The Islamic Personality – Episode 36

Abu Usamah At-Thahabi


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Virtues of Visiting Your Brother

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come to the next Hadith today, concerning the 40 Hadith of the Islamic personality.

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We only have a few more classes inshallah a few more a hadith to explain from what the author brought her father who lives region, come to a tremendous hadith of Abu huraira May Allah be pleased with him, that is a hadith that has quite a few benefits and it will scratch the surface inshallah, as we always do.

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And maybe use some of the law when he was Sonoma told his companions, may Allah be pleased with them that there was a man from the people of the past, who left his town in order to go to another city, another town with the sole objective of visiting his brother for Allah sake.

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So lies originally sent to the man who was going to visit his brother, an angel.

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And he sent them angel in the form of a human being.

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angel came to the man and he asked him where you going, he informed him on the way to this next courier to the town over here, in order to visit a brother of mine for the cause of Allah, the angel axiom.

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Is there any other ulterior motive that you have? Is there another reason that you have to visit him like he owes you some money or you want to borrow money? Or is there something else that men say no, I'm simply going to visit him for the sake of Allah.

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The angel said to him, Well, I have been sent to you, by and large region as a messenger.

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And I've been informed and instructed that I should tell you, because of your love for that man, Alon loves you.

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That's the authentic hadith of the Nabi sallallahu. He was sent in the narration, because Hadeeth has multiple narrations, and one of them, thank you said Do you want anything goes from you just going to visit them say I'm going to visit them. I don't want anything from them. I'm going to visit him for law, because I love him for Allah sake.

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So as I said, the angel told them because of your love for that man. And you've taken time out of your busy schedule to go visit that man, for love's sake and LASIK alone. Because of that alone loves you.

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It's Heidi honey is a Hadeeth, as I mentioned, figuratively speaking is impregnated with a lot of it a lot of back and a lot of adapt a lot of

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a lot of benefits and a lot of edit, you know, manners connected to it. And a lot of rulings, we'll deal with a few of them here in shallotte switcher

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first thing you want to deal with is that the Hadeeth is showing us and calling us because the book, The 40 Hadith of the Islamic personality, is a book in which we've been explaining these ahaadeeth hoping that when we hear these Hadith and we studied these Hadees, we try to inculcate them and make them a part of our personality. So we have to make jihad, like those Hadith about making Riba and talking and mentioning something evil about your brother in his absence, from fudger today, until Margaret, so new day right now to mother. How many people from amongst us did not mean given. They mentioned something negative about your brother or your sister that they wouldn't like you to have

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mentioned. So we go through that whole Hadeeth and then the person turns around and he's making Viva No, the book that we're dealing with and the ahaadeeth that we're dealing with, that is designed to encourage us and to be an incentive to educate us.

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to elevate us to be people who are trying to practice these ideas.

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So this particular idea that's on the table today, and shall I say, Heidi shows us the virtues of a sinner, that is Majora mataranka, you won't find many people practice in this particular Sunday during our time, and that is the virtues of visiting people for the sake of Allah,

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to take time out of one's schedule, just to go to someone to give them some lambs in their house. And that's all you go for that goal. And that purpose. This Hadith shows that and if we will look at the Quran, and the authentic sin of the Prophet sallallaahu send them we will find that both of those sources have an abundance of proofs to show. Visiting people, especially people a virtue, people want to remind you of your religion, people are going to take advantage of the time when you're with them, you benefit them, they benefit you. And when you leave each other's company, the angels were busy writing positive things, as opposed to visiting the people who are from the SRA.

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The evil people, Ki lokala people he says she said that people who just pass around, you know, rumors and so forth and so on. The vast majority of people we visited we deal with a waste of our time.

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The vast majority of the people who we take as our friends are wasting our time.

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So lies which I mentioned in the Quran and Hila yo may even bother about a dune. Ellen McDuffie. yomo kiama. The friends, the people were friends in this life, they're going to be enemies when to another human piano. Except that people have Taqwa. Because when you are the friend of someone who has taqwa is going to help you to take advantage of your time is going to help you to watch your lease and he's going to help you to be a better person when you forget. He'll remind you when you're tired, he'll support you, he'll give you encouragement. And this is why when it comes to issues like when people are about to die, the prophet said Southern law when he was setting them, men qanat La

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ilaha illAllah. Can me he definitely Jenna. Whoever, c'est la ilaha illa Allah and that was the last thing that he said. He'll go to gender. So it's from the Sunnah if you have a visit someone who's on his deathbed, not to overwhelm him and overburden him or her, but you should try to keep them saying La ilaha illa Allah, that's what the religious practicing people will do. But the evil people, the SRA, ignorant people, neglectful people, they'll go, and they'll start talking about the football game, the score of the football game, what's the latest record out? What's the cricket score, and the person who was about to die these are the things that are going on in the ear and those going on

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in the in the environment. So this Heidi honey is a Heidi has shown us the virtues of visiting and sitting with and being with people of benefit.

