Hadith 36 – The Wisdom of the Caller

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Smilla Mata Rahim Al hamdu lillah wa salatu salam ala Rasulillah he Amma Baba come to Hadith number 36. Today we have four Hadith inshallah remaining for this class, and today is a Hadith that is a tremendous Hadith as relates to the personality of every single Muslim, and it is particularly important for any one and everyone who's given Dawa. But you guys sit in in that audience, there's a hadith you need to pay attention to. Because a hadith that will save you a lot of aggro, save you a lot of money and time. And also in Shalabi protection from you having to choke someone or do something violent when people steal your money and things like that. swindlers shysters, fees,

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pyramid schemes, people like that.

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People go on the internet, and they're so quick and willing to send someone they don't even know their bank statement. China make an easy dollar. This hadith will protect you and it's the hadith of Abu Huraira may Allah be pleased with him. He said that the Prophet says Allah Allah who it was a NEMA.

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Now you'll do min min Jordan why he moderating hadith is from the July man al Kalam

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I wouldn't it be our rasool Allah Mustafa Al Amin, Al Mata sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said the believer is that person who is not stung from the same hold twice

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if you were words but it has far reaching implications, a lot of calm a lot of dive a lot of for white,

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and men law you'll

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endure in white men retain.

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It is not okay for a believer in Allah. A believing Mohammed Salah line was setting up a believing yomo piano it's not acceptable for him to get stung from the same hole twice. This hadith has been collected by Imam Al Bukhari and Muslim so there is no shock as it relates to the authenticity of the Hadith. Concerning the Hadith, first thing that we want to mention this important is that there are some Islamic groups and I warn you of all of the Islamic groups avoid them all. If they're a group of people calling themselves set if he and their group of people avoid all of these people and get on the religion that the Prophet brought some of the law while he was setting them, why need to

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believe he's Sufi leave all that stuff. Yeah, he

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is his BIA. And a lot of times these groups don't allow you to be a full Muslim. They don't allow you to reach your full potential. They don't want to allow you to meet the Muslim you never to love the Muslim who you've never met before.

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So some of these groups like the people have to So Wolf, this hadith is a big refutation against those people and other than them, and that is a Hadith that clearly shows that the Muslim is a person who has intellect and uses an intellect slam doesn't accept stupidity.

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Can't be stupid. And Arabic there are a number of words like an English like bleed, not bleed your bleeding similar to that bleed that like the word Sufi, foolish. So your Kulu sofa Mina, Nas Allah called him in the Quran. Foolish. Believe, stupid, an idiot.

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Her be dumb, just dumb. Allah doesn't want us to be Jacqueline jackin ignorant, doesn't know his elbow from his ankle bone.

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For foolish in every culture in every system, the superlatives are frowned down upon. And Islam Allah doesn't want that this hadith proves that the people of Sufi ism they say if you're the chef and you're the more eat, you're the student, they say be with the shear the way a dead person is when his body is being washed.

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I say the opposite. Don't be with anybody like that.

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Even if you go to the Tubby the doctor in the

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hospital and he's going to give you an operational pull your tooth or something like that. That doctor better be aware of how he's touching you. You get in a hair cut

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The guy is cutting your hair. And while cutting your head keeps making the mistake and putting himself in the wrong place touching you. We're not going to just be like that with anybody like a dead person who's being washed.

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The chef has given rakia rakia, you chose someone who's giving rakia to your wife, and they shake says to you, can you please leave the room? Leave me alone with my right wife. You said I chef.

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You're the chef. Because they know surgery. If you asked me that question is going to be a problem. Che Do you see me as being bullied? Hubby? Jay Hill Sufi you look I looked like Frank sausage it to you shave. Tell me anything.

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Don't be like that with anybody.

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No teaching our mothers and our fathers we owe them obedience. But even with them Don't be with your mother and father like a dead person who's being washed you have to tell your father and I'd be that's wrong. No oh me. That's not from the deed.

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Allah Tala mentioned in the Quran cool. Halia stowa Lizzy May Allah Moon Levine ally yonder Moon tell them Muhammad, are they equal? Those who know and those who don't know? Law you're still biani method. They're not equal. Those who know on a higher level

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and the dean and the dunya a person who knows how to drive is not like the one who doesn't know how to drive.

