The Islamic Personality – Episode 35

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Hey, no matter who when I start, you know when a staff hero when our ooh beenleigh Himanshu Ruri fusina woman cG tiama Nina, Mei de la philomel de la woman good little fella Heidi Allah, wa Chateau La ilaha illallah wa Alessia Cara, y shadow. Mohammed Du Bois Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Wali Sleeman kathira about when a hydrodynamic animal like Buddha Buddha Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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More data to ha wakulla death in Baton, baton balada tune wakulla gualala tymphany

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our mother Ayesha

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mentioned to us and important Hades in the characteristic that the Muslim should try to be upon and be careful in this regard from both sides and from both angles, in terms of not being the person who falls into this and also in terms of being aware of the person who this hadith is speaking about.

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And this idea was collected by Imam Bukhari and Muslim Rama to LA he I knew him.

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When the use of the law what he was saying was in the house of Asia, and there was a man who knocked on the door.

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And then when the guard of the door the Baba, the person who was responsible for seeing who was trying to come in to visit the Prophet sallallahu Sallam is that was one of his sons, he was an important personality. That meant that people can not have access to him all the time.

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If he allowed people to have access to him, 24 seven, is going to be a problem, because he has so many issues that he has to deal with. And we have to accept that when it comes to people of knowledge, when they come to visit us and so forth and so on.

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We can't think just because the problem that you have the issue that you have is really important to you. And it is important to him as well, because I would think that the chef would want what's in your best interest. But that doesn't mean that you can superimpose upon him.

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That you have to be given time all the time.

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But what should be done is people in authority and people in positions, we should make a stick than and we should seek their permission.

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Those of us who are professionals, people work in the hospital. And other than that, no one in his right mind believes fills or exists in a way in which he or he or she behaves thinking that whenever they need the doctor, that's when the doctor has to listen to them.

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with GPS, they give us 10 minutes. And a lot of times they want you out of there before that 10 minutes. And if anyone goes beyond that 10 minutes, just asking questions on important or pertinent. You may see your GPS start to huff and puff and to become uncomfortable with what you're doing. Because he has other patients.

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The best GP the best one is the one who is going to have suburb, but even that one is going to look at the person who's doing that going beyond the 10 minutes and they're going to say what's wrong with a person who doesn't have an option or something like that? Don't they know I have 15 2030 more patience to go if I sit with him another 510 minutes, 15 minutes, that's going to knock everybody behind the schedule is going to have a knock on effect. So I think most of us for the most part, we understand that. And then when it comes to people knowledge, no, we don't understand that. So if a person the chef comes, he finishes the salaat he wants to make his car can make the car. The reason

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why it can't make the Epcot is I have a problem. It's a serious issue. So I'm going to jump on him and jump in

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa it was sending them from his Sooners and he had a boab a person who was at the door to say who's knocking and then he would tell them let him in or don't let him in. And there is an ayat of the Quran that Allah will Tyler mentioned, and told us till the believers during that time with the Prophet sallallahu Sallam if you're not gonna do any says go back, then go back. And don't be upset. Just go back.

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So when man came to the prophets house of Allah who it was sent him and knocked on the door, someone said Who is it? Who are you he went out and found out who he was. Tell them hold on. Stay right here. Let me go seek permission

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He went back to the Prophet sallallahu wasallam he says so and so was at the door

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and they'd be used to love while he was sending them said bitsa a hula Shira, what a terrible person that is. That guy at the door is a problem.

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And everybody who was inside of the house, everyone who heard him say that they witnessed what he said. And that person at the door is one of the most misbehaved persons he's a problem.

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So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam told them, go ahead and let him in. And the man came in a suit, alayhis salam alarm, while he was sending them smiled at him, and started to be cordial with him and started to be nice with him.

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A man sat and the prophet SAW Selim entertain them. After some time he got up and he left. One of the people witnessed what happened when the Prophet was told someone loved what he was sending them, that this man is at the door. What he said, and they also witnessed how the Prophet set with a man somebody was sending them was Isha.

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So she did what Eliza gel, audit the Muslims to do.

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If you see something in the religion that you don't understand, and if you don't understand, if there's a hadith that you read over and over there, you don't understand it. Maybe you think that the ayat is conflicting and contradicting another is or the Hadith is contradicting another Hadith instead of becoming a disbeliever, and saying, I don't believe in Islam, or I don't believe in the Hadith. She didn't do that. She did what Eliza just commanded for Allah Vicar in kuntum latinum. Ask those who know if you don't know.

