Purification of the Heart Signs of a Pure Heart

Haifaa Younis


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AI: Summary © The speakers discuss the importance of finding one's face and feeling happy in life, staying true to Islam, and not giving up on one's beliefs. They stress the importance of finding one's face and feeling happy in life, learning to control one's emotions, and practicing healthy habits. The importance of planning time and effort, finding one's weight, and learning to elevate oneself is emphasized.
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We were studying beautiful book to remember it's called the author to love fan is the coming to the rescue of that who is thinking

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so we all in a way or the other in our path to Allah, we are crying for help true or false crying for help and some of us are shouting and some of us says you know what, I don't know if I'm gonna make it and some of us they are on the right path, but I'm very worried one day I'm gonna sink but I don't want to be sink. So these are the signs I'm going to share with you is actually from that book. Okay? And the size is off healthy heart so it's the opposite meaning if I don't have this then my heart is what

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that sound the first Where did before I started this Where did the concept of a sound heart came from?

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Where does this where who said My heart is not good? Allah created this beautiful word I'm gonna

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know the sound heart Where is it?

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Allah said Illa man at Allah, we have been serving right in saving the brain that Dr. Schaefer put for you. I don't know if you paid attention saw the show at all right? When I talk is in your your bath on your mind. I am fat man, one urban Illa. Allah with convincing, say Brian is making the Doha supplication to Allah subhanho wa Taala saying the following your law please don't disgrace me on the Day of Judgment.

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He didn't say they have judgment. He says the day when everyone would be resurrected. And then he said the day that no wealth or children would come to avail.

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that means everything else is not going to work except this young man at a law Habib, Calvin, sorry, except that person, he or she, who comes to law, with a solid heart. That's what it comes from.

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That's what it comes from. So this concept is not our imagination, or it is our conclusion, this is a concept in the Quran. That means I need you need, we need to work on my heart. Because on the Day of Judgment, if my heart is not studying, I am in big trouble.

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will call Benson. So what are the signs

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so you're gonna, this is how I want you to write it. As I was sitting in, in your notes, put two columns of cannabis in the sound heart, and we're gonna say 1234, it's about 11 or 12.

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And then next to the next column, leave it empty.

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You'll go home, look at your notes again, and don't write too long. Put 123 I'm talking about and then rate your heart, according to this, so what I'm going to give you is the 100% like 10 out of 10. If you have this, then you are 10

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from 10 how much you give yourself you not someone else because again, as we said in the morning, you are the only one except Allah subhanaw taala who knows exactly what your heart is, right? Remember, can I see so do so the first time

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foresight is about your goals and thinking goals and thinking

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your time while it dunia had time. Bella here living in this life,

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living in this life moving away from this life.

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Although he or she is living and as if they are already living in Alaska.

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Good to get to

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know your faces is Like what?

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Like she's speaking French. The seat again.

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We are on the sound heart. So this is the sound heart. Number one, the person he or she has a sound heart 10 out of 10 in this point, when my focus,

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my priority, my happiness, my sadness, what I really want what I'm really working hard for what I compete for. What I am jealous from is related to

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That's what it is.

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So I'm not going to get upset if I didn't get the job.

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And I'm not going to be extremely happy and jumping when I get accepted to the school or that school. Because I don't know if this will get me to.

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I'm going to get very sad. When I look around, and I see good number of my friends were my age, and same situation, but they go every Saturday to Oran school. And I don't

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then my focus is on Allah here. Did you get the point? So the question for you Everyone, what makes you happy? Now, of course, I said this, you can tell me you

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know, what makes you happy?

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Yeah, what's what's what's makes you happy? What's your news, you're gonna, you're gonna get on your phone. And then you're gonna make a smile, and say, 100 I got it.

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versus what makes you sound.

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So this is that's why I told you it's something you go home, and you analyze it, because this is very deep. This is not something superficial. This is not something one day, I'll call mousseline. By the way, that means this is consistent character.

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This is not because today you are on this program. And the next week because it's Ramadan. So I'm going to be focusing on this or that this is my norm. I'll give you an example of this. Someone who I know when I'm alone, he comes in and one of the sunon. One of the voluntary most beloved up to during the Milan is being very generous.

