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The importance of having hadiths and avoiding discouragement is emphasized, along with the benefits of the d inhibitors, including breaking fastes and taking small portions. The speaker emphasizes the importance of learning healthy and being generous with house items, as well as not leaning on past mistakes and wanting to spend money. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of being content with one or more things one has and not wanting to spend money. The conversation ends with a discussion of the importance of being happy and healthy to achieve happiness and health.

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So we're continuing with the

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hadith from Kitab Uzzud,

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from Sahih Muslim, Rahimahullah.

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And as we explained last time, is

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that distance that you put between you and

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the dunya, abstention from it,

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or abstention from what is harmful or excessive

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or indulgent from the dunya.

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So you take from it what you need

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and you leave the rest,

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and that is the essence

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of.

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So hadith for

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today

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kind of goes along what we were talking

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about

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last time.

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She said

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she said we, the family of

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Muhammad would stay a month

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without lighting a fire.

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It's only

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dates and water.

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Right? And in the following hadith,

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she adds

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except if we are brought a little bit

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of meat.

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Right? I mean, somebody gifts them a little

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bit of meat, but otherwise

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she said,

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you would spend a month without lighting a

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fire in the house.

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So equivalent today of turning your oven on,

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right, or microwave. So no microwave on, no

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oven on. Why?

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Because there's nothing to cook.

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And what do you live on?

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She said,

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dates and water.

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Unless, you know,

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occasionally, maybe once in a while, they'll have

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a little bit of meat. But just imagine

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spending an entire month

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not eating anything hot.

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The only thing that you eat is what?

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Dates

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and then

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you drink water, and then dates and you

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drink water, and then dates and you drink

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water.

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And then it's day and night, day and

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night, day and night, like that.

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Right?

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And

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no soul, no human being

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would be able to tolerate this

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unless there is

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satisfaction with the duniya

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and greater satisfaction with Allah and the akhira.

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Because no person who loves the dunya, loves

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this world, will be able to live like

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this

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because you'll be looking at people around you

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and you say, why am I living like

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this? Everybody eats whatever they feel like.

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They have bread and they have meat. They

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go places.

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Why am I

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denied the duniya?

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So there is no way for you and

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when she said al Muhammed, she's talking about

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the prophet alayhi salatu wa sallam.

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And maybe you say to yourself, well, he's

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a prophet so he could do this. He's

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extra special.

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But she's also talking about whom?

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Herself.

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She's talking about the rest of his wives.

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These are women.

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Right?

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Does they have the same makeup as everybody

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today? She's talking about his children,

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right? So these are not prophets.

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This is how they lived.

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So you cannot live like this unless the

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love of the dunya

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has diminished

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in your heart to the extent that you're

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not looking forward to it

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and you're looking forward to the,

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right?

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You know how when you're fasting, as you

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are fasting, you're dreaming of food,

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Right? Once I break my fast, I'm gonna

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eat this and this and drink this and

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that. Right? So why is that? Because the

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body wants it

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and more than that, the soul also wants

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it.

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So, yeah, you're denying yourself when you're fasting

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but as soon as you break your fast,

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you eat whatever you like.

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But what if it if your fasting is

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fasting from the dunya?

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You know, you don't care about

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whether you have it or not. If it

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comes your way, it comes your way, but

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if not, it doesn't.

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And you don't crave it, but on top

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of that also you don't feel sorry for

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yourself when you don't have it.

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Why?

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Because there's a greater break in a fast,

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which is the.

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So again, if you want an example,

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let's say for instance

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that you break your fast today

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and you only have dates

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and somebody right next to you, they're eating

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meat, whatever you whatever you crave, they're eating

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it.

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But you know that in 2 or 3

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days, you'll be eating something far better than

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what they're eating.

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Won't that give you patience? You say, fine.

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Today, I'm eating dates.

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He's eating something better. But in 2, 3

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days,

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the thing that I'm gonna be eating is

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a lot better than what he is eating

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today. So that's fine.

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Expecting

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that great reward from Allah

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compensate

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for the scarcity of the dunya.

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So it allows you to take less of

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it because you're gonna have more of the

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favors of Allah, azza wa jal. So you

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say to yourself, I may be hungry now,

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but I'll be eating from,

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azza wa jal, if Allah is pleased with

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me the food of heaven.

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I'll be drinking from heaven. I'll be clothed

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from heaven. That's far better than whatever I

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have here. So you could sacrifice here for

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there.

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So that sacrifice is possible because of Allah

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azza wa jal, because of iman and what

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he has.

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Otherwise, no one can live on dates only

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or renouncing the dunya for expecting nothing in

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return. There has to be something. And what

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is that thing? It is Allah's pleasure.

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Another hadith that also illustrates how little they

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had and it comes from

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She

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said,

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She said

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she said that prophet alayhi salatu wa sallam

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passed away

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and I had nothing

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that a living being could eat in my

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house except some barley.

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They I kept it on a shelf

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or a cupboard.

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I kept eating from it, meaning I kept

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taking from it. So it's some barley, let's

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say, in a sack.

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I kept taking from it and eating from

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it. That's the only thing that she has

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in her house.

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So takes and eats, takes and eats, takes

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and eats

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until it's, like, it

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a lot of time had passed

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and still it's not exhausted yet.

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I waited,

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then it ran out. When I waited,

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it ran

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out. But as long as she was taken

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from it without weighing it, it kept giving

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to her.

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So there

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are a couple of benefits in this hadith.

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The first is that when he passed, alaihi

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salaahu alaihi salaam, aisha in her house, what

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did she have?

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Sha'ir.

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Right? Only barley, nothing else.

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So nothing fancy. That's the cheapest

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that you could have.

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And on top of that, not sacks and

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sacks

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of barley.