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So she had asked the question, yeah, it also Lola. When the man came to the door, you said what you said, You told everybody is a bad person. But then when he came in, you treated them in a very nice way as if she was asking, Is this not yet also la Viva? What you said is it's not a Viva. is as if she was saying to him sallallahu alayhi wa, it was seldom Yato sola is this not having two faces, saying one thing with one face. And then another thing, an opposite thing with another face, which is a bad thing. And we took that Hadith before, that the worst person with a lies, which is vulva chain, the one who has two faces, yet he will not be watching. Let me watch a person who goes to

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these people, and he has one face, and he talks nice to them. And he gets their

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trust. And he is made to feel as if he's one of them. And then when he leaves them, he goes over here to another group of people. And he has another face when he's talking bad about them. Little watch chain, smiling the man's face. And then when he leaves and other people come, you talk about them.

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And many people do that

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is your relative, he's your friend. He's someone that you know, you talk about them. And then when he goes you with your wife, and you kick his back in. So I was like, you're also realizing this like that. The Prophet said to her son the law while he was sending them yeah, I Isha. When did you know me to speak in a way that was inappropriate with people? The way that you saw me talking to him when he came in? I spoke to him in that way, because that's how I deal with people. When do you know me to be a person who talks to people in a way that causes a problem to become a bigger problem. And this is a really important aspect of this idea.

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That man is a Batman. So when he comes in, are so lucky, start saying to him, you did this and you did that? And why are you doing this? And what's wrong with you? Are you crazy and just go on and on, and then it's going to be a bigger problem. But he talked to him in a nice way, not because he was scared of him. Some of the law while he was selling him was not scared of anybody except a lot. Not only that, he had the physical ability, the physical prowess, the ability physically to beat up everybody.

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He can beat everybody one on one.

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And as those companions described them that he had the strength of 40 camels and Lola while he was setting them, so rest assured, he was not scared of anyone, meaning being a free like a coward. So luck and get up and deal with anyone who was on the face of the earth. So that wasn't something in his mind and his head because I'm afraid of him. I'm going to

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You know, act like no.

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So we don't push evil away with evil. That's the point. two wrongs don't make a thing correct. He has bad behavior. He did bad things. Opening up that door and talking to him in a bad way is going to create more problems. So when did you know me I needed to speak to people in a way that was inappropriate.

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And then he told her the reason why he did what he did. And this is the jewel and the teaching of the Hadith. He says something Allahu alayhi wa it was Salaam in Shadowrun nice man zillah Ting, Yeoman chiamata. Mentor Antara Kahunas is Sheree.

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The worst person you'll know kiama who had the worst station, that person will have the worst station Ayesha. May Allah be pleased with hot is the person who people avoid them out of fear of the evil that they bring.

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So people don't want to deal with them. They don't want to go to their walima they don't want to go to the pika. If the person has an aka they don't want to invite them. They don't want to live on the street with them. They don't want the person in the msgid even

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we have some people like that. People who are evil, evil men and women always fitna always drama.

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And I'm not talking about a Michelle wish or Mashallah him someone who makes trouble. No, I'm talking about sharir, evil evil.

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He said the worst person you'll know piano will be that individual who

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people avoid him then want to deal with them, because of the evil the way that they are. So he was teaching her and teaching us something in law while he was sending them. The reason why I dealt with him is I don't want the harm of this man. This is an individual who this man, this woman, this is an individual, if you tried to give them advice, if you tried to deal with them, you're going to have to deal with a bigger problem, a bigger problem. So it's better for you just to close the door and don't let that person share your space. So that's what he was teaching in this Hadeeth. And as I mentioned in the beginning of the dose, we have to learn from this Heidi from both angles. Number

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one, don't be that person who people avoid you because of your evil. Now that doesn't mean evil, that someone makes a mistake here or there as we all make mistakes here and there. So therefore, a person understands from this Hadith, I'm going to avoid everybody because prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said you should avoid people because they mean evil. Everybody makes mistakes that talking about that. This idea is not encouraging anybody to be antisocial. But the believer the Mothman is a person who connects to people and he socializes with people and he initiates that. And he's also the person who accepts people when they try to socialize with him. And

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they appreciate that. But a person like this not,

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you can come to market, I don't want you to come into my house, I'll never invite you. But if you turn up after way, this situation, I may open up the door, because if I don't, he's gonna keep banging on the door.

