Hadith #25 – The Way to Educate and Cultivate
Channel: Abu Usamah At-Thahabi
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and to be mentioned some Allah while he was seldom when he went from Medina to Mecca, and he went back to Mecca, and he conquered Mecca. So there's a surah in the Quran called Surah, Al Fett,
Nakata, Fatah, and Mecca. And Medina. Allah gave him the victory over the non Muslims. After being expelled from Mecca.
He went to Medina, and then he went back to Mecca as a victor. And he could have dealt with all of the non Muslims when he went back. And he could have done a lot of things to pay them back. And to get into common revenge for what they did, had been left to any one of us, except the one that Allah gave him Rama would have taken revenge from those people for all of the drama, and static and problems that they gave us.
They killed some of his companions. Only because they said La Ilaha illa Allah, that was it.
Like I see these disturbing talks by some of these Brobee Imams and some of these Deobandi Imams, they plant in the heart of the youngsters who are on that stuff, hatred for people of the Sunnah. And I'm talking about hatred. I have children, I have children.
But does it looked like a Muslim father or mother, teaching their children to hate the Muslims, I tell my children, I hate all of these Jamaat, and if you with any of these groups, any of them without any exception, if you are with any of these groups, I'm going to disown you. Because those groups teach you to hate the Muslims and teach you to look at Islam through a very narrow scope of that mishap or that group that you're on. But to tell my kids to hate Shiite of Iran and Iraq, they cursed the companions or of the alignment. I hate that with a passion. But I know they're ignorant. I know that the one ignorant what they're doing is bad. I've been to Senegal I've been to Gambia
been to Nigeria. I've been to the West African countries with a T Janee. People have people committing ship left right and center worshipping other than Allah.
And I hate that *. And Cora fat. I hate that. But I know that those people are ignorant. They are Muslim
others that we should have Rama upon and hold for them higher. They are like in many instances as far as understanding the deen and like the bedwin who urinated in the masjid a Crummock moolah that you were in a that bedwin doesn't know his religion, who's going to urinate and msgid
Who's going to do that? Someone who has an Acquia his intellect, something's wrong.
So as it relates to the Prophet, going back some law, what he was sending them and forgiving most of those people, he let him go, most of them, you let him go. It's a deal, that he was a person that had Rama. If that opportunity was given to many of us, some of us can't make up and speak to relatives, who we have ongoing beef with, we won't be the first to extend the olive branch, the olive branch to them. There are people who have done us wrong. If Allah gave you the ability to be over them, some of them, some of us would take our heart. Some of us will take our heart. And it's not always wrong to take your heart. It's not always wrong. But the prophets Allah why he was
sending them, he went back to Mecca. And when he went into mech, he was riding his horse. And he had his head close to the neck of the horse, as if he was making sedge, the or ROCOR being humble. And he heard one of his companions. So Oh, Kurt, he will Quraysh we're gonna chat that meetup today, that meat is going to be chopped up and that blood is going to be spilt. We remember what you did to Hamza
and that companion who said that he wanted to get the other companions agitated, so that they just start going and taking heads off. The Prophet said, no, no, no, no, no, that's not what we're doing here today. That's not what we're doing. So when he went there, so Lola did send them a lot of things happen. One of the things that happened was this idea. He said, Yeah, Isha. Yeah, Asia. He was looking at the Kaaba.
And I Isha and him were looking at the Kaaba. And there were people going around the Kaaba, after he conquered Mecca. Now McCobb is under his supervision and his authority. He can do with it, what he wants to do with it. Let him who he wants to let in and kick out he doesn't want to let in. As those I will reveal. Tell him the non Muslims, you can't come to the cob after this year will surely come you can't come. That's it.
So as he looked at the card is a guy he shot.
If it wasn't for the fact that your people were new, newly out of Jackie via
J havia. Everything that happened before Ellis slam you people were new, I came a conquer Mecca, and they came into a slam. And they saved their lives as a result of that. And I accepted the untold millions slam. But if they were not new to this religion,
what I would have done is I would have taken this Kaaba, and I would have done some things with it.
I'd have rebuilt it on the collide of Ibrahim, what if Garofalo Ibrahim Kowai, the minimum date and remember, when he Brahim and his smile, the two of them. They built the Kaaba and special pillars. And it's not on those pillars anymore. The Prophet says Allah who it was sending them. If these people were not new to Assam, I would have ordered for the cabinet to be destroying, rip down all of it destroyed. And then I would have entered into it, what has been taken out of it. And out of started from the ground, and maybe even with the ground, and out of me two doors, one door first facing the east, and the other door facing the West. And if I would have done that, then I would
have built it the way it's supposed to be built when he Brahim did it. This hadith has a lot of benefits in it. But the chef Rama to lie they he brought it, for one reason has a lot of benefits in it. Part of it is the history of the Kaaba, part of his the history of the Prophet sallallahu it was sending them leaving Mecca and all of that the chef brought it in this book, the Dow and the Duat. We're giving Dawa and we're calling people and we're all duat we're all callers all of us it teaches
so what's the connection here?
The hadith shows the importance of any and everybody who's giving Dawa to have a comprehension of and a good understanding of the Dawa ficou dour. The dour requires comprehension.
Tao is not something that
Just while you just throw it up in the air and you do what you want to do no, what are you calling to? How are you calling? And the people that you're calling? What is their situation? What are the different things that you can do to give them down all of that Prophet Muhammad brought to us SallAllahu it was sent them in this hadith is one of those Pinnacle Hadith that show this that you have to know the condition of the people that you're calling to yeah Isha your people are new to Islam. So that means you have to deal with them a particular way. It was that same Isha. May Allah be pleased with her who said, Allah Allah subhanho wa taala. Had he made come a haram in one shot.
Quraysh would not have accepted Islam, because they are new to Islam. That guy's a new Muslim. It's a crackhead. He's smoke weed. He's doing something. Now that he came into a plan. You got to take your time with him.