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generosity, not in money with tech. We talked about this yesterday, journalists, anything they give, they ask you to say yes. Anybody wants anything from you say yes. So one of my people I know, they used to say ask her in Ramadan, she will never tell you though.

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That's generosity persistent.

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So number one, you are going to look at your focus is on this dunya meaning when you finally got the house that you wanted, and there's nothing harm about the house, right? As you are so happy in getting the house. Do you say to yourself, you say to yourself, yo, you gave me this beautiful house and this dunya please give me a better one.

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Or doesn't come to my mind.

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Conversely, when I did not get that house, you know, you put the offer in your lap, you excited to everything. And then the agent told you you know what? Someone else put a higher offer. And you feel sad, because this was the perfect house. Do you tell yourself? Do you own You're so sad. It's like when I feel the same when I'm going to get to Jana. And then I see my friend in the seven. And I'm in the first level of journaling. When I feel the same sadness, do I even think about it?

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I'll call with Sally.

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That's the first one your title and dunia. dunia is not not at my priority. I am living in this dunya basically, to make my life easier.

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I am not living in this dunya Allah did not create you and me to only have fun, or get married or have children or get a degree or build the house. And then

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honestly it feels so

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This dude here this life, everything remember we were talking about before the break everything a lot is given to me, it's going to be a way to determine whether through being a sober, being patient or through being grateful. So if Allah gives me the best children, they helped me in my relationship with Allah to be very grateful. And I need to feel it. And if I must Pantera gives me these children who takes me away from Allah than my rebounder threw them to go to Geminis being patient. Did you get this so everything Allah subhanho wa Taala gives me is more it's my choice. This is what I tell myself. It's up to you. You want to go to Jana? Use it you don't you don't want to go to Jenna

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so you're attacking no I need dunia and Satan or as well as auto Sarah I'm going to share with you either an idea or a hadith or a saying of the righteous people are also highly sought to sound which you all know that this hadith or at least you know the concept I should be doing I can actually I'll copy this is

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live in this dunya like you're a stranger or you're a traveler.

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You're a stranger or you are a traveler. Wow

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Enough to come in

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and count yourself from now this is to say normal. count yourself from now from the dweller of the graveyards.

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For example, I came to visit when in Minneapolis, right? Did I bring my home with me? Am I going to go look around and look for a house? What did I do? I brought my carry on. Whatever I need for the trip, right? That's a No. Do I and you have any doubt that we are not going to die?

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as one of the shoe of any decency, enjoy, I said everything in life is a possibility. It may happen and may not happen, true or false, except that

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he said the only thing we have the only thing certain we see it. And we know and no one challenges, whether Muslim, non Muslim believer or non believer that we all die.

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So I know I'm going here, then why I'm working all the time on here.

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That's the first thing change. So the more you are not attached, that's the sign.

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If you translate all this too simple, you're not attached to dunya. Then you're focused on the arco you get the most beautiful thing, whatever that thing, and you're happy. Next day Alok took it away. Any of this thing? Your answer? If you're selling sound pure, Allah gave an unlucky it's nothing changes.

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Now you give yourself the mark.

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That's number one for you. Actually, this is a nice thing to say. Now, he said now he says you read this in almost all the books he said a dunia life is moving away from us. And then our hero is moving away toward us. And each one has children.

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Each one has children, be from the children of the earth. And don't be from the children of the dunya because today is work. And no accountability. And tomorrow, accountability, and no more work. Isn't this fact we all know. We all know. Right? On the day of judgment, that you'll be sent me back I'll do one solo.

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First, one more thing. No, I'll do one more thicker. No. You know this, all of you. Right. Honourable gentleman. YALI Armando solly, Hampi. mattock color in the heart, crema Town Hall, or Memorial, he was a hotline homeopathic, as Matt said, it's sorted MBL fella, send me back. I'll do I'll do good. And he said, Nick, killer, it's a word. You're just seeing it. That's it. You're here. Till the day of judgment. So be of the people of doom of Europe, as you are living here. That doesn't mean you're not going to live. That doesn't mean you're not going to have fun. That doesn't mean you're not going to enjoy. That doesn't mean you're not going to get married or have children.