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Some people so evil, he'll go to the window and knock on the window and start lifting up the window to call you from outside from the window to say, Are you in here, one of those kind of people. So in his case, is better just go outside and meet him outside, meet him outside, get done with the situation so we can get on with his business. So we don't want to be from those people. And the other side of the Hadith is saying, know how to deal with people like that. There are some people they are clear, the intellect it is a problem. If you try to explain to them something, they're not going to understand what you're going to say what you're trying to say. And as a result of that the

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problem becomes more problematic. So this Hadith of the Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa it was sending them is a hadith that

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is one of those famous well known heidy but it's a hadith that we really have to consider is a really important idea. So the Prophet sallallahu wasallam was not being the one who has to face it, because he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam doesn't say one thing and then do the opposite. He never did that. He said what he meant, and he meant what he said at all times. And he definitely wasn't making Viva Riba, as he mentioned in the Hadith is Allah when you send him said the crew can be mega crew, mentioning your brother in his absence with that thing that he doesn't like. Now, I want to ask you brothers Today

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is Friday. Now, this Thursday, they just passed who didn't meet Heba today

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Heba to backbite people

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From the major sins in this religion, to mention something about your brother that if he would hear you saying that he wouldn't have liked it, there wasn't like what you're saying.

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So the man said yet also law was a fee. But he said he bought is when you talk about your brother in his absence and you say something he doesn't like you saying, a person said, but what if what I'm saying is true is really true about them. He has bad breath. He's stingy. It's really true that my brother is lazy is true. What if it's true, he said, if it's true what you're saying, then you may be above him. And if it's not true, then you have made Bhutan, Bhutan again.

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You have slandered him, which is even worse. You made a lie. You said something that's not even true. So who today didn't mention something about someone in his absence, that had he heard you said that thing he wouldn't have liked it. So leave is from the major sense, and that is Raul Mirage Prophet sallallahu wasallam was taken from Mecca, to make them luctus. He prayed with all of the prophets in the messengers, Salah LA to LA he was sent out Sallam while he remained in beta luctus. And then he was taken up to the seven heavens, on the way up and on the way back down. He saw a lot of things, a lot of things. He saw a group of people with long fingernails made out of copper. They

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were scratching their faces and taking the meat and the skin off and scratching their chests taking the meat in the skin off. russula was frightened. And he said, Yeah, jabril Who are those people? He told him some of the law who it was selling them how Lavina can turn around the nice.

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Those people you see being punished like that. They're the people who in the dunya they used to talk about people and fall in the people's honor. They say he's a thief. He's this this lady is a prostitute. She's a whore used to talk like that.

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This woman did that when this woman did that, and they made FIBA

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and the art of the Muslim is sacred. Just like this month is Muharram sacred month. Now huhtala mentioned in the Quran about the sacred months minha arbeiten Haroon that Dino pay him for the movie hyndland fossa calm. Those are the four months this is the religion that allowed me the correct way. So don't oppress yourselves in a sacred month. This month, the last month will lay German people may hij these days Hara mala these days, the Muslims honor his sacred sacred like the Rohingya sacred. You shouldn't treat this month as a normal normal month, the sins in this month or worse in the sense outside of these four sacred months. So then mbu sallallahu alayhi wa it was setting them

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informed us from that Hadith, that the reward of the people who talk about the honor of the people the honor, easily on the tongue of the Muslim, he's this he's that he's an innovator. He's a Katherine, this one over here is the prostitute. someone gets mad at someone who say you are a Jew. That's how we are. We use those bad curse words in efa things like that. Can't talk to Muslims like that. Can't do that. So major crime in this religion.

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When abhi sallallahu alayhi wa alayhi wa sallam also brought that Quran Yeah, you live in Amman. Ah, tiny boo kathira minivan? Well, it just says so. When I asked about Oh, come Baba, are you coming out? of here? Murphy? maten fuckery termo? Are you believe? Oh, you who believe? Do not or avoid all speculation. Avoid speculation. You don't have a clear proof. Then don't try to speculate and assume stay away from that. You don't know what happened? You don't know. Where's the deal? You don't know who really did it? You don't know. So you may think well, he was the last one that came out of the room. But as long as you didn't see him, you're speculating until you see the CCTV until the person

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admits it until witnesses come and they prove that he's guilty. Even if you think he did it. You think he meant it? speculation is to think someone does something you don't have to clear proof. Maybe he did it.

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But just like the mafia code, the hypocrites the hypocrite has covered inside disbelief, but he's professing Islam on his tongue.

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Alan insane anybody here to open up his chest and look at his heart to see is he truly a believer that we just have to say and take what he's saying? I think

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face value a Muslim you think he or she did it, but you didn't have any clear proof.

