40 Hadith of Two Words – 07 Hadith 5 – Dont Get Angry

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Have two words of the Nibi of Islam sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that we're trying to memorize up to 40 of them. And today is one of those Hadith that has stained your pocket has stained your mind. Because it will be a reoccurring situation we will always have to use this hadith for ourselves as well for people who are loved by us and close to us, then they'd be useful Allah who I knew set it up was approached by a man and one narration and the man said, Oh, Seanie give me advice. He went and asked the scholar, the elder, the one with experience for advice. And the Prophet told him sallallahu alayhi wa salam, last tip about don't become angry. He said, Okay.

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Give me some more. And he mentioned it three times. So Allah Allahu Allah, he was setting up none of the narration said that a man came and say God, also Allah, give me some advice and make it simple and to the point. He told that man like Tabitha don't become angry.

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And there are other narrations in terms of the reasons and incidence behind the statement like tangled up. This is from the July man al kalam of the NABI SallAllahu, alayhi, WA set it up. He said he was given the July man, and Callum the ability to say a few things, but it has a lot of meaning to it far reaching implications. He's the only prophet, he's the only Rasul Salawat. To lie he was cinema who it remained. He's the only one who had that ability. Every other Nabhi every other soul did not have that. He said, I was given five things no other Nibi was given. And one of them he said, July man, and kill him.

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Say a few words. But those few words, in this case, two words, but it has a lot of benefit. It has a lot of I can, it has a lot of add dad, these two words, these two words, will help a person to maintain his marriage. Because when a person becomes angry, you're going to be sorry, I don't know anyone who became angry. That type of anger that's destructive, the one that's haram, except that he was mad. He regretted it in some shape, form of fashion. Anger is going to cause the divorce to happen. Anger is going to cause a person to be fashion, he's going to not be successful at what he's trying to do. He's on probation at his job. And they're watching him and he gets angry and upset. He

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loses the job.

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Anger causes people to kill other people.

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And we can see here and just give examples of what we know in real life of people who lost their lives, sister, she wouldn't hurt a fly. But she became so angry and so enraged with jealousy and anger. She got the gun and shot her husband. She's not a murderer, unlike that. But the anger. Some of the things that we see back where we come from in some of the Muslim countries, where people were shooting people in the masjid some of the stories that are unbelievable, anger is a big musket. Because of anger, people start cursing, using language. Normally, they wouldn't, they wouldn't use it. They make shut them and a setback.

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You know, calling people outside of their names and so forth and so on. As it relates to the issue of anger is part of the DNA of Benny Adam Lowe, Tyler mentioned in the Quran that he has created mankind in the US and he took we've made them perfect for Murata now whom as well as Seth, he mean, we made them and we created him in perfection. And part of that perfection is that Benny Adam has anger. If you don't have anger, there's something wrong with you. You're from the melodica you're not a human being.

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And people are on different levels as it relates to how they deal with their anger, how they manage their anger, how their anger controls them and how it affects them. They are those people who can calm down and not move as a result of the anger. And then they are those people who cannot do anything except make is this land to the anger they totally absolutely submit to it. Who was sitting with us right now May Allah help us? May Allah help us. Anger is a big mascara. A shaytaan comes to Benny Adam from many doors for many doors. One of the most harmful doors is the door of anger. Because if he gets control of a person through the bag of anger, as this guy was said, anger is the

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jam man of

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All of the evil a brings all the evil together does that mean door? If you shaytaan gets you in this door, we are in trouble. May Allah azza wa jal help us to control our anger. I saw a few days ago on the internet, where the people were getting married, that came from Uzbekistan or something like that. And it was the day of the new guy, the one EMA and the girl was playing with her husband. Like, she's gonna give him the cake. And she was she was she was faking. And she went, like they got so mad, he slapped in front of everybody

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in front of everybody, her father, her brother, all of the people. That's a sign for anyone connected to that girl, in my opinion, to say, man, you're not taking my daughter. If you can't control yourself right here like that, then what's going to happen when you get my daughter home? So as a father who has daughters of the age to get married, I have to tell them, you're gonna get married sister. Don't get angry. Anger is a muscular.

