Abu Bakr Zoud – What Has Happen To Our Brotherhood for Allah #02

Abu Bakr Zoud
AI: Summary © The conversation covers the importance of strong faith in one's relationship and avoiding confusion and distraction, emphasizing the need to clean one's heart and purify it to avoid becoming confused and distracted. The speakers stress the importance of showing one's love for someone and maintaining healthy relationships, as well as the negative impact of wearing a shirt sleeve and the potential for shirt sleeves to become "by the way" in dressing. forgiveness and acknowledging the potential danger of shirt sleeves are also discussed.
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Smilla Rahmanir Rahim

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Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen

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Alhamdulillah Hello bill I mean are salatu salam ala Rasulillah ala alihi wa sahbihi Germaine, all prison thanks belongs to Allah subhanho wa Taala and may the peace and blessing of Allah be upon His servant and final messenger Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam as follows My dear respected Brothers and Sisters in Islam as Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.

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And you do not know Allah how much this gathering and gathering is for the sake of Allah azza wa jal

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excite a person and we ask Allah azza wa jal that this gathering is for his sake and that we earned his pleasure as a result. Whenever he salAllahu alayhi wa sallam you all know that he mentioned Mr. Ma Coleman fee bathe in nimbu Tila at LUNA Kitab Allah He were to del Asuna Hubei home learners at Attallah Hema Sakina while she had toma Rama Halford tamale Malika to Cara whom Allah Who female render in the vessel Allahu alayhi wa sallam he said, Mr. Morocco Moon fee beta nimbu delay any kind of people, if a group of people were together with one another in the houses of Allah azza wa jal, that's the condition Marittima Coleman. First condition is a group of people he baited nimbu to lay

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in a house of the houses of Allah subhanho wa Taala wherever it is, yet Luna Kitab Allah this is the third condition they recite the book of Allah subhanho wa Taala way after doubt, Asuna who been home and they study the word of Allah azza wa jal among themselves yet Tao rasuna home and Kalamata Madras will Madras is it used to be a tool that the long time ago in ancient time they used to use this tool to grind to grind the seeds. So yet the devil rasuna who as though they are, they are opening the meanings of the Ayat of Allah azza wa jal grinding these meanings so that they understand what Allah azza wa jal wants from them yet Adel rasuna Hubei GNOME, what is the result

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and what is the reward Allah azza wa jal in the recent Allahu alayhi wa sallam he says Illa Meza la Tada hemos Sakina except that Allah subhanho wa Taala bestows upon them he Sakina is tranquility and if Allah azza wa jal is tranquility was to descend what does this mean? It means that Amen increases Angela Sakina Palooka meaning and he is dead. Amen and my email him if the tranquility has descended that means the man has increased that's number one gift. And then he said some Allahu alayhi wa sallam when she had two more Rama that are Rama covers them because she had to meaning to cover. Jani. It's like a blanket of mercy is spread upon each and every single person that is in the

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gathering. And if Allah azza wa jal is mercy is bestowed upon us. That means the hatred and the enemity and the jealousy that is within our hearts towards each other is gone. The need for love so jealous mercy envelops you. There is no more room for ill feelings that are in your heart, they go away as well. Now say the Dalai Lama Sakina Hershey atoma, Rama will have fertomid Mela Eega the angels the they rub shoulders with them. And if the angels are present among us, and sitting between us, that means there is no room for sheltering the devils they end up going and leaving and they do not exist between us by

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law who femenina the fourth grand prize is that Allah subhanahu wa taala would make a mention of them among the high ranking angels that are with him that imagine into by name, you are mentioned.

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But before the angels that are with Allah subhanho wa Taala by name I give gives you this so you can honor this meta and understand how huge this is, you know if there was a group gathered, and then I was to walk past this group and someone said, Allah, we were just speaking about you now how it excites me it makes me a little bit happier when people are speaking about me, and that this is humans in this world are speaking about me and one decided to say Allah we were just speaking about your half an hour later I get happy and excited. For imagine now to know that Allah azza wa jal himself is the one who is mentioning you by name among the high ranking angels. These are a few

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gifts that are mentioned in this hadith other ahaadeeth mentioned other gifts for the person who comes to the masjid listens to listen, praise. And hack is just in the masjid, that each and every single one of us that leaves the evening Allah He to Allah, Allah social would say to the angels that for for the people, after they sit in a masjid in a gathering and they hear about Allah Azza Zhen, Allah Azza Zhen would say, all of you once you go and you leave my

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home, all yours

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have been forgiven and they just to sit in the masjid. This is one of the gifts for my brothers and sisters in Islam Understand, when you visit Allah azza wa jal, his house, you do not leave empty. You do not leave empty and you know, in this worldly life, if I was to visit someone, or someone invited you to your house or to his house, when I'm invited to someone's house or someone's invited to someone's house, yet you come out full, you come out full, a person would invite you, He'll feed you, right food, and then drinks and then sweets. And he'll speak to you he moves he gives you gifts you something how do you shakes your hand? You discuss matters you enjoy your time, after three,

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four hours you leave his house, and you're satisfied that humbling, that was awesome visit it was awesome. Get together. And then you go back home and and you're satisfied. You're asked Belinda, do you think if you were to come to Allah's house, that you're going to leave empty handed, and that he will not satisfy your heart and your soul with the goodness impossible. 100% every time you come to beat bla bla social is the most generous more than anyone that can invite you to his house. If you understand the need for why he was supposed to come to a masjid, but there are grand prizes and gifts that are handed out for each person that sits in and Masjid according to how much you sit,

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what you learn what you do, what select you attend, what vicar you do, what God to Quran you do, what kind of love you show for your brother, all of this while you're in the masjid, Allah azza wa jal is feeding is feeding your heart feeding your soul.

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It's all happening the gifts are coming. This is mineral, mineral, economic or book, Allah azza wa jal, the most generous. Always keep this in mind when you visit Allah's house. When you visit a law's house and he is the one who invited you. You're going to leave a masjid Ghana with bags with bags with bags of gifts you just can't see them. But wait be patient on the Day of Judgment you'll see it all. When the man would increase was sekedar is coming down when Malaika with you will forgiveness is there. Masha? Allah, Allah azza wa jal, his gifts to mankind are endless. Please keep this in mind when you come to the masjid my brothers and sisters in Islam. And all I had a very

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difficult decision to make today thinking what am I supposed to speak about? Should I continue the topic that we started with on Wednesday and that was what has happened to our brotherhood in Islam and the love that we're supposed to have for each other for the sake of Allah azza wa jal, between that topic and between Hopital Juma which was yesterday and that topic, and the I need to continue that topic, speaking about the corruption in society, and how does it develop and what is the fourth stage of it, because in the hotma, we discussed the three stages about the people doing the immoral action, and then after this, they normalize it in society. And then after this, they ascribe it to

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Allah, it becomes a law, it becomes religion. And then what is the fourth stage after this, which is the stage in where normal people now become confused, they think they're doing something wrong, when they see those that are doing the morality out, expose them out about in society, they think now they are that they are wrong, and these people are right. And the topic continues in sort of an hour often it's very long for them after Jani discussing with a few of our Close Brothers, and making us the hot Allah azza wa jal guided us eventually. And if you ask Allah azza wa jal that he gives any success in this manner to continue the Wednesday night. Listen, duty, it's important and that is

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what has happened to our brotherhood and the love that we are supposed to have for each other as believers, right. So we're going to be in a dialogue continue in this matter.

