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Smilla Rahmanir Rahim Al hamdu lillah wa Salatu was Salam ala Rasulillah divided early levels of being a woman with their brothers and sisters in Islam, a cinematic morphological, but
also around the world who are listening on FB Live and I was very welcome and my husband can enlighten me with us knowledge and wisdom, and accept this promise in this world and the next, Brothers and Sisters in Islam. Continuing from where we left off last week.
So the debates between Elise and ALLAH SubhanA wa began. For a bliss it was more of an argumentation for Allah subhanho wa taala. It was a heart of an anger and the wrath upon bliss, because bliss.
He defied Allah directly, knowingly, knowingly and with absolute knowledge. He saw the angels he was among the angels, although he was among the he was from the creation of the gin. So then anyone confused the bliss to be an angel. He was from the gin, but almost kind of data rose into a high status because of his
good actions and good faith. But when Allah created,
there was an atom worth of disease in at least his heart, which now was going to be manifested is going to show
and this is what Allah does, in tests us in different ways, not because he doesn't know. But because, number one, he is fair and just.
And secondly, so that we do not have an argument against him some kind of a god.
For last one hour, Taha
says that you deserve paradise and he or she deserves hellfire.
On what basis? Allah is fair.
So he made it at least go through this trial.
And to bring out
these diseases is what she has to work on.
A little note, I want to make each other to say last week.
Brothers and sisters,
when do you develop and become better?
When do you rise?
And become a better person?
Is that when you don't have any faults in life?
Is it when you don't see?
It's not when you rise?
Is it when people don't see your bad habits?
So long as no one can catch it.
Brothers, sisters, you only rise.
When you reflect on your own better habits yourself, you no one else. Or if someone points them out.
You take it on board.
You reflect on your own bad things.
You admit it to yourself, and you admit it to Allah.
And you say to yourself, I have this bad thing. And I need to work on and then you work on developing.
That's why I say as a teacher students, when they do stake, they say Oh, this teacher got me in trouble. Now. I don't know what
they didn't get you in trouble. Look at yourself, what did you do? Until you can look at your own mistake.
Then I say to you, you have to own your mistake. If you make a mistake owner.
Nobody can say anything to you after their own your mistake. What else are they going to say? But surely this is
wrong? What else are they going to do? You and your mistake now you deal with it yourself? At least in his mistake, he decided to argue with the Creator of the universe, Allah the King of all kings.
So now, at least he got jealous of Adam.
And he said, Oh my Lord, let me live until the last hour.
He said let me live until the Day of Judgment. Allah said you will live up to the last hour, you will die like everyone else.
Some people think that Allah live a bliss
so that he can manipulate us or test us with you or to lead us astray. Or to whisper to us
Some people say that if a police didn't exist or shaitan didn't exist, we would be much better off we would have seen
some people they blame it on the shutdown and the police when I did the rock, the shaitan might be the rock is what children say, right? He made me do it. She made me do it. It's not my fault that I thought we spent too many.
Brothers and sisters, ALLAH SubhanA wa Tala did not leave the bliss of the shaitan. to whisper to us, he did not leave them on this earth. To test us with them. No.
It's irrelevant. The Djinn other exams by themselves, the user by themselves.
They by themselves, at least was copying his own consequence. And Allah said, Okay, I'll let you live into the last hour. Allah Subhana Allah wants to make the pain worse than a bliss, that you're gonna get everything. Okay? Take what you want, you're gonna live until that long take all of it. What's worse, when you have nothing to lose, or when you have everything to lose, which one's worse?
When you have everything to lose, so Allah was the given this sacred loser. Second link, Allah subhanaw taala knows that this human being is going to make the bliss suffer, we are going to make the shaitan suffer himself hell, the Shavon noses in the rock, and he thinks that this son of Adam, us, we're all going to go to hellfire. But he also knows that there are some of us who are so sincere and will be able to correct us silly whispers. So Allah, Allah also, with his wisdom, wants to
make me suffer more. By making the human being even rise higher. See, the human beings already caught desires and temptations. That's what whispers to us the shaitan what does he do?
He comes and whispers, but any other person.
If it wasn't the Shetlands going to be your friend. If it's not your friend, it's going to be someone who's going to be the TV, it's going to be the social media, it's going to be a school, it's going to be at work, it's going to be on your holiday, everyone's gonna whisper to you.
And I can tell you that the human being is worse a voice for the machete or who knows why the human being is worse than the shutdown in whispering to you. Because when the shutdown comes to you, you can say lots of words that make it go away. Like if you say that, then he he runs away, the Hadith says that he runs away while passing.
If you say oh, the bIllahi min ash shaytaan the regime.
He goes away, you read Quran and it goes away comes back, but the human being
all the way down to shutdown regime is still there. He's not gonna go anywhere you make the event is still there. The human being is worse as a whisper than they should.
