Channel: Haifaa Younis
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I mean, before I start, I'm going to read something, a poem from a youth.
So it says the title is Saturday vibes. The rain is spattering along the roof of the Hillcrest Hall.
It taps against the windows and blankets and blankets us with a feeling of comfort, reminding us that it nature, we are nothing but small.
Each person is overcome with his struggles back.
But here our minds hopes to make our trip worth it.
And our hearts strives to please a greater purpose.
Our souls are craving acceptance from the Lord. Our hand held up already to beg and plead at a spiritual connection. We desperately desire an urban setting we see
this is a young person.
rpm spiritual connection and listening.
acceptance from a wide European rugby I mean just so many things studied. But unfortunately we don't have a lot of time. So please forgive me. Because there's a couple of things I wanted to share it with you because this is something you can take it with you.
One of the steps next step. So here I am. Look at it a test here is a steps. I started, let's say coming here or before here, thinking I'm fine. thinking I'm okay, what's wrong with me people look at me and say much on the bottom. Then the one I found out there is issues.
And then as we went on that I learned about something called
my heart that I could easily have a dead heart that I learned that today there's something called neffs that I'm actually full of this. It depends what my personality is and what kind of nerves so now I learned so now I diagnosed as a physician. Okay, now I know what's wrong with you. So what do we do?
Number one, which I will share with you is something called hacer tuneups. You take yourself accountable.
You will take yourself accountable exactly like you take your child accountable. So if your child, you tell him do this, and he says no. What do you normally do? It's okay. allow for more. Hey, what do you normally
tell me? mothers in the room?
So we ended up started with spanking.
Display. That's where this
how it's different. You discipline him or her? You don't leave them. And why isn't that cruelty?
Don't the child think you're cruel? This is harsh.
And what do you say?
What do you say as an adult? This is your younger sister.
And she did something absolutely wrong. Once you discipline her, right? Doesn't she think you're mean?
So you tell her it's your fault. I've taken it. Paying attention to what we are saying this is how I would lineups how you with your nerves. So you tell her it's your fault. She looks at you and says with such fear.
What do you say?
mothers maybe can help you out. It's for your good
Second you say this is what you're good
you need that
one day you will thank me for this Don't we all say this little bit smart young people in this room
how many things now you say exactly what your mother's and
everyone if younger but not very young singers, those who have children once you start having children, you are becoming your small Mama.
Everything she used to look at this as don't do it now look at your chances don't do it.
This is called in spirituality. interfere. como hacer Tunis. Take yourself accountable.
Take yourself accountable to start with swimmers of Ischia teaches you enough this is like a baby. It's a very famous bone
when nerves look up roughly into
Shabana hopper alive way intermittently and properly. enough's show me you that four kinds. Let's see the three kinds like a baby newborn loves breastfeeding.
If you will not stop the breastfeeding, they will continue to breastfeed.
But if you stop it and discipline them, they will stop. Right? We all know this for a fact. So let's come to more hi Sabbath in this so here I am.
I found out that I am basically all neffs.
owners, my decision based upon my nerves, but I'm justified. So I have enough Rahimi cattle like, right? I love food, I love sleeping. I don't say I'm a cattle like I say I need to sleep, I don't function well, unless I sleep eight or nine hours. I love food. So the first thing is you have to learn that that what you hear inside you this justification be aware of it.
Be aware of one
best path? best path to go in the rescue is to say no to your members. No.
You don't want your child to keep wanting chocolate. What do you say?
No. He said what I wanted? You say no. When I love it, you say no. And then he starts throwing tantrum. What do you do? The answer is no.
I sometimes if you're really want discipline, so you know, it doesn't matter. If you're going to cry from today to tomorrow, the answer is no.
And they usually stop because they know you're serious. That's how you deal with your nerves.
So when you start your week,
and let's say your your the nerves that is similar to you.
Right? And you know, if you're going to go on this gathering, or we're going to be with this people, you will end up coming back feeling jealous. And feeling I want to be like them, or even better. And you know you're not feeling well. You know what? For sure.
You should not go period.
But then people will call you come on in which only one time what is the big deal your answer to yourself. They don't know what I know.
They don't know me.
They don't know.
And keep saying you know what? Why? To not wash hands? I will show you clearly. When you're saying yes. And I say this word who's talking? Who's making the decision? Which notice when you say yes, who's talking and who's making the decision.
It becomes very clear.
So it's my angelic nose. Totally. It's my segway nuts. No, it's my data like the answer is no. And the more know you say the easier than all will become an at one point you start hating what you used to love.
Panama Atlantic, it's a wave out of your heart. That's how your heart starts to become clearer and cleaner. These attachments remember the heart at full of stuff needs to move. When we when you keep saying you know maybe because you're not giving them what they want. Maybe they leave, they leave till it becomes crystal clear.
And you will be only talking to Allah Allah Livia. You may find this very difficult to hard to impossible, myself. This is not impossible. It needs work for sure. Struggle for sure. I'll fail for sure.
But at the end, you will get there
Because a lot will get you there
because you're doing it, not getting much out of it. In fact, most of the time you're doing things you don't like.
Stop doing what you like.
Don't do things because you like them. You don't you do things online likes them.
Because online loves them.
Not because I like to remember like I've seen is the Word Online is out of this desk, you know, I know if and if you are confused a lot of the time we are, I really don't know, turn to him and says Show me
what you want from me is this is a pleasing to you. Show me
And if it is not pleasing, take it away, move it and he will move because your knee and your goal is to please Him. Of course he will respond. It's not you and you what you want to know how certain nerves take yourself accountable. And the last one is to edit save now, almost all the Alliance is very famous line. Some of you may even know how simple and for some of them to
take yourself accountable before you will be taken account
was either one of them to some way your needs before it will be great.
