Abdulbary Yahya – Seerah 5 – The Character of the prophet

Abdulbary Yahya
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will be learning and you will be able to see now so yeah Dr. Molina May

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I shadow ilaha illallah wa Sharika Why should I do and Muhammad Abdul?

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will may have a level one so level of advisor 1000 or Lima, and my back.

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We shall continue again today with the

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topic of the marriage of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam with Hadiya and Khadija

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are the Lohana, we spoke about the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam being hired by

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by Khadija. And of course, it was because

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because of the interactions and also business dealings, we said that one of the best ways to know a person is to do business with them. And once you do business with them, then you know, the kind of, you know, the kind of people they are, whether they're trustworthy, you know, their character, you know, their true character. Well, when you travel with somebody, then you know, they're also their, their true character. Also, if you Of course, sometimes you when you're with somebody, in normal circumstances, in times of ease, you don't really know anybody because everyone is just normal, but then when times have hardships and difficulties, that's when people's true colors come up.

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you know, after 911, immediately after 911 When there's a lot of pressure upon the Muslims, you will see people like some, some brothers immediately, you know, maybe they used to work goofy or they they took it off. And some brothers make maybe their name is Muhammad becomes mo Vela. Because Billy

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and even till now, right? Because people are alike in times of difficulty. That's when you really know when people's true colors come out. And sometimes sisters, they know they no longer want to wear the hijab, and so forth. And so anytime there's difficulties and those are the those are the times in which people true colors come out. Also when you're doing business dealing money as a fitna money is a big test from you know, Allah subhanaw taala tests, some people with money. And some people when they see money, it's it changes everything. And so in the dealings, Khadija de la Honda when she hired the prophets of Allah, that nation to take care of her merchandise, she threw Mesa

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knew the character even though people knew the character of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, but the character of a person really is known when you deal with money with them, when you have to do business with them. And so, for digital, the law and of course, even before Islam, she was extremely intelligent. And we mentioned earlier her names they used to call her a Tar Heel. That was her nickname, that she was not just just not just any regular woman. Right, she was known for her also her noble character. Of course, her lineage is already well known, but the character of Khadija or the Lohana also stood out. And Allah subhanho wa Taala chose Khadija rodilla and as of course the

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wife of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and it was also her intelligence. And as you know, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was extremely, extremely shy.

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He was extremely shy and Khadija de la vida had married according to some narration, three, three people previous to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. And each one of them passed away. And so, Khadija de la Hannah, she at the time that she was, he hired the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, she was not married.

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In the old days, of course, people woman they used to marry

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and people in general used to marry very early. You know, they didn't wait until after graduation high school after,

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after, you know, college or you know, after PhD or masters or whatever it is after school. Now, these two may vary. They're like one person when a man and a woman when they reached the age of puberty, like that age, that's the beginning of the age in which they used to get married or anything. But he didn't have the love. I'd have course as we mentioned previously, we said when the prophets of Allah is America, there are differences of opinion. And the stronger opinion seems to be that she was around in her late 20s 28 According to one of the narrations, and so a detail of the law and hears about the prophets of Allah Valley herself, and she is the one of course seeing some

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knowing that knowing the kind of person that the Prophet salAllahu alayhi wasallam was, you know, you don't want to let that go. You don't want to let that opportunity go. So he sends for Arsalan Saudi appetit. And he's been to many. She said, she sends her friend her friend, Nafisa didn't mania, to offer to ask the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, if the messenger of allah sallallahu was interested in marrying Khadija, and of course, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam the kind of person that he was, he was, of course, very, very shy. He was extremely shy, he was someone who was very intelligent, but at the same time, also shy and shy. This of course, is part of faith and

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part of human. It's something that is very, very beautiful. It beautifies the character of a person. And most people when they think about shyness, who do they think about, they think about women, right? They think about women, but the most shy of this OMA is the Prophet, some love it myself. And the one who was most shy after the Prophet said a lot and somebody who

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is who's the most shy, basketball higher was was.

