Channel: Alaa Elsayed
This episode makes mention of the instructions of Prophet SAW to deal with the difficulties of this time in the light of hadith some of which are: to contribute in a positive way to the society, look for aspects that would bringing back humanity regardless of race and religion, holding firm on your religion, working hard for your children and at the same time commanded to abstain from bloodshed, mass killings and evaluating people.
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My dear brothers and sisters in Islam today's book was a very practical one is like a hands on training,
they may be altered just a bit because of the current issues and that my dear brother versa, the members that bother me a lot.
So understanding the similarity and how our laws of how gender is reminding us all the time, that even still I will lead you in the house, that the day is in the nights, the months the goal over the year that Passover in avanzada. Indeed, that you are a mirror number.
So we have to understand that every day that goes by every hour that goes by every minute, every second, that you actually counting down, your lifespan is not counted up to your death, it's counting down what is being given to you. But it's been a lot of due in years man lifetime, even though it's written in the womb after 120 days, but you still do not know that it's an investment that was given you as
we mentioned before, that's the day it's called that present because of that the day that is passed, you cannot get and you cannot guarantee what is coming up, by all means.
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So we have a few days that we have
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is young we have now and young Maroon is promised and Jamba Juice, everybody will testify either now or the other. So we have a few days that we work around. That is all surrounding about. And the scholars will tell you and talk about the Shabbat how Allah Subhana Allah acts to the angels and the groups are closed. And this is when the month of Ramadan comes as if it's up that the reviewing
as if you coming into the day from above, when you're fasting, you're depriving yourself of everything.
And now the day that has come the time that you break your past, when you actually are happy to eat and drink.
And we said that this is exactly what happens our life we spend the whole day as it was been the whole life struggling striving our own yard. 14 types they are, but the comes to a time to receive the reward.
And some of us do it with the sincerity and some of us don't do it with the sincerity some of us will be accepted some of it will be not.
And similarly, we have the Josie amatola he says that the month are 12 of the year, as if the work that brothers have used the values
but the most beloved of the 12 of Yaqoob. Allah is the father user so that was useful. Similarly it says that that month that Ramadan among the 12 is the most beloved 12 hours.
And he also similarly even when his brother is made mistakes and they sent them committed whatever it is that they committed
when they came back to use the body instead of what did he say? He slapped a fever or a Coolio
give you similarly allows the panel
does the same in the month of Ramadan. And you can see the link to many similarities. But we don't have enough time to go into all the details, because I want to share with you something that you do with your family today that is practical. It is on a piece of paper itself. But it's also in the booklet that we are trying to spread to have this beautiful knowledge spread with everyone, including your family, especially where does that stem from? And yeah, you either need to and prusa can equal
a job. Oh, you believe protect yourself and your family. So let's talk about the family. As a family, the
similarities of that reference of use of the most beloved was used by the adjuster, but how did he deal with it? And how do we actually have the similarities of that? Think about it allows you like gives you a gift to the month of Ramadan.
And he sees the need, how are you supposed to do? Is that read for you just because you are going to eat or drink? Or is that it for you this specifically because you celebrating an o'clock and it will be obedience that you're grateful to Allah subhanaw taala that you were able to go through it. And you were successful to do it. And compare that lead with what I want to
The man who God what I read on hava you
says that he is not just wearing different clothes and nice and beautiful witch's hat and how to do that good enjoy yourself.
But he says the true read for him is the one that we will have on Judgement day
that you work toward your whole life. Till you will come to us whether you like it or not including the sports live a lot will come in a box. Whether you like it or not, no matter how rich you are, you will come to us unclosed no bank accounts. The only thing you will have is your bank account, blah, blah.
You're basically doing a transfer of what you have saved in this life on the righteous deeds, not anything else.
From the righteous deeds that is the bank you transferred from the bank of the lunia the bank you then you after. So think about it, what is in the box.
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You are devoting your whole life you're submerging yourself in the dunia. That's what it is. And we already explained the dounia means the lower level. So how could we be doing something that is not as diverse, it is guaranteed for us, and we're not doing things that is asked of us.
We run after everything that is guaranteed. We're not asking you to go home and stay home alone. We're asking do your best but make sure you understand that things are absolute of you to do. But if we neglect that what is a love Atlas, and right afterwards guaranteed for us, the mouse will mostly go to B.
It means an opposite your vision was meant if it's guaranteed for your lifespan is guaranteed for you, your sustenance guaranteed for you.