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And Yanni, let us first begin with something that is gonna have a common problem that will take a problem and we'll sort it we'll deal with it, you know, maybe some things that I'll say will upset you, right. But at the end of the day, what I say to you, and what advice I give you be the law hitter, Allah it doesn't come away from Quran and Sunnah. And as much as sometimes it could hurt someone to hear him, which means it's become really irrelevant for him. You need to know that that's the same advice I would expect for myself if I was to fall into such a problem with someone as well, right? But this is one standard advice for all the believers and this is Allah socials word. Don't

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be interested in people's would always be interested in Allah azza wa jal his word, because Allah azza wa jal is the one who created us. And for me to be guided on a certain manner. I want to hear what my Creator said, right? This is always the case, because when Allah talks, he talks with certainty. Yeah, and he don't even think of anything else. This is the only solution. And this is something that makes the Quran unique and special. That when he addressed mankind when Allah addressed mankind, He tapped into

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emotions into their feelings into their faults into their ideas into their understandings into their dealings, everything with certainty as well. Can you just know you will never read Allah's word. And it concludes in your heart as maybe, maybe not, you'll never you'll never have this as opposed to every other person that offers a book Allah azza wa jal spoke the plan, but the other books that are written on Earth, they're all offered written. The author himself is a weak man is a weak person, he writes, according to his limited knowledge and experience of people and he writes when he can't, sometimes he's relevant to you, sometimes he's not relevant. Sometimes what he writes connects with

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us most of the times it doesn't check in the law, social when he discusses a matter, cause and that's it. Here it is, just blindly follow it. Because this is words from your Creator, it cannot go wrong. If you do not connect with it, that means one of two things, either the word is wrong, or either you're the one that's has something in your heart. Definitely Allah's word cannot be wrong woman or stock woman Allah hippy land on a Stockholm in Allah Hadith that who will speak more truth than Allah azza wa jal, so therefore, the only problem lifted you there is something in your heart. There's some kind of seal on your heart that is not allowing your heart to have this negative to the

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Quran. So you need to cleanse yourself clean your heart, purify the heart, and then bring allah how soldiers would you'll find that magnetic effect Bismillah he dialer. So there is something a frieze that is said from time to time from person to person. And this phrase is no good. And this phrase is repeated by many people, whenever they are invited to an event, where there is going to be a gathering of brothers, or a gathering of sisters.

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Whether they are invited to a masjid, or they are invited to a function, or a gathering any of the soul.

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Some continuously repeat a freeze, that is contrary to what Allah azza wa jal told us. And that is, you're inviting me to such and such event. But there are a few people there, I don't want to see

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there are a few hits over there. I do not want to see therefore, therefore, therefore, I don't want to come. Why? Because there are certain Muslims over there. There are certain brothers over there that I do not want to see. So what does this mean? And how does this fit into the Islamic understanding of brotherhood? How does it fit into the Islamic understanding of brotherhood and the love was supposed to have for one another? My Brothers and Sisters in Islam if a Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said that if we were to pray, and then there was a gap in the line, Shavon enters, Shavon enters. And if there's a one centimeter two centimeter gap, less than that,

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in the masjid, while praying, a Shavon enters between you and your brother.

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So, imagine now, when there is a distance of kilometers, between you and your brother, outside and masjid and you are not concerned to rectify and resolve this, what is going to happen? You allow Shayateen to enter not one shape on, shape into into, and don't underestimate the effect of a shape on and what he does to mankind. Something so small, could become blown into something huge, and you have no idea how it got there.

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You will have no idea how it got there. This is why the believers were commanded by Allah azza wa jal in the Malmo miuna. When Allah stated that fact that believers are brothers to each other, Allah azza wa jal immediately said fell asleep Robaina Hawaii comb, rectify and reconcile between your brothers. But the point here is this letter fat fat. Fat means immediately Hurry up, Rush and reconcile between your brothers. You see these fat heads in fact, they keep otherwise they could have been other two letters that could have been used, could have been in them and won't be known at one for mostly Albina Ahikam. Later on, reconcile lacking that wasn't the case. He's not my words.

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These are a last words.

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Were lost JAL in the Quran is teaching us how to maintain brotherhood and love for each other.

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He said that the believers are brothers to each other. We already discussed this last time and we said it implies that it is an obligation and that it is only between Muslims and Muslims I believe and a believer that's that's all brotherhood can only exist among these two types of people that he said far have been welcome

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Slidell, Minnesota rectify reform reconcile between your brother's tequila. He said Fear Allah, as though you are the one who has Taqwa. He's the one who's going to rush to reconcile. This is going to be a measure, the one who has, you can keep your hands in cold water and your feet in cold water, no problems this person will definitely reconcile. And the motive for Him to reconcile is going to be his top of Allah and the one who doesn't. And he's lazy, and sit back and gives it day after day and continues to give it these and doesn't care about his relationship between his brother doesn't even think what what is my brother thinking now that I have left him or abandoned him or not

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speaking he doesn't even think like this. And then all of a sudden he just convinces you know, it's been four or five days Hello fellows leave it's gone.

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Allah says the one who doesn't have Taqwa of Allah will keep going down that path. And three days of abandoning and boycotting would become four and five and six months and he will just continue and as it goes in it grows problems go and grow and become smaller. What Allah La La come to her moon, so that you may earn Allah azza wa jal is mercy He Allah is teaching us how to earn his mercy, rectify, reconcile, and you will earn Allah's Mercy both of you Subhan Allah for this word of there are a few brothers some hits I don't want to see Don't ever bring this on your tongue.

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Don't ever allow it to cross your mind. These are words that are not recommended in the Quran. What you imagine Can you ever imagine? So however, being invited to so hobbies house of being called to a masjid or being called to wherever it is, and he's saying, there's someone that I don't want to see him? Can you ever imagine this happening amongst the harbor?

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Manabi Sala Maharana you're setting them I already told you from the beginning when he first came to Medina. The first job he established after building and Masjid was to establish brotherhood among the companions of Sahaba El Mirage he did well on soil.