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I was mad when I found out the law might have not fun. He's a man. He said, we always think of a woman so forth when he thinks when it comes to shyness, but you know, in this OMA the men, the men, the prophets of Allah Himself, it was might have not found on the law who was the most shy he was so he was so shy and bashful that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the Prophet SAW and said, that even the angels are shy from Earth man, like the angels, the angels of Allah subhanho wa taala. And so, the prophet Salam he was very, very, very shy. And you know, like, you might want to initiate some things like but when it comes to those types of matters, even when it comes to money,

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the Prophet sallallahu ala someone someone you know, when there was an there there was a narration that her sister, but these are sister higher the profits of of RSM also to do with business dealings, and the two people and the other person kept on asking, asking for his wage salary as wage has his share from that particular dealing. And during that same time, she also all the prophets of Allah,

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but the prophets, they told the Messenger of Allah why don't you ask her also for your your money? Not that she wasn't gonna pay him i but she, you know, some people they want it quickly. Right? And the Prophet Sam said, No, he was very shy. He said, I'm too shy to get go. You know, sometimes somebody owes you money. But you're shy just to ask them because you're, you're always worried and concerned about other people. You're always thinking about, maybe they're in a tough situation, maybe they will, they will. And so that's natural shyness, was found in the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. And so the messenger of allah sallallahu

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was not the one who initiated the one who initiated was Khadija and it shows her intelligence also, like this is the type of person here that you don't want to pass up. Right? And she was when she was asking one of the narrations she was the prophet saw the light law and she when she came in, you know, offer. I asked her friend to speak to see if the prophets of alarm was interested. And he himself is he's very humble and shy, like, I don't Why would his why would her for her father want me to be? You know what, someone like me?

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So the messenger of Allah, Allah, Allah has very shy but then when Khadija de la vida, when she initiated the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam agreed, and so what does this also show? What's another thing that we learned from this particular action of Khadija de la vida? We learned that it's okay for a woman to initiate right? Some people they think no, it's, that's that's like, that's, that's like shameful

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Hey, like how can a woman like initiate, right? And in fact, believe it or not, in central Vietnam, the Muslims in central Vietnam part of the culture, it's actually shameful for a man to initiate. So the man just sits there waiting for a woman to come and ask for his message. Now, I'm not joking with you.

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And, and some of us, we might just stay like that forever. Nobody. You know, if you don't,

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you don't initiate right, you don't stop. But it was always in that particular culture. You know, in the, in central Vietnam, the Cham people in central Vietnam, it's always the woman and if a man goes in initiates like, oh, man, that's like, this is like, old, old, old tradition because with with them, like, how dare you? How could you like, even lower yourself to that level? You're going to ask her not?

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Like you wait for the woman to come to you. Yeah, that's right. But in this lab, it's permissible. Either way. It's okay. Because we What are you looking for? You're looking for someone who's pious, have good character. And sometimes the guy is good. And those are the really good people, right? They're really good. The guys who are really good, they're not gonna they're not going around looking for, you know, they're not going around beating the bushes around the bushes looking for a woman, right? They're the shy ones. And so sometimes you just have to initiate and then there's Okay, yeah, okay. And, you know, he's, you know, you just just try to kick started, right? And then

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he goes, he'll be okay. So it's okay. So if a father sees like, you know, some brother who was very, very good, his character and so forth, it's okay for him to initiate and this is what

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this is what some of the companions did amongst them was who it was Armand photogra, de la.

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CAMA Katara de la hora, when, when Hafsa

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would have said was widowed when she did when she,

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you know, she didn't have a husband, the prophets of Allah Allahu wa sallam, of course, of course, we know that the Prophet salon ended up marrying Hafsa. But it was unmodern photogra de la Vaughn, who went around initiating he went to, to his to to Abu Bakr went to Earth man, a fan, is trying to offer him an offer both of them, both of them showed the show that they were not really interested, not that they weren't interested. But they had heard the Prophet sallallahu mentioning mentioning her name in the company. And so they did not want to, you know, they did not want to say anything, until the Prophet SAW, just in case. If this if the Prophet SAW mentioned her name, that means maybe

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he wanted to marry her. So I want to stop asking, asking some of the most he's looking for the best for his, his daughter, right? And he was disappointed. Is this appointment? Why this appointment that everyone's waiting? Why doesn't anyone want to learn?

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He's trying to look for someone for her, right? So he's initiating, why, because he wants the best for his doctor. He wants the best for his daughter. And so that's what you want the best for your children also, you want the best wife for them, you want the best husband, for them, to see someone who's good, maybe you should just try to initiate in May, if Allah Subhana Allah wills, then other will make things easy for your child. So in this case, it shows her her intelligence also, to find this to know the kind of person that the Prophet salAllahu alayhi wasallam was that, you know, this is a person and she's not trying to, you know, do anything to take care of anyone, she doesn't need

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anyone to take care of her. Right? And all the other men are looking to marry her. Why? Because you marry someone like that. Like she,

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you know, like right now all the guys, when they hear the news that Jeff Bezos wife just got divorced again. Like, I was like, man might have a chance.

