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Have the LA SOT slammiversary La La

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La La La La La La La La La La sharika lah Mohammed Abdullah surah salatu salam I

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so today inshallah tada we're going to be talking about Omen mini in the first of the mother of the believers have digital the law. And I wanted to preface it by

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saying that I'm very happy to see that the the men outnumber the sisters tonight. I don't know if there are more behind the mirror the one way glass but share what he had on Wednesday night. He said something that really I found beautiful. And he said that, you know, a lot of times when it comes to talking about a woman, whether it's a historical figure or anything, people, you know, the men automatically assume that it doesn't involve them, or some men think automatically it doesn't involve them even now, up until today, someone was asking me Hey, your program tonight is it for four sisters only are men involved? Right? And it's no Khadija rhodiola has someone who everyone

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deserves to learn about and should learn about and share what it said Eliza just says in the Quran with little Bella method and the Latina Amina and right around. Allah says, Allah strikes an example for those who believe the wife of Pharaoh. And so she was an example for who all of the believers

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in spite of divinity and debate and religion now when she said Oh, my Lord builds for me a house with you in paradise. So Allah struck her example for all of the believers. And he says, well, Madame, if not that I'm Hold on. I let the Asada and Mary as well was also an example for all of the believers. And so Khadija de la Anna, what I wanted to do is not try to paint a picture of her history or a biography. And the reason is, there's not much to be to be said, if you're going to try to, to, you know, draw out this, this, this biography of Khadija, really, there's not much information about her and everything that I've come across. When I looked at books and listen to

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lectures on the topic, I found that they took some thought, or they took some statements, or they took some Heidi. And from that they tried to fill in the blanks. And there's a reason why there's not much information about Khadija Can anybody guess.

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Why is there not a lot of information about how to read the line?

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When did she die?

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She died in Mecca. Right? She died in Makkah. She died in the 10th year after the birth of the profits of the lightest. And so you're talking about, she passed away. She died in the 10th year. So she died 13 years before the profits on the lights and have died. She died three years before the Prophet migrated to Medina. And so she died very early in Islam. She didn't live like many of the companions lived long after the Prophet cellulitis and to sit down to be able to teach people to narrate to people Heidi, so how do you tell the lie ahead, there's not that much information about her. Nonetheless, the the the structure of tonight is, I'm going to be sharing some lessons that

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just popped in my mind when I was reading about this. And I want you as well to be thinking and contemplating and sharing your lessons as well. Because you all know the story of hydrangea. We've all heard the story of Khadija from before. But when we engage the story, and we start trying to to figure out you know how this applies to my life, you come out with beautiful reflections and, and lessons and so the first

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the first reason why I wanted to compile something about hudy just because I felt like I only hear about her from two camps.

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The first is sisters who are approaching a brother for marriage.

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And so she'll say Salaam Alaikum. Brother, I'm doing this Khadija style,

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which is basically saying I'm proposing to you or I'm reaching out to you.

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And the other was by guys who are usually singing a song about how they're looking for a DJ.

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And I was like is this really the only times where you hear a DD being invoked or the olana? Doesn't she deserve more than that?

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And so her de jure or de la have the first thing that popped into my mind with regards to her deja vu is what use have mentioned is that she was a businesswoman. That's what we all know she was a businesswoman. But something beautiful was that she carried herself as a businesswoman in Mexican society with such dignity and such class that she had a nickname

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You guys know what the nickname of the province of Elias enum was right? What was the nickname of the Prophet?

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Don't raise your hand, just yell it out. Aside that, I mean, right. So he had to he was a sergeant. He's the truthful and he is that I mean, he's the trustworthy.

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Heidegger's nickname was a fire,

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the pure

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nature of the law How is the pure and she is the pure in a society in which you know, I shall have the law and how she says about the Muslims of the people of Mecca. She says Locarno woman as a man of foreign law says no local and national law he learned as in Nevada. She said if the first verses in Bahati, she says if the first verses from the Quran were revealed, saying, Don't drink, don't commit fornication and adultery. The people would have responded saying we're never gonna stop. That's how immersed in fornication and adultery they were. I showed the line and bukata. She also describes the different types of relationships that men and women had in Jay hadiah. Right. So they

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were a very open society in that, or to that extent, and yet Khadija was the lion who's dealing with men in business, she's dealing with herself, carrying herself in such a way, where they call her a thought hero.