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So Allah has rebuked and refuted and put down ignorance and being ignorant in the Quran. You said in the Quran, Summum Bookman are immune who liar Jerome they are deaf, dumb and blind and they will never return bass Allah telling you don't be deaf Don't be dumb. Don't be blind. Not having special needs and your handicap you can't see you can't you know you have all of those things but you don't use them allies telling people don't be like that what's wrong with you?

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What's wrong with you? Your religion is a religion of horror fact. Innovation schicke you make claims and you see things and when people say where's the delille you have no idea what you're talking about Deaf dumb and by

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law mentioned about those other people know whom colluvial law if Kahuna behind? Well, whom I don't know why you gonna be here? Well, are there no lie? Yes, Marina be here. Hola, Erica Kel and Annie Bell whom above Hula, hula.

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Those people they have hearts. They don't understand what their hearts their intellect. They have eyes. They don't see with their eyes. They have ears. They don't hear with their ears. They can hit those people or lesson they're more straight than the animals cow sheep horses. Allah said they like those animals instead. They are more restrained, they are more restrained. They are the ones who are not aware. They're not educated. They don't know what they're doing. So all of those ayat of the Quran and the Sunnah. Tell the believer. Don't be ignorant. This hadith says the Muslim The Mothman doesn't get stung from the same hole twice. He asked to be aware. He has to be clever. He has to be

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switched on. Okay. They say in English. Fool me once. Shame on you. Why are you trying to fool me? We supposed to be cool. You're my homie. I'm your homie. You're friends with Muslims. You fool me and you got my dope.

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You swindled me. You got my money. Fool me once. Shame on you. Fool me twice. Shame on me. I should have been aware of that. The believer is not stung from the same hole twice because he's woke. He's aware of what people are doing and what they're trying to do.

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So the real Muslim based upon this hadith, he's the one who's paying attention. Another Hadith. He said something a lot he was sending in describing the movement he said and then Varun, Karine will fajn boom, the M. He said that the believer is personality is that he is guilelessly. ketene. He has generously. He's generous without a fault. No deception and his generosity. He's not going to give you a fake 20 pound note. What it gives you it Jose's not gonna give you something that is no good. Poison is gonna kill you. It's not going to give you as a as a as a gift food that went bad. He's not like that. He's the bedroom. Kadeem is guilelessly generous, and the fatter is him boom. Like in

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the monastic, the fragile, the bad person even if he's a Muslim

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This individual what he is, he is a swindler. And he is evil. He'll trick you.

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He'll give you a wooden give you a wooden nickels give you will the NICUs try to sell you the Brooklyn Bridge.

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He'll try to sell you the London Bridge. And you're the believer comes Okay, I want you selling me for just give me 150 pounds. That's not the believers not like that.

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I don't know if you guys know. But in New York, there's this game called three card Molly. You get three cards. And you have to choose the one that's red or black. To have them read. The other one is black and a guy say watch the card, watch the car. And he goes real slow. And everybody there's with him. He got about four or five people with him. You come up visiting New York, you don't know what time it is. You're looking at the lights. Oh, wow. Wow. And then you come and you watch him. That's his boy. He has Watch, watch, watch, watch. Show the car 20 Get out. And he got it. You said Man, I can do that. I can do that.

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And depending upon how much you bet the first time, he'll let you win if you bet $10 $20 If you pull out a lot of money, he'll let you win.

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But if you don't have a lot of money, he's gonna make you lose because he knows how to play with that card. The believer never ever ever gets in that kind of game ever.

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First of all, is gambling. But put that aside, he should know if anything comes to you and it's too easy there's something wrong with it. That's a principle you got to know open up your email and the guy said hey

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we My name is Ruqayyah Abdullah he I'm from this African country I was married to the general so and so and he's died $45 million in the bank account. I'm trying to get it out. I just need someone like Gil to give me 300 500 pounds and we'll get it out I give you that I give you 2 million and you sync your bank account

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now may have some real slick people I was waiting for a letter package to come from America. I got an email that said you got to package but you have to pay one pound and 95 pins so that they can let it through customs

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I almost did it because I was expecting a letter but I know that 195 pound $1.91 pound 95 foot nine something's wrong. Sure enough turned out to be a scam. So if you do internet banking, any kind of banking you got to keep looking at your your statements people out here robbing you.