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You have a chance with her.

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You know, you'd never had the work for the rest of your life to get

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so all the guys are like thanking me, you know, I hope she becomes Muslim. Maybe you get like that.

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And, you know, in the process, we can build a couple of us badges in Seattle also.

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Just I just reading that she just got divorced again after one year. Right. And so you're thinking, you know, someone who has that type of money. Alright, but

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it wasn't just any regular person either. She wasn't just someone who was very wealthy. She was very, very wealthy, and known for her character known to be one of the best, the best of the woman of courage. Invest in a HELOC.

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less than character and only the know of the rich in the novels and those who are, you know, who had high status would even dare ask for her hand in marriage. You don't use the most of the men or she's out of our league

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already. And then just an opportunity to marry someone like that is like, you know, you don't sometimes you don't even dream about it. So for many people in Mecca, yet how Hadiya Radi Allahu anha was this is even before it's

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even before the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam married her, but to have her initiate also to come and initiate to call to ask him a visa

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into mania, her friend, her friend, to come to send the message. And of course, after she sends the message after that,

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you know, then after that, everything else, of course, just

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every, all the steps that's required based on the, you know, custom and so forth. So of course, like okay, if you're, you know, I'm really interested if you can send your uncle come and you know, propose and so forth. The proposal of course, is from the men side, right but who initiated the desire and her desire to marry the Prophet several awfully handsome shows her, her wisdom and intelligence also, in seeing the kind of the person kind of person that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was, and

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and there are many different opinions on who actually met who who married her off to the prophets of Allah Gandhi who said, there are many narrations that mentioned that was her father, who waited for the fajita ventilated. Some scholars have mentioned who had passed away and have been featured at the time of Fiji. Others have mentioned that there are so many narrations that have come to us them, even though the all of them, almost all of them are considered a week or other considered week that because of the many narrations that have come to us, a lot of weak narrations, they, if they're mentioning the exact same thing, then they strengthen each other. They strengthen each other. And so

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who was it the one who was the one that married

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the prophets of Allah married Khadija, after the messenger of allah sallallahu ala set up the stronger opinions her father, her father, some scholars have mentioned that it was her uncle, who married her after the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam when in either case, Khadija Radi Allahu Allah

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was married before to adaptive neuro Alma zoomy. And so, this was before the Prophet sallallahu wasallam and she gave birth to a girl.

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And after that, and by the name of hint, and I will highlight also I will highlight was his who the husbands or husbands Konya, he passed away before Islam in jail here. And after that, and some of the scholars have mentioned difference of opinion of

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who was first and who was second and so forth. And in the ones who Khadija de la, married, but we know for sure, the idea about the levada was was not the first

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not the first.

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She that was not her first marriage, the prophets of Allah honey have married her. And it also shows that the prophets of Allah the names of number one did not marry her. Because of, you know, because because of most people, they think of God because of carnal desires, right? And that's why the prophets are married. Well, of course, one of the benefits and one of the reasons for marriage is murder relations. Yeah, with your with your with your wife, but the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam married Khadija de la Honda, and he also could have married anyone else also and he could have married even more than one because that was normal in the culture, there was no but when he

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married for the Khadija was his only wife until he was 50 years of age until he was 50 years of age. And so

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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married Khadija, some of the narrations have come to us have mentioned that it was Hamza Ignagni, mipela who came to join the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. And came to propose to Hadiya as as I mentioned, of course, you know, you had the marriage, yes, she initiated her desire, but you know, then you go through the process. You go

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Whether through the prophets a process and her deja de la vida, as I mentioned, is you know, she was known as a PA Hira Allah fever. What is taught her by was Pierre FIFA is chased someone who's Pierre, someone who was chased. And she was known to be like that even before the before the time of the before revelation, and all of the wives,

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all of the wives of the prophets and messengers of before were known for the chastity right, because it's not appropriate for prophets and messengers, to marry someone who learns to marry someone who is not not considered chaste even though they might not even they might not be Muslims, like before some of them have marriage, before they became prophets and messengers. And so the, like the wife of Noah, the wife of No, both of them will consider nobles in their people. But they did not accept the message that their husbands brought forth. When they became prophets, some of their husbands became prophets and messengers of Allah subhanaw taala. And so, the prophets of all I have had children

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from her.