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Land, we know we need to solve it. Now we need to cement this and solidify the idea and establish the idea of brotherhood. And then he would come for a sniffle Bina Hawaii, AECOM, an ad would come down to reinforce the idea of brotherhood with mustard will select next to each other is reinforcing the idea of brotherhood and

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and every single day, there's a reminder about brotherhood in Islam, on the tongue of the messenger, sallAllahu, alayhi wasallam with a tag if he's giving the people whether it's an A is resigning to people, that's how Muslim women are supposed to live.

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So, you say, I don't want to see there are people I don't want to see, who do you want to see then? Who do you want to see

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people that you've been working with for the last 3040 years? You want to see her people on the street that you have no idea who they are? Who do you want to see not only these Muslims here here, or wherever they are, this event that did you didn't want to go to all this Masjid you don't want to go to because of these brothers are the the same people you want them to pray when you die

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for them to pray upon you. And think the same people you want them to remember you know,

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I think the same people you would wish if someone could do your homework on your behalf, and mention you in good amount after your death. And the MVVM the very same people that you said, there are some people I don't want to see. And these the same people you want them to be the future there's a

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fool yourselves.

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A Muslims relationship with his brother is a lifelong relationship. And it is so sacred and honored that it even continues on the Day of Judgement. When Allah azza wa jal says, Let yolmer Even bow boom the bobbin I don't clean that every single relationship on Earth, every single relationship will be destroyed on the Day of Judgment, it will end it was discontinued. Allah in this ayah Allah azza wa jal mentioned the highest form of relationship. He said if he let

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you know what he means.

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It means the highest form of relationship because there is a fee. There is severe there is Sahib. There's a lot of words. Allah did not say Allah saya. Yo may even Baba homely Baba and I do know the highest form of relationship, which is a key lead.

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And this is the same thing that Ibrahim alayhi salam was described as he was Helene Allah. Allah Who Ibrahima kalila Hello

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Elan, this word Khalil means friend. But in terms of degrees, it is the highest form of friendship. Everything else comes underneath the highest form is clean. Right? Then after is solid. And this is why in the Allahu alayhi wa sallam had us had, he had us had, because he's Helene was Allah azza wa jal and he said if I was to take a saline other than Allah He would have been Abubaker lobby Allahu Anhu however, his heart was full with Allah subhanho wa taala. They brought him Allah He said I was Helene Allah, the highest form of friendship, when it comes from the word hon, will help me into

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vinegar and Holly's vinegar. And you know, what, what is the relationship between this highest form of relationship and vinegar? You see, because vinegar takes a long time for it to be vinegar if you were to leave it in its natural process. So first, it's whatever it is you make of a juice, and then you leave it for a while becomes alcohol. And then you leave it for a long time after uncle it becomes vinegar of vinegar is Khaled vinegar only becomes vinegar after it was alcohol. But it takes a long time. And Helene is someone who has a long deep relationship with a person. He can just imagine Ibrahim alayhis salam that his heart had absorbed the love of Allah azza wa jal to the point

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he became honey Allah azza wa jal, right, so back to the eye, Allah he learned the highest form of relationships that existed on Earth, that nothing could break them, nothing could destroy them, that a person would do anything for that friend, that kind of relationship. On that day. They become enemies of each other,

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in exchange except the believers, why? Because the believers loved each other for the sake of Allah has origin and that is so sacred and so on, that Allah azza wa jal preserves it. You loved Him for allah sake, how can that be destroyed? If Allah azza wa jal is Alburquerque the everlasting then anything that was done for his sake is everlasting as all this is why when you you do your prayers and your deeds, they remain done, they remain your worships the worships, do they are they destroyed when you die? No.

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That's why the warships are cold. What are you back here to solve the heart, the Everlasting righteous deeds? The deeds that we do are salatu salam, O Subhan, Allah and hamdulillah vicar What has your Salah all of this and the love we have for each other all of this is called Bercy.

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Meaning though they they know they don't they don't have an expiry date. They don't finish either back yet. Why? Because if they were done for the sake of Alburquerque they remain forever. For this relationship between brothers. It is so honored. It is so incredible that Allah social preserves it so that the believers that rise and a resurrected from the aggrieved on the Day of Judgment, they still see each other and they still have the left that they used to have for each other in this world the life in the key

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not only there, that also continues in the Paradise book inside the Paradise, when is on MFE sold him in healing, when he sold in motorcar believe ALLAH social describes the scene in the paradise that there are pseudo, a pseudo of the recliners you know the recliners in this world they live if you sit back on a new recline it implies comfort and it includes peace and tranquility and a peace of mind that's what a when you hear the word Surah that's what it implies. But the one in the Paradise Allah Haarlem how it looks like obviously not like the what we have in this world they live over there. It's it's much different when Allah azza wa jal described the furniture of the paradise

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he said Baba No ham in Istanbul, UK. inside, inside, inside the furniture inside the car, the the the couch or the throne or the recliner. It's inside it's made from silk.

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You can only imagine how the outside is going to look like.

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Philosopher shall he says it when Allah saw the believers on the Day of Judgment, or reclining on the suit on these recliners. motorcar believe meaning facing each other. And Allah azza wa jal says, that's how they are sitting in the Paradise. But he says it when they are still brothers to each other. In the Paradise, they are still brothers to each other.

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This word, get rid of it. There are some brothers I don't want to see.

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I don't want to see when the paradise Allah is telling you believers will be sitting in front of each other seeing each other.

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This is why the Scholars Rahima whom Allah used

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See, whoever wants to live a peace of the paradise on earth, let him uphold and maintain brotherhood. Because that is a blessing that Allah gave the believers in this life and he continues it for them in the Paradise didn't we see that when was a blessing of Allah upon us what false bottom beneath a mighty he wanna that you became as a result of his favor and blessing upon you when brothers

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that blessing that doesn't end when the world ends, that carries it carries on it continues in the Paradise, that blessing that same blessing we have now it continues there.

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Whoever wants to live a peace of the paradise and a blessing from among the blessings of the paradise. Do whatever it takes to maintain brotherhood and love that you're going to have for each other. And my brothers and sisters in Islam, these are the meanings of when Allah azza wa jal says, as the Latin meaning

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that the believers are humble to one another, this is what it means. Rama obey You know him, the exercise mercy among one another hack Mohammed.

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Mohammed has a method to emphasize the meaning

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of mercy between one another.