So please, my brothers and sisters did not ever think that he was left on Earth in order to whisper to us and other wisdom was the other foot. But he can whisper. However, his whispering is very weak. The only thing that he does is that he gives you ideas so that your own desires, your own desires can react. He doesn't come and bring you the woman to your doorstep and say, Hey, humans Zina, or the alcohol do those who drink alcohol. And he just whispers Look there. Look here. Look at that. That sounds good. Or this person bullied you. I'm sorry, they teased you because your Mr. And certainly creates an hour. And he is right. He teased me. So therefore
it makes him feel that you shouldn't show your personality. What makes a good shot. What the Showtime did was it just whispered thoughts into there just thought think of it as bad thoughts. And that's it. And now, the prophet some of us send them was approached by his companions.
They said the Rasul Allah, we sometimes get really bad thoughts, that if we were to tell you what these thoughts are, we would rather you burn us in the fire would rather burn alive than to tell you what we're thinking, bad whispers the companions.
Suppose I sent him he got happy. He said, What did you do? And then can you really feel that? I said, Yes. He said, hamdulillah in the case of shaytani, that was missing. And how did he learn? Thanks to Allah and gratitude, that he reduced
the ability of the shaitan to me whispers that's all he can do. Are you accountable for the bad thoughts? No.
You are not accountable for your bad thoughts until when?
Until you act upon you act upon them with your mouth
or with your neighbors, your desires.
So bad thoughts come and go. We are not held accountable until we put them into action.
My Brothers and Sisters in Islam.
There's also the diseases of the heart. That's actually when I carry grudges and hatred and enmity towards someone whom Allah subhanaw taala told me not to. That's also an action you will be held accountable for that.
thoughts that go through your head, like, let's say, look at someone and you just didn't like their face and you swore at them in your head, then then you stop there. So long as it doesn't become part of your heart. You hold it in there against this person when you shouldn't have, then you're okay.
So hating someone has to have a proper reason which I lost my brother has told us about that's another whole lecture. Anyway, if he's hated Adam, for his personal reasons, and that is nothing other than
Allah made him look like he was of a high position because he said, prostrate.
But it's not about the frustration. He was about Allah's order, which Allah
so the bliss, he said to him, to Allah, what is that the cover? generika love, we are no measurement.
Oh Allah, I swear an oath by your glory and your mind
that I will lead all of them astray.
Why would I believe the enemy of Allah Allah still swear by his glory that his mind is acknowledging Allah's glory of mind. What's up with that? The Bliss is wearing out by Allah's glory in his mind, knowing that he's being rude and bold in promising Allah that He will make sure he will step up all of Adam and all of his children till the end of time.
But firstly, you see, at least is too terrified to threaten Allah. He's too terrified to up to threaten Allah. So what does he do?
Because of listeners, he cannot do anything if Allah decides to stop him.
How will he be able to carry out his evil actions
without crossing the line?
By threatening Allah, he doesn't want to cross the line, but at the same time, he wants to love to give him what he wants.
You see, when it is said, by your glory,
it means by your glory, it was because of your armor. This glory that you have, is the thing
that made the children of Adam have free will.
Allah has greatness and glory, that Britain is the glory, His armor, is the reason why Allah gave us free choice because free choice is a gift.
Allah is so glorified,
that he doesn't need
to make you a robot to worship. He doesn't need that does Allah need you to worship Him? Therefore he didn't make you a robot forced to worshipping. Why? Because Allah doesn't need your worship.
Because he is a ravine, he is self sufficient, he is glorified as a native.
Now companies knew that he knows that Allah is glorified. He is self sufficient. He doesn't need anyone to worship him. So he wanted to use a pathway away with Allah, Allah will accept for him to give him his grace. So he said, Oh Allah by that glory that you have, and self sufficiency that you have. In other words, oh, Allah, the fact that he gave him free choice. The fact that you gave him free choice, I will go and LinkedIn Australia.
So it's not a threat. It's just a saying, oh, Allah, look, you know, you gave them free choice because you're so glorified. Well, I'm going to use that pathway to lead in Australia.
Because they have free choice. Now they can listen to me or not to. So I am going to show you, I believe, demonstrate, and I will show you that this piece of rubbish. That's what he's saying, I will share this piece of rubbish Adam is below me. And then his children would never deserving of entering paradise of being in this position about me.
That's what this is saying to Allah. And that's the omission of a place until the end of time. That's it. That's why this is here for that's all he wants to do.
There is a narration I'm not sure if it's authentic, I think it's more weak but it's been said in a bookstore in Medellin Lehi was called as they said that at least at the time of Musa Moses Valley is at least came to Moses and said,
Allah is merciful, said yes, it is forgiven. He said yes. He said to him, ask Allah if he will still forgiving, you know, at least he knows that he's going to help so just ask Allah if you'll forgive.
And in that resignation, it says that at least ask Allah because he spoke to a lot directly and Allah's Mandela said to him, the meeting is correct. He said to him, I will forgive him if he goes to the grave of Adam and prostrates to
he has to fix what he did wrong.