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So the believer is not like that they believe is intelligent. There is a Hadith that said about the believer and movement keep his fuckin

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the believer is shrewd, intelligent, aware. He's on top of the job. That hadith is a weak Hadith fabricated is a fabricated Hadith, but it's true. And you'll hear a lot of people say it is true. And movement taneous fucken. He is intelligent

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comes into a place he doesn't know these people and he's brand spanking new. Don't talk just laying a cut. You don't know these people, you got to do it yourself too. He just knows how to deal with stuff can be an ignorant person. So we have a numb up a hadith I describe the believer. One thing that the believer is he's intelligent, doesn't mean he has to go to school in Oxford or Cambridge. You just have to have normal common sense not to be taken for sucker or taken for a fool. Like what we have. Now why is this hadith important?

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Recently there was a lady, a christian palestinian lady who was shot and killed, assassinated, murdered.

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The world didn't say anything about it about women's rights and all that world said nothing about it. She was a journalist in Palestine for 20 years. She's an American lady. She could have stayed in America and lived life nice. No, she may have taught here. She literally sacrificed 20 years she gave a voice to the voiceless Palestinians.

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They don't have a voice. She stayed over there to show the world what's going on in the open prison and Palestine. She's a Christian.

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And they shot him and killed her.

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All right, no problem. They shot and killed her. She got her reward from Allah and the dunya of whatever good she did for herself a people Christian lady, when she died. When she died, she was killed

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the Muslims from the Jamaat

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At Islamia, a CIC, the political groups, we all of us come from the always the majority of the people giving Dawa. They call themselves the Jamaat and I'm an act the Jamaat

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as a political group, that's not even a religious group and in that group of some good people, there's some good people.

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Anyway, the responsible people of that group in Palestine in Jordan the responsible people, they said that ladies in Jana,

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that that lady took the color Woofle Jana Kay for to share. She's in Jana, moving around, however she wants. They said they are leaders of this Islamic political group. They said that this lady was a she a Shahida. A martyr. You know that she he didn't listen to him. You have the NBM the Russell, you have the Sunday call like Abu Bakr, and then you have the Shahada. And then you have regular people on different levels. The Shuhada way up there.

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Christian lady is from the Shuhei dabba this land.

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People over there after the lady was killed, Muslims play salatu Janessa Allah even for her, and here in the UK, and in America, for Christian leave. I'm not blasting that lady. You're talking down on that lady about her losing her life in the way that she did? No, I think that lady should be praised for her courage in what she did. But when she dies in Ellis Lamb, the Muslim is the person who has to know the Muslim has to know you ask the yo who Denver NESARA Allah Tada mentioned in the Quran, Wakata Talia hood laser to NESARA attache Wakata to Elena surah. Lisa tell you who that is che won't get through NL Kitab the Jews say the Christians are not on anything. Their religion is

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not true. They don't believe and at towhee they made shift. The Christians are not on anything. Their religion is nothing and going to Delphi agenda is not for them. The Christians say that you're holding on anything their religion is not real. They're in the whole fight. They won't go to gender because they don't accept Li salumeria and both groups are reading the books. Now both groups disqualify the other group. That's the religion. Well, you think they think we are

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it's clear where they think we are. My mother, my relatives say you won't go to gentlemen to take Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. Every Christian says that's their theology. How can a Muslim come now and say, Oh, well all of us were in Jannah what what is that? It comes from these groups that the OMA we're not Ocala we're not acting. They trick us and fool us over and over and over again and we keep falling for this stuff. But keep falling for the trickery of these people. And it's not okay. It's a political group. I had after I told us the Prophet says Allah Allah wa salam la yet who Jana in LA knifes Muslim. The only people will go into Jana is the knifes that is a

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Muslim man. Not me. Not Muslim. The Muslim That's it. That's our theology. But we're gonna say to non Muslims don't know you're gonna go to Jana because you did this and you know, It's haram, once they die. You can't even say Rama talathi The reverse here No. When one of our relatives died, mother father die and other than Al Islam. We become a bit you know, disoriented because sometimes we don't know what to say. If a Muslim relative die mother and father we say Rama Talalay ha May Allah put them in genitive for DOS we try to make his soft will you say to the river in LA he were in LA he rides you and that's what you get

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from Allah Judah co May Allah give you reward for yourself but that's all but for you people we're gonna say May Allah put your family in the genital Philip dose. We know that. But the people from this group

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and they're everywhere. They're in Pakistan, they're everywhere. Politics, and they have no understanding of the politics of this man.

