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smilla rahmanir rahim al hamdu Lillahi mento who want to start you know who when I stopped Pharaoh when I would read I mean surely fusina women say Dr. Dr. Molina Thank you. Now for now move the letter woman dude Lin for now. Hi, Dina. Why shadow era in Allahu la sharika why shadow no Mohammed Abu Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Ali Baba in Halo Canon cunnamulla his Suhana who what the Allah will halal houda houda Nabina sallallahu alayhi wa it was sending them to swimming cathedra was shuttle more Marta to her will coup d'etat and betta will collab with Adam bulalo collaborating finance

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and what we have the honey in the book of Allah subhanho wa Taala and the authentic pseudonym the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is the indisputable fact that everyone here they have the trials and they have their tribulations, they have the ups and they have their downs. And if anyone is living in this dunya and he or she thinks or believes one second that life is going to be without problems, then they're not reading the Quran and they're not reading this sooner, and they're not being realistic.

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Allahu taala is mentioned in the Quran on our own and now whom you've known if you call me am in mirliton Omar attain, do they not see that they are tried every single year once or twice. So this year person he loses his job. The following year, the individual loses his mother. The following year, he's diagnosed with a serious disease. That's the nature of the highest of the dunya. And there is no one absolutely no one except that he has to deal with these issues. He gets out of one problem and before he knows it, there is another problem staring him in the face. Allahu taala mentioned in the Quran. What john Bardo can live by bobbin fitnah appears to be wrong. Rarely we

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have made you fitness for one another to see if you're going to have suburb.

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So the wife is a fitness for her husband. The husband is a fitness for the wife, the mother and the father of fitness for the children. The children are a fitness for the mother and the father. When we come together in an assembly like this in the masjid with fitness for each other. So the Prophet told us on the Allahu Allahu Allah Allah He was setting them min levy you highly to NASS, why Yasuhiro Adele home hydro minion movement and levy larrieu highly to NASS, well is Spiro Allah,

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the believer who mixes with the people and he's patient he has suffered with what he sees from them that he doesn't like those things which annoy him. He's better than the woman who refuses to mix with the people. And he's not having support and he's not patient with that which annoys him. We have to have trouble with each other because that is the primary clear. We made you fitna towards one another to see if you're going to have subak

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the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa and he was sending them to this community and now has at the combat he added more on tone Girona calu jasola My mother tongue Moodle, many other academic Amina Carla Salah line Salatu was send them to addional happen levy aleikum. What does Allah levy lecan? after my death, they want to be some affairs where the leaders are going to play favorites, the leaders of the Muslims, they're going to choose some people over others. And also you're going to see some things that you're not going to like those companions, they got us a lot. What What do you advise one of us to do when we have those types of leaders in those types of situations. He

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said, Give the rights of the people whoever has a heart over you give them their heart and ask a line Be patient in receiving your own harp because we want to be fitness to one another that people know that the leader of the Muslims for example, they are fitness for

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Because the Quran said that they fitna for us, and we're a fitna for them. So the point here is the fact that we have to deal with trials and tribulations, we have to deal with each other, and in dealing with each other, that in and of itself is a trial and tribulation. And even in describing the believer, Prophet told us on the law when he was sending them in the movement, Holika morfydd, Donna, the movement, the believer, he has been created to be tried.

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So there's no one sitting here who was of age and his balance, and is as is awesome, except that he has trials and tribulations. Some people are suffering from serious conditions of stress right now. And some people their stress levels are not that high. But rest assured, everybody has problems. Everybody has Fitton as a result of that the issue of cyber is an issue that is of paramount importance. Allies were gentle. He didn't create us to be tried to put these fitness upon us just to amuse himself harshly not. He created us like this to put us to trials and tribulations for some really powerful meanings. You said in the Quran about that issue? Well, my luck, nah, a semi

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Whiteville, out of the womb, I've been a woman like a bean. I didn't create the heavens and the earth. And what is between the heavens and the earth? I think creating playing around in just making a lab can create us to be try just to do that to you to play a game high shader that you traded us to be tried. And it has a number of wisdoms. One of the wisdoms is what allies you mentioned in the Quran and sort of the anchor boat for the lemon law, love levena Sadako, while a elemental kvb law puts us through these trials and tribulations, so as to know who are the ones who have a set, who are the sada team, the one who says I'm a movement, I'm a Muslim. And then once he says that, he

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proves it.

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So he puts those trials and tribulations to him.

