Imam Nawawi S The Book Of Etiquettes Of Sleeping

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spinata rochman Rahim al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa Salatu was Salam ala terminal aquilani lm and batha, who Mohammad Abdullah Al amin Allahumma salli wa sallim wa barik ala Sayyidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi etchmiadzin brothers and sisters in Islam as salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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Today inshallah Hosanna, we are going to embark on another chapter of Imam will know his chapters from Rio de Sala hain, that great book of his.

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Now the chapter that he has, or he has a key tab another another, he has dedicated a book, or he says, key taboo, devil known, which is the, the book of the etiquettes, of unknown or sleeping. So, in this chapter, he's actually Oh, in this book, he's actually going to look at not only the etiquettes of sleeping, but the etiquettes of lying down and sitting. So at hamdulillah as you know, Islam is a comprehensive way of life. It regulates every aspect of our lives. And this is from the the blessing of Allah azza wa jal is that he has sent us prophets and messengers, scriptures, and we find through Prophet Mohammed Salah Salem through the Quran, and through the swindler. We learn even

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how to sleep, and what is in our favor, and what is best for us when it comes to sleeping.

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Now, the chapter is Baboo, Marissa kulu, who in the notes so the first thing is going to touch on and explore is the hadith of what to say, at the time of sleeping. So before you go to sleep,

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there is a sweetener or there there are swinnen there are things to do before you go to sleep, things to say and things to do. So, from amongst the things that a man will know about him a hula hoop taala has included in this chapter. He starts off with the hadith of Al Bara even as him but the loved one Houma. And in this Hadith, Al Bara, even as he says whenever the Messenger of Allah Azza wa sallam went to bed, he would lie down on his right side, and recite. And then he mentioned that. So the first thing we're learning now, the sooner when you come to go to sleep, is to sleep on your right hand side is to sleep on your right hand side, not on your back, not on your stomach and

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not on your left.

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So every Muslim should make an effort and get into the habit of sitting on the right hand side. It is number one better for your back. Number two, it's also better for your heart, your heart is not so much pressure on your heart. Likewise, it is also the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So you are being rewarded from in many ways physically, and spiritually, inshallah, to Allah.

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And there has been studies that show the significance or the virtue or the merit of slipping on your right hand side. And so Pamela, those of you who may have done, you know, first aid, you one of the, you know, the practices of first aid is when you have a person who's injured, you know, if you are resuscitating them or you're doing some sort of procedures, privilege to them to always bring them back to the right hand side to their side and the breathing is much more better for the person who is sleeping on the right hand side. Now, he has a professor long while he was selling as almara even as it is stating he would, he talked them into it to say at the time of sleeping, now this time, you

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will find it in the book fortress of the Muslim, Muslim Muslim or if you look it up

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on the internet, do I before sleeping, this is the door that we find in Buhari, so

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the prophet SAW Selim, he said Allahumma a slum to enough see like over just to watch he like for for what to Emory he like

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to van de la Rosa baton, Roberton La, la manager, Mangia Illa he like man to be kitabi Kala De Anza Zelt will be in a beaker a levy are sent. So the translation of this hadith of this law, our law, I have submitted myself to you. Because you see, sleep is a minor death. When you sleep they call it the the minor death.

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And basically what you were doing now at the time of sleep, you are reviving.

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You're reviving

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commitment to your faith and to Allah azza wa jal. So you are saying Oh Allah I have submitted myself to you a slumped Islam as we know submission. Islam means submission and surrender and obedience. So,

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Oh Allah, I have submitted myself to you, I have turned my face to you committed my face to you and depend on you for protection out of desire for you and out of fear of you. There is no refuge and no place of safety from you, but with you, I believed in the book you have revealed and in the profit you have sent, and those performer hammers are silent. And you know,

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it's Allah azzawajal, he returns back to your spirit that is just cleaning your room that is just cleaning, that is just suspended from your body. If Allah azza wa jal, once he can

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refrain from he can allow will decree for your room for your spirit not to return to your body. And so therefore you will die. So here, if you do die, then what, what a beautiful way to die. Having said these words, the last of your words, before meaning allies are gel with these words, and there are many people who do die in their sleep, and they don't wake up. So I think it's very important to add it sooner, very beneficial to I it's a drag that reminds us also of putting our trust and our dependence on Allah subhanho wa Taala. Now there is another narration regarding this, or that includes these two as we find in body Muslim.

