Hadith #20 – The Callers Beginning

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well it was hobby of mine. I'm about to become to Hadith number 20 And it's the hadith of

that tremendous companion Abdullah, even aroma.

May Allah be pleased with him.

And again, the book that we're dealing with is the Dawa, and the Duat

the DI D and the Dawa

is from the Quran, a Hadith from the authentic sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam focusing upon

the one who's given Darwin, the one who's teaching not just me, all of you. He's married. He's practicing has without relatives not practicing. He's in his school. He's on social media, the Dow and the day.

So we come to this hadith of Ibn Ahmad may Allah be pleased with both of them tremendous Hadith.

The Prophet SAW Allah while he was sending to mention

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He said, every action that you do in life, every action for the rest of your life. It has a time of being excited and enthusiastic about that action.

Every single action that you do, when you engage in it at the beginning, you're pumped up and you're excited about it.

And

that excitement is going to be followed by feta, feta is the feeling of being lazy, kilomole, lethargic, tired, you can't maintain that excitement throughout that action that has presented itself. So every single action that you do,

you're going to be pumped up and excited when it first started, when you first start that action, but then after some time, you're going to become used to it. And then you're going to become lazy, you're going to become lethargic, and you're not going to be so excited and so active.

The Prophet says Allah what He said him so therefore,

me anyone who, when he becomes tired, and lazy and lethargic and inactive, is not as excited. As long as that is according to my sunnah you'll be rightly guided.

But when you become inactive and tie in the 5g, IQ and lazy, if you're like that and you're not practicing my sunnah, you're going to be destroyed.

This hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is a tremendous Hadith. And it's one of those Hadith that clearly showed the profits somebody was sending them was a person who taught the people good.

He was a wylam I will hire you have to ask yourself, are you teaching people good? Are you teaching people good? You you

as you sit there, you have a lot of people to teach. You're married, you have children. I do teach in good.

A Sula. He somebody was setting them said and he was a Muslim. I will hire

he says of Allah he was sent him when he heard people mentioned in two of the Muslims from the community. One was an I bid, he worshiped a lot

fast and he was doing all kinds of things. And the other one was a scholar, that people were talking about this one in that one. Prophet Muhammad interjected and he told the people some Allah why do you setting them for bleed? For blue? An island and an abbot could fugly Allah at NAT Kuhn the virtues of the one who knows the religion the teacher who knows what he's doing the virtues of him over the one who's worshiping a lot is like the virtues of me well so lie he's some lesson over the

least one amongst you. That Hadith goes to show that knowledge is premier but knowledge you work by not just having knowledge and you have some books on your shoulder but knowledge you're giving Dawa to you yourself a practicing it.

And then he went on to mention in the same incident, tremendous Hadith and Allaha Mala Aika to who will lose somewhere

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he says Allah, Allah what He was sending them, that Allah and all of the angels in the heavens,

even the ends that are in the earth that are walking around and many, many, and even all of the fish in the ocean,

they make dua for the one who's teaching people good.

So as a dad, you're teaching your people your kids eat with your right hand.

That's teaching people good.

So don't be buggy along yourself. Everybody has hair has something to give something to say. Don't think it's just the whole T don't think is just know. You have to give Dawa to your relatives don't know. You just come to the ministry. You sit in there holding on to the wall you just sit it not that's not enough. Allah Wa Kafa BiLlahi Robyn was Shaheed is enough, Allah is enough. But Allah all of them and I.

And all of the people in the earth the to Earth studied said and all of the ants on the earth that are in the n hole, as well as all of the fish in the ocean. They make dua to Allah azza wa jal for the one who's teaching people good.

For being a law, you're a big to get the bad. If you have a wife that's teaching your kids adapt,

then stop being rough and tough and appreciate that situation.

The Prophet was like that sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he taught the people here. And in this hadith today, he's teaching us a hadith. That is actually I won't say a weapon, but He equips you for life. There are certain a hadith they serve as lessons that we have to remember for the life. Like this hadith right here. Every action that you do in your life, you Abdullah, when you first get involved in it, you are pumped up, you're excited about it, everyone is like that.

And then the time is going to come where you get used to it, and then you become lethargic, you become lazy, you're not so excited about it. He says SallAllahu wasallam that time when you become lethargic and lazy, if you are that tragic and lazy, but it's according to my sunnah you will be guided to write you'll be successful. But when you become lethargic and lazy, just throw in the towel and it's not according to my sunnah as you'll see Inshallah, you're going to be destroyed.

There are a number of a hadith that teach us lessons in life, meaning Now's not the time for those a hadith. We took one previously, he said that people will like 100 camels, you can barely find a camel suitable to write. So you should know in your life. The people that you're dealing with, the vast majority of them are not competent, they're not qualified. Don't lend them your money. Don't marry him to your sister, don't marry her. Don't marry him. Don't hire him. Because of a majority of

people. They don't know what they're doing.

They're like 100 camels you can barely find one suitable to write that hadith equips you for life. Then when you go into something, you gotta realize, okay, the people

and whenever I'm about to do Rasul Allah gave me this information. So Malawi, there's something about the reality of the people. That doesn't mean that you exist being negative. And you exists, being pessimistic know, you exist with Yaqeen, knowing I'm going to give everybody an equal opportunity, but I know what to expect. I'm not going to be shocked when people let me down.