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That's that's the beauty of Islam. The beauty of Islam is you live your life. And you're focusing on your,

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you're focusing on your that's sign number one, sign number two.

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In every moment, in every

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condition, in every status, that art

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of always selling the sound heart, turn to Allah, always. In every condition, every status, every feeling you need with Allah, turn to Allah only.

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Meaning that's what I told you these these signs you really need to work but the hamdulillah Allah is teaching us now because Ramadan is coming. It's a good opportunity for us to learn to practice, meaning nothing will make me happy. Unless it's related to Allah. No beauty unless it's related to Allah. No feeling good, unless it's related to Allah. everything related to Allah. Did you get Did you know what I'm saying? Meaning

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I go home right now. Right? And I enter the house and I see the house is very clean. You've been here all day. And the kids are in house you thinking I'm going to go and I'm going to see the house is upside down. Then you open the door and you see your children. Mashallah, tomorrow. Come on. Let's make mom happy. And we're going to clean all the house how you gonna feel?

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Absolutely happy. Now, your next reaction. What are you going to say?

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What are you going to do tells you where is a lot in your life.

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If you're going to say I love your kids, you're the best I've ever seen. That's true. But you missed our last punk

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in every moment, or if you go right away to the origin returns as your umbilical hummed, you guarded them today, or your vehicle. You reward the dummy. For me spending all Saturday learning something to get closer to you, by making my children better today. You still praise them. These things you don't say these things you feel, of course, you're going to tell your children martial law. You made me happy all this that's part of tarbiyah of their discipline. But for you internally, you don't see things but related to law in every moment than focusing your heart. Actually, if you go too far to shadow, the poem, the poets and you see before what say that Ibrahim said, look at the conversation

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before that. When he looked at his father and his and his people and says Laura Bellamy all right to mata budokon and two more about akula. Do you see what are you worshiping you and your forefathers? For you know whom I do only they are all my enemies, except Allah. Lord Bellamy said the Lord of the heavens and earth. Now he describes it was a law.

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And he didn't say in the names of the law. He didn't say we Lizzie's hacking. Well, no.

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He said things relating to life. How many of you know that

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sort of shout out poets. He said, law Bellamy Alevi, the one who whose Allah

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La number one he created me. And then he will take me back. A lady Hello, Connie.

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Toma Yoshimi, by then I love the Hello Connie. For Jolla. Dini. He is the He is the one who created me and guided me. I didn't study. I want to know that. Oh, my mom taught me for one.

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Yeah, Dini, he guides. One lady. Who was your torey Mooney. screenie. He's the one who feeds me and give me to drink. One lady either married to powerwashing when I get sick, he accused me one lovey, you mean Tony Tamayo Feeny. And he's the one who gonna make me die. And then we'll bring me back. And then he made the dua that she has shared with you. And then ended up in Albin sorry. If you have a law in your heart, related to everything, you will end up with a purpose. Sorry. So number two, everything in your life. Everything you see there's traffic light, and there's traffic jam, right? Gotta be make it easy. You make the cars move them your elbow communi Your heart is immediately

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turning to Allah versus look at them. I just listen to the traffic and they said there's no traffic

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right? You're laughing because that's true. That's what we say. When you Why did I come in the street?

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That why didn't I go some Why did I even leave the house today?

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That's your that's natural. That's normal. That's not

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the heart that's always attached to Allah turn to Him in everything.

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So far, good. Hard.

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Really. Alhamdulillah if you don't see it's hard to hamdulillah here on line number three.

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Now here, it's an external sign.

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never get tired. From the remembrance of Allah.

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Yeah, you have to one decree.

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never get tired, or bored, or lazy from the remembrance of Allah

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and never get tired, from service to Allah, or serving Allah.

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And nothing makes him happy, except when he has his private moment with a

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while I know Sudhi

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let's practice this. So number one, never tired of the remembrance of Allah. What is the remembrance of Allah? I've said this many times. What is the remembrance of Allah?

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That's Vicar that's remembrance of Allah. What kind of what's an equal

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sign up

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I'm sorry. Doha supplication.

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I can't tell you.

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I'm sorry.