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So the believers individual, he doesn't give food. He is not a person who's just having a doodle as Hamas Hamas that says unbridled. We have Hamas on Friday when the Imam is there. We have Hamas him and we have what we call it we have emotions and their aid when you get married. No problem, be happy. On a day of aid. The lady hit the thing they do that no problem, be happy. But every time something happens, a lady gets killed is wounded. So pression Palestine is real sensitive. We just leave our often no and that's what

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Are those scholars of Islam they used to write books to protect the Muslims from that great scholar of Islam and Imam Ibn Al Josie has a book called Kitab a bar and Hunka one morpholine The story of the stupid people and the people have a flood and it gives you some real stories of people in the past who used to do crazy things.

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Gray Scotland and we'll have Dr. Eben he ban tremendous scour the Sohei have been a ban has different books. You want to know someone who knows about a judge with the ideal. He's one that these people walking around here. excommunicating people from the Sunnah playing games. And the Imam even he barely has a book call rolled to

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the garden of the intelligent people.

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When news huddle filled out a full Gala, talking about people have intelligence compared to people who don't have common sense. So the believer is the person who uses his often now as it relates to this issue and what it really means. So I want you guys to pay attention because the class should be quick and shallow. It's real easy.

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Generally speaking, the Muslim should be easy.

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someone stands up right now and it comes in he says to me, I'm trying to get to London, I have no money, this and that. I make that announcement. Everybody gives what he can give, we give it to him. And he rolls he may be Elia, but we don't know that. So the Muslim is not the one who says, Well, what do I don't know, you know, we're not rough and tough. Because if you were in his position, you wouldn't want to be dealt like dealt with like that. But if you have reason or cause after getting burnt and stuff stung, you have to be awake. It said that the believer doesn't get stung. From the same hole, he gets stung it could be bitten, whatever, you get the pitcher, someone is sitting right

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here, there's the whole of the snake is gonna bite you rattlesnake, a scorpion, a wasp, you're going to sit right next to a bee, a bees hive, and you're gonna get stung, and you're going to stay there and you're gonna keep getting stung, and get get stung and see what's going on. We'll keep getting stung, and say, Man, I keep getting stung. Because a man move from that place.

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What are you doing move from that place, you can't keep taking your car to that guy. Some of us don't know about cars. So when we go to buy cars, buying a car and selling cars, it's also it's people are liars, thieves. If you are a Muslim, if he Allah has given people, you know, selling cars.

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So every car he gets every car, it's a limit. The gearbox is jammed up the car before that it was this car before that, is that? When are you going to wake up and smell the coffee? When are you gonna go to a Muslim brother who's a mechanic and say, Listen, you my friend, or you're not my friend, I'm gonna pay you some money. Just come with me to help me out. Learn how to buy the car.

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Learn what you're doing. That's how the believer is. Unless he just has 5000 pounds to waste.

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Most of us don't have that kind of dough to waste.

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And this hadith isn't everything, everything. He got married to a woman before she played games and ran circles around him. Now you want to get married again. The believer doesn't get stung from the same old twice. You better wake up that sister as well. She married the brother. She's a new river, or whatever divorce See, that brother already has a wife or didn't tell her maybe he did tell her maybe. And then he starts giving her all of these big dreams about plural marriage. And then when she got married, it was nothing like that. It didn't work. Now, another brother comes that believe it doesn't get stung from the same hole twice. That doesn't mean she shouldn't entertain plural

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marriage. I'm not saying that. But she should look for the signs those red flags, doesn't mean you shouldn't get married go extreme. The Arabs say and this isn't our language to men let that Mullah data to hire half a minute hobble the Arab save. Whoever gets bitten by a snake. He becomes afraid of the rope. Anything that looks like a snake. He doesn't want to deal with it. So the marriage didn't work. So the person says I don't want to get married. That's not the right way to get married. But take lessons from what happened before.