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She said, what? A little bit of barley.

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That's what she had. That's what he left

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Aisha

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He is the best man

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and she is the best

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wife,

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and this is what he left for her.

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But was she complaining?

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Was she alarmed?

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Was she distressed because of it?

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Was she? No. She wasn't.

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Because she knew from him, alayhi salatu wa

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sallam, that a little bit is enough. That

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is zud.

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A little bit is enough.

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You could eat a little bit,

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just satisfy your stomach,

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not even be full. Satisfy your stomach, you're

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alive, you're well,

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you live to a next day. The next

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day, eat a little bit, you live to

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the next day, and so on.

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So they weren't

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greedy.

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They weren't obsessed with the dunya.

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They weren't

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living for the dunya.

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Where will I travel? What will I eat?

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What will I wear?

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How do I compare to other people? No.

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Their minds weren't in the dunya. Their minds

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were in the akhira. And when you're occupied,

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right, you will take with the akhira. You'll

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take whatever you need from the dunya, but

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then you'll go directly back to the akhira.

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Like, have you been maybe a person who'd

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been studying for an exam?

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Right? Really overwhelmed by it.

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Did you care really what you were eating

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at that time

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or simply that you're just eating something to

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keep you

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up?

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Whatever. Just bring me whatever.

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It doesn't have to be tasty. It doesn't

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have to be even good. I just wanna

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ingest something

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so I have energy so that I can

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keep studying. Right? Because your focus is what?

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On studying.

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That's how something that grabs your attention in

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the dunya can take you away from food.

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It's the same thing.

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If you your attention is really the it

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can take your attention away from food. So

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she didn't really care about what food she

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has, so she wasn't alarmed because of it.

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Now she is a human being like all

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of us. She will crave food like all

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of us, but she's not obsessed and she's

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not alarmed. That's what is there.

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And that was satisfying for her,

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Now the interesting thing is that

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this thing that he had left her, alayhis

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salatu wa sallam,

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kept giving her as long as she wanted

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it from it. Like that barley, that sack,

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that little bit of it, she could keep

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taking from it and taking from it and

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taking from it beyond what is normal.

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And they say that is from the barakah

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of the prophet alayhi salatu wa sallam

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because that is what he left for her.

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But when she weighed that,

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the barakah went away.

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When she weighed that, the went away because

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now she knows exactly what is left.

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Before that, she wasn't aware. She roughly understands

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there is some. How much? She doesn't know.

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As long as she was using it like

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that, it probably would keep giving her. But

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because she weighed it, the barakah went away.

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Now some scholars have said this is specific

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to the prophet alaihi salatu wassalam because this

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is because of his barakah.

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Some have said, no. Actually, it could extend

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to other human beings.

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Meaning what? Meaning when you have something at

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home, of course, when you buy it,

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you know how many kilograms it is. Right?

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You know how many how many liters it

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is,

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but when you have it at home,

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you don't really need to count

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how many pieces of cookies you have in

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this jar,

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how many kilograms of rice you have. If

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you use it without greed,

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without stinginess,

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there may be more baraka in it.

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But if you're really eager and you count,

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this is the number of cookies left, this

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is the number of dates left, there'll be

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less barakah.

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Why? Because of your own greed.

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So if you exhibit generosity

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in how you deal with

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your house items

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and how you give out your house items,

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then Allah blesses it. But if you exhibit

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stinginess,

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then there'll be less barakah in them. So

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there's a lesson in that for all of

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us. Not only

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rely less on the dunya and don't be

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alarmed if you don't have it because those

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who are better than us had much less

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than it and they were favored in the

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eyes of Allah.

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So no one should say to themselves

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because I am poorer than my neighbor or

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my brother or my relative, Allah loves me

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less.

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Because I cannot afford a house as nice

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as or a car as nice house or

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a dress as nice as so and so,

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then Allah loves me less. No.

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That's not an indicator.

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So not only that but also whatever Allah

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gives you, you be generous with it.

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Generous in how you use it, generous in

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how you share that with others. There'll be

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more barakah in it with the will of

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Allah azza wa jal. Right?

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The following hadith is similar to the first

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one that we encountered today.

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So Aisha, again, is the one that is

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telling us about all these

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experiences in the household of the prophet, alayhis

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salatu wa sallam. So Urwa ibn Zubayr,

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he

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is talking to Aisha, radiallahu anha, and she

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told him,

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She said, indeed,

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we used to cite the and then

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the 3 crescents

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in 2 months,

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like for a period of 2 months,

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and we would not light a fire in

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the household of the prophet.

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Right? So in the first hadith, we we

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she said 1 month. Here, she said 2

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months.

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We would not light a fire in the

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household of the prophet alayhis salatu was salam.

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So he said, oh, my aunt, because Aisha

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was his aunt because he is the son

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of Asma bintu Abi Bakr. He says, oh,

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my aunt,

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what would sustain you?

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Because he was surprised

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because he wasn't living like that at that

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moment.

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The rest of the people when he was

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asking Aisha at that time, he wasn't living

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like that. So he was surprised. Oh, my

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aunt, how could you live like that 2

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months and there is no fire in your

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house and you're not eating any hot meal?

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How did you live? She said,

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She said dates and water. That's what we

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used to consume.

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She said,

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only dates in water,

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except that on occasion,

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the prophet had

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neighbors from the Ansar, and they had milk

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animals.

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So they used to

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milk those animals and share with us some

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of that milk. So he would feed us

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that. That's the exception.

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So whenever they would get that, they would

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drink that milk. Otherwise, it is what a

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diet based on dates

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and water and on time, sometimes it is

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milk.

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Right?

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So again, that is an indication of how

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the prophet salallahu alaihi wa sallam lived on

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little

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and his family,

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may Allah be pleased with them, were satisfied

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with that. They weren't weren't rebellious.