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Oh, the sweetness of Eman will never ever be experienced. Unless three things are fulfilled, as in the BCM Allahu alayhi wa sallam said, he said that there are three traits. If they were to be found in a person, he will find the sweetness of faith, then alpha men could NiFi Why should that be hidden? Amen. Three things. There's a lot of complaint. Today, I am not connecting with my worship. I do not find the sweetness of the worship, what is the solution? Listen to the solution. If these three things exist in you, then an only will begin to taste the sweetness of a man of your Salat, of your fasting of your solar car, whatever it is of the good you do. Number one, man can Allahu wa

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rasuluh obey him in a way that you love Allah and His Messenger more than you love anything else. The moment you love Allah and His Messenger more than anything else, that is the beginning of the road of finding sweetness and a beautiful taste to worship. The second one is and this is the relevant one man I have Bob then laoshi boo les les Azzawajal, the one who loves a sleeve here a believing sleeve of Allah, and He does not love him except for Allah. What tied him in him is Allah azza wa jal

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Allah, so that's the primary time between me and my brother, that's the primary time then you can be tied to him in terms of business, or a worldly matter, or something you share between him of worldly materialistic matters, no problems that secondary but that's secondary, you need to understand that secondary, because if something goes wrong, which possibly could happen,

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go back to your primary relationship.

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Go back to your primal and actually ease things. So that now if there's an issue between you and him, you go and solve it, so that you maintain the first and primary relationship which is Allah azza wa jal that they should decide and dictate how you're going to deal with your secondary issues.

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And the third one is, woman carry her and Yahuda Phil Kufri. Bader is another hula hoomin Who can echo annual coffee now.

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These are two and the last one was and to hate returning into disbelief after Allah azza wa jal has saved you from disbelief in the same manner, you dislike to be thrown in the fire, so that you're supposed to hate alcohol. You're supposed to hate anything that calls to cover with shift. You're supposed to hate it. You cannot enjoy it. Anything that is a route to the fire you're supposed to hate. Never enjoy a sin that you do.

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Sometimes, when a person doesn't enjoy his worship,

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it means he's enjoying his sin could mean that he's enjoying his sin, and enjoying a sin and enjoying a worship do not fit into one heart.

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And maybe perhaps you'll say what is it meant by the Hadith? No, he hates to return to cover. What about if a person was born a Muslim? This hadith will be sallallahu alayhi wa sallam mentioned that he was primarily speaking to Sahaja and the majority of Sahaba disbelievers before they entered Islam, that this was relevant in terms of what Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam

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was addressing for them. He was saying that you people that the majority of you were upon covered and slowly one after the other came into Islam saying Leila Hey Lola, you people should hate returning into al Cofer after Allah azza wa jal had saved you from it. In the same manner you hate to enter the hellfire,

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I need to be relevant to us in the sense that it means a person and your third Dandini that he gives up his religion altogether. And he turns away from his religion by

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my brothers and sisters in Islam, to continue on this matter of Muhammad Ali Allahu Anhu narrates a hadith and the recent Allahu alayhi wa sallam said,

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so we can further solidifying the understanding of what Brotherhood is among the believers.

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He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said in them in a better delay here a better than your boohooman Ambia wash to her that there are sleeves from among the sleeves of Allah Azza version,

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that Ambia was shahada,

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the prophets and the martyrs are jealous of them. Yes, the beautiful humble Ambia or Shahadat, they are jealous in a good manner, because an asset is jealous in a bad way. And how sad is when you hate the blessing of Allah upon a person. That's an asset. Right? Some people define an asset as

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who knows the definition of an asset, the standard definition?

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The evil eye, none of those different.

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So this is the common understanding that I'll hazard what the man needs to know at the annual higher is to wish for the blessing upon a person to be removed. Lacking This is not a correct definition. The correct definition that shattered Islam and Emile Rahim Allah mentioned alongside the student of Natyam Rahim Allah, they said that Al hacer do Hua Karatu near a Nirma theodolite Karatu nematode, hide the fact that I just hate Allah's blessing on a person, whether I wish for it to be removed or not that that doesn't matter. The fact that I hate Allah's blessing on a person is hazard, and did his forbidden not allowed in Islam. The opposite to that the good type of jealousy is called

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Alibaba. Such as being jealous from a person that has wealth, but in a good manner to say, I wish I had like him, so that I can do it like him. Also they can I can donate I wish I had the knowledge of all and that he knew, so that I can preach to people and pray the knights and whether this is permissible in Islam is not that fine, no problems in that for here and there he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he says, There are from among the sleeves of Allah has surgeon certain sleeves that the the Ambia the prophets and the martyrs?

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Why did he mention an MBA and the matters because these are people that are in the highest levels, and they will be in the highest levels. But these two categories

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are jealous towards this type of person. Who are these people? Peeler, man whom law lead and

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the Companions rush to us the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Who are these people? Perhaps we can love them. And if we love them, we'll be with them on the Day of Judgment. Or it could mean it could mean as well. Who are these people? Tell us about them their qualities so that we can imitate them and do those actions so that we become these people on the Day of Judgment? Then in the vehcile Allahu alayhi wa sallam he said, whom omen to her boo be naughty Illa mean? Or ham in wala and zap? He said it is a group of people. They love each other by the light of Allah. The higher blue and to have blue mini MUFA Allah meaning there is more Kabbalah the higher blue meaning I loved him and he

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loved me as much as I loved him. It's not a one way there's a two way hip to have both been already led by the light of Allah azza wa jal

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Muhammad Allah answered, and there was no block between them and there was no marriage between them. nary journey in the sense that they were not related by marriage. So he didn't love him because his brother in law, or this one was his father in law. No, none of this hi to believers on earth that just loved each other be Knoedler

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Gani their heart was dressed by the light of Allah azza wa jal and disliked it was in the heart. It poured from their heart to their soul, and they recognized each other be the hub

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The light of Allah that was putting their heart, it poured to their soul and they began to recognize each other

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and they establish that love between them for the sake of Allah azza wa jal and Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he says about them was you know,

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they're the ones that their faces are beaming with light radiating with light, your light light has become an attribute of this in this life and in the next

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build on me know these people will be on, on on puppets of light that on the Day of Judgment, for the for the grand scene of seeing Allah subhanho wa Taala on a Friday.

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On that time and on that day, on a Friday when the believers are getting ready to see Allah subhanho wa Taala The bathrooms are being established, they are being put. So the first line is manorbier On

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the first line is going to be thrones meat off light. How Allahu Allah musi Debbie de la escuela soya the admittance into the paradise and then behind that glossy glossy means apologia?

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Well no no. There are other chairs and and there are thrones made of

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Pearl and other expensive and jewelry right and precious rocks and so on. And then at the back the last straw is going to be the burning, burning misc sand dunes that have a beautiful fragrant smell to them. They smell like musk. And so the first drew an MBA or Shuhada are sitting in the front row and these people are sitting with them. Allah

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Lera Hauff una in half a nurse they will never be afraid. On the D people will be afraid that is on the Day of Judgement. Allah azza wa jal has already cleaved them from this that will have no fee on the day of day Imagine this. Imagine walking on the Day of Judgment having no fee.