And he gave us a lot of Hadith come out to Dean to Dan, he taught us as you do, is going to be done unto you. That's a lesson of life. You do good by people you do good in the dunya that good is coming back to you. You do wrong by people you don't this is a life lesson as you do is coming back to you. So we have all of those eight of the Quran in terms of lions circumaural fair bit at the dama calm. If you help Allah, Allah will help you as you do is going to come back to you and He will

establish your feet firmly. He told Salallahu Salam Abdullah bass was riding behind him on his right and beasts for the law physic if

In that digital a man IC O T Jack, Hey young man.

Remember Allah and Allah remember you

remember law and you'll find a law in front of you remember law in the good times when you're young and you have health and you have time and you have money. Remember Allah during those times and Allah will remember when you when you don't have money, we don't have good health.

Those are from the teachings of life. He was a more of a higher Salah who had he was set up and he taught us so many things like that. So many so many. This hadith is one of them. One of the lessons of life for the one who has OCD and with swats he said if one of you was sitting in the masjid and you think you passed when you think you're not sure, he said don't get up until you smell the odor or until you hear the sound.

So I may will do find your time today.

I want to make salata McGraw inshallah and insalata Isha if I don't and I can't remember when I broke my will do. I don't remember when I broke my window. I don't remember.

Then I have Lou. I have little because this hadith presents a principle and that principle is Aliya Keane

lives on the shuck. When you are sure about something that you're clean about something is not taken away as a result of doubt.

So the one who has with swats he wants to know did I divorce my wife did I not divorce? Brother, you are married to your wife. You are married to your wife you have to do that is your wife that is your property that is your car. Because a person has Biswas shaytaan comes to them have them thinking, Am I really a Muslim? Am I really this a you have the king

as your wife? So if someone came and got involved and she went to someone to get a hold up, and they are telling you your divorce from her, and they didn't divorce you from her Wilier clean with your participation with your knowledge, you're married to that girl.

So anything you know with your team is not lifted off, except that you have to have de Lille. It goes away with the Akin, not with doubt. So Prophet taught us those kinds of a hadith what can fuma here they are many this is one of them.

Remember, it's every action has His time of being excited and being pumped up. And then after that it's going to be followed by being tired and then active and not engaged. Lazy, lethargic, he said when that time comes. If you're lazy and tired and lethargic but you're doing my sunnah, you will be guided right? But when that lazy time comes and you are not on my sunnah you're going to be destroyed. That's the Hadith of the NABI sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

This hadith when he before explaining it has a background and the Hadith, the background, why did he say it? He said it says a lot he was sending because of one of his companions who was known for zoot

and it was none other than Abdullah ibn the armor even allows. He was one of those companions. His name was Abdullah and they narrated the majority of the Hadith, Abdullah even amor MNL RS and he had more Hadith than any other companion used to write the Hadith even more than Abu Huraira.

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also Eben a Zubair, Abdullah Zubair

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all of their name is Abdullah. As far as the Labine Massoud, he was a scholar from the Companions but he's not from the for i Bad Allah. So this man Abdullah bin Ahmed rebel Allah's have more Hadith even then Abu Huraira because he used to write down so al Bukhari, Abu Huraira name write down and he used to write down

so he's the narrator. He the hadith is because of him, his father, Omer immunoblots was a tremendous man in Jamia. I don't know any personality today who is comparable and similar to this man, and Jack me yet and in Islam, his father was the man

and he had that boy, this son may Allah be pleased with both of them. His father married the son off

And when he married his son off his son was Zaheer, a sharp zakat not just I'm setting a fee I'm on the sunan practicing but you have no no often have no song. You have none of that. This man was Zagat, like some other companions like Apple daughter dad. Was Zach ahead, I believe.

So you remember those three, Abdullah? Even Omer imminent us?

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Radi Allahu anhu, Zote. And another level, not like the people we see today.

So this man, Abdullah bin Ahmed with us, he used to leave his wife alone. He wouldn't pay attention to why he wouldn't mix with us. He wouldn't give her her rights. So the news came to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and he approached the issue and he said, what's going on? The man Seattle soon while I'm young, I'm ready to do it. I'm strong. I can handle it. He said, I want to fast. Tell me what I have to do. He told him something Allahu Ani, he will either it was Saturday.

Then what you should do is you should fast three days and every month because if you fast three days

1020 30 is like too fast the whole month. He said I could do more than that.

He said to him Yato sola. Make more make more Rasoolullah raise it raise it raise it into folly. He said the best fastest, the fastest, dilute the newbie of Islam, the father of Sunni man, so the waterway was sin mo I need an edge my aim. So this companion fast in one day and broke his fast the next day, one day broke his fast the next day, one day and he spent the entirety of his youth doing that.

He set out also Allah I want to read the Quran. How can I read the Quran? The Prophet says SallAllahu wasallam read the Quran and complete it once every month, a juice every day. He said I can do more. I could do more. I'm young. I'm ready.