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They weren't seeking the dunya. They were satisfied

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with whatever satisfied the prophet alayhi sallahu alaihi

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wa sallam.

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The following hadith also

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similar to this one, Aisha said,

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Says he had passed, alayhis salatu was salam,

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and he was not full

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of bread and oil

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in twice in a day.

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He did not have his fill of bread

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and oil twice in a day, meaning if

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he eats it once, he doesn't eat it

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twice.

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Right? And here we're not talking about any

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expensive or fancy food. What are we talking

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about?

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Bread and oil.

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Now perhaps,

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the poor among us today don't live like

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that.

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Right?

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The poorest among us today don't live like

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that, simply on bread only

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and bread only once a day.

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But the prophet

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tolerated that

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and in fact he chose that.

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And that tells you that when you're like

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that, the love of the dunya had been

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extracted from your heart.

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Right? Of course, did the prophet alayhis salatu

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sallam love meat?

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Yeah. Right? He loved meat. So it's not

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that he had became

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nonhuman.

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He's still human.

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He has this appetite. He has this craving,

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but he's not working for it and he's

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not living for it. You know how some

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of us live for food?

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Right? Like, what's the thing that makes you

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happy?

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I'm gonna go out and eat.

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Right? I'm gonna go out and drink.

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Here's the question. What if you cannot go

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out and drink and eat and drink?

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What hap what happens to your happiness?

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If your happiness is hostage

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to eating outside,

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what if you can't afford it?

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Are you gonna be miserable

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and sad?

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What if you cannot drink this ABC?

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You're gonna be sad because of it?

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Talib, the prophet didn't live like that. His

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happiness was not derived from food and drink.

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Although they do influence our mood. Right? No

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question. But his happiness wasn't derived or based

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on eating and drinking. So where did it

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come from? It had to come from somewhere

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else.

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Where did it come

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from? It's a connection with Allah

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Right? And you know in the hadith where

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that's related to fasting,

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the prophet used

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to do wisal,

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which is something that is disliked for us.

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What is wisal?

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He would connect his maghrib to his fajr,

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meaning he wouldn't eat.

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Right? So when it's time for maghrib, he

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wouldn't break his fast.

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He will continue

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fasting till fajr

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and continue fasting for a whole

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2 days,

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consecutive days or 3 days.

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And the sahaba wanted to imitate him

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and he didn't want that for them

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because this is special for him. And what

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did he

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say? I'm not like you.

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You say I spend the night with Allah,

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he gives me food and drink.

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Right? He gives me food and drink. That's

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not that's not physical food and drink

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because if he were to eat and drink,

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he wouldn't be fasting.

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But what is it that the scholars have

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said? How did they interpret that? Is that

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his proximity

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to Allah, Az Zohil, injects him with so

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much happiness

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and so much energy

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that it

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excludes the need for eating and drinking.

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Can you imagine that?

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Right?

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Excludes the need for eating and drinking. Just

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like for instance, if you wanna kinda approximate

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bringing closer to home, if you're so happy

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you forget to eat.

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Does did that happen?

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Maybe somebody said, no. It never happened to

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me. Right?

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But maybe you were so happy or so

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busy, you forget to eat.

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So he say he is so consumed in

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it that he didn't need to.

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He's aware of eating and drinking, but he

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didn't need to.

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So here, he wasn't full

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of bread twice a day.

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Right? Now, I mean, of course, you could

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try

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it just so so that you would experience

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what is it like if I were today

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or tomorrow only eat dates for the entire

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day and nothing else?

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Just as an experience. You don't have to.

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But I'm saying just on this experience. What

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if there is no meat? What if there

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is nothing?

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Will I still be faithful? Will I still

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be close to Allah Azzawajal? Will I still

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stand in salah and worship? Will I still

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pray?

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Will I say be,

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saying,

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will I stay be close to Allah or

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will I be rebellious because I didn't get

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my portion for today?

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So the gratitude of the prophet alaihi salatu

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wasalam was not about how much food Allah

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is gonna give me today and so that

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makes me grateful, it was about something greater

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than that which is his relationship with Allah.

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He said

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he says when the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa

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sallam passed away, that is the time when

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we got our fill of dates and water.

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Meaning before the death of the prophet, alayhis

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salatu wa sallam, they didn't have enough dates

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and water.

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But towards the end of his life, they

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said after

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Khaybar was conquered,

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they had a lot more dates.

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And that is that's the time when we

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got

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enough dates.

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Before that, it wasn't enough. So even when

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it came to dates, it wasn't in abundance

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until

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late in the life of the prophet, alayhis

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salatu was salam, and that is when Khaybar

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was opened or conquered.

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Following hadith also similar along the same lines,

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He said Abu Hurairah, he said, I swear

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by the one who has Abu Hurairah's soul

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in his hand, meaning Allah

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Allah as the prophet did

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not make his family full.

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3 consecutive days

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of,

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bread made made of wheat

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until he passed away.

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That is from his life, from the beginning

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of his migration, till the time that he

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had passed away. He did not or wasn't

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able to fill the the stomach of his,

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family

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with bread made of wheat for 3 days.

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So if they ate it, let's say, one

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day or they ate it 2 days, they

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couldn't on 3rd.

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So, again, it tells you

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not only about the prophet

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but also about the condition of the rest

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of the sahaba, the rest of the ummah,

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and the how hard it was for them.

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And the question always that you need to

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ask yourself is

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why did Allah, azza wa jal,

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right,

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have them experience

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that type of difficulty in the beginning,

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especially in the beginning of their hijra,

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with all the

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possibility of

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outside attacks

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and inside betrayals from the hypocrites.