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So this is the meaning of the Hadith lesson. Someone comes to you with a nice

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old and he got all of that and they claim and look the role, nice Qalam and all of that. And because you are believer, you get duped and he gets you for your dough or whatever, you got you. But when he comes next year or at another time you say nah, I saw this movie before I read this script before, I'm not getting stung by you again. And then you put things in place. If you want to move forward and work with them. You put things in place to save yourself. That's the meaning of this hadith. Like the Manasa pin, the Manasa pin Allah said about them. Were either eight to whom to Rebekah at Sam or whom were in your Kulu test smiley code in those hypocrites. When you look at them, you're

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impressed with how they look. Look at his job. Look at his beard. Look at the hijab that you look bad. Look at this person. Look how they pronounce the column of the Arabs. Wow, look at him. Look at him. When you see him you're impressed. And when he speaks your impress

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them will not be appalled. They were tricking the Companions trying to but Allah expose them. If they're jackal munaf Hakuna Carlu Nasha do in Nicola Rasulullah wala who Yasha do Nicola solo will low Yes. And then will NASA peanut Academy born when the monastic corner come to Muhammad, they swear Well, Allah He, we know Muhammad is Rasul Allah. Allah says, Allah knows that you are his message and Allah bears bear witness that they're liars. Don't listen to that.

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Don't listen to that kinda. It's a Ponzi scheme. All this kind of about bitcoins and all of that stuff like that. You didn't read between the lines? You don't know what's going on. All you know is there are a few commercials on Tik Tok that people are saying I made this much money and you gave me to give you money over to people. Because the kalam sounds good. You don't know any of those people on tick tock.

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You don't know a single person from those people on tick. Tock Hussain is good as good as good. You don't know what single is He?

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Is he? Is he truthful? Is he? Honest? You don't you don't know that. But we we go we they get us? They get us? This is what this hadith is talking about? Don't be one of those. Yeah. Are you living in Amman or who? Heather ACOEM that's what Allah said. Oh, you believe take your precautions. Take your precautions about everything that needs to be you know,

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you need to be cautious up.

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Don't just go into a house and listen to what those people are talking about. You have to go and find out on the internet. What are good questions to ask.

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I'm getting ready to go get another job. What a good questions to ask when you go for new interview.

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Anything on internet?

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So all of what we learned before that this house has root tuber what is that real tuber

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is mold and damp and all that stuff. You didn't know that man at first because they had it painted.

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had it painted? And then after two or three months of studying, you saw Oh man, it's mold in here. And your kid has asthma last summer Hala.

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People are hustling. So don't get fooled by the glitter. Yeah, you are levena Avenue in them and as YG comm Whoa, lie the confit Neptune. ado, we'll look on factor Rome. We believe some of your wives and some of your children. They are enemies to you. So beware.

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Beware. And those are the closest people to you. Allah is telling us beware of the fitna.

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What about people you don't know? Again at 20 That doesn't mean we walk around not trusting and believing people because that's another extreme. The one who is not trusting anyone those negative people. The glass is half empty and they're just negative. Is that Auntie the mothers? Oh, you guys don't love me. You guys just waiting for me to die you No, no, no, we love you. They have to always telling moms we did because she's negative like that. Everybody who comes to the house from the other ragged relatives, she has something negative to say, I can't be like that. The Muslim is the person who has first loved one about people.

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But once people step on his toes, they stink him. Somebody does them wrong. Those eyes are open. That doesn't mean you should wait for it to happen. You should try to prevent it.

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But in our religion, sometimes a religion is like that I never had any money stolen from me and in JD, but in this land and when he's stolen from me, why? Because I had to believe the people you believe, and he's lying. He's lying.

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That's the meaning of the Hadith. Let me share with you where the Hadith comes from.

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The Prophet sallallahu wasallam in the Battle of

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the Battle of better is fighting the people. And they were the man who was a poet. And this man was fighting against Rasul Allah, He Salah Solomon, he was giving poetry as well well known for his skills in poetry. So when the battle of better the Muslims won, they killed those people. And it was a monumental victory. After the victory, the prophet caught that man, you are the one who was making poetry, how poetry for the Arabs back then it's like the media is for us right now. There was satyan, land, the media, the newspaper, TV, the bar, poets were like that before, if you are good poet, and this is our tribe, but we're going to travel somewhere, the poet when he travels, he will

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say his poetry to those people, those people, those people, and then they'll take it there and they're in there and it spreads like that.