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The second thing is a digital doula. And he was married twice.

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She was married twice before she met the prophets, the whole idea of send them and both of our husbands passed away during her lifetime.

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And yeah, how do you learn how was still confident?

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The love of a lifetime, being right around the corner.

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You can imagine somebody who by the age of 40, had already been widowed twice as being a person who's very down, very, very depressed.

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Feels like they they've been dealt with unjustly, maybe.

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And yet, we see nothing of that with how do you draw the line how we still see her unbroken, we still see her being a confident person, a dignified person.

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And she Mary's little, little last little law do. You know, there's the there's their story, of course, that most of you have, not all of you have heard about how the prophet SAW the light is and she hired the prophet SAW the light, they send them and the Prophet was a shepherd, and then he became a merchant, and he worked with Khadija or he worked under Hidalgo galana. And she sent him two trips to a sham. And there's, you know, the story of his of her servants, Mei Silva, who went with the prophets of Allah to send them and he, you know, he, he noticed uncanny things about the Prophet sallallaahu send them or how nature responded to the prophet or how the clouds shaded him

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and things like that. There's no you know, those those narrations aren't very strong, and so they can't be taken, you know, as, as you would take other aspects of the CLR. Nonetheless, Heidi gentle the Lionheart, she married the Prophet civili to send them the prophets of the lightest and then proposed at the age of 25. She was 40 years old. Some of the scholars say she wasn't 41 the province level Nyasaland married her she was 28 years old. And the reason why they say that she was 28 and not 40 is they said she gave birth to six children.

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How could it be that she's 40 years old?

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I don't know. I have no idea I'm not. But you have to you have these two positions right? That to her being 28 years old, and her being 40 years old. In either case, the prophet SAW the light SLM was younger than her. And the province on the lightest of them is this noble young man of Quraysh, who anyone would have been happy to marry. And Heidegger on the line is this noble woman of grace, who any of the chiefs of orange would have been happy to marry, and many of them proposed to her. And yet we see that the prophets on the light they have set it up. Nonetheless, he sees in ha deja something beyond simply,

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you know, what a man who's 25 years old would look for. And so you see the wisdom of Khadija, and you see the wisdom of the prophets and the ladies and them. And this also goes against what people say, or what some have accused the prophets level, it is seldom of being a lustful womanizer. If the profits of the light is enormous, this person who's a lustful womanizer would be law, he wouldn't have married a woman who's 15 years older than him. When the prophet SAW or three years older than him when the prophet SAW the lights and Miss 25 he would have been looking for someone much younger than that, right? So the Prophet sallallahu wasallam, he marries, howdy God, Allah. And this also

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shows us you know how digital the Lord had given her this person who's a younger than her a chance.

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And some people don't do that. From the brother side or this is suicide. The sister is six months older than me. I don't know about that. The brother is a year younger than me, that's kind of awkward. No, we see in the end or the families stand against it because of that we see in the seal of the prophets of the light is Allah and his marriage to idea that

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No, this can be the perfect person for this person. But you have to have an open mind and you have to give it a chance. The fourth

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is Khadija delana.

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had six children reset, possibly seven.

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I don't know if I want to test you guys. Does anybody know their names?

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The names of what did I say by raising hands? Save that for school.

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Just yell it out. Go ahead.

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Fatima. That's one

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of the law classes. Okay, awesome.

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Ibrahim, but that's not Aegis

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okay.

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Okay, okay. So now everybody wants to do it.

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Zeno

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uncle soon.

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I think you guys named 12. Non kidding.

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No, that's it. Yeah. That was a bit of a movie named very good. Right. So she named six. Now how many of them died while she was alive?