You do it now.
It is much easier. Now this is still the same thing now what do I need? COVID Hey Samuel, it would be much easier for you. And the Day of Judgment if you already took care of it.
What is the yanam lovely
and get ready beautify yourself for the Big Show.
Your will your
coffee, the day that you will be presented to Allah. no secrets are the secret anymore.
He knows everything. Get tidy. Get ready. Take yourself accountable.
Like you take people accountable a lot know how many times we take people accountable. She didn't know she did it. She said No, she didn't. She didn't say I don't take myself accountable. Take yourself accountable. Meaning I missed my son. Why do you say this to yourself? Not to me, while
I was watching TV,
you know what the TV should be after the house.
But I can do this because it's not my house already. I have other people that I'm not watching TV period.
Say no my
wrists, also in JAMA,
ask your mom, because he had a forum in Medina. And he was taking some business in the form that he was the JAMA, what did you do?
sold the farm, actually this summer, gave it away.
just takes me away from
anything, this is something you'll write for yourself. Anything that is taking me away from a woman. Other than because that's a serious line. Other than what you already put me in, that will get me closer to Allah needs to be out of the window.
Anything that is taking me away from Allah, other than what he wants me to do, because it won't get me closer to Allah, it needs to be.
So you don't tell me what my children are taking me away from a lot and what should I do to them, I say your children is your weight to
your children at certain age is your way to
you give them the help. They are right in teaching them and making them good human beings. Definitely good Muslims know how to respect the parents respect the others. This is way more important than other things you like. So this is states.
I find my mother daughter and my husband writes, my family, my parents, my siblings, but watching TV for two or three hours because I like it. And then I miss my son out or I go to my son our last minute. I want knows what I said. You immediately have to say you know what TV, you're taking away from a mom, they're not coming
back your child.
If you're if your child has a game,
right? And then you find your child Allah shows you that your child is spending four to five hours on the game and he's not studying or she what do you do
take it away. Why
It's distracting him from what's more important. What is more important than pleasing? And working from when I feel
I need to do this? How simple so when I disobeyed a more
first question, I sit and say, Why did I do that? Not Why? What was around during or inside me, that made me do this, you will be very surprised food when I eat too much, especially when I eat what I like, and I eat it with vengeance
absolutely weakens me.
For one or the other level. Again, these are not my words. This is all scholars years ago, 106 100 years ago who looked at their artwork.
And they looked at that, look at your cell phone, you're in a
fight, and they sell food and the food you like, and you let yourself eat what it likes.
Right? And see, when you're start talking, what you will say,
Oh, did I forget this?
See, when you ate what you like, and you're in a gathering, before and after. And see when you are talking and you are hungry. You probably don't even have energy to speak. But then you eat what you like, especially when you're like in your eat. It's more not because you're only hungry, but now I like it. See how easily your slip a tongue
you're watching something something is not pleasing to Allah and see what will happen to your rabada so always ask yourself, why did I disobey Allah and look at the surroundings. Take it one by one, each step ask Allah to show you, your Allah help me or be I love food, what do I do, but I know if when I eat too much I can tweak. Take it out of my heart.
Because love if you don't love something, you don't do it, you don't struggle, right. Any kind of food you don't like, doesn't matter if they put it in front of you.
So mahasiddha to take yourself accountable. Take yourself accountable. And look, I'm going to just read a couple of statements here.
They say you count your deeds, count your breath.
Look at this, they say count your breath. Wasting this breath or using them in something is not beneficial to you. So huge loss at the end.
Whereas they count their breaths.
Not time or minute breath, which we don't even pay attention.
They say a lot too nervous. And when you lose waste is a waste. It's absolutely a huge loss. And then they look at the eye yamatji Dooku nopsema and we recommend hiring Ouattara Alma, my ham Letterman Sue in Toronto and obey now available I'm Adam Bader. That day, when the book is going to be presented to me, any good deed I see. I will be very happy. And the bad deeds I see. I say I wish they did not even show it to me. I wish there was a huge space between me and it.
We will regret it there. But we cannot change it there. It's done. Once we are there we are there. We cannot change it. So Muhammad Yunus if you if you have asked for forgiveness, that's a very good question. So I disobeyed the law. There is two kinds of disobedience is disobedience with Allah only. I missed my Salah then in pastoral mobile. And there is this will be the as to Allah with the rights of human being I backbiting somebody
if I say a stuffy little law
truthfully, in his right, truthfully, number one, number two, I don't do it again. It's gone.
This one is a shoe
because this has two rights, the rights of a while the rights of people. So if I say it's tough for a lot after I back right at someone, then the rights of Allah hamdulillah but that person has to forgive me.
Otherwise, we are meeting there.
So the best way you do is you not immediately make a do a good job for that person. Same do you make it for yourself or your children since you do have this person shall not model accepted
But still far is not going to be completely when it comes to the rights of people there is a hadith they say it's a saying of cedar heisha and some says it's a heavy for for us rowdy saltos. They said there were in with rasa. The books are three kinds there. They want to end on why
the books with a lot three kinds of book that Allah does not care about.
And a book that Allah will never
leave anything in it.
And a book that Allah will never forgive
three books, a book that Anwar does not care about it, he can forgive it all.
And a book that is never forgiven. And a book with a lot leaves nothing in it without taking it accountable.
The first one that he doesn't care and he can forgive it all. What do you think? What is that book?
It's his rights. Chapin.
So his rights
the book of his rights, he can forgive it all.
Law Yeah, but will be that's how they say it doesn't care about
and one that he will never forgive is a shark.
The Book of shark is never forgiven, because Allah said it's in dakara.