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And from the difference of the one who says I'm a Muslim, but when something happens to him, he blames Allah. And he doesn't exercise any fitna or he doesn't get any slower, or he doesn't do what the religion is saying to do in a particular given state of circumstances. So the shadow of all of that is in today's dose, talking about the subject that is beautiful. The subject of that is Jimmy Hill. This is just one of the many, many keys that allow Allah has given us one of the many, many weapons that allies Magellan has given us to get out of our trials and our tribulations, the trials and tribulations that no one can escape from no one. So there is not one key. There are many keys to

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deal with a fitten is not one weapon, there are many weapons from those weapons is for a person to have. As soon as that is said. If you are truthful with Allah, you will get out of your problem. One of the many weapons is having hosts in the oven, having a good opinion about allow supanova data and what he can do and what he will do. And what he won't do that he doesn't oppress you and he doesn't put you beyond put you in a situation that you can bear from those keys is having to work on and Allah from those keys to get out of the fitting and the problems is the issue of getting to know Allah in the good times. And then during the bad times, Allah will know you, as the Prophet told us

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on the law while he will sell them to ally Farah ha Yara fuka fish she'll

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get to know Allah know Allah during the good times. When you have good health when you're young when you have money giffy sebelah get to know a lot during the good times when your problems are lesser. And then when you have a problem that you have to deal with. Allah is going to know you at that time. It will be there for you at that time. The point is, all of these are issues that are some of the weapons and they are many, many, at taqwa having a tough one, and it's the far making a Toba all of those issues. Help the slave to get out of bs mudjacking a DA helps the slave get out of the mudjacking just generally practicing the religion come into the masjid praying the prayers wearing

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Hijab and other than that, the Prophet told the people some of them love when he went out he was selling them fitting into rajul

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finale he Marley he went FC he went to D he went jati when you cut federal hot FCM was solid was sadhaka

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Well, Mr. RUBIN maruf would no longer the trial that a man deals with the fitna that he has in his money and his wealth, his family, his wife, his children, the fitna that he has from his neighbor, as a bad neighbor, the fitna that he has to deal with, they are expiated, by him fast in their expiated, by him making salaat by him giving sadaqa by enjoying the good, and preventing the evil, the evil. So the point here is, there are many, many mfat T. And there are many, many weapons. Today we want to talk about one of those weapons in sha Allah, and we're going to just deal with certain aspects of it. And that is the weapon of a suburb, a suburb.

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In regards to the brother's name in today's talk, the beautiful suburb that is because of honey, this is an A Bara or a term from a from the terminologies of Ellis land that we should know saboom Jimmy, because it comes in the Quran, a number of times, it comes in the Quran, in the story of yourself, and in the surah and the chapter of yourself, which is a source of a lot of lessons concerning the importance of a subject, whoever has a problem here and that's all of us, whoever is stressed out and some of us are really stressed out and others are not so stressed out in the Quran, in the authentic center for whatever your problem is, there is a prophet, a messenger, a righteous

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man or woman some way in that poor Island the authentic sooner that you can take a lesson directly from those pages of the Quran and the Sunnah. And they are applicable exactly to your case he has she has a bad husband, then she has to have the support of

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the wife for their own

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family problems, family issues, then she has he has the story of use of a tremendous benefit. Firstly being accused, as in the story of use of sunlight to lie he was cinema a tremendous benefits. So in this statement of allowable tolerance profit yopu yopu when the brothers came back, and they wanted to tell the Father, what they perceived as being the truth, and it was the truth at that time that his youngest son, who was known as Binyamin Benjamin, he stole something he stole something the father knew Previous to that, that they had lied about the wolf. So they told them they kept your youngest son now we lost use of now we lost the youngest son as well being mean yaku

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Salawat delay was said while he said cada been so well at the comb and photo comm Umbra for sablon Jimmy as a low end yet tyranny, bm gymea no Hua allemaal Hakeem, this column of you people telling me that my youngest son Binyamin who I know that he stole something, and as a result of that, they kept him as a captive and you come telling me this story. This is a story that your own minds have made up your own souls, you've created this thing. But saboom Jamil patience is beautiful. I'm going to have the beautiful patience. It may be it may be that Allah is going to bring all of them back to me.