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And that's why we have to say as we said many times we have brothers and I'm doing that they're into MMA they into working out stand strong, eating right, that's all good. But the prophet told the people SallAllahu it was sending to them and they said, should he be surah and Nima should d do let the young liquid enough so who end the ladder, but

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the one who cannot wrestle the people, this is not the strong one. But in fact, the strong one is the one who can control himself when he's angry. And it is difficult for some people and easy for others, the ones who Allah gave him Tofik May Allah azza wa jal you were gonna give us all the ability to control our anger. Then to be of Islam Salah What do you say to them? As mentioned in a lot of things about England brought a book that mentioned lot of things about Inga, the mahal or the place of anger, the place where is it getting your head? Is it in your knee, your ribs? Anger is in the heart, in the culture. The Prophet says Allah Allah who it was salam Allah in the Philippines

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muda in the first that first Adele call in Phil Jessie Muda, either facilidad festival Jessa dokolo Allah he'll CALB inside of your body is a morsel of flesh. If it goes right in, then the rest of the limbs are going to go right and he said, Verily, that limb is that morsel of flesh, that organ is your heart. If that anger encompasses a person's heart, it's going to affect everything it's going to affect his lease and it's going to affect the way he hears and understands is going to affect the way he sees and it's going to affect what he does as a result of the Inga being on top of him and inside of him. This hadith of the NABI SallAllahu Sallam for all of us especially for the youngsters

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from amongst us, the man came and say Ya rasool Allah oseni give me some advice. This shows as a youngster, a person who's inexperienced, the person who doesn't have a lot of knowledge, you should make it part of your business to ask scholars for you for advice. What do they think about you making this move or that move? What do they think about you making this decision or that decision? People have knowledge people older than you and they have more experience than you like this companion came in Lobby pleased with that also law give me a will see, give me some advice. So oh head who has experienced maybe he's not a scholar, but he's from the elders cut been cut better,

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Kabir. He's from the elders, you go to the elders, and you ask him, I want to get married to this family. I want to get married to this tribe. I'm gonna get married to a second wife. I want to go to Medina and start working than older person who has experience and Shala be able to help you have a knowledge be able to help you. Don't be the person who makes decisions on your own all the time. That's the point.

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If you get the advice of people who are the Ookla for karma, Inshallah, to start chemo HYAH Touka inshallah is better than being by yourself. So I will do I should be asking Allah azza wa jal not to leave any of us to our own selves and our whims thermocline for the blink of an eye. Because if you left if we are left to our own whims and desires is destruction. Concerning the issue of anger, this statement last titled up means a lot of things, but two things we want to bring to your attention is Sharla. Latifah don't become angry. One of the important meanings of it a is don't put yourself in this situation where you're being confronted with things that make you angry. Avoid those things.

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This is a person who is combative. You're always clashing with him. Saddam

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Do you always click this to minimize the amount of time you spend with him as brothers who hang out together, it is not permissible for you, you know that this thing gets on his nerves, it gets into his central nervous system. Don't make time each and wind him up knowing that he doesn't like that. Your wife doesn't like that. She doesn't like it. When you take the finger out of the refrigerator, and you just drink straight from the things he doesn't like it.

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And when you do it, you make her angry, and then it becomes a fitna, don't do it. Don't be a fitness, don't be a fifth time, and she should be the same way with her husband. So lads, that means don't put yourself in that position, where

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this thing is going to make you angry, you know, it's going to make you angry, so avoided, whatever it happens to be

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you a person who you can handle debates, you can handle someone disagreeing with you, then don't debate. Stay out of the arena of debating, and so forth is one second thing about laptops. This is important. The decisions the Mukhabarat the decisions that come as a result of anger in Islam, usually they don't count. Because Allah Azza Ramallah Rahim, the scholar said that anger is the Jamet of all evil, a brings together anger brings together all of the evil.

