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Hadith #20 – The Callers Beginning
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aerobill alameen wa sallahu wa Taala he was cinema whina and they begin I mean,
it was hobby of mine. I'm about
to come to Hadith number 20 and is the hadith of that tremendous companion Abdullah, even aroma.
May Allah be pleased with him.
And again, the book that we're dealing with is the dour and the duart
the dying and the dour
is from the Quran, a Hadeeth from the authentic Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam focusing upon
the one who's given Darwin, the one who's teaching not just me, all of you. He's married. He's practicing has without relatives not practicing. He's in the school. He's on social media, the dour and the day.
So we come to this Hadeeth of me Norma may Allah be pleased with both of them tremendous Hadith.
The prophet SAW Allah while he was sending a mention
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He said, Every action that you do in life, every action for the rest of your life, it has a time of being excited and enthusiastic about that action.
Every single action that you do, when you engage in it at the beginning, you're pumped up, and you're excited about it.
And
that excitement is going to be followed by federal federal is the feeling of being lazy, kilomole, lethargic, tired, you can't maintain that excitement throughout that action that has presented itself. So every single action that you do,
you're going to be pumped up and excited when it first started, when you first start that action, but then after some time, you're going to become used to it. And then you're going to become lazy, you're going to become lethargic, and you're not going to be so excited and so active.
The Prophet says I'm on my way to sell him. So therefore,
me anyone who, when he becomes tired, and lazy, and lethargic and inactive, is not as excited. As long as that is according to my Sunnah you'll be rightly guided.
But when you become inactive and tired and lethargic and lazy, if you're like that, and you're not practicing, my sooner you're going to be destroyed.
This Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is a tremendous Hadeeth and it's one of those Hadeeth that clearly showed the profits on the line he was selling them was a person who taught the people good.
He was a Muslim, I will hire you have to ask yourself, are you teaching people good? Are you teaching people good? You you
as you sit there you have a lot of people to teach. You're married you have children are you teaching good?
soul like is somebody was selling them said and he was a more alum, our higher.
He said somebody was selling when he heard people mentioned in two of the Muslims from the community. One was an I bid, he worshipped a lot.
Fast and he was doing all kinds of things. And the other one was a scholar. The people were talking about this one in that one. Prophet Muhammad interjected and he told the people some law what he will sell them probably for glue. And Ireland I will add it perfectly Allah at Nat con, the virtues of the one who knows the religion. The teacher who knows what he's doing the virtues of him over the one who's worshiping a lot. is like the virtues of me it was a lie he said lesson over the least one amongst you Hadeeth goes to show that knowledge is premier. But knowledge you work by not just having knowledge and you have some books on your shoulder but knowledge you're giving Dawa to
yourself a practicing it.
And then he went on to mention in this same incident is tremendous Heidi and Allaha momella aikatsu who will lose some weight
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He says some Allah when he was sending them, that Allah and all of the angels in the heavens,
even the ends that are in the earth that are walking around him, many, many, and even all of the fish in the ocean,
they make dua for the one who's teaching people good.
So as a dad, you're teaching your people your kids eat with your right hand.
That's teaching people good.
So don't be but healing yourself. Everybody had here has something to give something to say. Don't think it's just a hottie. Don't think it's just to know. You have to give Dawa to your relatives who don't know. You just come to the masjid you sitting there holding on to the wall. You just sit it not that's not enough. Allah wa kafa biLlahi Robyn was Shaheed is enough, Allah is enough. But Allah all of the Malacca
and all of the people in the earth the two Earths that Heidi said, and all of the ends on the earth that are in the N hole, as well as all of the fish in the ocean. They make dua to lies with Joe for the one who's teaching people good.
For be a law, you're a big Kuma to catch the bad. If you have a wife that's teaching your kids adapt,
then stop being rough and tough and appreciate that situation.
The Prophet was like that sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he taught the people higher. And in this hadith today, he's teaching us a hadith. That is actually I won't say a weapon, but he equips you for life. There are certain Hadith they serve as lessons that we have to remember for the life like this Hadeeth right here. Every action that you do in your life, you Abdullah, when you first get involved in it, you are pumped up, you're excited about it, everyone is like that.
And then the time is going to come where you get used to it. And then you become lethargic, you become lazy, you're not so excited about it. He says so a lot of that time when you become lethargic and lazy, if you are a project and lazy but it's according to my sooner you will be guided to write you'll be successful. But when you become lethargic and lazy and you just throw in the towel, and it's not according to my Sunnah as you'll see inshallah, you're going to be destroyed. There are a number of ideas that teach us lessons in life, many Now's not the time for those Hadeeth. We took one previously, he said that the people will like 100 camels, you can barely find a camel suitable
to ride. So you should know in your life. The people that you're dealing with, the vast majority of them are not competent, they're not qualified. don't lend them your money. Don't marry him to your sister, don't marry her. Don't marry him. don't hire him. Because the majority of people they don't know what they're doing.
They're like 100 camels you can barely find one suitable to write that Heidi's equips you for life. When when you go into something, you gotta realize, okay, the people.