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Fasting is a bad it's an act of worship. I'm talking about remembrance of Allah. Because Salah praying is an act of a body because you're remembering Allah, reading of Quran you're remembering Allah. Do y'all remember remembering Allah? Yes. Yeah, playing Absolutely.

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Being patients these are all good characters, but I'm talking liquor.

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Yeah, but because liquor?

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For example, open this window and you're going to see all this beauty. And you're going to say so Pamela. That's

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right. And you're going to you drank the water and this was beautiful, cold and so hamdulillah. Pacific, love Lola Lola Pacific, which is the easiest, free of charge does not need any requirement. This is all the scholars teaches you this, the act of worship in this Deen in Islam, that means nothing. No, do not kobler not eat, not eat at this time, cover your hair, go this direction. Don't go to nothing. Where ever you are except in the bathroom.

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And when you come out of the bathroom, there is a dick.

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So the sign that your heart is sound, is when you're always in the car. Always in the car. And you know you are always in the car. When you do you are not in the car, you will miss it.

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You feel you're missing something like you know when you when you always for example, you always listen to Allah? Or do you always do something at seven o'clock in the morning? Every day? It doesn't matter. Morning Coffee.

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And fasting day one or from Milan? What's gonna happen? Where is my coffee at seven o'clock?

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Right? Always my child who's whatever you usually do, because you're used to it. So when for whatever reason you're not doing the liquor, you will miss it. Law Yes. and declare on how much you give yourself

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in a day, in a 24 hour.

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10 is constant.

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five, I only hit a number.

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How many of you and I want to see hands, how many of you, they they do morning and evening.

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That's less than 30%.

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Morning and evening a call. And if you couldn't do it after also, you'll do it after?

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That tells you these are the signs. How many of you How many of you, when you in the car, we say Subhanallah desarrollado, makhanda homoclinic Alhamdulillah. That's good. Keep doing it. And for those of you who don't remind yourself and remind each other, how many of you when you enter the house, especially there's nobody in the house and you say Salaam Alaikum

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make it a habit

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by the Holton booth and suddenly Mwana impossible to get an Angular a mobile rocket on for you. But if you enter a home, say Salaam Alaikum that's that's a greeting from Allah.

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This is in the on the concert note.

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So this is how you know don't you'll need to change the world. Just pay attention. Pay attention that becomes a habit number four.

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What happens if you don't wake up for

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the whole day is ruined? How do you feel?

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Tired? I need to see hands how many say and I tried and I didn't get up.

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I'm going to just get make it up. How many how many say I wish I woke up?

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How many say I'm going to make sure this is not going to happen again.

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I'm going to do all the precautions 100 How many of you cry like she lost her child.

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You're laughing that tells you how far we are.

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And this is how it is the fourth sign. So when you tell me My heart is sound, you better be up to it. The fourth sign says either fatter who will do when the right

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Do not action of obedience to Allah, they call it would mean the regular morning as called evening as called for your Salah, the regular one, when he or she missed it, the pain they feel the pain they feel more than the pain of losing the most beloved thing or a human being to them.

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Sure, when they miss our weird, regular activity of obedience of Allah, so Allah, the Quran, the pain, they feel, he or she, for them worse than the pain of losing precious thing or a human being.

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Is that us? How much you give yourself on this one?

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However, I don't want you to be done. Why? Because the last teaching me right, I did not request this the topics at all. Actually, I didn't know the topic still probably two days ago.

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There's a reason of what made the organizers choose this topic. Why he wants to teach us Alhamdulillah

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Alhamdulillah and you remind each other even when you are in a gathering, especially the gatherings not like you'd let's say your friends who you always see and let's practice what we learn people you may be seen them once in a while. You don't have to be the rude person who suddenly became the shaman always in the current having this up how

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they are talking. And you're not because you're not interested or this is not something I'm going to talk about inside you. You're in the

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inside without moving anything you're in.

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Because there's three kinds of liquor. There's the the core, on the heart. Remember, there's the coolest one the tongue, remember, and there is both and the best is both. So when you say Pamela, your heart is feeling the glory of Allah and your tongue sing it.