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opposite of that is Helen, being gentle Helene. They said Well, Helen is the jammy of all good.

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All good. So when people make decisions as a result of anger, usually in LA SNAM it doesn't count. So problem. The Nabhi for an example, some Allahu alayhi wa sallam said, lie to Allah Fie, it Aloka the divorce doesn't count when the man is extremely anger, angry. And that means he's Majnoon. It's not the other anger. If anybody here has been divorced, raise your hand if you've been divorced, raise your hand if you've been divorced. Nobody raised

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mashallah, there is no man who divorces his wife. And he's just sitting here cooled down saying, you know, you divorce now

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and never happens like that. It's because he's upset. He's upset and that's going to count. But it's the divorce when he is so angry and people come to him and say, Hey, man, you said this. He said, No, I didn't. I didn't say that. He doesn't know what he said. That one doesn't count. That decision in LS Nam doesn't count. He told us Allah Allahu alayhi wa salam Lai Yuk de Raju BNF. Name will who have banned

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the judge or any man should not judge between two people why you're angry. Don't judge between people why you're angry. Don't judge between people when you're hungry. Don't judge between people. When you are thirsty, when you're tired. Don't judge between people when you've lost your equilibrium. And when you become angry, you've lost your equilibrium. So that

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part of it means the decisions that people make Listen, there is no body who has his aka who when he became angry. He wanted to do something and he decided not to do it or something prevented him from doing it. Except that when he calmed down, he was grateful and happy that he didn't do that thing.

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And there's no one who did something. And he was angry, except that he was remorseful nag them he regretted it was regretful. So anger is one of those tremendously big and effective weapons of a shape fun.

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Much more can be said. But we want to get on to that Elijah of the anger from the authentic Sunnah of the Nibi of Islam sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Some of us have anger management issues. And you can hear these a hadith and you can know this what we're about to say very well, because we know what our shortcomings are. And yet we still have trouble with dealing with anger. And managing anger is not easy. Except for those people that Allah makes it easy for. So as that hadith said in the millennium, obita alum were enamel helmet dalam knowledge comes as a result of going out and getting it and acquiring it. And also being gentle and easy comes as a result of forcing yourself to be

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gentle and easy. Maybe you're just not like that naturally, but if you keep working on it and you keep working on it, you keep

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Working on it, the characteristic will become part and parcel of your personality. The muscular is the person who is just Muslim. And he says things like, I've always been angry. I've always had anger management and you can't teach an old dog new tricks. I'm never gonna come out that's the problem, You'll never change them. So we have to work on ourselves and make the jihad to knifes. And in which way, but the Prophet mentioned sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the Elijah of anger. At the top of the list is the vicar of Allah, the vicar of Allah,

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the vicar of Allah azza wa jal Allahu Taala mentioned in the Quran in the livina taco MMS, some time for many shape on to the Kuru for either whom mobile sea route and

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very those people who have the Taqwa of Allah and they feel Allah. If a shaytaan comes in touches them, they remember ALLAH and lo behold, they can see clearly in St. The great tab at St. Ibn Jubeir is someone you should go and familiarize yourself with is from the seventh fuqaha of the tabby mean, when you talk about Apple buckle, notice man and ally. He's up there like them as it relates to the tattooing. May Allah be pleased with the companions and pleased with those believers from the tab and even. He said the meaning of this is that those people who have Taqwa Yahama Allah, those people who have Taqwa if shaytaan touches them, they make the vicar of Allah and they can see straight he

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said, That's the man who becomes angry, and he makes the vicar of Allah. He starts to make the vicar, Allah Vivekananda he tucked in little CoLo.