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So this is said avoid all speculation and assumptions and do not backbite one another. Would any of you like to eat the dead flesh of his brother? The is a no, you find that something that is disliked and a pouring across Malaysia. It is something that is disliked and something that is a pourraient don't do it. So the ayat is a clear indication and the clear delille along with the Hadeeth like backbiting and whining is a major sin. And I would like to encourage you guys as well as myself and remind myself to remind you guys, we are meant to say he lewd multicast a lot. We are group of people, we're easy when it comes to backbiting amongst ourselves. I'm going to be the first one to

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say I'm from the people who are multicast alone. And we have to get serious about this issue about ilieva because we found that the loveless lamb passed and they're in a marvelous lamb that we know now. They used to tell people don't sit in our assembly backbiting people talking about people don't see here. That's what you want to do. This is the assembly of knowledge. And when we come together, we should come together to give knowledge and to receive knowledge and to benefit each other. It's not acceptable for students of knowledge, people given dour to be easy with this issue. People fall into it. People fall into it. I want to take this opportunity to mention again, the incident of Abu

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Bakar and Mr. ruddy Elian Houma

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when they travel with the Nabi sallallahu, alayhi wa it was sending them and they overslept. Because the man who was supposed to wake them up, they heard them overslept.

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When they woke him up, they say, You you you sleep a lot. They were saying to each other, this man, he sleeps he slept is over sleeps, he sleeps a lot. That's all they said. They didn't say and call the man a bad word, the N word. They didn't say anything about that, you know, a racial slur. They didn't say anything. They didn't make any lies and slander. They said, Man, this man sleeps a lot. He over sleeps. He's a heavy sleep, he sleeps too much.

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When the man finally got up, they said, Go tell her so we give him salaams can you send them some food? The man went jasola. So when they come back home and he says, Can you send them some food? The Navy said widecombe said, I'm on all of you. You go back, you travel back into my that they already ate. I went back. I didn't know what did I tell them? They went to the Prophet. What do you mean I'd also love we already ate. He said, you know what you said about that man that he seems a lot

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that was veba, I can see the meat of his flesh between your teeth. They say right away, making Toba Yato solo lies a lot to forgive us. We made a mistake from the od avola we made LIBOR we made a mistake. ask Allah and you're the see the Benny Adam and your dryers. boosterjet. ask Allah to forgive us. He said No, you go back and you ask that man. So if Abu Bakar camino de barra de Allahumma, then anybody can be Reba. But they make Toba immediately after that, and you don't find that happening with them. Again, no examples where they did that again. And before anybody come and says, I was Sam was saying I bobak and Omar they were people who may leave every day. I want to make

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it clear for these people who fall into people's IRA because they plan with the religion.

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Abu Bakar and Mr. are the best of this oma

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and we don't follow them in that thing that we they that we just mentioned, as I mentioned in the Quran about following the companions when levena Tibet rowhome ba San radi Allahu Allah number one, and the people follow the companions in a sand and what is correct, Allah will be pleased with all of them, but we don't follow the companions. When one of them made a mistake here one of them made a mistake there. It's not a deal. If the Quran and the Sunnah goes against what the companion is saying. We take the Quran and the Sunnah, but we say that the Quran companion is a mujtahid inshallah gets to reward even those companions who did things like making her rouge against the

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leader of that time, rob the airline whom, if they may corrode, some of them came to that we say they will wish to he don't, they will muster he don't. And we don't take that as a deal. So some people want to come and say we follow the companions and everything just like that. No, we follow the companions in the heart. When an individual from them 123 they're on the hop, and when all of them agreed to something we follow them in that no doubt about that. So as it relates to this issue of

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Reba honey Sharla let's make a bigger jihad, of not mentioning our brothers and our sisters, especially our family members with that which is not acceptable, but there's something we want to mention. There is a Hema that is permissible. And this is the Hebrew that the Prophet did. sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, a chef na sana Deen Ll bang. He brought a hadith that I'm going to share with you when he said what the prophet said someone lolly was sent him was Heba. It was Heba. But it's that he but that's not considered to be Heba.

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I will cut the whole acbsp but 10 fee synthetic, when you talk bad about someone in their absence is not Heba in six situations, six situations. It's not considered to be Heba. It's like the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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He said, He's not lying. It is not considered to be lying laser. Kevin is not lying. If a person says something that's not true to one brother, who's having a fight with another brother. And he says something that's not true. Hey, that brother was with him today. And he told me he's really sorry for what happened. And he said, It's his fault. He wants to apologize to you. But he feels that if you apologize, you're gonna be upset. He never told me that. never said that. But I'm making a slide. He said, That's not lying. I'm saying what didn't happen, but it's not considered to be lying.

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And it's also not lying. When a man says to his wife, something that's not true, to make her feel good about herself, or what she says to him, to make him feel good about himself. He's not lying. So these issues, they're considered to be Heba. But it's not getting the rule and in the sin of Viva, because there's a religious reason to do it. Six issues. And this incident of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam falls in three.

