Seerah 6 – How Khadija Treated The Prophet
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We know that the prophets of Allah Allah, Allah, He was someone who was young, and his younger days was taken care of by Halima sadiya. After the prophets of Allah, Allah Allah who's married Khadija,
or the Lavon,
sadiya. She came to, she came to Mecca.
She came to Mecca and on the Messenger of Allah salAllahu Alaihe. Salam saw her. Of course, he remembers his time when he was
just a toddler in the desert and how she was the one that took care of the fact that Khadija don't hear the messenger of allah sallallahu nisab saying, Oh, me, Oh, me, oh, my mother, mother,
the Messenger of Allah, salaam cause of course, Lima aside their mother, she is the one that breastfed the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, when the messenger of allah sallallahu was very, very, very young, and of course, the Prophet, someone who's asking how are things going? What's going on? How how's everybody? How's everyone doing? And how are things going, and now there's How's the family? And so she said, you know, the, in that particular time, there was a drought. You know, in Arabia, when there was a drought, you know, when it rains, and that's all that's when that's when
the valleys, you know, they, you see the vegetation grow very quickly, and it shrivels up. And then of course, the animals eat, from that, from the vegetation that grows in the desert in the valley. So there will have been a very, very extreme drought, to the point where, of course, if you don't have enough food for the animals, the animals start dying. Right? And if you don't, the animals don't have anything to eat. Also, you're not you don't have enough milk, also. And so they were going through a lot of difficulties. And this is what, you know, the problem someone's asking what's going on, you know, how are things going? Things are a little bit tough nowadays, right? And so,
the Prophet sallallahu speaks to her. And then, Khadija about the love and hears about it also. For these loves the best the prophets of Allah
and the Messenger of Allah, so Allah, Allah, some love, used to love the Khadija on the other hand, very, very much every time the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi salam, and he did a little will make the Messenger of Allah subhanaw taala so happy, she would do it. She will do it happily, because she loved the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam so much. And so when she hears about
Halima going through difficulties in the desert, and you know what, with everything that's going on the past months and years, for dj de la vida, she
sends with her,
she sends water for the, for the sheep.
And for the capital,
giving she gave he said, take this back to the desert for you.
IDEA law, the law and gave it
because of her love for the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam like this is the province of Allah and sevens, foster mother.
And, of course the Prophet sallahu wa salatu salam remembers how he used to take care of him also. So to please the Messenger of Allah, Allah, Allah. So seeing her in that difficult situation, she gave so much.
She gave so much and she was very, very generous. very kind and very generous. To give someone 40 sheep and, and, and camels.
That's a lot you have to understand. It's a little bit hard because just one or two, okay, you might say okay, give give her three right 40
Like that's like a whole flock that's like a whole business. You're giving someone a whole hope is this not just sort of a hurry here? Like this is enough for you to take care of you for your whole lifetime. That's how the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was with Khadija and that's how much Khadija also loved the prophets of Allah Allah He was the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam also, when
Khadija de la han was given
Zaidan Haritha because he was a slave and he was given to, he was given to her by
by either her cousin, or,
or her uncle.
And he was given the profit someone was given sort of Khadija was given and the Prophet saw him some soft sighs even Niharika and he loved him very much. And he says, Do you like him? So you can have
and then when she, when she gave Zedd, to the Prophet sallallahu sallam, the Messenger of Allah Sana, freed him right away, freed him and
And of course, freedom and then took care of made him his own own son. And so he adopted him. And of course we said we mentioned already the fact that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was given
the messenger of allah sallallahu wasallam had all his children from, from her deja de la vida. And when the Messenger of Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, so first received revelation, the Messenger of Allah lawless, came back, and he was scared. Why? Because he didn't know what was happening. You know, in the in Iraq, war in Iraq, he did not know what happened.
He had no idea what was going on because Gibreel came and he squeezed him so hard reimagine you're by yourself, you know, for us when we see shadows, like we get so scared when you are by yourself in the mountain, the cave, right in the cave. If you see just some types of shadow, you probably have goosebumps all over you already. Imagine someone squeezing you and you don't know if you don't see them. How much? How much more would you be afraid?
And so the prophets of Allah who are scared, he says the Milan is I mean, only that the Euro nidotherapy He came running home. And he said, Yeah, Khadija the sheetala FC. He said Oh, Khadija I'm afraid for myself, like I'm afraid something's happened, or something what happened?
He's afraid. He's afraid for himself that he's afraid someone's
some something or someone has tried to hurt him. Why? Because he was squeezed so hard. And this was when he first received revelation. This Mirrabooka the Hello. And Khadija wrote the Lavon. Has she says she sees she sees her husband in the state? And she says her famous words she says Carla will lie.
Nay, by Allah, gala Lila, you zyk Allahu Allah, that Allah Subhana Allah would never humiliate you.