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With the vicar of Allah, the hearts become trinco the heart where the anger is hosted, comes down

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from the vicar is making the st either Billahi Subhana wa Taala from the vicar number two is making this the either the last three serves of a Khurana class and the more the more the more aware the team. Those three servers are important. After every prayer he used to say in multiple times before going to bed he used to saying they benefit so many things, so many benefits from the aim benefits from has it benefits from Westwater so many benefits? So many benefits. The Prophet was sitting in the presence of two min Sallalahu it was sent him and he started arguing and they started cursing each other. And one of them became super duper angry, very angry. His neck started to swell. His

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veins came out his color changed.

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Rasul Allah was watching them and he said to the people in Nila Island Kenny mutton lo kala holida I know my Yejide lo con Ruby let him in his shaytaan regime, let they have annual magic. He said I know a word. I know something that he could say. If he says it, that anger that thing he's going through is going to disappear and dissipate. All he has to do is say I will be let him in his shaytani regime. That easy. That simple. That easy in that simple. That's all he has to say it. Even if it's not in his heart, it's not in his head, just by saying it the shape Time runs away. So the Prophet used to make an sp either biller only, he will make this the either with the Kitimat of

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Allah and one of the refutations of the Inman Kalam peoples that the Quran is the kalam of Allah, if you make it the other seek that type of help from the newbie who's dead the same as dead, the melodica people can help you that should come biller he should come biller. We're living in a time right now where I will omit doesn't know what ship kids in danger. And if you gave him an example to show them the danger of a ship, that people look at you as being inappropriate and what you're saying that people will look at you. So as the speaker as the khateeb as the teacher, you have to talk to the people based upon the level of what they understand is going to be problems.

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russula too taught us a Ruby kedi Mantilla at Tamat min Cherie MacKillop anyone who says this dua when it comes to any place the masjid his job, what the shaytaan won't be able to harm him while he's there for that time until he gets something goes.

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He used to make that dua for his children seeking refuge in them from the ain and Shavonne and rodents and the scores and so forth so on. So he told the people if that man says this, The anger will

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disappeared, and it would go away. Number three was the Elijah of anger. The lodge of England. 20 is just to be quiet, don't talk. He says sallallahu alayhi wa sallam either ledyba.com fell yes coat. If any of you become angry, be quiet, don't talk. Don't say anything.

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Don't say anything. Now with these mobile phones that we have, for those of us who are married, or we have a misunderstanding with people around us, and you become upset, and then you start recording your message, and you're angry, and you send that message, the message is going to be a problem.

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No one ever sent the message in anger, and then saw that the person didn't see it. And then they erased it, except that that benefited him. Except that he said he learned in sin that because when you send that kind of message, it's going to ignite a fire, it's going to make the problem bigger. That is not the way to deal with it. You become angry, don't texts, don't text, don't call, don't talk, just be quiet.

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Just be quiet. And if the person is still there, like the woman whose ankle is not as she wants you to talk and she's just standing there making you trying to talk and you just don't talk to her. She'll start to fill at some point. If she keeps trying to talk and you're not talking, something's wrong with her, and she'll leave you alone inshallah. But if she doesn't leave you alone, then it's the next point because some of them won't leave you alone.

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Some of them won't leave you alone. And the brothers who laughing they know what I'm talking about. Getting to your central nervous system.

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The fourth thing to do to stop the anger is change your position. Take a year. Okay, my man. You're right.

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To hear how whatever condition you find yourself on, change your condition. And even I mean, Taalib is a Waleed from the ODM of Allah. And he's the greatest judge of this ummah, from the Companions as the Prophet says Allah Allah who it was set it up, and he is the biggest judge of my ummah up the Ummah, T Ali, you bunny Abby Tada

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I will book is more knowledgeable than him. I'm not as more knowledgeable than him. Earth man is more virtuous than him. But in terms of alcohol and judging, it was the judge. But he had a disagreement with the daughter of the NABI sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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And she was the first one from his family members who met him after he died. Salah while he was selling them she got out of his dunya no more of the Hmong men that come in the MS shackle of the dunya said Nima Mina, Allah that she met up with her father, not very long after he died, she didn't have to spend a lot of time in her life after losing her Habib Sallalahu. It was

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those two got married, and he became angry with his wife. What did he do? He left the house, change the condition, left the house, women to the masjid and lay down in the dirt.