And whatever I'm about to do Rasulullah gave me this information. So the law it is about the reality of the people. That doesn't mean that you exist being negative. And you exist, being pessimistic. No, you exist with your keen knowing. I'm going to give everybody an equal opportunity, but I know what to expect. I'm not going to be shocked when people let me down.
And he gave us a lot of Hadith come out to Dean to Dan, he taught us as you do is going to be done unto you. That's a lesson of life. You do good by people you do good in the dunya that good is coming back to you. You do wrong by people you don't this is a life lesson as you do is coming back to you. So we have all of those Ayat of the Quran. In terms of why young sort of come when you said that at the dam accom if you help Allah, Allah will help you as you do is gonna come back to you and he'll establish your feet firmly. He told us a lot himself up to large numbers who was riding behind him on his writing piece for the lie philic f
lead to jiddu ematic. out to jack. Hey young man.
remember Allah and Allah remember you
remember law and you'll find a law in front of you. Remember law and the good times when you're young and you have health and you have time and you have money, remember law during those times, and Allah will remember when you when you don't have money, we don't have good health.
Those are from the teachings of life. He was a more of a higher samalla what he was saying. And he taught us so many things like that. So many so many. This Hadeeth is one of them. One of the lessons of life for the one who has OCD and with swats he said if one of you was sitting in the masjid and you think you passed when you think you're not sure, he said don't get up until you smell the odor or until you hear the sound.
So I may will do for your time today.
I want to make salata McGregor inshallah and then Serato Aisha if I don't and I can't remember when I broke my will do I don't remember when I broke my window. I don't remember
when I have low. I have low because this Hadeeth presents a principle and that principle is Aliya keen
lie is the shark. When you were sure about something that you're clean about something is not taken away as a result of doubt.
So the one was with was he wants to know did I divorce my wife did I know divorce? Brother, you are married to your wife. You are married to your wife You have to do that is your wife that is your property that is your car. Because a person has was was shaytan comes to him have I'm thinking? Am I really a Muslim? Am I really this a you have a clean
and show wife. So if someone came and got involved and she went to someone to get a hold up, and they are telling you your divorce from her, and they didn't divorce you from her with the team, with your participation with your knowledge, you're married to that girl.
So anything you know with your team is not lifted off. Except that you have to have delille it goes away with a cane, not with doubt. So Prophet taught us those kinds of ahaadeeth work a few ruma here they are meaning this is one of them.
Remember this, every action has his time of being excited and being pumped up. And then after that it's going to be followed by being tired and inactive and not engaged. Lazy, lethargic, he said when that time comes. If you're lazy and tired and lethargic but you're doing my Sunnah you'll be guided to write. But when that lazy time comes and you are not on my sooner you're going to be destroyed. That's the Hadith of the Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, this Hadees or quani Before explaining it has a background and the idea of the background Why did he say it? He said it's a lot he was selling because of one of his companions who was known for a resort
and it was none other than Abdullah even amor even an ALS. He was one of those companions. His name was Abdullah and they narrated the majority of the Hadeeth Abdullah even amor even al ours and he had more Heidi than any other companion used to write the Hadeeth even more than Ebel order Aaron
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and number four, even a bass they are called the Ubud Allah yeah to love
all of their name is Abdullah as far as the lobbying you must oh he was a scholar from the companions but he's not from the for I bardella so this man Abdullah even honorable alas had more Hadith even then Abu huraira because he's to write down cell Buhari Abu huraira name write down and he used to write down
so he's a narrative that he the Hadith is because of him his father amor even alas was a tremendous man and Jay via I don't know any personality today who is comparable and similar to this man. And Jackie Yeah. And in Islam, his father was the man
and he had that boy, this son in law be pleased with both of them. His father married the son off
When he married his son off his son was azuay Hey dad, a sharp zag hit. Not just unselfie among the sunan practicing, but you have no no wife and you have no song. You have none of that. This man was
like some other companions like absolute or die was Zaheer dead. I believer. So you remember those three, Abdullah even armor, even us?
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read the Hello, I'm home Zoo and another level, not like the people we see today.
So this man, Abdullah bin number one, and as he used to leave his wife alone, he wouldn't pay attention to why he wouldn't mix with her. He wouldn't give her her rights. So the news came to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and he approached the issue and he said, What's going on? The man say Yato soon while I'm young, I'm ready to do it. I'm strong, I can handle it. He said, I want to fast. Tell me what I have to do. He told himself the law one he will either and he will sell them. What you should do is you should fast three days and every month because if you fast three days
10 2030 is like too fast. The whole month. He said I could do more than that.
He said to him Yato sola. Make more make more russula raise it raise it raise it into fall. He said the best fast is the fast of the wounded than the beaver slam. The father of Suleyman. So the water why he was Salaam wanting me. So this companion, fasted one day and broke is faster next day. One day broke is fast The next day, one day and he spent the entirety of his youth doing that.
He said y'all rasulillah I want to read the Quran. How can I read the Quran? The Prophet says sallallahu wasallam read the Quran and complete it once every month, a juice every day. He said I can do more. I could do more. I'm young. I'm ready.