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The first time when it's permissible for someone to say something negative about someone that they may not like, in their absence is when someone has been oppressed. There's

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someone took his land back in Pakistan, so he has to go to the judge and tell the judge, my brother stole the land. My brother misappropriated the inheritance. My sister did this, my sister did that. Someone was oppressed. He punched me. He stole this, he put this thing on me.

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That person who you're telling the judge did that to you, he may not like what you're saying. And he can come and say, Hey, you mentioned that in my absence, that's Heba. How are you going to get your back? How are you going to get your hop? Allow hotel I mentioned in the Quran law, you have Bula who at jarabe suey mineral coal Illa. Allah. Allah doesn't like a law doesn't love a law doesn't like for people to broadcast things that were done with their tongues. A law doesn't like that you broadcast the evil, bad deeds, a lot doesn't like for you to talk about those except the one who was oppressed, the one who was oppressed as the Huck.

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Here's the heart. One of the wives of the companions. Her husband was not dealing with her in the correct way. This happens a lot. He said, You're like my mother's back to me. That's not a divorce. You like the back of my mother. So I'm not going to be married to my mother. Ma'am. I'm going to be married to someone who's like my mother, but I'm not divorcing you. I'm just going to leave you like my mother's back.

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Ally revealed that I read the Quran Surah mujaddid.

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Cut semi Allah codility to Jad. dedeaux Cathy's Oh Jihad with a sticky and Allah, Allah hears the complaint of the lady who came to you about what her husband dead.

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And Allah hears your speech with her. Yeah, Mohammed and ally hears and sees everything. So they do photo press. So she went to the judge de la when he was sending the letter. Now, this man did this, this man did that. And we all have the right to do that. The wife can come to the masjid and say, hey, my husband, he did this he did that the man comes, I want to divorce my wife did this, whatever the case is. So if someone has been oppressed,

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the second issue honey that is permissible is when you have to inform someone what is called a tidy you have to let people know about someone and their reality like the Prophet did hear some a lot of what he was saying. And

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it was the responsibility of the one who knew some the law when you send them the reality of that man to let other people know so that the people can be on guard and they can be aware

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So that man fell into that. Hey, listen people this is a bad name right here and I'm not talking about bad he made a mistake you make a mistake not that this man is bad comes to your house, you're going to kitchen and get something he's gonna steal from your house.

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If he says then you go to a toilet if He's upstairs he's gonna make mischief in your house he's gonna do so those kinds of people.

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So if you have to let people know about someone another example of that

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is most of us are known by our names. You ask someone a did Abu sama come to the class and you know, Sam, we talked about Greenlee machine on Thursday night Abu Salah, but if you're in a society, you're in a community or Masjid, where there are multiple Abu Samaras How do they know what you Abu Samuel talking about for example? So the person says Mohammed Aslam or Yeah, did you see Mohammed today? We had that Mohammed that Mohammed that Mohammed that Mohammed that one that we don't know which Mohammed you're talking about? And he says Mohammed, Allah, which the Mohammed limps

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The one who is limping, or the one who has a lazy eye, or the one who has a big nose and you said that Mohammed with the big nose, Mohammed with the cauliflower ear because he does mmf. So as he is look like cauliflower, you don't mean to put him down?

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Now, if someone heard that cauliflower is

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he may look like that. Well, he thinks that's not nice. Well, that's not what I meant. I meant the hammer that everybody knows he looks like that. So if a person does that, it's no problem the probiotic companions on the left who sell them, and one of his hands, he had a growth coming out. It looked like a nother hand. Two hands and one. They used to call him the Nabhi called them sell a lot instead of literally a Dane, a soul I praise the Lord. Also not awesome. Instead of praying for rock guy he prayed to and then he says saddam Aleykum Selam Aleykum this man came and say Yato so Lola, you have shortened the prayers have the ship prayers became short. And my mom said No, I did not

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complete it for he said no, you may tow Prophet Mohammed said to the people, some lady was telling rob the lie. gnome is what Julia Dane saying true? They say yes, you pray. So they got up and pray. That man's name wasn't Gloria Dane, the one with two hands. That's not his name. That's his nickname.

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Now someone has something like that. Something going out of his hand. And you said boulia Dane, and everybody understood what you're but you're not trying to make a turnip percentile. This is not considered to be given. All right. So number one,

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oh pressure, the one who's old press can raise the alarm. Number two, if you're trying to get people to know something that they need to know. You have a religious reason to tell people. This guy right here. This guy right here. It's a problem.

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Number three, number three. And this hadith today falls into number three, is when you have to make it clear. You have to warn people of something or somebody don't go to that mechanic. Don't go to that mechanic because he's a kid that is an alligator. He is going to take your money, he steals everybody's money. He's a liar. Don't go to that chippy. Don't go to that guy over there. The Carpenter the electrician, don't go to him.