Number one, if you use Rokeby, we all ferromagnetic you may use sha Allah will never forgive a life or give it anything he wants. Except
the third one that he will leave nothing in that book. Meaning he will take every one everything every step every word is good and bad.
The rights of people May Allah help us all of us
still fall alone after I heard that somebody doesn't work
alone. Because Allah can can remove is how can forgive us? How can that person
so we really get it. This is why if somebody only sometimes they see the easy way to live in this life, and go to our last pantalla is to live alone.
But then this cannot happen, because you're allowed around people.
And there's a reason why put us in this test. So mahaska button ups, take your laughs. And my husband, I'll give you some points. Take yourself accountable, even when you do a good deed. Look at this one.
Elmo has a BA when you're doing a good deed, also Kela they say the following number one.
So you did a good deed now. Did you give the right of Allah fully in this help? was sincere for Allah only what we talked about yesterday.
What was my flaws in that good deed? number one. Number two, did I do it to my perfection, best ability. best ability to three. Did I follow the footsteps of a soiree sought to slam in it. What I did is the way I like it. Even in a binder we do that.
this is a really hard one Did I do it and I'm and I feel a lot is looking at me.
Did I do it? And I see and feel a lot is looking at such a machete lesson. You see a was looking at you and it What if not I? And if he if I am not seeing him he's seeing
five which a lot of us forget this.
Do I see the favor of Allah on me in doing this good deed.
Do I see the favor of Allah upon me doing the good deed?
We forget this a lot.
To the fact I stand up in Salah is not because I am very religious.
And I am very smart too. I'm pure why and I because I Lefevre
is much more people are much smarter than I am or better than I am.
Should they call sure who do mean not a lot. You will see the favor of Allah on you.
I hope everybody this weekend, you did see this. That's how Allah chose you chose me, facilitated for us to come and made it easy. You know how many people couldn't come last minute somebody who registered the first or the second day.
The day before they couldn't. The child became sick.
She may be on with us online.
So how long as somebody
the day before, they were able to come?
many natural light I like, honestly, the one person the night before
I was still in the office Thursday night and they texted me.
I was like
Hamdulillah, that's your risk.
So she see the favor of Allah on you.
Not only in what everyone see, but the fact you are obeying Him, is Amina from him. The fact I
think shot law pleasing Him, that's his fever on me.
They said, How will you allow it as we say, so because of my ability, and my power and my strength. And number six, in every good deed, you look at how much imperfect
how much imperfection is in this deed?
How much imperfection in this deed? So when you are Salah, and you say hamdulillah I prayed
hamdulillah I prayed. But did I look at how much not best Salah I have done.
Look at us with anything we do we get evaluation.
Right? And that tells you this is very good because it gives you to improve. I'm not saying this is how I'm doing it.
But why don't I do evaluation of my deeds with Allah?
That's what my handsome
what's my evaluation, look at this and take this one and put it on if this was your signer. So I'm just gonna read with you a couple of ones the first one says is just the great, excellent, very, very good, good, fair, poor.
What do you put your son
alone in the house?
when we are not much energy left in us, and some of us is fragile.
Poor? Fair. Good. Very good. Excellent. And if you're going to say excellent, you better be Why?
Because we all can claim what we want to claim. You say this assala is excellent. Why?
You did not talk to yourself whatsoever nor thought come into it at all. So you in any good deed, you look at this. And where do I start and all everything I do every day I'm going to do accountability and I'm going to do nothing just sitting in my room and writing.
Practically start number one, where do I start with the obligation? I said this last night and one of the questions and for all what is the obligation? And again, when I talk about obligation, I am not specifically saying only sada and CRM and Zika and hedge specialty woman What is your obligation marriage a woman
What is your number one obligation?
married woman your husband, your husband?
How cola is in it?
So when as he's gonna come in I my book in front of him and he said okay, I thought your son Al Hamdulillah your pass then if I was a married woman, he's gonna come and say you know what?
I'm sorry. You failed. This is not less than my Salah.
This is very common misconception we woman have.
Sometimes we neglect the right of the husband and justify and get by I am doing this for a law. reality I like it.
So the half of the people and now you go look, where are you in your life. There's always people has right upon you. You are a daughter, your mother, your mother, your husband, you're a widow, your daughter always is somebody around you.
You have no one your neighbor
so always look when I say for these are obligations. I'm not saying it's not extra. These are obligations. And for all our guests today I shared with you a hug bulbous or lower your gaze is an obligation. It's not an extra.
You're probably almost like what?
Why did I say this? It's obligation. Why?
Because it's an it's a loss other than the Quran in the form of obligation, with no exception, called luminati or women Apsara in order the believing woman to lower their gaze. He didn't say when they can
You didn't say when they live in America or when they are not working and same thing for them and that's an obligation. Do you ever take yourself accountable about looking
looking at haraam? Looking at TV looking at what you're interacting with the other gender or these that's for
give me other foreign I am going to repeat this again and again and again. Because this is extremely important in my daily life to bring the balance back
what other obligations in your life Think of your life? Anyone different age? different background?
Nellie as I was about to ask you,
I can't hear you parents.
You're married or not married? specially if you're not married? parents? How about Wayne?
Allah put it together. What was his obligation? hackleburg nabooda lanisha specie was the right of a lot you worship Him and you do not associate anyone with him. With this he said wobbly welding Essen
and you treat your patients your parents with excellence it's an obligation
excellence you give them the best not because you like them. Not because they are babysitting your children
not because they are you know I need to be good because they will send me to college and pay them money because they are my parents. So imagine non Muslims who their parents who are convert, revert and how to parents are non Muslim and they are very unpleasant to her
she still has to give them their right it doesn't matter if they're Muslims or non Muslims they have the appearance
help a nurse look at alpha all keep asking yourself look in your life and say Where is my obligations? When I am going to go in front of him? What is number one he's going to ask me and then it's going to be number two and then three and the four
don't move this because you like it. Most of us move and and the extras extras because we love it
because we love it. I share this many times with you on this retreat. Young very active martial lottomatica Allah they are they are organizing conference or retreat or anything that is pleasing to Allah and they are awake and they have to when 3am in the morning and they are doing all the work you come to fetch and you don't see anybody have them
that's that's my love what I love
that's what I know Allah is not pleased with me because I miss my favorite.