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As I mentioned, if you look at the book of Eliza generalitat I mentioned the poor and was left Zuckerman Lavine at the runer a bone below that he will actually be redoing a watch when I tried to I NACA and whom to redo zenithal highlighted dunya Allah to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi Salaam Yeah, Mohammed sit with your companions and this ayah was revealed because of the poor companions that were with him sallallahu it was setting them up to live in the majority screwed

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a bad bad even

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those poor companions Gasser Amar those poor people with with them so nobody was selling them. I told them, be with these people who call on Allah, they mix a lot they make dua be with them, be with them. And don't allow your eyes to turn away from them. Paying attention to the rich people who are going to waste your time be with these people, the religious people, the story of Heather and Moosa in the Quran in surah. To Kath Salawat. to LA he was sent amlani Hema when there was a person who some of the scholars of Al Islam who gave to seal the Quran said he was a navy and some said he was a Willie from the OD of Allah. And the important thing is the benefits of the story. when Moosa

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heard that he had knowledge that was not in the possession of Musa Musa went out in a trip looking to hook up with him.

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Looking to meet him, the benefit from him when allies bestowed upon him as an example of this Hadeeth someone going out to visit someone looking for the height of the people of good. So many is a Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu. It was sent after the death of Rasulullah his son in law what he was sending them, Abu Bakar was died

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while he from the early Avalon, Mr. Read the alignment a while he from the OD of Allah, Abu Bakar said to Omar, let's go and visit him. Amen. Come at cannon abuse Allah love while he was selling them. Yuzuru let's go and visit Ayman Baraka was hunting the same way the Prophet used to go and visit her on a man was the free slave of the Prophet sallallahu when he was sending them, she helped to raise him and give him tarbiyah when he was a small kid, salewa tola was at MIT.

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He used to take time out of his busy schedule. He's the leader of the Muslims, he leaving the salaat. He's the kadhi. He's the soul. He's a nebby. He's the man. He's the judge. He's the father. He's the grandfather. He's different. He had all of those wives Salalah while he was selling them. So anybody who has a busy squirt schedule, you can imagine, he was more than busy. But he took the time out to go visit his companions after him were tenacious on following the sooner and they were not like the people who we find some of them today is just as sooner. It's just a sinner, Abu Bakar, the leader of the Muslims, practicing the Sunnah of the Prophet was deleted the Muslim some of it

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was said, Let's go visit. Yeah. They went to him. When they went in the house of Amish, she started crying. I will say, Amen. Don't cry, why are you crying? Don't you know that now that the Prophet is dying Salalah what he was sending them. What he has with allies better than him being here, for sure is tough on us. But what he has with allies better. She said, I know what he has with allies better. I don't doubt that when I can meet up at the end. And ye in Qatar minister.

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I'm crying because the revelation has stopped showing her love for the Quran. Her love for the Ye, when the Prophet was here sallallahu wasallam. That meant the relation will continue to come down as it did for 23 years. But the point here is Abu Bakar in Oman. Let's go and visit the lady the same way the Prophet used to visit the lady solar lighting center. So used to visit the ex slave. He used to visit the young child. And he said romantic, who was the servant of the Navy, some of it was selling for 10 years from the age of 10 to 20. He said I took care of the Prophet sallallahu it was said when he came to Medina, he never said to me, why did you do something that I did? And he never

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said Why didn't you do something that I didn't do for 10 years. He said that I had a little brother and my little brother had a sparrow a new hire as the name of the bird. And the bird was in a cage. He kept the bird in Medina in a cage and the bird died. So let me see the boy for some time. He saw nsms and Ennis, where's your brother? Haven't seen your little brother in quite some time. He say God also Lola, his bird died. And he's sad. He doesn't want to come outside. Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam Come on. abubaker Nah, man Abdurahman when outside divinity will cause big companions from the Tim people promised Jenna. Let's go and visit a little boy. When he went to the boy's house. He

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said to the boy gotta have a roommate, mother find a new hair. What did the bird do? And the boy started laughing at the prophets joke the way he played with him sell a lot he was selling. So the point here is he used to visit people because there's virtues in visiting people they say as the Arabs say and Jeff at Alberto Jaffa, if you don't see your brother for a long time, you forget about and they say out of sight out of mind. You don't know what issues he's been going through. And you don't know what issues that he's been going through. But when you see each other you say, oh, wow, I should have reached out and then you start talking and then possibly perhaps per chance. Sometimes

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it happens where as a result of seeing and meeting is able to alleviate some of the issues and some of the stresses of the dounia that we have to deal with and share headman cannot listen

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Since this is a sooner than asthma, Jorah Matsuoka and the rewards for it are tremendous, like in this Hadith, Allah loved you, Allah loves you because of the love that you have for that man. And an authentic Hadith of the Prophet he mentioned sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is showing the virtues and the rewards of this man Zara Merida azara lu Philip. Now dabboo Nitin be ending the

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tapa watabe, shakha. with double what to men's in full gender. Anybody who goes to visit a sick person, or you go to visit your brother, phila, your brother in the religion, he doesn't have to be sick, you just go to visit him between Margarita Venetia, whatever, 10 minutes 30 minutes you go to visit him, it will be set by an angel who will call out to Him, you have been purified, and your walking has been blessed. And you have prepared for yourself a place in the agenda. So that is what happens when a person visits someone who's sick. Or when a person goes in, visit someone who's not sick, he says visit him for the sake of Eliza john, I tell you brothers, I tell you

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just to take time out of the schedule of whining to get all of this reward. And there are so many people who are there that we know for the opportunity. And it's not a situation where you just have to go to the person's house. So that's from the delille in the benefits of this particular Hadith. Another very important benefit of the Hadith is establish some issues of our key that we have to believe in we have to understand and that is the theology of Islam. This is one of the many a hadith that proves that Eliza gel he loves Allah He loves.