He told him then read it in 15 days, half of the time 15 I can do more. Reading in seven days. I can do more
reading in five days.
And there's a narration we let them read it in three days. Can you imagine how much it takes to read the Quran in three days?
anybody here ever read the Quran in 15 days, anybody half of the month.
This man said I want to complete it in three days. I will stay up in camel lane. So the Prophet says Allah What do you send this Hadeeth for every action, there was a time when you are active.
And then that activity is going to be met with a time where you get tired. And you're lethargic and you're lazy and you're less engage at the library armor ever lost and narrative this Hadeeth he spent his life doing that when he got older, he was weak and he was infirm. His eyes when his eyesight he didn't have the strength. He told his students. I wish I would have listened to the prophets a lot he was sending them when he was trying to make fief ami. He was trying to make it easy. But I did it. And this is my situation. We say rob the Allahu anhu. And we don't criticize him. We get benefit from his story. BSI hit Bobby moderate, according to your situation.
This Hadith of the prophets of the Bhagwati he went on and he was selling them honey is as you can see a tremendous Hadeeth
when you get a job for the first time, especially after being unemployed, you get a job. We talked about our Chabad you get a job. Corona has been locked down. You want to employ you've been using your money in your savings. Now you finally get a job. When you first get that job. You could be a conductor on the train. You could be accepting the tickets at the train station opening up the barrier. You could be a teacher, you could work in a school in the lunchroom. You could be an Uber driver. When you first get that job. You're pumped up. Yes, I got a job.
But after some time, you're going to say man, I hate this job. I don't like this job because you get used to it. unless Allah bless you with one of them real jobs.
You wake up in the morning be like yes.
And even in the job that I have sometimes is very taxing. Dealing with some of the community members.
Paul Paul come to the masjid and say without boo Simon he said he's not here but here's his number. His telephone number that makes this job very yellow man why you given the Popo my telephone number?
ellaby Bill ishara yahama don't give anybody my number.
So you get a job and you're pumped up. It happens everybody
another example of that, and there are many is the month of Ramadan. Ramadan comes we're pumped up.
Today we saw the moon everybody comes to the masjid turn our way we doing it
and then tomorrow we get anything good Natty. And then the next day, but by the time that 10th 11th 12th day comes, people say you know Islam is easy to Lhasa matter, Rahim. Cynthia make things difficult for people. I'm going to take a break for three or four days. What happened to all that enthusiasm at the beginning of Ramadan? When you were avoiding people I'm not trying to talk I don't want to curse I don't want to waste time because you pumped up every action is like that.
Another example of that is your marriage. At the beginning of the marriage, the brother for me a poor Pakistani people as an example, they put on a nice thing. You really don't worry. He doesn't dress like that. But he put that nice thing on has those shoes that come up like that. He's pumped up. He's married his girl. He's like man is my queen on any.
And she's the greatest thing since sliced bread, Sharif, happy.
But then after three, four or five years in the marriage, too.
He's looking at his wife. Oh boy.
What happened to all of that excitement. Russell is teaching you something. So now that you've signed up, put your hand up if you didn't experience this, he gets married Mashallah. He travels all the way over to the Modi's Modi's. They have over 100 Islands there, you're in the plane, you know that propeller plane in the plane is saying, wow, look, all these islands. I'm going to get married, take his wife to a bungalow. This is exotic is beautiful. Come back to the UK with his wife. After three or four or five years subproblem. She's saying girl you marry and you took it to the bungalow.
But
you can use to me. So I want to say to all of you married brothers, and I say this to myself. I was hot to everybody here.
When you start getting drama, and you start saying man, I made a mistake and it's not working. You have to ask yourself, what happened to those days of Halawa? Those sweet days. It's not just her shoe too. So sticking it sticking in.
So as many examples of that, but today, we're talking about the dour and the dwad people giving Gala. So I'm giving Dawa and you're giving dour. So when it comes to Dawa, you have to understand I have to understand, when you first start giving Dawa in the community, the masjid is packed like sardines and attend no room to get in.
No room all the way to the back of the door. You don't have to bring any food. Because people were there. The chef just came doing 40 Hadeeth of Alabama. No, we everybody's pumped up Beluga moron. Everybody is in the spot, even with the sisters, first lesson, third lesson for phrases after that. People start falling off like flies. So as the one who's teaching, you have to understand that as the people responsible for the dour, you have to understand that. Don't blame the teacher. When the people start falling off. It may be because of him. But it's just the nature of the people they have pumped up. The chef has come all the way from Mauritania, and he memorized a quotable sit down, and
he knows five karate the Quran, and he's coming to teach us and we all come out, but after 5678 910 classes, will find many reasons not to go to the class. That is the nature of the doubt. And that's the nature of people. So then to be of Islam, so Allah Why do you sell them is teaching us this issue.
There's another narration of this hadith that I have to add on to it. Similar to it. He mentioned some Allah what he was
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He said somebody was selling every action. Everything you do has a time of being active, aggressive, pumped up doing.