So number one, you look at alpha and number two, you look at when you are take yourself accountable, the home they call the Illuminati, what he forbade suparna what he made forbidden, Where am I from this? Is it No means no. Or no maybe? Or no in this day and yes in the other day, or yes in this country or no in the other country. And I had on everything. We talked about the tongue talked about the I talked about the ear talking about the feelings of the hardware, my legs are moving or walking. Man I sorry, this is getting no higher.
You take yourself accountable for the moments you are heedless about a loss, how tired he does.
Don't do anything. Don't remember
at all focused on this and that hoffler
number four, which partner which we said this yesterday, take yourself accountable about what you say. What did your hand do? What did your leg Where did your leg moved? Or walked and what did you hear?
And if they did something three questions, why did you do it?
For whom you did it?
In which way you did it. One more time. Number one, why did you do it?
For whom you did it. This is very important for us for whom?
And how did you do it? And this includes good deeds in general. In general, because we talked about a class in detail on the first day. Make sure what you do is for Allah and Allah only people are pleased if hamdulillah people are not pleased a lot change them.
For Allah will be
number one and number two, number two
Number Number one is why did you do it? I like it. I love it. It should not be the answer. The answer should be there's only one answer.
Anything is one answer. A lakh likes it, a man loves it.
And how and how and how
we have lost pantai to help us to do these things. You're a b&b. And the last thing I'm going to share with you is here,
just let me give you two things about the hustle within those hamdallah maybe we look at it is one of the benefits of taking yourself accountable. It's actually two benefits. One number one, you will know your shortcomings, we will know our shortcomings. You will know what you I don't need someone to tell me I know.
Number two, you will know the right of Allah.
Because you're going to change your priorities. You will know the right of Allah upon you. What's the priorities, priorities.
So the last thing that I am going to be ending in short lock Macy at home that is our 15 minutes. There is many things actions that will help me
in my test gear process actions.
Now he's not feeling his actions. One of them we already talked about it.
And that is
go against your nerves.
This is if you are think of teskey as you're building a home
The foundation is to know who you are.
You know your heart you know your neffs you know your surroundings? That's the foundation you just did foundation you didn't build the house yet. Second, this including the Foundation, which hearts you have watching us, which one is controlling you, if changes Why all this so you put the foundation now I need to build
now I need to build in building, the first wall, you're gonna put is the obligations. Notice here? No going to a law? No, I'll be silly, with no obligations. Number one, spend if you spend all your life in correcting your obligations, this is the best thing because that's when the man came to us what he saw.
And he said in the meaning of it's what's should What is this system all about? What should I do with it, Allah made the obligation on me. And he told him the five. And he said, I'll do these five, and I will do nothing else.
I'll do these five, I will not do anything else. And that's why they sought to sit on what was his answer a flat so that
he will be successful in his truthful
if he really gonna do this fiber only. Truthfully, he is successful, he doesn't need any extras, the extras is to correct and it's a remedy for the shortcomings of the obligation. So the first wall is the obligation.
The first wall, second wall that you're going to put is the extras this has to be a very good wall, not a second hand wall. Once you perfect your obligations, meaning I'm not missing any more solder
that I'm going to work on my sunon extras because that's going to perfect this one. So you and then you look at everything else my talk obligatory talk things I have to take to say things I should not say. Then things it's going to make my saying much beautiful I'll do it. Look at everything, don't look at for our obligation. Again, only the our can only the pillars, everything
in this process to get the house nicer, and the rest comes to me is the most important this is personal. And I think when you read also one of the scholars will tell you, you start there, and you take this with you and never stop it.
And this is one of the things that you keep doing it and increase nor do you think this is
Vicar of Allah.
Vicar of Allah the Chroma,
remember Allah remember him and Vicar of Allah Don't let your your mind or sink that dhikr of Allah is only when I say Subhan Allah, Allah is Al Hamdulillah. When I see that's one form, there's other decode, your Salah is
reading the Quran is sitting in this madness is
making a dua for someone is liquor making up for yourself Is it liquor
reviewing or sitting in an organic class, all these are liquor, these are all remembering a law
any action working, working on this beauty alone? And you're reflecting on the creation of Allah zyk?
What How easy is this? How easy is this, you're enjoying you say I'm going to go out for a walk, this is a beautiful day as you are walking in instead of texting,
or listening to haraam, or saying, hey, Tom, I'm going to be doing nothing. I'm going to just look around.
And I'm going to say, subhanak, who are you? If this is your creation, that you did not look at since you created it, who are you?
The crow law, the crow law, and they say, this sign that you are close to Allah spontan you are a Willie, you know the word Willie, not a friend. You are close ally of Allah, Allah is very close to you. The sign
is when you're constantly
you are in constant dhikr of Allah.
And when Allah gives your give me or give us this constant liquor, that means he wants to close to him.
And if he doesn't, then that means I am being pushed away.
Every part of my body has an act of worship.
For a vicar, which part of my body?
That's one part.
What about if somebody cannot speak? Can they do the courage?
And the heart?
What about somebody? Don't know how to say anything?
Can my IBM Decker
looking and appreciating the care? And hearing of course, so all parts of my body can be in deker. Specifically, is the heart and the tummy. So that's very special about the dick. It's the heart of the tongue. That's one second, which is very easy. For anyone in this room.