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Also the hadith of Al Bara even acid but in this narration, he says either the boat that the prophet SAW Selim said is a Taita machaca fatawa Sala from a budget Allah Shaka. Amen. So here we have an addition whereby the president says to him, and perform will do so now. The sooner is to sleep on your right, the sooner is to say the words, the words of Vicar that we just said and the Sunnah is to sleep in a state of the Sunnah is to sleep in a state of Voodoo.

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So he mentioned the doula and he mentioned it again in this hadith. So it is from the sun that that will do is not only for solar, but will do is also for recitation of the Quran will do is also required for circulating the Kava okay. And we'll do is something which is very refreshing and very rejuvenating, where you are

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rejuvenating yourself inshallah, especially when you are feeling if you're feeling very tired, very lethargic, you know will do the actions of Voodoo massaging your you know, your, the the limbs of your body of will do is very, very

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beneficial for you.

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The next Hadith is the hadith of Ayesha LaWanda, the wife of Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that we find in Buhari and we find in Sahara Muslim, it's, she says can only be yourself I love Miley, he was Selim, you suddenly milele the Ashura taraka for either Allah alpha juru celerra katerini Hafiz attain.

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Allah Shaka Haman had the big Elmo as they know for you as in for you, for you at dinner.

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Oh for you dinner. So here, the prophet SAW Selim why he says that the process of selling he used to offer a live record of optional select, optional select.

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In the latter part of the night, when he was about dawn, he would offer to short record and then would lie down on his right side to them why then, that is the color of the prey

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would come to inform him that the congregation had gathered for prayer. So a number of things that we can deduce from this hadith. The first thing the prophet SAW Selim with pray night press. So yes, we have our five daily prayers, Salah till surgery osoba, vor, assar, Madrid, Asia, and the associated sunon praise which are known as proactive, such as a tribute for fudging the four before the two after the two of them have to after a share. They could throw at him for it, but each one's on it. But then we have the sooner the sooner or the sooner and praise, which are things like select router, the last part of the night before you go to sleep, preferably start to go higher in the

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morning.

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Solid tahajjud is one of them starts at 200 which is during the night. So here it is.

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saying the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he prayed 11 then what he would do when the time for the and he, he prayed them in the latter part of the night, the sooner the best time to pray the 200 or the pm is in the third part of the night, and he might be an hour or two before selectel fetcher. You get up. And this is when Eliza Jen descends to the lowest heaven in a manner which befits His Majesty, and he answers the supplication of the applicator of the one who's calling upon Eliza Jen. So if you have a masala if you have anything that you need, then this is the time to ask Allah so which one of the best times to make?

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So I do,

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remind myself and remind you all about this one out of 200 prayer at night, waking up while everybody is asleep, and turning to Allah azza wa jal now the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, when he would offer the raw cotton of Sunnah of the fudger. And then he would lie on his right hand side, he would lay down and wait for the month then to tell him the quality party tell him Look, the people have gathered now. Come and lead the prayer. So that it is in the swing that is to pray the swindler pray at home. If you are one who was praying for budget at the masjid, then the sooner is to pray you choose when the prey or kabylia or the those two rakata come in for the budget, that she

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praised them in your home. That's the sweetener

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and then to come to the masjid and join the man with the Father pray. Now of course if you come to the masjid and you come earlier, then the Imams arrival, then you still have to pray to sooner which is known as to hear to the masjid judicata which are the higher the greeting of the masjid. And then if However, if you have come to the masjid and you haven't prayed, you're too soon the prayers that are

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have the budget, then you can pray with the intention of the budget sooner pray and included in that would be the hidden message you don't have to pray to lots of praise. So you don't have to pray to hear the message and then to record of sooner for the budget suffice or what suffices would be

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the to record of sooner of the budget pray before you sit down and wait for the Imam to lead the congregational prayer of budget.