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Allah is going to bring use of back to me and Allah is going to bring his brother my youngest son, bring me back to me for Verily Allah He is an alien and He is Allah Hakeem. So that's the first place where the AI is mentioned this Islamic terminology for sub boom Jimmy beautiful sub

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second times mentioned is in sort of admire Sora and Marge Allahu tada commanded the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was that Allah saw even the eye that had been walking a little caffeine and Lisa who

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Minna la he did my Irish Tarot Jew and in Milan aka Toro, who la Yeoman candidate the battle scene alpha center for sub bring jameelah and Noemi Aruna who bury down wha Hoo kariba Allahu taala mentioned in this or this term again for a second time.

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The question of put forth the question about the inevitable punishment the punishment

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That is going to befall the disbelievers. And there's nothing that's going to repel it and push it away. The punishment punishment that comes from Allah, the One who has an edge, the waves of ascension. That's why it's called an my Irish, the one who has the wave of ascension to him, the angels and the roof. And kudos. jabril so the lot's of luck will set mo and a, they go up to Allah in a day. The like of that day is like 50,000 years. Verily, they see it as being far away, but it is close, meaning you'll know piano a lot till the Prophet sallallahu Sallam first bear sobrang jameelah so be patient, humming, be patient, the beautiful patience. So what is the meaning of this

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rebar? What is the meaning in our Quran that Allahu taala has used and the aroma of Islam previously from the Bharat that we should come to know if we came to this Masjid. And we learned the meaning of these words, the benefit of just learning this, only Allah knows what it is in the scale. Because the Prophet told us if we come to the masjid salaallah salaam, and we learn one iota twice or three eyes and so forth. So on sablon Jimmy, what does it mean, for scholars of Islam? They said that sub Jamil the beautiful patience means the patience in which a person doesn't complain about the thing that he's dealing with is the suburb where whenever he's dealing with whatever he's dealing with, if

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you ask him, how's your situation, what's going on? He says that hamdulillah or Alhamdulillah, Allah clearly has, he doesn't go around complaining about his issue. He's sick, diagnosed with cancer. He heard about the death of something or someone and it has made him seriously upset. This individual he has sub where the people look at him, and they see him and if he didn't say something, the person who doesn't know about his problem wouldn't have come to know about it. Why do they give you that definition? They give you that definition because of what also was said by aku salotto law he was ceremony in the Quran in surah Yosef when he said to his children, cada in a school bethey will

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Hosni illallah wa rahmatullah him Allah tala. Verily, I complain, I complain about my grief and I complain about my sorrow only to Allah. I don't come to you to complain. I'm not telling you, my children. I'm not telling my wives I'm not telling the community, my grief and my sorrow. I complain about it only to Allah because he alone knows the reality of it. He alone is the one who can take it off with me. He alone is the one who decreed it upon me and when I complain to the other people about it usually only causes more problems usually only causes more problems. So that's one of the reasons why is called sub room Jamil. The southern way the person conceals what his problem is.

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Another example of that is what allows tada described the footer of the Quran. The people who need help, he said about them. Yes, several human john hill at Nia minute.

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Daddy for whom busy man whom laggers arulanantham will happen. He said about the real fukuhara who have some demons some taqwa some position, not like what we see sometimes with the people begging and so forth and so on. They may be begging and they deserve because the one who asked he has a right to as you can give them you may not give them but the one who doesn't beg. He is the one who has the sub the best Jamil a lot described in the Quran and he said that the one who doesn't know him, the one who doesn't know him, he's just he doesn't know him. He thinks that he has money because of a tough he doesn't say anything. He doesn't ask people for anything. And he's in need. A

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lot of say you will know them from the Assign. And they assign is they do not ask the people indiscriminately. They don't go and say I need this. I need that. Not that is haraam to do that. If you need money. If you are a person who

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you can receive Zakat or sadaqa. You can let people know your situation. But you're not having the sub Jimmy love the Quran for sub Jimmy love the individual who whatever his problem is, he doesn't say anything to the point that he's impoverished. But the people think that

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He's not in need, because he's exercising the suburb that is Jimmy. The suburb that is Jimmy Lee, when he has three conditions, has three conditions, this characteristic of a suburb that everyone is in need of the first condition of the suburb, Jimmy is that the person has to have a loss in his summary. He has to have a close, because the society is where we come from Muslims and non Muslims alike. Sometimes they tried to get us to buy into Muslim societies and non Muslim societies alike. Get us to buy into the man and being a man he has to be strong, especially in the face of adversity. So if he loses a child, someone that he loved, he lost his mother, someone that he loves. He can't