Remember the question yesterday, we're very tired, we are overwhelmed to all this as Vicar, an act of worship that does not need a specific time
or place or any condition
naming for slaughter obligation. I need the time I need the will I need the cobbler. I need to be dressed properly. Right? I need to know a little bit more and or a little bit things to say I need to know how to do it.
I need it on my lawn. Right? And I need my media
Zakah I need my money. The minimum and the time hedge I need money or time all of it the curve requirement.
You don't need money. You don't need health. You do need time away and water. It's open, open invitation. You know when somebody tells you I love to visit you so it's an open invitation anytime you want to come. That's the open invitation from a law
that's the open invitation from a law firm cruelly as you remember me, door is open.
Just do it door is open in any state. Right? Yes, cool aloha Yama, Rocco Odin, while Arjun will be sleeping on the back meaning on your back on the side sitting standing, there's no requirement Can I do the Can I say stuff online now I'm sitting Sure.
Can I do this and I am going to bed and I am leaning on my right side and I say stuff for a month. No one will tell you channel in
any way any situation. Absolutely you can do liquor
is the the I say the agent that will cleanse your heart.
and the soap. Only Allah I will say only only it's the soap and the sponge that remember the trophy, the trophy that we want to drive
shining and the crystal base that we want to see through it. The only thing that will keep the vase shining and the trophy has no spots is they call it generic loop.
Generic or collegial. That means when you remove all
Everything you remove it are all there to fill through everything. It's cleansing. You know how you feel this in case you're like what is this mean? You don't feel well. You have no idea you woke up in the morning nothing wrong. I just I'm not in the mood. You say that pride What do you normally do
going to call a friend you're going to say Don't talk to me. I'm going to go and get my coffee and I want to be alone and
it depends who we are very different right?
Don't do any of this
just say stuff federal law and don't put a number but just don't say it one time out of just a staffer Allah said
keep saying it. See what will happen well one of that level it's like
like you know when you're blind
when you're sleeping in your room dark in the night then you wake up and you don't know what time is it and there's no clock and then you said you know what, let me open the blinds and see then suddenly you see all shining like oh, it's morning.
This is a dick duccio
remove the cloud makes it much clearer span of law jenelle jenelle and the more and this is your probably some of you felt it in the morning especially today. The more you are in the longer
Of course it comes with a struggle because your nurse doesn't like it. The nurse like it this morning you're sitting there for 4430 minutes
if you liked it at hamdulillah how many times your nurse comes in says My legs are hurting.
Right? It's getting numb any Why can't ice just stand up? Why do I have to sit on laughs talking because once you stand up the vicar is gone
you will be distracted
The more you stayed and put the effort and you are in what will happen
Did you feel anything this morning? What did you feel?
Exactly? You started enjoying it now you start wanting to do it longer it's a panel I was about to say this You said it because you It's true.
When you will do it from your heart and you're alone and you're sitting and you're giving get your energy and focus you're start loving it
and I highly recommend when you're not feeling well meaning down I'm very worried so many things in my brain. It's I'm overwhelmed with things used
yours uh take five or 10 minutes close the door sit and any do heart You know, is it usually that you know, you get into some panic and you control your body me does wonder,
does wonder but to that, no do that the more you remember or more, the more you want to do more.
And the more you are deeper in your zeker you will not even feel the time
lightly alone. You will not suddenly say also Pamela, really 15 minutes after shadow
because you are with the king, this private meeting with the king and he will protect you and protect me. So the longer you are, the more you want to do more, the more you'll forget, the more you'll feel much better. Some says it is the open door between Allah and His servant that never closes
the care of Allah da Is it the corrals the vicar of Allah is the door that between Allah it's direct o'clock and now I'm looking at this door and in front of me that's how it is. It's always open.
When does it close?
When we close it by not remembering
allowed to do your homework will be offset to
the human being close it because he is she is busy.
Too busy. I don't have five minutes for myself. You're telling me 10 minutes to remember my choice. door is closed. They think Allah needs my liquor.
My needs my da Allah needs my remembrance.
It's for me.
So the door is always close and open unless I close. It has another bustling, beautiful saying as always. He said
look at for sweetness in the following is true.
Then you know the door is open
look for sweetness in the following history.
a Salah in the prayer.
Number two fidic when you are doing getting remembering our law, and here is sort of his specifying meaning liquor of the tongue and the heart.
And third when you read the Quran
when you read the Quran, if you don't find the sweetness, meaning you're enjoying it, no The door is closed.
No The door is closed.
We didn't open it from Panama.
Imagine this thing called this when someone comes to your home. I am coming to your home. And you told me before that the door is always open. You don't even have to knock on the door just come door is open.
And I'm very happy that I come and I see the doors close.
Like what happened.
You're not sincere with me.
You do what I asked you to do imagine this is somebody will do what I asked you to do out of order. Not with the sweetness, this is the point.
So the door of Allah is open, is when I started enjoying what I am doing. I enjoy my cider. I'm not seeing 100% all the time because I would love to see it. But realistically it is not. But at least when I am not overwhelmed by things, but I am alone in the house in the morning the kids went to school. Nobody is there. Why don't I enjoy my horse.
When everybody's asleep on Saturday, everyone they're not going to wake up to nine or 10 they all woke up with their fragile and went to bed. Why I cannot sit and enjoy mine the karula Don't tell me I'm busy. We will tell me I have many things nobody are asleep.
So if you find the sweetness in these three in salah and lick in reading the Quran, then he says for any Magento will love Alamo and we're in Baba mobilock we didn't find the door is closed.
They say Vic is the soul of the good deeds. The soul meaning the life, the life of the good deed.