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And she and all his children were from Khadija around the lava and now with the exception of Ibrahim, who was from Maria, Maria, the Egyptian Egyptian bondwoman, who was gifted to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. And so his the children that she worked for the Messenger of Allah several lives and the first of course was El casa. And that's how he got his Konya abou CASA has gone yeah, was Abu casa. And so people used to say, you know, the Prophet said Do not, do not use the same cornea as my cornea. In other words, if you have a child, you should never use a boo Casa and some of the some of the, some of the narrations I mentioned. This was during the time of the

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Prophet sallallahu. Only for the during the time of the prophets of Allah after the time of the prophets of Allah was when it was considered permissible. And of course, all his work, he had two sons from Khadija who were Abdullah, and a buyer or the year. Right. And so Abdullah

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Abdullah barrhead. And these were also this is one person that he had many names, and people call them different names. And the other one was a class and the first one that class I'm sorry, a second second

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son was a pothead type or our Abdullah. And the other one was, of course, the person and then of the children. were the daughters of the prophets of Allah Halima. So they were Xena, Xena was the eldest, Xena was the eldest. And the story of Zeynep is very, very interesting. Because she married when she when she got married, her husband actually did not accept Islam, beginning from the very beginning. And so if you want to know a little bit more about some of the difficulties, some of the things that the prophets had to go through to answer because sometimes a person might have a daughter, and they might have husbands that are like, you know, that caused them problems and so

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forth, and how the profit how the problem dealt with it. That's also a story and Charlotte for another time. Also, after that, of course, he had a rough idea. And then Omitsu, they were also they were both married to, or made enough, not the law. And of course, they were married before that also, before with my own fact, but they were, the two wives on Earth might have not been

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the winner with Monroe, the law who married one after the other. After one passed away, he married the other also. And so he had, he was known as blue, no rain, the one who has two lights, because he made two daughters and prophets of the lightning I sent him and they were, of course from all his daughters were from from Khadija hora de la and, and then of course, the youngest was Fatima or de la vida. And so the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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All the other male children, they passed away before revelation, and all the women are the other daughters of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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they were alive until they accepted Islam and so all of them accepted Islam. And they also joined the prophets of Allah and Epsom in Medina and the hedgerow. So for the Giro de la Anna

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when Khadija de la han had passed away,

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some of them of course, depending on the year, some scholars have mentioned that the prophets of Allah is America 28

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When she was 28, but what are

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Some of the, what are some of the wisdom behind the marriage of the prophets of Allah and with a deja vu deja de la Anna was someone as I mentioned, who was very, very wealthy. Remember, the prophet Salam was not very, very wealthy. And that's why Allah Subhana Allah mentions were there they can, either 11

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We found you poor. And then we enriched you and found you found your poor and then we enriched you from being a shepherd,

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to being a merchant to being the wife of Madeira Delilah. Once you once you're the wife of a degenerate dilemma Do you have what do you have?

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You have? What kind of level do you have? have free time? Like, if you if you marry someone, like you know, like Jeff Bezos, his ex wife, you're not gonna be going around looking for a job.

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Right? You're not gonna go looking for a job. I don't know how rich she was compared to,

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to her right now. But that's the Allah Subhana Allah raised the status of the prophets of Allah, Allah herself. So you might go through some difficulties and so forth, but be patient, in them handlers and use in them and nursery. Use raw with every difficulty comes ease. With every difficulty, comes ease, sometimes a lot of us we struggle, we struggle, and then later on in life, ALLAH SubhanA gives us that we should also remember but listen, that even though the Prophet Salam had all of that it was it also allowed him as part of the wisdom of Allah subhanaw taala. And it allowed him also to free himself. Now he could think, think and reflect and he has time, to help and

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to contribute in society. Now, you people can't make fun of the Prophet sallallahu ala somebody says, Hey, look at the poor guy. Now listen to this poor guy. Yeah, he used to be poor, probably richer than you now. Right? We might not have that type of money, but someone who's poor, someone who's rich, and spends his money in the path of Allah Subhana Allah, that's something that's praiseworthy. Right, something that's praiseworthy in the character of the prophets of Allah and energy character,

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Khadija or the law and also stood up, like there's no wealth that benefited the prophets of Allah Hashem, as he himself also said, that benefited himself more than the wealth of Khadija by the law, because it allowed him to have the time and the time to instead of now instead of trying to go around how to raise your family, you know, to put food on the table, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam could devote himself and dedicate himself to the, the message to the message. And there's also an indication that, you know, like, when a person has, you know, like, if you have an imam or you have some a teacher who's calling to Allah subhana Earth, and if he can have his own source of