Does that make crack halau Caden high hell no. But it means you have to take your time with him and understand the situation you're given down with him. Don't cut his head off, swung with you. The man is dependent. We have people in our community who smoke cigarettes, they can get rid of the hobby. So we give Dawa to them?
Are we going to cut them off because they smoke cigarettes? He's addicted to nicotine. He's addicted. It's not that he just wants to disobey Allah and follow his Allah. He stressed out got all kinds of issues. He needs to kick that habit. But we have to support him.
But there may be that individual No, you don't support him.
But generally speaking, generally speaking, don't look at people in that way where you're really intolerant. very judgmental. Our children, our children, the Shabaab of the Muslims right now. They have an identity crisis. The Muslim kids don't know who they want to be who they want to look like.
Do they want to look like mosula? During look, while I look like Jay Z? Do do they want to look like a little baby? Do they want to look like
so now as a father, you me fathers mothers? We have to know how and do our best with trying to do with them? Yep. Me. I could come out and just go off. But is that going to work? I don't think it's going to work. Because everybody who's around your child wants to look the same way your child is looking.
So is the issue love having flick of the doubt gotta have flick of the doubt. If allies were jealous said once at once, first one time, they said no Hummer, I Aisha said kofod Quraysh would not have ever embraced Islam, because they love that color is a part of who they are. The girl is a brand spanking new Muslim. One of the biggest things that stop Western women from America from Europe, when the biggest barriers is that he John
meaning what? People can look at her, she doesn't want people looking at her, her relatives or family just to make a statement. So once she comes into the religion, and she's your wife, or you know her, we have to support them.
Don't cut off and say you're not wearing a hijab, united, serious Muslim. And when she wears hijab, right away, gloves, MIPCOM right away, black, well, it may work for this one, but it doesn't work for that. And when it doesn't work for that when you relax, you relax. If there was a sister, who from day one, she put the gloves, the niqab, all of that on, then let her start giving down in a nice way and say, Hey, I did it. And I didn't have these problems. But don't let that say, Hey, I did it. So therefore you can do it. No, don't do that. You have to know what people's conditions happen to be.
Even the issue of hijab, she doesn't want to hear it where he don't even talk about that he John, get it to believe in Eliza Joe first, that Tawheed of Allah. And then after she believes in the shahada, Tang, get into believing that salaat and how she has to wear the hijab for the salah. But don't be a fitna for the people. That's the point. Don't be intolerant. So our mother Isha, may Allah be pleased with her. The Prophet taught her that message and that lesson so Allah who sent him he's teaching us Hey,
some people in Islam for a long time and some people not in Islam for a long time. Sometimes the one who has been in Islam for a short period of time, sometimes you could get more out of them than you can from the people been in SNAP for a long time.
So as the die he as the teacher, you have to know when to do that you can get more out of them than the one who's been in Islam. And he's lackadaisical. She's lackadaisical, you can get a lot of traction out of the one. Those people who embraced Islam, you have to know when it's like that. So it can be a positive thing. And it could be a curse. You could put too much on people and you run them away from the deen, you run them away. And sometimes you could put a lot on them, and they're gonna handle it, because they, they have that youthful exuberance. And Islam to me means something different than the people been on Islam for a long time. They just taken it for granted. Those
people when they hear something, they're inspired. There is a video going around with a well spoken Sumati. Katie looks mighty to me. And he's talking about how his mother helped him to memorize Quran at eight years old. He's very well spoken kid, very calm. And he was saying his mother is not married. He has brothers to another mother, but his father was not married to his mother and the way the kid was talking. Now when one of us sees that, we look at it we say mashallah, mashallah, that's a nice video. There's a woman who sees that a brother who sees that, who says, I'm inspired, if they can do what I can do it. And then from that point, they get serious trying to do that thing.
So here we have two extremes. One extreme is the person who he claims everything is hikma, everything hit my head. My hikma by hikma is not what he's doing. He's just being apologetic, and he doesn't want to say the truth. So anytime he's asked a question about anything, he'll say, if the laugh you can never get the heart from him. And he thinks that that is hikma. But when in fact it is hope he's afraid. That's an extreme hikma hikma. And then there's the other extreme, where the person has no hikma at all rough, tough, intolerant, run people away. He doesn't care about Hickman right here in this semester. If we were a community, us right here, only the people in this masjid,
if you could put us in one of these, these rural communities in the UK, were there not a lot of Muslims and only us without families were there only us. We got transported there. We're gonna have to cooperate with each other. I'm not going to agree with everything you see, you're not gonna agree with everything I say. But what do you think if I'm the teacher, and as I'm teaching, and you said, you're not on it, and you're not on it, and you're not on it, and you're not on it? Anytime one of you do something, you don't do something and I don't like you, I disagree. I kicked you off and say you're not practicing. And I just keep doing that to you. You got to say what kind of teacher you
met. We're in the middle, dab smack in the middle of a Euro rural white community. And we're trying to hold on to our religion for us and our children. What are you doing Abu? What kind of Tao is that? That you're giving?
No, you have to have hikma. And as we mentioned many times, listen, there's not a person here, except that the word hikma is an original word from his language. It's an Arabic word, but it's in everybody's language. This man is from Cameroon hikma is in his language Sumali hikma, Urdu pygmies in that language, English. hekman is in that language we all know Hickman is wisdom.
But the way we always give the type the type of hikma it is putting things in the proper place. That's Hickman, Allah is a Hakeem. Because when he may halau, halal haram haram, he knew what he was doing. So never come and say never, never, ever, ever come and say, Why are those Hadith inside Muslim don't allow us to make Hooroo against the whole can because Allah knew what he was doing.
Allah is not telling you to love the Hohokam. We're not religious enough telling you that Allah is telling you don't make horrible chickens, those who can because if you make Cluj against them, you're going to compromise the stability of the Muslims.