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Because this man got problem. And this man that was his issue. He wanted people Muay Thai there sallallahu alayhi wa it was selling them. And again at 20 This happened with the nibi of Islam and a number of issues but the one Hadees that will give you about this is the idea of Timmy macdaddy May Allah be pleased with him. He said that the Prophet said some of the love what he was sending them. The religion is giving good advice no see how the religion is given you know, see how the religion is given the see how they said given a Suharto giving advice to who he said to Allah in his book in his messenger and the leader of the Muslims and the general folk of the Muslims, merci ha, to Allah

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be insincere to Allah. So what I mean is here, be sincere and don't make shift and don't do things. And you do those things. And you are doing it for Allah and other people or you're doing it for other people. Now see how to the book of Allah, the Quran, learn how to read it, that's what it means. Take it and judge it, let it judge your affairs, follow it. Try to memorize as much as you can respect it, all of that naseeha being sincere. Let's see how to the Prophet sallallahu wasallam it means being sincere to him and it also means giving

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him advice, as the companions used to give him good advice from his wives from those who are younger, from those who are older than him sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used to take advice from people and allow to describe him and his companions in the Quran will amuro whom should have been on,

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between the companions in the profits of the love while he was setting the alarm on whom they used to do consultation. assura was shall wear whom fill armor for an item for tawakkol, Allah, axial companions, if you don't know if you want to extend the opinions,

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and given the c hat to the leaders of the Muslims, given a c hat to the leader of the Muslims is making to offer them that ally rectifies the affairs making to offer them from the member in the class in yourselves, you, you, you, you you

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make him do it dua for the leaders of Pakistan, for the leaders of the Muslim countries where we come from

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not making horloge against them, when they are Muslims, and the Salah has been established. And if they are now Muslims, we don't make dua for them. And we don't make against them, if we don't have the ability to do that. But how many of us practice that particular way of the senath. Sincerity to the Imam to the leader, you advise them, and you advise them in private. And you also have sincerity to them.

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And also being sincere to the regular Muslims. So being sincere to the regular Muslims. If something we know is in the community about something that's going on, we're going to tell people tell each other, don't go to him. Don't go to that one. Don't do it. You want them. That guy is an innovator. Don't bring them to the mosque. Don't be one of the people just talk like that. But trying to do it the right way. You know, just sitting down. And we're just talking about these things over dinner and over tea and no, no, no, no, no.

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Be proactive and get inside of a situation where you can advise people you should not bring this person to this mosque, you shouldn't do it. There's a person that innovative you shouldn't listen to this one.

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There is a

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clip going around of an afro Caribbean guy who speaks in speaker's corner. And he's talking about transaction transvestites and things like that. And when he says makes all the sense in the world, if you listen to it, and you know nothing about this guy, you will say wow, the Huck is with him. When I first heard it, the hackers with him. But then I found in speaker's corner found out in speaker's corner. This guy talked very vile against Islam, the Muslims, Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam. So I'm not going to send that thing around. And I'm going to tell people don't send that around. Because you make her wage, you peril this guy's dour people listen to that. That's like

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dessert for them. But then they'll turn to other stuff

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they can possibly turn to other stuff. And I'm talking about even Muslims, because there are some Muslims who go overboard with people because of their color. Asian people do it. Black people do it. Arab people do it. African people do it. We have our subbiah because he's Afro Caribbean. I'm Afro centric.

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I'm fiercely proud to be who I am and where I come from. But I'm not gonna call for my brother. I'm not gonna call me Afro Afro black person, ma'am, is my brother. Nah, not gonna do that. But some people don't have the balance. So the point here is one

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given to the community is warning the community about situations and hazard of attack, then warn them about this book. You have to warn them about that book. Yeah, but the chef was a great chef and a less than a man. Maria de la casa de Abrahamic devil hazari was from the marvelous lab

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and a marvelous man, but some of his books, some of his positions, you have to be careful. So you tell people don't read that book. Don't read that book. Why? Because in the book, there is some desert, but also in that book, there's some problems. That's just an example of one. Number four. Number four. It's permissible to talk about someone in his absence when he's not there. If it is an individual who

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is doing Fisk in public. He's a well known criminal, a well known criminal here in Birmingham and alum rock and

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That place over there

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and ask them now I don't know anybody and ask them this this place Oh, by the bridge.

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Sparkbrook sparkhill.