But he wants to get out of the gun. Crosstrek and Adam said, and he said 1000s of years ago, I didn't do it. Now. I'm gonna do it after he's dead when he was alive, but they didn't do it. Now that he's dead, this is even more humiliation. So he got angry and he kept going. If the narration is authentic, it makes sense. And if it's not the me
He needs to correct the meanings to correct that Allah subhanaw taala will not change the state of the people until they change the state that is within himself. You cannot say also SLM said, a person says Allah, Allah give me this give me that. Oh Allah Oh ALLAH that is nourishment is from haram. His clothes is from haram. He is living on haram. How would Allah accept his dog?
It means that some people they want to short circuit their way to China. You can't you have to go. There's only one way. Look at your sins, figure out what problem which you know, work on yourself. Don't sit there say Allahu Rahim. Allah forgives everything. And I continue to do my sins openly. I continue to drink I'd continue to never pray. I continue to not fast I continue to follow around left, right and center knowing that I say One day I'll do my house. When I'm 60 years old, Allah is before it doesn't matter. Or I'll do 100 Next year, all my sins, okay? It doesn't work that way. Brothers and sisters, you cannot try Allah and you cannot trick. That's the trick of at least it
didn't work for him and he won't work for us. Yes, if you turn to Allah and ask him for forgiveness, Allah will forgive you. But you have to yield in sincerity. And today we're going to see the way add repent to Allah and compare it to the way it believes.
turned against. We're going to look at the difference between Allah making at least an outcast. And the difference between making Adam and her work come down to the earth. What is the difference?
My Brothers and Sisters in Islam
IBLEES said, except the few among Your servants who are sincere and pure.
Allah said, those you will not be able to touch but then Allah says filehub one hotcopper Cole is said, this is the truth. And only I only speak the truth. Let me Latin Naja Hanuman, new Kiwami Meltemi of our community,
I will certainly feel Johanna with you. And with all those among them who follow you.
Allah doesn't need at least to tell Allah doesn't care that at least, you know, he's gonna whisper and some of them are gonna follow him into jahannam. Allah says, I'll just feel you and your followers in general, if that's what human they want, when you think it affects me.
I want my true servants I don't want those my true servants who decide to worship
these are the ones that I will one and the others, but only two kids.
Allah is gonna gonna sit, please go ahead.
And he can even my Diaz said, go and use their families and use their wealth and use their cattle or cattle and their livestock and the horses and their cars and their crops, use their children against them, go, go and do whatever you can.
My sincere service, you will not be able to reach them.
A sincere servant to someone when you and I argue and get upset with each other.
And we get angry at each other for personal reasons.
And then he says to me, brother, let's remember. And I hug him and he has been we kissed each other on the forehead and we forgive each other. The Shaitan runs away. That's a sincere person, a sincere person who when he is said to him, or she said to her, you have wronged you did a mistake. They admit their mistake and say it in public if it was done in public. Yes, I've heard
I will not hold accountability foundation. Yes, I've heard not ego, not an ego.
God SubhanAllah. Some people that ego is so great
that they would write it on once and got angry, this person was so much ego I said, Man, if I want to kill myself,
I'll just climb up your ego and jump down to your IQ level.
That's a better than to do that. But some people that deserve them. And the ego is so great. When I hear that.
This was in when I was in high school, I said to somebody
the point is this bliss had a great ego. And truly people who have a high ego the culture had incorrect ignorance. So the IQ level is low. Even if the IQ level is higher, there's still ignorant and ignorant person who's one who doesn't either doesn't know information or anything. A person doesn't know how to apply information. An ignorant person is one who has no wisdom, who has no morals, no values, or knows what the values of a doesn't go by. This is called the jab. He has no intelligence. So that's what it is.
So what was one of the data that said to at least for for Jimena in oncology. Get out of it. You are an outcast
get out of what the bliss had a read with the angels a special position Allahu Allah that position was this different durations about what he did bookkeeper, I don't know what he did. And all those kind of data took him out of his position. His Reiki no longer deserved that. He demoted him
be told them you are not just demoted, you are an outcast, you are nowhere to be near. All of these are Jana and the failures and the hustle nerve and the righteous people and the ranks you're out out, outcast. And as you know
one of the tricks of the shaitan is to promise you things that will not happen. He makes you afraid of poverty, for example, in the future, when there's nothing wrong with you right now. And then says to you, you're gonna get poor, so go and get interest, go and steal, go and dealing drugs, go and do haram.
How does he do it? He whispers, the idle common factor, Allah says, A shaitan either my father he makes you afraid that you will come into poverty where Moodle may shut? And then he starts to command and you
were doing indecent things. Command means that when you submit this and yes, yes, this fear, I'm going to get over it, I'm going to then the shutdown command you don't even have to it doesn't even have to try it will tell you go and you're gonna do it. So be aware of these whispers of Allah says, In other words,
he is your enemy. Allah says to the Children of Adam, so take him as an enemy. Don't sit there knowing that God is your enemy. Don't ever think of him as a hero, or a good being or anything like the inner one who will look after people who are
an enemy is somebody who knows. And no matter what you say to them, you will never work because they know they're deliberately doing that to
brothers, the sisters in Islam.
So, I wrote an important note note he also want to say that and listen and move on.
He was blaming Allah for his failure.