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No, no. That's why the prophet SAW Selim was alive. What about Khadija Who? Who died while he was alive? I'll pass him and.

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And Abdullah right, I'll pass him and Abdullah. Now what this teaches us

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is that this death of children came to the house of the prophets of Elias. And I knew they said that one third of couples will suffer some sort of miscarriage or stillbirth or have a child die in their infancy. This is something that even though we don't really talk about it when it happens, it's something that affects families, and it affects up to one third of couples.

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And we see in hijo de la Anna, she lost two of her sons within her lifetime. And the prophets a little light, a cinema is tested even more because all of his daughters as well, he outlived all of his daughters, except for Fatima and even faulted my he knew that she was going to die shortly after he passed away and that she would be the first of his family to catch up to him. And so like, what do you think of that?

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Isn't that something that's difficult? And yet howdy Joe Dylan has a faith in Allah. So again, that doesn't waver. It's not shaken by that. You know, the prophet SAW the light to send them he told us that when a

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child of a believer passes away,

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the angels assent to Allah as origin. And Allah asked the angels

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he says, Have you taken the the the child of my slave

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acaba letter for it? They will say yes. And you will say, Did you take the fruit of their heart? Like, did you take their heart? They will say yes. And then he will say a lot as you say Mother car Abdi, what did my slave say? They will say, hammer the car was thorough job, they will say your slave, they said at hamdulillah. What does was storage? I mean?

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They said in Allah who in a theologian, that's what your slave said, you know, and some of you may even have a brother or sister who passed away when you were kids or children, right? That's how much it affects our families. And so the prophet SAW the light his enemy says that Allah has we will ask the angels, and the angels will say this person when you took their heart when you took the fruit of their heart when you took their child, they said at hamdulillah in Allah who are in a rocky road, to Allah we belong, and to Him, we return. And then Allah, as you say, Uber newly added, the beta was a motivated hand, built for my sleeve, a house and call that house the house of praise.

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Because they praise me in this difficult moment of theirs. Then, built for them a house, they call it the house of praise, the Sahaba of the Prophet civili. They said that in Medina was fast forward a little bit to Medina, the Sisters of the companions, they came to the prophet SAW the light, they send them with a complaint. They said, you also the law, the men overpowered us, regarding you, you give them all of your time, we need some private time with you, we need you to come and teach us. And so the prophet SAW the lady I said to them, he told them okay, we're gonna have a class once a week and appointment once a week. And so he made up an appointment with the with the women once a

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week, and the first time he met them. The women asked the Prophet sallallahu to send them and they asked them and they said, O Messenger of Allah, what happens to he said to them, or when he told them, he said, there's no woman who three of her children died, except that they become a shield for her from the hellfire.

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And they said Yato Salalah What about two and the prophet SAW the light is and even two, and so any woman who has three of her children that prepubescent children if they pass away, or even two

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They will be a shield for her from the Hellfire got a job

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or a job or not. And so hurry you're on the line hi last two of her children and she had a face in the lies. That didn't waver. The other thing or the fifth thing that really is powerful with regards to her digital, the lighthouse is allowing your husband to find his place in the world.

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she marries the prophets the lightest send them when he's 25.

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you'd imagine by 30 a person knows what they want out of life, what direction they're headed in, what their goals are, what career they want, all of that.

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At the age of 40, the prophet SAW the light he said love begins to go to or even before that, he would go to the cave of Hira

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eye shadow, the line has telling this story. And she says he used to go to the cave a lot, yet to handle a tub. But he would go to worship.

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However, he knew how to and he didn't know how. But however he was inspired or he could

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he would try to worship Allah xojo.

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And he would do it for days on end,

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even up to a month.

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And then he would go back after being absent for a month he would go back and he would waste his own word limitedly. He would go back to get provision to go back and do it some more.

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Are these are the Lionheart has children?