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Danny, how's this gonna happen? Here? The

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now when they loved each other for the sake of Allah azza wa jal, a genuine sincere love no blood between them and no relation by marriage between them absolutely nothing. If you're supposed to have people like this in your life don't make it all about this worldly life and this is just Mattel Khalil and he finishes

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he's not the real life he this is not the replace here yeah, this world is just an opportunity to grab all this now before you end and finished Walla Walla when our end is.

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So les Ahafo, Neva Hoffa nurse.

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They are safe, they will not feel in the people feed. What are you in has in a nurse and they are not upset, nor worried now that they grieve when the people are set, upset and sad and grieving. They don't because they don't have a worry. And then also allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam recited only Tyler. Allah in Olia Allah, La whoa finale.

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These people now I referred to as OLIO Allah and maybe some Allahu Allah USA Lemery cited the air and he said Allah in Olia Allah Verily, the friends of Allah azza wa jal, Lao wholefood, nada him, there is no fee upon them, while the moon and the Do not worry, and they are not upset about anything.

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Allahu Akbar, they became the friends of Allah, for loving one another for the sake of Allah azza wa jal I

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share with you another beautiful Hadith. This is a Hadith narrated by about a diesel How will any hola from among atelier in he said in a story The Hon Thomas G the dimension of a Shem he entered the masjid that is in a Shem in Syria.

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But ask Allah Zoysia to give them relief for either an OB fatten block if an area and I entered this Masjid looks like for the first time he enters this masjid. And he said I saw a young man always smiling and he had a bright face.

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Well, either nurse or how Allahu Taala for fishy in US Nadeau la he was solo humble he and I saw people around him.

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And if they were to dispute among themselves, they would rush to him. And they would seek his advice and they will take his decision on a matter and they would throw out their discussions and their dispute their 11 hollows. They'll just take by what he said. And it seems to be the most

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knowledgeable among the people of the

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facade to Anhu. About this, he says I asked the people in the masjid about him. Who's this net? Who is he? For Keela he was told Heather more IV blue Shaban Omaha's Lucia, Allah wa Mousavi. He was my little thing Allah who I know, the one who served the NABI sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for 10 years of his life.

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Beautiful. What a beautiful seed and a beautiful experience for a boy did he still hold any I'ma hula

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for the Mac, no, I'm not so he saw him but he didn't interrupt him He lifted me to understand how you just have a lovely Allahumma and what effect they had When the people saw that Kenny had such an honor team that even our dress didn't think of it as being something casual is his walk to him. He had to study the matter how I'm gonna approach this man.

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Thank you, man. He said Fela McKenna had a jar to the next day has your to meaning I came early to Asana like really early Subhan Allah He said for sure to consider Canibal * and I saw why they already he's come earlier than me. He only Allahu Allah Mazzola because he needs to come early for a pray Bahasa McRib, whatever it is. But he's coming early. And he's seeing it my avoidably Allahu Anhu already there so how early did was come? So how about all the lower abdomen the relationship with the masjid they didn't die out even though and the reason I said never passed away? He told them he instilled in the knowledge and love for Allah when massage it and he went and people are

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still strong.

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I think you're supposed to have your connection with Allah. You know, I know some people tell me Well my brother you came in you're gonna leave tomorrow things are gonna get what you want from me. What am I going to do for you?

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In your relationship with Allah azza wa jal

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Nabi saw Selim Longo he's passed away

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while he was at the masjid still he's coming early

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at subaqua nebula you do you suddenly and I saw him praying for people to have the either Cabo Salado and I waited for him until he had finished his solid fishy to whom in the belly was he and I came to him from his face, not from behind from the front. He came from in front of him so that he saw him face to face

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for salaam to Ali, Yanni he's detail detail he's giving because he's this is a grand moment in his life. He wants to explain the experience how it was, he said I shook his hand for called Tula who and I said to him, Wallah, he it Neela or a book le la,

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la. He said to him by Allah, He swearing by Allah, I love you for the sake of Allah.

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he firstly interaction with him. He's never seen him before. What proves that? Because he didn't even know his name. So he hasn't seen him before. But he knows about him. He's a believer, this is a companion. He came to him. And he said, Tim, I love you for the sake of Allah from whatever robiola one who said to him,

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by Allah he loved me for the sake of Allah he put him right there on the spot. He said to him by Allah, you love me for the sake of Allah. Thank you true in your claim. You're honest and sincere in your claim.

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For call to Allah.

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I was shocked by Allah and love you. That he said theme again annoy. See one love that you love before Allah sake.

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Visit theme.

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One lawyer I love you for Allah sake.

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Father behavoir TT de de la. He grabbed him. By elaborate the river is here in the middle. He grabbed him by his garment from the middle and he pulled him to him. For now this elbow Idris is right close to what you can see if you if you're sitting in an awkward position you probably fell on him. He held him and he grabbed the to Him. And He said to him Upshur congratulations.

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For a nice ammirato Rasool Allah, Allah Allah Allah He was alemayehu I heard the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam ce o Allah law was soultion that Allah said was Shabbat Maha Betty Linda Buddha had been a fee. He said to him.

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My love that Allah has said, My love is mandatory. For those who love for my sake. He's giving him congratulations. There is good news for you. You're supposed to hear it before you leave me and I'll give it to you.

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Allah said that his love is mandatory for voles who loved each other for Allah sake.

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Well Mota shared he seen a fear and those who gather for my sake, whilst Kalasa to make discovering in this hadith

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well Mutasa, we read a fear. And for those who visit for my sake, they maintain ties with it was relatives of yours, whether it was visiting the sick, whatever it is, but it's for Allah sake, and you need to be honest and sincere about it. He and wife will be Allahu Anhu expose this man sincerity on honesty, but don't expect every time the person asking you by Allah, are you true in your claim?

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But the fact that he narrated this and put it in the narration so he can teach you an eye? He needs to be honest in your claim that you love such a person for Allah sake, and that you came to the gathering for Allah sake, and that you visited a believer for the sake of Allah. What is the Moto bevi Lena fie.

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And my love is mandatory. For those who spend for my sake, spin from their money, for Allah sake, spend from their time for Allah sake, spend from their effort and their skill for the sake of Allah azza wa jal.

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Everyone can spend for the sake of Allah soultion doesn't have to be money. And Islam needs a lot of your time. A lot of your effort, a lot of your skill, a lot of your resources, lots of your money, at least

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not that Allah wants it. But when you give when you give the one that's that's that that's taking the honor, you're the one that's receiving the Islam doesn't need to know what you have nothing at all.