And every action has a time where you're tired and lethargic. He says, so if a person during this time, does his best to put his best foot forward, then hope for him good. When he's tired, he's putting his best foot forward in his marriage in the darkness in his job, he's tired. He's not intuitive anymore. He actually hates his job. But he has to go to pay bills, he has to go to keep stability, he has to go so that if he didn't go, he's gonna have more complicated problems.
So he keeps working and he keeps doing it. Russell said, if he does that, then hope for him good. But if a person if a person is pointed to people started saying, looking and looking and looking at him, he said, then don't consider any good for him. The meaning of that Hanif is if you guys can imagine I give you this example.
When you make Hodge, you have to go to men on the eighth day of the ages called the day of utter where you just go to dinner, and you hang out a minute, until you pray fudger and then as the day of arafah, the ninth The next day, so you have to make it from minute to artifact.
So when you travel to Arabia, you have jetlag, you're tired. And then the night before out of fact, we stayed up talking, we never made Hajj before. We just kicking a woolly Bobo. No one's gonna tell you man, you better go to sleep. If you want a good hike, you better sleep right now. But we're pumped up adrenaline. So we stay up, we stay up, we're talking. The next day we without even sleeping we go to out of fat, we got to walk there. We take the train, we're tired by the time we get there. When we get there, everyone is about to crash out.
You did the best that you could under the circumstances.
So hope for that person good. But the one who the fingers point at him. Under these circumstances, they were one there was one brother from the group, one brother from this group, one system, the sister side. When we all got tired of that we will be tired. And it's early in the morning. We want to go to sleep to get up to eat our breakfast and to get ready for the day. But this one brother is over there making to rock to rock to rock to rock out to rock out and he's just like us. He traveled with us on the plane, jet lag. He stayed up all night with us. We want them we got all the way the outside and we're all beat. We're all tired.
None of us wants to even hear our wives. Oh, can you call my husband? I
tell her No, no, I'm tired. That's everybody. But this one brother is over here to rakata Rasul Allah said, if you see the fingers pointing at him, then don't expect good because he's showing off. Now I have to explain very clearly, if you were pumped up and with sincerity you get up to pray. This Hadith is not talking about you. But this hadith is talking about the one who's like everybody else where you get this energy from the do that. Now if you are sincere, this hadith is not applicable to you. But don't get up and pray in front of everybody if you can help it. Go and pray over there go and pray outside of the tent when no one sees you. But you get enough in it everybody
can see you everybody that may be a sign that you do or react so this Heidi's and that Heidi are connected to one another.
Now as it relates to the Dow in the do it, listen to this and let's do it very carefully. Listen to me carefully.
There are people who give dow like myself and there are people like you who you can download but on a different kind of level but you get in a mess shape where you are on the admin you an admin.
And as a result of being involved with the dollar, you start to be responsible for helping out for the conference for bringing the shed or the shares. When you get involved in Dawa and you're just a regular brother or sister. You start to see all of the drama in the politics of the day.
Our you're pumped up when you get involved. Your wife is happy your mother your father happy you volunteer, you're happy. But when you start working with the people in the mess in the GAO, you start scratching your head saying what's wrong with these people? What's wrong with the ship?
You're the financial guy. The chef is asking you guys Hey, I'm gonna come I want to be in first class. And I want you guys to import water from the French Alps. I want purple roses in my room that smell good. And chef Hey, Chef we talked about
and that's not to put shakes down. But I've seen some people who are difficult with us and do art or difficult with us. They do art who are difficult.
I think the DI has every right to say man is hot in his chumpy Can you guys bring a fan he had a right to say that it's hot in his hot summertime without complaining but sometimes they do either going overboard. He wants to come and talk for 20 minutes and he charges domestic 2000 pounds what why he I saw that. Well law he I saw that has no knowledge. But he was connected to this so connected to that. And that's what I was Chabad. Like I was Shabaab like that kind of stuff. No problem. We're going to bring him to bring the Shabaab to the masjid. But 4000 pounds. You're not telling us anything. You're not teaching us anything. You're talking about what happened hip hop
over there we're talking about.
So when you get involved in the dollar, you see these politics? And I have to mention this. I absolutely have to mention it.
There was a brother that I mentioned from before his name is Ty he had Wyatt and this is not about him per se is bigger than that. man got a PhD from Medina University. How many of you brothers heard of his brother Chanda? The vast majority of you heard it a brother, if not all of you. If you didn't hear him, put your hand up if you didn't hear of them.
Well, you have two people put their hands up, man, we you guys been?
No problems that wedge up upon you. The man gets a PhD teaches in the prophets messages en la Selim. He's not my soon. I don't agree with him on everything. He says. No, he doesn't agree with me everything he says. But when he graduates and he's about to go to America, we say hey, this is a great thing. African American revert has proven to himself into our community. The sky is the limit for you brothers who are reverse.
Don't let anybody tell you that you can't teach in the profit semesters, the Learning Center, you can get a master's degree you can't get a PhD. You can't be successful. It's been proven. It's been proven.