Why did Allah do because he knew what he was doing. Why did Allah allow a man to have more than one wife? Why? Because he knew what he was doing. Don't be one of those people say, I hate the institution of poor marriage. Why? Because my husband didn't do it right. Or this one. I don't know. You're supposed to be a Muslim Amina.
And it goes back to the hikma of Allah halau is halau in our religion because it makes sense is wisdom. Why is the Molad Why is the moment not permissible? Why is not
is no ACHEMA connected to it, no hikma at all. So people should just get plugged into an accept what Allah azza wa jal has legislated and know whether we know the wisdom we don't know the wisdom, but there is wisdom so, heck my is putting things in their proper place. Knowing when to talk, how to talk. What to say what not to say who to say it to sometimes hikma is just being quiet and hating it in your heart.
hikma is just overlooking, overlooking, like last week's Hadith. It is not okay for the husband to hate his wife if he sees in her a character trait that he hates them look for one that he likes, heck, my necessities if you don't do that, you won't be able to live together. She won't be able to tolerate you. You won't be able to tolerate her al hikma Allah mentioned in the Quran, you Tillich Mata mania SHA woman you tell hikma Fatah booty a hymen. kithara Allah has given hikma to whoever he wants to give it to anybody who has been given hikma, he's been given a lot of care. Not a little bit. A lot of higher. The Hakeem from amongst us is the key to high
if we have hakama like abdulai bass used to tell his students call no Rabbani in sokola fuqaha. You people should be going to Benny Yun, teach the people the basic knowledge first, the simple, easy knowledge first, and also be Lokomat people with wisdom. People who know what you're doing.
The Tao of the Tao of these Jamaat, there's no Hickmott with these Jamaat they don't have Hickman is MUFE. Paul dies lost
They have no power, and they want to start fighting America. What are you doing? Get your country together. It's a country together. That's in the Muslim world. Here here. Remember, 15 years ago, 10 years ago, we have people his will to hear this craziness about establishing the Khilafah I don't say that to put you down because you're his Buddha here. I want to take cheap shot at you. I'm saying this madness.
You look in this audience right now. We're all responsible for establishing that Khilafah in our homes, yo, yo you all of us, to the best of your ability. You're the Khalifa in your own house, everybody here and your children, your wives. They are the man called mourn the one who you're judging who he could put his hand up and say, Hey, I'm taking care of this responsibility of being the belief in my house who can say that? And then that same person who is with his battaglia goes out and says, we want the GI for here in the UK. And then the BBC acts that God never forget it. As long as I live my doom to hire, they said, What are you gonna do if you guys get the Khilafah? He
said, first thing you got to do is chop their heads off and ladies who don't wait, he Jack. I said that guy has to be a plant. No one in his right mind will say something like that on TV. He has to be paid to say something like that. Where's the Heckman in that?
So I'll hikma to in dour putting things in the proper place. But you don't give dollar you never see here on Monday. You never get up the on the member. So does that mean you're excluded? Cannot you're married? You're married? What about the one who's not married so he doesn't have children? You have relatives. They're not Muslims. You have relatives who are Muslims. You have to give them dollar. You have a neighbor who's a problem. You have people you work with. A dour. You gotta have hikma. We all have to have hikma and then some people as I mentioned, just as Allah gave some people suffer, Allah gave some people with an ability to speak. They're very articulate. Allah gave some people at
the cat. Allah gave some people hikma.
This guy knows how to deal with things. And may Allah have mercy upon a chef Musa A chef Musa from the Sudan, right not to lie lady, couldn't read, couldn't write. The man couldn't read, couldn't write. He was on me by the Lord of the Kaaba. Never saw a man as wise as that man walking on the face of the earth, right not to lie it was offered Allahu Allah Who tremendous man, a chef Musa.
And hikma be balance be in the middle, Eliza gel mentioning that if he gives hikma to whoever he wants to give it to. And another it said in the Quran yeah
Yeah, hold the key tab. Witten y t now who will? hochma? Serbia? Yeah, yeah, then maybe take the book with strength, be a Muslim and be strong. Don't be a Muslim and your laksa days ago, like the Prophet says Allah Allahu Allah, he was selling them Abdul Ali have been a YG. If
any of you who lives for a long time, you're going to see a lot of the live, take my sooner and the sooner have the right the guidance will have for Rashi Deen those companions beyond the Senate fee of that they were playing with that religion, not no group, but upon what they were upon. He said bite on it and hold on to it with your Moodles bite onto it. Don't put in a pocket like that. lackadaisical about your Diem. That doesn't mean to be moved to shed debt and go overboard in your religion neither. But don't be no flaky. Don't be no flaky.
Yeah, take the book with strength. Take it with strength. Don't be a chump. Be a punk. People push you off to square. You will Muslim. They push you off the square. Because you ski your ski you ski can play drummer can't do anything to scare. Change your name. His name is more IWEA they say just call me mo that did. My dad didn't name me mo
My father made me more. Let me school you to whom while we is. Now obviously when you have to have hikma I remember when I was young and I was a new Muslim. I was pumped up like the new Muslim is pumped up. I met some new Muslims they were from. They were from India actually from Kinga than once they the boat but they call it again.
They were those bajas bajas, those ones in Kenya.
The Indians in Kenya, were free him is my ad units, my abs, cut the earnings. And I met those guys. And they were working on a masjid and they had some non Muslims working with them non Muslims. And non Muslim pick that thing up. So there's a bunch of ants walking a billion ants. And I started telling the guy about schooling man and the ends.
And shoot a man was talking to the ants. And I'm calling myself giving them down. But that wasn't the dowel to give that non Muslim white man he was looking at me like I was crazy. The answer was talking to the man and a man was talking to and you're going to install new gold back into your house because we managed to solely like the wind and the birds in the gin, the gin. I was telling him that. That's not hikma because he doesn't understand that.