If a good deed is deprived of the care meaning proper physical is like a dead body
Subhanallah is amazing and you don't like the law and they say in the Quran Allah subhanaw taala mentioned the concept of deker in 10 ways
10 ways and I'll give you the the what the way and I'll give you the eye on the rhinos. They sit number one Allah subhanho wa Taala
ordered order to remember him
with no limits
limitless and sometimes with limit his specified times and sometimes he did not specify so your will be one normal paid multiple a limited law said this is worthwhile as
you already know I'm going to you all know this cotulla de Curran Kathy euro
Yeah, you're Latina, Armen, you and me was the kuruma the current Kathy
remember a law Cassie are on plenty, no limits. And they say in the Quran. The words Kathy euro when it came with everybody only was it the
plenty, no limits. Its power.
was said behold bukata noir Seder. Now he specified it.
CTSV bukata noir Anwar Sita so the bad the act of worship before Muhammad is to be
its Vicar but that kind of because that's what he wanted me to do.
And in the morning, also, so that's this is how he guided me. So how do I do with you a lot up to you. It's open anytime you like, but before and before and before fudger better to do that should be
number two in the Quran.
He came and this is total. So Allah salatu salam cy is very scary because it's trying. Allah ordered not to be heedless. He ordered the Rasul Allah Software Center. Not to be
Among the hedges, what tekumel are feeling certain sort of, don't be with those who are heedless as to you and we look at your company
are they heedless?
Am I am I that person who you should not come and be my company? Because I always talk about dunya and about children or about money about my travel What about what about
if I am then you should not be around me if you are then I shouldn't be around you latter con man of offering don't to be with those letter communal often don't be from among them.
If they are I'll move yeah a wiring
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zurb one is 41 and 44.
So that's number two.
Allah made that as a condition in the Quran. To be successful in our hero for those who remember a lot a lot
more liquor more success, more liquor, more success and lots of this assorted on file with the court of law Kathy you're on Darla come to fly home.
Remember a law a lot plenty in abundance so you will be successful. And this is an unfair I have 45
Allah praise those who remember him a lot.
He praised a lot of qualities
in us, but the only one that's praised those who does it plentiful in abundance that dicker with that Kareena la Kathy are on with that carrot.
So Allah in this area, it's also lazur is 35 Allah said in their Muslim you know, while most demand for more money you know when you want me not with quantity, no quantity at all. These are beautiful examples. Beautiful description, the believing men and woman, the Muslim men and woman, the quantity those who submits to Allah in in humbleness, man and woman or cyber in our cyber occupations men and woman saw the female side of art those who are truthful men and woman and harsh a non hotshot men and woman all this remoter Sakina What are they giving charity man and woman was saying you know sought you out those who fast men and woman no kathira here, right? I'm reading you the Aya
comes to a vicar was that Kareena law hockey hero was accurate. What will happen your Allah, Allah azza wa jal and alima
prepared for them. Ready Ready go. Let's go. Ready for them? Ma Farah forgiveness or agile now the EMA plenty. Plenty of EMA is great, magnificent to reward. Very few times our luck with Adela Malema.
It's not a drag kathira agilon hustler is a Halima something great what will I get?
Enough he's telling me this
and Allah subhanho wa Taala said and this is related to this is
just make sure I give you Okay, number five. Number five.
The loser is the one who does not remember Allah.
The loser is the one who does not remember Allah. The loser is the one who's in a state of heedlessness.
This I must have you note. Yeah, you're Latina. Naturally. I'm wailuku wala Allah do come on what? And decorilla? How about people who does that? My father rica formula a couple more hosue of translate. Allah says yeah, Olivia Amman. You want me? believers, men and women? naturally come. And wailuku Willa oladipo Don't let your money wealth and children distract you panela distract you from the remembrance of Allah subhana wa.
How about who does that woman your father, the person who will do that for you like Omaha zero. Those are the losers.
How many times our job take us away from Allah from his liquor?
And I'm not talking job meaning only I work outside the house my things in the house how many times I have guests coming Allah knows how was My son
right how many times my children or grandchildren all my family's in the house and then what is
meaning money collecting there is a sale let's go
right and then I miss my son now till he comes come to Panama look at the beauty Don't let these things distract you from the remembrance of Allah
and that's why Subhan Allah any if you if you're not thinking inshallah you are why specially Vicar so much attention on it because there is liquor for everything
he taught you and me through his aura swatting santosa there is remembrance of him every step
we are doing this after fudger we are hearing this those of you who come to federal now on Monday and Tuesday that's that what they give a short talk after
the call that's a lot of thought or Swati Sato Salaam todos you go to the mall is there is
in the mall there is a
yeah so you know what I used to go just to make it just to save
you honestly and he comes out and he say I am not nelga feeling
look at the record he said I'm not from those who are forgetful his people in the in the mall or these days more or the markets are usually distracted right so he goes specifically to remember Allah so he's not Melfi
and number six, he specified and this is very few in the Quran where he specify the reward
specifically like is there any reward specifically about salah and the Quran
that you know of
or about cm specifically
or even Hajj specifically
I'm sorry yeah What did what is the reward?
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excepted Decker the iOS shadid many times fifth qurani as core right away
and it's fun.
It's not what
it's Allah said first koroni for the caroni as corkum immediately you remember me I remember you. He didn't say first Cooney to Moscow Can you remember me then then I will remember you. It comes together. So Allah remembers you. Yeah, I need your Allah.
So when Allah remember me, what will happen to him?
What will happen to
I don't feel well it takes care of me. I need this you will take care of it when he remembers me. Meaning he knows you will know what I need.