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But this with all of that

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and and, you know,

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endangering their own lives when they go to

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battle, and the lives of their families, and

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the life of their kids, and all of

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this, but it also was economically hard on

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them. The dunya wasn't giving itself to them.

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So why is it that they had to

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go through this?

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And if you remember last time we said

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that Allah

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does this so that he would extricate,

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take out the love of the dunya from

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their hearts.

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Right? So that they don't lean on it.

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They don't desire it. They don't want it.

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They have power over it.

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They can say to themselves, yes. We'll continue.

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We'll go out to jihad even though we

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don't have much,

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and we'll sacrifice the little that we have

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for Allah's sake.

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And we have no promise from Allah

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that we're gonna live to see days of

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abundance and riches. None of it. So we

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will do this for Allah's sake,

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and we will sacrifice all of the dunya

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for him. So when the dunya means nothing

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to them

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and when they have power over it, that

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is the time when they have conquered

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it. And that is the time when they'll

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be ready to receive the dunya.

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Then Allah can tell them here's gold and

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silver, but they already are past that.

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They don't care about it.

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They can take that gold and silver

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and it doesn't corrupt them,

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and they can distribute it.

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So Allah Azzawajal wants to immunize them, protect

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them from the corrupting influence of the dunya

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by distinguishing

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between those who are seeking the dunya and

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those who are seeking the akhirah.

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So he says what? Are you a seeker

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of the dunya?

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Some of you is yes. He says I'm

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gonna take more of the dunya from you.

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Now you have to make a choice. Am

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I a man of the duniya or a

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man of the akhirah?

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If you are from the a man of

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the duniya, then you will leave Islam. You're

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a man of the akhirah, you'll say, I'll

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prefer the akhirah. Forget about the dunya. They'll

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take more of the dunya from you. And

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you are still patient,

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then Allah had purified you from the dunya.

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You don't care about it whether it comes

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or goes.

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When you have passed that test, then Allah

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says now you can handle the dunya, but

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before it, it will corrupt

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you. Right?

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And now,

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he

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said he was speaking, and he's a Sahabi,

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and speaking to people around him after the

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prophet,

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He says, aren't you eating and drinking whatever

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you wish?

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He says, but indeed I witnessed your prophet,

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And he could not locate enough bad dates

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to fill his stomach.

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Right? He says he's kinda contrasting.

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He says now you have reached a level,

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a stage

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of Islam

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where you have conquered these lands

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where you could eat and drink whatever you

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wish.

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But I do remember a time with your

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prophet alayhis salatu wa sallam, he could not

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have enough dakal.

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Dakal are dates, but they're not just any

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dates. They are the worst of dates.

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And, again, it's hard to really

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appreciate that because the dates that we have

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are good dates. Right?

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But the dates that they were talking about

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are dates that are dry,

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that they don't adhere, they don't stick together,

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so they are they are scattered all the

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time.

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So they are dry,

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and they are the worst of any category

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of dates. He said even among that, he

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did not have enough to fill his stomach,

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alayhis salatu wa sanna. So when we're talking

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about dates, we're sometimes talking about the worst

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types of dates. The dates that if we

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were to go to the market today, if

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we find them, we would never buy them.

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We would never buy them because that but

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that was available to him, alaihis salaam. That's

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the only thing that was available to him

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and yet he didn't complain and didn't dissuade

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him

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from obeying Allah azza wa jal and giving

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and

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continuing to fast and continuing to fight for

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the sake of Allah azza wa jal. So

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you understood that a person like that wasn't

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living for the dunya

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and wasn't based on the dunya.

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And his love and hate and his, happiness

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and sadness wasn't connected to the duniya, but

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it's connected to Allah azza wa jal. If

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it's there, he eats it. If it's not,

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he doesn't.

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In in another hadith, I mean, the continuation

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of that hadith, and he's saying, no, man.

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Say, and you have

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whatever you want to eat and drink, and

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you have,

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whatever you wish of dates and the kinds

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of dates and butter,

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meaning that you could eat whatever you wish.

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And even among,

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the dates, you have different categories,

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that you could eat,

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but the prophet

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couldn't.

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And the

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also again he said that,

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Omar, he had remarked and he said,

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He had remarked and he said, how much

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people are indulging in the dunya at his

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time. And he said,

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I saw the prophet

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during the day twisting out of hunger,

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could not find enough bad dates to fill

00:28:59--> 00:28:59

his stomach.

00:29:00--> 00:29:02

So in a day, he, alayhi salatu wa

00:29:02--> 00:29:05

salam, would be so hungry, his stomach would

00:29:05--> 00:29:06

be twisting,

00:29:07--> 00:29:09

and there would be nothing at home and

00:29:09--> 00:29:11

nothing outside for him to eat, alayhis salatu

00:29:11--> 00:29:13

wa sallam, so he had had to continue

00:29:13--> 00:29:14

struggling with his hunger.

00:29:14--> 00:29:17

Not even enough bad dates could fill his

00:29:17--> 00:29:19

stomach, alayhis salatu wa sallam. So it tells

00:29:19--> 00:29:20

you that

00:29:20--> 00:29:22

this is this is how much he had

00:29:22--> 00:29:22

sacrificed

00:29:24--> 00:29:25

This is how much the

00:29:26--> 00:29:29

sacrificed. So we take that sacrifice really for

00:29:29--> 00:29:31

granted. Oh, so yeah. Yeah. They would just

00:29:31--> 00:29:32

strived and they,

00:29:34--> 00:29:36

pushed themselves, and they gave Islam to us,

00:29:36--> 00:29:38

but you don't understand how much they gave

00:29:38--> 00:29:38

up.

00:29:39--> 00:29:40

And so

00:29:40--> 00:29:41

any

00:29:41--> 00:29:42

effort

00:29:43--> 00:29:44

to bring Islam

00:29:44--> 00:29:46

to the way it was,

00:29:46--> 00:29:48

those who want to do this must endure

00:29:48--> 00:29:49

the same difficulty.