He told him then read it in 15 days, half of the time 15 I can do more. Reading in seven days. I can do more

reading in five days.

And there's a narration we let them read it in three days. Can you imagine how much it takes to read the Quran in three days?

Anybody who ever read the Quran and 15 days, anybody half of the month?

This man said I want to complete it in three days, and he will stay up and Kiama Lee. So the Prophet says of Allah, what are you saying this hadith for every action, there was a time when you were active.

And then that activity is going to be met with a time where you get tired. And you'll have theologic and you're lazy, and you're less engage at the library. I'm a revenue lost and director this hadith. He spent his life doing that when he got older. He was weak and he was in firm. His eyes when his eyesight he didn't have the strength. He told his students. I wish I would have listened to the Prophet sallallahu he was setting them when he was trying to make FEAF on me he was trying to make

it easy. But I did it and this is my situation. We say Radi Allahu Anhu and we don't criticize him. We get benefit from his story. Be Azad hit by be moderate, according to your situation.

This hadith of the prophets of Allah why he went on it was setting them when he is as you can see a tremendous Hadith.

When you get a job for the first time, especially after being unemployed, you get a job. We talked about our Shabaab, you get a job. Corona has been locked down. You want to employ, you've been using your money in your savings. And now you finally get a job. When you first get that job. You could be a conductor on the train. You could be accepting the tickets at the train station, opening up the barrier. You could be a teacher, you could work in the school in the lunch room. You could be an

Uber driver. When you first get that job. You're pumped up. Yes, I got a job.

But after some time, you're going to say Man, I hate this job. I don't like this job because you get used to it. Unless Allah bless you with one of them real jobs.

You wake up in the morning be like yes.

And even in the job that I have sometimes is very taxing. Dealing with some of the community members.

Pope Paul come to the masjid and say was Abu Simon he says not here but he has his number his his telephone number that makes this job very young man while you're given a popup on my telephone number

ellaby Bill ishara you have humble don't give anybody my number.

So you get a job and you're pumped up. It happens everybody.

Another example of that, and there are many is the month of Ramadan. Ramadan comes we're pumped up.

Today we saw the moon everybody that comes to the masjid taraweeh we doing it

and then tomorrow we getting in it and getting Natty, and then the next day, but by the time that 1011 12 day comes, people say you know Islam is easy Allah's matter, Rahim, Santi make things difficult for people. I'm going to take a break for three or four days. What happened to all that enthusiasm at the beginning of Ramadan? When you were avoiding people, I'm not trying to talk I don't want to curse. I don't want to waste time because you pumped up. Every action is like that.

Another example of that is your marriage. At the beginning of the marriage, the brother familiar poor Pakistani people as an example, they put on that nice thing. He really didn't work. He doesn't dress like that. But he put that nice thing on has those shoes that come up like that. He's pumped up. He's married his girl. He's like man is my queen. I'm in it.

And she's the greatest thing since sliced bread, Sharif, happy.

But then after three, four or five years into marriage, to

he's looking at his wife, oh boy.

What happened to all of that excitement, Rasul Allah is teaching you something Salam Now have you signed up? Put your hand up if you didn't experience this, he gets married Mashallah. He travelled all the way over to the Maldives. Maldives, they have over 100 islands there. You in the plane, you know, that propeller plane in the plane, he's saying, Wow, look at all these islands. I'm gonna get married, take his wife to a bungalow. This is exotic is beautiful. Come back to the UK with his

wife. After three or four or five years, so problem. She's the same girl you marry, and you took it to the bungalow.

But

you get used to it. So I want to say to all of you married brothers, and I say this to myself. I was hot. Everybody here.

When you start getting drama, and you start saying man, I made a mistake and it's not working. You have to ask yourself, what happened to those days of Halawa? Those sweet days? It's not just her, you too. So sticking it sticking in.

So as many examples of that, but today, we're talking about the Dow and the DUA, people giving Dawa. So I'm giving Dawa and you're giving Dawa. So when it comes to Dawa, you have to understand at Understand, when you first start giving Dawa in the community, the Masjid is packed like sardines, and attend no room to get in.

No room all the way to the back of the door. You don't have to bring any food. Because people were there. The chef just came doing 40 Hadith of an Imam and no, we everybody's pumped up bluegill moron. Everybody is in the spot. Even with the sisters, first lesson, third lesson for free. It says after that people start falling off like flies. So as the one who's teaching, you have to understand that as the people responsible for the dour, you have to understand that don't blame the teacher.

When the people start falling off. It may be because of him. But it's just the nature of the people they have pumped up. The chef has come all the way from Mauritania, and he memorized a cook to sit down and he knows five Kira after the Quran, and he's coming to teach us and we all come out. But after 56789 10 classes will find many reasons not to go to the class. That is the nature of the dollar and that's the nature of people. So then the B of Islam so Allah why do you send them is

teaching us this issue.

There's another narration of this hadith that I have to add on to it. Similar to it. He mentioned some Allah what He was

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He says of Allah, he was selling them every action. Everything you do has a time of being active, aggressive, pumped up, do it. And every action has that time where you're tired and lethargic. He says, so if a person during this time, does his best to put his best foot forward, then hope for him good. When he's tired, he's putting his best foot forward in his marriage in the dollhouse and his job. He's tired. He's not into it anymore. He actually hates his job. But he has to go to pay bills,

he has to go to keep stability, he has to go so that if he didn't go, he's going to have more complicated problems.

