you know, we will try to go through all the whole chapter inshallah in six lessons, that's why we cannot just pick on every single muscle that they have in of itself to discuss the rulings of the heart. We need maybe three, four less lessons but we love it and it is not the remit of this discussion. Then Allah Allah Allah said summer limited, whoever does not find okay to free a slave. Yeah, as an explanation for CRM, we shall helenium with the eye in the

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expiation after that the second level of expiation, and here as the scholar said, the expansion is added to here. Yeah, not. So reality. Nothing here means you go for this option if you failed, okay? Or you can't go for this option. You will move to what to the second option. The second option is what CRM we shall rename with Adobe is too fast. Two consecutive months. Yeah, either 60 days or 59 days or 58 days, two consecutive lunar months. Look at this main company IEA Tamasa. Yeah, before they resumed the matrimonial relationship and as you know, okay, especially need the as you know, the married people know this, that to have to be away from your wife, okay. Especially if she's in

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front of you. For two months. This is a severe punishment, and severe punishment. You deserve it. Why you deserve that severe punishment. Don't make what is haram, what is halal haram for you? You put it on yourself? Yeah, you consider the dirt like the back of your mother, you take it to now. Show us if you are if you make her haram this is what you have done. Okay, so that's why Allah Jalla Allah says Firstly, we shall have a union without any men covering the master this is a condition Yeah. And then if he can't to do there were narrations that this man also have an assignment the one who did the the hub? Yeah, when those Ayat were revealed, he said yeah rasool Allah I can't find the

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only two to three a slave Yeah, I can't find enough money to buy a slave to free slaves there were some slavery at that time so some slaves at that time. So then he said them the privatize them as the I said, first two consecutive months he said wala rasool Allah I'm so weak if I don't eat three times a day, I can't see properly Yeah, so the Prophet sallallahu sallam said it was at the Myskina Yeah, fair town city and and his skin he said yeah rasool Allah type helped me to give sada Yeah, so he said the prophesies that said to him, wait, and then he gave him sadaqa until he was able to give what to feed 60 Poor people family on yesterday, so Yvonne will say Tina, Myskina Yeah, the one who

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can't fast two consecutive months then of course there are different rulings regarding fasting two consecutive months if you become ill, what do you do if you are traveling What do you do learner month if you start in the middle of the month and so on, will not discuss all of these things. Okay, if I was 18 and Miss Cana feed 60 Poor people again there are different rulings regarding that you feed one poor person 60 days or you feed 60 Poor people, how much you feed them one meal twice, etc, etc. Different countries different contexts will not talk about that. Okay, if I'm a city and I miss Kena vaniqa look at this Zaarly kawatte little meno biller here actually,

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yeah Subhanallah This is the conclusion all of this. Why? Yes. Why these are

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sorry, that is in order, that you may have perfect faith in Allah, Allah, Allah Allah, or that in order for you to believe in Allah, Allah, Allah Allah and His messenger. Okay, now, of course there are believing in Allah, Allah Allah and His Messenger, but it means in order to have full faith to submit, okay, wholeheartedly to Allah, Allah Allah and to His Messenger, then

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can hear this is the general meaning but as we said, that it seems that the emaan here is focusing on what to submit to what Allah, Allah Allah have said don't to change the rules or laws of Allah, Allah Allah this is what this is the main aim of this dynamically taught me know the law you are solely whatever Allah Allah Allah legislated. You have to submit to that. That's why Allah Allah, Allah Allah mentioned the second part of it, which is what what Tilka who do do Allah? These are the limits of Allah Allah Allah Allah? Yes. While in carefree In other words, I didn't look at this. There is no discussion here about q4

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kuffaar were not mentioned

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yes or no? Yeah, there is no comfort here. There is what I felt good discussion here. About what about the person said to his wife, that you are haram to me like my mother. Yeah, but Allah, Allah, Allah concluded these verses by saying these are the limits of Allah, Allah. Don't go against the limit against the limits of Allah Allah Allah Allah, indeed those who go against the limits of Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, what are the caffeine? This what it indicates? That's why Allah Allah Allah said well Tilka due to Allah, these are the limits. Well it'll Catherina other when I leave, there will be a severe punishment for the cafiero Who are the calf here on the calf your own?

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Of course, this is not a definition, okay, but just a description. Yeah, not prescriptive, but just this is descriptive. Okay, well in caffeine are those who go against the limits of Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah. And this shows the severity of what of changing the laws of Allah, Allah Allah. Yeah, as we said, 123 could be like Paulina Muhammad or bellflower. Hmm ha ha Romina Amata will be small but they're related help. One and two should Aquila human immunity be Sultana, we're under gooloo Allah Allah Hema Allah. Allah, Allah, Allah Allah listed the Kaaba, and then at the end of the Kaaba, Allah Allah Allah mentioned church and after that, I will add Allah He be right there which

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is changing the laws Allah Allah Allah you change them you will legislate them, okay not to just asking for a need you know, we are talking about you legislate against what Allah Allah Allah legislated. Okay, and this is

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one of the major sins That's why Allah Allah Allah Allah mentioned this ayat concluded by him saying what Tilka to do to Allah while carefully and then these are the limits of Allah, Allah Allah and live caffeine for the disbelievers, there will be a severe punishment. Okay, Inshallah, we will this will be enough inshallah for today and inshallah we will continue in sha Allah next

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does inshallah next Tuesday

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Yes, next Tuesday

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we are I am abroad, actually. And I forgot to mention this. So what are you going to do?