What was he doing? Blaming Allah for his failure, even though Allah Amelie ordered him to do what was quite normal, for ablaze and the angels to do when you're in this rank, to fire or to get the prostrates mobile for you.
But at least his inner hypocrisy was exposed by this test.
So because of his own failure, which made him lose everything,
he couldn't accept it.
Especially because of a so called low life like Adam.
Instead of earning his wrongs and repenting, he boasted with pride, and blamed his failure on Allah.
Then a bliss realizes that he made himself look like an ungrateful piece of rubbish.
He made it his life's mission to prove that the circle special creation, the humans are an ungrateful, thankless and disloyal creature of a man.
And that this Adam never had the right to deserve a superior position to his.
That's the whole story of the bliss, if you want to note, that's it.
In relation to him being an outcast and why he did well, now let's move on.
IBLEES turned to Adam, and knew that Adam was going to enter paradise. So he got even angrier he turned to Allah and said, Look, here, you
are visible to Allah. But take a
look here you see this
person, this rubbish you put over me, I shall uproot them and destroy them.
And all of this is because of hate and vengeance. They are nothing but the truth of the shape of x is the sort of stay away from stay away from eight. Vengeance, jealousy, pride, arrogance, and holding grudges for two.
Brothers and sisters. When you forgive someone, you are not forgiving that person because they deserve it. Sometimes they do. Sometimes they don't. When you forgive, it means that you are taking the burden off your chest. It's playing itself. So you can think straight this other person is laughing, gone to sleep and happy moving on in their life and every night you can't sleep because it can't forgive. Forgiving means letting go
of the past or letting go of the hope that you can change the past is gone. What do we do?
There is Allah
Allah subhana wa Tada will hold everyone to every statement and action they did in secret anyway.
Is there anything better for you than to say what you gotta hear? My name is Salim said Hasley Allah, whenever not.
always the best to rely on. You guys have finished if you're going to leave it to Allah. There was one of the greatest one one great
Has criticism, Greg Scott in the past who said, Well, no, I do not fear anyone more than listen carefully. I do not fear anyone more than a week, a week, poor, powerless person, weak, poor, powerless person who has no support from anybody who I wrong, I do something wrong to him. And all he says is this
has to be Allah.
Allah is enough. This is what Allah has to do not fear the word of anybody more than that powerless, poor
person who says to me when I wronged him on what is enough,
like Shiva counseling, that's when you should be afraid of
the victim when we are oppressed.
Now, it was one of the highlight in the Quran changes the scenario from talking about the bliss and who what he did, and suddenly says something remarkable. He says, what
was gone. There was a moment okay.
Rather than defining associate associates, you
wanna dump more on the show's over the
long haul, maybe.
Let's listen to it. And we said, live in the garden, you and your wife, you and her
and your wife, and it's abundantly of whatever you wish that did not approach this tree
or else you will be counted among the wrongdoers.
What's remarkable about this verse, is that right up to this point, no way, the whole story of Adam and the bliss and the angel and the creation has Allah subhanaw taala mentioned once the wife of Allah.
This is the first verse that we hear Allah Subhana Allah mentioned in his wife.
Now please listen carefully.
Allah did not say wife in we just say why can you Is there such thing as husband and wife in Arabic? In the Quran, Allah says Zoey certainly has one that the husband has called Xhosa. And the wife has called
what is Arabic?
Xhosa. Xhosa? And what? Xhosa? No, this is the modern day
clinical slam that we use. We say Xhosa female actually they're both in the masculine term zone wish for the man and zone for the moment exactly the same. Now, exactly the same. The Robber says What could I have done was gone and that was that was Yuka he didn't say because we know Arabic was rejecting
it so Jameson Xhosa to cap but he says we're so zuka and which means it's a masculine.
Does that mean a B is
not a female? Do we not believe in transmissible? It's not transgender not the Arabic word Zoes means
it's a generalist thing. But what it means is a creature
that has to have another pet.
because cold zone, which means a pair of dot dot dot fill in the blanks. That's what it means zone. When you say zone there has to be a partner to it.
That is opposite and completes it and fits together with it and is compatible with it.
Brothers and sisters, Allah says in the Quran,
we have created everything in this universe in pairs in Xhosa.
Which means the positive and the negative, the protons and the neutrons. Everything has its opposite. That's how the world functions. Otherwise, if you don't have an opposite, nothing will exist. Everything in creation has an opposite.
And the human being are in opposites. Allah said those were called an otter or wherever was going and there was
this another question Why all of a sudden Allah introduces the wife but doesn't say where she was created from.
Nowhere in the Quran doesn't tell us where her where Eve was created from your name is how well
what means something that you lean towards?
Something that accommodates you, you lean towards attracts you, you find your peace
And sanctuary and tranquility.
That's what how weapons
added from the earth.
Well, if you just go by the Quran, you will understand
that by this verse alone, what was created also from clay like in like Adam in the same way her own creation, but she was created as a painter.
So Adam straight from clay first then she was created from clay. Second.
A lot of people assume that her work was created from Adams body.