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Now we move on to the next Hadees that Mmm, no we included

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and this is another swindler whereby the prophet SAW Selim he would place his right hand under his cheek when going to sleep and others

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and he would also make another door that we can learn here a shorter door.

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The loved one, as you find inside Buhari.

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He said that whenever the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam, he laid down for sleep at night, he would place his right hand under his right cheek. And he would supplicate and he would say Bismillah Allahu

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wa here bismack Allahumma mucho wa here. So maybe the other day I might be thinking was too long. But in the meantime, as you're practicing the other one, this one's a very short one. Bismillah Allahu Allah, which means In the name of Allah, who our law with your name, will I die and live? In other words, I will wake up. So that's when you go to bed you say Bismillah Allahu

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wa here, because we said that sleep is a minor death.

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And when you wake up, or in the narration, it says, and when he woke up, he would supplicate when the prophet SAW Selim Alhamdulillah he led the ohana by Donna Tana la Hindu Shu hamdulillah we praise Allah Subhana Allah Imagine that. As soon as you open your eyes, as soon as you are awake, the first thing that you do is you remember Allah azza wa jal, the first thing that you do, Allahu Akbar,

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you wake up and the first thing that comes out of your mouth is what and hamdulillah it's like you're praising Allah azza wa jal for having returned back your soul, you're thanking him for giving you another chance, another day, another day, not only to make another dollar, but to make her sonet to have rewards for our lives, to be able to worship Him.

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hamdulillah Allah be

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the one who brought us back to life by them. I met Anna

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After he has caused us to die when he lay hidden ashore and to him is then returned to shore meaning the return is to Eliza gel. So

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this is another Hadith that mmm no Rahim Allah to Allah included from us the etiquettes of sleeping.

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The next Hadees

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is basically condemning a condemnation of sleeping on your stomach, for those of you who have are in the habit, or have got into the habit and enjoy sleeping on your stomach.

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In this next Hadith

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it's the hadith of Harish, even tougher lfra or the Allahu anhu Carl

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he says that my father said I was lying down on my belly in the mosque or in the masjid when someone shook me with his foot is lying down on the on in the message on his stomach. Someone gave him a bit of a notch with his foot.

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And he said, lying down this way is disapproved by Allah. Lying down this way, is disapproved by Allah.

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I looked up and he did he say, he was the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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I wish it was me that he was you know that he was doing that too. And but in any way In any case,

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I looked up and he saw the face of the prophet SAW Selim and prophecy so I'm saying saying to him, that

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that Allah subhana wa tada disapproves this and this hadith we find it in sunon Abbey there would and like I said to you so Pamela Islam disapproves it and scientifically science has shown us how this sleep is not good for your back long term. good for your heart.

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Now this next Heidi said mmm no Rahim Allahu taala. Included is an encouragement to always remember Allah azza wa jal irrespective of the position that you are in whether you are standing with us sitting whether you are driving whether you are lying down.

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It's the hadith of Abu hora de Allahu Akbar There is also found in sunan, Abu Dawood.

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The Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Whoever sits in a place where he does not remember Allah to Allah, He will suffer loss and incur displeasure of Allah and whoever lies down

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in a place where he does not remember Allah, He will suffer sorrow and incur displeasure of Allah. So even when you were lying down, you should remember Allah azza wa jal, otherwise, you're missing out. You missing out. A Muslim is always remembering Allah azza wa jal, Muslims tongue is always moist with the remembrance of Allah azza wa jal. And that's why we have words of remembrance, for almost every aspect of every condition or every situation of our life. We have a dryer that you say, as you just heard, before you go to sleep, when you wake up, when you leave your home, when you enter your home, before you enter the bathroom, even when you leave the bathroom. Before you have

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intimate relations, when you get in the car to drive, before you enter the masjid, when you leave the masjid, when somebody dies, there is a doula for every situation, every condition when somebody has a newborn when you are traveling. So Pamela, and the list goes on and on and on. And if you are interested in Charlotte, and so you should be interested in Sharla. I advise you to Google up or to search fortress of the Muslim, you can get a soft copy, memorize, memorize, I've said before you eat when you finish eating, if you forget, if you forget what to say, at the beginning of any food or drink, what to say when it rains, what to say when you when you hear the thunder.