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Allah azza wa jal Leo Villa who Allah Deen equally, it is Allah azza wa jal who bring this religion up above all religions, he'll do it. But a The honor is for us if we involve ourselves. If we rush and involve ourselves, the honor is for us, and in honor of the narration in the sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, What have kept what got Maha Betty Allah maternelle Shaheen Ophelia. And also Allah's love is mandatory for those who advise one another. Don't ever be shy to advise your brother.

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If he's done something wrong, advise him and advice doesn't mean if he does something wrong you you have to see sometimes I'm not. I'm not I could be to tell someone something good.

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To encourage a person to do a good deed is done also.

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Yada yada if I say to my brother, I teach him a hadith. I teach someone a hadith he never knew before. That's an Elsa that actually does sometimes they just put the word Naziha in one understanding it means if someone's doing something Dad, tell him this is bad. This is one form of masa. Anything you teach the people of good and forbid them of evil is called a Nazi huh?

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It's called a Nazi. With the prophets, the prophets everything they recite it to the people of what Allah revealed to them is called mostly one Salah come as no holla he said I would say who died he said I would say I'm sorry. He referred to the whole sharing your other reading is reading to them as a no see.

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We need to understand why is this matter of loving for the sake of Allah azza wa jal su huge in on it.

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Pick this hadith of Alberto an Ansible be Allah one who he says goodness you loosen in the NABI sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. He says we were sitting in a gathering, when we saw Allahu Allah He was Salah Muslim. Then in the be sallallahu alayhi wa sallam asked these companions are your oral Islam the author what is the most binding tie of faith? Yanni? What is the thing that you do that will glue you to faith and nothing would glue you more than this? This is something everyone wants. Yeah. My My faith is shaking a trustee. So what's the solution? You need something to screw it up? Right? He something to strengthen it on the What's this? What is this thing? That it is the most thing that

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will give you solid Eman in your heart?

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What is it? What would you say?

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Anyone have anything? What's the most binding type of faith? Hello Sahaba said something say something

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mashallah, well that's exactly what they said. Hello Salette. They said the prayer. They rushed to see the prayer because that's what Missa Solemnis told them that the prayer is the most beloved each Allah so they fought it. He said to them Hassan wanna hear behead as good, but Assadi

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auto CMO, mobile, fasting Ramadan then because that's the secondary

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thing we can think about and this little covered in our last agenda comes down on microfilm. What is anything better than this? For call Hassan Omar who are behead a woman here on a hobby. He said that's good. But that's not it. I'm not looking for that. Something else. ology head thinks it as you had to be severely

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better than that. After Ramadan was solid,

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all the Hassan war may well be as good. But that's not it.

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Then he said in Osaka or an E man and Buffy lay he will to Buffy lair. He said that the most binding tie of faith is that you love for the sake of Allah and you hate for the sake of Allah assertion. And that manifests in many forms, and one of the forms brotherhood

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when you loved him only for Allah sake, and you reconciled only for Allah sake. You see, when you love someone for Allah sake, it doesn't mean that problems don't exist. Or it doesn't mean the biggest problems could exist.

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But that is what is going to test whether you love them for Allah sake or not. When a problem exists, now is the test. Let's see if you really love them for Allah sake Allah at the beginning of today's tz where the business

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while I'm getting profits from him, we have a contract between each other, we have some sort of money between each other we have a relationship between each other. So good love for each other 100% He loves him.

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But if a problem happened, and he is bound to happen, it would happen that the wealthy life was never promised to be all good days.

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And your money and your wealth and your business and contract and whatever it is, it's not the deal there is nothing that guarantees you this is going to remain for it will shake for sure.

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That's the time when the test is coming. And at the end of them for Allah sake, or for dunya sake, prove yourself and prove yourself callous.

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If it really was for Allah sake, then back to the Air Force there will be no then reconcile Hurry up. Whenever you sallallahu alayhi wa sallam gives you only three days to boycott three Khaled to boycott someone for a wolf the problem three days had no problems on the first day so that your anger could reduce calm down second day so that he can think about this matter once again. And then the third the Go and apologize. One of the two is supposed to apply and the better one is the one who goes with a CLM first

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right now it's going to test whether you love this man for Allah sojourn sake or not. Why as we mentioned and it is Hadith and there is some Allahu alayhi wa sallam he said leahlani Muslim and Yahoo for Puffin, F hilltop tn I also do hair there. We also do have our hygroma Levy. That will be Sam. As we said, brotherhood sometimes is affected. No, definitely, definitely. You're always going to have from time to time a problem happened amongst the harbor. But do you think it's going to happen between you and I were away less than or Sahaba and our understanding of a deen is way less than a Sahaba. So he

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had issues with each other had problems with each other? Some swore at each other in stories. Yeah, no, no, no, I bring over examples in the stories now. But there is this.

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They only import if attorney Minnie Minnie Nakata. Allah says if two groups if two parties of the believers were to fight each other, why would men why would Allah mentioned this if it's not a possibility?

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But he said what in bar if attend, if two parties of the believers fight each other? He did not say what,

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what that would mean when and when means that it's frequent. But the word if means that it's not the common thing, but it might happen sometimes if if it happened, you know, that idea of if, if it happens, well, this is the solution that even that word in teaches us. Make sure it's not too much to create too many problems between believers, but if it does happen

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to parties, and he called both of them meaning.

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In other words, even if there's a problem between your brother Don't go attacking his Dean, that's the first thing people do. If there's a problem out there that he doesn't fear Allah has you think no fees Allah, he doesn't have no deal. He's a Muslim. The first thing is the attack on his team, or the first thing Allah is teaching in the air. Now both of them are more meaning even if they hold the sword against each other. Like Ali robiola.

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When the people who know how to do more I will be Allah who I know and the army that he had sought war among companions. But you know you and I sitting here doing we love both alioli Allahu Allah Han we love them both. Even though there was that time came in the Muslim Ummah that they find each other hack for hikma that Allah azza wa jal knows, when I'm discussing this to enter into this matter and to see exactly how there was wisdom of Allah azza wa jal, Linda, but it does happen. Allah azza wa jal called them more meaning and these more meaning when you want to come and say Allah, he doesn't have

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to relax, relax. Even in the story of the Buddha. He said, When a hos man came to him, in the two people that argued with each other They quarreled with each other. There was an argument there with Ali Salaam is a prophet he is a judge is dealing with the people's cases in his time. Two people they had an argument, right? One of them had 99 sheep, and the other one had one sheep nausea. And so the one who had 99 when it took the one sheep from the other guy,

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and headache, he's upset. Why did you take my one sheep down? I didn't have it. You can see me one cheap and you took it.