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So if I cannot do both, I'm going to do at least one of them. Most of us think of the tongue but also think of the caliber of the heart. So if you are in a gathering, or you are if you are alone in the car stuck in the traffic. Be Culberson be in a state of the car. Just say stuff

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100 even comes up

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though more again. You get used to it, the more you will, you will miss it and it will become a habit. Number five. Did you give up already?

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There is hope

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Yes or no? In sha Allah Absolutely. Bismillah be positive. If he is teaching me he will help me as I will talk to yourself. If he is teaching me he will help me and he will keep me going. He knows I want that. It's very hard. I don't know how to do it. I've never learned these things, but he will teach me Bismillah number six.

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I'm sorry number five.

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If I tell you what do you miss? Now, what are you going to tell

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this board? Huh? I can't hear you.

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I can't you What do you miss?

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For example, my bed? Okay. I miss my bed, huh? Yes.

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So misses the food she was eating.

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That's fine. It's not wrong. You're literally always think of it this way. When your heart is connected with Allah. The gauge will be. It's not wrong. Sleeping is not wrong. Eating is not wrong. I'm very honest. I miss my bed. When I'm wandering, you're very tired. That's what you say.

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I miss my parents. Absolutely.

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I miss being a child, innocent play no responsibilities. hamdulillah

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I miss

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the person.

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He or she who has a hypersaline they miss. What do you think?

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their obedience to Allah.

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They miss the act of obedience to Allah. Yanni for us now, Ramadan is next week. It's like your law. I miss it. I really missed that day you and I am all the day in your obedience. Although my life is the same but I'm fasting. I get home quickly. eat whatever whenever

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Not one to the masjid and then I stand up a law and destroy and listen to this Quran and you really miss it.

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That's a sign your heart is setting sound healthy ish taco de la bartiromo.

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Number six how many of us have things to worry about?

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Like what? Like what?

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Okay finals. What else?

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Huh bills? Okay.

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Raising children okay hamdulillah

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health Okay, what about my health? Yes. I'm sorry. Security safety security Hmm. School, but now, def hamdulillah worry about the death okay?

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memorize this idea. Yum karoon Wham Koroma, Allah hi Ron Mercury, and you will never worry. Hmm.

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So I worry about my

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so all these worries How do you make it go away?

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How do you make them go away?

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I'm asking thumbs up

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by Stefan

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zyk okitama of course, because you're in this gathering. So you're gonna answer correct politically correct? Not Let's be honest.

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There you go. Eating. When I feel down, when I feel down, I jumped to that fridge and get all the chocolate.

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Why? Why Hmm?

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And hamdulillah if that's really what you do all the time. When I am done, I think of the day I'm gonna stand in front of a loss pantalla and then my all worries will go away. That person he or she with a sound heart that the the treatment the pill the prescription that they take and they're what is what makes them sad. Go away is there Sala fear rule in a law

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or on tort law

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as our Swati salatu salam said, Now be higher.

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Give us comfort and peace and security with it or buy it meaning sila

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meaning in this point number six, you're going to ask yourself this question Where is Salah in your life? I'm not talking about numbers or performing What is your feelings towards Allah? Before salah and after surah

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Are you someone when you get upset and angry you go and put yourself on that agenda and you're going to do to work out then you come out peace

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Are you someone who you are waiting for the result of the exam and it's gonna be another hour and I'm so worried I'm gonna go in front of a law and make the seller not do are not talking about asking a lot of definitely the act of solid itself is the prescription that removes my worries that tells you how how sound is your heart versus I pick up the phone and talk to that person versus I start worrying whatever the other things so salah and what is Salah for you and the person who has sound heart correlate to

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the coolness of his eyes is Syrah

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and is the gauge I always say this the gauge of your email How do you know your email is weak? weaker? Weak getting stronger strong see what's your relationship with sada

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if you wait for the Salah actually would use glatter did you wait for it? If you want the summertime comes in. Okay, I still have time.

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I get very worried if sonar passed and it's like okay, I'm going to make them together. I'm very worried. So look at around you in your date. You will your relationship was solder that will tell you where is a lie in your heart. Number seven

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one woody

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In this life, only one

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only one thing you worry about and that is

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Allah in general because Jelena is part of it

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Jenna is part of it of course, but it's about Allah meaning is Allah happy with me?