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So these are all things with what to say when you see somebody who has a disability and you want to praise Allah, that hasn't happened to you and thank Allah for your sound and good condition. So and hamdulillah Muslim remembers Allah azza wa jal always remember him sitting standing in any position, otherwise you are incurring a loss, as this hadith has signified.

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Now, a mental note of him Allahu taala, he moves on to the next chapter manners of lying down on one's back and placing one's leg upon the other. But before I go into this etiquettes I want to just touch on a few things relative to sleep. And that is, the sooner when you go to sleep. As we said, the first thing we spoke about is to sleep on your right hand side to sleep in a state of will do to sleep saying the car, the supplications.

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Now also, we learn from this

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Sooner before you go to sleep. And also of course, the sooner was to have your right hand and your right cheek

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is to also recite a delicacy when you recite a cuckoo See, Chapter Two from the poor answer to nakara verse 255, Allahu La Ilaha Illa who will hire a yom

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this area is known as the greatest verse, the greatest area in the Quran.

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And in the Hadith that is found in Buhari, we learned that shavon

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shavon

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cannot find it very hard to approach a person

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and to engage in foul play with a person who has recited the greatest area in the Quran ethnocracy it's very simple to learn.

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So the sooner is to recite it also before going to sleep.

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The sooner is also together, the two palms of your hand and two blue in your palms was reciting the three calls who Allah had.

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And we'll, we'll follow up and pull our penis. So you recite while blowing one time Ah, upon completion of saltiness, you wipe your head, you are the front parts of your body from parts only, and then you repeat this a second time. And then you repeat this a third time. And that is a sweetener, also protect yourself, fortify yourself from the evil that may be lurking. So the sooner is ethicacy. Three calls the to do that we mentioned this is a recipe of protection, a recipe of praise that can ensure your protection in shallow Thailand. So also, if a person has a bad dream, while they are sleeping, the sweetener is to sit up to turn to say our older Billahi min ash

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shaytani r Rajim seek refuge in Allah from the rejected and curse Satan from the devil from shaitan. And to turn to your left, and to speak two or three times.

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Three times, if your wife or husband is there, just be careful.

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You don't want to Yani in a way make them wake up and say you know, it's too early for a shower.

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So

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this is from the shaper and the process seller said to also slip on the other side then. So even if you're slipping on your right here, the sooner is to change positions.

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There must be a wisdom there is a wisdom behind it. change positions. So again, if you have a bad dream, also Billahi min ash shaytani r Rajim spittle to your left hand side and change positions. And in shallow Tyler, you will not be harmed.

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Or they might have also spoken about Okay, how is it that some people have resided ethnocracy and fortify themselves, yet, they will still have yet they will still have a bad dream. It could be that you got up at night to go to the bathroom to the lavatory to the toilet.

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And you came back to your bed and you didn't recite ethicacy again. So the sooner would be to recite it again. Because now you've unbroken that shield by going to the bathroom. You've done some activity, you've done something, come back to bed.

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And so fortify yourself again, when you go to sleep. This is something to keep in mind in shallow Tyler. And other sooner that a lot of Muslims may or may not know is that there is a hadith that we find in Sudan and they say related to tossing and turning. Some of us you might have one of those nights whereby we wake up and we just toss and turn. We can't fall asleep. There is a there is a formula, a prophetic Hadith and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he told us to say the Illa Illa Allah subhanaw taala hate always, always praying for sunlight zoa Jin La ilaha illa Allah and work

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and work it will

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rob bousema work even

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when beta Humala season.