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She's wealthy? Why is her husband going out into the desert, into a mountain into a cave for days and weeks on end? And then coming back just to get more to go back again. And yet we don't see anything about her the job or the law asking the Prophet Why is he doing that? We don't see anything about her digital the law and telling him not to do that. There are no arguments that happen because of it. She simply facilitates and allows for him to go and find his place in the world. Not only that, but when he sees a or when he experiences something that he can't resolve. An angel comes to him in the cave and squeezes him. It says UCLA and he says Martin oyakata and then squeezes him

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again and says UCLA and he says man a bit buddy I can't read and then squeezes him again, it says a COLA and he says Monica caught it. And then it recites to him versus and he doesn't know what all of this entails and he goes back to his home.

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What happened to you he's frightened. He's disturbed, he's scared. He says the Milan is a Milan he just covered me up.

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And then he recites the Hadith. And he informs Khadija what happened. He's been gone for days and weeks. And this is the person who returns to her. And he says he to identify, it says, I'm like,

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I don't know what's happening to me.

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And then how digital, the lionesses can know a lot. She says no, by law.

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She says, Don't worry a lot as though it is never going to forsake you. And so this brings us to our second point, which is

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when after allowing your spouse to find this place in the world, knowing the best things about your your spouse, and so in their moments of self doubt, you are able to support them with words that are worth their weight in gold. What did the lighthouse say? What did Eliza get inspired by the devil the lion had to say, in those moments, she says, Kenda will lie lay of zikalala whoever that in the colossal Orion, what a miracle. What x sigma Doom was totally a belief, whatever invalid or even help. She says

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never By Allah, Allah will never disgrace you. Why you keep good relations with your kids and your kin. You help the poor and the destitute. You serve your guests generously and assist in the deserving calamity afflicted once she's saying, why would a lot as we get play games with you?

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allies or whatever, say someone like you look at what you do you take care of people who are in need. You maintain your ties of kinship, you support people. You assist those who are in need. You do all of these things. You're not the type that Allah as though Jen would allow to be harmed in that way. But how do you draw the line? She has this great support this pillar of the support of the province, the providers send them her wisdom, her genius is that she doesn't take the Prophet sallallahu sallam, to any of the heads of gray. He doesn't take him to Abuja, I would have come.

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She doesn't take him to the father of wisdom who would later become a Buddha. She doesn't take him to him. She doesn't take him to somebody who's a soothsayer. She doesn't take him to any of those who does she take him to?

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She takes him to what a fine who is

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a person who has knowledge of Revelation and so we see her deja taking him to Revelation

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We see hi DJ introducing the prophets, little ladies. And then the Prophet didn't know these things from before. So she takes him and she's showing us the Hadith of the law and her her awareness and her wisdom, is she recognizing that what the prophet SAW the lady is sending them has his issue, his problem is not going to be solved by anything other than going to a source of true knowledge.

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So she takes him to work. I mean, you know, for the person who had studied Christianity and understood the Bible and wrote it in Hebrew.

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And what have I been, you know, well, here's what the prophet sallallahu wasallam has to say, he hears the experience that the prophet SAW the light and send them describes, and he tells him you have been visited by the same angel that used to visit Musa and he says to him, I wish that I were alive. When your people expel you.

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And the prophets on the license says, I'm afraid you are my people gonna expel me? What are you talking about? As never happened in the history of Arabs ever? People don't get expelled from their own tribe, people fight for that that's your tribe will fight for no reason to defend you. They don't expel their own money do and then what he says to him? Yeah, they will. Because no prophet has ever come with what you've come with Illa od, except that they were

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fought, they made enemies. And then what he says I wish that I had some youth left in me.

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I wish that I could live to see this love salon konasana

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I wish that I had had been alive. I would have supported you with everything I've got.

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And just as a relate, relate to the hook. But today we're talking about supporting the religion of Allah as though you can look at what I mean. You know, what I mean? You know, for the same man, I just wish that I could have lived an extra day in Islam, I wish that I could spend an extra week, an extra month. I wish that I could physically feel alive Give me one more year.

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If I could just have been young again, I would have supported this religion with everything I've got.