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income and not be dependent on other people. Yeah, it also helps him to establish the truth and to you know, so he's not worried about speaking the truth. Because you know, if you're dependent upon the board of the masjid, or this organization and that organization, and if they do something wrong, you're like, I don't think I should say it. Because, you know, if the head of the board or the masjid is responsible for hiring you, he's involved in the Rebbe like, oh, no, maybe I shouldn't speak about that topic. Right? It shouldn't speak about that topic. You might get, you know, he might be looking for another person to hire and so forth. And so that's why if you can take care of

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yourself and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was not someone who is our who, of course, he was looking to depend on depend on anyone also people know also that who has initiated he's not going around, you know, some people like, oh, that person is a gold digger. Right? He's looking for money know that he didn't he didn't even they know people know he didn't initiate it. He didn't go after Hadith era, the Hadith, Khadija De La Hoya and seeing how the kind of person that he was, she was the one

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she was the one who initiated let me see, we have slow internet for some reason.

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It's just just stopped. Try it again.

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So like I said, you can't simply say the character of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was unblemished

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in the way, the type of person that he was. And so

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also Khadija about the law and hearing about, you know, hearing about some of the stories that happened with Mesa and so forth. It's also It's proof that the prophets of Allah was a prophet and messenger of Allah. And also one thing also, that that happened also she went immediately, even before revelation before

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On the marriage, there are some indications that the Prophet saw a lover and he was when he came back and she heard about what happened. And some of the miracles that happened during the trip during the trip with Mesa and you know, under a caravan with a caravan that's going to the, for that trade, the trade the trip, the business trip, that the Prophet Salam took the Kyoto caravan with, there are things miracles that happened and who did she, who did she come after come back, she came back to ask waterfall even knew nothing about what kind of what is this? And what have happened, you know, versus you know, if someone that type of shade, and things like that, that happened to someone

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like that it wouldn't happen to anyone unless that person is a prophet. And that person is a prophet. Some of the scholars have mentioned the weakness of some of these narrations that will but we know we do know that Khadija de la vida real really, you know, one of the things that she was impressed about the prophets of Allah and some was, of course, the character of the prophets of Allah names and his honesty, in this trustworthiness and also a detail about the love and how we all know already of the kind of person that he was

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the kind of person that she was, and she,

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not only that, but Khadija radula Anna,

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the Khadija rodilla Anna, she, the fact that she initiated that she initiated the proposal and her desire to marry the prophets of Allah lessons shows the intelligence of Khadija and we know how intelligent she was, and how

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the kind of person that she was in Sharla. There, there are so many stories about her deja de la vida, and so many things that we Inshallah, along the way, will be speaking, you know, speaking more about terms of what Khadija Radulov and

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in terms of what she did, and some of the things that happen

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in the life of the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in relation to

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the life of the prophets of Allah. So in relation to the, the, you know, her character, and how she was how she was when she, when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam came back from the cave.

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And her response to that shows her intelligence also. So we'll move on, Inshallah, we'll move on to some of the, some of the other one second here

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will move on to some of the other other things that happened in the life of the prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. But the marriage of Hadith, of course, was something that was a

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very, very important time during the lifetime of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. And not only that, but it was a turning point in the life of the prophet Sallallahu sallam, because after this, he will, you know, when when the prophets of Allah hustle, would go to the cave, and sometimes he would go three or four for three or four days. Now, you can't just leave your family for three or four days. If they're your family, they're depending upon you, if you go to work, right. And so Khadija della Anna, was also the type of person that she, she loved the prophets of Allah.

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And the Prophet Salam also appreciated her very much. And that's why even afterwards, after the prophets of Allah, Allah said,

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you know, when the Prophet son lost Khadija or de la vida, it was one of the most difficult times in the life and most difficult time in the life of the prophet saw Allah, Allah, Allah and myself. In fact, the scholars of Sierra have mentioned the loss of Hadiya, the year that the Prophet saw some of our lives and loss but deja was a year that was known as I'm and husband. And husband is the year of sorrow, and the year of sorrow, the year that the prophets of Allah so Allah lives and lastly, deja, because no matter what happened outside the household, he could always come back home and feel comfortable, feel comfortable, always feel that, you know, feel feel comfortable. And you know, when

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you have someone who

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have that type of character,

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the kindness, the generosity, the love that you have in the household, you know, no matter what happens outside of the household, you're, you're happy. So there's Baraka because there's Baraka because for some people, some some, some people they come home and they wish they didn't come home.