Now, for Muslim, you're going to tell them or someone who knows the story of a man in the Bible. Maybe you could tell him things like that, because he has a man in that.
Where his hikma is knowing what to say what your dowry is who you're talking to, like that bedwin man who urinated in the masjid. So Liza Joe said in this ayat
that he gave Yahia hikma when he was young.
So there's, there's a person that a lot can give your child hikma, that kid is 1415 You're not a baby anymore, man. The door is 14 feet, you're not a baby anymore. Walking around with Pampers on we got to pamper you and baby you. You yourself now are responsible for developing those things within yourself. You're smart enough to do that.
So a young person can be given hikma. But usually, it's with older people. It comes with time. So I know that a lot of you young brothers, you think you know, you think you have more knowledge and experience to your mother and your father. And in some things, maybe you do it and stuff like that. But in the game of life, your mother and your father should be listened to. You should listen to what they have to say. You should listen to that. Allah audit the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Urdu LSB Rebecca Bill Heckman, called to the way of your LORD with hikma. I'm a married man, a married man.
Different wives, different children.
I cannot believe for one minute that I can deal with all of them the same way. This is not possible. I have neighbors in front of me neighbors to the right of me. It's not possible for me to think I could just deal with everybody the same way. Rough and tough. On Friday, that same energy. That's what I'm dealing with people with all the time.
That's not gonna work, man.
There's a time and there's a place for everything that's hikma.
Last hikma treating your mother, as the mother and your father as the Father with the kuffar treating the Muslims as the Muslims, treating the one who's on the Sunnah. And he made a mistake, treating him correctly, treating the one who doesn't know, the scholar of the brilliant scholar of the brain, I'm not praying behind them. I'm not praying behind them.
I'm not praying behind them.
But your brain, we relatives, we go to their house, I'm going to pray behind them, no problem, the skull of the people have to share.
I'm not going to see here and preach sectarianism to our community. But I'll say anybody who has knowledge and you curse the Companions, you will out of this religion will Akadama you out of this religion. And that's why I won't pray behind you. And the one who believes that Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam didn't die has a Naza knows their little cave, all of that stuff, and he knows what he said, You outside of this religion.
But our regular people, they're not like that. So I'm not going to teach that hatred. I'm gonna say have hikma have hikma, there's going to be a wedding are going to be your funeral. And their relative is on that Braille we stuff. Those people are Muslims. I'm going to go and I'm going to attend. Because by attending, I'm going to make a leaf between the hearts of me and my relatives. By not attending. They're going to look at me as a wobbler even more I hate Rasul Allah, I hate them. No, I'm going to go to that wedding. And I'm going to validate my presence.
My validate my present, I'm going to get down and being there. And in dealing with this situation, as for the people just sick and have heart hearts, and I just want you know, just imagine the kid is growing up and he's being taught by the MO visa to hate people who don't have that Akita. So the case is you and he really hates you. It's not his fault. He's a little kid. So we can't be of the people because they do that we do that. I'm not going to teach that kind of sectarianism, but I'm going to tell you, you're not a real Muslim. If you don't have a problem with someone who curses, double bucking or minor flan and adding the rest of those companions rub the Allah on him. You're
not a real Muslim, even more important than that more dangerous than that. You're not a real Muslim. If you don't know who Allah is, and who Allah is it. Allah doesn't go to sleep, he is not tired. He has no *ty, he has no sons. Prophet Muhammad is not equal with him.
Prophet Muhammad is not equal with Allah azza wa jal Salah Allah who it was sending him.
So therefore we're going to make it clear Hey, those earlier Mo who say key to a key to a Keith, you guys are kuffaar Well, that KERAMA but the r1 No, man, that's That's not.
That's not putting things in the right place. Because the companions of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used to make mistakes like that, similar to that. And Rasul Allah would correct them and not put them out of the religion because they didn't know and they did big things, big things. And he Salah Lavoie, he was southern border religion that gave them an Musa Maha forgave them.
As relates to the issue of an hikma whiny. This is one of the many examples this remember this hadith. You remember this study? Russell was looking at the Kaaba. He said Aisha, because the people are new to Islam. I'm going to leave this Kaaba and not touch it. But really, if they will not know, either our destroy I would have taken the Kaaba down to the ground.
And then I would have built it up the way he Brahim built it. What did he mean by that? Well, those of you who have been to the Kaaba, you know, you walk around the Kaaba, and then you walk around the hedges of Ismail, that thing that's open. If you pray inside of there, you're praying inside of the Kaaba, then abuse of Allah, he was setting it up meant, if I could do it, if I had the money now, which I didn't. And if these people were not new, I will bring the copper down, build it from new and include all of that so that the copper would be further and bigger and longer than it is right now. But he left it, although that's what should have happened. That was the heart
which helps us understand a fee. You may be present and the hotkeys for this to happen that to happen. That is the heart. But it's not the time to do it. It's not the time to do it. This is not the time to make that move. If we make this move right now. We're going to be punished by not being able to realize it. That's
principle in a solo FIP anyone who is Mr. Sehgal any hurries, he makes try to do something before the time, he'll be punished by not being allowed to do that thing.
That's the punishment. That's the cop, for an example that says Dad is that he wants to get his inheritance. His example they give him FIP. He wants to get his inheritance, his father is about to check out. So he unplugs the IV or whatever, he gives him some medicine. And he, you know, he kills his dad, they found out he killed his dad, he hurried it up, he's gonna be punished. Now he can't get that inheritance. He can't get the inheritance, because he was trying to do it quick. And this time, same thing in the dour.
You want to get married, and you're not ready to get married right now. You're going to be punished by not being allowed to do it because you're not doing it the right way. You're not going about it the right way. So that's just a general rule in a Dow, especially
in a Dow especially. So in regards to this hadith is just one of many one of many show us that Prophet Muhammad had. He had a lead so that
he had comprehension and understanding fic jurisprudence, he knew how to move. He wasn't one of those people. I'm Rasulullah I'm a Muslim. I throw caution to the wind, whatever I want to do, and I said, can't do that.