So now when the brothers going back to America, politics of the dour, we have a share who says Don't listen to him. Don't listen to him. Why should Why should we listen to him? You shouldn't listen to him because he doesn't refute the one that I don't like. And I want him to refute it. Come on shake. What is that stuff she was these politics about? Let that man go and give dour to his people and put people in position to be able to bring them to take care of him financially because of the high that's going to come from that situation behind the politics of the dollar problem.
They are problem.
So we say to you, you volunteer. You're given down here. You're helping here whatever you hear my voice, you get pumped up and you get involved in the dour. Don't be shocked when you see the people involved with the doubt they share this when in doubt, whatever. Don't be shocked when you see and hear things that causes you to be lethargic. Prophet Mohammed says sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for men cannot fetch rato. It has suniti faculty Tada. When you get tired, lethargic, you start second guessing yourself Rasul Allah said that has to be according to my sooner. Don't throw the towel in for Dawa. Because you saw this, you saw that? continue to do it and be patient and overlook it. Are
you involved in the Dow for yourself? Are you involved in the Dow work to make it spread to the people so you have to have server in the cause of the dour. So this Hadeeth of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa alayhi wa sallam is a tremendous Hadeeth as a relates to a dour everleigh and it is a tremendous Hadith as it relates as well to life.
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa and it will send them in this hadith is showing us that when you do the Sunnah and you do the right thing
You want his sooner and his sooner? If you're on the Sunni doing good times, you're going to be guided. You're on the Sunday doing tough times difficult times you unfair. So you're married and you're happily married, you're on the sooner. But now your marriage has some problems. You have some issues in your life. So your exam, you start loosen up the reins of practicing. start smoking weed.
Because you're stressed out,
start drinking, because you're stressed out. You start to hang out with kuffar because you stressed out. No, no, no, no, no.
When that time comes, continue to be on the sooner because if you want the sooner during the day, you want to hire during the night you want to hire summer winter you want hired. And there's an authentic ID that I think you all know about. The Prophet mentioned some Allah while he was telling him that the example of the believer is like the example of the nakhla, the day palm tree, the nakhla. The day palm tree benefits you the believer benefits you.
The day palm tree is firmly established. The Muslim and his Dean, he knows what he's not Hocus Pocus in his Islam
doesn't know what he's talking about. What are you talking about when you get that from? Like what we have today, this madness that people are upon madness, I have to follow your opinion. And if I don't follow your opinion mad at me, we have so many ideas. No, it's madness we're on.
So the day palm tree is a tree that is flexible. It's flexible. The Prophet sallallahu was sending them his religion was growing and growing and growing and growing. They sat down with the kuffar to do a contract the soul of who they be in which it appeared was sold by greed the things that made the Muslims weak, but that wasn't the case. Allah Allah why he was saying so he told and even I be told it right down. We're gonna agree right down this smilla Rahmanir Rahim, Cofer of Korea. So what is this man Rahim?
is an Allah Rahmani Raheem
is a large man Raheem. Any doubt about that? Every single soul of the Quran starts with the Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim. Bismillah he Nana Rahim except Sora Toba that's a
those Cofer said we don't believe in Iraq man Rahim we don't know this. We don't call a lot of that. Take that off. rasulillah said Okay, take it off. He didn't make a big deal and start fighting them over this Rahman Rahim. Allah mentioned in the Quran very levina you will he do not feel as mad he will lie in a smelly Old Post now. There are levena your he Duna Phasma II to Allah belongs all of the beautiful names were these kuffar accepted they don't accept it rejected is not they still to Allah, whether they accept it or not. So leave those people who pray around with a lightning he erased it No problem.
And then he wrote this contract is between Mohammed bin Abdullah rasulillah and Quraysh there's a What is this? Rasulullah if we told you a russula one fight you he's okay erase it. flexible.
flexible.
He told us in authentic hadith, Allah Allah while he was sending them laiya for Mina. It's not okay for the husband to hate his wife. If he sees something in her that he doesn't like. Let him look for something that he likes be flexible, give and take. That's the sooner that self here that's the sooner that said a few year
everything doesn't go the way you want you want to wait I want sometimes you have to give in order to receive. So the day palm tree is flexible. It's not jam it. My mother had said chef Robbie said I can't move from that is no you have to be flexible to be able to deal with situations. Or the point that I want to mention connected to this Hadeeth is what Allah mentioned in the Quran about the date palm tree alum Tara Kay for dorabella who method I can imagine for you button cache gelatin piggyback a slew her febi to refer ohana is similar to the oak aloha Kula hain and be easy rugby ha Have you not seen the similar tool and the example that Allah gave about the good word? The good
word is like a sheduled of piggyback
Good tree, the day palm tree. This is talking about the day palm tree. Surat Ibrahim.
Do you not see how Allah gave the example of the Kenny Mata Viva La ilaha illa Allah or any good word? You mad with your wife? She's mad with you. The ketema tiny about his habibie Habiba T.
You mad she mad.
He comes into the house or Habibi Habiba T. Those words work. That's the Kenny motiva.