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cry. society tells them Don't cry, because that's the way it was raised. Don't be a little girl Don't cry. Why you acting like that? So instead of crying and mourning, he's like a rock. And he even gives a party. It gives a dinner after someone close to him as die. So that it would be said, Wow, look how strong he is. Look how powerful the come maybe he is. After he lost his mother. Look how he's acting. He didn't take any days off from work. That's not suburban Jamil. suburban, Jamil is for a person to have suburb and Indian somebody has a loss. Second of all that suburban is only for a lot. Second of all, he does not complain to Allah, la escuela Bo, he doesn't say Oh Allah, why

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did you do this? To me? That's not surprising Jimmy. If he sits where she sits

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and complains about what Allahu Allah has decreed. And they blame Allah as opposed to having hosts navan. Whatever happened, it is in your best interest, whatever happened. It is the idea of Allah, the hoekman Allah is passing within you modern FICO. Whatever happened, you have the ability to deal with it, that people will have such a valuable and a bad opinion about Allah. These are the individuals who turn around and they complain Why did you do it to me why was the creed upon me going to commit suicide or this or that?

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Instead of having husana then as the Prophet Allah sallallahu alayhi wa it was said to them, that Allah set at a and vana dB. In Vander Heiden fellow, we're in London, Sharon fellow, I will be in accordance to the way my sleeve thinks I am. If my slave thinks good of me, I'll be good with him. And if my sleeve thinks evil, then I'm going to be the thing that's going to happen is going to be back.

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It's not going to come out the way that he thinks it should come out, it's going to be a problem for him. So he asked that hosting event and not complained to Allah. Why did you do this? Like the people will Jamia that people will generally if they had a van, you will know Nebula haven vandal j helia. They thought about Allah in a way that wasn't

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the truth. It was the lung and the speculation of Jay Hillier. The speculation of Jay Z was a lot. If something happened to one of them a catastrophe. They will curse the time. If something happened to one of them from the Maasai, the moose, even something happened to them. They would drink Hamada tried to forget about the problem, they will do crazy things if something happened to them. If something happened to them, they will second guessed the cutter of Allah, they will use the word low if if if low cantilena. Minimum reshape Martina hoonah. If we had anything to do with this, we wouldn't have been killed right here. We shouldn't have never come out. If we wouldn't have come out

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on this day we wouldn't have died. That's so valuable. And so the Prophet told the community sallallahu wasallam. Don't say if don't say if I would have done this. If I would have done that, then that wouldn't have happened and this would have happened. Because if opens up the works of a Shaban. So the second condition of the sub Jimmy is not to blame Allah, thoroughly and finally a honey from the conditions of a person who has sub Boone Jamille, the subject of which he conceals his problem to the best of his ability. He has a class in his suburb, he doesn't blame Allah. And number three, he has the suburb at the proper time.

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Meaning when the thing first happens, especially the way along with Allah has created everyone for the most part is that if a person lost someone who is very dear to them most his child lost his mother lost the father lost the wife, the husband. After a year after two years, Allah is going to take that away

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For me, with the passing of time, all catastrophes start to pale from how they were when they first started. That's from the Wrath of Allah. Because if we kept our problems, the intensity of them in our minds and hearts the same way that they were when it happened, you would probably die. You probably kill yourself suffer from some serious mental illnesses. And that's why a person can't kill himself by worrying about things that have happened in the past, let it go and get on with your life. The wife is allowed to mourn her husband for four months and 10 days.

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He was the one who was providing for her be a vanilla, he was her soul mate. In the dunya. He was the one who did things with her that she'll always remember for the rest of her life. So because of that close relationship and strong relationship, Allah gave her four months and 10 days as a Rama. After those four months in 10 days, she has to get on with her life. No one else no one else is allowed to mourn anyone more than three days. You have to get on with your life.

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So part of the subject Jimmy of the three conditions is that the person when the fitna happens, he at that moment has the suburb, not after two years now he says, I have suffered Jimmy laughter two years, no, after two years, the thing is naturally going to dissipate in your heart in your mind. The famous Hadith of the lady who lost a loved one and the Prophet came behind her son the love while he was selling them and told that lady, be patient and you'll get your reward from Allah. Be patient and you'll get your reward from Allah. She told him get away from me. You don't know what I'm going through. They came in told her and you said that to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa

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sallam, she went to apologize. I didn't know it was you. I'm sorry. He told her Salalah while he was in the Masada and the submittal oola. The time to have patience is when the catastrophe first happens. The problem first happen, take your time. Don't talk, don't react. Collect yourself, get your wits about yourself. That's part of saboom Jamille. But if the catastrophe first happens when the lady hears about the death of someone who's close to her, and she doesn't control herself and have this so that at that time, she'll rip open her shirt, she'll start slapping herself in the face, she'll throw stuff on the ground, she'll say woe is me, what was me? Oh Allah, why did you do