Can't do that guys.
Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu was sending them
when the Jewish lady gave him them food with the companions and they ate it. And about 12 His companions fell dead. He told them hey, it's Ken says poison they die
sank because he had the Jewish lady they brought him brought her to why you do that?
She said if he was a Navy, he would have known that that it was in there.
And she saw that he knew after the fact and when he I did to a people, the Companions era so Lucha weed killer. She tried to kill the Nibi of Islam SallAllahu said she tried to kill him attempted murder.
And she killed a number of other companions Rasul Allah say no, let her go.
Today, some young people whippersnappers will come and say, but Allah said, Women lemmya Combi man's Allah for lack a woman Kaffee Road, whoever doesn't judge by what Allah revealed the liver Cafe road. So actually are you saying Rasul as a Kaffir? From Katherine who uses what you saying?
He he didn't need in doing?
Why didn't he do it? He didn't do it because he looked at the whole situation and he wasted
the time that it happened. What's the relationship with the hold? What is he trying to do? Many examples like that. Then the Beavis meant that bedwin That bedwin urinating, I don't think whiny there's a person sitting here. I know some of you are very laid back introverted. Montale like that. But I think if any of us saw someone urinating in the masjid, even though we know this hadith of the bedwin I think somebody is going to pick up this blue this this this would Koran thing that they use for sutra and hit him in his head.
How many of you will not hit him in his head? How many won't hit him his head? How many progenza?
Well, that's the minority. Because the majority of the people here are gonna hit that guy not in his head because you can't hit people in the head. They're gonna hit him in his back and say, What are you doing, man?
But sulla because the Companions got ready to do that. That's what they were getting ready to do. They were getting ready to beat that man up.
So let's say hey, don't do that. Let that man finish. Finish urinated putting a Jassa so it's not one to three times. It's a lot for Mama Eben ofan. He came in he used to kill the Companions used to kill them. He used to tell his tribesmen interview accept Islam, I'm taking over the coals and burn you and kill you and take you apart piece by piece. tie you up your extremities and make the horses run in different directions pull your your your lens out and make your family watching then after that I'm gonna take your wife and your kids and make them slaves.
You're talking about Islamophobia.
This man was on another program. But when the Companions caught him by himself, they brought him to the masjid and Prophet Muhammad said tie him up to the pull of the masjid left for me for three days to look at what was going on. After the third day let him go.
And the man came back
As he took a horseshoe on his own
nobody told him go take a horseshoe somewhere. He found the place to go. So came back. Everybody watched him come into the mess. She came up to the NIMBY and said, I've been witnessed there's no God worthy of worship but Allah bear witness that you are His messenger.
Look at the hikma
Rasul Allah knows that fu mama sallallahu alayhi wa sallam robbed the Allah and you got to go back and read his story. Rasul Allah knows that fu Mama is a leader of the Arabs and he has a mind he's not like the people just copycats whatever you say to people just follow it. The Muslim should be thinking forward thinking certain trends not following trends and the trends that we want to follow the trends that indicates something's wrong with us. I'm going to go beyond into some products a mother cat the me and I'm gonna pay 356 $700 Just because a guy his name on it.
Get out of here man. I make my own name or find a Muslim brother who does that. Let him get the money. Oh, what are we doing?
I don't make that haram. I don't make that haram but the Muslim is the trendsetter. But sola knew that man thought like that. That man just looked at the Muslims for three days, three days. And then he accepted Islam. Listen to this. After he accepted Islam, he went he perform Umrah and tau Croatia I'm a Muslim now. And I'm against you. And with Muhammad he said that in Mecca. Prophet Muhammad can say that
this man being with his tribe he said in Mecca from today on I'm not giving you people anything else from my people unless Rasulillah says okay.
Confirm Carissa Killam shoot. They say you better not sure you shoot that man. His tribe. Benny. Hanif can come kill us. We're done. He went back to his tribe put an embargo on Quraysh they contacted Russell lie on me I'm with Dion. Tofu mama lift up the embargo, he lifted it up. Quraysh became Muslims.
What if Rasulullah had killed for Mama right away for all of what he did?
To mama did a lot
but Rasul Allah, let them go. And that Khurram and that hikma, whoever's given him, so the point is, is a lot of mawatha is not one tooth is a lot a lot. The man came to the Prophet who was rest in some Lola what he was telling me he took his knife and put his knife on Rasul was neck and say, Mohammed, I got you who's gonna help you? I'm gonna kill you right now. Rasul Allah said, Allah, Allah, Allah, that thing fell out Rasul Allah grabbed it, put it on him, who's gonna help you say hold the hold the Muhammad Take it easy. Take it easy. You say that? You know, Lisa, I'm not gonna say lie. But I promise I won't fight you anymore. I won't fight against you anymore. Right? So I
said, Okay, let him go. That man went to his people and told the people what happened? They became Muslims.
What if we just turned the corners, you put this knife on me? Come and tie him up.
I'm going to terrorize him. I'm just not gonna chop him up right away. I want him to live the terror and the fear that he put had on me. Because right before when he had that knife on me, I thought about my baby. I don't know, I won't see my wife again. I thought about my community. I thought about all those things flashed across my eyes, my life. He tried to sniff it out. Now make sure he feels all of that. Somebody who didn't do any of that. Just let the man go. Let the man go. His people went and they came Muslims.
But the man didn't become a Muslim. And that man got caught again the second time fighting against him to be caught them. The man said, I'm the United guy. Let me go before me. He said the believer is not stung from the same hole twice. And he dealt with them. You had your chance.