You want to see the example Allah said, that tree is firmly established that Kenny my family's established, it sends its branches out into the sky, that Kelly ma is going to bring higher to you that Isla havilah whatever the good word is. And then it said, the tree gives its fruit. Every season, by the, by the permission of Allah, that date palm tree uses produce summer, winter, spring fall, when it's cold when it's hot. When the days are long, when the days are short. The believers like the day palm tree.
He's like the day palm tree. He's pumped up. He's active, he's ready to go. And sometimes he's lethargic and he's tired.
When he's lethargic, and he's tired, he can't give up.
He can't give up in the month of Ramadan. By the time the last 10 days come. He just is not coming to the masjid and he's missing praise. He's watching TV listening to music, but he started off better than that. Okay, now the last 10 days are here and you're tired. You are tired. I remember when I was in Liverpool. And it was tough. We fasted you go home, you eat, you got to get back to the masjid. And then Frazier was right around the corner. And then as soon as you make Frazier, your knees be hurt and from praying so much every day. It was tough. I remember that. We were fasting for like 1819 hours hearing Europe.
So the person just gives up, gives up. He doesn't go to the masjid at all. He stops praying. He starts hanging out. start watching was haraam things that he shouldn't be watching because he threw in the towel. No you're tired. Okay? Allah doesn't want difficult for you as he mentioned so many eyes in the Quran. You read Allah who become a loser, right? Are you ready to become an Ursa? Allah wants for you Is he doesn't want difficult for you. Take a break, relax. Don't come into the masjid one day if that's what you have to do, but you still should pray
and you should still regroup and come back the next day. So this hadith of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is a clear indication at 20 that if a person is on the Sunnah at all times, then you're on fire. And that's part of the meaning of the hadith of Rasulullah sallallahu it was said NEMA when he came home and his wives told them about his three companions. One of them said after asking they all say what do the Prophet What does he do when he's at home? One said that he prays moderately the other one say he's fast sometimes. The third one says that he fat he fast he prays and he spends time with his wife when they listen to them to Carl Lewis column when they listen to
they say man that's not a lot I could do more than that. I could do more than that.
Maybe Abdullah even honorable us was there low on them but the way he was that type of mentality says I can do more than that. He wasn't doing a lot.
So one said, I'm going to pray all night and I won't fast I won't stop praying. I won't say I'm a fast every day. The third one said I'm avoid women. I won't get married anymore. Prophet Muhammad heard it came to the messages. So Lola, what do you say to them? More alumnus of high is a teacher of good
teachers people good in the best ways. My Bible acqua kulula Katha katha was wrong with some people, they say this and he didn't throw him under the bus. He didn't expose the community. He didn't want to destroy the people who make it, Scott.
He's given dour. He's given dour. He's given dour. We have to be together. You make a mistake. It's not my job to dog you out. And to get rid of you from the Dow playing field, so to speak, is politics that people are into.
What's wrong with some people will say this is that he said as for me
I get married to women. I'm not someone who's far away from women. As Allah mentioned in the Quran row by row Bernie attempted the market up now Holly him. That is a status cism I think Zoho you know, we didn't write that on them. We didn't make this wider up upon the yahood. And then Asara Jewish people the, the nun, she's going to come gonna, she's going to commit herself to the church and don't get mad at
the priests. he commits himself and marries a church.
Some of the companions wanted to castrate themselves. They were serious. So Allah give us permission to castrate ourselves. We want to remember love, we want to do this Diem, and the dunya and women Allah mentioned in the Quran, in the middle I did come one why they come,
fit knit in the row home. Some of you women, some of your families, children, they are fitna avoid them. Summer though is like that. They said we want to focus. Allah said we didn't write this on them not getting married castrating yourself. Allah created everything in tubes and impairs. Put your hand up if you were married. Put your hand up if you're married. He told us a lulla while he was Elementor zawada *a stuck Myra naswa Dini he fell a tequila shot.
Anyone who got married you completed half of your Diem. Feel on the other half? How many new people are married? Put your hands up. You got to thank Allah for being married man. You're not in a perfect marriage. But if you were not married, it'd be a problem. You're not balanced. These brothers were not married. You're not married. Put your hands up.
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The how old Alright, keep your hands up at all. I helped him to get married. Oh,
my sad Kenan tune. Eliana comm conewago mean?
So if you have a wife, you're balancing our religion, Allah doesn't want you to be by yourself the religion. Yes, it is a fact shared with me. I never got married. And no, we never got down. Man co t never got married. But Prophet Muhammad says hello, I Salam. As I said, My Reba and suniti Felisa Mini. Anyone who abandons my Sunnah is not from me. So don't abandon the Sunni archy in the winter time and the summer time when fridges real early
fridges early him and his wife doesn't pray frigid at all. harmonica.
Hara menina hora stew early 330 foot, man you better get up.
So this Heidi's goals to show whoever when he's excited, he's pumped up, you excited pumped up towards the sooner you're unhappy Daya. But when you get tired, you don't like the business. You don't like helping your dad and you don't like what you're doing.
Does that mean now you become disrespectful to your father.