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And we're born into this religion and Allah knows how long we have to live in it. You know, we support it with everything that we got, take, take advantage of this advice of what have I been, you know,

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at so hurry God Allah and supporting the prophets the lightest, and them in his moment of self doubt, also,

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of the lessons from Khadija is recognizing good for what it is and being willing to follow it. Irrespective of the crowd. She was the first to believe so he is the first one to believe. And not only that, the prophet SAW the light is synonyms role change, he became the messenger of alized religion. But their relationship changed her ages The only wife of the province the lightest and Lamb who marries Mohammed, Salah ladies and and so she witnesses this transformation, their roles changed where he becomes the Messenger of God, every other woman who married the prophets, little lights Allah marries that also lost the lightest, and they all call him he also de la Khadija

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becomes the woman who calls Him He also a lot. And again, all we see is support and love and care from her digital delana. She even before that something beautiful about Khadija is that she didn't let her being a businesswoman, her being financially successful, her maybe being the person who spends on the house, she didn't let that change the equilibrium of the marriage.

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And that's a challenge for some sisters, when she makes more money than the guy.

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She's more educated than the guy.

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And so in moments of conflict, she kind of just wants to take that jab at them.

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Right? guys just want to take a quick job and say, Well, I make more money than you so

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and we know nothing of that with the debt on the line out.

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There, there's no there's no conflict here. And that's something that happens again. And again. By the way with regards to what makes it You're so special if you're talking about what made her so unique from all of the ways when the prophet SAW the light is in them. And what made her one of the greatest woman ever is simply this notion of there's no conflict. Never a single argument, never a single problem between her and it'll sort of last the lightest and, and that can't be said about any of the otherwise they would ignore the Prophet sallallaahu send them they give him the cold shoulder cold shoulder. They would respond back to him they would do all of that. Even Armando Dillon who was

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shocked when he realized that his daughter house I did that total so the last day I said up and he told her he said Don't be like don't follow it around.

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He said Don't do that. Don't copy Ayesha Ayesha he has a love for it. He doesn't have for you. He's so he told her that he said don't don't think that you can get away with why she can get away with both have eternal delight had none of those problems existed in the first place. None of those problems that existed in the first place. So

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also

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Not only did he just roll the province of southern drawl with Heidi to change but the profits role in society changed. And it didn't necessarily go become better for her the agent. Yeah, now you have your you've got a reputation. And you've built that reputation over a lifetime. She's a tar heel. And the Prophet sallallahu wasallam has a reputation. And he's built that reputation over a lifetime. He's a side that I mean, but the nicknames that police were once lovingly bestowing on him switched. And so instead of being assigned the Colombian he then became a sapphire.

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Majnoon

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that's what they started to call him.

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The madman, the soothsayer.

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Liar.

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All of these things that they accused the province of a lie to us and now he's got gin. And yet the Prophet salallahu alaihe salam, Khadija rodilla Anna. And it's not easy to go through something like that. The emotional trauma and yet how do you draw the line is continuing to celebrate the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and she is with him through thick and thin not only through the emotional and the psychological, but the physical.

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We know that in the last three years, your seven year eight, sorry, sorry, Your eight year nine and your 10

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should I be thought I will call him and his immediate family were boycotted by quoting. They said Okay, you know what? This message is spreading, because in year seven, something happened that Quraysh could not tolerate anymore. In year seven, he was like, Okay, now we're gonna have to actually we're gonna have to do something now.

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In year seven, two people joined Islam. Anybody know who they are?

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And where they lie who and Hamza.

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And so now they're like, you're taking our best young guys like our strongest, our most brave now we've got you guys parading to the guy but the front of one line is Hamza not the front of the others are

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like we can't tolerate this anymore. And so they initiated a boycott. The prophet SAW the light is seldom Khadija his children, I will call him and his family for three years. Nobody is buying and selling from them. They're being effectively boycotted side they've never cost is saying that I would eat leaves for days.

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out he leaves for days that was being my only sustenance or I need a piece of leather. That would be my only sustenance. And so hijo de la has old by that she's in her 60s.

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And in the end of that she passes away.