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this to me, and that disqualifies her from that moment having the sub Jimmy

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so that's why this talk is called sub buen Jamil, the beautiful suburb because of the mentioning of that issue in the book of allows panel with that, as for one of the virtues of sub, the virtues of it, the philosophy of a suburb. There are too many in the Quran and in the authentic stream not too many. from them is what Allahu taala has established in the law. masabi Verily, Allah is with those who have patience. Now this is important. Allah is with those who have patience. This ma is from the characteristics of Allah Mariya to Allah, Allah being with someone and being with people, and there are two types of it. Allah is with two types of people. There are two types of Maria, two types of

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Allah being with people. The first one is the Maria. That is general allies with everybody. He's with everyone. The men, the fast tip, the magic, the caffeine, the Mona fit, he's with the people when they go to the toilet, a chroma qumola is with them when they dive under the scene they go swimming is with them in the cave is with them wherever they are, well ah Who am I calling to? Allah is with you, wherever you are, wherever you are.

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There's nothing special about that in terms of people's condition in the relationship with Allah. Allah is with everyone.

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But Maria, that is hassle. The special Maria Alize with people in a special way. He's with people because of who they are. Or he's with people and or he's with people, because of some characteristic that they have. Low tide I mentioned in the Quran about this Maria, if you're Kuru sahibi Elijah has and in Allah mana when he said to his companion sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to Abu Bakar radi Allahu Don't be sad. Don't worry. We're here in this place in a cave hiding from them and they right here. They are about to get us you think, don't worry, Allah is with us. Allah was with them because of the characteristic who they are who they were.

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As the heart of the NBA, the Halle Allah Allah, his little sulan his Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam the say the Benny Adam, as a result of that Allah is with him. His religion had not been completed yet his mission had not been completed. He's still in Mecca, he still has 10 more years to go for his dour, so many at camp that come down and to be legislated. It's not finished allies with him because of who he was Salalah when he was said, and the Maori have a law that is special, hausa is the Maori of allies with gel with the person because of a characteristic in Allaha masabi. Allah will be with those people who are patient, because of the suburb because of the suburb in the bad

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marriage, be patient. Difficulty for the mother and the father, be patient allow will be with you because of that suburb. And we'll be with you for other reasons as well, because they from the lemma, it'll be with them because they're from those people who have lost it will be with them, because they're from those individuals who have humility and on and on and on, but from the really serious, seriously important characteristics is the characteristic of a summer to gain a law as wages, special protection from the virtues of the suburb as well as finding those people who have suffered and as I mentioned really a lot well, but should have saw bt and levena either a Saba

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Tomasi baton kalu in LA LA he was in LA he Raji Oh, ooh, la, la, la, la, la la la to me, Robin Marama. What are they doing? Give glad tidings and Mohammed to those people who have suffered from the virtues of a sub gave glad tidings, Bushra to those people who have suffered. Those people who, when something bad happens to them, a catastrophe hits them. Those people, they say verily from Allah, we come and Burley to Allah, we will return this thing that has happened and these things that are happening, I couldn't escape them. I came from Allah, and I'm returning to Allah. And in that journey that I'm making, these things that are happening and I just have to go through it and I

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have to deal with it. So instead of going crazy, I have submarine Jimmy. Allah said those are the ones who the Salawat of Allah upon them, by Rama of Allah is upon them. And they are they do they are guided, they have led Daya people who have Southern who have been blessed with sobor can exercise it. Those characteristics the Salawat of Allah allows forgiveness allows forgiveness for what they did, as the Heidi that we mentioned earlier, the fitness, the fitness of the man or the woman that comes from the family, the son, the daughter, the neighbor, that comes within the own person, their money, he lost his money, she lost some money, someone stole the money, let him give

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him back the money. These fitness, they are washed away in expiated as a result of the individual practicing the religion as a result of the individual, having this suffer from Allah subhanho wa Taala it washes away. So that again shows the virtues of a southern not being an individual who loses hope and loses faith that Allah subhanaw taala is going to help you there are many many I love Allah mentioned you work for you work for sabi, Luna, you work for sabi Luna eduroam Be ready he said, those people who have suffered they will be given their reward without any reckoning.