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is Allah what he's looking at me right now you and me? What is he saying about me? What are you?

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individually? That's individual relationship with Allah which we don't have. You know when we have it when?

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When we need them

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when you have the exam in the finals? How's your fudger before you go to final?

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How's your dog and your suit?

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Right next day he gets your report at home the letter have passed and passed with a plus. How is your father?

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And I always say this to myself before anyone else how you feel? If you have a friend who she calls you only when she needs you

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How do you feel about

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do you even answer the phone at one point?

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How can I be that person with a lot

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how can I be that person with a lot that's only when I need him? Now ilaha illa Allah forgive us all you and I need to have an absence see and I'm crying mothers when your child is sick. Now having this high fever and the pediatrician tells you you know what i have no idea it could be this could be that could be this could be this you end up getting admitted to the hospital. We may do Spinal Tap later this and that and you start doing your man your law and look at your solder.

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So how much?

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You your worry, what you look at is a loss pantalla Are you happy with me? Did you did not answer my mind to heart? Is it something I did? I did not get invited to go to market. This is something I did. I'm feeling the CRM is harder on me. That's something I did. Did you see what I'm saying? It's not about I ate I drank I it's about me and him him level what I would feel was hidden. And the thing that makes you go and run and rush is anything that's pleasing. Talat subak of will fail as they say, you compete in goodness, not competition in dunya.

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If they have six bedroom home hamdulillah let them enjoy it. And I worry about my six bedroom home there.

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I compete with people when I see somebody like what if you remember what your horatia told you? When she saw this woman who cannot read and write? I hope you remember there was this was very powerful. This woman doesn't really doesn't right? Ignore another No. Never stops her think I want to be like that person. What did you give her your law? What did she has in her heart toward you that you blessed her with this and I'm still struggling with my morning. Good evening.

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So Hmong filler, number eight.

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And this is going to hit home.

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Especially for us woman and we talked about it on one today.

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time, the person he or she who has sound heart, they are so worried about their time they are so stingy about their time that is wasted in anything that is not pleasing to Allah or give them closer to a

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stingy a Shah who will be walked he that's how they say you are so stingy. And so miser about your time being wasted in anything that not pleasing to Allah way more than the stingy person, man or a woman who they worry about their money. They don't pay it because they're so worried about it. Look at your time.

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And the time is a bigger issue here.

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Be on time, be time conscious. That's Muslims,

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in everything and everything as much as you can. There are always circumstances comes up. That's that's expected. And that's well understood. But I'm talking about general Albert habit part in Subhanallah de la Yo, if you talk to successful people in dunya dunya dunya. They don't even know anything about the religion.

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Number one

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caracter in the successful people is what

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is what? Time management efficient force people are they come last people they leave, they don't waste the moment there's no meeting takes two hours and just talking everything Boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, even how they take care of their health? How they taken up how they eat all this? So for a heart, that is sound, did you see how much is it related to my daily life,

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there is nothing sign that they go to market.

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There's no sign of an adversary that you stand up and in the whole night praying, that's not it's all about daily things that everyone can do. And most of it is actually internal things I feel, I look, I aspire I want or I want to be away from

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number nine.

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When you pray, for example, always bring Salah because it's it's the most first thing comes to our mind. When you pray. And you prayed three rocard for example, mother, instead of praying three you prayed for?

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How do you feel?

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Okay, I made a mistake. So I need to correct it. Right? Fair enough. Then you're thinking and the word hotshot came in a lot here. And then you sit down after the solder. And you're gonna say, from my solder? How many how much what percentage? me my solder not yours. Because I know how I prayed. I think last pantalla accepted and was correct.

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And you're gonna give yourself a mark. I'm gonna say, you know, what, maybe 50%. And the first look, I was fine seven recall, my brain went again, went far away, whatever. And then I brought it back again. And the tashahhud then slipped from me in that fatty how the third that I brought him back in the in the tashahhud. Last one. So back and forth, you know, the usual struggle we all have.

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That's, I want to say normal, but that's very common, right? The question here and the sign here is how much time effort thinking planning you got to do to correct for this.

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versus if I, my child comes from school, whatever level he is, or she is, and they have seen

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what I'm going to do after getting upset to shafting gokula.