00:29:50--> 00:29:52

You with me? That anyone

00:29:53--> 00:29:56

who wants to bring back the glory of

00:29:56--> 00:29:58

Islam is not gonna come back

00:29:59--> 00:30:01

except through the kinds of people who will

00:30:01--> 00:30:01

do this,

00:30:03--> 00:30:05

who will withstand hunger to that extent,

00:30:06--> 00:30:09

who will withstand pressure to that extent until

00:30:09--> 00:30:09

Allah

00:30:09--> 00:30:12

sees from their hearts and their bodies that

00:30:12--> 00:30:14

they love him more than the duniya.

00:30:15--> 00:30:17

And then Allah's victory is gonna come. But

00:30:17--> 00:30:19

do we believe that Allah's victory is gonna

00:30:19--> 00:30:21

come while we are comfortable

00:30:22--> 00:30:24

eating whatever we want and drinking whatever we

00:30:24--> 00:30:27

want? No. It's not gonna happen. Not until

00:30:27--> 00:30:29

you endure a pressure similar to that pressure.

00:30:30--> 00:30:32

And only then will the victory of Allah

00:30:32--> 00:30:33

would come. Right?

00:30:49--> 00:30:51

So this is in the context of people

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coming to Abdullah ibn Amrbul,

00:30:53--> 00:30:55

and they are asking him for money.

00:30:56--> 00:30:56

Right?

00:30:57--> 00:30:59

Because he's a deputy or he is a

00:30:59--> 00:31:02

prince or responsible for distributing money.

00:31:02--> 00:31:03

So

00:31:04--> 00:31:05

in the first incident,

00:31:05--> 00:31:06

someone asked him.

00:31:07--> 00:31:08

He says,

00:31:10--> 00:31:12

he says, aren't we from among the poor

00:31:12--> 00:31:12

immigrants?

00:31:13--> 00:31:15

Meaning, like, we deserve money because we are

00:31:15--> 00:31:16

2 things,

00:31:18--> 00:31:20

and that in itself is an honor,

00:31:21--> 00:31:22

Right? And also

00:31:24--> 00:31:26

poor. So don't we deserve money because of

00:31:26--> 00:31:28

it, because of the honor of being immigrants,

00:31:28--> 00:31:29

but also because of the need that we

00:31:29--> 00:31:33

have because we are poor. Abdullah. So Abdullah

00:31:33--> 00:31:34

asked him.

00:31:36--> 00:31:37

He says, do you have a wife?

00:31:38--> 00:31:39

He said

00:31:41--> 00:31:42

yes. I says, do you have a residence

00:31:43--> 00:31:45

that you seek shelter in? He said yes.

00:31:47--> 00:31:48

He says you're rich then.

00:31:49--> 00:31:50

So do you have a wife and do

00:31:50--> 00:31:51

you have a house?

00:31:52--> 00:31:53

Meaning like a shelter and house, what do

00:31:53--> 00:31:54

you what do you think he means by

00:31:54--> 00:31:55

a house?

00:31:56--> 00:31:56

A house,

00:31:57--> 00:31:59

right? Not a small place you live in,

00:31:59--> 00:32:01

right? That's what the house is. So do

00:32:01--> 00:32:02

you have a house? Yeah. Do you have

00:32:02--> 00:32:04

a woman? Do you have you're married? He

00:32:04--> 00:32:06

says yes. He says you're rich.

00:32:09--> 00:32:11

Khala then that say he says by the

00:32:11--> 00:32:12

way,

00:32:13--> 00:32:14

he says, by the way, I have a

00:32:14--> 00:32:15

servant.

00:32:17--> 00:32:18

He says, you're a king.

00:32:19--> 00:32:21

That's the redefinition of what a poor

00:32:22--> 00:32:23

man or rich man means.

00:32:24--> 00:32:25

So he comes and he says what? I'm

00:32:25--> 00:32:27

in need. I'm poor.

00:32:28--> 00:32:30

So he says what? You're married and you

00:32:30--> 00:32:31

have a house?

00:32:31--> 00:32:32

Then you're rich.

00:32:33--> 00:32:34

You're not poor.

00:32:34--> 00:32:35

Right?

00:32:35--> 00:32:37

And he says, if you have a servant,

00:32:37--> 00:32:40

right, then you're what? You're a king.

00:32:40--> 00:32:42

Now today maybe you don't have a servant,

00:32:42--> 00:32:43

but what do you have?

00:32:44--> 00:32:45

You have an oven.

00:32:46--> 00:32:47

You have a dishwasher.

00:32:48--> 00:32:50

Right? You have things that could do what

00:32:50--> 00:32:51

a servant is doing. You have a vacuum.

00:32:51--> 00:32:52

Right?

00:32:53--> 00:32:56

So you are or you become a king.

00:32:56--> 00:32:57

Right?

00:32:59--> 00:32:59

So

00:33:01--> 00:33:05

that redefinition is important. Right? That redefinition is

00:33:05--> 00:33:05

important.

00:33:06--> 00:33:08

Don't think when you look at yourself, I

00:33:08--> 00:33:09

have nothing.

00:33:09--> 00:33:10

I have

00:33:10--> 00:33:11

nothing. Like,

00:33:12--> 00:33:13

look at my house and how small it

00:33:13--> 00:33:15

is compared to their mansions.

00:33:16--> 00:33:18

Look at my car and how old it

00:33:18--> 00:33:20

is. Look at, no, look at those who

00:33:20--> 00:33:21

have less than

00:33:22--> 00:33:24

you, and really look at what they had,

00:33:24--> 00:33:27

Muhammad alayhi salatu wa sallam and the Sahaba,

00:33:27--> 00:33:29

and then you'll understand that you are far

00:33:29--> 00:33:31

better and far off than

00:33:32--> 00:33:33

that they were.