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Because there's no there's no

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You know, like, you come home and the smiles are gone. Right? And now you're like, you've been worried about what what happened. And sometimes, and so that's why when there's no Barranca in it, then it's it makes life very difficult. And that's why the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he said, the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he said, dunya, meta dunya meta, what is meta dunya the dunya is full of pleasurable things. Mobtown is

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pleasurable things, things that you enjoy,

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when the best

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or hieromartyr and the best of the pleasures of this world, and Murata. Salia, so righteous wife, so righteous, why, because when you have a righteous wife,

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you come home, doesn't matter how much money you have, whether you're rich or poor, nobody's going she's not going to be complaining. She's always going to be helpful.

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But if you have someone who is not pious, just like you know, we are at the beginning of our zero class, we spoke about the first wife,

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Prophet Ismail.

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We spoke about the first one who prophetess by when he Prophet Abraham came to visit her, what did she do, she was always complaining, she was always complaining. So those who are always complaining, they're not appreciative. And so when a wife has not, when a wife doesn't appreciate what she has, she is always complaining, it makes it very stressful for the husband, it's very stressful for has, at the same time have also the, if the husband doesn't take full responsibility, doesn't take care of his family, doesn't take care, doesn't give them the time.

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And doesn't give fulfill his responsibilities as a husband. It makes it also very difficult for the woman because you're putting her out of place. You know, if you if you're expecting her to come and go to work and take care of the family, I know some people, some families, like the husband just doesn't, there's nothing. In the morning, he goes and he just drinks coffee hangs out with the guys as well as the guy. And then his wife was working all day. And then when she comes home, he expects her to cook also expects her to take care of everything else. And so there are there are people there are, you know, husbands are like that. And then they complain, they complain. And so there's

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no baraka and then also, and so that's why everyone has their own responsibility and outside that home. And if everybody takes care of their responsibility, then inshallah ALLAH SubhanA wa COVID puts a burqa in their life. But one of the most pleasurable things that a person can have, is a righteous spouse. Because you can have a nice house,

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you can have a very nice house. But if you come home,

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and your wife is not nice,

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like you don't see all of that, it doesn't matter if you have a swimming pool or not.

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It doesn't matter if you have how many bathrooms or bedrooms or whatever. If you're getting yelled at and you're out feeling you're not happy. It doesn't matter what kind of car you drive,

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your mental health,

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mental health will be in shambles. And you know, if your mental health is in shambles, so you're always worried and you're always being you know, you're you're always worried about, you know what your husband or wife is going to say, and nobody's trusting each other and so forth. That's not the life doesn't matter how much money you have, doesn't matter how much money you have. One of the most stressful things that you can have in life is a broken home, broken home with the children and your wife. And divorce is one of the most stressful things. So one of the most one of the things you can do, what can you do to take care of that? Well, first, first and foremost, is to return to Allah

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Subhana Allah to return to Allah Subhana Allah because well, may Allah yeah Lahoma for Raja, whosoever has Dupois in Allah subhanho wa taala, Allah Subhana Allah, Allah will always open up a way for him. Allah subhanho wa Taala will always make, you know what ALLAH SubhanA wa Taala was always help you in sha Allah, when you're going through those types of difficulties. So the next section

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after the what the marriage with Khadija the next thing that happens in the life of the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is the building of the Kaaba, the bill

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thing of the cabin we spoke a little bit about the building of the cabin already but about half the Senate I shall. We shall record to goofy vena cava.

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Alhaji last but FEMA Kenny

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role I'll be happy. I'll be happy

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he narrates that an Allah Oh hi Abraham. I live nearly bait and fill out. So from the very beginning, Allah subhanho wa Taala revealed to Prophet Ibrahim Mary's to build a house for him on earth and of course the house of Allah, everything belongs to Allah subhanho wa taala. So when you say the house of Allah, it is only indicating the nobility and the status of that particular house because everything belongs to Allah subhanho wa Taala you say House of Allah when you say now but Allah, now to Allah and you know, in terms of Salah, the female camera of Allah subhanaw taala what does that mean? That means this is a special female camera of Allah subhanaw taala so don't touch

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it, don't kill it. Leave it alone. So the house of Allah, like everything, all the houses of other massages in the house of Allah and every house in the world belongs to Allah Subhana Allah. Right. But when you say something, this is the house of Allah, the house of Allah, it shows it the special special position. So Allah subhanho wa Taala ordered, ordered Ibrahim alayhi salam to build the house on Earth.