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The house and they impressed me. So they both jumped on if this award will rob, that would argue Sam was in his. In his place of worship. He was worshipping Allah that night. And the scale ball to swallow meaning to scale a wall, there was a wall that was set up with clothes, it doesn't want anyone to bother him at night, when he's worshipping Allah. He can imagine how Sunidhi climbing the wall, and they come down, and they be present in front of him. And he says, and now the one that seems to be oppressed, the one that had the one sheep and it's gone listen to what he said. Can you imagine the friction here now? Just imagine it. Imagine that someone had $100,000. out they had

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$1,000 You put his hands on and he took it?

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What did people say about him today?

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What would people say about him? He can if you don't follow him and kill him. Yet he would say hi and humbly level he sped him.

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So this person that had the one sheep and it's gone when he stood in front of the witness, and he said in the heather Aki Lajitas on what his own inertia in the heather word, as he RV. This is my brother. Hello. It's not his brillantes buddy, but we have a faith together. This is my brother. He has 99 sheep and I had one sheep for me how was anything Bob? He said to me Give me a sheep any overpowered me in speech. That's how he's talking. But you see this in the hair that he

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there's a relationship. He can't go around saying that this man doesn't have Dean. I didn't care what did you do?

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You're not allowed. You are not allowed to knee denounce this person's deen

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and say that he doesn't believe in Allah. And he doesn't have faith in Allah. And I doubt he's a Muslim.

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Not Allowed Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said, It is not allowed for a Muslim. And yeah, sure ah, who have an earth that he boycott his brother for more than three days. And the time starts from when the discussion begins. If it was on board time, you have three days from that next door next door. By the third bar, you're supposed to be solving it. Why three days?

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And that he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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he knows because Allah azza wa jal taught him Allah knows that there is not a single problem on the face of this earth that you have between your brother except that it can be solved within three days. Otherwise, what's the benefit of mentioning three days? As big as it is, it can be solved within three days

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on consensus among the lower limit that it is haram to boycott someone for more than three days for a worldly reason. For a materialistic matter. We'll measure is attack to boycott someone

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boycott by it's forbidden. Why is it forbidden? Firstly, we need to understand why did people boycott each other? If we understand that, well, no, it didn't. What do people boycott each other for all the matters? He took some money from me.

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He married a woman I was supposed to marry.

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We had a business deal. And he dishonored the contract between me and him. He raped me. He roasted me.

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And all of these things. I invested with him he stole my money, whatever it is, any worldly problem that people boycott each other for when people boycott each other for the first reason for that could be it is a worldly problem or worldly problem by

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If it's for a worldly problem,

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and you allow this worldly problem

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to get between you and the brotherhood between you and your brother, that means you're attached to this worldly life.

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And as a believer, you're not allowed to be attached to this worldly life. Let them with the nine aka lemme Tanner here as well. As you may know mulata has anally massage and has already told you do not extend your eyes to this world the life don't attach yourself to this world the life we know there is no Allah, segmental Lockerbie Shea in the bay, anyone who attaches himself to a matter in this life, you will be punished by this thing. And he mentioned how in three ways, and if you're extremely attached to something of this life, the first punishment you go through is the pain of wanting it.

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This burning, I want it, whether it's a job, it's money, it is a car, it's a house, it's a woman, you want it your child you want whatever it is,

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that's the first thing you're punished the pain that you have to want it. Then when you get it when you get this thing, the second punishment, if you're extremely attached to it, is the fear of losing it. If you get the fee, I'm gonna lose it. I'm not, I don't know, what will happen to it, is it gonna stay safe? It will. That's punishment as well. And then when you lose it, the pain of losing it three punishments for whoever attaches to something.

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If you boycott your brother for more than three days for a walk the matter that is haram. Why? Because now you have proven that your heart is attached to something worldly. And you have preferred this over Allah's command in the moment

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why now you tell me, how many people have their hearts attached to this worldly life and cannot let go?

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They prefer this over this bond in my own way.

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And honor Allah azza wa jal pride you in terms of you and your brother, on this, on this because this is a command from Allah azza wa jal re sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said lay the Muslim in another ration limit meaning for a more men, because it can happen from a moment. It can happen from the highest believers that they have an issue with someone this is a human nature, human feelings, human emotions, and to be SallAllahu wasallam he's acknowledging your emotion. He's not saying to you Don't be upset. lol I just figured the better and forgive your brother. Take three days if you need no problems be upset move. Don't see your brother Don't don't even give him salaam nothing keep

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away for three days no problems, hopefully and then three days no, not allowed more than three days. The result? Allahu alayhi wa sallam then he explained how boycotting happens. What's the definition of boycotting? He said he held Turkey and

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so during this three days or more than three days they meet up, they meet whichever fell suit to have their way or suit to Heather. This one turns away and this one turns away.

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And all of a sudden they met each other. He just turns his face now turns his face and they walk away from each other. He doesn't want to see

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me so I send him said well hi rowhome Olivia, the OVC lamb the best of the two is the one who begins with a salon meaning the only way to remove the state of boycott is by saying a Sarah Monica. If you see that, then you have ended the boycott.

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If it continues over three or three days, it's a major sin. A major sin if it continues until a ye there's Hadith in this. Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he says man Hazara whoa whoa Sena 10 gana QSF P dummy.

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The one who boycotts his brother, for a ye. He earns the sin as though he spilled his blood

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as though he killed him. And killing a Muslim brother is a major sin and major deed a major crime. Therefore any boycott over three days is a major sin every single day that's going there are sins upon you.

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Of course, of course that's the case. Everything we've said about brotherhood, you think at the end, it's going to be this easy for Muslims to cut that relationship between themselves and how many a hadith and he came to encourage us and motivate us to brotherhood. As many as there are a hadith on this side. There are double those Hadith on the other side warning about cutting the ties with each other and they are severe and they are intense.

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Also, when you cut the relationship between a Muslim you don't give him Salam you do not speak to him.

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And then he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says that

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The doors of the Paradise open every Monday and Thursday and Allah azza wa jal forgives all his sleeves as it is every Monday and Thursday, forgiveness except for two types of people. A Mushnik a person who has done shit below. He can't be forgiven because he needs to embrace it though hated before he's forgiven. And the other one is a man cannot be in a hole Robina Aki because there was a key shot between him and his brother. So the NABI sallallahu alayhi wa sallam wants you to hear the word that even when you have an issue with him is still your brother. But between them they were shot net. There was hatred, jealousy, there's something between them.

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Allah azza wa jal would see um guru has been hold off and if you give everyone but hold off from these two people don't forgive them had their story ahead until they reconcile on Buddha veiny says it again. They are slowly hair three times. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait stop, stop, stop. Heather these two people do not forgive them until they reconcile

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deprived from Allah because Allah MA and forgiveness if this boycotting continues,

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why the Ramadan comes and people are still boycotting each other. And we'll move on the greatest opportunity to have all your sins forgiven. When a little other comes and other is still relaxed. I didn't care about my relationship with my brother.