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This is the Heidi La ilaha illa Allah, Allah his or her Prabhu sama wati wa one day know whom Allah says will have fun. So this is what you say as well. If you are tossing and turning at night and you will find this hadith in fortress of the Muslim

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Hello Muslim. So, these are some of the etiquettes that we should be mindful of when it comes to sleep.

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The next chapter that mmm No, we're not allowed to either included a manners of lying down on one's back and placing one leg upon the other. The Hadith he has included here is found in Bukhari Muslim Hadith Abdullah ibn Zayd about the law one woman, I saw the Messenger of Allah saw Selim lying down on his back in the mosque, placing one leg on the other. So there is no problem if you're just lying down.

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Okay, having one leg over the other, but when it comes to sleeping, we said sleeping should be on your right hand side. Another Hadith that we find in sauna AB there would Jabir even Sumeragi Allah one who reported that after fudger after the fight of salette, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he used to sit cross legged in the same place in which he had prayed until the sun shone brightly. So the sun that is, after you if you're praying in the masjid,

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you've completed the Salah, stay in your place, stay in your place of prayer, and recite your your car, your morning supplications your will

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your remembrance of Allah in that position until the sun rises, and then wait a little bit and then pray to the God of

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said, Whoever prays select will fetch it in Jamal, whoever prays super in congregation and then he sits and he remembers Allah until the sun rises. And then he prays to rock art, which are known as either extra Serato, Shara osato and there is some differences of opinion amongst them and

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then it will be recorded for him as if he has performed Hajj and Umrah. 1010 complete, complete, complete. This is the virtue of doing that. Some of the Walmart said to get this reward, you have to

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stay in the same position. Others said there's no problem if you go to another place within the masjid. But Sonora lemme go to the extent that you stay in the same spot.

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And this is what we see in this hadith. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he never moved away. According to this Hadith, he stayed in his place in the same place. fee madrasi. He had takamura ashampoo hasna until it rose and it was bright. So it was at least a species length above the horizon.

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The next Hadith is the hadith of Eman, Amara gala one Houma. I saw the Messenger of Allah saw Selim sitting in the compound of the holy Kaaba, with a thighs with his thighs against the stomach and arms around his legs. You know, when you have your legs up and you hugging your shins or your feet, your thighs are against your stomach. This just said this type of setting the proper standard has been set has been seen in this sitting position.

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In the hadith of Kyla bint Muhammad, Allah Rhonda, she said I saw the prophet SAW Selim, seated with his arms in folding his legs and when I saw him in such a state of humble guys.

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I trembled with fee due to the all he showed in that posture. This is a hadith that is found in Timothy.

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There is also a hadith which prohibits us from sitting in a way that is known to the Jews.

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And in this Hadith, the Hadith that is found in Abu Dawood.

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It's the hadith of a Sherry, a sherried, Eben Swain, Raja Lavoie one who, who said, the Messenger of us hustle and pass by me when I was sitting with my left hand behind my back and leaning on my palm. You know, when people like you sit on the floor, and you have your hand out and you lean on your left hand and your palm, this sort of sitting, the prophet SAW Selim, he spoke out against it. And it happens sometimes I not even conscious of it happens to all of us. You might be sitting you might do it on your right you might be on your left. Well, if you're doing it on your left, the province I sell him on seeing this man he said, Do Do you sit like those who the Wrath of Allah has descended.

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He said attack Colorado.

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Clear data Alma hoooo B I lay him Do you sit the sitting

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data is the sitting are they sits

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so this hadith as I said, is found in sunon episode and it's an authentic hadith

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next Hadees or the next chapter that mmm no we Rahim Allahu taala. Included is etiquette of attending company and sitting with companions. Here he mentions the Hadith that is found in Bukhari Muslim Hadith and Amaro de Allahumma.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he said, Do not ask someone to give up his seat in order to take it, but make accommodation wide and sit at ease.