Because you're working with your dad now in his business, and you're pumped up at first you're happy you got a job. Now you're getting money every week. But now you hate the job. So you become disrespectful to your dad. You're not professional, you just don't show up. You just don't show up. And when you don't show up, you cause him problems. You are disobedient. And what you're doing is from the major sense of total worry Dane.
So I told the people you want to know the worst sin they said what he said is SRA Kabila, the man said and then what he said are poor Qawwali day being disobedient to your parents. And then what? killing your children.
So now you don't like it and you're being disrespectful. Your time of fatigue and being lethargic is not in accordance to the Sunnah, and based on this hadith are mentioned again. Luckily, annalynne Sheraton would equally share rotten, fat rotten for mankind incarnate retrato era suniti factor the
woman candidate for Torah, Torah danika hallak. Every action has his time of being excited, being active ready to go. And that will be followed with being tired, lazy, lethargic and interested. Anyone who doing this time, this time of weakness. If it's in accordance to my sooner, you'll be guided
Right.
And anytime the person when this comes to him, it's not to my sooner, it's a problem. It is a problem. But it also goes to show what tefillah as an ally in a calm, it also goes to show the Balala of some of the people who do a lot of actions. They do a lot of actions but their actions are not in accordance to the Sunnah man I'm in I'm in a neysa la amarula for
anyone who does something anything at any time and it's not from our day is rejected. So people come in making Vica who make making all these salata raha a bad the salon of the people with to solve this stuff. No. No.
Going out for 40 days, 50 days, 60 days, not from the sooner, especially when you're going down and you're not calling to knowledge and what's the Sunnah.
So stay on the Sunnah, and everything that you do, and be moderate in it. We're going to stop here and shout lies with Jim. If you guys have any questions about today's
Donaldson had, if you could put your question forward for the law
was the prophets of Allah Why do you send them talking directly and about I'm delighted and I'm even Alas, Allahumma naam he was addressing him
because we know what happened, russula her so Lola whitey was sent him about what was going on with a man in his private life. And it said deleo how the Prophet was responsible for everybody in the community. Everybody, the whole ship hotbar should be about Abdullah bin Ahmed allowances should be about his wife it should be about that one should be about the Shabbat
and so forth and so on. So he saw Allah What are you saying is to protect the rights of all people cut Sammy Allah who called a lady to Jai Dino coffee's Oh gee ha what a sticky and Allah will low yes maruta ha Roma Allah He is the complaint that the lady had about her husband and she comes to you and complains to you about the law he is that and so I got involved and told the man were you doing don't do that
so yes, he knows Abdullah even armor even allows and he got involved and that's why he said that that Abdullah bin amaryllis he was young and he was pumped up and ready to go he was ready to go and that's what he told him every actions you're young your life you'll be just became a Muslim. Because Listen Listen, you are brand spanking new revert you are pumped up ready to go.
Ready to go.
We want you to be a person who although you're ready to go calm down calm down and be around people who know what they're doing.
Because we can afford for you getting out there and being you know problematic person for yourself for the oma and even for your relatives and now Muslims. So take it easy. Take it Take it easy for them.
Was the adequate if you want to correct someone it depends. And I told you this many times. Listen, the IRS said ruderal Ls BB Rebecca bill Hekmati will move a little Santa Rosa Delhomme valetti awesome. Listen to this III. Give doubt to your Lord to your Lord. Not to shake Roby not to your madhhab not to your Masjid not your Eman status stuff. Not to yourself, not to your finger in your idea. Now today's grope give Dawa to Allah and if you're giving Dawa to Allah, you're going to recognize you're not the only one in the masjid. You were not the only one in the masjid. So don't be coming to the Imam talking about where Maliki and we don't do a man relax with that stuff. There
are people were here, knife and Shafi and new reverse and men and women.
So give Dawa to your law with hikma and hikma is putting things in a right in the correct place.
So when you have to give Dawa to someone, it may be that you have to expose the person.
You have to expose them. You have to expose it, send them the mistake
So that the whole community will be aware of that. And it's not considered to be Heber when you do that. So the Prophet was getting ready to pray some a lot. He was Solomon, he was gonna pray the janazah and then he stopped. He said, Does this man owe any money? They say, yes, he says Solow, Allah saw he become the new prey on he left. When the people saw that they was like, wow, if you owe money for soap on Priya janessa You better not owe any money. So they were paying off their bills and their debts.
Another time he got rid of the prey. He said does this man owe money they say yes. to dare him to dare him 5678 910 pounds he owes two did him.
Russell I said another man said pray on them. So I'm gonna say out loud pay for him. I pay his debt.
So everybody knew who was in question. Everybody knew that man was in question.
Someone does some send some crying his hand gets chopped off. Everybody saw it?
Everybody, but one of the names of Eliza gel is a city. A city in nulla Ha.
Hey, Kareem, sit tear.
Allah is
shy in a way that befits his modesty. He is generous and he is sitting here he loves that you cover things up.
So you know someone he made a mistake cover up is false. It's just between him and a lot. You don't have to expose him for that. You don't have to expose them for that. So it's gonna deal is going to have to do with hikma hikma putting things in a proper place. There's a person conceal what happened.