So he keeps working and keeps doing it. Russell said, if he does that, then hope for him good. But if a person if a person is pointed to people start saying looking and looking and looking at him, he said, then don't consider any good for him. The meaning of that hadith is if you guys can imagine I give you this example.

When you make hutch, you have to go to men on the eighth day of hedges called The Day of utter Weah. You just go to Mina, and you hang out a minute, until you pray Fajr. And then that's the Day of Arafah the ninth the next day. So you have to make it from minute to Arafa.

So when you travel to Arabia, you have jetlag, you're tired. And then the night before out of fact, we stayed up talking, we never made Hajj before. We just kicking the woolly Bobo, no one's going to tell you man, you better go to sleep. If you want a good height, you better sleep right now. But we're pumped up adrenaline so we stay up we stay up we're talking. The next day we without even sleeping we go to out of fat, we got to walk there we take the train with tired by the time we get

there. When we get there, everyone is about to crash out.

You did the best that you could under the circumstances.

So hope for that person good. But the one who the fingers point at him. Under these circumstances they will one day was one brother from the group, one brother from this group, one system, the sister side. When we all got tired of that we will be tired. And it's early in the morning. We want to go to sleep to get up to eat our breakfast and then get ready for the day. But this one brother is over there making to rock to rock to rock out to rock out to rock out. And he's just like us. He

traveled with us on the plane jetlag he stayed up all night with us. We walked in we got all the way the outside and we're all beat. We're all tired.

None of us wants to even hear our wives. Oh, can you call my husband? I

tell her no, no, I'm tired. That's everybody. But this one brother is over here to Rakata Rasul Allah said, if you see the fingers pointing at him, then don't expect good, because he's showing off. Now I have to explain very clearly, if you are pumped up and with sincerity you get up to pray. This hadith is not talking about you. But this hadith is talking about the one who's like everybody else where you get this energy from the do that. Now if you are sincere, this hadith is not

applicable to you. But don't get up and pray in front of everybody if you can help it. Go and pray over there. Go and pray outside of the tent when no one sees you. But you get enough in it everybody can see you everybody. That may be a sign that you do worry.

So this hadith and that hadith are connected to one another.

Now as it relates to the Dawa in the DUA listen to this and let's do a very quick, listen to me carefully.

There are people who give Dawa like myself and there are people like you who you can download but on a different kind of level. But you get any message it will you are on the admin you are an admin.

And as a result of being involved with a dialer, you start to be responsible for helping out for the conference for bringing the share or the shares. When you get involved in Dawa and you're just a regular brother or sister. You start to see all of the drama in the politics of the day.

Our you're pumped up when you get involved. Your wife is happy your mother your father happy you're volunteering, you're happy. But when you start working with the people in the messenger the Dow you start scratching your head saying what's wrong with these people? What's wrong with the ship?

You're the financial guy. The chef is asking you guys hey, I'm gonna come I want to be in first class. And I want you guys to import water from the French Alps. I want purple roses in my room to smell good. And Chef Hey, Chef, we took them out.

And that's not to put shakes down but I've seen some people who are difficult with us and do art are difficult with us. There do I do a difficult

I think the die has every right to say man is hot in the chumpy Can you guys bring a fan he had a right to say that it's hot in his hot summer time without complaining but sometimes it dwad going overboard. He wants to come and talk for 20 minutes and he charges domestic 2000 pounds what law he I saw that well law he I saw that has no knowledge. But he was connected to this so connected to that. And that's what I was Chabad. Like, I was Shabbat like that kind of stuff. No problem. We're

going to bring him to bring the Shabbat to the masjid. But 4000 pounds you're not telling us anything. You're not teaching us anything. You're just talking about what happened hip hop or whatever we're talking about.

So when you get involved in the W CDs politics, and I have to mention this I absolutely have to mention it.

There was a brother that I mentioned from before His name is Ty he had Wyatt and this is not about him per se is bigger than that. The man got a PhD from Medina University. How many of you brothers heard of this brother put your hand up? The vast majority of you heard it a brother? If not all of you. If you didn't hear him put your hand up if you didn't hear of them.

Only have two people put their hands up man we you guys been

no problems that wedge of upon you. The man gets a PhD teachers in the prophets messages. Allah Salam, he's not my son. I don't agree with him on everything. He says, No, he doesn't agree with me everything he says. But when he graduates and he's about to go to America, we say Hey, this is a great thing. African American revert has proven to himself and to our community. The sky is the limit for you brothers who are reverse.

Don't let anybody tell you that you can't teach in the prophets. Misters, the lighting Center, you can get a master's degree you can't get a PhD. You can't be successful. It's been proven. It's been proven.

So now when the brothers going back to America, politics of the dollar, we have a chef who says Don't listen to him. Don't listen to him. Why should why should we listen to him? You shouldn't listen to him because he doesn't refute the one that I don't like. And I want him to refute it. Come on shake. What is that stuff Chase? What's these politics about? Let that man go and give Dawa to his people and put his people in a position to be able to bring them to take care of him financially

because of the high that's going to come from that situation. The Hey, the politics of the dollar problem.