So we devote our lives to worrying about our life and our risk, and is already guaranteed. That's why this analysis allows. I know God has given you that as a gift. So don't worry about it. Or about the one that actually is given you that
the Lord the Lord should
please understand that Scirocco, FEMA will have a global admin
meaning that you're asked to do things but you're not doing them.
But what is more luck than even Alan Tomas was considered to be? That's what it means. My dear brothers is that so it says if you are submersed in the dunya
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and you were submerged you forgot you were actually blinded.
And Ramadan is dumb isn't a time for us now to let go talking to the opposite gender in inappropriate ways. isn't the time for us now to lower our gaze? Isn't it time to stop fooling ourselves? The word Jasmine come and break? Isn't a time for us to hold accountable before we're held accountable? Isn't it time for us to weigh our actions before they're laid on to us? Isn't a time to come back to the grind? Isn't it time for us to come back to the sooner Isn't it time for us to put a smile on the poor person isn't enough time for us to put our hand on a pair of an orphan. Isn't it time for us to stand up and greet in front of a line in the middle of the night? Isn't a
time for us to actually turn off that TV that poisons you. Isn't it time for us to do that a lot is our Lord and come back and listen to what he said.
Isn't it time to know that the Quran is the word of Allah actually heat to the message isn't a time to know that the Prophet Mohammed Salah is our messenger and get to know Him and follow his footsteps. So the medium agenda isn't a time for us to know that your time is our enemy and taken as an enemy, and isn't a time for us to know that we bury our debt. But we do not get any wisdom behind it isn't a time for us to let go. And work on the castles on the work on the graves isn't a time for us to let go that the accountability we run after what I learn weapons is that we hoard everything else and we forget the outcome of it we get some more disease while
nothing will fill your eyes except us, which means when we die, but the levels panels your livers telling you that you will not take anything with you. But there's a What do what is disaster? Upset wah. And that's the secret. Does that mean what you need to mudrooms? Does that actually means what you need the sustenance need to the journey? And the journey is this life after you actually have both the
data told you what you will need on that journey? Is this higher? Is that why wouldn't you learn it in the month of Ramadan. He said that a lot of it is just the end up in all
the secrets that we talked about. So it's time for us. For us to ask the last panel Tyler to get us
to grant us a chance to abandon him before it's too late. There's too much to share a little time after justice that I would share with you on the game plan that you can work with your family. So you can actually be within the meaning of life without having to let go of melamine or soleimani.
my dear brothers and sisters in Islam
you've been waiting for this guest for a whole year. Now it's here, what can be done about it.
Some of us are actually counting the days that they
can hardly wait for them to come. Because this month of Ramadan, this usage is coming between us and our lovely women live to 1000 desires and everything else is the dawn is telling you. So you're counting I so what is the purpose of this thing? And we'll talk about the purpose and the before all of this. But let us not put a practical example. What do you do?
Have you not seen a brother or a sister that had a smile on their face in the whole month of Ramadan? Because they actually can see that they actually made it. They're happy. What does that mean to you? It's a beautiful smiling face that you see in the message. A beautiful warm hearts.
A beautiful hug
a brotherhood or sisterhood
a beautiful presentation.
Maybe a beautiful drop of water that comes from your eyes for the first time that you feel on your cheek. Maybe finally your soft heart is actually making your body shape even though your feet are aching
and you can hardly wait for the man to say salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah. But you still smiling?
That's what Ramadan should mean to us, because we're actually given a golden opportunity.
Ramadan should not mean how much we eat and drink, and what list of movies we're watching to waste our time that we get to break it. But that does not mean that there's a lot more to it. So just being practical, because of lack of time, let us go through this, we'll be handing out your child law, including the booklet for the cost.
Now, let us talk about this once you feel that way. And especially the brothers who actually or the sisters that cry when you hear the man reciting algebra,
indicating not just the end of the class, also the end of Ramadan, people actually cry. If you get to that stage yet you're smiling in the month of Ramadan, not even painful, you actually know what you've actually tasted the beauty of obedience of above, you've tasted being close to a love, you've actually tasted the beauty of coming close to that part of that core and you actually embody it you're walking bulpitt you're close to it, the link is there.
According to Nagisa when he was asked what is the distance between the heavens and the earth? He says that what was the data?
He says an answered prayer. You see all of us have been taught.
That's the distance between the heavens and the earth.