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And that's how they were, and their poetry would be all over the peninsula. And the Prophet, listen to this SallAllahu wasallam being a balanced man, he wasn't theoretic.

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I would doubt to set a fee or when did it become theoretic? Because this theory, no, if you are really Salafi, then be more gentle with the people know your religion more know, if Allah is a Semir Elbasy or whatever, then that has behave appropriately. Let us not talk without knowledge he talking about.

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So that man, that particular man, Rasulullah sallallahu, he showed us something. He also had poets, poets, there's a sort of the Quran and Shuara poets were the way that news spread back then, like TV, the Prophet Muhammad disconnect from society. No, it's from his culture. He had poets,

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right has certainly been with habit like Abdullah ibn RWA, poets on another level, like kabhi bumalik, read the alignment. And he used to tell them, like Hasani blue fabric, they used to have battles, like hip hop battles today, the polis back then used to have battles.

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And they could destroy your whole tribe, and make you embarrassed for the rest of your life. And this was one of the reasons why the Arabs would bury their daughters alive. They didn't want the daughter to be live in where another poet can say something bad about her and embarrass him. So he'll bury his daughter before that happens. Can you imagine?

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Can you imagine? So the Prophet saw some of them would tell those companions, he would tell his son had been phablet go and battle them, and may the roar kudu speed with you may Jabril be with you in your poetry, and he will battle him and he would always win.

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So that man he used to do that spread the poetry against the slam, Missoula and the companions are so caught that man when he caught him, you're done. You are done. You can really do you right now. He played on the the the Rama Rasulillah. They knew how he was a Muhammad I got daughters who's going to take care of them. Yeah, Muhammad. I'm poor. They're poor. Mom, I really wasn't thinking about what I was doing. I was just following the crowd and I came out, come on, give me a break. So I said, Okay, you have a break, but promise me you will not talk about the Muslims and help these people again, I promise you, you have my word, Mohammed, I'm gonna go don't worry about it. Okay,

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you let them go.

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When the battle of Ohio came around, lo and behold, this guy was on the other team again.

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So they fought,

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they fought. And in that battle, there was not a decisive victory for the Muslims. As a matter of fact, the Muslims are hurt in that war, because they didn't listen to the Prophet sallallahu. It would send them around the alignment. But Rasul Allah caught that man, he caught that man, and then that man said, Yeah, Mohammed, let me go give me a break. You know, my daughters. I'm poor. I told you to deal you know, Janna, let me go. Prophet Muhammad told them, I will not allow you to leave here and to go back to Mecca and you arrive in Mecca, and then you

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You will tell the people I tricked Muhammad to times, Verily the believer does not get stung from the same, same hole twice, and then they dealt with him.

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That is the reason for the Hadith. Now I'm going to Hadith that I just told you in the Syrah in the history of Islam. That story has some problems in it, no doubt about it. The Hadith that we mentioned is in Bukhari and Muslim. But the story, when it comes in a narration, it has some issues.

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But nonetheless, the statement is in that hadith, so we're going to take it, that is what the Hadith means someone steps to you. You trusted him. He was your friend, was your wife, your relative, your business partner, someone came up, gained your trust, and then he stabbed you in the back. You got that? He got that off. He got that one. But you can't let him do it again. You can't let him do it again. You have to wake up. And look at this. This religion gives you strength. You don't have to be embarrassed to say to them, I don't trust you. You don't have to be embarrassed to say you did this before. You just say Rasul Allah. He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, the believers not stung from

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the same hole twice. That's what you say. Like our wives. And wives don't have to be embarrassed. If they don't want to go to their sister's house or let her into your house. You just got to do it say my husband's not home. He didn't give me permission. Now my husband's I laughed at my husband just putting on your husband.

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So that's the meaning of this hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Another thing very important in 20 This is really important in this hadith, the Muslim desert gets stuck some from the same hole twice.

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This hadith does not clash against all of those authentic hadith that describe that the believer is easy. Hadith number six in this book, we took this hadith number six in this book. The Prophet said in that long Hadith about he left us on the Mahajan toolbar, the lady who had Kanhaiya that hadith why then are Rasulullah Himawari lettin Baliga he gave us a big more either cause the eyes to shed tears in the heart to become fearful. Yeah, Rasul Allah is as if you're giving us a farewell speech as if you're leaving us. What do you advise us to do? Those of you who live a long time, so you're laughing kefir, you're going to see a lot of the live so take my sooner sooner the ghoul hola rashy

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Dean. At the end of the Hadith he says Allahu alayhi wa salam enamel men, killed Jamal NFX

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Hey to my cod.