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But again, nothing of her not being supportive of the province on the lightest, not being supportive of is that what she her role has been flipped upside down from the luxury that she lived in from the comfort that she had. These were how she spent the last years of her life she dies in Makkah.

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And all we see is her being committed to the religion of Allah committed to the religion of Islam. Everything that she has she gives for the the establishment of this Deen

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the harbinger of the law had passes away in the year number 10. of the better and it is said

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as close as within days of will Todd passes away as well. My question for you guys is why do Abu Talib and Khadija wrote the law passed away within days of one another or within months of one another at most within the same year? What's the benefit of that what is the divine wisdom in something like that happen?

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trust in Allah azza wa jal household

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who has no place to go.

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So Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam has two pillars of support. He has his uncle level bottom, and he has his wife idea. These are his two main pillars of support. I will thought it has supported him his entire life. Khadija has supported him ever since they got married, unwavering support, even though I thought he was not Muslim, he gave us a little lost a little I send them 100% commitment and support no one is going to harm you as long as I'm alive.

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And then I will die He passes away and have deja pass away. And the pillars of support are completely swept from underneath but also the loss of the lightness and limb as Jaffa sadhak said, so that he would depend only on allies.

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And sometimes, that is a lesson that we learn when our pillars of support are taken from us. It may be a father, it may be a mother.

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And we remember and we learn what our boss said.

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I believe it was an Ibis

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Or even I bet someone said to even a bass, that Allah azza wa jal is better for you than your father.

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And Allah as is better for your father than you are.

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And so you're you're, you're reminded that you know, as much as my parents or my wife or whoever it was, this person was a pillar of support for me.

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My real support is from allies and allies, it is going to take care of me just like he taken care of me my entire life. And that's a lesson that a lot as it teaches and aloha allies it says well, how a lady that said Gemma dakara bucco ma hiroto documented una vida Sofia,

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Allah thing your total so lesson number two, Allah never hated you Allah they never forsake you. What are you talking about? Don't you see how Allah azza wa jal has taken care of you every step of your life and let me just get him and for our will do the Kabbalah and by the way, the guy did you see how a lot as though you were an orphan, a lot took care of you weren't you destitute? Allah enriched you? He protected you? Don't you see all of these things? Don't you see how a lot as yet has been caring for you your entire life? Why would you think that? Allow it forsake you now? And so you as well, if you were to look at your own life's trajectory,

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you would see orange you like this and a lot as we go to enrich you.

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Weren't you scared at one point and a lot as an agent gave you security? Didn't a lot as will carry you through this issue. And that issue and this issue and that issue? Why would you think now when you're looking towards the future, you're so scared, and you're so desperate, and you're so afraid, and you're so hopeless? When Allah as he has taken care of you this entire time? Don't you think he's going to see you through the rest of it.

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And so the prophets of the light is lm is taught

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that there is no support greater than the supports of allies.

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Also, from the lessons that we learn from Heidi jello, the line is to bring such serenity and comfort to a home, that the description of her home in general becomes one which has no noise and no exhaustion. As that woman Jean said, Amen. A person's reward is proportional to their actions. Or you will have a reward that is similar to your actions. And so whoever builds for a lot a house in this world a lot as we did builds for him a house in paradise. Whoever conceals the faults of a believer, a law conceals his faults on the Day of Judgment. That's the way that it goes. This is a son of the son of a law. And so her teacher of the law and her because she had that type of a house

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and an environment and she created this environment for the sort of loss of the lights and where there was no noise in his house. There were no arguments in his house. There was no fatigue and exhaustion. He wasn't being worn out by his by his wife and his kids and all of that. It was complete support. Khadija rhodiola Anna is rewarded with a house that is similar in paradise. GB lighting Sarah is with the Prophet sallallahu sallam, I shadowed the lion how she tells us when one narration and Navajo data and another that you believed was with the prophets, the light is in them and then he said, Khadija is coming.