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person who has suffered from the virtues of having supper, you get your reward without any recognition from the poor families and poor individuals of Al Islam at the beginning was the

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illustrious family of nobility. Yes, sir. His family a modest father. So May his husband rob the alarm on home when they were being persecuted in public, in the public square Mecca. And the Prophet sallallahu wasallam used to walk by them, and he couldn't do anything other than to make Jihad with his tongue. He can do anything can untie them. All he can do was give advice, to help to establish them and to increase their suffering. That's the responsibility that people who around us have tours, those people have problems. We have to serve as advisors towards one another. Yeah. Be patient. Don't be of the people who help the person to be overcome by a shaytan he starts to

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complain about his issue and you say yeah, yeah, that's right here. That's why did a lot do it to you. Yeah, that's right. You have to advise them. Perfect walk by those people. So the lady was telling me will say to them Subhan Allah Yes.

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Subhan Allah yes and for in a document agenda. Yes family of yours you people out there on the pole being persecuted, being ripped apart and shredded in the sun, they will be in whipped. Be patient, because your reward for your sober is Jenna. Without any he said without any he said, You work for Sabina, you work for Sabina as your home Be ready, he said. So those are from some of the many virtues that have been mentioned in the Book of Allah. As for the authentic student of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa it was setting them for Hadith without harsh Hadith without hardage

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Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa alayhi wa sallam, and what was collected by an Imam Al Bukhari Muslim, and the authority of apple cider holders. In showing the virtues of patience, he said, My oltean abdon hiren What are all some men have suffered? A slave has not been given anything that is better and more expensive than suffering.

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Even knowledge, if a person has been given sub, he has been given Hiram kefir, and it is very wide. A person who was married in this mess Jade, if Allah gave him a lot of money, that doesn't guarantee his marriage is going to be successful, or he's going to be happy in his marriage, he can have all of the money in the world. But if he doesn't have supper, his marriage is not going to be nice.

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But if Allah gave the married man suburb suburb with his wife, suburban his children, then that is a lot of hype. And it is an expensive good.

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And just take that example and apply to everyone. Everything some of the brothers they want to go and study in Medina. So they come, can you write us a recommendation you write him the recommendation he may go may not go, if he goes, if he doesn't have sobor study Medina, this romantic idea that he has about studying over there, it'd be a big fitna, but if he has summer, he'll be able to deal with not eating the food that he's used to, he'll be able to deal with being in an environment that he's not used to, he'll be able to deal with all of those things that shaytan has to throw his way. Whatever your case is, from the virtues of a sub Malou to abdomen.

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High shading Hiraman suffer when no one was given anything better than patients, nor was anyone given anything wider than patients. So the one who has it has been given a lot of good, and the one who has not been given to this problem, whatever he's doing, the young man wants to get married. He doesn't have the ability to get married. If he has been given suburb, his life is manageable, he can handle it, she can handle it. If they didn't have suburb, whatever else Allah gave them, gave him strength. He's very strong, but he doesn't have suffered. He's in trouble. She's in trouble. From the virtues of the suburb from the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is that the

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Prophet told us on a law when he was sending him a sub rule di Well, I know Fujitsu lacco alake sobor is light for you. And light dia is different from nor the means the light, the real, really, really radiant light subwoofer is a radiant light for you. With sobor it has the ability for the one who has it and he exercises it or she exercises it. It has the ability to make everything clear for you and to you Just be patient

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have suffered and the reality of it is going to come clear. You may not be able to see it now, especially during this time, especially during this time. These are the times where the things are topsy turvy because we're close to the our being establish a digital is going to come during these times where the truth is passed off as being falsehood. And the false hood is passed off as being the truth. Everything is topsy turvy,

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the time of fitness problems. So you have to be careful who you're going to borrow your money to who you're going to loan the money to. You have to be careful. He's your friend, you thought he was a nice guy. You thought he was okay. Don't just borrow your money and loan money out to people you have to because we have people sitting right here and you had to taste this the bad way. So the sour taste is still in your mouth. These are the times that we're live in satiety and ananse. And a way to die is going to come to the people years of deceit. These are those times so take it easy. If you have

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sober, you will be able to tell because through the time, everything will make itself relevant. Everything will make itself manifest of suburbia. That's from the virtues of it. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa Ani, he will send them also informed us when in the hadith of Abu Yahya suhaib, Rumi, radi Allahu anhu. About that formula that is for the Muslim and is only for the Muslim is the maximum for the Muslim.