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Lay down in the dirt. The Prophet says sallallahu alayhi wa sallam a they're ready but a Docomo who were caught in fell yet jealous. If any of you are angry, and you get angry and you're standing up, then sit down. He said if the anger goes away, it goes away. And if it doesn't go away, and you're sitting down, then lie down.

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On the lay, the prophet knew what he was talking about SallAllahu it was seldom able to take him and others from the real AMA. They said that the wisdom from that is again, the place of the anger is in your heart, and the heart is in control of all of your lens. If you sit down if you lie down your Rindy your limbs incapacitated inshallah the one who's lying down is not going to pick up an iron and throw it because he's lying down. He's not going to get the gun from under the wherever it is and shoot anybody because he's lying down.

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So change your position change your position from that as well is to try to struggle to be from the Mercy meaning that people have sand and lsn as we mentioned many times and the Hadith of Jabril What is Islam? What is an E man? And what is it saying? A lesson is to worship Allah as though you see him and although you don't see Allah, Allah sees you. So your thing is, I'm angry right now. And I have to feel Allah. I have to not concentrate on

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Hey, what's going on with the people? I have to fit Allah and see that this is a challenge. This IP de la This is a fitna if the bottom the hand and you're from those people from the Mercy Nene, and the reward for the Mercy Nina's on another level yo mukaiyama. In the case of anger, the Prophet mentioned something Allahu alayhi wa ala it was salam min Kevin Raven Hua Hua ka do you know nada and Yuna fiddle? Di hula Huhtala yo Mo, Qiyamah, Hatha Yoga Euro who fee a yield 40 shot, anyone

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who becomes angry, and he has the ability to execute and to demonstrate his anger, he has the ability to scream out, to curse to swear, to fight to grab, to punch to hurt,

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he has a car and he has road rage. Road rage is gonna mess his car up, and he's gonna mess other people's cars up. He's gonna hit pedestrians, buddies, so Majnoon at that point, he doesn't care. His thing is, I'll deal with that later. He's not even thinking he will run someone off of the road. I've seen that I'm the highway on the motorway. Anyone who becomes angry, and he has the ability to manifest it, to demonstrate it to execute it. But he holds it back. He doesn't do it. He controls it. Y'all know pm Allah is going to call out to him. And he's going to allow him to choose any of the fertile rain that he wants in front of all of the people. Because of his son, he gets the reward

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of Allah has a son.

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The ayat of the Quran, describe the Mercy mean in the Quran.

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And many, many AI he mentioned about them Subhanahu wa Taala Allah Dena young fit Kula fissara Daraa II will carry me metal rave, while phenol and NAS Wallah who you have seen in those people's spin out of their money, their wealth, that's saying they don't have to do that. That's in addition to the zakaat. Every time something happens there spinning money, and those people who they spin in good times and in difficult times, and the caffeine and rave, those people control their anger. Well I feel nice and those people give awful when a pardon and forgive people. Allah loves those people who are the Mercy mean.

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So the one who controls his anger is a person of sand. If if he's doing it for Allah sake, you're doing it for Allah sake. Allah mentioned last if that we want to mention one lady, any attorney Bula Quebec, FM well, for waggish wherever Mr. Reddy bow home, your Pharaoh, the Mercy Nene. They are those people who they avoid the major sins, and they avoid the for whitefish, and if they become angry, they forgive people they overlook. They forgive people. So all of this anger that we've been mentioning up into this point is the anger that is Damn, it doesn't help the Toby of the kid. The kid will grow up saying to his brothers and sisters, I hate my dad.