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We have Muslims who sell drugs, they're the drug dealers, whatever the drug happens to be. They're well known for this in the city of Birmingham. Every city has it. So I don't want the police come up to me and say you said in the class, you know, so I never said I know the person I'm talking about is just in our community. people sell drugs, and they are well known to be the criminals. It's permissible to say to your kid, I don't want you hanging out with him. Your nephew and those people hang out with your kids and your nephews and so I don't want you hanging out with him. I don't want you going to his house. Why? Because he's a criminal. You're saying that in his absence, is that

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Heba? No, that's not Heba because he's making open fist. He's making open fist. The Prophet says Salah law when he was telling him that Allah say Coloma, tema, artha, lol Mujahideen, all will be forgiven, except those who broadcast they say I'd also love Prophet Muhammad said all of my oma will be forgiven, except those who broadcast their sins. They say God also loved the ones who broadcast he said the ones who make mistakes, they do sins and a lot covered it up. But then they come and tell people what they're doing. So these people are loud and proud about what they're doing, what they were, what they drive, how they are.

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So if a person is an open center like that, as they said, like he but to learn faster, that's not an authentic hadith. And it's not necessarily true. There is no Riba for the facet who is doing open sins and doing madness doing madness. The next and last tool is the one who gives the fatwa someone has come in for an Islamic ruling who wants to give Islamic ruling. There was a lady from the companions Her name was Hynde, the daughter of Akbar, may Allah be pleased with her. She was married to one of the great companions Abu sufian radi Allahu anhu.

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She came and say God also like your companionable soufiane doesn't give me enough sadaqa enough, not enough money for me and my kid. He's not giving me enough money.

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He's giving me the bare minimum. And that's not even enough.

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The Hadith said that she said, he is sure he

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Shaheen

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really, really, really close fisted. miseq he holds back Can I take from his money without his knowledge will be enough for me and my child. She needs a rule in the footwork, that permissible jasola when he's asleep, when he's not there, he left money here and there. Can I take from his money? Is it halau? Is that stealing? Is that oppression? Can I do that? The Prophet of Allah sallallahu it was send them send to that lady, hold the magic fique take what is enough for you, and your child will Marouf and only take what is maruf? What is reasonable? What is necessary.

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So the man from amongst us, he may not be giving his wife the money that she needs every week or every month. He's not getting tight fisted. This Hadith allows that lady, if she sees 10 pounds here, 20 pounds there that she knows that he doesn't remember that in his clothes was this money and that money. She can take that money As long as she knows. It's not going to make a bigger fitness. It's not going to make a big difference. Can she go she can go into his stuff and take it as long as she knows it's not going to be a bigger fitness. It is going to be a bigger fitna like is going to divorce her. It's going to be a bigger fitna. He's going to chastise her. It's going to be a bigger

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fitna, it's going to destroy the marriage and the family. They say he doesn't play that. Not only is he tight fisted, that dude is rough,

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rough, even cleaner. And if you come in and they say but what about the Hades have been to Russia? He said are you are you in bentota

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so if she knows that she has to have some fifth about the issue, she has to have some fit. So when she asked the Prophet for this fatwa, she had the mentioned about the man sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told

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the lady came.

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Fatima, Ben to face your rasulillah

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jasola I need to know something.

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Two of your companions, they want to marry me.

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I booja monster marry me, and are we, the son of Abu sufian, the son of Abu sufian wants to marry me, both of these two men. And neither one of them knows neither one of them knows that the other one wants to marry. Because if you know that a man has gone to x for ladies hand in marriage, you can't get involved as the Prophet says some of it was sent him. The Muslim is a brother of another Muslim. He doesn't disbelieve him. He doesn't hand them over to his enemy. He doesn't shortchange them and check, cheat him and ship him when he's doing business with him. And he doesn't try to marry a woman that he's trying to marry. If he doesn't know about it. That's a different story. In

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this case, neither one of them know. So that lady came out also love both of them want to marry me. I need your advice. I need your advice. Should I marry them? He said as for him while we are, who was the son of Abu sufian. The one who didn't give to the lady had been taught by May Allah be pleased with him. His son while we

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used to be living in domestic. So I said As for muawiya, he's Psylocke la mannella, who is poor, he doesn't have any money. He's living in msgid. He can't take care of you. He's a good, strong person, a good Muslim, but he doesn't have money. He's not gonna be able to take care of you. And as for this other man, apple jam, this man, he doesn't take his stick his stay his calf, his staff off of his shoulder his Asa lie yada, yada. I saw one it he doesn't take his thing off of his shoulder. What do you think that means? He doesn't take his staff that he walks with his cane. He doesn't take the stick that he walks with. He doesn't take it off of his shoulders. What do you think that means?

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He's ready to hit his wife, now hit people. Because the other hand he said, who was the Robin in the sad, he will hit his wife.