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The winwin equation,

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the winwin equation dealing with the issue of supper, Carlos sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he been the Ameren movement

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in the umbra. Who colo Who? Hi. When I akuna directly, I had an elderly woman and a Saba to Sarah Shakuntala for kind of hanging low when I saw and saw but to Bera sabara for Canada, Attica Halo. He said that the affair in the condition of the believer, it is amazing. His condition is amazing. He's sitting here right now with some serious issues on his head. His heart is heavy, some people, you know, in varying degrees. And despite all of those problems that he has, when he looks at himself, he tastes the solidness of his problem. But in reality, his situation is i G is amazing. And that's only for the believer. So only for the Muslim who's reached the level of an Amen. If something good

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happens to him, he thinks Allah, and because of his sugar, that's better for him. He'll be written down with the Shakib email, get the reward, all those people have a sugar. And if something happens that he doesn't like, my Yo, yo, Bara, if something happens that he doesn't like, he has sober. And as all of a sudden, it is better for him, it's better for him. He'll be with those people a lot with Tyler, he takes care of them because a lot with the savarin he'll get his reward without any he sad. The individual will get Allahu Tyler's protection. The individual will be from those individuals who all of those Ayat of the Quran, the authentic hadith mentioned about the people of a sub. So now the

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question comes, what do we have to have sub upon? And what do we have to have submitted in

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a lot of things that one is, generally speaking, because we live in this highest of the dunya. Everyone's condition is between two things.

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And there's not a third thing or condition. Everyone's condition is between Eva some NEMA that Allahu taala has given you good health, money, whatever you have, that's one condition, the good things that are happening in our lives. And the second thing, condition is that there's some problems and we'll see but something that people are dealing with. So we have to have suffered in those two cases. You have to have sub in an on the favors and allies which Allah has bestowed upon us, you have to have suffered with it, deal with it in a way that is reflective of what the Quran what the authentic son of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has shown us.

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In addition to that, and it comes under those two issues. We have to have submitted honey, and the things that I love what Tyler has commanded us to do in worshiping Him. The bad that Islam they require Subbu

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you have to do is take for an example, the fast of Ramadan,

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praying the Torah way.

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And how in the month of Torah, we're in the month of Ramadan. We all want to stand and not miss any of the taraweeh prayer. But as the month goes on, it becomes increasingly difficult for some to go through the whole month without missing any of the tunnel way, although it's in our best interest to do so.

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So being patient and standing up praying to lies or gel while your feet burning, your legs hurt. That's the subber on the obedience of allies with Jim struggled on making Moodle and our mestinon hamdulillah we're happy to say in our Masjid, the water is warm, it's manageable. It's no problem. Sometimes you go to the machine and the machine has water that is cold and you don't like making we'll do with that kind of water especially in the morning. So cold to some that they say I'm making tea mm, I'm not using that water. A lot doesn't burden a person beyond the scope and he becomes from the foot. Kahani uses that fifth and he leaves the water alone.

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Alone.

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Harlem Is that okay? not okay. I don't know. But the Prophet told us to be patient with those issues, to be patient with the coal water in the winter time and come into the masjid in the winter time praying that they have suffered with those issues. That agenda alone Spano, tala is surrounded by those things, the mechanic, those things that you don't like to do, the agenda is surrounded about with those things. So we have to have sub on and with the bad death of Allah, fast in in the month of Ramadan and being patient from time to market, making the Hajj and being patient. We go and before we go, again, we have a romantic idea, the house of Allah,

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golden opportunity, a trip once in a lifetime type trip. But when you get there, you'll find you are in jihad. fiza be Lila.

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And it's not that type of trip. Some people after the Hydras Allah, they ready to come home right away. And if the trip was that after had you be there for another week, some people don't like that. I don't want to be here for another week. Can you change my reservations?

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So you have to be a person last summer concerning the obedience of Allah. Also concerning the quality, the color of Allah, the dar, those things that Allah has decreed those things Allah has decreed upon us that we don't like

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he caused an individual again, to lose a limb. Another individual lost a loved one, another individual, he didn't get the mark. He didn't get the job, another individual, he lost his job, another individual, he had to do this, this had to happen that at the time, that is what he had to go through, to get to his hair after he has to have supper and all of those issues. So Jimmy, don't complain about it. Don't blame a lot, have a clause when a thing first happens, take it easy and slow down. And lastly, from what we have to have cyber concerning is, as the scholars of Islam have mentioned, some are concerning the mercy of Allah. The disobedience of Allah person disobeying

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Allah.