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There are some people who came unfortunately. And they started to be philosophical. They started to add him to the religion was not from the religion, from philosophy and rhetoric. And they took out of the religion what is from the religion, especially as it relates to the names and attributes of Allah when it comes to describing Allah what he does and what he doesn't do. The Muslim can be like the Jew can be like the Christian can't be like the sea or the Hindu. There is this thing in our religion called the hug dude of Allah, the Hadoop, the boundaries, we can exceed the boundaries don't exceed the boundaries. So there are about 33, zero 38 of the Quran telling us different things

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about the boundaries. Take care of the Hadoop, Allah, respect the Hadoop of Allah. Don't play with the Hadoop de la don't exceed and go beyond the Hadoop of Allah and Hadoop de la many things is many things tell what tilaka hadoo de la falletta prabhu ha, those are the boundaries of a lot on go close to them.

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Divorce in a lady more than three times man is married to the ladies been divorced at least 15 times you have exceeded the Hadoop of allies reject. The Prophet says a lot while he was sending them into liquidity. moluccan crema Rahim Allah Maha Rama, who every single king, he has a sanctuary, a place where you better not get caught in that sanctuary. whatever country you come from, wherever you come from, your place of origin, and the UK as well. And France in America, the leader of that country has a place that you and I better not get caught there without a two three. You better not go on the White House lawn in Washington, unless they allowed you there. Every King has that.

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Every country has that. That's the parliament. That's the place where the judges are. That's the maxima, you better not get caught there. The Prophet said something a lot what he was sending me said Allah has a sanctuary as well. And the sanctuary of Allah azza wa jal are those things that are Haram. Those things that are Haram. So the person has to stay away from those boundaries, which are the point I want to make very quickly is from a loss Hadoop. I His names and attributes that we don't compete with him, economic Malaysia, we don't compete with him and his names and we don't compete with him in his attributes with Hannah who was the Allah. So Allah establishes things that

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he does in the Quran and the authentic sooner.

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And things that he does not do in the Quran and in the authentic sooner. Allah doesn't beget no as he began, he wasn't born. He doesn't get tired. He doesn't go to sleep. He doesn't oppress allows all knowledgeable allies over

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His throne which is above the seven heavens and he's not everywhere. He's over his throne in a way that befits His Majesty. It comes down at the last third of every night. These are characteristics that the Prophet mentioned Salalah what he was saying about allies region. He said about the people here in a bad bayonet spy era, man, you can label her kefir shed the hearts of all of the servants, all of the people are between the two fingers of Allah. Allah changes their hearts, how he wants them to change. He was a Catholic. Now he became a Muslim. I like change his heart. He was not grateful and thankful. Now a lot made him grateful and thankful after he made told me he may hide

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something, I became a better person. So Allah established that as a characteristic of his, the Muslims came and they said, two fingers and what were you talking about? A lot comes down. What are you talking about? So they did away with these names and these attributes. And one of the attributes that allies established throughout the Quran, the prophet as well so SLM is that Allah loves but Allah loves in a way that befits His Majesty. You have knowledge, Allah has knowledge, but your knowledge is not colossal knowledge.

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No, you see, and a lot of seeds, but a lot seen is not like yours. So the idea of the Quran II cometh mythri Shane, nothing is like unto Allah. So those characteristics that Allah has, that we also have, you can ever imagine. They're the same way. Allah has two hands. And both of his hands are right hands, and he said to you, please, Ma Ma can test to the Lima haluk to be a Dahlia, a police work preventing you from bowing down to the one that I created with my two hands. But the Muslims came and said, two hands out. No, it doesn't mean that. And then they started to explain away these attributes of Allah as a result of philosophy. When the companions heard these, I got a

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rock man and an atrocious stoer.

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Allah a rock man is old a stone above the seven heavens, none of the companions that how, what do you mean? Why when none of them said that? They didn't even ask questions. They just believed in it. You just believe in it. And it's not your job responsibility to get into the bottom of that get into all the detail to make them feel to make tough to to make Tish be. No, it's not your job to ask how, what's the details? So this is one of the many proofs that whiny this hadith that establishes that Allah He loves. He loves people, and he loves things and he loves places in a way that befits His Majesty suparna with Donna he mentioned in an authentic hadith some Allah when he was selling them

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which is a hadith kotse that Allahu taala mentioned in this hadith men die Lee while he and

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I went to law who went to law who will have my camera by Ilya, Id be shaped in a hub buoy layer, Master Li, magazine, la de la abunda waffle, hi, boo.