And other scholars interpret that a hadith and the verses of the Quran to me that she was created from Adam's body and others they say she was created from the rebellion of Adam and Eve.
There is a verse in the Quran which say, which says, Yeah, you're not suited for a black woman. That is a lot of them enough see why people feel your Lord who has created you from a single person's knifes will have come in has agenda and created from it. It's paid for itself.
Honestly, this is a difficult one for
all of them have a valid point. Those who say that her work was created from Adam's body is valid, because the verse says encouraged from a single soul and from it he creates
meaningful work because Adams the first others, they said no. In Arabic, it also makes sense when you you can say something was created directly from something or you can say something was created from something meaning from its same,
from the same source.
Right. That's what Allah says, he brought to you profits from yourselves, not meaning from your own bodies, but from a money like you meaning like you humans, from the same place you guys came from. So the scholar said, however, was created from the same source that Adam was created from, but after that's valid. The other interpretation, which is the traditional interpretation, most of the scholars of the past said this, she was created from Adam's body, hell, we don't know, but from him, so she is actually taken from him. And therefore they are from each other. They belong to each other. They're part of each other.
As for the one where they say she was created from his rib, this Mighty Brothers and sisters, the correct opinion is that it is false.
There is no and I have done research at least until I killed him, as far as I know, and listen to many scholars about this past and present. And what appears in humid in there is that all the narrations about Hawaii are being created from the river of Adam, are not authentic, they cannot be relied upon.
The only Hadith which is authentic in Bukhari and Muslim and it's authentic, is the prophets of Allah said never sin. And I think this is where the problem is. people misinterpret this. Especially people have stereotypes people come from particular cultures.
Commandment especially. And I'll tell you
this hadith just because problematic or so somebody was selling from America to understand and he said
to the men, he stole so many visa behavior.
Treat your women with goodness
forego the mistakes,
don't hold on to everything she says and does. Let go.
He says to the man more often to let go than what he says to the woman.
That was whose Allah and Allah addresses the man Adam himself in the Quran, more than what he addresses, however, for the responsibility of not eating from the tree, and for the responsibility of not listening to the shaitan wire, Adam is to be the leader and however will support you that you will have to also advise him
to support him in what advice and we're going to come to that soon.
So Allah also advises the man
to treat his wife and sisters and mother daughters with goodness and be patient with their shortcuts. Why? He said
for in Hoonah Holika naman Lilla they were created
In English, as soon as you say ribbon, it loses every meaning that was in Arabic.
Because English is a
Arabic is quite surface like Arabic is very rich in me,
then also sallam said
and he referred to the head, meaning the brain.
And then he says must also be misidentified. So I urge you to treat women well. In other words, don't judge them. Don't patronize them. Don't teach them. Don't mock them. Don't hurt them. Don't hit them. Don't abuse them. Don't take away their rights. You still so when you say hey, you're out which means do extra than your duties.
And assume one of the meaning In another Hadith rasa sallam said that you frequently no movement, no believing man.
It's not possible for a believing man attributed to hate a believing woman in Korea, homina Holika Nadia Mandela, if you hate a particular quality about it, he will love other qualities about it. In other words, look past her faults and look at the goodness that she has. I'll tell you the story. I want to be
very strong man loud voice once the hobbit came to him, I think it was almost and actually I think I may be mistaken. He wanted to go to him to complain to me that what we need about his wife while this man's wife was raising her voice over is too much.
That's all sisters. Not more than that. There weren't glasses, the mirrors and pots and pans flying around. And they weren't swear words in him and his mum and dad and his mother, none of that stuff.
And then when things telling him you're not a man, you're a disgrace. You're a hypocrite. You're a trash, none of this stuff. Nor did the man do that. I will do that. But she raised her voice over his demand became irritated with this and thought what's this? She's always cutting me off by talk. She cuts me off doesn't listen overnight. So he wouldn't I mean, who says yeah, I made no money. And as soon as he approached his house, he heard the wife of a million women in Houma, raising her voice over Hamas. Omar, if he just whispered, hear from me to the end, I'm leaving this room if he whispered on
her voice OVS
Tsongkhapa went out of the house Sunday. Why? So the anger comes on. And when it comes out, it's going to sweet talk.
There's a difference between sweet talking and sucking up.
This is he's just trying to sweet talk, meaning Be patient and be merciful. His wife's car calm down. Then when this man saw horrible football come out like that. The man thought to himself, I bet it just walk away. You turned around, started walking back. I'm gonna pop up since coming and coming. And the man said, now near me when he said, What did you come for? There's nothing nothing.
Because below you're gonna ask for what you can afford. Suppose I have no money, my wife raises her voice that means gone too long. When I approached I just accidentally heard you're doing the same thing. So I thought
if that's happening to you, I've got no hope.
So I mean, what we need sceptical in there as I was with you the masculine.
She is my other half. She is my partner. She is my supporter. She is my pet.
Allah created a form. In other words, I can't live without her. She's much as my support.
Obviously, no fear. She washes my clothes, behind the dynamic. She cooks my meals,
whatever be aware that she raises my children, what our children
what he or she may have given him and she saves me particularly from the fire.