They are a problem.

So we say to you, you volunteer. You're giving Dawa here you're helping here whatever you hear my voice. You get pumped up and you get involved in the Dawa. Don't be shocked when you see the people involved with the doubt this share this when in doubt whatever. Don't be shocked when you see and hear things that causes you to be lethargic. Prophet Muhammad says sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for mankind that for Toronto. It has Suniti *a de Tada. When you get tired, lethargic, you start

second guessing yourself Rasul Allah said that has to be according to my sunnah. Don't throw the towel in for Dawa. Because you saw this, you saw that? Continue to do it and be patient and overlook it. Are you involved in the Dawa for yourself? Are you involved in the Dawa to make it spread to the people so you have to have supper in the cause of the Dawa. So this hadith of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa ala alihi wa Salam is a tremendous Hadith as it relates to a Dawa Illa Allah and it is a

tremendous Hadith as it relates as well to life.

With Sula, he sallallahu alayhi wa Ana it was setting them in this hadith is showing us that when you do the Sunnah and you do the right thing

You want his sunnah and his sunnah? If you're on the Sunni doing good times, you're going to be guided. You're on the Sunnah during tough times difficult times you unfair. So you're married and you're happily married. You're on the Sunnah. But now your marriage has some problems. You have some issues in your life. So your LT exam, you start loosening up the reins of practicing. So I smoking weed?

Because you're stressed out,

start drinking because you're stressed out. You start to hang out with Kuffar because you stressed out. No, no, no, no, no.

When that time comes, continue to be on the Sunnah. Because if you want to sooner during the day, you want to play it during the night you want to play it. summer winter, you want to pay it. And there's an authentic hadith that I think you will know about. The Prophet mentioned sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that the example of the believers like the example of the Nakhla, the date palm tree, the Nakhla, the day palm tree benefits you the believer benefits you.

The day palm tree is firmly established. The Muslim, his Dean, he knows what he's not hocus pocus in his Islam

doesn't know what he's talking about. What are you talking about when you get that from? Like what we have today, this madness that people are upon madness, I have to follow your opinion. And if I don't follow your opinion, mad at me, we have so many deat No, it's madness what we're on.

So the date palm tree is a tree that is flexible. It's flexible. The prophets of Allah he was sending to them. His religion was growing and growing and growing and growing. They sat down with the kuffaar to do a contract the soul of who they be, in which it appeared was sold by greed to things that made the Muslims weak, but that wasn't the case. sallallahu alayhi wasallam so he told I need not be tolerated write down. We're gonna agree write down Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim Kufa

Karissa, what is this a Rahman Rahim

is an Allah Rahman Rahim

is Allah Rahman Rahim? me any doubt about that? Every single source of the Quran starts with the Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim. This Smilla he R Rahman Rahim except surah the Toba that's a

those kofod said we don't believe in Iraq mana Rahim. We don't know this. We don't call Allah that. Take that off. Rasul Allah said, Okay, take it off. He didn't make a big deal and start fighting them over this Rahman Rahim. Allah mentioned in the Quran that will ledvina You will he do Nephi Ismay when Allah Hill Esma will host now they're living in a yurt he Duna fear smaghi To Allah belongs all of the beautiful names, whether he's Kuffar accepted, they don't accept it rejected,

they still to Allah, whether they accept it or not. So leave those people who play around with Allah as he he erased it, no problem.

And then he wrote, This contract is between Mohammed bin Abdullah Rasul Allah and Quraysh. They said what is this Rasul Allah if we thought you were Rasul? Allah wouldn't fight you. He's okay you race it? Flexible,

flexible.

He told us in an authentic hadith Allah Allah who it was sending them, like your fruit Mina. It's not okay for the husband to hate his wife. If he sees something in her that he doesn't like, let them look for something that he likes be flexible. Give and take. That's the Sunnah that said if here. That's the Sunnah and that said, if here.

Everything doesn't go the way you want. You want the way I want. Sometimes you have to give in order to receive. So the date palm tree is flexible. It's not jam it. My mother had said, Chef Robbie said I can't move from that is no. You have to be flexible to be able to deal with situations. Or the point that I want to mention. connected to this hadith is what Allah mentioned in the Quran about the date palm tree. And I'm Tara Kay for Daraa Allahu Mithila. Kenny mutton you button Khashoggi

Ratan Guba. A slew have Febby to the federal half his summit to the Oklahoma call let Heenan be easy Robbia Have you not seen the similar tool and the example that Allah gave about the good word? The good word is like a sheduled a tight yerba

A good tree, the date palm tree. This is talking about the date palm tree. Surat Ibrahim.

Do you not see how Allah gave the example of the Kenny mattevi abba La ilaha illallah or any good word? You mad with your wife? She's mad with you. The KTM a tiny ABA is Habibie Habiba T.

You mad she mad.

He comes into the house Habibi Habiba T. Those words work. That's the kennemer Tayyiba.