He would never humiliate you or degrade you. I mean, this is not something that's happening that will just happening to you is not something like it's not something psychological wear or gin or anything like that. No, you are a person. Some things like that would never happen to you, Allah would never humiliate you and degrade you. Hola. Hola. Hola. Aveda, in Nicoletta Salah Rahim in Nicoleta, c'est la, right? You enjoin relations. You are someone who enjoined, you totally join two relations. What that's the whole Hadith. And you speak the truth. You're always truthful. What that means, and you're always
therefore those you know, you're always taking responsibilities and taking care of those who need Botox they will not do and those the poor and the impoverished you help them with their life, and you are hospitable to your guests. What are you know, I don't know why I will help. And you always help people when they're in trouble.
And you're always there for someone when they're in trouble. What does that mean? That Allah will take care of you? That a loss of he or she also knows, she says, someone like you? This someone of that character? Someone like that? Allah who had never humiliate ALLAH SubhanA, Allah will elevate people like that. And she knows that she'll say, she says this, what did she say these words, to calm her husband down also and also, she also shows us how, what kind of person the messenger of allah sallallahu is, and was, that she herself also she had these noble qualities. But someone like the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was even greater in those noble qualities.
who was very generous, Allah gave her a lot. The messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was generous and kind, hospitable, was always helpful. He was the best that Mecca had the best,
the most trustworthy, the most, the most truthful of anyone. So she hearing what the prophet Salah has said.
She goes to she asks to some of the scholars mentioned her cousin, one o'clock noon alpha.
And she asks him about what had happened. And the prophets of OLALIA Sam of course, is brought there and he says, had the NEMO Salinas, Nas Allah Allah Musa,
he says this is the same inspiration that came to Musa In other words, this is something divine from Allah subhanho wa taala. And so she is doing all that she can to help the prophets of Allah
Ali Hassan, and when the messenger of allah sallallahu Sallam realizes who he was, and what he was set to do, the first person to believe
in the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam as a layman by Allah by happy said in our llama Aslam and Hadeel OMA for deja vent, who is the first person to believe
in this OMA the first person to believe
was Khadija Venezuela? Even though it says Khadija I want to help, I will help you learn Islam and be HTML Muslimeen.
She is the first one to accept Islam of all the creations of Allah.
After the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam called people to this message. He was given prophethood he
she was the first one by the consensus of all the Muslims, that she was the first there's no dispute about it whatsoever. No dispute about it whatsoever. Now, let me set up a demo. Hurrah, Julian well, and Brian, no single man or woman accepted Islam before. And so the Prophet sallallahu began. And, of course, when he started calling people to Islam,
he started getting people. You he people would make fun of him of course, even from the very beginning. People would make fun of they would call him names, they will harm him. All of the difficulties that he found outside Allah Subhana Allah gave him peace inside the house with Khadija Ana de la vida.
And that's why when she when the messenger of allah sallallahu comes home one day he came home, the Hadith Sahih Bukhari Muslim. He comes home and Gibreel who comes to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and he says yeah, Mohammed
Mohammed had the idea for that Attica beginner fee or fee Edom and what I'm gonna shut up. So this is Khadija. She's coming she's bringing. She's bringing you at this moment she's making. She's bringing you EDA, which is like you know, things you can like broth that you can eat with, like bread and so forth with our iman food and drinks for you right now. She's preparing she's bringing it to you right now.
Oh Deville is telling the Prophet sallallahu he comes home.
And look, she's already ready to serve the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam bringing him food.
And so the video says FIFA either here at that fakra Ally has Salah Mira, Bihar women knee, Allahu Akbar.
She said he says, I'm on Muhammad Gibreel sister, when she comes, when she comes with that food in the drink, send her my salaams send her salaams from her Lord, and from me. Allahu Akbar,
Allah Subhana Allah that sends salams to her deja are the Lord, the Lord of the world,
Lord of the heavens and the earth, sun Salam is to Hadiya
Sansa loves the Hadiya. And then in In addition, narration is in Bharani in the same particular Hadith, she says who has said
that he is the peace woman was set up
and from him also from Allah is the salah SPS y la Divina Salaam and I find it since I was at my debrief also. And so the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
when he says that when you know when she says this, Khadija also who also says Bashir Khadija
give her glad tidings give her good news that I've given you this good news from Allah Bashir Khadija be the bait and for the Jana min pasa
give her glad tidings in paradise
with have a house in Jana.
House in Gemini Man casa, from what you know, for the pearls, from pearls, like you know how we like what's what are houses that are expensive,
like people like marble right, the shiny white marble what's the most shiny thing?
That's beautiful. It's pearls. You'd never have enough material from pearls to make a house.
Like that beauty. You know people like marble because it's shiny
the walls will be of
that beauty the pure pearls on we can't even imagine how beautiful it is and Allah Azza and he said he says Lhasa Lhasa fee he will answer. You know what in Jana also there is no turmoil
and there is no tiredness. Like she spent so much. There's so much so so many. This person talking about the Prophet Sundaram this person say this and also she's always trying to calm the Prophet sallallahu some doubt and he feels that peace. He can always find peace when he comes home with all of this, you know, when you when when you know that there's so much turmoil outside, turmoil outside and you just want peace, right? And so Allah is sending Glad Tidings you know what?