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I'm going to say let's sit down. Let's put a plan. Let's see how we're going to correct this. Right? You should actually that's what people tell you, it's your child you have to help them why Indonesia? Same question. Why India? I worry I can and I work and for my Iran and I gave you example of Salah you need to apply the same thing. So yeah, next week, why in afia actions of alpha i don't neither gauge nor see what is missing, let alone put a plan to correct meaning the number nine that the person who has a sound heart he or she they worry about the how good How perfect they performed the act of a by the way more than the act itself.

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Opposite us who said hum de la salette

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under law I pray Did you pray I prayed Carlos and we are so happy How is not there? That's what we have to change. How

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and it's very good for you when you are now inter alia Why? Because you're in a group in the masjid the Imam Mashallah has pre reading beautifully that will help you put the gauge there

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and ask a loss pantalla so you got to be you gave it to me in Rome, Milan. I felt every word that Imam recited I felt wonderful all my body. That's how you start crying. job you gave it to me and

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give it to me later.

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So focus on how good you are performing I have a friend of mine never gives charity and I'm talking about could be $1 or less. It is in an envelope. She buys a small ones come and pluck. She actually like

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for the for the money, put them there and she handed her

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So you give the gift to our last panel or you present your deed to Allah in the best way, then your heart sound when you're worried about how is the the act itself not that I do it only, like when you cook and you present the food. You don't worry. Your worry is not that I cooked your worry is how was the food? That's the first question you ask your whoever you're cooking for. How was it? That means the quality again, and donia we look at quality. Why not enough?

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The next one?

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We're going to come up with love and hate. Because it's hard.

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What do we love?

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We're gonna start Bismillah

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what do we love?

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What do we love in general? ourselves? Absolutely.

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So children, ourselves.

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Husband Alhamdulillah your spouse. Okay?

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Huh? I'm sorry. Sleep.

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Now. Money.

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Attention, beauty. I love to have attention. I want when I come to the room everybody knows I am here.

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Right? And I want when I come in every wants to give Salaam to me. Otherwise what's wrong with them?

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One more because we live in Minneapolis. What do I hate?

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Hate cold

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I hate hate to panela I hate disobedience to Allah because you're here

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shavon hamdulillah

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favier excellent.

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I'm sorry.

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I don't get an instinct. satisfaction. I'm hungry. I want to eat right away and fearful. Don't get it. Oh, I don't like that. I'm

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not living up to my own expectations. Everything you said is not wrong, by the way. Yes. lying. Everything you said is not wrong. I want you all to know that nothing we are discussing is found. But we are looking at a plus. What we are talking about is see

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that's hard. That's hard. That's a sound pure, crystal clear. Attached to Allah loves everything. million lies under everything that Allah loves. Hate Everything, Allah.

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For example, how I'm going to know this simple, Google

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or Koren search there's an app called Quran search right? In Allah

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Allah verde Allah does not like or love the IRT is going to come I'm going to write this in your head would Caffery in Allah Hello yo Hey boo Mata Cadbury in a la herbold Wally me I'm going to put all this 1234 all these characters a lot does not like those who associate with him a lot doesn't like those who are arrogance a lot does not like those who are all i all this I put it and then on the same time I'm going to say in Allahu Allah loves Allah loves you have with the Wabi Sabi pain. You have

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all these come in you. Were on am I from this?

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Allah didn't say you're live from within the Aqua Luna.

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Right? Allah didn't say he loves those who are eating

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all the time.

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He didn't say

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he didn't say what he learned.

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But it's not the things. So look at your emotions. That's the point. Where is your emotions being invested?

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Where are you investing your emotions.

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Most of the time. It's in children, spouses, parents comes in and dunya matters and

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Guess what ladies all these they will leave us or we will leave them

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so look at your love and hate

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love and hate for example when you tell me I don't like cold I'm going to see which is fine because it's it's too cold here right

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to train myself because that's my natural reaction to train myself what I'm going to see

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if your heart is connected with Allah as we said everything related to Allah forcing I said you are a human you know when you open the door and it's minus 20

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and you're lucky

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you're happy right? Or if the other way around if you live in a hot countries, right and you open the door it's 100 or if like if you come to St Louis sometimes in the summer it's 120 you open the door I was lucky to have the law what you say connected with Allah your man make me have those lie around efia Samson well as I'm harira your law making me of those that will not see extreme cold and extreme heat loss of this and sorted in some then your heart is conducted.