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It was even Amaz habit that if a person left his seat for him, he would not take it. So don't make somebody get up out of their seat for you.

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This is the sooner if you come to a place Everybody sit down and say please get up. I want to sit there. This is against Islam.

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Okay, even Amara della one or Allah, one whom Allah is with him and his father Omar,

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he would refuse even if he came to a mejlis to a gathering. And somebody

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stood out of their place stood up from their place. And they said he come and sit here. You said no, no, you sitting here, you stay here.

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You see the athletic, you see the manners. You see the humbleness. This is what Islam teaches us. The role amount however did speaker and they say they said the only time there'll be an exception will be for example, if you were sitting in a teacher's position. This is the teacher he sits there. This is his place because everyone all the students they know that that's where he sits, it would not be befitting their fate to see elsewhere. The students are not used to that. So that said this would be an exception. But again is Harry Yani throws light on even how with Jani we should sit and wait, and we shouldn't Jani get a person out of their place.

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Also, let's say for example, sometimes this happens, you leave your seat to go make Who do you leave your seat to go and get something that you have forgotten to come back to your seat? What is this when Can someone take that place? Are you allowed to come back to that place?

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And in this Hadith, the hadith of Jabir Ibn Sumeragi lavon Houma

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that he reports that whenever we came to the gathering of the prophet SAW Selim we would sit down at the end of the assembly

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well actually before that, the before this Hadith, Hadith, Abu huraira sorry, regular one who either had to come the Coronavirus, Arsalan is a karma hadoken min max ricin from Nevada LA for who?

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For who Haku me, he said that if someone leaves his seat, for one reason for one reason or another, in other words, and he returns to it, he is better entitled to it. Bravo, Muslim, the Muslim or authentic Howdy, so you can leave your seat and you should be able to come back to find your seat. But unfortunately, if people don't know the sooner then they might be a become a might become problematic.

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And also in the Hadith I just read earlier, had his Jabir that whenever we came to the gathering of the process lm we would sit down at the end so you don't go crossing people and just to get to the front colossian if the rows have been formed in those circles from come to the end, come to the end you came at the end you came last you came you know later. Then take your place that's next available in the gathering.

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From amongst the etiquettes of Joomla they will learn the mistakes Hadith,

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Hadith sellman al faricy but the loved one who the prophet SAW Selim said if a man takes a bath on Friday, purifies himself thoroughly uses oil and perfume which is available in the house sets forth for the machine does not forcibly sit between two persons offers the prayer that is prescribed for him and listens to the man. silently his scenes between this Friday and the previous Friday will be forgiven. Buhari. So in this hadith that his fans are here Buhari with a number of etiquettes that are specific for your mama, the sooner what is the sooner

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For your mama, number one is to take a bath. Someone said it's manduca ocean, and other said that it is worship. But when we look at the Hadith, it seems to be more like a virgin. It seems as though it is more wedging upon the males who are performing who are going to perform sutra Juma to take a bath before they go to Juma on the day of Jamal before the surgery Juma before the Select so that you don't have people with your bodily odors.

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So, the sooner number one on Juma is to have a bath to bathe or to bath on Friday to apply perfume. This is for the males to apply.

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Use oil and perfume that's available to you have.

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The next one is to not sit between two people not to these two people might be friends have come together. Don't separate between two

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two people but see where is where there is an available spot.

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Also to listen or to offer he said and to offer the prayer to have to offer the prayer here is the hidden message. So when you come to the masjid on Friday, even if the Imam is giving the hook back, even if the Imam is giving the sermon, do not sit down until you have prayed to the heart of sin. One day a man entered the masjid and the prophet SAW Selim was given the hook back and he sat down. The professor selling sitting home, he commanded him to stand up and to pray to the cart.

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So the sooner is to not sit down until you've prayed some people what they do. They wait until the second hotbed of the Eman And then when he says akuto Cody Heather was that effect, then they stand up and then they continue.