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The Prophet said someone la when he was something that I mentioned in this authentic hadith. And those of you who have the book 40 hadith of an Imam, and no, we this is in there, it's from the Jomon and kill him. He said, Allah said, anyone, anyone who has animosity, enmity towards a colleague of mine, it could be a prophet it could be in the beat somebody was sending him It could be a scholar it could be a regular Muslim who's a well he from the only Allah anyone who has enmity towards one of my earlier I will declare war on that people that person he said and that is because my slave does nothing to get closer to me that I love more than what I made why'd you have upon

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them? So those things that allow me why'd you have upon us are loved by law like salaat like Zakat, like some like hygiene, like the hijab, and at the top of the list, a tawheed is the most beloved thing to live switcher. But Hadid said Allah loves that the slave gets close to him by what is waging more than anything else. He said to my slave will not continue to do the noir film sooner prints shouldn't assume sooner. sadhaka my print my slave, the more he does that he will become a person that I love him. And if I love him, I become the

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Hands by which he strikes, I become the eyes but what he sees the ears by which he hears the hands by which you strike, and the feet by which he walks. So that is from the many, many, many proofs. So the point here one is without getting too deep into this issue, don't be of the people and like the people have philosophical thinking when it comes to theology. We established these things, we believe them without getting into the detail, the issue of the cutter, the cutter, how does a lot know everything that's going to happen before it happens. And then the person still goes to the Hellfire is as if Allah forced him to do those bad things. The Companions didn't ask those kind of

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questions. They didn't allow their minds to go into those arenas. And that's why I'm logging in my scroll used to tell the people who he was teaching from the tambourine. May Allah be pleased with Abdullah Massoud and the rest of the companions. A for what the finance stop where the companion stop, stopped with a companion stop. When they didn't delve into issues. You people don't delve into issues. That's what I do live in my school told that people who missed the Prophet Mohammed several it was seven, they're not companions. They met Abu Bakar maarif man, Ali and the rest of them, Abdullah Abdullah during my schooling teaching them he said, Hey, you people, you want to be good

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Muslims, then stop with a companion stop in another state. And he said Toby rule what not to do. Vito, follow what they did, and don't invent and introducing the religion. We have a lot of introductions to the point where the young nasheet is a young kid, he grows up in these massages of the Muslims is our key. There's not the IP of the companions, because he wasn't taught to stop. He's going to do the mullet. He's going to do all kinds of things. And I'm not saying if a person does the mold, he's going to the hellfire. And I'm not saying if a person does the mold, He's the worst human being. What I'm saying is whether the companions do those things. That's the question Where

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did the companions do those things. And even people claiming a connection to the sun going extreme, setting up for people to three ships. And that's it. That's not something that the companions were upon. You only have to follow the Maliki method. You only have to follow the Hanafi madhhab humbling method mother, Shafi madhhab, and you better not go outside. Where did the companions do that? Where no one ever came and said, I'm an Abu buckers method. I'm following everything you said. As a matter of fact, they were against that they were against it during the fitna that happened between Ali and Malia, man lobby pleased with both of them. And it led to civil war between the Muslims. May Allah

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be pleased with all of those companions. They had he had.

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They said to Abdullah bass, a companion Are you with the Shiite of Ali? Or you would this she I have Malia? Which group Do you support? You support him Allium Wailea? He could have easily said it is better than Wailea. It is more knowledgeable than what

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it is the cousin of the Prophet sallallaahu send them and he grew up in the house of a Nebraska and he was the husband and the son in law of the Navy salado center. And he was one of the first four people to embrace this land rasulillah his son in law who it was senator

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Khadija Abubakar,

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he was the first youngster to embrace it, he could have went on and on about the virtues of it. Well, so I said about these children, Hassan Hussein, and if he could have said that of the lagna by said, may Allah be pleased with him, and from the Shiite Valley, and I'm not from the she, I have no idea. I follow Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam wherever the truth is, and whoever is on that truth as to and support and support this madhhab I will support that he ma'am dismissed it. That doesn't mean so don't conflate or don't confuse the issue. That does not mean I'm saying the method is not permissible. What I'm saying is the person who says if you don't have a med hat, you're not a

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real Muslim. You can't be a Muslim. When you get that from

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where did the companions do that companions were against that making people come under the umbrella of the thought of one person, there's only one person we unconditionally follow, obey, and we tried to be like him, and that's the Messenger of Allah sallallahu send them so as it relates to the second issue, what different that this hadith is from the mini Hadith allow that I mentioned in the Quran in Allah you have been soutine Verily, Allah loves those who are faring

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Just the judge who's fairing just the father who's fairing just when something happens between his children that has been whose fairing just when something happens between his wives for example, the guy who has a business and he's fairing just Allah loves those who are fair, and those who are just establishing the Quran and Allah.

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Allah loves those people of La San. He loves that. And Allah your hibou. As to why being Tahiti. Allah loves those who make Toba and a lot of loves those who purify themselves, they make although they make a stingy.

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So we have i upon is upon is an a hadith establishing that allows Hannah Montana loves, but he loves in a way that befits His Majesty is not like the love that Mr. One does about. And we already talked about this before in one of the Hadeeth that we took in this class, the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu it was sending them a bit Habiba. kohonen. Love the person who you love moderately because the day may come when they become your enemy, and hate the person who hate moderately because they may come where they become your bosom buddies, someone who you love, or not read the law. No, he said, Don't be a person who loves like a child.