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You know my point, my point, the person who have an elbow saline, the heart, the sound heart, elevate their feelings, their thinking their goals above the average above what everyone else was saying. Everyone else would think and it's all related to

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the data to

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I think to more

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How are we? How you gauge yourself? All of us myself included? Would the sooner for our soil the soil to Sir

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huh? You're too quiet. I'm very worried.

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What? What too quiet, looking at me and I was like one

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The sooner.

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to Sarah. Humble life.

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I'm talking about following

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his footsteps in everything.

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One of the things you gonna take with you will be is nilla. And you're going to apply it in this Ramadan. Now luck will help you be in the law. You're going to look at every extra date, every Sunday as an obligation

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in Ramadan.

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This is how you will elevate yourself in Ramadan. Every sooner. It's like an obligation so further is not to pleasure. It's for

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going TO to and to

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war is not for it's done

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for for two or 244 it depends how you you do meaning. This is how I improve myself.

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When I look at things are non negotiables.

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Now if you are working and you have only five minutes, but I have a hard time believing this but let's assume that's the case. If you have only five minutes, that's fine. You're going to do your follow in your work you go home and you do this and

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non negotiable so you tell yourself like you know when you tell your child tomorrow you have an exam non negotiable up in your room. Give me the computer, internet is off. You're studying.

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When you're hungry, call me I'll get the food up to you.

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Don't you say? Well, tomorrow is the exam.

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So look at how are you? What how are we with following these who know from our Swati santosa tells you the gauge of your heart. Similar to you is like fallen that's obviously

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something that he was like an obligation. That's an understatement.

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Last but not the least.

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which you probably all know this because it's in the Quran. What do I feel? What do I feel when the name of a law is mentioned?

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What do I feel?

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Whether it's a down whether somebody says Subhana law, whether someone is reading

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doesn't matter the name of Allah has mentioned What is my heart, feeling and doing

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You answer and then you know that heart that heart, the sound sit there the healthy sound. That heart is there the idea of swatted

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we're living in a nuclear war Do you want to call

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and also Lhasa did

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in swatted hunt, or Bashir Ahmad between alladhina luquillo Allahu wa JIRA to give glad tidings. Those who are in a state of a combat combat meaning they submit to a law, they are surrender to a law they love a lot they're afraid from a law there's not a single word you can translate this and their signs look a lot more global, when a lot name is mentioned that heart symbols of the field are savina mouse although they are patient, when Allah spawn tada when they are when they get tested. And whatever it is a flipped them they are patient.

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So where are we from this?

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Where are we have these.

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So somebody is what I was looking for some alcohol was sitting, the sound heart. This is the summary last three lines, and you take it home, look at it, please go and read it again. Please go and read. Again, this is how we learn. You don't learn only by attending classes, attending classes is part of it. But it's not going to change you changes when you go and read. And you memorize and you start applying

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loss pantalla will open it for you.

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Or the elbow sorry, the sound heart, the heart.

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All what he worries about is for a law,

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all his love, for his love for a law.

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His aim and goal

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is for more

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his body. Body is for law.

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His deeds for a law is asleep for a law and waking up foreign law talking his foreign law and about a law.

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His thinking

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is about a law. And that's the affinity for kulu Billa or kulu Leela kulu mama. All of it is by Allah for Allah and in the cause of Allah. Where are we?

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How close how far?

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Is it impossible? No. Is it possible? Yes. Is it easy? No. Is it hard? Nothing is hard. If Allah is with us, and nothing is easy, unless a loss pantyliner make it easy, may have lost pantalla give us an obesity may last part Allah purify our hearts from anything but last pantai Allah May Allah Subhana Allah purify it, along with alumina forsan at Aqua was a key anti-romantic until you went into moolah. Does that come along later on so panic a lot more behind the shed one like the Highlander stuff will call out to boutiques a lot. I said no helmet while he was having to spend five minutes of break only no food