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Okay, Zach, I love it. Any question?

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Ask brothers and sisters. Yes.

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Look, this young boy is asking this question.

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Elia Dick

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Shall we answer them?

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Yeah, very good question.

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Very good question.

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So this young boy, okay.

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Who was 16 years of age

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16 or 1516.

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I don't want to mention his name because it will be recorded and then his parents will listen. And then they will say what our son is asking this question. Maybe he needs to be married.

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That might help you to get married. Yeah.

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Okay, so he's asking. So if the husband decided not to go back to his

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his wife, so he made the layout. Yeah. And he said, hello. I made the heart. I don't want to go back to my wife. Yeah. So this is a very good question. Actually. This caller said, if he said that he doesn't want to go back to his wife, he commits to problems. They are and what ILA what is either Allah Allah Allah Allah mentioned. Lil Adina Luna Minister intolerable Swati ushering for him for over in the love of all over him in

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the in the lesson, Jana? Yep. So he will move on from the heart to what Isla Isla is what the person who says I will not

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have any kind of relationship with my wife for four months. Sorry, I will not have any relationship with what with my wife. Okay.

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That if the wife goes to the kadhi, and she will say that, look, I'm just living with him as a friend. We know we should be we have, okay, there are obligations, okay. I am halal for him. And he is halal for me. So the Ali will give him four months as a limit to continue the matrimonial relationship with her. If he doesn't do that, the other will what will dissolve the marriage? Yeah. So if the man said hello, I met they have I don't want to presume the relationship. Yeah, he committed a sin. He committed a sin. And if he continued on this, okay, he was adamant. The wife has the right to what? Yeah, to ask for divorce or marriage dissolution. Then the scholar said, Now,

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this is her right now the issue is, is he obliged to go for the Kasara or not? Because he said, fellas, I made rehab, and I will not go back to my wife. And then she went under the code, they told him, yeah, and he changed your mind. He said, No. The code, they told him you committed the sin. He said, I don't care. Yeah, for example, or he said I committed it already. Yeah. So the party can dissolve the marriage and the marriage. Now this man, yeah, his marriage has ended. Is he obliged to go for the Kafala? expiation? It is a discussion between the scholars. Is it clear?

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Yeah. Is it clear brothers? So they said the one who makes the harm, he is not just free after that chooses whatever he wants? No. If he was adamant, then the wife has the right to Okay. To to end the marriage.

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Question. Having said that, the first question which came down from the sisters is Ken Ken, the wife make the heart of the husband

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this is equality and embracing

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equality and everything. The man is doing the heart for the wife and the wife is making the heart of the man. And actually I wanted to speak about this. Okay. And then it is it was in my mind, but because of time I said no need. Yep. So imagine the man goes to his wife. Yeah, darling. She will say to me, you are like the back of my father.

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And the answer is, I don't know. I don't want to upset the sisters by telling them no. But this is the answer's no.

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Yeah, of course. No sisters. Yeah. The the wife cannot make the house.

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They the wife cannot make the heart of her husband. There is a story. Yeah.

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They said that in history. There is a lady, the First Lady who the first time the last lady who made the very hot. Yeah.

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Her name is Holly. I've been to Bali.

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Yeah, who will have been to Palau. How would have been to palha?

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There is Tom. This is how I've been to file cabinet obey the law. The one of the 10 Sahabi granted Jana. Yeah, they said that she was very pretty. And all the way up the newspaper. Organiser wanted to marry her.

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In Ottawa. Sorry masa Musab.

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No, no, no, no, no. So I've been everywhere.

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either Ottawa

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No, not enough bola not our most app. Yeah, most avenues of aid who became who became the Emir of Iraq? Yeah.

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This is a story I've mentioned it number of times Abdullah evidence of F. Yeah.

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The loveliness of air, and most avenues of air and organism, air and Abdullah bin Omar. They sat together when they were young, and they said, they were discussing what they want to be what do you want to be? What do you want to achieve? Yeah, so the loveliness of air he said, I want to be the Khalifa.

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And he became the Khalifa.

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Organisers said I want to be a Moorhead this. And he became unhealthy. Most avenues event and he said I want to be the Emir of Iraq.

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Yeah. Is he Muslim or yamasa? Yeah. He said, I want to be the Emir of Iraq. And I want to marry. Yeah, so key and I've entered crusade and how that been toppled.

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He got married to Sakina and he got married to Hola.

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So when you have a goal in your life, even if it is a dunya goal, if you are committed to that, you will do it you will achieve it. I give this amazing story. For the person who has him and zeal to achieve something eventually he will achieve it. Yeah. Abdullah Rama said I want to be in the highest place in Ghana.

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And in sha Allah, he got it. So most,

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most of Ibnu Zubair when hola heard about this, she said, Well, Allah, if I marry him, he will become like my mother, like the back of my father. He wouldn't be haram on me. Like, my father is haram to me. So they said she's the only lady that did the heart, but again as potential husband, not against a husband, and then she got married to him and I think they had children. Okay, this is the only Annie rewire in history. Yeah. And maybe one of our sisters will do it again.

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Yeah, okay.

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Any other question?

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Any other question? No hellos from sisters.

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By Okay, does that cool? All * about a coffee cup.

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