That's why benefits of the career will feel better because on what will make you feel better caroni as korakuen number seven
six was that the reward is immediate in the Quran, and I gave you the I first Coronavirus score comes in Al Baqarah. It's a 150 to
number seven, which is also special only for the panela
and this IOU here it's sometimes almost every Juma
tomorrow Hey, like I'm Nikita bois Can you solder in a saliva tonhalle fascia you will milker What's next? Well, adekola acabar Allahu Allah, more macro style. swetland kabu Nick licker, Allahu Akbar. He said, remembering Allah is the highest biggest thing accessible. When you say Allahu Akbar, he said licola he Aqaba this beautiful commentary about this I just because of the time I cannot share everything with you, but
it's the biggest it's the highest level. It's the loftiest and let the cola here come off Lanka booth 45.
Number eight, and this is very interesting.
And some of you may know this, or this will
make you even look at the curve differently. Every every pillar of Islam
Give me Pillars of Islam that's easy question.
Okay, after Shahada
actually even Shahada, shad.
siyam zecca al Hajj, look in the Koran.
Every one of them is followed by the vicar of Allah
and I'll give it to you as Shahada is actually in the exam because when we call for a done what are we calling for? For Salah but what are we saying?
So when you finish the add on what are you expected to say?
Since Salah was released to salmon you made the dua. In the Quran, Salah is followed by the soul is felt followed by the Zakat followed by the Hajj followed by the let's give you the Where are the
Allah subhanaw taala for the Psalm. He said it in the famous aof Ramadan and salted Baccarat is 185 What did he say?
What did he say?
First koroni at the end
only took me a while to kabiru law her alma de la la Cusco what's to Kabir oma.
Camille, what is the Kabir zeker what do we do on the day of aid
What do we do on day of aid How do you know it's a
so the end of Ramadan that's what I'm assessing. This is it's at the end well It took me a while to finish the appointed time what is the appointed time is shot Ramadan, or to Kabir la Halima Haider.
And you will glorify Allah by using Allahu Akbar because he guided you That sounds Sam come to the Salah. And so that I I have 200 Albacore for salah and certainly Sir, I have 103 and this is very clear that although Tomas salata Corolla, Yama waffle Odin one Zhu
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have a Toma Sonata with Chroma cam and recall the while as you become in astrological Nikita mahkota there's something before that it's going to come
after so now that's what he's saying. Because this before this I Allah was teaching you and me how to pray when we are scared because a lot will have. So we finished all the Salah, and he says now you finished sala cotulla remember Allah a young man standing Odin sitting while as you know we come on your back
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same word you use it for Salam.
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taco amin come Cavalli Casa Hola Hola. Como Kabir Allahu Allahu Allah Allah ko oversharing mazzini you he finished all the Hajj, all the rituals of Hajj, you slaughter the animal you stand in minnow and everything and he says at the end, after you slaughter, Allah does not need the blood and the meat of the animal. It is there for you to glorify Allah to kabiru law same word Allah had because of the angels
so each major one each major one is actually
end device by vehicle and some of them actually during them wow Can you send out a little lesson Alyssa this was a nimasa in pa perform solo so you will bring my Vicar and the Salah is to affirm the vicar of Allah
So the code Don't underestimate I always say this to myself, you're a lot. You're john Newman and Zack Kareena, kathira make me over those who remember a lot, a lot. Plenty, not only when I need you, not only when I have time, not when I am in this good company, always. Cathy you're
Number nine, Allah says, This is what he said the people of Vicar are the people who will benefit from his Quran and His signs.
People have declared that the people people remember him are the people who will benefit from his color in a very healthy smile. It will often leave you wanting to hurry Yeah.
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la Maron and page before the end of
the creation of the heavens and the earth, and the change of the day in the night. it assigns you only
those who can comprehend. But who are they as crew non law. So the more I do the car, look at you today. And this is practical. Did you see all these reflections?
All these reflections. So if you were sitting and watching TV and you're in a state of laughter, are these things comes up?
Well, this comes up, but he started writing about your album journey to Allah because I'm in a state of afla.
While when I am in a state of liquor and this is liquor, see what comes out how the heart
becomes clear, and you can see and you can write and you can obey a lot easy. And the last one of the benefits of Vic
he made it the soul and the living soul on of all his acts of worship. He made it declare what is inside Salah.
What's inside sada Sonic? Sonic karats ponderable Avi Spanner bl Allah Salatu was Salam O Allah. I showed you on the iodine Allah dua it's all inside. Inside the SATA same thing is in Siam and Hajj everything for example I saw I saw it was Sam said Why did the luck with the off
that's enhanced white I want to remember in the majority that a lot will be beat or sabena SFX our motto or amin Giamatti, a comedy The Korea
it is all these are to remind us, remind us, lets me say a couple of practical things. What makes you remember to wake up?
No, no, wake up in the morning. Okay, I normally wake up because I have enough play. What to make you remember that you have an appointment
reminder, and it's on my Google Calendar. And right, then every two seconds, something comes up. Right and then you put it when you put the appointment you put reminder one week before Oh, two days before one day before, right? I need a reminder.
Because I'll forget.
So forgetfulness is part of us. While Allah Subhana Allah never forget. And he said it's in the Quran for my camera buka Nasir, your Lord never forget.
So how do I remember to remember?
Let's put it this way. How do I remember to remember our law?
Two alarms. Okay, that's fine, too. alarms.
Put a schedule.
Good company. Absolutely.
Practical, I need to remember, I should remember. But I cannot remember. So I need to remember to remember, this is the statement. True. Now I love this. This is a beautiful your A B and now I'm going to give you the rewards of those who remember a lot a lot. I'll come to this and we'll come to this Hadeeth
this is I was waiting for this. Once you do something daily, it's become a habit. When we go to the bathroom. Do you even think about washing your hand or you automatically go and wash? And if you don't find the soap? What do you say? Where is this all?