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Even Alright, since you don't want any relationship with your brother, then you deprive forgiveness, very simple

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Subhan Allah, either Qalamoun Maria sallallahu alayhi wa sallam virome Olivia but there will be Salam. And the best of the two is the one who begins with a Salam. And we did mention last time, the hadith of A salaam that Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, By Allah, none of you would enter the paradise until we believe and none of you will believe until you love one another. Shall I not inform you of something if you were to do you will love one another? And then he said a few salaam Urbina can spread a Salam among each other. This is why learning metal hammer home Allah they asked the question is giving salam to the one I boycotted on the third day enough to stop the sin and

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raise the state of boycott or isn't it enough? So some said a Salam is enough because that's the Hadith. That's what it said that the best of them who starts with a salon, therefore Hello, Salaam Alaikum should be enough.

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But some said it depends on the situation. If a person knows that that brother, A salaam will not be enough, unless he system As salam o alaikum wa Rahmatullah. And he shakes his hand, and he hugs him, gives him a couple of kind words. If that's what it's going to take, for the brother to reconcile, then A salaam for your case will not be enough. And you will still be considered boycotting, and you'll still be in the major sin. For every situation is different to the other, right? Every situation is different to the other. Or any. Sometimes you might say, I tried to reconcile. But this man is wondering console, what do I do now? Am I still sinful?

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In this case, you don't have to worry. You are not sinful. hadith is shuttlebay Allahu Allah. She says that in the recent Allahu alayhi wa sallam says, layer kulula Muslim in an era Muslim and folk Flf it is not allowed it is forbidden for a brother to boycott his brother for more than three days for him luckier Musa lemma Allah He left me alone, if he meets him and set them a Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh three times Kulu Velika al Dally and every time he system a Salam Alikum the other side is not responding to him. Faqad bear with me he cut off there is no sin upon him. The sin now continues for the other person, such a huge manner. In another Hadith interview sallallahu

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alayhi wa sallam he said leahlani Muslim and Muslim folk

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for Inaho man airquee banya Anil Huck, listen to this the consequences of boycotting

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he said it is not allowed for a Muslim to boycott another Muslim more than three nights.

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And whoever does this if they boycott both of them are away from the truth. Nike Bennion and Huck then tell me he's right he is both of them are all I can Hadith but my words for inna Houma neck he Bernie and Huck, both of them are away from the truth. No damn now I know Swami Hina for as long as they are boycotting each other. Yes, if you were to look into the case, maybe someone has a right over the other. Maybe someone Yanni has something over the other and rightfully so. But we're speaking about never seen the sin of boycotting now. The scene of boycotting this is what's not allowed for as long as they are boycotting each other. I don't want to hear it both of them are up

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on the wrong and they are not upon truth. What a one

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vumat Fie Ania Kulu subcool Bill fee kafele Ratan low. When the vehcile Allahu alayhi wa sallam says the first one, to give up the boycotting and reconcile.

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That would be an expiation for him and there is no sin upon him. Well, INCEL lemma Fela meuble Whoa, dally he sent me home. And if he now gives Sam and he Sam is rejected by the other party.

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Allah that Allah he'll Melaka the angels would respond to him. They'll say to him while he calls Salam, or amatola Whoa, but I care too, so that you do not feel awkward. Don't worry, he didn't respond. It's al Malik responded, what a doll or how to shape or shape or have a discussion with the other one.

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What Emerita? Allow me Hema, watch this and if they both tight while still boycotting each other, let mute lemmya algen Natasha Nia and Abba.

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Both of them will not enter the paradise together. One of the one of the two enters but both of them like the one happened.

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With Muhammad Allah they said Danny even though this is not covered,

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these words are carried on the fact that it is emphasized on how bad the sin is. Because we know that every believer that says let Ilaha illa Allah in His heart will end up in the Paradise, no matter what he has done of major sins and so on. But Allah Allah Allah when after a long punishment, does Allah forgive him or Allah we didn't know that, that mushiya But when a hadith like this come, like when there is an emphasis on this person being in the fire forever, and this kind of wording comes to deeds that are not covered, then we understand them as an emphasis on how severe the sin is. That it is so severe that it is worth a person to spend a long time in Jannah before he comes

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out, then even try to one and don't even try to understand what it is just keep away from it altogether.

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I'm had a very important, Allah He very important my brothers and sisters in Islam, and if the boycotting was for the sake of Allah, such as a person has committed a sin, but he's exposed his sin is exposed they're not committed the sin because if everyone committed a sin and I want to boycott everyone, for Allah, no one will see anyone any Well, everyone since but when you're allowed to boycott someone, when it is for the dean, when there is a when there is a goodness for the dean, such as what Nerissa Allahu alayhi wa sallam did with Gabby bumalik Robbie Allahu Anhu. And another two companions. They were supposed to join the battle of the book go out to those with the book. And

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they're the ones that stayed back and didn't go for an interview. sallallahu alayhi wa sallam came through. So however, you disobeyed my command, we're going to boycott you. How many days 40 days

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even boycotting on that basis of a dean. There's no limit could be 20s No problems. But the boycott is supposed to have a benefit on the one you're boycotting. And these three companions were working walking in and Medina, a salon Michael, no one responds at the salon, they will not respond. Imagine that.

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That's a that's a long story. That's a different story. But just understand three companions. They don't know if you saw Selim died the next day, or chaos, he died. And he had boycotted us what's going to happen to us out of a mess. Yeah. And he can understand the kind of situation they were in. But at Hamdulillah. After 40 days, he came down that Allah had except that there Tober an ad came down to teach us what to do. So if we don't have a person committing a sin and his vocal about it, he's exposing his sin. And we know that if we boycott him, that could teach him a lesson, and it will reduce his sin and wake him up the boycott. But if your boycotting is not going to do anything,

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rather it increase this person in transgression and rebellion. In this matter, he is not allowed to boycott him. Continue that tie once again, tried to advise him one way or another, and it is not allowed to use boycotting as a forced solution. Leave that to the end. If a problem could be fixed before that in another means it must be used. But coding is the last solution that is in our hands all of this just so that brotherhood is tied and maintained among the believers.

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Allah Who alum will leave it at this we ask Allah azza wa jal to strengthen our relationship with each other. Whilst we ask Allah azza wa jal that he strengthened our relationship with Him Subhanahu wa Taala to forgive our sins and our shortcomings.

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In the holy vertical call there Allah, Allah wa salam, O Allah, Allah and Muhammad wa ala he also be as human

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