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So that when that child's something happens to him, he goes overboard and he just loved you two seconds ago. Then he says I hate you and I hate everything about you. Don't be like that, be moderate and be balanced in the issue of love. Allah doesn't love like that. That's how human beings love. They love overboard. He's in a toxic relationship. He won't get out of it. Because if you ask them, Hey, this relationship is causing you a lot of stress and anxiety and grief. And it's probably going to be a cause of your sorrow. You'll know piano you need to get out of it. Why don't you get out of it? He says cuz I love

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or the lady says that she needs to be as far far as far away from that guy as possible. But the love is extreme. It's extreme. The Muslim is individual who loves moderately,

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as it relates to that second point. The great scholar of Islam, Eben Pagan, he has a book for the Arab brothers, I would advise you to get that book. The book is called modality to Sally Kim

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bainham is not meant as in Iraq and Afghanistan. My dad rich as Sally Kim, there was a Sufi Shay

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Alhambra we Renata Lai la vaca for Allah, little Jimmy. He wrote the book himself and how he has Sufi tendencies. And he used to say things that were problem and he wrote things that were not true in the book extreme things, that some Sophie's To this day, they believe that she knows the unseen, the shift knows what's in your heart, that shed has reached a level where it rings because of him, things like that. He wrote things like that, and the amendment will pay him came and fix that up. And in reality, the book is talking about the tipsy of suta to Fatiha but the treasures that are in that surah got to get that book. And then there is a chapter about this issue about those people

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Allah loves and from them on the people, as I mentioned, like this hadith is saying that people of religion, when they come in, they sit together, they are companions to one another. They check for one another, they support one another, they visit one another

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because this hadith established that third issue, whining Saturday shows again, the virtues of loving one another.

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It's easy to love your wife, because you have a

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a vested interest to love her. You have an emotional investment to love your wife. It's easy to love your child is from the fitter and fitter to law. Let the federal NASA lay her. It is the fit of that a lot creative people on you see someone who doesn't love his mother, his father doesn't love his child. Some happened. Something happened Allah knows best what happened but something happens. It's natural,

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is natural. Most people just need to cultivate it, develop it, enhance it. But what about loving each other? That man was going to see his brother in Milan, the manga said we're going I'm going to visit my brother in another city. You want anything from him? He owes you money, want to get money from him? No, I love them. I'm just going to visit him. For the sake of Allah. He said bt law

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Because of your love for him, Allah loves you.

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So the Hadith shows the virtues of Muslim men, developing the Islamic brotherhood and loving each other and Muslim women as well. loving each other. And it is something that unfortunately, we find it being compromised in our religion. Listen to the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu it was setting them law you mean a hadoken had your head believe he might have been enough? See, none of you truly believes until you love for your brother, what you love for yourself. Many people have double standards, will talk bad about people will spread rumors about people. If something comes to us, and we hear it, we'll believe it.

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But when it's you in the line of fire and you're the subject of rumors and that you don't want people doing that with you or for you.

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You don't want but for someone else will listen and we'll talk about it. No, loving each other is one of the pinnacles of this religion is the Prophet mentioned some of them love while he was he was suddenly the last man couldn't fi he was the beginner halau until he man, there are three things if a person has these three things, he would taste the sweetness of a man. One of those things he said, and you hate Bill Maher, when are you hibou illa for him to love someone and he loves them only for LASIK. There is no neset between them no relationship. They're not working for one another. They're not mutually invested in some project. So they have to maintain and keep good relationships has

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nothing to do with that. You're my brother in law, Islam and I love you for the sake of Allah.

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virtues virtues this hadith is one of those Hadees it establishes because the angel said because of your love for him, Allah loves you. And then many, many, many proofs in a dilemma that many, many like we mentioned the if those people who are friends yomo piano they're going to come and they will be enemies one to 11 except that people will have Taqwa that people have tucked whether Turkey, Turkey, he took a brother as a friend, and He manifested this hadith of His love, His respect and so forth. So many meaning. The Prophet swore Salah, love what he was selling well, Levine fcba de la took me nahata lad to toluna Jana Hata tumino. What I mean, I hate that habit. I swear by the one

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who my hand is in my soul is in his hands. You people are not going to enter into the agenda. until until you believe. And you're not going to gain a man until you love one another shall not teach you that thing that if you do it, it will cause you to love one another. They say yes yet also love what is it. He said if she said I'm being a con say to the people said I'm juanico Santa Monica,

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whether you know them, you don't know them. So the point is, and number a dilla. For that we don't have to get deep into that because before we did that Hadith of the Prophet sallallaahu was setting them in this class about loving moderately, and we got into the fifth of love. Don't go overboard, and your love and don't go overboard in your hatred and don't go overboard in anything for that matter. third benefit of the Hadith, honey and this is really important as well, is that the IDF goes to show that the Brotherhood of Islam and the issues connected to the religion.

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They are more profound, more beneficial, more important, more lasting than the issues of the dunya even if they happen to be your nessip your relationship your biological relationship. So to explain it further.

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A man is in the audience he has two sons

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and brothers in the audience. He has 234 brothers. They have blood brothers in the same blood is circulating in the body and that is important. The blood of relations is important. The Prophet said someone love Why do you sell them in Iran? Medan Lacombe LaRoche. Your call

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man was Eleni was Allahu la woman kata Annie kata hula, the, the, the in the womb is holding on to the throne of Allah and it's

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says anyone who connects me may not connect to anyone who disconnects me May Allah disconnect them.