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I hate him.

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Because he's a madman.

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He was dealt with in a rough and tough way. And he's dealing with us rough and tough way. The father comes home every day, fine. 530. But he's late, and he didn't get home by seven. The kids are happy hoping he wasn't a crack city.

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Because He's so mean and rough and tough. It doesn't help in the therapy of the kids. Anger is the jack of all evil. And the opposite is Helen. That dad who was gentle, easy, not necessarily a pushover, but he's gentle, nice, easy. This is the one who he's supposed to be home 555 30 And it's seven o'clock. They start saying Mom, Mom, where's dad at what what's going on? Where's our father? They start to worry.

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So that's the anger that is haram. As for the other anger, there is an anger that is Whadjuk there is an anger that is legislative our mother I issue may Allah be pleased with a describe the NABI SallAllahu it was setting them and she said about him kind of like it kind of lagging TOCOM the Neff see what I can even to He cut her Ramallah in Tacoma and Allah rasool Allah would never take revenge never become angry for his own self. But if one of the hurt

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Do love Allah is something in the religion was compromised, then he would become angry for Allah. So the Prophet told the people so Lola who it was said, Whoever loves so Allah sake and hates for Allah sake becomes angry for Allah sake, man, Bill Allah will Abacha Lilla will tell them that women AllAfrica district Mala Eman,

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love for Allah pay for Allah become angry for Allah give for Allah you don't get from Allah your Eman is complete. Your Eman is complete. So there's an anger in LA slang. When the NABI sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in that hadith of

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son Eben who naif and I'm in a Rabi may Allah be pleased with them when he gave him the evil eye because he praised them without making dua for Baraka.

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When he saw me, he looked at armor, and he looked at the people and he looked at the armor, and he became angry, they said, and then asked a question and I'm yet to come.

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Why would one of you kill your brother and he was rough he was he was angry. Because the man didn't say Baraka, Luffy Bartok Allah Li, and he almost killed the man from giving him the evil eye. And he asked Allah MA Yes to the con

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man Rahman FC he O'Malley he was he may or Gible familia de Roda who build Baraka, he was angry.

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Why the Blue Devil, pray with the people when he pray very long Surah to Bukhara

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and that people can handle it. And some of them got out of the line and left the salah. And then there are those people who don't want to come to the masjid and they are those people don't want to hear that football because every time is fighting people they don't want to hear the dour and they don't want to practice it anymore because LA see it's fighting and fighting and fighting

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the knifes many doors for shape on the come in. Not just anger your hammock Hola. There's the door of looking for an excuse. I'm weak. And I'm looking for justification to stop practicing anyway. So I see that practice and people all they do is argue with one another. This is not true. I don't have time for that. No. So people do things that run the people away from the religion. And the Nebby became angry with the Blue Devil. Some of the companions who not really valued said we never saw him as angry.

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As he was on that day. His face became red. It became read and he said to my the fifth turn on and try three times. Are you a fitna maker yamadayev. You will fitna maker. Are you a fitna maker

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in the FIE community fearing some of you run people away from the religion the way you are praying all of that time. Some people pray for a long time. Some people rough and tough with the people. Some people that Dow is that dow of nastiness. You run the people away from the religion. She's not wearing the hijab, no problem. It is an issue. She needs dollars she needs not say hi, she needs a 10 b She needs to take care all of that. But not in a rough and tough, condescending, nasty way. disrespectful way, somebody showed me he is someone who doesn't have problems. Somebody showed me here someone who doesn't have problems. So some from someone from our community is praying pm late.

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That is who he is. So now he meets up with you. And he finds that you don't pray it at all. How would you feel if he were to talk to you like that? You're gonna say man, first of all, it's not wet. You don't talk to me like that. Second of all, I'm not a child. Don't talk to me like that. Then why do you talk to other people? Remember this, remember this? As we do, it'd be done unto us. If you have access to the people live it sound to you.