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He tries to avoid anything. He makes Toba to Ally's agenda from the thing that he did. He tries to eliminate it from being a part of what he does.

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And he continues to move forward without allowing the shaytaan to come to him to make him think because he did that particular thing, then there's no way out subber on the mercy of Allah, he does it he makes Toba and that's it. All of these are from the issue. So I want to mention some things that when he from the pseudonym that the Prophet told us on a lot, what he was selling them about the importance of the subject,

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or things that are concerning our lives.

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He told the people some of the law while he was sending them my acaba de la who are either Habiba raggio, for sabara illa. Whether will be Hema Elgin.

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Allah, never ever, or he doesn't take away a person's eyesight, his ability to see and he called his eyes his two beloved His Habib obtain his two Habiba.

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And then that person was patient with it, except that Allah replaced his eyesight with gender, what a bargain, gender for the eyesight.

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The lady came, and she used to go into what appears today to be epileptic fits. People from our community, they have epilepsy, they shake violently, they fall on the ground, they hit their head on the ground, they hit their head, the wash bin, they hit all kinds of problems as a result of the epileptic fit.

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They almost swallow their tongues, they're dealing with this all the time. This lady used to suffer from what appears to be those symptoms. She came in, say Allah, so Allah, make dua to Allah, that this thing is taken away. He said in [???], the doubt dilek.

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What I can insert, for lack of gender If you want, I'll make draw for you. But I'm telling you, if you were patient with your situation, then you'll go to gender.

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You go to gender, because of that condition of yours that causes you to lose the equilibrium that when the people look at you, they say, Oh, he's going nuts. He's having a fit. She's having a fit. So the agenda is for the individual who like that lady in Charlotte.

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exercises some suburban the issue. That doesn't mean that you shouldn't neglect taking your medication, it doesn't mean that. Look at the subway. And its diplomatic and the famous Hadith as we mentioned so many times the Sahaba that the Father needs some of us, we are very rough and tough. And we become angry very quickly. Everyone becomes angry. Everyone gets angry. Sometimes it children deserve it what they do, it requires the correct emotion from the fathers to be angry. But some of us have issues with anger management in that we become angry too quickly, and for little things. And I said, I took care of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam for 10 years for 10 years. And he never said

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to me, why did you do this for something that I did? nor did he ever say to me in 10 years? Why didn't you do that? For something that I didn't do?

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That's the famous narration. There is another narration that is authentic to that, in which nsmb nomadic said and also when I used to be in his house,

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in any of his homes. If someone from his lol bait saw me doing something, and they would say to me, hey, why did they boy, don't do this? Don't do that. Or Hey, boy, why did you do this and why and into that, the prophet was say, leave the boy alone.

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Leave the boy alone and he would defend Anissa nomadic because the honey and be in a prayer in and having a tarbiyah if we don't have supper with our children, then they'll grow up with some of the luggage and some of the hangups that we have right now. us having a difficult time in dealing with our children came sometimes as a result of our parents, especially the father, not dealing with us in a way in which we were taught the best way of

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doing something or not doing something from the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam that we deal with today is the statement of Allahu suppiler without any difficulty unsalable. Hari

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Prophet said that allies were jealous, he said,

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Miley Abdi Mendoza

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is the Toledo beast of fee Mina dunya. Illa, Toma sobre el el Chanda, he said, my slave,

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he doesn't have any reward. If I take away from him his sloughi the person who loves or causes him or caused him to die cause him to die, that individuals patient with the decree that I put into effect, the reward for that individual is that I will put that person in side of the agenda because of his suburb, especially if it is the suburbs that is the Jimmy. So I say to you, brothers and sisters, omotola Islam, there is no one here, except that he or she is in dire need of developing within himself or herself. This issue of a suburban and getting and coming to know about some of the rules and regulations, some of what Allahu taala has prepared for those people who have those suffer

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in the Hereafter, as well as in the dunya because as we mentioned, there is no one except that throughout the course of one's life, we're going to have to deal with these trials and tribulations and there is no escape from them, no one is going to escape them. So the religion of Islam has given us an hamdulillah the weapons and the keys that would allow us to do them and from the most effective weapons is the weapon of a sub so ask Allah subhanaw taala in closing out this session for this Saturday in this week, may Allah put your

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good subject of sitting and being quiet and being patient may put that in your means and have has an Elmo piano and may he's one of the makers of those people who are the sabi Lena and the sabi dot the suburb that is Jimmy hi that was on the low side, and then the beginner one early was hobby in Jemaine