You want to see the example Allah said, That tree is firmly established that Katie my family's established, it sends his branches out into the sky, that Kelly Ma is going to bring it to you that ILA hate Allah, whatever the good word is. And then it said, the tree gives its fruit. Every season, by the, by the permission of Allah. That date palm tree yields his produce summer, winter, spring fall, when it's cold when it's hot. When the days are long, when the days are short. The believer is

like the date palm tree.

He's liked the day palm tree. He's pumped up, he's active, he's ready to go. And sometimes he's lethargic and he's tired.

When he's lethargic, and he's tired, he can't give up.

He can't give up in the month of Ramadan. By the time the last 10 days come. He just is not coming to the masjid and he's missing praise. He's watching TV, listening to music, but he started off better than that. Okay, now the last seven days are here and you're tired. You are tired. I remember when I was in Liverpool. And it was tough. We fasted you go home, you eat, you got to get back to the masjid. And then Fajr was right around the corner. And then as soon as you make Fudger your

knees be hurting from praying so much every day. It was tough. I remember that. We were fasting for like 1819 hours here in Europe.

So the person just gives up, gives up. He doesn't go to the masjid at all. He stops praying. He starts hanging out. Start watching what's haram? Things that he shouldn't be watching because he threw in the towel. No, you're tired. Okay? Allah doesn't want difficult for you, as he mentioned so many eyes in the Quran. You read Allah who become a user, right? Are you ready to become an eraser? Allah wants for you is he doesn't want difficult for you. Take a break, relax. Don't come into the

masjid one day if that's what you have to do, but you still should pray.

And you should still regroup and come back the next day. So this hadith of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa it was Salam is a clear indication and 20 that if a person is on the Sunnah at all times, then you're on layer. And that's part of the meaning of the hadith of Rasulullah sallallahu. It was sent NEMA when he came home and his wives told them about his three companions. One of them said, After asking, they all said What did the Prophet what does he do when he's at home? One said that he

prays moderately, the other one said he's fast sometimes. The third one says that he fat he fast he prays and he spends time with his wife when they listen to him to call Lou Kolomna when they listen to they say man that's not a lot I can do more than that. I could do more than that.

Maybe Abdullah even honorable us was there low on them. But the way he was that type of mentality says I can do more than that. He wasn't doing a lot.

So one said, I'm gonna pray all night, and I won't fast I won't stop praying. I'm gonna say I'm gonna fast every day. The third one said I'm avoiding women. I won't get married anymore. Prophet Muhammad heard it came to the mischief. So Lola when you set it up? Well, I live in ominous and higher is a teacher of good

teachers, people good in the best ways. My Balou ACWA, your coluna Kether whatever was wrong with some people, they say this and he didn't throw him under the bus. He didn't expose the community. He didn't want to destroy the people to make a Scott.

He's giving Dawa. He's giving Dawa. He's giving Dawa. We have to be together. You make a mistake. It's not my job to dog you out. And to get rid of you from the Dow playing field, so to speak, is politics that people are into.

What's wrong with some people will say this, this is that he said as for me

When I get married to women, I'm not someone who's far away from women, as Allah mentioned in the Quran row by Ruth Benny at the market up Na Li him. That is a status CISM a fingers zoot, you know, we didn't write that on them. We didn't make this wedge up upon the yahood and then Asara Jewish people the, the nun, she's going to come going to, she's going to commit herself to the church and don't get mad at

the priests. He commits himself and marries a church.

Some of the companions wanted to castrate themselves. They were serious. So Allah give us permission to castrate ourselves. We want to remember Allah we want to do this deen and the dunya and women Allah mentioned in the Quran, and the Manola they come one why they come. Fitness in fact the row home some of you women, some of your families, children, they are fitna avoid them. Some of them is like that. They said we want to focus Allah say we didn't write this on them not getting married

castrating yourself. Allah created everything in tubes and in pairs. Put your hand up if you are married, put your hand up if you're married. He told us Allah what He was telling the mentors a wedge of fact that this stick Mala Knutsford Dini he fell it tequila, he shattered.

Anyone who got married, you completed half of your deen. Phil, on the other hand, how many people are married, put your hands up? You got to think Allah for being married man. Not in a perfect marriage. But if you were not married, it'd be a problem. You're not balanced. These brothers who are not married, you're not married. Put your hands up.

Wow.

The house. Alright, keep your hands up Put all I helped him to get married. Oh, my sad Kenan tomb. Allah You know, I mean.

So if you have a wife, you're balancing our religion. Allah doesn't want you to be by yourself the religion. Yes, it is a fact Shadowman snapped at me. I never got married. And no, we never got married. Man. So yo T never got married. But Prophet Muhammad says Salah Salem as I said, my rocky bar and Suniti Felisa Mini. Anyone who abandons my sunnah he's not from me. So don't abandon the Sunni yaki and the wintertime in the summertime, when fridges real early

fridges early him and his wife doesn't pray for budget at all. Haram.

Haram Anina haram. It's too early 330 foot, man, you better get up.

So this hadith goes to show whoever when he's excited, he's pumped up. You excited, pumped up towards the Sunnah, you're on hedaya. But when you get tired, you don't like the business. You don't like helping your dad and you don't like what you're doing?

