Abdullah Oduro – Nightly Reminder 29-04-2024

Abdullah Oduro
AI: Summary © The speakers discuss the importance of seeking refuge in Allah's language, including in actions and emotions. They stress the need for seeking refuge in a relative's actions to avoid harming others and emphasize the importance of love and being a distraction from worship. The speakers also emphasize the importance of knowing the truth and setting firm on one's religion to avoid impermissible behavior.
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Says in his book entitled the gardens of

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the righteous in the chapter of the virtues

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of dhikr,

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remembering remembering Allah and encouraging others to do

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so.

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Narrated that the prophet

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used to seek protection after the prayers in

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these words.

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Oh Allah, I seek refuge with you from

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cowardice,

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miserliness, and from being sent back to a

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feeble age

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and seek refuge with you from the trials

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of this life

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and those of the grave. And this is

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recorded in the

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on

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the section of supplications.

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So this hadith,

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again, the it's it's authentic.

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It's

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in Bukhary.

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So it's an authentic hadith where

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mentioned the prophet used to mention

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this. So he used to mention this

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at the end

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of the prayers.

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So

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when you say at the end of the

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prayers, it's right before the Teslim.

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So after you do

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and you say

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Muhammad and Allah

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Ibrahim, these are this is one of the

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duas that you can say.

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There's numerous.

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You could say these that are that are

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mentioned by the prophet

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and then you can make your own as

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well. So for example, if you were to

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say this one here,

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then you can say

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Allah

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You can say, oh, Allah help our brothers

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and sisters in class. You can make whatever

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dua. As a matter of fact, there's another

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hadith of the prophet mentioned that the dua

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this dua is not rejected.

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This is one of the time frames

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and situations that the du'a is not rejected.

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So here when he mentions his du'a, he

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starts out with saying.

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So when

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we say, oh, Allah, I seek refuge in

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you, and this is important

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when we seek refuge.

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Why do we seek refuge with Allah?

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What's the whole purpose of seeking refuge with

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Allah

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before we even get into the subject matters?

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Safety

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from?

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Jahannam.

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Safety from Jahannam. Okay.

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And the allies in control, so any issues

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are any.

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Any.

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Could be protected

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from coming towards the shore to.

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Right. So those are kind of it's one

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the least of the other. So you seek

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refuge in Allah from anything that Allah is

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displeased with.

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And remember when we talked about yesterday, we

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said that

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even mentioned that there's,

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that is anger,

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negligence.

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Right? But then he he he he he

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gives you the equipment

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or the army

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internally with what?

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Insight,

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intellect,

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and the Nur.

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So for example, this hadith is the Nur.

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This is the Nur. This is what Nur

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literally will give you that guiding light in

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a place of darkness.

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You don't know who to seek refuge with.

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Sometimes you seek refuge in a relative, a

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spirit. But we in Islam, we have the

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Nur that you seek refuge with Allah from

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anything that will affect you and influence you,

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to do an action of Jahannam,

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to do an action of polytheism,

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to do an action of,

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you know, being amazed with yourself

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and not turning into Allah.

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Right? Or do it inaction,

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not to act at all.

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And that could be impermissible as well,

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not to pray, not to make du'a, not

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to call on Allah.

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So here, that is the importance of seeking

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refuge in Allah. So we see the 3,

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Right? So you're seeking refuge in Allah, and

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that's where we get the name

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from,

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the one that retreats to Allah.

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So when he says,

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He says, oh, Allah, I see grief in

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you from cowardice

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and miserliness.

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Cowardice and what's the connection here

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between cowardice and miserliness?

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Okay. So the cowardice is not acting,

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but what is the inner

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feeling

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or action

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that leads to cowardice?

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Fear. Fear.

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How? How? How?

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Right. The miser is always well,

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yes. Every exactly.

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Every miser is a coward, and a coward

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can be more than a miser. It can

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be many other things.

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No. But this is the the wisdom of

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the dua in this sequence. This dua is

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on purpose, in

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these on purpose.

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So cowardice,

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for example,

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miserliness.

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Is everyone with me?

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But how is a miser a coward?

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Fear of poverty.

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We should mention this hadith in the fundraisers.

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What do you think?

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In fact, that's what they do. Remember this

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hadith? This what what this Sheikh Mohammed record

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this number, this this lesson, Inshallah.

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You know, the prophet said, man.

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He said,

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does not decrease the money.

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Your your money does not decrease. I remember

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when when he was giving a fundraiser, he

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said something so believable. He said, this fund

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I do not want your surplus

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money. He said the surplus. I want the

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money that's important to you. If this means

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something to you, the money that's important, not

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the leftover tayo. Well, we have some leftover.

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Okay. Give it in charity. No. The attitude

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should be the opposite.

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SubhanAllah.

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So here the prophet was saying, I seek

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refuge in you from cowardice and miserliness.

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We see the connection

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that the miser is someone that fears poverty

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and that is a sign of a of

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coward could be a sign of cowardice

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because they are not ultimately trusting in

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Allah. What's one name that can remind the

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coward

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not to be a miser? One name of

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Allah.

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Arazak. Arazak, Karim. And what was the other

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one I heard? Arazak.

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Okay.

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Means what?