She says me protects me from health.
In other words,
don't worry about that. Look how much Gucci has exactly as across the last sentence that is so so many satisfied now. In the 21st century, we take out the first part, being good to your wives. And the second part so be good to us. And some people whether they do the wind attack Islam or whatever, they bring that one verse, They are like the rebel. And I think that said something remarkable. Brothers and Sisters in Islam. It cannot be understood that the woman is deficient in her intelligence. It cannot be understood that a woman is inferior to the man. It cannot mean that the woman is weaker in everything she is weaker in something stronger in us men are weaker than them and
something stronger than me has
all the AR to knock out all that had his pasar syndrome prove otherwise. And certainly history proves many women became more intelligent than many men and surpass them in many ways. However, what does it mean?
Many scholars including Shizen and Vanny, who I follow for when it comes to analyze and Hadith I believe is one of the
most forefront, scholars of Hadith today. Now time for us to work with a lady and he said this hadith is a metaphor kina
In Arabic ladies to use this. And what it means is she leans towards things that men don't lean towards.
While she leaned towards them, because of stronger emotions in her, then demands emotions. And you might say, but a man who has emotions, I've seen men get angry specials. True, that's an exception. We've also seen women's Smashbox. That's an exception. We're talking about the normal instinctive behavior that men and women were born without any interference from.
The natural brain structure, anatomical structure of the neurological structure of the brain, or both the men and a woman biologically are different in more than 400 to 100 ways. Scientific studies have shown this today,
the women use in their brain, more parts of it than the men at one time.
What a study showed is that numerous studies about the brain is still in debate right now, as well from Princeton University. It says that the women use the right and left side of their brains simultaneously together.
Men use more of
the front and back, and women this way, which means they said, This is evidenced by the fact that women are better at basing a decision on analytical left part of the brain, as well as intuitive, right part of the brain grounds. Intuitive can also also means emotions, creativity.
Men in general are not as creative as women are not as emotional as women. They are emotional, but they are shown as much as
men, they said, have a larger brain, they have a larger brain of about 8%. And every part of their brain is used but not together. The women have a network, they use it all at once. So therefore, it's complex. What does this mean? It means that there are interferences when she is acting thinking,
more complex, but interferences with what the emotional side
why this is her nature, which makes her perfect
in raising children.
looking after the internal affairs of a home that the husband doesn't know about,
in being creative with new ideas, making life more colorful and enjoyable.
If she chooses to do that she's the best.
What is the man who does more calculative strategic actions. That's one of the better at motor skills, skiing, betting,
sports, anything. This is scientific studies show. And that's not every man. And that's not every woman. It means the majority.
My Brothers and Sisters in Islam, since the woman
uses both sides of her brain, her logic is just as good advanced logic, just as intelligent as men, just as calculative as men, except her most emotive part is stronger in her thinking process in her brain than the minutes.
For this reason, he was also upset and said she is like a biller, which means Oh men, what's he telling the men
instead of judging her,
motivate her. She needs motivation.
You need to accept her the way she is she will not be molded to what you think is strict. Because she's meant to wiggle around and wiggle around. It's best that she's meant to be creative. She doesn't think like you.
So we need to understand that nature of women.
And women need to understand the nature of a man. If a man tells you sister,
when you say what are you thinking about? And he's just sitting there? And he says to you nothing.
It means nothing.
That's all it means means.
Her brain can't accept that.
We women are not like we were always thinking that sometimes. No. That is impossible. You have to be thinking about something isn't my dress. Isn't my cooking.
Isn't my job. Is it my dogs?
Is there another one? Is it what? What lamb is nothing
this funny guy talking about men having thinking like boxes, the principle of boxes the box of money in the box of firing in a box of rest in the box of whatever and then there's one box which women don't have it's called the empty box it's got
men sometimes they sit there for about 15 minutes thinking about nothing will not be done
so my brothers and sisters in Islam there is a big difference between the way men think and women think and Allah subhanaw taala is merely leading us to the fact that listen, women are that way and men are this way Do not judge them put them down and women do not judge and put down on your husband so that your men you are supportive of one another I lost my dad I said wouldn't believe so Nico will ultimately vessel you are men, you men, your wives
are like clothing to you, they make you and support you and decorate you and protect you and
cover your sins for you and comfort you like and you are men
like that to them as well. Used to coat them close them
as in like you your your behavior, you You cover their habits you decorate them, you protect them, you give them warmth. Allah says let the school know
so that you may find tranquility and peace
my brothers and sisters I warn you from being stereotypical once you know this, the problem is that when we say that women are like that, and we say our means they're inferior to the man.
Without them you cannot be anything. The only thing that and women coming from government the only thing I'm not gay men is a responsibility called Leadership and it doesn't get pregnant and doesn't breastfeed a woman gets pregnant breastfeed and in those situations brothers sisters, when she gets she gives birth during the menstrual cycle and also send them said they lack they lack in
often and then he said they lack in something called Auto and they let him do what is optimum what is the
literally means the brain but that's what it normally means it means to
stick with something and not move away from it.
a woman as also as as an upset that her attorney
will actually set her up and as a scientist it is affected by the emotive side, the emotional side of cat pipes.