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So we have to connect ourselves to our mothers, our fathers, aunties, uncles cousins, we can allow ongoing disputes to remain. Generation after generation can't do that. We can't cut people off and boycott them. You have to connect to your relations, and to disconnect from your relations, especially your mother, your father, your brothers, sisters, uncles, and Auntie's. This is from the major sin in Islam.

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So taking care of your relationships is important. It is important, extremely important.

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But the relationship of the religion is more important, and is Wailea in the skills is weightier. And that's what we have in the Quran, where the interpersonal relationships that I mentioned, and we've given the given examples of everybody in the Quran. We have those examples of the people of the past from the prophets and the messengers on the wall to Laos and mo Jemaine where they were religious, and their parents were not religious.

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So that connection, that biological connection is not going to benefit. It's not going to benefit. So Abraham and his father, Abraham's father, Isaac,

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biological relationship, as is not going to benefit from it. Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam his father Abdullah and his mother, Amina, not going to benefit them, you

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know, his relationship to his son not going to benefit the son Yokoyama. Not going to benefit Adam, religious son, the other son irreligious killed his brother, not gonna rip is not gonna benefit you.

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Whereas in the dean and the dean, that relationship is more important.

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Allow Tyler mentioned in the Quran in lemon.

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Verily, the believers are brothers, the believers are brothers, Noah, Noah, he wanted Allah to give his son a chance when his son disobeyed, his son didn't want to come and get on the boat. He said, I'm not going to high mountain and when the floods subside, I'll be okay. No, say no. So when the boy was abstinent anyone did get on the mountain. No one acts the level Tada. Give them don't don't destroy him. Don't destroy him. He's from my family. Allah tala said to him, kala, kala God, no, no, they summon Alec and no, I'm a little side for that. Molly silica be

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Noah. He is not from your family. He's your family, but he's not from your family. Your real family are those people who believe the family of the fellowship of the religion. Where I come from in America. One of the terms that we use African Americans amongst ourselves, as we'll call anybody who's black brother, motorcycle, people do that as well. motorcycle clubs, they call themselves brothers. People have that fraternity. Nothing wrong with that.

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Nothing's wrong with that. But the real Brotherhood is the Brotherhood of this Deen, non Muslim who's the same color as me saying something doing something against this religion. And here's a person, different ethnicity than I am comes from a different continent all together. That one is closer to me than this one.

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And we all have to see it that way. We all have to see it that way. Alice lamb is the most important identifying fact. So in this Hadith, this is shown to us because the guy was going to visit someone who wasn't his blood brother. He was going to visit someone who was his brother in the dean, he was going to visit his brother in the dean and is in the dean. And we get a lot of that in the Quran. A lot of that in the Quran. And Manuel, Dunoon,

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Xena to highlight the dunya Wolbachia to soil he had hieronder because while

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children and money is from the Xen of the dunion, you got a bunch of sons, you got a bunch of children but two daughters, what does it benefit you if they're not praying?

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You have a lot of money. You live in a big house? What does it benefit you if you're not practicing your religion and malewane by noon Xena to hire to do is from the beautification of this dunya Allah said, Albuquerque our Tucson he had the righteous things that you do that remain eternally like that. So after that we just prayed is going to come and it's going to be there in your skills. Yokoyama, your Hodge, your cat your Eman

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You're this you're that you're stealing the message from mcgrattan. to Russia, that's from the bark er to Sally heart, because it's connected to the dean. Now, I don't want anyone to misunderstand this because some of us had this a bit twisted. That does not mean that your relatives, you don't take care of your relatives and you go take care of your brothers in Islam. No, I love my mother, my father, my sisters, I love them more than they love the people in this mess Jade because they're my family, obviously. But when it comes to the issue of drawn the line of what the religion says, I gotta follow what the religion says.

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So I don't want anyone to misunderstand that, especially in the revert here. That doesn't mean that you disrespect your parents and your non Muslim relatives. Does it mean that because throughout the Quran, Ibrahim Salawat delay was sent amlani he respected his father. Yeah, Betty Yeah, Betty Oh, my respect the father all my respect to father throughout his interaction and his exchanges with his father, anyone who comes and says, because your parents are disbelievers, you allow to disrespect them, because your family disbelievers, you're allowed to disconnect between from them your relatives Kela. It's not the case.

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Last point that we want to mention a whiny son in the benefits of the Hadith of the man who went to visit his brother is that it shows another issue about our creed and that is, you know, the hadith of gibreel. When jabril came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, in a form of a man.

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His hair was exceedingly light black, and his clothes were exceedingly white. And no one knew him. And he didn't look like he traveled from anywhere. So it's a weird situation.

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If he's a visitor,

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and it came from traveling, he should look disheveled. And since he was looking so clean, and so presentable, why is it that no one knows him? He doesn't look like a travel a stranger. So it was a weird situation.

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In front of the people who got in front of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, and put his knees to the knees of Rasulullah sallallahu was sending the way you sit in the shotput, the Teja to LA he was Salawat. In the Salah. Prophet Muhammad was sitting like that, and this means he sat with his knees there, he proceeded to

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tell me what is this man? What is he man? What is

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he said, What is he men Rasulullah said and he man sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is to believe in Allah and the menarik the books, to believe in the messengers to believe in your mo piano and to believe in the the good and the evil of it.