But the point here, honey, is that the bee of Islam salon love Why do you sell them? He has a lot of these types of mawatha these positions a lot. Many. So now before we finish one is What did those scholars say in terms of an hikma? Because you know, like the good qualities and Ellis lamb they are MK Tessa but you can acquire them. That companion when the Prophet told him Salah Lavoie, he was setting them up in Africa Hustla teen boom Allah, you have two character traits that Allah loves. He said what are they? They say set a helm you're easy. You're soft, gentle, and an act. You're not in a rush. You're easy with your baby.
Bees and with people, you're not rough tough all the time. Every time you come in, people say, oh, boy, the whole the kills coming through the door. Now,
as soon as the case here the key of some of our fathers as soon as they hear the key, as soon as they hear a key, oh boy, they even come up with a language of their own so that the father, the mother don't understand, or the knucklehead is here.
And they talk to each other like that.
I know a corny I know, you know, I know. My father was like that man will be in the house going off. We'll be going playing that soon as we hit that key 530 caught up, everybody sat down, I just go in my room. I'm out. I'm out. Because that dude was tough. But Hamdulillah he calmed down a lot now. I mean, like, guide him to Islam, he may see this and get mad at me and say I never accept Islam. I make it very clear. That was a long time ago when I used to give him a hard time. But now he's an older man at something. And he's much better now. But back then that's how. And I said, I never want to do that. Never want to do that.
Be that rough and tough. So we got to be in the middle. You got to be rough and tough when it is required. But generally speaking, we should be easy. So the point is, the prophet had a lot of those situations, some of the law who it was it was Sunday. We're not going to go through a moose a lot of them. What did those scholars say? Who any, you wanna learn how to get rid of your bad habits.
A lot of scholars wrote about this, like the great scholar, Imam Abu Hamad Al Ghazali, Rama Talalay, who was
really, really competent and beneficial and a Zulu fic. And also in those books he used to write like, when he would write things like the issues in reality the side of him, although is mixed up with some other stuff. But nonetheless, he's a great scholar in Islam. We don't follow that Sufi ism from him. But he gave this ummah, a lot of hype, and Imam Al Ghazali. Just don't go overboard. Don't go overboard, and don't go under board. He is from the Marvel Islam. And Imam Al Ghazali has a chapter, how do you go about rectifying your bad character? According to the Quran and the Sunnah, and he brought some nice cannamd Some nice Cannan one of the things he mentioned was that in order
for a person wants to rectify whatever bad character trait he has, he talks too much. He's lazy. The person is I need very stubborn. The person
doesn't tell the truth, the person, whatever it is, he has anger issue, manage. He just gets upset all the time, and mature, very self centered. Jealousy. The person is weak, people push him around. He's a pushover. Those things that we don't like about ourselves. What can you do? He said, one of the things that you're doing mentioned a few. He said, one of the things is that you
force yourself, you force yourself to do that thing. You stingy, force yourself just to give money.
Force yourself, whatever it is, you talk too much. Force yourself, just don't talk. If you keep forcing yourself, your heart will have an impact and effect. It just happens. There's a hadith like that, that the Prophet said some Allah who it was sending them in the mail help with the Hello. We're in the Milan battalion. If you want to be soft Halim, and you're not a soft person, then force yourself, you rough and tough. just force yourself. He told us a lot of things. If you have a hard heart, rub the head of an orphan, rub the head of the orphan. When you make such the make this do I make that dua? But he said, If you want to be soft and gentle, then force yourself to do it. It's
not in you. You're not kidding. You're not generous. Like some people, Arabs are generous, and it comes from them. And some of us are like that. But some of us have the heel man. Some of us have the heel. If he has his friend and him are going to eat breakfast together.
We're going to eat breakfast together and his wife cooks the sausages, you know those round little sauces. And she cooks five sausages gives them eggs, eggs, and five soldiers. It gives him till he takes two and there's one more. He said let me call me the Eaton and over in the corner. He said away from his friend. His friend didn't see him eating that fifth sausage.
But the Generous One says fuddle, three 410 Five, you're my guess. Some people really like that. If you want to be like that, just give. Don't be that guy who always wants to come and crash the party. When you know we go people go out to eat you just crashing the party. That's cool if they let you do that, but sometimes you got to say, let me do it. Let me do it. Let me do it.
And that thing will come. That thing will come. So if you want to learn about hikma, a few things, you could do a few things you could do from what the LMS say.
Read the book of Allah make the XR in reading and spending time with that Quran. And you know, in the past, there used to be people who were well known for being people were connected to the Quran. Like in every community. flan is the Sahaba of the Quran. He's reading it, he's connected to it. Where is that person from amongst our community, from us to regular people? Those of us who don't memorize, some of us have memorized more than others. But where is that person from amongst us who in a balanced manner way, he's reading the Quran all the time, revising, reading, he's balanced, he'll talk to you a little spin now go out with you. But we know this brother is with that what
happened to that personality?
If a person spends time with the book of Allah, Allah is Al Hakim
is a hockey
and from reading that Quran, understanding those stories and stuff like that, but just from reading the book of Allah it a come.
Number two, number two, number two. Number two is that the person should spend time with people who have hikma yaka, yaka. Beware of being with people who are foolish.
Beware of that foolish friend. He'll do more harm to you then your enemy. The foolish friend,
the one who doesn't have Dean and something's wrong with his uncle. It's better for you to walk by yourself than walk with someone like that heavy on you. Beware. So be around the people who have hikma like the newbie of Islam, somebody was selling them in these stories. Like Rena about the Sierra of those people who are known for the intellect from the companions. And other than that, those Emma who are judges that you know, in Ellis lamb there's a scholar, his name is Ebony, Josie, I've derived man Ebenen, Josie wrote a lot of books humbly scour.
He wrote a book called Akbar
Al Hunka. One MacGuffin in the news of the idiots, and the people who have ruffler. They just not aware. And he wrote the antithesis of that Kitab and fKF. The book of those who are intelligent scholars used to write this book, this is not the only book like that, and Islamic library, remind me of him, he banned before him. Even he has a book of Hadith. And it's one of the main books of Hadith. So he had been a band, he was a scholar of a jack with tideal and the imam in the band.