And therefore, at times, you need to be patient in her thought process.
The means that she she there are times when she is not allowed to pray or fast such as going to miss Royce was menstrual cycle. And when she gives birth in person which is postnatal, postnatal bleeding. In that time, she's not going to pray or fast, therefore, not consult with the means. That doesn't mean the deficient in their religion, their lesser faith, it means that they don't get to do certain actions of worship at certain times, whereas men must do it all the time.
It's just the nature that I was going to create an interview.
So in that time, sisters, it's a time for you to increase in your physical
and nurturing your children and let me tell you something. In this day and age, we have a lot of people who look down upon motherhood. I say to you, the greatest good that a mother can ever do
is to raise a human being
you know how heavy that weight is.
The greatest good you can do is to raise a living breathing human being
and that is why the mother earned the title
that if you serve her
you'll find paradise
or Gaga but
now she does no longer fulfills that response and wants to become more like a man for example in a man's world and avoid the motherhood and look down upon motherhood where's the title God
the title was placed for you because of that noble unbelievable position.
We can't do it better than your sisters because
what can we come
with you I can't none of us can.
So one of the sisters respect and honor what I was going to credit you with anything extra that you can do a system becomes more intelligent in something that she never thought she can do. She programs more skills and she never she thought you can ever do a man thought you could ever do. Yes, she can probably surpass me, but enjoy
Under the current state, this is the instinctive nature of minutes. So I hope to share a law that explains that a little bit, however, was not created from Evans ryburn It could be that she was created from Adam's body. And so we became his or she was created from the same origin of Adam, after Adam which is clear, because Allah says He created Adam and then he said, he created a house creative means originally.
So Allah then said to them, Go you and your spouse into paradise. Now Jana here the scholar said, which gentleman is it? Is it the gentleman that we're going to inshallah the believers are promised? But those or is it a different gentleman gentleman's garden?
Which garden and Allah created a different garden? Allah, Allah has fixed, some scholars said it is the actual data we're going to Inshallah, if Allah is gonna die that sets us and the majority of them said, it is a different garden altogether. Why? Because Allah has chosen, you can never been forbidden from anything in it.
But Allah forbade them in her work from doing work from eating from a particular tree. What was this tree? We don't know. It is the Bible that the Christians who say it was an apple. It was them who said a serpent a snake that whispered to them, it is then we said that it is them who said the Jews and Christians that Eve is the one way who manipulated Adam or caused him to eat from the tree and is available Muslims, we reject that completely.
How were did not entice Adam nor was she the cause for him entering, eating from the tree and disobey Allah. What is my evidence?
Throughout the Quran, Allah subhanho wa Taala addresses AD
AD and after the eight from it he
add ads always add them as another when we say haha
did they benefit from the truth? Yes, who did Allah blank
verbally? Mostly ad and then in other verses EN LA Times both of them in the same way?
So some versus other other verses together? But he never says for what your wife you search.
Nor is there any Hadith from across wa salah, which proves that for what was the one who enticed to add them to eat from Israel,
no Hadith whatsoever. There is a Hadith where which is authentic that people have misinterpreted. Again, what is the Hadith one, one authentically, also as salam said, Lola, her work simplifying this hadith if it wasn't for her work, no female would wrong her husband.
What is the mother? Adam is the father. We inherit from our fathers and we inherit from our mothers. The genes and DNA of the father and mother get passed on to us service some of their characteristics and habits. Is that true or not? This is a this is a fact in science as well. How were her daughters meaning women to the end of time, inherited something from what is one weakness. And the men inherited a weakness from their father actually many weaknesses they did but one of the weaknesses early women in Well, women in general, not every single woman inherited from from her work is this. He said,
When Adam ate from the tree, when Elena ate from the tree, Adam had forgotten the Command of Allah not to eat. It was like a long time since I was 40 years. He forgot. He literally forgot the command. Why did he forget? Because at least kept whispering and whispering and whispering and whispering and what did he do? He said your board did not prevent you from eating from this tree. Except because there is a secret and the secret is that you will become angels or you will live for eternity. Eternity.
Now Allah was meant to work great, Adam, why
on earth didn't he say to the angels I'm going to place on earth. A new creature. What do you put him in heaven? I'm not going to put him in general because he's fair and just he just wants to show His justice that Adam when he was gonna go down anyway, Allah wants to show his tennis as well. That look for reason I put him under is because he's not able to remain in paradise for long and they have to live on Earth to develop and learn up here they can't do. So he went
You're going to be sitting on live from eternity you're going to be angels Yeah.
And in the end, cause some of them I started swearing Earth, at least outside will live by Allah, I swear by God, it's the Tree of Eternity it's the tree that will make your angels by God. Now I'm gonna ask you a question. If somebody was never be has never experienced lying before. No one's ever lied to you. You've never lied to anyone you've never witnessed lying. You've never learned to lie. You don't know what life is.