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What is an amen? For you to believe in Allah, to believe in the melodica the angels to believe in the books to believe in Yokoyama to believe in a lot, the melodica the books, the messages, Yokoyama and to believe in the cutter,

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each one of those

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six articles of faith have details that deserve that we learn those details. It is not I believe in a line that said, and you say that allows high level nonsense.

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You didn't believe in a law correctly. If you believe that laws that Prophet Mohammed his house and nozzle, you didn't believe in Allah properly. And you didn't believe in the messengers properly neither because they all human beings.

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So they have the details.

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The one issue I want to pick out here the six is to believe in the melodica

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I believe in America and I say no, we have to believe in what was established about the melodica in the Quran inauthentic sooner.

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And what was established about them is that they were created from nor they were created from nor so they're different.

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We know a belief is not from the melodica because he was from the jinn and the jinn were created from a smokeless fire.

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From what we believe about the melodica is what Allah mentioned, la sala Amira, whom we have marone they don't dis obey Allah what he tells them to do. But instead they do what they have been commanded do. They don't have the ability or the capacity to disobey Benny Adam and the jinn, we can obey and we can disobey.

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Some of them in our aka, as Allah mentioned, is sort of the fatir Alhamdulillah he thought that a similar way to an Arab jet in Malacca rasuna

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although as neuheiten mithuna were philosopher who back up to full help him Ayesha All praise is due to a lot who originated and created the heavens and the earth, and he made the angels messengers. Some of the angels have two wings, some have three wings

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Some have four wings. Some of the angels have 600 wings

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yomo qiyamah they will be angels are going to bring a laws thrown down. There is an angel that's in charge of the Hellfire knotty blees What's the name of the angel in charge of the Hellfire honey? What's his name?

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Malik Malik Malik. His name? Well, Carlo jamari

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odo Rob, React Dr. Lena Malik konecki Lord, give me rid of us the people to help I gonna say let them just destroy us once and for all because we can't handle this.

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We can't handle it. Maddock is gonna say back to them in NACA makeathon. You guys are gonna stay in here. And the punishment has been increased for eternity. So his name is manic and popular culture. Our children are growing up watching TV cartoons. And they have the devil he's in charge of shaytani Bs. He's in charge of the Hellfire at the gate. Maybe as a pitchfork has a red suit on with long tail has ears you know like that. And our kids growing up thinking this is the situation? No, that's not the situation. So there are many things that whining about the angels, the main Angel

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gibril. McHale is Rothfield. They're the main angels of the Prophet is to swear by them three all the time, some old lady was sent him I swear by the Lord of jabril. McHale and his Seraphim please do that all the time, they the meaning there is an angel on your right. The one on your left is an angel whenever there is the mistake is a talk. They come down they envelope, they envelop the people and golf, the people. So many things.

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One of the things we have to believe about them and that one is they have the ability to take on the form of human beings by a laws permission.

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And that's why jabril he did that. And that Hadeeth that we were just talking about sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,

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and jabril used to come to the Prophet sallallahu was setting them and he used to resemble one of the companions. His name was Abu hanifa al Kelby. A sola was talking to jabril. And his wife saw him and waited for him. When the Prophet came back. He said, You know, I was just talking to, she said, Yes, the hypno halifa kalbi, he was a handsome man from the most handsome of the companions, him and Father lipner Bass were the two companions who were known for being handsome. And that's part of what we believe about the melodica, that the melodica ugly. And that's why in the story of yourself, when they saw yourself the wind woman, they said, there's not a human being there's an angel, and

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they cut their hands.

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Because the angels don't look like that. So the point here is, one of the things that the angels have the ability to do is have the ability to take on the form of human beings.

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They have the ability to do that, be even in lab was doing the time in the past. And during the time that the prophet SAW sell them, if it's happening now, I'm not saying it can't happen. I don't know any I don't know anybody that said it can happen. But there's nothing my religion tells anybody here walk around, asking people are you an angel?

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Are you an angel? And this is one of the problems of the quarter factor of two so worth Sophie's is not all of them. But some of them believe that Heather, Heather, Heather, that moves away to me in the Quran, over 2000 years ago, you know, like the people of Iraq, Iran, Shia Islam, 10th of Muharram they still beating themselves up in mourning the death of someone after 1000 years, when the Prophet said is not permissible. Someone lied to more than a person for more than three days. You still mourning someone 4000 years kind of religion is that and this is not me stabbing or making time and putting people who believe that down this is saying cave attacker man cave.

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Where did those companions do that companion some alien bait even when we when did they do that? Stop where the companions start. Now, some of us who don't buy into this mutilating ourselves on the 10th of Ashura because of the blood because it doesn't make sense. Okay? They should be allowed to do it. If you're allowed to do the moment. If you're allowed to do your stuff, why? Why can't other people do whatever they want to do?

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So if it's okay for one person or group of people, one group, then it's okay for everybody. That's the justice of Islam. And that's what a lot loves about justice and people who are just everybody has to discard what has not been left for

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buy in from those companions in the lobby pleases Him. So as it relates to some of the people on this way of Sufi ism. So if they will shake a person's hand, and they exaggerate, trying to feel if you have a thumb a bone in your thumb, because his dad supposedly doesn't have a bone in this film, his right thumb. Where did you get that from? Where is that in the book of Allah? That he said in this quarter on? Well, my kind of rabuka nesea Allah didn't forget anything in this book. When Zen Nanak can kita to be cliche. We explained everything you need to know your Mohammed in this book,

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will let us seraphina Next we have the animal cruelty method. We explain to the people everything they need to know in this book, right? Where did you get that from?