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And so Allah subhanho wa Taala Of course, after that,

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after the building of the, the house of Allah subhanho wa Taala by Prophet Ibrahim alayhi salam, of course, that was from the time that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was born into to the time that Prophet Ibrahim from time ago probably of him was born to the time of Prophet Ibrahim, how many years was that?

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It was hundreds of years, in fact that that 1000s of years, and not just not just hundreds, right? To four to our time, it's a we're probably near homeless about 2000 years. And then that's a long time for us to hold the unit. The whole of the United States of America is held

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just a little bit over 200 years old, right to live or 200 years old. It's nothing the house of Allah Subhana Allah into the time of the Prophet Ibrahim, I listen to the time of the prophet from the time of Prophet Ibrahim, to the time of the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was something that,

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you know, it was a long time. But the so throughout the lifetime of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, there was a year that there was an abundance of rain, until you see right now, like in Mecca, that there's a lot of rain, it's not the first time that it rained like that.

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It's not the first time that it rained like during just right now and that the the mountains become green, and the valleys become green, and the waters are rushing, it wasn't the first time you have to understand. In fact, that happened during the time of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. In Medina, do you know how many days it rained continuously

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during the time of the Prophet several life, after the Messenger of Allah, so we may do, there was a draft, there was no rain he made when he made the selected, it's just got it rained,

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you know how long rain it rained and it rained in the rain,

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it rained, because the Companions they said O Messenger of Allah, the animals are dying, the vegetation is drying up, make dua for us, then the prophets on next door and it rains and it rains and rains

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one week, and then two weeks and then the companion comes back that same companion comes back you know what he says? It says O Messenger of Allah make dua that the rain stops because the animals are dying

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in the vegetation is dead, we get the rain keeps on coming. So just just a small amount, just enough, enough amount of rain is very beneficial. You know, a,

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just this, you know, an amount of rain that is enough to you know, to, to water to use the water to benefit what rain is very beneficial. Right when it's not in, in when it's not in extreme abundance. When it's so much then then it causes destruction also, like right now in California you have floods all over the place because you know, floods everywhere and now they were complaining about droughts. Okay, you want rain a lot sends down the array and then that rain also can destroy and you have no control over it. Allah subhanho wa Taala is the one that controls who analogical Wilayat illa Allah.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala shows it in

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That's when you start to realize that the only one who has full authority

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of everything and has full power and able to protect and is able to give and take, is Allah Subhana Allah is ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada. So, in one of the years, the the, the, the,

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the actual

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camera itself remember in Mecca, Mecca was a town that was surrounded that surrounded the Kaaba

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the masjid Masjid Al haram.

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And Masjid Al haram was not a masjid. Like we know. You understand, like, you know, like, it's not a building that you go in.

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Right? It was sort of like

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it was the center of this town. Right and then they didn't have walls surrounding the masjid where you come in. Right the whole area pretty much all of Mecca was a masjid and mission Hara. Right as Masjid Al haram. And that's why prayer is the majority of the scholars of the opinion that prayer in Mecca. Not just in a messy, messy little Kappa, the mercy with the cabinet, any Masjid in Mecca, is 100,000.

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And the masjid in the in Mecca, is 100,000. No matter where you pray within the Haram area, within sanctuary of Mecca, is 100,000. Of course you pray in the masjid where the Cabaye is Mr. Kava, the reward is greater because it's bigger and bigger in congregation The larger the congregation, so the greater the reward will be. But in terms of the the status of Mecca itself, during the time of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam, it was the cat bite in the middle and the cat by itself. What remember we mentioned it wasn't just cubicle, it was more like this. It's not cubicle, it's more like rectangular. And this is where this is how the cat was during the time of the Prophet sallallahu

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when he was very, very, when he was Yeah, but then when they rebuild the camera, this is when they this is after the year the flood. And you know, sometimes Mecca it's easy to flood because it's in, it's in a basin. So whenever it rains, all the water runs towards the Kaaba, towards the camera. And so sometimes when it rains a lot, like in the old days when they didn't have much

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Yeosu sewage system or sewer system or drainage system, when they didn't have that for the modern drainage system. And even nowadays, you know, Matco and the rains a lot, it floods also, but you know, the water is running off from the mountain.