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He looked and he said, Hey, DJ is coming and she's carrying some food or she's carrying some water. So give her Salaam from her Lord and from me

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and tell her that Allah as a yet has built for her a house in paradise. Phil Jenna, Tim in casa, Lhasa fee.

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Allah So Jen has built for her a house in paradise that has no noise in it and there is no fatigue. There's no noise in it and there's no fatigue.

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Khadija rhodiola and how the profits the lightest and then gives her this information

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now when Allah gives you Salah What do you respond to that?

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You believe gives you a salami say

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why did he set up a lie gives you a set up What do you say?

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I want to see who's awake

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Hello everyone okay

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that's okay.

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Anyone to any takers?

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She says a lot is a setup.

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Right? Don't we say that loan enter setup, right? I mean, cuz setup, she says Allah is a setup.

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And then she says, Why are they here? Why they can set up to the province of the lightest upon him return the setup and to you as well. So she was given this reward of this house, I will what Ada tells us and I showed on the line I told us that she was given the reward of this house, beak and the amount they extracted because this is the environment that she created for this little loss, a little lightness and love in this dunya also of the virtues of HUD IJA. The lessons that we learn is her being the best and raising the best. The prophets little lady sent him told us that the best of women are four

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Who are these four women?

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No raising hands. I'm raising my hand but I want you to raise your hand. I see Yahoo. I see your cousin.

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I see the wife of her own Uh huh. Maria Who?

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The Mother Teresa. Okay. We'll take that.

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Fatima

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and Hosea four. Okay? Now you look, for Altima is the daughter of Heidi. Yeah. So Khadija is Fatima so 50% of the greatest woman of all time are from Khadija house.

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Right? So that shows us the tibial Khadija and again we don't know much about Khadija and again. We don't know much about Fatima because while he died six months after the death of the Prophet Somalia sent him so we don't have it those long biographies about 40 more Khadija, but we know Fatima who she produced and has an NSA and say that she Ababa Jenna, the masters of the of the youth of paradise. But how do you draw the line her She's the best. And she's raising the best rhodiola Anna also, the last point that I want to mention with regards to Khadija is living a life that is so loving, so supportive, and giving that her name would be mentioned on his tongue for the rest of his

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life, not to be distracted by anyone.

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You know, I was telling this,

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this topic and a brother said, Man, I know what I'm going to say to my wife and I know what my wife is going to say to me. I'm going to say to my wife, you should listen to this and try to be like Khadija.

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And he said, I know what my wife is gonna say she's gonna say, and you should be like the prophets of the lesson. Or she said, she's gonna say, well, you're not the prophets of the light incident. But we're just the whole point is to try right. The whole point is to try for us to be more like Khadija and for us to be a little more like the province of the lightest and the SHABOOM in Laguna mithila, home in the suburbs, Valentina Farah, one of the poet's he said, try to resemble them. Even if you can't imitate them, you can't duplicate them, you won't be like them. You seeking to resemble the greats, in and of itself is a form of success. With our arts of the profits and the lightness of

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them, we're obligated to try to be like him as much as we possibly can.

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The best guidance is the guidance of Muhammad Sallallahu sallam. But when you look at the profits from the lightest, and how the 13 years of his life he lived,

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you see that he never forgot what he did for a moment. And that is a testimony to who had deja de la and how was we forget sometimes that he lived for a long time after for the day, he lived for 13 years. So the light is in them after her deja. But he was always remembering her. He was always honoring her. And it was as if hijo de la had never left his side the entire time. So we have a blouse, I will also is one of the machine who was captured in bed and about a little bit. And he was married to Zeno, who was the daughter of the prophet SAW the lights and love and Zanna did not migrate with the Prophet. So the light is sending them she stayed with her husband and her husband

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was a missionary in Makkah, and he went to the campaign of bidder and he was captured. And so the Prophet cellulitis and as you know, he ransom the machine. And so Zeynep sends a ransom

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for her husband.

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And when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam opens the ransom that was sent by his daughter, he sees a necklace.

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And his eyes begin to fill with tears because this necklace is the necklace of her digital galana that she gives to to Xena when xanthum got married.