Oh my Lord. Yes, my sleep. That's the distance as the neons have Beyonds and light years when
they had a different story. So do you have the best uplink at this point? Are we utilizing it? Are we actually making sure that we're doing so let's go through some of these things. First of all, the guardians now,
if you actually tasted this and your children don't know what you're talking about, first of all, I want you to make sure that you have a spreadsheet with their names on it.
And you have a meeting with your family. If you haven't done that before. We'll do it now.
You have a meeting with the family and say everyone should have a goal. In this month of Ramadan, we should have a goal. Everything in life you should have a goal for and work towards. You just cannot live haphazard. So you have a meeting with your family members. Don't be okay. My goal in this demo that is to do 123 I'm just making one for now.
And keep in mind the age difference and the abilities of your own children, including your mother and your father, their elder ones. Okay, what's your goal today, son, What's your goal this month, my daughter, and so on. So everyone should have a goal and write down the goal. It shouldn't be written, visual. And your second goal is to make sure that you actually provide them what means that they actually get to establish their goals.
Included, give everyone like a bag of gifts included in it, the Muslim fortress of a Muslim. So make sure that you do so accordingly you should have a reward after they reach their goal. All right, here's what you read gifts will be according to your establishment the goal should repeat to consequences in teaching liability, you teaching them responsibility, you teach them accountability,
then they get the reward for what they see, they see the reward for what they've sown. They also will get disciplined if they don't do so you will take the star out instead of putting it on. So according to their actions and deeds, the bigger the gift an agency according to what they do.
Now, make sure you understand in this case, you should also have a competition healthy competition between your children, for example, okay, we're reading the book of the Sahaba on the llamas, right? Or the book of that the seal the biography of Robert Warhammer salsola, or the book of the battles since you children like this fighting games or whatever it is given the halaal fighting game instead of killing the cop and blowing up a car and stealing a bank and they get reward for killing all that illegal stuff lifted now go back in history and find out how we used to actually win wars when we fear the loss. I know gelato that and would like give us a victory because if we actually had that
each student when they actually they did not get the victory because they missed one sooner. teach them about the time where the absolute for 1000s of miles bare feet
where they actually took theirs off and took it apart and wrapped around their feet because they had an underwear and walked in the heat of the desert for 1000s of miles. Three on one camel, they shared pizza with the Sahaba who they were the golden three generations.
And how far we are from the plan that we have to come back in order for them to follow and teach him what the the followers of Sahaba
used to grind. You know why he's the bride. didn't have too much. briyani was supposed to do it for them. That was not good enough, man. I don't have a ps4. I'm just the poor guy. I don't have maintenance gadgets. I'm crying man. No, he used to cry because we cannot even get to the level of Ahava because they saw Prophet Mohammed Salah, the Venus and we are the Venus was raised horses that were walking behind them with krypto Moon teach them about the woman that used to actually carry
When she talked about what she carried, she was pregnant, carrying the food for Robin Johannes all along
when she was pregnant in the heat of the sun that people want us to kill her teacher about the woman in Islam that they were even stronger than us And nowadays, teaching who they were the one that carried the banner of Islam Have
you actually say really out? You actually read this a lot here in the West, where it's not a Muslim country. Teaching what happened when you lost the hill after we left the planet sooner and you submerge the resolve and what we are doing now
teaching and the lesson that is learned that Islam was never going to dilute but only Muslims winner loser good interactions and names. Pizza was better how Allah Subhana Allah give us victory even though we were one third, the ratio
Free. We didn't have anything except unbelievable love so hard on gender. Teach him about the dog, and how much they put their trust in Allah. For three years, he ate the leaves of a tree and sugar that we follow and teach him and teach him the time is out. There's 27 things on this list. There's too many things to share with your children get to
know who they are, walk in their footsteps behave like them. And when you ask your children who's their daughter, they will tell you who's Madonna, they will tell you, who's Michael Jackson, they will tell you, who's whatever it is, I don't know what's new now.
We're not interested to know who they are now. But I have to speak in their language that they use. And that's why I learned about it. That's the only reason why
because you have to speak their language. Now they will tell you everything about everything else.
The best soccer player the best and the best staff their best color their favorite color their whatever it is, but you asked notice how veleno nothing.
So Pamela, it's time for us to have that as a competition in the month of Ramadan. Teach them that these two fights in battles in Ramadan while fasting. So why do I get the phone calls? Can I actually break my fast while I'm going shopping left.
As if it's like now I'm going shopping is an excuse on the list. That is not my shop comm is too much work. I have to catch the baggy, the Gucci this and the Gianni Versace that and the one other Gianni Armani, this will help us we'll learn.