00:33:33--> 00:33:35

So if you are content with with what

00:33:35--> 00:33:36

you have, you are

00:33:37--> 00:33:37

rich.

00:33:38--> 00:33:41

Right? Whatever you have, if you are content

00:33:41--> 00:33:41

with it,

00:33:42--> 00:33:43

you're rich.

00:33:43--> 00:33:45

If you're discontent with it, no matter what

00:33:45--> 00:33:47

you have, you are poor.

00:33:48--> 00:33:48

Right?

00:33:49--> 00:33:51

If you're content with your spouse,

00:33:51--> 00:33:54

right, I'm talking about men to women and

00:33:54--> 00:33:55

women to men. If you're content with your

00:33:55--> 00:33:56

spouse,

00:33:56--> 00:33:57

they're enough.

00:33:58--> 00:34:00

That's it. If you are if you they're

00:34:00--> 00:34:01

fine. The same person.

00:34:02--> 00:34:03

But if you are discontent,

00:34:03--> 00:34:05

they're never gonna be enough

00:34:05--> 00:34:07

because you, this is how you relate to

00:34:07--> 00:34:10

them. If you're content with your house, this

00:34:10--> 00:34:12

small house of yours, it will seem like

00:34:12--> 00:34:14

a mansion. Alhamdulillah,

00:34:14--> 00:34:15

if you're constantly

00:34:16--> 00:34:19

praising Allah and grateful Allah had given you

00:34:19--> 00:34:19

such a place,

00:34:20--> 00:34:22

there will be barakah in it, and you'll

00:34:22--> 00:34:23

be happy in it.

00:34:23--> 00:34:24

Right?

00:34:24--> 00:34:26

It will seem like it's, what, acres and

00:34:26--> 00:34:27

acres of land.

00:34:28--> 00:34:30

But if you are discontent with the mansion,

00:34:30--> 00:34:31

it will look what?

00:34:31--> 00:34:34

So small it's suffocating you. So it depends

00:34:34--> 00:34:36

on what you're content with and what you're

00:34:36--> 00:34:37

not.

00:34:37--> 00:34:38

It's all about attitude

00:34:39--> 00:34:40

and

00:34:40--> 00:34:42

being content with Allah's,

00:34:46--> 00:34:47

provision. And

00:34:47--> 00:34:49

kind of connected to it,

00:34:50--> 00:34:51

says 3 men came to

00:35:00--> 00:35:02

He says, oh, Abu Muhammad,

00:35:02--> 00:35:04

we cannot afford anything. By Allah, we cannot

00:35:04--> 00:35:07

afford anything. We cannot spend, we can't, afford

00:35:07--> 00:35:10

an animal, and we cannot afford household furniture,

00:35:12--> 00:35:14

whether it is something to buy or something

00:35:14--> 00:35:16

to sell. So no household furniture

00:35:17--> 00:35:18

that we can afford,

00:35:18--> 00:35:20

no nothing to spend, and no animal.

00:35:22--> 00:35:24

He says I give you an option.

00:35:24--> 00:35:25

If you wish,

00:35:25--> 00:35:27

you would head back and I will give

00:35:27--> 00:35:28

you whatever Allah

00:35:29--> 00:35:30

enables me to give you. Or if you

00:35:30--> 00:35:31

wish,

00:35:31--> 00:35:33

I will relay your affair to the sultan,

00:35:34--> 00:35:36

to the leader, and he will give you

00:35:36--> 00:35:36

whatever

00:35:37--> 00:35:38

he can give you.

00:35:40--> 00:35:42

But if you wish, that's a third option.

00:35:42--> 00:35:45

Or if you wish, you'd be patient because

00:35:45--> 00:35:47

I heard the messenger, alayhi salatu wa sallam,

00:35:47--> 00:35:47

say

00:35:58--> 00:35:59

He says, or if you wish, you'd be

00:35:59--> 00:36:01

patient because I heard the messenger

00:36:03--> 00:36:05

say, indeed the poor immigrants

00:36:05--> 00:36:07

will precede the rich on the day of

00:36:07--> 00:36:08

judgment

00:36:08--> 00:36:09

with 40

00:36:09--> 00:36:10

years.

00:36:11--> 00:36:13

They'll be ahead of them with 40 years.

00:36:13--> 00:36:14

So they

00:36:14--> 00:36:16

said, then we will be patient and not

00:36:16--> 00:36:17

ask for anything.

00:36:19--> 00:36:20

So these are people who came to him,

00:36:20--> 00:36:22

alayhis salatu wa sallam, and they said, we

00:36:22--> 00:36:23

have nothing. Can you give us?

00:36:24--> 00:36:25

So he said I give you the option.

00:36:25--> 00:36:27

1, I can give you money myself or

00:36:27--> 00:36:29

the sultan. The sultan can give you money.

00:36:29--> 00:36:31

The Khalifa can give you money

00:36:31--> 00:36:34

or a whoever is responsible for baytunal, the

00:36:34--> 00:36:35

treasury,

00:36:35--> 00:36:36

or you be patient.

00:36:38--> 00:36:40

Why be patient? What's gonna motivate you to

00:36:40--> 00:36:42

be patient? He said, because I heard the

00:36:42--> 00:36:45

prophet, alayhis salatu wasalam, saying that the poor

00:36:45--> 00:36:45

immigrants

00:36:46--> 00:36:48

will enter Jannah 40 years before the rich

00:36:48--> 00:36:49

immigrants.

00:36:51--> 00:36:52

So if you wish you could be that,

00:36:52--> 00:36:54

do you want that for yourself?