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The wealth. The wealth. Okay. But there's another

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name that's connected to that's probably more He

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wasn't.

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The one that enriches

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his servants. Right? And then we had a

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razzak,

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the provider. Allah will provide for me. So

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if I give in this manner for the

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sake of Allah, inshallah Allah will provide when

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he wants and how he wants. It's not

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up to me. If I want it tomorrow,

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he may give it to me next week.

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And it's upon me not to be disappointed.

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No? I have to be patient. Right? So

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the prophet he sought after that,

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And I seek refuge for being sent back

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to a feeble age. Why would he seek

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refuge in this?

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This is also mentioned in the Quran.

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Being it's in a feeble age. Some would

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call this

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senility or senile, being senile.

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Right?

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Why?

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You could be dependent on others. What else?

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You may not be able to provide for

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yourself. You may not be able to provide

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for

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yourself. You know, Allah says in the Quran,

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It's a beautiful verse. Allah says he is

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the one that has created you in a

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state of weakness,

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then brought you in a state of strength,

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then brought you back to a state of

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weakness and old age.

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He creates how he wills.

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And, SubhanAllah, you realize, SubhanAllah, you know, there

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are similarities

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between these 2, between the young and the

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old because they are reliant.

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Right? But we don't want that reliance to

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be something to where, you know, maybe some

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of our organs may not be functioning to

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where we are in total need of our

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relatives. And if that's the case, that's a

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test from Allah

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that he chooses to make us and put

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us in that. But some scholars mentioned this

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is a form of, you know, where it's

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where you're senile, where, you know, you may

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not remember or you may be very,

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aggressive

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towards other people around you, relatives, etcetera.

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And the prophet said,

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And I seek refuge in you from the

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trials of this life

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the trials of life and those of the

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grave. So what's a trial of this life?

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What's a for

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example?

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For example.

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So he said okay.

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Okay. So he said, yeah, he mentioned the

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verse

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money,

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children.

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How can money and children be a fitna?

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The way we're choosing money, so we all

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want money. Mhmm. It's a

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prophet

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Okay. But you need the money to provide

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for the children too.

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They distract you from worshiping the law?

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How? So do should we go home and

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say,

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you are a distraction. What did I do?

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How how can they distract you, especially the

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young newborns? Right? How can they distract you?

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You hear the adhan?

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We've all done this before. I wanna stop.

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We've all we've all fallen in the it's

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not the adhanacy of comma.

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The love. Is love Love and love love

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is for this duniya.

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A

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fit in a love? Love is a fit

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in a love. What do you mean for

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this dunya? You have to be more specific.

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It is

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it includes

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job,

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everything. So

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can love of something permissible

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turn into something impermissible?

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That's what's important.

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Many times, we think love of the dunya,

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of love of haram things.

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No. It can be something that is totally

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halal for you. Rather, it could be something

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that is for you to take care of.

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You know, the other day I was explaining

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distractions to a couple of youth. I was

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saying,

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you

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know, it's very important as a human being

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for youth to prioritize in life. Right?

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But sometimes

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that which was not a distraction at 7

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PM

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becomes a distraction at 7:45 PM when it's

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time for something that's a priority. Prayer.

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Prayer.

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You go to hang out with your friends.

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You go to whatever. Something that's permissible and

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maybe even obligatory upon you to do.

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7 PM, it's not a distraction.

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7:45,

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when the salah comes in, it has become

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a distraction.

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Shaitan

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and Rajeem. Because Shaitan is the one that

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distracted you. That's why he is a regime.

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Regime means.

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To me, that is it is casted away.

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Right? So it's very important to

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define distraction, distinguish distraction to where one can

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dominate

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The

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The questions. What are the questions?

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That's the answer.

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Who is your lord? Lord. Yeah.

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He's a prophet. Right? He's your deen. Who

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is your prophet?

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Right? And you say

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I

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am pleased with Allah as my lord.

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With this wait.

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My Islam is my deen,

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and Muhammad is my my, my

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messenger, Nabi Muslim, prophet and messenger. But those

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that don't answer correctly, you know what the

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prophet said that they will say?

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What would be their response?

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Hey,

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you are.

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Exactly.

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They'll say,

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They'll say,

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I don't know. I heard something, and I

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said it. I'm saying it.

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No?

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And this is very, very important because it's

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not you're not gonna be able to strategize

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when you're in the cover. It's going to

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be something that has been inculcated, that has

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been that has been inside of you that

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you have really believed in your heart.

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Right? So this is important. And then lastly,

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what did the prophet say the soul of

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the believer? How will they leave from the

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body?

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He said it'll be like

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a drop of water leaving from the faucet,

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slowly leaving,

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easily

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and gracefully.

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But then the soul of the disbeliever, how

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will it leave from

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the body?

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Okay.

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Wet, not just wool,

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wet wool. Look at the description.

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He said this the the the the soul

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of the disbeliever will be will be taken

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out of the body like

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wet, like a thorn being pulled out of

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wet wool. And then he'd say it'll be,

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and he'll say it'll have a terrible smell.

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Right? So this is from the of the.

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May Allah make us of those. This is

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when we ask him for. We ask him

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to keep us firm in his religion.

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Oh Allah, make us firm. The one who

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flips the hearts, make us make our hearts

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firm on your religion.

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