He also has a book Kitab and Hunka. One Mocha faylene. You read this book about the and some of these stories, some of them are funny, and some of them are sad, because we have people like that around us. Some of them are really funny. You laugh at some of those stories, but some of them are sad, because we have people who are like that and I tell you with this social media the way we are right now
this social media
is helping people to be dumb.
is dumbing us down
is making you not work not use your brain. These people are playing games, I don't want to go off the mark and get into this Illuminati stuff. But you know how they do all of these studies to keep us focused and zoomed in and zombied out. When as soon as we wake up, you got to go to your phone no matter what time it is the first thing you do if you lose your phone, it feels like you lost a part of your body and all of that stuff.
This stuff is making us dumb. Our children are dumb Dominum down. Our children can't write English anymore.
Because everything when you write with messages is S M H O M G and all tbh that's how it is.
They can't even write English anymore.
So now, those books that the scholars used to write those books, why were so many scholars write books about the idiots and the internet, and that's what they call it. humppa, stupid, idiotic.
People who, when you read their stories,
the man came, and he was lying. He was that telling the people that he met Imam Ahmed and Ali Medina who were contemporaries, and he never met either one of them. He was a Cadabra storyteller. And he's in a masjid giving stories telling people and make it up Hadith. And then he told the people, a chain of narration, so and so said, he said that Ali Magneto him, and he Medina told him so and so told him so and so. So I've overheard her say it's such such such thing. I remember admin alley, Medina, he was sitting right in the audience, and they don't even know the man. They say that. And when we
say, he said, It muddiness. I've met him no humble. Neither one of us know you. What will you mean? We told you this hadith?
The man said, do you think you're the only admin or handball in the world? You think you only Ollie Medina in the world.
And there are some shapes like that some talkers like that no matter what, they always got something to say. They always, they always have something to say as to why the position of what they did was legitimate, just like that, you could never catch them. That's hump.
And those kinds of stories and worse than that come in those books. Why those books, they're those books, they're for our community. Don't be from those people. Don't be from those people.
can't put enough emphasis on a teddy bear which means experience. They say that everything needs the outcome. Everything needs intellect, everything you have to have after to do everything they said but the apple in his experience Tetra river, there is no substitute for experience. One of the greatest scholars in Islam and Imam Ibnu hasm that I told you guys about a few days ago and we talked about the Muslim devil Imam the key bloomer fled a shammy Ratna to Lolly and Imam, Abu Mohammed mo hasm was a tremendous scholar in Islam in his mind in his intellect was on another level. Another level some people alleges made them very smart like that. And he was a scholar and
but because he never ever, ever, ever went to hide, she never performed Ah, he has one of the most important books on hij
core hedgetrimmer will die. The farewell Gilgamesh is thick. From the time he left Medina until when he went back to Medina, all of the st that between the companions and Tabby dream and all of that is a masterpiece.
But an Imam Abu hasm never went to Hajj.
So he has some positions in this book, lack of experience will make you live and his position. How many of you have been to hatch Umrah? How many of you made tawaf? How many of you made two off? How many times do we make two off how many times we go up and down? How many? Seven and we start with what first?
Which mountain? suffer? Why don't we start with suffer first?
Because when you go into a SFX after you come in from the Kaaba Rasulullah walk towards suffer and say no there will be my bed Allah will be we start with what Allah started with in the suffer when Mattawa Misha relax so we don't suffer so from suffer 1234567 So you finish on what mountain
what mountain Marwan and that Marwat you don't face the carbon make dua it's the only time each one you make do up but the last one no.
So if you guys go in I don't know what it's looking like now but don't go out that door by murder. Why don't go out that door because you get lost you got to go back to the cop go through the shortwave. That ain't the point though. Listen to the point. And remember to have them said, anybody who's going to make toward anybody who's gonna make say they have to do it 14 times 1-234-567-8910 1112 1314
and you finish at suffer 14 times.
Can you imagine doing that 14 times
in Ramadan? Or at hij? Time? Can Can you imagine doing that 14 times on the day of El hadj an ag bar?
You know, when we're doing all of that to waffle e falda. Can you imagine? If people had to do that 14 times, people would stop being Muslims. They say I'm not a Muslim anymore.
I reject Islam from this because there's too much.
He didn't have the experience. That's not to take anything away from him. And that's why from hikma is, when we talk to scholars here and there, you have to know a scholar, you talk it to what's the background of that scholar?
Does he know our situation here? Is he the person to ask that question?
That's what we have to do. And just before I finish, I just want to make mention of this situation about hikma about hikma for the brothers who are given dour, listen, you know, this intolerance and criticizing people and expelling them and canceling people that's canceled culture because people make mistakes. This is not from an hikma is not from
this fighting and all it is madness. Not being fair. You have to have Hickman be easy and be fair with everybody. People are the Imams of Cofer and innovation and things like that. And they have the main call us van representatives and the removes for that you deal with them comparable to what they bring into the table. But for the general Ummah, don't be like that. There's a chef, the chef was saying,
and I know what he was saying. And I actually agree with what he was saying he has said, if you know you have this thing in Islam called the Muslim, and the MUFE said that the Muslim AHA is the good thing. And the offset is the bad thing like the Prophet here. So I sent them the Muslim, the good was to bring the door down and to put the Kaaba all the way back to the Hijiri Brahim.
That's a must la ha.
Bye. But in doing that the people would have got mad and a bit fitna. And that's a MUFE said that.
So when our religion before you can pull the muscle Aha, before you put the muscle Aha, you have to get rid of the MUFE said that.
So you marry to your first wife now. And you want to slide into second base and married a second wife slide into second base. But in sliding into second base is going to this is Musleh is Musleh benefit. But in doing that, your first wife is going to go off her mother, her father is going to have issues or so before you can pull this and do it. You have to get rid of this to the best of your ability. That's just a general rule in your life.