00:36:55--> 00:36:56

Because of that, they said, then we will

00:36:56--> 00:36:58

be patient and will not ask for anything.

00:36:59--> 00:37:01

Because patience for a few more years,

00:37:02--> 00:37:04

okay, with that difficulty

00:37:04--> 00:37:06

is worth it if you think about 40

00:37:06--> 00:37:07

years in Jannah

00:37:07--> 00:37:09

before other people go into it.

00:37:11--> 00:37:13

You understand what 40 years in Jannah means?

00:37:14--> 00:37:16

And this person hasn't gone into Jannah yet

00:37:16--> 00:37:17

because they are what?

00:37:17--> 00:37:18

Rich.

00:37:19--> 00:37:21

And because you're rich, what delays you?

00:37:22--> 00:37:24

The questions about what did you do with

00:37:24--> 00:37:26

your money, how did you get it, and

00:37:26--> 00:37:28

what did you do with it. So you're

00:37:28--> 00:37:30

held back to answer those questions.

00:37:31--> 00:37:33

And this person has rights connected to you

00:37:33--> 00:37:34

and you have rights connected to them, so

00:37:34--> 00:37:36

you have to finish all of this before

00:37:36--> 00:37:38

you enter Jannah. The poor person on the

00:37:38--> 00:37:40

other hand has none of that,

00:37:41--> 00:37:42

so they are free.

00:37:43--> 00:37:45

So they enter Jannah first.

00:37:45--> 00:37:48

So 4 years of living in Jannah before

00:37:48--> 00:37:50

the rich person even stepped a foot into

00:37:50--> 00:37:52

it. So they drink from it and they

00:37:52--> 00:37:54

eat from it and they're clothed from it.

00:37:56--> 00:37:58

So they say to yourself is this worth

00:37:58--> 00:37:58

it or not?

00:38:01--> 00:38:01

Yeah.

00:38:02--> 00:38:05

Because in another hadith it says 500 years,

00:38:06--> 00:38:08

not just 40. Another hadith it says that

00:38:08--> 00:38:11

the poor go into Jannah 500 years before

00:38:11--> 00:38:12

the rich people do.

00:38:13--> 00:38:15

So how many years on earth are you

00:38:15--> 00:38:16

going to live as a poor person?

00:38:18--> 00:38:19

60, 70?

00:38:20--> 00:38:21

Right? Maybe not even so.

00:38:22--> 00:38:24

Does that compare to 500 years in Jannah?

00:38:25--> 00:38:26

No.

00:38:27--> 00:38:29

So that's why any person who is poor

00:38:29--> 00:38:30

in this life and you think that you

00:38:30--> 00:38:32

have been, what, shortchanged or you don't have

00:38:32--> 00:38:33

what you deserve,

00:38:34--> 00:38:36

think about that poverty or having less of

00:38:36--> 00:38:38

the dunya meaning means having more of the

00:38:38--> 00:38:39

akhirah.

00:38:39--> 00:38:41

This is not to advocate

00:38:41--> 00:38:44

becoming poor, just, like, force yourself to be

00:38:44--> 00:38:46

poor. No.

00:38:46--> 00:38:48

If Allah gives you money, Allah gives you

00:38:48--> 00:38:50

money. Take it, spend it in ways that

00:38:50--> 00:38:51

Allah

00:38:51--> 00:38:54

loves. Right? But if you happen not to

00:38:54--> 00:38:55

be as rich as other people

00:38:55--> 00:38:58

despite your effort, if you happen to be

00:38:58--> 00:38:59

poor despite your effort,

00:39:00--> 00:39:01

should you be angry?

00:39:02--> 00:39:04

Should you be protesting?

00:39:05--> 00:39:06

Should you blame

00:39:07--> 00:39:08

your fortunes

00:39:09--> 00:39:11

or blame Allah Azzajal or

00:39:11--> 00:39:13

no. Why? Because you say

00:39:13--> 00:39:15

Allah only took it away from me to

00:39:15--> 00:39:16

give me something better.

00:39:16--> 00:39:19

What is this thing? Is what the prophet

00:39:20--> 00:39:22

had said. You will enter Jannah

00:39:22--> 00:39:24

and get to enjoy all of that before

00:39:24--> 00:39:26

the rich people do. So when you look

00:39:26--> 00:39:28

at the rich, don't envy them.

00:39:29--> 00:39:31

You have to feel sorry for them.

00:39:32--> 00:39:32

Right?

00:39:33--> 00:39:35

And if you have money, you have to

00:39:35--> 00:39:36

be what?

00:39:36--> 00:39:39

Vigilant that it's not gonna hold you back.

00:39:39--> 00:39:41

It's gonna advance you, not hold you back.

00:39:41--> 00:39:43

Now come on the day of judgment and,

00:39:43--> 00:39:45

oh, you stole somebody's money and you took

00:39:45--> 00:39:48

somebody's right out of greed. That's gonna hold

00:39:48--> 00:39:50

you back or put you in hellfire.

00:39:50--> 00:39:52

So this money then is not a nema

00:39:52--> 00:39:53

for you.

00:39:53--> 00:39:55

Nema it's a nema for you if when

00:39:55--> 00:39:57

you take it, you spend it in ways

00:39:57--> 00:39:58

that are permissible

00:39:59--> 00:40:01

and in ways that are recommended or obligatory.

00:40:02--> 00:40:05

Then that elevates you. But if not, it's

00:40:05--> 00:40:07

a curse, not a blessing. So when you

00:40:07--> 00:40:09

see the rich and you see how they

00:40:09--> 00:40:12

are squandering their money or they're buying with

00:40:12--> 00:40:13

it, what displeases Allah,

00:40:14--> 00:40:15

don't

00:40:15--> 00:40:17

admire it. Pity them.