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The Prophet perform hajj, at the end of his hide similar 70 gather all 100,000 people he said, Listen, everybody be quiet. Be quiet, be quiet. Have I relayed the message? They said yes, you relayed the message. He saw a bear witness, bear witness bear witness. He didn't leave anything Unturned nothing. where someone has to come today with a new idea to tell people how to get close to Allah. And don't come and tell me Brother Mohammed didn't have a microphone, don't come and tell me that. Don't come and tell me that. Because I agree he didn't have a microphone. But that microphone is not the religion is not something that's the deen. It's not the religion, it's not a bag that

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you didn't have a car, we're not gonna say you can't have a car can't have an airplane. Not gonna say that. Can't have a stove or refrigerator. Not gonna say that. Talking about the religion. The innovation is that thing that people introduce in the dean, they make it from the dean part of the deed. If we got rid of this microphone and just talked without it, no one's going to have a problem with that, other than to say in a complaint we can hear, but no one's gonna say you change the religion has nothing to do with the deen at all. So the milotic is honey, they have the ability to make this to skill. They have the ability to make it to shackle to take the form and the image of

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human beings. And therein lies in that debate between the scholars and it's just the bait at debate which species which creation is better. Benny Adam, or the melodica some of the scholars said the melodic are better because they don't do any sense. Some of the LMS and no, Benny Adam are better because they can send

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and they have that freewill to do the right thing. So that makes them better. And also, Allah sent the angels looking like Benny Adam.

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Allah sent the angels many occasions sent the angels to Ibrahim sent angels to Ebrahim the telly, but again, we're gonna go destroy the people of Sodom and Gomorrah, LBGT, that stuff over there. During that time, we're gonna go and destroy them in the narrative of the Koran that came, and he was afraid of them, and sort of saw the download is praying, and it's Rob. And the two angels appear before him. He saw them and he became afraid. So throughout the Quran, this is what happened. So we're going to stop here with chanalyzer jelly brothers have any questions concerning today's questions fold in Sharla. And we'll call it a day Hi, Linda Khushi.

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Now there are many Hadith honey that talk about the virtues of loving and from them is that the Prophet said some love when he was sending them that the prophets and messengers will have ripta is to permissible jealousy, envy, envy, you can envy people in two situations. someone knows the poor and he has knowledge. You say, I wish I was like that. Someone who got money has money and he gives up you say I wish I had that money, but you don't wish that it's taken away from either one of them. rasulillah he's some law what he said and that's called HIPAA. He said something online is seldom the profits will have zipped up for people who love each other for Allah sake because of the rewards

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that they're going to get. Those people who love each other for the sake of Allah will be on members members Pope is made out of light on the right side of a rock man, and both of his hands are right. The Prophet said something it was so bad to me the Lomo lo fi ve Yama La La Villa level seven people always shaving and shaving them and David there will be no shade yomo piano and he mentioned from those seven or julienne, the Hubba Villa, ah Tama Allah He with the ferrata LA, two men who loved each other for the sake of Allah. When they came together, they came together because of that love. When they product company, they parted company because of that love. So now that's the authentic IDs

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signing of the question in some places, some countries Muslims are following the madhhab. Sometimes there is, in many countries that have are supported by the government. I don't have any problem with the method.

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There's a balance with it. There are two extremes and then there's a balance. One extreme is a person who says you must have a mishap or you're sinning and you can be a real Muslim. The other extreme is the person who says no madhhab is no good. Come on. That's That's too much. If a person took a mishap as a systematic way to arrive at deductions and conclusions, no problem. But as the brother said, all of the Imams said well mmm Abu hanifa said Rama to lie any other Sahabi Fufu Madhavi. If the hubby is authentic, then that's my method. And the man Malik told the people that every one statement is accepted or rejected except the one in that grave. So a lot of what he was

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saying. So a lot even said I said an Imam Shafi told the people it terrifica and Rama Allah no this Burnett shouldn't have to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for law your Jews will be ahead then can and can women can cattlemen can and your true Chua Lee

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it is the consensus of the Bible Islam. If the Hadith comes in is clear, this is the sooner no one can leave that sooner. For the statement of this person in that prison. That person said the man and the man asked me not to lie to Allah, Allah He, he mentioned to the people as he said to his students, don't take from Malik don't take from ozai don't take from a soufiane authority but take from where they took from.

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Don't blindly follow. Now that doesn't mean I boo sama a revert born in Islam in 1986. I come and now I'm a metalhead. I'm going to give fatwas and give to no doesn't mean that. But I have enough sense that there are some issues that when they come to me, I know the mishap was wrong.

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I know the mama Bohemia was mad that was wrong when it said the lady didn't need a Willie. I don't have to be a scholar to know that.

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And you're not going to accept it. If your daughter runs off and gets married without your permission. You're not going to accept that. And all of them events are like that. But let's just stay in the middle. Any more questions or any Any more questions? Heather was a Lola who was suddenly robotic. Was it an intervener wanna Annie he was having a Jemaine ceramide to live with the cat.