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Haytham our key them caught. Verily the believer is like the sociable camel, the obedient camel. Whichever way you pull him he'll follow that's authentic. That hadith is talking about the Morona of the Muslim how the Muslim is flexible.

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The Muslim mixes with people he sociable that's the meaning of this hadith. Don't be that guy. Everybody here decides that we're going to eat

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momos no Mindy's we're gonna go to Mindy house. Everybody decided we're going to eat Mindy. That one brother said now why momos

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Come on, man. Why you got to be the only one like that. Why? When you see everybody in an issue like this? Why you have a difficult one?

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And there is always a relative like that. A friend like that. Don't be like that. We're sure this is our Masjid we're sure 10 People eight people there's always that person on the Shura. He's difficult

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we should cancel no we shouldn't do it. No, it's not gonna work. What are we gonna get the money? Brother Haven't we proven over the last so many years that if we organize we put our heads to it it can happen but he can't help it. The believer is not like that just difficult to be difficult. No. Those many many a hadith

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al mija live where you live well I hide a few Mala ya Allah for Allah yoke love. That's what it means. The believer Muslim is the one who connects to people. And when they want to connect to him, he accommodates. He's not the one who always wait for people to serve him. Come to him, connect to him, visit him.

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He's not like that. He accommodates and he admits

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She hates. That's what that hadith means. So someone may take this authentic hadith about the camel, the camel that goes with you where you want to go and say, but isn't this hadith teller get stung now? The Hadith that says you don't get stung is the one that says in the means. Keep your eye open for the swindler, the shyster, the one who jammed up your program, the one who you tasted the Marrara of his actions.

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So all of those other Hadith, they're just telling you Be gentle. Like that hadith in Allah, ha, ha, Ramona, and a coolie Hadean lay in Corrib son. Allah has made the Hellfire haram haram and every person who is gentle and himself gentle and easy with other people he's in close proximity can eat anything you need you can find him he's not that guy who when you call him he's not there for you never know he's that guy.

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Whenever you call even if you don't get him he's calling you back. Trustworthy as sadly Brava.

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Allah made the Hellfire haram on the one who's clean, you can find him. There's that friend. He's a fair weather friend. When things get going, all right, he's right there.

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He's right there, especially for young brothers who want to be in a criminal life.

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They're there with you shouting whispering to you to do evil. As soon as you get caught, you get locked up. They're not going to do anything for you. They ain't writing you know letters. They're not sending you any money. They're not going to give your mother any money. If you're married, they ain't given nothing to your to your wife.

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They're not giving you anything diddly squat. Because those streets, those streets, they have no loyalty to anybody.

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Anybody

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but the one who is soft and gentle and himself gentle with other people. He's there whenever you need him. And he's sad. Sad. I mean, he's easy the way he is. He's like drinking water man. Just like drinking water. Easy to understand, easy to comprehend. There are some people it's like drinking Vinokur mixed with seven up and lots of salt in it and you got to try to drink that stuff. Some people are like that, like man, you are tough on the palate.

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Lastly, what we want to mention concerning this hadith is that Abdullah being in school a lot of times they say that this hadith is a hadith is Abdullah Bemis, rudeness authentic, he said as salaried men were either better at the successful one, the intelligent one as sallied, the happy one is the person who learns from other people. Other people make mistakes and you learn from that. You don't have to get stung to learn.

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You don't have to get stung. The people said, yeah, he's not a good businessman. And he proved that and you went in you asked people and they gave you the deal. This dude is not a good businessman. Don't jump into business get stung. I say okay, I got it. Now I remember that. How do you know you can save yourself from getting stung in the first place? Aside, men will either be ready, the intelligent one, the one who is successful is the one who learns from mistakes of other people. So for the students who are here, university or whatever,

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you better learn this, you get caught cheating, you're gonna get kicked out of university. You don't do the work, you're not gonna get you a degree. You move with the wrong people. They're going to be a distraction. Learn from other people. You're in the class and

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the teacher or the chef, he asks you a question.