Right. Do you think of it?
Why? Because you've been doing it a long time when you were young. How many
times you forgot, Did you wash your hand?
Yes I did. And then what do you do you smell their hand.
Right? Why? Because you help them to remember. And then it becomes a habit. This is what we need to do.
Honestly, this is what we need to do. What like I said this time I don't be I am very weak I forget helped me. So how you will help me.
There's this apps
you have it suddenly comes in and says so Pamela,
you have it
Alhamdulillah you have to say so Paolo, because Kim's in front of you, right?
I struggle when I go to the bathroom and come out from the bathroom to remember.
Put it on the on the door outside of the bathroom. You open the door, you look you remember,
I remember to say Bismillah when I forgot to say Bismillah when he he said all
right. What do you do on the fringe
on the fringe with a duel. I have a struggle to remember the vicar when I'm in my car. And I do it every day, sometimes three, five times a day, put it on your on your
dashboard or on your seat where a steering wheel for the small
and then you get to a point where it becomes like washing the hand remove people will make fun of you. But there's a lot of people will follow your steps.
Don't think of the negative there's a lot of positives also. So help yourself to remember and number one, remember what the first two are I shared with you on Friday which was any of you remember, Allah, Allah hum Amy look at the drop in me helped me please Allah the cricket number one to remember you. Because he knows it's difficult. It's very easy to pan a lot. But we don't do we forget. And the cricket or show cricket has no validity. Last thing I'm going to share with you. So I must point out I made it easy.
And I am now kathira
remember Allah Allah, what will I get? There's two headings. One of them is what Flora was trying to tell us. I saw Lancelot, who was walking in
path on a street in Mecca. And he passed on a mountain and the mountain called Jim gang, the name of the mountain.
JOHN donne actually, john duck, the name of the mountain, it's
and he said, with a companions of course every step, every opportunity of teaching.
For color, Heather drew down sobre como for radio.
So he said this is Jim Dunn.
That's a mountain.
Those he called it a more for redo. Those who does one thing
they weren't they are ahead of the game.
And they say oh my mofa redo yada sama What is this one thing they do it and they are ahead of us?
What is it
that exactly in a law casino and that killer
That's what he said to them those who remember our law a lot. They are heard way there.
You know when you want
I don't know if any of you ever run or do race or your watch. See people way ahead. You say this is so hard to catch this be like this. That's what he was trying to tell them suboptimal for Radeon they are way ahead of us ahead of us had a few and it's like what is these Who are these a docume aloka theorem a decade there's a part two of this where another Hadith okay and oh actually it is here.
He said it. This is what he another Hadith and this one is actually NEMA and has Part Two and I'll show you the part two. He said you want me to tell you the beds Did you hire I'm at the best of your deeds.
Imagine best of your needs. What has gotten damaged
the most purified with your Lord?
This is second What are far have you done
and in your rank of deeds, this is the highest level what alpha highest level.
Why are you looking at all the heavy work and it is better than giving donating gold and silver
What and telco ADO Welcome aboard rebou Anna and it's better than meeting your enemy and you're fighting them and you're killing them.
Allah wa Madoka Rasul Allah, what is this year?
better, better, best deed, most purified highest level better than me giving you gold and silver, better than meeting my I do my enemy. And I am killing in all these, this is better
think of this better, show better not to emulate the act of Nakia because inside is thicker.
And he said, Victor Elia xojo.
So those who doesn't have money,
those who doesn't have money, Don't feel sad.
Don't feel sad, because that first Hadeeth is what actually he was talking to the people who doesn't have who they came to him. And this inner number had is the same meaning they came to him and says you're also like people who have money well, they are way ahead of us because they can donate and they can do charity and we cannot do it.
Which is true. And he said I can teach you something better than that. Remembering.
Then they came back again, says Yasser Allah, the One who have money now they are doing the colloquium
panel, and he said that he can fog a lot routine Asia. So that's the crease of Allah, he gave it to him, he wills so if I have I'm of the booth, and everyone in this room out of the booth, I'm not talking about you have to have a million dollar in the bank. Talking about you have
any donating $1 per day 50 cents, if not money, or what we talked about the acts of charity. Here you go, the Chroma, keep remembering Allah. keep remembering Allah, those of you who are memorizing the quarter, keep revising, as you're walking as you are driving, even if you put there if you're listening. If you're listening, cooking, you're a woman who decided to stay home and take care of her family you have to cook you have to clean you have to get the house ready that's your job for now. Do which was the vicar of a law
put it put a lecture that's liquor, put a Koran that's put a Hadees that's liquor one of the easiest way I found actually is I put it in Mike in my kitchen computer is there it's always
on the channel of course
it's always there and the Quran is is being recited and sometimes next to it there is on the same screen you'll find anatomy Medina is the channel for Medina where you can hear the hadith of Roswell is how many of how much time of our life was spent in the kitchen?
Now the percentage Allah knows so here I am. I am in Don't let Satan come to you. But you're not listening.
That's how he comes. You know what, if you're alone, force yourself to this. Pay attention. You know, brain goes somewhere else, bring it back, but keep it better than listening to something else. News.
I don't want to say anything else.
and the rest.
So my last point either and this is I found in I was thought and I found it and when I read in a review, it's the same thing. It's the pillar.
The key that will open the door for Tesco. And the the key that will keep the door open is the crow law. The crow law, you then hear two parts you say no to your neffs by identifying which neffs you are which heart you are. What is the weaknesses too much talk too much to eating too much intermingle. You catch on this, this alone will do a job. But it's not like when you combine it with the Corolla. I can tell you the Chroma what it does to the heart. Clean it's me alas pantalla makers of a duck you know how can you get on with that? Can I