00:40:18--> 00:40:20

Feel sorry for them that they're gonna have

00:40:20--> 00:40:22

to answer to Allah,

00:40:23--> 00:40:25

why did you spend that money like that,

00:40:25--> 00:40:26

1,000,000 or 1,000,000,000 of dollars,

00:40:27--> 00:40:29

and feel fortunate enough that Allah had saved

00:40:29--> 00:40:30

you from that?

00:40:31--> 00:40:34

So even if it was only 40 years

00:40:34--> 00:40:34

in heaven

00:40:34--> 00:40:37

before the rich, it's definitely worth it.

00:40:38--> 00:40:39

So understand that

00:40:40--> 00:40:40

any,

00:40:43--> 00:40:43

any

00:40:43--> 00:40:47

misfortune in the duniya, if dealt with properly,

00:40:47--> 00:40:49

is an elevation in the akhirah.

00:40:49--> 00:40:51

Any decrease in worldly fortune,

00:40:52--> 00:40:54

whatever that worldly fortune may be,

00:40:55--> 00:40:57

is a elevation in the akhirah, if you

00:40:57--> 00:40:58

are patient with it.

00:40:59--> 00:41:00

And that is why the prophet

00:41:01--> 00:41:02

said that as an example,

00:41:02--> 00:41:04

because he was given the option. Do you

00:41:04--> 00:41:06

want to live like a king or you

00:41:06--> 00:41:07

want to live like a slave?

00:41:09--> 00:41:12

And he chose to live like a slave

00:41:13--> 00:41:15

to have just enough

00:41:15--> 00:41:17

because that's honorable.

00:41:18--> 00:41:21

Right? So this is what tells us that

00:41:21--> 00:41:22

you could you could have a lot of

00:41:22--> 00:41:23

money.

00:41:23--> 00:41:25

You could be a millionaire in the bank,

00:41:25--> 00:41:27

but the way that you live, you live

00:41:27--> 00:41:28

like Muhammad alayhis salatu wa sallam.

00:41:29--> 00:41:32

Money doesn't tempt you. Money doesn't change you.

00:41:32--> 00:41:34

Money doesn't take you away from Allah azza

00:41:34--> 00:41:36

wa jal. But you get it and it's

00:41:36--> 00:41:39

in your hand and when Allah says spend,

00:41:39--> 00:41:40

you spend

00:41:40--> 00:41:42

and your heart is with Allah Azzawajal.

00:41:43--> 00:41:45

Okay, Insha'Allah. So we'll stop here

00:41:47--> 00:41:49

Anybody has any

00:41:49--> 00:41:50

question?

00:41:54--> 00:41:54

Nothing?

00:42:07--> 00:42:08

Exactly.

00:42:08--> 00:42:10

So he's the brother is asking. He says,

00:42:10--> 00:42:10

when we,

00:42:11--> 00:42:13

explain the condition of, the prophet

00:42:14--> 00:42:16

of how little he had, was that the

00:42:16--> 00:42:16

norm

00:42:16--> 00:42:17

of all of society,

00:42:18--> 00:42:21

or did some people have more? No. Some

00:42:21--> 00:42:22

people had more.

00:42:22--> 00:42:24

Right? In evidence with the fact that the

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prophet salallahu alaihi wasalam once came out

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and he was hungry. Abu Bakr was hungry,

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Omar was hungry, and then one from the

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Ansar received them and he gave them food.

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So obviously, he had food that they didn't

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have,

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or that,

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the neighbors of the prophet

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who had milk animals and they had

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milk. So they had that with them, and

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sometimes they would give the prophet

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so they had a little bit extra.

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So not everybody went at the same level

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of the prophet, alayhis salatu wa sallam, but

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many were,

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but not everybody.

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And the prophet, alayhis salatu wa sallam, in

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particular, he was very generous. So even if

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he had something

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so we know that from other hadith after

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Khaybar

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was opened

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and he had a portion of land for

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him, alayhis salatu wa sallam, he would receive

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a lot of dates. So he would set

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aside

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what it would be enough for his family

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for an entire year.

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So some people ask then how come the

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prophet alaihis salatu wassalam had less even though

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he had set aside

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that much?

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They said because whenever somebody came and asked

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him, he would give.

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If any guest comes to his home, he

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would give. So he would run out, alayhi

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salaahu alayhi salaam. So some people who would

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have more than the prophet, alayhi salatu wa

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sallam.

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Okay.

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Yeah.

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Lucas?

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No.

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I'm zakalakaib Barakalafi. So I'm going to repeat

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that?

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It's okay. No. No. I can repeat it

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inshallah so everybody can hear it. So Barak

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Alafi is is mentioning a hadith of prophet

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So it says if somebody wakes up in

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the morning and he is healthy,

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he is healthy,

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and,

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he is secure,

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and also he has the food for today.

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It's as if he has this whole world.

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Right?

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So if you live and you have these

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three things that you're healthy, you're safe, and

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you have enough food to eat for today,

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then you have everything that you need from

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this world.

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Right?

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Everyone who has anything else more than that,

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that's extra. But this is the basis of

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happiness.

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So if you just wake up today and

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you say, Alhamdulillah,

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I'm healthy. Alhamdulillah, I am safe. I have

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enough to eat. You say to yourself, what?

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I'm living like a king.

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So if you're satisfied with that,

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then the rest of the day your heart

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will be open and the chest will be

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so open, they'll be grateful for anything that

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you receive extra.

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But if you wake up and you just

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look at what is missing from your day,

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then you'll never be happy. Even if whatever

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no matter what Allah gives you, you'll never

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be happy. So again, it's about

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attitude. For bringing this up. So, inshallah, we'll

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next week at the same time.

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next week at the same time.