There will be you will have Jana house and Jana, that there is none of this turmoil that's going on right now. All this chaos that's going on outside and all the difficulties and hardships, no more, no more and no more tiredness. Why? Because she's, she'd spent so much at the service of Islam and the Muslims, and also to please her husband, the Messenger of Allah, Allah Allah who is
that she so she loves the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam so much in the Messenger of Allah cellulitis and likewise loved her so much. And the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam mentions in Sahih Bukhari Muslim. Hi, Ronnie Sadie here, Maria mBEt Imran the best of the woman.
Pharaoh ready, sir. Yeah, I mean, the best of the woman in there, in that time and age was Maria Minton, Ron Maria, the daughter of Enron will hide on his idea been toiling and the best of the women and others in this generation. Is Hadiya been to Hawaii and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. One day he was with the companions of the Lebanon boss. He says that he drew four lines 123 And four, four lines. And he says hold that Alamo. Namaha said you guys notices.
Allah, Allahu Allah, Allah Allahu wa rasuluh Allah. They said Allah and His Messenger, no bass. And so the Prophet sallallahu said, hydro the Salah, I mean Arabic.
So even when he do these four lines, right, this is for life, he said, The best of the woman of this world, or four,
four or the best of the woman of this world. Madame Binta Imran Mario
Imran and asiyah bent mazahub though to FIRA Zoji, Cara, Maria and asiyah
The wife of around the Hadees a bit whaling without in a bit Mohammed in Fatima, the daughter of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. These are the four were the best of this world. And when the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam after Hadith era de la vida passed away can either eyeshadow the la vida she said can either Rabbi shad whenever he had meat, you know, this is a big deal, right? We meet in the household whenever she
or a lamb was slaughtered. She would say to who said RC Lu Isla St. Hi Hadiya take some of this meat and send to the Friends of Hadiya senzel Khadija, and of course I was mentioning this she's like she's a little bit jealous. Like quite a detail. She's already passed away. But look at the prophets of Allah he is
faithful to hadiya in life and even after death,
showing his love so send this to her friends.
Because whatever is asked why, in the lower hippo Habiba, she said, he says, I love that what she loves. So she loves her friends. I love them. So that's what the prophet sends them also, whatever Khadija likes, he likes that too.
Like so whatever your wife likes, you should like that also, right?
And those whom you love, you love that which they love. Awesome.
And so he used to say India was able to help
and he was able to
I was given this
this like you're giving this gift, the gift of my love for her. And
during the time of the prophet or after
Of course after she
even after she passed away the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam
be used to mention her, so often
used to mention her so often that
is, or the law needs to be. She was very big, of course, the prophets and loved that very much. But the Prophet Solomon mentioned Hadiya so much that she said, there was nothing, no one that I was jealous of,
amongst the wives of the prophets of Allah, except for her deja vu.
And so one day she says, I shall she says,
didn't Allah give you someone better than someone's old teeth falling down or anything?
Like she's this is what she's this is of course, the jealous from Asia. And then the profit center but no, like right away says no, map then a Allah Azza wa Jalla Hiren minha Abdel and Delany Allahu
Allah. Hi Ramona, Allah never gave me anyone else in place better than her.
I am honored to be here. I am an SP. worker for Anna's. She believed in me. And the people rejected me
was a DA honey was at the heart of Kedah bananas. And she believed in me when other people disbelieved in me.
And she used to buy certainly B mallei. Is Harmonia nurse. And she used to help she used to spend all her money well.
All her love, just to to help me when other people did it.
And Allah Subhana Allah
gave me children from her also, when I couldn't have children for anyone else.
No, we're not nearly the others, of course, except for Marissa later. Right, except for Marissa later, when he was mentioned, there's no one knows best. That you know, all the other all these other ones that I had, they never had children. For me. It was a deed
that gave him all of his children also. And so the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used to love her DJ rather
than her status, of course, it's very, very well known. Someone who's walking on the face of this earth. And Allah, Allah gives her salaams personal sense of setups Allah, the Lord of the heavens in the island. Allah gives her glad tidings. It's not just from the office on a lot as
Gabriel is sending a message from Allah
to the to Khadija de la youtell Hadiya. This law is sending a message to her,
all this tiredness, everything that's going on.
And that when you you have a house in Ghana, where you will find peace,
you will find peace, you find happiness, and there will not be any more tiredness that you're going through right now.
So Hadid era de La Nina was very beloved to the Prophet sallallaahu. So that's why when he when she passed away,
it was very difficult for him
was very difficult for him. And he never LM as I mentioned, for he didn't marry anyone.
While he still who while he was married to Khadija, he didn't marry anyone who after 5050 years of age 50 years of age.
Prophets Allah was very faithful to her. Why? Because she was always trying to please Him.
Also, whatever he liked, he liked. He wanted to give that he wanted. She wanted to give that to him. To the prophets of Allah.
Shall we ask Allah subhana wa Tada to entrust the highest level in Jannah with the Prophets and Messengers, we ask Allah Subhana Allah to forgive us our sins and our shortcomings. We asked Allah Subhana Allah to give us the best of this world in the Hereafter. But it is also the law to be the Mohammed while adding Simon