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And the question is

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who are the five major prophets? Who are the five major prophets? So the brother answers he says nor

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Adam,

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the bride nor

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Ibrahim Musa

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hammy one more one more Muhammad you can't remember he said widow Marian. Okay can't remember you you would have for you got you just missed one. You missed one. You get what he says.

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Yeah, Paul is smile is hot. Yeah, he you didn't just get when he said we told you that one more. He just mentioned for you one. It's my illness happy I call you

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Don't mention the same. Don't come up with something new all mentioned the same mistake that he made. He made a mistake. And you'll find the student making the same mistake Wallah, he, being a student in the class is just knowing what you doing it part of it is having intellect. Some kids are real smart, but part of it is just keeping your eyes open and paying attention. Just don't be dumb, and keep up with the homework and work hard. And you can be the number one student in that class. Because when we come from a poor where people of color, our parents don't put a lot of emphasis on education. So we want our kids to settle for mediocrity, the the African kid, the black kid, Afro

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Caribbean, K Pakistani kid, the Muslim kid, many times he just wants to pass just give me a D as long as I don't get an F. No brother, we want you to get an A plus. And we also want you to be in school every day.

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You have the best attendance because the Muslim doesn't settle for mediocrity. You know, on the day of July, if you come to the Juma first early, you get the reward of slaughter in a camel, and then those after slaughter in a cow, and then always after slaughtering the sheep. And then it was after scoring the chicken and then it was after slaughter egg or given an egg. And then after that the monastic could close the scrolls and I said the way we are and I'm just gonna make you may I get that egg? Dag is it with me man was problem. And then we will become philosophical about the benefits of the egg.

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You know that it came before the chicken though you don't know that. Maybe what you're talking about me. The point is, the Muslim [???] is

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the Muslim should settle for mediocrity. That's the point. That's what we're saying. Last thing we want to mention Aquinas is important too, is the richness of the canal of the NABI SallAllahu Sallam the scholars have slammed what they've done for our religion. This hadith has other interpretations. Some of them are close, and many of them are far away. Some of the scholars said the meaning of this hadith, the meaning of it, the believer does not get stung from the same hole twice means that your MO piano when people die, if you got punished for a sin that you did, and you went to the knot of Jahannam, and then you came out or you went to Jannah, you won't get punished twice for the same

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sin, you only get punished for that one sin, it could mean that it can possibly mean that secondarily, it can mean that and that is true. That is true. And that's the richness of the language and the fifth of the Muslims have run a marvelous lab. But the one we want to emphasize and leave all of those other UK while is

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be careful of the shyster.

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Be careful. There is an Arab parable it says that tuck it up for ratha, don't approach three, don't approach three people three things. Don't approach a phone, you know the thought of the bull, the bull, the bull,

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Spain, they'd be stabbing the bull and stuff, but sometimes the bull get them. They said don't approach the bull from the front. Because obviously, he's going to do you. They said and don't approach don't approach the horse from behind, kick your head off.

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You got to come to the side of the horse horse will kick your head off. And they say don't approach the Jahir that hubby

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from AVG her.

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The ignorant person don't approach him from any direction avoid him altogether. Because he's going to hurt you.

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He's going to hurt you. You're going to be hurt. And ignorant friend if you have a friend who's bullied Rubby Sophie jackin he'll hurt you more than your enemy will have him as your friend.

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And it reminds me of when the police used to come you have nothing to worry about the police. But I don't want to deal with no police that come looking for Where's Abu Osama that friend is my friend. He's not here but I'll give you his telephone number.

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Amen. You give him the popo my number four Bravo. I don't want to have to deal with them. We do it. It's just general principle. Don't give anybody my number. We're giving the policeman number four. That's the deaths the friend. That is the friend

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goes to your house and knocks on the door and your wife comes to the door. I don't have to say anything other than that. You can imagine putting the rest of it. He goes to your house looking for you. You're not home. Your wife is gone. He says it's full nightmare, my friend. No Can I help you? And he gives you the whole story. The whole story.

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And then when you come home, you find your

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wife and her hair is on fire. And she's looking at you with red eyes and a hair burning because of the news that your friend brought to the door.

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Watch out we're going to stop here Sharla we're gonna do five minutes if you guys have any questions What time is the advance check before you shut

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anybody know?

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