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Be gentle with people, people in sha Allah azza wa jal have Allah azza wa jal Bian Helene with them. So, the point here is, is the ended as permissible they described him so Allah who it was set it up in the top Abba Rasul Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, Allah Soto who wish the devil double who murdered it now. If he gave a hotbar he will raise his voice sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. If he gave a hookah, his eyes will become red with anger. If he gave the hotbar his anger would increase as if he was warning the people of an impending army that was coming and was going to pounce upon them. That's the anger that is permissible. In the deen of Allah subhanahu wata Allah. Allah mentioned

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In the Quran concerning Musa Raja Musa Illa call me he rabanne Asifa. Musa winter meet Allah azza wa jal. Allah gave him the parchments. Allah spoke to him what Kalam Allah Who Musa to crema spoke to him in a way that Tillich will be July Letty spoke, doesn't speak like the human being. But he spoke to him. When Musa return from the meeting, and he saw Benyus, Raja eel and they were worshiping the AGL. He returned, and Musa was angry. And Asifa he was in sorrow to see what if people did, hey, you people just stay right here. Allah saved us from frown. He sent me I don't have an army, me and my brother, and he saved us, came to the Red Sea and destroy the enemy. Now let me go get the

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instructions. You stay right here. Hi, Ron, you take care of them. You watch over them. You are my narrative in my absence, and he went, and miracles happened there. Miracles.

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When he came back, he found that people out of all things making should come Billa and he told us Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam, you people are going to follow the people who went before your hands for them by hand span, arm span by arm spread to the point that they go into lizards hold, you're gonna go into that. And this is how they said it. Well, you mean the Jews and the Christians? He said were Mennonites, who else am I talking about?

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quickly it went up, they started making shift and look at our community right now. Again, I repeat, a person says For an example, as shidduch is the worst sin that you can possibly commit. And you can go on and give examples of the new Benassi. But you have to give the generic ones and I do respect that you have to watch your audience you got to read the room. You start giving examples. If the person killed 100 people, if a person with a burn down 1000 messages, if the individual did this did that did that? All of that Allah can forgive that if you make Toba but if you make schicke, Allah won't forgive you.

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So if someone gave the worst thing you can possibly think of as a sin. Now you have to be careful where you said and when. But as people have a towhee we shouldn't have a problem with that. That's the reality. That's how big and severe shift is. So our community is making shift right now. And people think it is towhee and people think it is the Sunnah. So Allahu Taala mentioned as it relates to Musa he came back he told her people called bit Samar, Calif to Mooneyham embody terrible thing that you people done after I went in my absence. And then what did he do?

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Allahu Taala said, well, Elka Urwa will ever be Ross. He up your Judo Ma.

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Melissa came down with what Allah revealed to him. He saw what happened. And he threw the ry that were revealed and they broke

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what Allah cinta him revealed to him and it broke. That thing is this. The thing that Allah gave him a smoker This is from Allah. He threw it down in anger. And then he grabbed his brother by the head. And his brother said don't don't do that I was weak. They were gonna try to kill me.

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Anger. Now I'm not here to say Musa did bad Salawat Allah He was sent me who I am. But it goes to show what we mentioned, I doubled up,

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like toughened up, stay away from things that make you angry, lad tough decisions that are made when you're angry, they don't count in the religion.

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So that kind of anger. If someone took the Quran, and he flung it across the room because he was angry.

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The Quran was there and he kicked it because he was angry. That's an action of coffee.

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That's an action of coffee for person did it intentionally. Like we saw people taking cocaine now a comma Kamala when he broke into some masjid, and they were doing cocaine on the Quran? If it was real or not. They was that's what they were acting like they were doing Allah knows best. That's ko from Billahi ko from Billahi. But someone did that out of extreme anger. He's angry. A person comes and says, Yes, he was so less and like covered up. He says, Get out of here with that nonsense. Am I trying to hit you? When Rasul Allah get out of here? He didn't mean it. That's Cofer.