So we have to come back. Well, I am not belittling you. Because the amount of questions I'm getting I know that we don't know the ABCs of Islam, it's my fault. I'll take the heat for that. So when we say we have a workshop tree, come and learn about Ramadan a few weeks ago to teach you everything about it. We've given the things that we don't stay home, I don't know what to tell you. We can pull you in, we've been only provided for you. So this list will be provided for you at least taken home. Can you do us a favor? Can you do yourself a favor at least? So is the competition. Why? Because you want to give an alternative handout, as opposed to watching this film
will help us you know what the problem is with us. Because Robin has told us that we will imitate the West, the people who look, unfollow them, even the hope. But the problem is, I don't mind imitating them with the good things that they've taken from us learn what his name is. This person has been to Japan a few times. I was embarrassed how the a lot of the Japanese war. I was embarrassed
that they actually I can't begin to tell you it's not a topic now. But I'm thinking Yes, like Muhammad Ali, he says, I went to the west, I saw Islam, but no Muslims.
And then I went back to the east I saw Muslims. But where is it
so now I'm putting on this list here is compiled by different scholars May Allah bless them all that you have to change one o'clock, please at least we told you the secrets of Ramadan are three specific but there's more, of course, is lost sincerity because the secret between you and Allah and death. Why because nobody else sees you except the low when you're alone and patient sub because you have to have patience on your whims and desires these other above to approach you to the private part. And you're what we live for is not right, just to eat and whatever it is. So the lions teaching you can just live for that people live to eat, but people actually Eat to Live the
difference. So on this list, you have to understand that for on that list for every one of your children, including yourself and lead by example you put down one o'clock I have to change one slide I have to memorize. I have to get into the car more. I have to come to the massage and more more steps now for every good step that will take to the question. There's one good deed written one we need to raise, especially in Vegeta.
time because the darkness illuminating guiding light on just Monday. Take your children and make sure they take him to that hospital to see that burn unit. Can you see the less fortunate so they become grateful.
Make sure you understand that among the time, make sure you're given some help were needy. I want you to prepare the food and give it to the poor yourself and help the poor. Help the food bank right here understand what it means. Now you know what it feels like to be hungry and thirsty. If you want your wife to join you in this journey, please don't invite people over Ramadan was not just to come over and come over. It's a beautiful social event to understand. But the time is so short, you can't even you hardly even come. So please don't burn in your wife with all these things you possess you cook that is not that.
Also makes sure that you teach your children to give in the month of given you take whatever that is
excess of your own children do you tell them you give this my son, you give this my daughter. let them lead by example, show them how to go on a journey together especially if you can take him to the home. Do the Africa, Africa or even one day in this question, taking one taking one at a time killing your car as you come in, and film your car, the remembrance of Allah subhanaw taala during the day and during the night, give him the tools lead by example believed in them. There's too many things to get you to notice. Last thing I will leave you with is reminding them that I want to be with you and Jenna my daughter. I want to be with you in general my son, I want to be with you and
Jenna my wife. I want to be with you But in general, my husband so that he Lavina who knows
so we can't just be mindful of Allah we can withstand the period of hunger but we could not withstand the pain of the hellfire. So make sure you have halaal income you know, everything analyzed yeah Buddha, how's the law going to answer your prayer? If everything is harming your life? Isn't it time for us now to change turn around and walk away. And if you need something for the sake of Allah will grant you something better Rest assured mantella cache
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if you have chuckwalla we'll find a way out for you and grant your source knowing that you haven't thought of too many things to share with you the time is up I ask allows you to regather us with our families engender after one healthy rates of
fasting except, except archaeon. Because he says
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for the sake of Allah and if you actually stand up to pray for the sake of Allah, your previous sins have been speeding which means the last for the sake of Allah.
You do it for the sake of Allah you want the reward from Allah Subhana
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show was just a quick reminder this is a booklet that we are given for $5 just about the difference in income in the restaurant and in everything you want to tell your children in detail.
And in the back of it actually the game land that we talked about the 27th. Now if you're not interested in this we've actually printed 500 there's only about 100 or so left. So these are going to be outside so you get them for $5 for a good cause. This one here if you don't want to get the book by all means feel free to sign but at least pick this up. This is the 27 points I suppose to share with your family. We take it at least there are certain things in the back the do's and the don'ts, also the mother of last year so we can actually have a nice safe one.
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