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And so the prophet SAW the light as his eyes filled with tears and he gives the necklace back

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to alas and he says take go and brings it up here. Do not return until you bring Zane up here. And Susanna below the line how she goes he goes back and he brings it up and he leaves her with the profits of the lights and the profits of the lights and them are as I showed on the line and she says module to admin Lisa and Lisa Lamar they sell the module to Allah. Allah I know a model a too hot I shall Ilana says I never was more jealous than any of the women of the prophets of the light. I said them like I was jealous of Khadija and I never met her. I never saw her once. He said that well, when I can kind of look through the crew ha what Obama did Basha for me Taha Alba for my

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coffee soda Khadija so the prophet SAW the light they said and you said you said maybe slaughter a sheep.

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And he would go and then he would give the meat to the Friends of Khadija. out of his loyalty and his love of Khadija he would continue to give gifts to the Friends of Rhodesia. One time. I shall the Lion says that she heard the prophet SAW the lights in them he was sitting and then she heard a voice outside of the door seeking permission. And the prophet SAW the lights in them jumped.

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He jumped and he said Allahu Allah said all along

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That must be hard. Hallo is the sister of Khadija and her voice sounded very much like the voice of hydrogen. So hi, she's noticing all of these things. And even though she never met Khadija, she said I was, I was so jealous of her because of how much the prophets of Allah they send them used to remember her. The province of the light is and I'm used to care on her used to seek forgiveness for her used to honor her guests, the way that he would respond to a voice that sounded like her. I shuttled the line Hmm. She says one time, the prophets of the light is that it was mentioned in Khadija and I got jealous. And I said, you continue to mention this old woman, when Allah has has

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replaced you with someone who's much better than her. And she said, the prophet SAW the light instead of him got so angry. And I said, I said to myself, old life you take this anger from the Prophet sallallahu Sallam right now, if you take away this anger, I'll never mentioned Khadija badly again.

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And the prophets of the lightest and it said by Allah, Allah did not replace me with better than her. She supported me. She believed in me when everyone said that I like she supported me with her wealth. And I had children from her only the province of the lesson that we all know how much she loved that Asia. We all know how much he loved Asia. But that did not take away from his loyalty from Khadija and his love for it. It shows you also the truthfulness of the of the love of the prophets, the lies and it doesn't fade with time. It's not something that's flash in the pan. It's not something that he forgets to send it in another narration, I shut up the line and she says that

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the province of the lesson mg mentioned this a similar conversation and the province of the light is and then he says In other words,

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he says I was gifted the love of Khadija I was gifted her love.

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It's a risk that Allah has to give, and that I can go back to the love that Heidegger has for the Prophet symbolized love. And he can go back to the love that the prophet SAW the lightest and the mahat for the joy. And love is it is it's gifted to us. It's something that a lot casts into our heart. But sometimes it's directed to a person who doesn't deserve it. A lot of times it's directed to a person who doesn't deserve it. So it is a gift that should be thanked, and appreciated. And it beautifies our earthly existence, when it is given to someone as beautiful and as deserving as Khadija rhodiola and how Autobot. But to conclude, the last thing that I want to mention is that

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you can't mention the virtues of hijjah without the virtues of Ayesha becoming obvious. Anybody know why?

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You can't mention the virtues of a leader without the virtues or I should being obvious. I don't know what this means. What is this?

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The comparison

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is the one who's narrating

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That's amazing. I don't know if you've been catching it. I've been mentioning all of these narrations and saying I he said he said he said Oh, you're lying. I she's the one who's telling us all of these virtues of Haneda. She's the one who said and I showed her the line and said the Hadid is going to have a house with no toil and no exhaustion and an engine. I she's the one who tells us that the Prophet symbolize and it says I never I never had better than her or I never a lot never gave me better than her. This is the reason why. And this shows us the greatness of Irish as well. On the line hi that she became this, this teacher who sincerely taught what she learned from the

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province of Elias and and she delivered it to the oma perfectly lovely aloha now Audubon. So these are some of the lessons

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