Does that mean now you become disrespectful to your father.

Because you're working with your dad now in his business, and you were pumped up at first you're happy you got a job. Now you're getting money every week. But now you hate the job. So you become disrespectful to your dad. You're not professional, you just don't show up. You just don't show up. And when you don't show up, you cause him problems. You are disobedient. And what you're doing is from the major sense or coucal worry then

sulla told the people you want to know the worst sin they said what he said is Schrock Biller, the man said and then what he said Well, Paul qawwali day being disobedient to your parents, and then what? Killing your children.

So now you don't like it and you're being disrespectful. Your time of fatigue and being lethargic is not in accordance to the Sunnah. And based on this hadith, I mentioned again, the kuleana and Sheraton when he called the Sheraton feta tomb from Canada for Toronto era Suniti for the

woman candidate for Toronto Dadda Alec, every action has this time of being excited, being active ready to go. And that will be followed with being tired, lazy, lethargic and interested. Anyone who during this time, this time of weakness, if it's in accordance to my sunnah, you will be guided

Right.

And anytime the person when this comes to him is not to my sunnah. It's a problem. It is a problem. But Hadith also goes to show what if Allah as an ally in a comb, it also goes to show the balala of some of the people who do a lot of actions. They do a lot of actions, but their actions are not in accordance to the Sunnah, man, I mean, I'm an Elisa lady, I'm Runa for Rudd, anyone who does something anything at any time and it's not for my birthday is rejected. So people come in making

xicana who make making all these salata rasa A, but there's a lot of the people that are so worth this stuff. No, no.

Going out for 40 days, 50 days, 60 days now from the Sunnah, especially when you're going down and you're not calling to knowledge and what's the Sunnah?

So stay on the Sunnah, and everything that you do, and be moderate in it. We're going to stop here and shout lies with Jim. And if you guys have any questions about today's

Donelson Hadith, you can put your question forward for the law

was the prophets of Allah, why do you send them talking directly and about Abdullah bin Ahmed even allows Allahu Minang he was addressing him.

Because we know what happened. russula her Salah YT was setting him about what was going on with the man in his private life. And it said delille how the Prophet was responsible for everybody in the community. Everybody, the whole should have been should be about Abdullah bin Ahmed allowances should be about his wife, he should be about that one should be about the Shabbat

and so forth and so on. So he Salah what he was telling me is to protect the rights of all people cut semi Allah who called the laity to die Do not confuse old jihad with the sticky and Allah will Allah Yes, Maruta however, Houma Allah here is the complaint that the lady had about her husband, and she comes to you and complain to you about it. I mean, the law is that and was so like that involved and told the man were you doing? Don't do that.

So yes, he knows Abdullah ibn AMR even Allah's and he got involved and that's why he said that that Abdullah bin Ahmed Elias he was young and he was pumped up and ready to go he was ready to go and that's when he told him every actions you're young your life you'd be just became a Muslim. Because listen, listen, you are brand spanking new revert you are pumped up, ready to go.

Ready to go.

We want you to be a person who although you're ready to go Calm down, calm down and be around people who know what they're doing.

Because we can't afford for you getting out there and being you know, a problematic person for yourself for the Ummah and even for your relatives and now Muslims. So take it easy, take it, take it easy for them

was the adequate if you want to correct someone, it depends. And I told you this many times. So listen, the IRS said ruderal ala sabini Rebecca Bill Hekmati. We'll move a little Hasina with Dylan bility awesome. Listen to this ayat. Give dower to your Lord, to your Lord. Not to shake Roby not to your madhhab not to your Masjid not your Imam stop this stuff. Not to yourself. Not to your flicker in your idea, not to this group, give Dawa to Allah and if you're giving Dawa to Allah, you're gonna

recognize you're not the only one in the masjid. You will not the only one in the masjid. So don't be coming to the Imam talking about where Maliki and we don't do a man relax with that stuff. There are people who are here, knife and Shafi and new reverse and men and women.

So give Dawa to your LORD with hikma and Hickman is putting things in it right in the correct place.

So when you have to give Dawa to someone, it may be that you have to expose the person.

You have to expose them you have to expose this send them the mistake

so that the whole community will be aware of that. And it's not considered to be an Heba when you do that. So the Prophet was getting ready to pray something a lot of it was setting him and he was going to pray the janazah and then he stop. He said, does this man owe any money? They say yes, he says Salu I saw he become the new pray on it left.

When the people saw that they was like, wow, if you owe money or so on Priya janazah You better not owe any money. So they were preying off their bills and debts.

Another time he got rid of it pray. He said does this man owe money they say yes. To dare him to did him 56789 10 pounds. He owes two did him

Rasul Allah said another man said pray on him. Someone say Allah, Allah pay for him. I pay his debt.

So everybody knew who was in question.

Everybody knew that man was in question.

Someone does some send some crying his hand gets chopped off. Everybody saw it?

Everybody, but one of the names of Allah azza wa jal is a city in a city.

And Allah ha

ha You Karim? Sit tear.

Allah is

shy, in a way that buffets his modesty. He is Generous, and he is sitting here. He loves that you cover things up.