At your job at the school in the masjid, there's something we want to do is kite must law, we want to do it. But in doing it, it's going to create some issue. Before you do this, get rid of this to the best of you or don't do it. Because if you do this before it's time you're going to be prohibited and prevented from doing is going to be a problem. It's going to be a problem for you.
Don't do it.
So that Chef he had mentioned concerning the Massada cycle Bukhari he said, We anything that causes a fitna we shouldn't do it as people giving dour, he said even cited bucatini sided body. We shouldn't distribute it to the people if it's going to cause fitna
and the people who used to be with that chef, you know they all was together now they're against them. So they want to catch the shake out. They want to catch the shake out. They called the few shifts the Mufti they call shift from the Hey Dan, they call the chevron foes and someone says we shouldn't give out Bacardi if it's going to cause fitna Will you say each one of them said that's Balkan, that's no good, that's Balkan. And they asked who said that? They told him they says bottle.
No, I agree with what he said. But the Sheikh said and I agree with what they said as well.
I wish that they would have asked more questions. But I agree with what that Sheikh said. If sided body or kitasato heat or hot button hijack is going to make people not listen to you and fight you and stuff like that. Then don't introduce that right now. Don't introduce it right now. You don't have to do
Clipperton hija you all heard of the story of the man who won Give his Community Capital he he took the health of the cover off and gave it to him so they know what it was.
So that's what the shift was saying
that we're going to do the Sunnah. There's the Sunnah. When you make your Salah to here to La he will solo and say, as Saira Malik say
you're not going to do that in Congo Sharif not going to do that in zeal Quran. You're not going to do that in Mr. Hydra Hydra Hydra.
I'm not going to do that in them places because that's the Sunnah. And it's Whadjuk to keep the peace between the people you're not going to pray with your shoes on in any of these messages, none of them. You're not going to pray with your shoes on in any of these mistakes. Because praying with your shoes is the Sunnah is what the Prophet used to do. Salah is you doing it as Muslim, you get rewarded, but in doing that, people are going to go off. So don't do it. Don't do that.
hikma Hickman now as it relates to the chef, the chef people play games. When the sheriff said when he said he was trying to say something that is slamming. It comes to us from this hadith of the Kaaba. The Kaaba,
the Kaaba, the house of Allah. Last thing I want to mention, he said that with a copy he left it so sided book it. We're going to leave it for right now capital E, but we're not going to force it on the people. Last thing I want to mention a whiny historically. One of the companions His name is Abdullah Abu Zubaydah, his father's Zubair, one of the 10 people promised Jenner. His mother is
a smash the daughter of reamer may Allah be pleased with all of them. He was a tremendous person in Islam. In the end of his life, he was killed by an hijab and the use of photography during the time of Dometic Imran listen to this
he was killed
and there was a lot of turmoil between him and while we and all that stuff.
But before he was killed, he got power over the Muslims he was like the Khalifa kinda he has support and then he was killed his cousin Abdullah bashes tell him for back don't do this. It's gonna be a fitna.
Anyway, you have power and you have power over Mecca. He said to the people I'm gonna do a prophet Muhammad wanted to do but he couldn't do it. So Allah he was sending but I can do it now Rasul Allah wanted to put the Kaaba down, but he didn't have the money to do it. And he didn't have the support of the people because Qureshi was new in Islam. He said, You people have been Muslims for a long time and I have the money. I'm not scared of anybody.
And he said to the pilgrims, who came? What do you people say we should do? Should you agree you don't agree. People gave his opinion. I'm delighted, not bad said I saw in a vision site and Muslim. I saw, I think you should just leave it the way it is. It was like that with them. And people who have accepted Islam is like this leaving. He said he's Shala I'll make a decision in three days made it staccato three days. After the third day he came in, he said, I'm changing this Kava.
And I'm going to build it how the Rasul wanted it to be done.
Because I understood, if he had the money, he would have done it. And if he wasn't afraid for the slam of the people, he would have done it.
So he sent the man up on top of the roof. And the people when they saw that they ran away. They said there's gonna be a lightning bolt come out of the sky ends and kill that man. You messing with the Kaaba. That's a big thing with those people. When the man started taking it off of the Kaaba, they saw nothing happened.
It turned out that Abdullah Zubair took the whole Kaaba down because it had been destroyed. There was a fight and they messed it up. They had attack the comic I messed up. So they built the Kaaba from new and included the higit of Ismail.
He built it and included the hitter of his smile.
When it was time of fitna and the fitna cup happened, the fitna kept happening. And then after that Zubayr was killed, Abdullah Abu Zubaydah was killed and the leader of the Muslims, Abdullah medic Marwan bin hakam. He said, We don't need what he did. And he ended it. They undid it. So the Kaaba has gone through a history
That is tumultuous, the people who gave you the Molad the fatemiyoun of Egypt. They came and took the black stone back with them to Egypt.
sweet about it. They came and took the black stone and took it to Egypt. The people gave this OMA the mullet.
And when they killed the Muslims, they took them in exams them well.
They threw them in the zamzam well.
And you got to come tell me that the people gave the motive has some higher any.
Go back and read about the history of the cardia Cleany our religion, well religion, there is no single person as all of it, but you can be the diamond in the rut. Any one of you.
Memorize Quran Scallan Hadith, learn about this, learn about that. Just don't be satisfied with mediocrity just being a Muslim like that where you're not learning your religion. So those scholars wrote those books, bar Mecca, the news of Mecca before
all the way up until yomo Kiama Allah and His Messenger SallAllahu it was somewhat a lot about a coup d'etat that said about the communist Prophet Okay, we're gonna stop peeing in sha Allah. Remember this hadith when your other hobbies like that the importance of and hikma in our dour in Allah we want to