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So just as Musa threw that thing down, you don't go outside of Islam. When you say

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Do something due to extreme happiness.

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Allahumma you're my slave and I'm your Lord doesn't count

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from being too happy. He said that extreme anger. He does something divorce, says, Cofer. It doesn't count. It doesn't count. So Musa anger is the anger of

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what's natural and human beings when we see Moon cut offs and so forth so on. But I would like to say, when we do see those things, we have to take it easy Inshallah, and it's okay to be angry. But don't let your anger impact upon your Dawa to the person. Lastly, don't be of the people who you believe that your anger is for Allah, but your anger is for your knifes is for you. It's not for Allah. Because if your anger was for Allah, you would deal with people who are a bit differently, you will give people excuses. And you'll give people reasons and you have personal vision, and you'll give them opportunities to make Toba and you will give them opportunities to make

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restorations. Opportunities to make Mirage is to, to recant and to change the position. But you don't do that.

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You use the worst language. Some of us use the worst language, superlatives and descriptions and actions in our Dow when we see people doing things, and that's a sign that's a sign of Jehan. And it's a sign of lack of sincerity, lack of sincerity. And I want to mention this because I believe people should hear it. Recently, our brother Mohammed hijab said some real

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greasy, greasy and appropriate things about a set fee and set a few people really breezy. Like getting a set of figure to Hinduism and things like that. When in reality is set a fee able to write meaning is Al Islam and Mustafa's. puresmile It's true Islam

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and people call to it correctly. I'm not calling people to their children or other than their children, not calling them to anything to do with Hinduism. You also mentioned about Mohammed bin Abdul Wahab in a way that was disrespectful and I do agree and acknowledge there are some people who if you criticize a Sheikh Mohammed Abdul Wahab is sacrilegious, sacrilegious, and then the same people have the nerve to come and tell the audience what we all know. And that is a statement of Imam Malik was that Imam Malik statement was only my Malik statement.

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And Imam Malik said everyone who speaks his statements are accepted or rejected acceptable.

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Except the Nibi Salah Why do you sell them Abu Bakr If man Rama, Ali, everybody statements are accepted or rejected, except the Nabhi of Islam sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. That means by default, everyone, an Imam Malik statements are accepted or rejected.

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And definitely a Sheikh Mohammed Abdul Wahab. So what that brother said in describing his beneficial book is unacceptable, unacceptable. But I become so angry that I call him a xindi.

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NASA, that's a big caveman, as indique

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and Unbeliev that the person made, he's a cashier. I don't believe that. I don't believe that. He uses indique from the nidecker at the jail from the judge Ella

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and animal Hadith. That's how they call some people don't mean that he's a non Muslim. He's just prolific in Lyon, and his evil is Musa tear. And it could mean that the person is a Catholic could mean but I don't think the person meant that

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Zen dick for saying that? No, he he's confused. Muhammad hijab about set a fear and if he stays in his lane, he'll continue to benefit our Ummah and learn about a Salafi in the religion and stop attack and set a fear.

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We all have been oppressed by Muslims but that does not give us the right to criticize al Islam. We criticize what people have done. So they share hidden Kedem is don't let your anger go overboard and don't be a person who has a vote or an angry for Allah. This is a sign up come on Eman Nyathi, your angers because of your his but your anger is because of your country. You're having anger is because of your centrism that you're on and that you're apart.

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on. So in concluding and closing, we asked Allahu Taala for his McPheeters for all of us and the guy these two are too afraid of each other and wasting all of his time wasting all of his time wasting all of his time, personalities and all of this madness. And may Allah Allah help us all to be of those people who have our anger in control, especially the people from the very big clan See, I mean Suparna Colombo behind indica why shadow Allah ilaha illa and iStockphoto Tubu LA was Santa Monica Mara to La he Roberto cattle