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And that's why the Prophet addressed this issue with the companions of the alignment. When he heard the men were hitting their wives. He said the one who hits his wife, he's not the best of you. And I'm the best of you to my wives. And I don't hate my wives. Because that was something that was in the society. And he came and he, he got a grip on that thing. He eradicated that thing. But it was part of the practice of the Arabs and Jay Hillier, they would deal with their wives, Brother Mohammed came and taught them hydrocodone, hydrocodone, me and Lee, when a hydrocone early, the best of us the best of you to your families, and I'm the best one to my family, and then hit them Salah

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love while he was selling them. So that man Prophet told him about this in that this evil. So he bought something that is something being mentioned in the absence that they don't like, but it is that he was as permissible. So the Prophet told them sell a lot is sentimental, the lady

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don't marry this one. Don't marry that one. Marry who Sammy boo z. And he introduced a third candidate because none of them knew about each other. This one I didn't know about that one, that one. I know that. And neither one of them knew about salmon Palooza. As long as no one knows that you're trying to get the hang of the same woman that is permissible. Last situation. And what the filler is when people go to someone or group of people in an attempt to try to stop evil.

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tried to stop evil.

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Right next door right here. They're going to bring a snooker club. That little building right next to green lane next to the car park over here. It's an accounting place someone wants to put a snooker club there. And that's new club, it's going to sell Hummer Shara. And that's new club is going to attract the worst of the people of small Heath. And the one who came up with the idea of the snooker club is one of our Muslim brothers. So we say here in tomorrow's clip, but the gym a there is a snooker club that's going to be starting here tomorrow. And I need your help that we're going to stop this thing from going forward. And then it comes out who's the proprietor who's the

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guy who's doing it. He doesn't like that. He doesn't want people to know, he's the one. He doesn't want his name to be mentioned, when you come to say to people come and help me to deal with this.

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And whatever the moon cut is, there's a brother who was married to a sister, and he's beating her up. He's violent. He's extremely violent with her. And she's my sister. She's my niece. She's my neighbor. I mean, you you, you you when you come with me. We got to talk to this brother, because he has a real serious temple. And if he gets, you know, upset, he gets

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upset, all five of us, we're going to deal with him,

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we're all five of us are going to deal with him.

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So he doesn't like the fact that his wife told us he doesn't like the fact that we know about it. But we're trying to make the xalatan Moncure. So as it relates to this idea when it is Heidi for the newbies, I send them with one extract from the idea number one,

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don't want to be like that man who the Prophet described Southern law when he was sending them. Number two, beware of people who are like that, if you know people like that, and maybe you can think, and it will register in your mind, the worst behaved person that I deal with, and I know a song song song. So I really have a Hadeeth here that's telling me, there's a way to deal with him, try to avoid him to the best of my ability. Because Prophet said, the worst people are those people who people avoid them out of fear of the evil,

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I'm going to deal with him in a managed environment. The other thing they want to take from today's dose is leaving FIBA leaving Viva, unless it has a religious or religious or religious

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support to it. And this is from the tricks of a ship on that he will make people think that he but that you're doing his religious now that Riba that many of us do has nothing to do with the religion. We don't want to be of those people who the shaytaan.

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Dean, like those scholars said, they said that scholars have we had today is that this is not this is not a genuine ideal. This Riba and the guise of jerawat ideal. Alright, if any of you guys have any questions, you can ask your questions. But we're only going to do for two minutes, I got to get out of here to take the train Sharla got to get out of here to take the tree and in the shade for the guy. Why you sit away over here today.

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From the

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tail again.

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If you mentioned something good behind someone's back.

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You mentioned something good and something bad is a religious reason to mention something good. And to mention something bad about someone. There's nothing wrong with that if there's a religious reason, for an example, an individual

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he wants to do that snooker club, and we have to go and step to him and deal with it. And we say about him. Here, man. He's doing this new club, but my shot light is praying in the masjid every day. So let's deal with him in a nice way. We don't want to run them away from the mess chick. So there's nothing wrong with there's a religious reason to mention it. And nothing wrong with that. Any more questions or any any more questions for the

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does it apply to non Muslims? No. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam when he gave the definition of Riba Good question. He said Viva is mentioned in something about your brother in his absence, something that he doesn't like the non Muslim is not our brother in them and we know what to believe is a brother's one to another. But the Muslim is not the one who just walks around wholesales is talking bad about now Muslims that's not from good o'clock as Allah mentioned in the Quran, for kulula nasci Hira colinas Prasanna say to the people, Muslims or non Muslims say good to say good to him.

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Any more questions and whining?

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Okay, have a was a little low. We'll send them robotic and and maybe Vina wow