And you are you're going to be able to identify lying when it comes to you know, you're going to be tricked, is that correct? Adam never knew what line is. Especially when at least comes and says what law he never imagined in his life that someone will swear in earth by Allah, even it was a bliss because God is there. That is treason it's got a secret in it that you know you're supposed to eat from it and and what happened is that Subhanallah Adam, fell prey he was weak. Allah says in the Quran
whilst Adam or a battle for God, Adam disobeyed his Lord, and he was led astray.
In another verse, Allah says whenever she never was in it, we didn't find in Adam. A strong willpower
when how well what's the point I want to get to
the shaytaan whispered to Adam first for a long time he didn't listen. And in the end he started to get you started to forget start to get in twice but still he was a bit unsure
so really start to whisper to her well as well Allah says well, what's what's the lemma shape on the shaitan start whispering so first start with that and then start with both of them both of them both of them both of them nothing. And he said to both of them, you're going to become eternal So others have to Adam sent to both of them hoping that maybe her work can help him out. Maybe he will get students by her maybe maybe her were actually did not fall for a business trip. She did not fall for a business trip.
She remembered very well.
And subhanAllah although we don't really rely on the science completely completely on it's always we can always change it. But it studies science today tells us that women are superior to men in remembering details
because of the networking in your brain
so brothers when you're angry when there's a fight happening and conflict with your wife
Shut up. Don't say anything just walk that will make you do and do whatever you go into it and come back after this inshallah everything. What's that word there? Sound Telephone Telephone.
This What is it, this conversation
will be recorded for quality and training purposes, as the wife so be careful, in a good way of saying so Brothers and Sisters in Islam. How we're actually remembered. I guess what she didn't do. She didn't whisper to Adam. She didn't tell him anything.
She did two wrong things. What were the number one?
She did not remind Adam and advise him
is the manner I was following him knew you might insist to have a responsibility towards you asked me to if he does wrong and you know, you must help him straight up. Just like he helps you.
The second wrong she did. She followed him knowing it was a signal. And what does the proximal SLM say? Love autonomy. You might say? No obedience to any creation. If it means disobedience to Allah at the end of the day, she is not Adam slide. He is not a God. And he is not her slave. She's like this guy who is the God, Allah. So when she knew it was wrong, it was also SLM said that she betrayed something she betrayed. What did you betray? She betrayed one of her trusts? What is that? to advise her husband when she knows she is doing?
Both the husband and wife they can this they can be trained on this trust how? If the husband knows his wife is doing wrong, and just goes along with it, he follows her. That's betrayal. when the wife knows her husband is wrong and she follows him. That's betrayal.
So Susanna was saying there is something inherited in women in general, and that is when they get married or they fall in love with a husband. And then what happens to her is that she finds herself wanting to follow more than like she wants him to lead and therefore forgets her responsibility, that she also has a leadership responsibilities when her husband bends, men's barons does something wrong. She also has a responsibility to help them straight up. If he doesn't listen, she doesn't take part. And it's no longer their responsibility. One sister said My husband doesn't pray for us.
What should I do? Leave here? I said, Dr. Chicken says, Here's a segment that make dua for him advising you pray your prayer and leave it for low judgment. Now Brothers and Sisters in Islam, even one brother, he said, Brother, I have three children and I may lose them for divorce. My watch no longer was that he said brother
necessity dictates exception make doctrinaire, stay with her stick with the same because the harms are outweigh the benefit outweigh the the lesser of the two evils. I said.
One brother said to me brother and I married my wife, she didn't have a hegemon. And she put on her hijab later on, you know, when we got religious, and now she's not really comfortable. I say, Brother, you've got to be patient, you've got married on net, you've got to be able to pick the patients. So we have to be patient, and everything's black and white with and advise one another, help one another, support one another. That's the whole idea of my brothers and sisters in Islam. So while they're not enticing, but what she did wrong was not advise him, not remind him. And Allah said, without blaming her work still, because Adam should have been better still. He said, He
The consequence was on who was on perfect. Adam was supposed to be the leader, however, was supposed to remind him and advising when knowing that he was doing wrong. But instead they both died from a tree that was forbidden, what happened to them immediately. And I'll finish it with this. They did not become angels. They did not become an eternal living. One amazing thing happened and I will stop it here and shout over this and explain next week why one amazing thing happened and what's going on to Allah says
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and when they tasted on the tree, their shame became visible to them,
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This is very important to remember if an expert and both began to come began to cover themselves with leaves from the trees of the garden. Then the Lord called up to them there are not forbid you from that tree
and there are not warn you that shutdown is your declared and
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what are you waiting
both cried out a lot. We have wronged ourselves. We have wronged ourselves. If you do not forgive us and do not have mercy on us, we shall surely be an unbeliever
the difference between them when they disobey
and the bliss when he disobey.
is like the difference between the East and the West. Not literally the Eastern people are better than the West. I mean, far distances no comparison. We'll talk about that next week. And the reason that the hour the private password revealed and they started to cover it. It's also a wisdom from next week in sha Allah. We'll start from here and explain these two points and move on to the lightning.
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