And there's another situation you have to expose it.
And unfortunately, doing our time,
the Dow of the keytab in the sooner that people have the keytab and as soon as an MMA Balu Tamia used to say athletes sooner are the most knowledgeable people about a harlot, Allah and the other are hammonasset on the help they have most Rama
so they know Allah the best and he knows religion. So the people of the Sunnah have Rama on the creation, human beings, youngsters, elders, non Muslims animals. Disaster Suna Burma, Arosa Naka, Iraq methylamine. So what happened in our Dawa with dealing with people with Rama?
What happened? What happened?
Yeah, share. Why can't we listen to our brother pa here? Why you why he's from us, the Messiah, it's gonna benefit us, our children, our last generation, why can't we? Well, first of all, he won't warn against Abu Hassan and Mara be here but my mother don't know about our house in Marathi. We talked about
wall so he refused his brothers in in the UK. That said if he's white, he's not set up because he refused them. He refused them because a machine refused them because they like you or a few people. What's the problem? But we have to have this thing enough since they've robbed mode for ourselves, Rama for our babies. And I don't want to be funny here. But it's true. I want to mention names of crazy people like Kanye West. I don't want to mention his name Kanye West. But when there was a hurricane in America, Hurricane Katrina, in New Orleans, they left black people out a die. cutting a Russ came and said, George Bush don't like black people.
I still remember that. treating us like that. chef, Chef, why are you dealing with this situation? Don't you like us? Don't you like us? This is our brother from us. And the height of what he's doing is going to be big. It's gonna be big. Don't give that kind of fatwa. Or maybe you don't like us or something. And it's not about being racist. It's about Come on, scholar. You have knowledge you have to be able to weigh the benefits and the harms. Why you don't want us to listen to him.
Nothing for real.
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do you from Afghanistan?
Pakistan. You look like a push to go Hey, mommy.
When they stretch,
when some people stretch, they say Allahu Akbar, and things like that, is that from the Sunnah is not from the son of the prophets of Allah, what do you say to them, but there's nothing that prevents that in the religion. There's nothing that prevents that in the religion.
That Hadeeth that we mentioned about Abdullah and now bass, Russell, I told him sulla when he was sending him What is this stand for? stuttering? Billa if you seek help, seek help from Allah. So the person is getting up. And his back he has
a lot I'm doing. So he's basically so Allah helped me with my situation. So he has a deal. But the prophet do that. No, he didn't do that. So Lola, who it was Selim, so there's nothing wrong with that is from the vicar of Allah, Allah the victory lie he talked about Tasmanian devil kulu but with the vigor of Allah, the hearts of tranquil with the vicar of Allah, you get strength. And we gave that that was here before the prophets of Allah what he said from the delay from the Quran, Sunnah when a bee was approached by his daughter, Fatima, And Fatima said, I need a condom. I need help. Because from the work I'm doing fine even I be Talat. I'm getting calluses is too much work.
Russell, I said, I come see you tonight.
He came and knocked on the door. When he came in and Fatima Ali was in the bed, and he was sitting at the head of the bed and their feet without the Prophet sallallahu it was sending him got in the bed and put his feet towards their feet. I'm a father in law. My daughter is married. I got wives married again in the bed like that with no man.
I don't care who he is.
He says marry him. I will. But you guys you guys. Can you see the uptick and the visual, the love and the respect that they have for the Nabi sallallahu wasallam belait alaikum some of you have real great relationship with your father in law's I have a good relationship my father in law di chef Hasson from high deja Kaduna me alive rock my
father in law in Bristol. May Allah guide him to this do you have good relation with your father? Can you see sitting in the bed like that with your father in law? Anybody could do that? Put your hand up. Put your hand up if you could do that. Anybody?
Could you do that? If Prophet Mohammed was your father in law, put your hand up.
Some of you then put your hands up.
If rasulillah was your father in law, and he got into bed with you and your wife, could you handle that? Can you handle that? Of course we all can handle it. But your right hand up man left hand doodoo hand man Come on.
So we all could do that. So then they became really sad. He said, I'll give you something I'll tell you something better than having a condom.
If you say before you go to bed, so panela 33 times and handling lat 33 times a low birth 34 times that would be better than a fathom.
With the Leo when you do the vicar of Allah gives you strength, or sola he sallallahu Sallam used to go multiple days I Isha said we would see the normal two three times three months and all we had were the two black things. We ate dates and drink water for three months and get rustled pray camel lane.
And of course of a day he was dealing with all of the people all of what he was doing, because the vicar of Allah gives you strength gives you strength. So if you mix martial artists and I want you to be all of you to be mixed martial, dynamic, the vicar of Allah and stuff like that to get extra strength to the finger itself. Okay, a whiny McDuffie behind that will Qatar sir any Allah subhana wa Taala and we're gonna Jacobi Colima your head boy we are high there was a Lola who was selling robotic and and a beginner. While he was hobby of mine was Santa Monica McTell lover cattle, when a hippo Nash core ohana, Mohammed btn, heavy miroir ash Cora Kumara, Haryana horsemeat.