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And because it's in the middle of the basin,

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surrounding them with the surrounding mountains, it that's where the water settles, and then wherever water settles for a long time it destroys. And the house destroys any structure generally, when it's in flood when you when it's been flooded, it destroys it and you know, with the houses and so forth, everyone would be you know, responsible for building the houses and so forth. And I think if you see some of the older pictures in the late 70s or in the 70s I think it was in the 70s where you will see some people when the Catalan was flooded, people were making the offer on the kava swimming

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they were swimming around the cab because the actually the water had collected in the area, the cab, people were hanging on to the door of the cabin, of course the door of the cabin is very high. Right and people were already there at the door of the cabin swimming. And they were swimming around the cabin. If you look at some of the older pictures, you know, the older pictures, you'll see some of those pictures, you know, the kava being flooded and so forth. So during the time of the Prophet Salalah annex on the camera was flat, there was a flood, there was a lot of you know, abundance of rain and and they you know throughout the time also and of course, they had not fixed the cat bite

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in a long time. But people go around and people touch it and through time with the winds and rain and so forth. It starts to crumble. And so they decided that we need to build a callback Yeah, we need to rebuild the camera. But when they rebuild the camera, of course, they didn't have enough money to finish the camera. They had plenty of money. But you have to understand the society and look at the society in Mecca. It shows how widespread the evil was. The oppression and so forth they themselves knew because they asked for Halal money and they couldn't get enough.

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They said don't they knew they don't know if you know this, this money is not Allah. Don't bring it because Allah does not accept hello so even Janelia they knew that India Helia they knew. So inshallah next week we'll mention a little bit more the Kaaba, the history of the Kaaba and the building of the Kaaba and the significance of what

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happen. During the time the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam came and took care of that I know we spoke a little bit about that, well, we'll speak about it in shallow, in a little bit more detail. But it also raised the status of the prophets of Allah Himself. It raised the status. So his status was raised, of course, his lineage was raised when the incident of the

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incident up

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Abra they, I can tell that's the status of the courage. You can't make fun of the police, they are the most noble people, they are people God, then the prophets of Allah, our son was born. Right? You can't say he's a poor man. Now, when he gets married, have a DJ, you can't make fun of him because he's poor. I'm not gonna listen to these poor people, poor people limit now he also has money, you have no more excuse. And then also you next, you have to then for after this incident, the mechanism or like, this is a person who is wise, beyond his years respected, love, beloved, by his people, wise, and he is a politician, meaning to me, he's very wise. And luckily he did. And after this

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incident, so every single year, every single thing that happens in the life of the prophet Sallallahu is raising his status. So when he becomes a prophet and messenger, there's no excuse for them to not accept it.

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There's no they can't use this any of these things as an excuse.

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They can't use his character as an excuse. They can't use his social status, social position, as you know, has excused because remember, they didn't want to listen to the Prophet Sal. And suddenly somebody has a messenger of Allah was hanging around with,

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with the poor people, like no, we don't want you to hang out the poor people. But he himself, of course, was an opal, right after he made Khadija radula Island. And so in sha Allah, this is one thing that also will, we will speak about because they are about to fight. And there's about to be a civil war, that because of the wisdom of the Prophet salaallah alayhi wa sallam, he's able to stop them from fighting each other. So he's a man of peace, brings peace, also. So if you follow Him, this is someone who loves peace, instead of war than I said, they're fighting each other, causing friction and division. He is a person that unites. So you can't say no, no, we don't want to follow

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him because he, he is someone who divides because that's what they will say.

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Right? They will say, Oh, he divides us.

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He divides us divides family members and so forth. But is he really someone who divides? Look at his history? Look at his look at his character. He you can't say he divided his purpose is to divide people. No. He brought he united the Quraysh. The cloud from fighting is a man who brings unity, not division, as they will claim later on because he says, of course, because he's calling people to lie Allah, Allah, Allah now. So people don't know you can't love it. You're trying to eat it. You're trying to divide people? No, that's not in his character to divide people. His character was he was someone who would unite,

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unite and bring people together. And so this incident will also be one of the incidents that will be proof against the operation themselves, that he was someone who would, He's not someone who's going to divide as they claim. Because you know, when you do something that you don't like, they always make different claims. And so then you can say these claims are false. That's not true. It's not true. This message they should bring in from ALLAH SubhanA. Allah is not the purpose of is not to divide people is to unite the people because he's the type of person that will unite people. Well, I would tell anyone have any questions.

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Otherwise, we'll continue again tomorrow with this hadith. And next week, we'll continue with the cat bash on the building of the catwalk.

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