So you know someone he made a mistake, cover up his false. It's just between him and a lot. You don't have to expose him for that. You don't have to expose them for that. So it's going to deal is going to have to do with hikma hikma putting things in a proper place. There's a person conceal what happened.

And there's another situation you have to expose it.

And unfortunately, during our time

The Tao of the Kitab in the Sunnah, that people have the Kitab in the Sunnah as an Imam, Abu Tamia used to say, Atma sunnah are the most knowledgeable people about alcholic Allah and the other are Hammond NAS and the Hulk they are most Rama

so they know a lot of the best and he knows religion. So the people of the Sunnah have Rama on the creation, human beings, youngsters, elders, non Muslims animals because that's the Sunnah. Well, my Arosa naka de la Rahmatullah adenine. So what happened in our Dawa with dealing with people with Rama

what happened? What happened?

Yeah, share. Why can't we listen to our brother pothead? Why you why he's from us. The Masonic it's gonna benefit us, our children. Our last generation, why can't we? Well, first of all, he won't warn against Abu Hassan and Mata B. Yeah, but my mother don't know about abolhassan Mata B. We talked about

wall so he refused his brothers in in the UK, the Senate. He's why he's not set up because he refused them. He refused them because I'm gonna show when she refused them because they like you refute people. What's the problem?

Well, we have to have this thing enough since they've wrapped mo for ourselves, Rama for our babies. And I don't want to be funny here, but it's true. I want to mention names of crazy people like Kanye West. I don't want to mention his name Kanye West. But when there was a hurricane in America, Hurricane Katrina, in New Orleans, they left black people out to die. Kanye West came and said, George Bush don't like black people.

I still remember that. treating us like that. Chef, Chef. Why are you dealing with this situation? Don't you like us? Don't you like us? This is our brother from us. And the height of what he's doing is going to be big. It's going to be big. Don't give that kind of fatwa. Or maybe you don't like us or something. And it's not about being racist. It's about Come on. Scholar. You have knowledge you have to be able to weigh the benefits and the harms. Why you don't want us to listen to him.

Nothing for real.

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When they stretch

when some people stretch, they say Allahu Akbar, and things like that, is that from the Sunnah as now from the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu. What do you say to them, but there's nothing that prevents that in the religion. There is nothing that prevents that in the religion.

That Hadith that we mentioned about Abdullah, if now bass, or sulla, told him Salah when he was setting them wherever Stan first step would be let, if you seek help, seek help from Allah. So the person is getting up, and his back supine a lot and I'm doing that. So he's basically so Allah helped me with my situation. So he has a delille but the Prophet do that. No, he didn't do that. SallAllahu I didn't send him so there's nothing wrong but that is from the vicar of Allah, Allah.

Basically Allah He took the mountain to mountain middle Kulu but with the vigor of Allah, the heights of tranquil with the vicar of Allah, you get strength. And we gave that that was here before the Prophet salallahu salam from the dilemma from the Quran and the Sunnah, when a bee was approached by his daughter, Fatima, and Fatima said, I need a condom. And he helped because from the work I'm doing fine, even I be tolerant. I'm getting calluses. It's too much work.

Rasul Allah said, I come see you tonight.

He came in, knocked on the door. When he came in and Fatima Ali won the bed and it was sitting at the head of the bed and their feet without the Prophet sallallahu it was setting them guiding the bed and put his feet towards their feet. I'm a father in law. My daughter is married. I got wives I'm married. I ain't getting the bed like that with no man.

I don't care who he is.

Are you several money in my will? But you guys you guys. Can you see the optic and the visual? The love and the respect that they have for the nebi Salah he was sending belie Aleikum. Some of you have real good relationship with your father in law's I have a good relationship. My father in law died chef hasin from deja Kaduna me alive rock my pointer.

Father in law in Bristol. May Allah guide him to this Do you have good relationship with your father? Can you see sitting in the bed like that with your father in law? Anybody could do that. Put your hand up. Put your hand up if you could do that. Anybody?

Could you do that? If Prophet Muhammad was your father in law, put your hand up.

Some of you didn't put your hands up.

If Rasul Allah was your father in law, and he got into bed with you and your wife, could you handle that? Could you handle that? Of course we all can handle that. Put your right hand up, man left hand do to him and come on.

So we all could do that. So then it became really sad. He said, I'll give you something I'll tell you something better than having a condom.

If you say before you go to bed SubhanAllah 33 times and Hamdulillah 33 times Allah Akbar 34 times that it'd be better than a condom.

With the LEL when you do the vicar of Allah, it gives you strength, or Salah he's on the line. He was telling us to go multiple days I Isha said, we will see the normal two, three times three months and all we had were the two black things. We ate dates and drink water for three months and get russula pray Qiyamah lane.

And of course of a day he was dealing with all of the people all the what he was doing. Because the vicar of Allah gives you strength gives you strength. So if you have mixed martial artists and I want you to be all of you to be mixed martial gotta make the thicket of Allah and stuff like that to get extra strength to defend yourself. Okay 20 Tuffy behind the cutter sir evening Allah subhanho wa Taala and you were freaking out yeah can be Colima, you hit bow we are dark. Ha there was ALLAH who

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