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They pray to the crowd. This is not the sooner you see this in many massages. The sooner is when you come to the machine to pray to your cart, and then to sit down

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and to print the hidden message. So here this hadith is telling us this and in this hadith to also listen,

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to listen, to keep to keep silent, to keep quiet.

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And listen attentively not only to hear the man but to listen to the

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listen learn 52 jamas A ye 52 lessons. And if you listen attentively, you might learn a thing or two.

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It might increase your Eman it might, you know give you an Amen rush. Or it may benefit you in one way or another something that you've missed. It is not even allowed. It is not allowed to say to the person who might be talking or distracting the drama keep silent, be quiet. You can do this even he was you will reduce the reward. For those who maybe have to

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that need things done.

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Then maybe you can before the Juma teach the miners teach the kids who are under the age of puberty, to fiddle and to do those things that need to be done whether it's a microphone, whether it's volume, whether it's you know attending some matter that's related to the congregation, get the minus to do something to think about inshallah to Allah. So and what's the reward if you do all this? The prophet SAW Selim said whoever does all of this, the sins that he committed between one Juma between that Juma and the previous Juma, the prophet SAW Selim, he said, who fear Allah who Medina who were baina al Jamal O'Hara between that Jamal which is could be the previous or could be

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the letter Gemma and also Katana is best.

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Also, we have another Hadith related to sitting which is found in certain AB Deadwood.

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And it is the hadith of who they felt ignored by a man or their loved one who under Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Liana Mandela sir was called halka

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Liana monjasa was

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that the prophet who said Whoever takes seat at the, in the midst of an assembly has been cursed by the Messenger of Allah saw sell. The Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam curses The one who sits in the middle of people's circle. And the Hadith is when a Buddha would say you know, sometimes you might be sitting around in a circle.

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You are not allowed to sit in the middle of the circle, sit at the end of the circle, but don't sit within the circle

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and there is a curse.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has stated must, it's a major issue. It's not something to be taken lightly. So don't see if if you see children in a circle and someone sitting in the middle. This is not from the teachings of Islam is against that. And in the hadith of Poseidon, a loved one who I heard the Messenger of Allah Azza wa sallam saying, the best assemblies are those in which people make room for one another. Make room. Be considerate. Think about your Muslim brothers and sisters who were in that gathering, whether it be a lecture, whether it be Friday prayer, whether it be a lesson, be considerate, and think of others always in shallow talent.

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We also have what's known as a photo to the matchless, when you leave a gathering, if you were sitting down, for example, and socializing and talking about the dunya, and this and now that sometimes we say some things that are wrong, we might have spoken about somebody.

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There is a

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dog, or a Sunnah, or a hadith that you say before you leave that gathering that will

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expiate that will wipe away the sins of that gathering. And it's the hadith of Abu huraira della one that we find in Suzanna Timothy, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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he said to say, before you leave that mejlis before you leave that gathering, to say so panic Allahu morbihan dig a shadow Allah Illa Illa and estar fuuka were to boo la again, so Kanika locomobi handig a shadow Allah, Allah Allah and a stack of heruka what to do he like the poster cell and he said the whole fella McKenna female fishy Daddy, if you say that, that you will have forgiven what was said in that in that matchless from of course this is referring to the minor scenes, not the major sins because major sins have their own specific conditions.

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The last Hadith that I want to mention that mmm now we Rahim Allah tala included is the hadith of Abu hora de la one that we find in certain activity. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, whenever a group of people sit in a gathering, in which they do not remember Allah, the Exalted, nor supplicate to elevate the rank of their Prophet, such a gathering will be a cause of grief to them, if Allah wills who will punish them, and if Allah wills He will forgive them. So again, in any gathering, make sure you mentioned a lot as much as name. Make sure you say Al Hamdulillah make sure you say well Salatu was Salam. O Allah Rasool Allah, Allah who tyla Island, wa sallahu wa salam o

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about a garden of Vienna Mohamed is that kumala heylen Salam alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh