Abdulbary Yahya – Al-Nawawi’s Forty Hadith
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The importance of following rules and regulations in religion is emphasized, as it is crucial for success in a team and city. The speakers stress the need for proof of actions and following rules and regulations to avoid rejection and mistakes. The importance of praying at home during a busy holiday season is emphasized, and anyone who makes it illegal to work during the holiday season is considered a minor sin. It is crucial to avoid regretting and thinking of oneself as a fault, as it is not a requirement to work during the holiday season.AI: Transcript ©
And so the word that comes out a lot. So
the word
is from the word, you know, we say, Heidi, anytime somebody speaks how to something smooth, because speech when you say howdy
how to have something happen
it's always something that's new and something has been something that's new also and speak to somebody that every time you say something, it's like, it's something that just comes out, and you're coming out during that particular time. So it's something that's new also. So what we need to
do is to bring out something
that is new, bring up something that's innovative, miraculous, has the unbeliever and being able to do it in our team, in our city, in our even Arsenal yet, because if you make something new, that's not part of our team, which means that it's just part of the linear method. So that by default in the dunya, is it's ugly, it's it's permissible, unless proven otherwise. And so there are certain actions that you have to look back at the default. What are some of the actions that you look at the difficult, there are different types of actions? There are different types of things
that default in different so let's say for example, the default when we do something, what's the default God will do or do not?
The default is that you don't need to do anything unless you have proof or
unless you have proof, that's fine. And so the default with food is you everything is halal. Unless you have proof for that is haram. The default for action to the worship is that everything is haram unless you have proof that you can actually do it. And so the prophets of Allah barracks and so he only had this Deen about
this Sharia about this Deen about
this Sharia ours by lay something
not legislated. A loss of hand was not handled what I did not legislatively the loss of
did not put it in the deal. And it's not something that the Prophet SAW. Well, it was and although
it's not somebody that the toughest
made as a means or sooner or way. And if that's the case of all
why,
because even if it's if even if you have reflux, you will not be able to it will not be accepted, we will have a class
will not be accepted, right? Because, remember, we mentioned there are two, there are two actions. One is that which is sincere, if a good if a deed is done correctly, but not sincerely, that it won't be rejected, it won't be accepted, it will be rejected, if a deal is done sincerely, but not correctly, and it's also rejected. And so lots of 100,000 women
who would have had a loss of how I found this as I have not been ordered except and so Allah subhanaw taala and sort of the vein and he says oh my oh you
hopefully see that.
I have not been ordered except to worship Allah meclizine Sincerely meclizine Hello Adina whenever roughly see
you everything for the sake of a lots of Africa with purity. And so you have to worship Allah subhanaw taala sincerely and also Parramatta also says you also have to worship Allah subhanaw taala correctly, we'll make up 30 later this time.
On whoever six others six anything else? Besides Islam has his way as his D. The dean is
your mic on
the way for the use of data we're not excited. We will definitely not in here after you will be amongst those who are considered losers. Why? Because if you worship alone, you don't worship across the city. You don't worship the loss of hierarchy that it will not be accepted. So this is an awesome
so the fact that a lot of handle out at the end teaches us
that we need to also have my dad every day, at least 70 times a day. Later in the day him well as
we go
along we will ask the Lord to keep us on the straight path.
dread,
and not the path of those who also strange. Were the people who were the only ones who they know the truth. They know what the deen of Allah is. They know what's mine, what's right and what and what is correct. And they are lying to you. They will they know the truth. They know the truth, but it will not be accepted, it will not be accepted. Why?
Because they know the truth. They're not sincere in your actions, the lessons in their actions, we have areas, and then there are some people who don't know that.
They're very sincere. They want to do good, but they're all
aliveness, that those are like that. The whole I mean, the Jews,
the Christians, see, the Christians want to do good, but they don't have the truth. And so they're going at it all wrong.
And so Allah subhanaw taala, will not accept it. And the prophets of Allah
says, also, this is another narration. Anyway,
this is a timeless mcnabola realized,
at the beginning as well.
Whoever integrates you something new in this religion, that's not a part of it, you will be rejected. And whoever does the team, is what you're not the person will enter things, but you're the person whose fault you're doing it. If you do it, and it's not part of the team, then it also may happen. So in this particular
man, whoever, whoever innovates and woman I'm gonna pay unless it can be valid, and
whoever does, when there's an act of worship, or other acts,
if you're not doing it, in accordance to what Allah Subhana Allah and His messenger told us to do, then it will be rejected. And that's why the loss of habitat and sort of the dynamics as well and how there's nothing stopping
and this is my path, the straight path.
So following
Follow Up Rule following the way of Allah and His messenger. Well, let me tell you also, do not follow the other paths that the Father had the Quran says, you will do your
divining from his path, we will be restraining from his path and so the scholars
of Islam have a mean that in the Rebbe data set into either Juliet
headed up to worship will not be accepted, as mentioned, unless you have a class
and will tell me also sort of verbally.
How do you know Mutanda is following the way of the Sunnah democracy
and the Quran, the word of Allah Subhana Allah. And so from this particular Hadith, we understand that no matter how sincere a person is, even if you're very, very sincere, and even your heart, you have a good heart.
Know that if you're doing it incorrectly, that you will not be accepted. So sometimes the shape one comes at you in two ways, he hits your attention. And sometimes he makes you do things that are not correct, even though he might even you might even put you towards doing having good intentions, but he will push you to doing something that is of no benefit, that which will be rejected by Allah Subhana Allah. And so, sometimes there are certain things, somebody might do something that's a part of the DNA of philosophy,
but it also might be rejected also, likewise, there are certain things because you have to follow six, six things, there are six things in order for you to have a DGX accepted.
There are six things that you have to look at really, there are six things that you have to you have to try to see if it is important. So six factors, the first factor the seller, a seller, the reason the reason why you're doing it.
The second is the title of
the title deed, because it has to be the correct title. It has to be the right reason and the third is that it has to be the correct amount, the quantity
and the flooring. It has to be done. The way that is that the
Okay fear, which means the, the, the act and the character the way you do things. And the fifth is you have to do it in the right time. And the sixth sixth thing is you have to also do it in the right place, because there's sort of acts that you do in the wrong place, you will also not be accepted. So if he doesn't fulfill these conditions, then that act is considered rejected. And smart. It's not a part of rd
in the tournament from from this from these angles. So what does it mean by only say, sub reason that it has to have the right reason? If you have the wrong reason why you're doing it, that it's also going to be rejected. An example of that, is that if a person
were to say, every time I enter my house, and they're afraid to lock us, and he says, No, you've I want you to do something. He stands up and he says, Well system every time you go home to your house crates
are typical for you to lock. So what prayer is prayer something is something that is good. Yes, yes. But the reasoning for your prayer is incorrect. What's wrong? So this is considered, even though it's prayer, some people say prayers.
But the reasoning for your praying is wrong. And so the Act will really
we have okay, we entered the house, somebody might say, well, you have because we went to the masjid. The process of alumnus
either become a master,
right? But I just had to use it as a category. When we just invested don't sit down with a preacher. So we have this from an order for the prophets.
But please, he mentions masjid, when you enter the bus, the reason why you play is because you enter the masjid really make your house the same as that. And it will be rejected. You can't say if you want to say okay, every time I go home, I just want to pay, that's fine.
That's fine if you want to, but don't make it as a part of something that you're that is part of the What are you calling people. And you say this is good. This is good, do this. If it was good, then the prophet would have told you that there was no Companions would have done it before. So the reasoning has been correct. The reason for you praying, praying is part of our deen. But the reason for a pray is also or if a person makes another reason, let's say for example, he says, you know today is the 70.
Formula. This is a day in which the Muslims were victorious in the battle.
And this is the day in which the Muslims are victorious. And another buddy, everybody today gather together and say aloha.
Make vision. So everybody knows that today, if so, and so forth. This is the day with a loss of Hannah Montana invited the prophecy a lot and it's not.
And so everybody has to fast is fasting good? Yes.
The reasoning for Above 40 is incorrect. And so if the southern for the reasoning for is incorrect, that's also rejected. So that's the second first, first and the reason I said that the second type that has to also be correct, is agents, the type the type of things that were ordered to do. And if you change that time to a different time, then they will also learn a tactic. So like I remember last time I mentioned, you know during a PE class, what do you do? And
what do you swap? If you have a
if it's a
baby, it's a male and squats are two two sheep, two sheep or to vote. That kind of now vigorous slaughter chickens are what
make people aspire but the Djinns the title has to be the same. And that's why also have the scholars adventure.
You're able to read aloud has coming up and
here is the slavery
of what she can win
leading up to either slaughter cattle or cattle or we can slaughter sheeps and goats. So those are the
Three types. If someone wanted to slaughter a horse,
would it be accepted?
They won't be accepted because it's
not considered, but
it's not considered a type II allowed, you're allowed. So somebody might find something even
bigger, you know, and so forth. And it might be, you might think, oh, it's more expensive to buy a horse like that the small let me stop. But that's not what we're ordered to slot.
And so the type of slot and the type, also, it's contradictory
to what is being ordered to do that it's also rejected, that means you're of our he's not accepted, because you've chosen you've chosen the wrong.
And you chose the wrong in the wrong case. For those who say, like, for example,
they might have us on
a ventilator, is it permissible to tilt to eat?
Different difference of opinion amongst
the majority of the stock that is permissible to eat?
And so, with the exception of aluminum, he said that, he said, It's not permissible, because it has on Yeah, what do
you have on us? Teeth? Right, the teeth? Some scholars say it's not permissible, right? And some and others have said, no, no, it's permissible, because those are not the
rule, there, just the horn button upside down, like down there instead. But you see, the use of this is different. But anyways, it used to be if you choose the wrong one.
The third thing that has to be correct also, is that a museum,
the amount, the number, and so forth. So for example, if a person they move, and they want to make a loop, instead of washing the lemons, three times, they want to wash it four times, they want to wash it four times, and they say, you know, we'll go everybody, you don't need, everyone should do it four times, instead of three times, wash your limbs three times, instead of four times instead of three times, then that will also be rejected, that will be rejected. So that will be rejected. Why? Because we're all relative to the maximum nation watches for three, and should you anymore, if you want the one, two or three, it's permissible. But anything more than that immortal, is going to be
rejected. Just like
there's some, there's some prayers or
there's some players that are affordable, and some prayers are really mobile, if you pray less than that, in the obligatory prayers, it will be rejected, we pay more than than modeling
for a customer will not be accepted. You have to your prayer is not accepted, your prayer will be rejected because of the amount. And like I said, the professor, nobody has heard you say,
he said Monza
in the Messenger of Allah will do three times as he watched his his limbs three times. He said,
what I was,
whoever does more than this, and he has done something bad. He has transgressed, and we've done something wrong. This is one incorrect, it's also incorrect. And so those who will make will look forward time, so the number has to be also in accordance to what is being taught to us. And the KVM, which means the characteristics of how you do things, has to be in accordance to what we were taught. So if you're doing it, you're doing it incorrectly. For example, if you pray, and you mix a God for a miracle, is Allah understanding up then you go down to do first, and then you come back on the microcode? You may
then your prayer is rejected. Because you can then be the most sincere person but that prayer is rejected because we're all comes before us to you. And so when you flip it, then you're not doing it correctly. Or someone wants people who says, you know, let me let
you know, since there's nobody in the bathroom right now. I want to watch my team force.
Why because maybe somebody will come with CB Wi Fi, pick them up,
they'll make fun of that. So I want to get that out of the way first. Because you know, if you put your feet on the safe non Muslims when they say.
So don't say, even though it might work, but you know, like at work, if you put your feet on the sink, people are going to like, and that's fine, I have different issues. And or
you can wipe over
your socks. But let's say you flip and you say I want to make I want to wash my hands.
Before I before every, you know, because sometimes, you may say that's the most difficult why because after I wash my feet, I can put on my socks, right after that, the other will do.
So if you flip the accent will do is your will do valid,
you will do is not valid, it is not valid, because it is going against what is taught to us in this unity so that they feel the way you do it is also incorrect.
And so the fifth thing is the fifth thing that you have to follow, and you have to keep in keep in mind when you're when you're looking at a deed, is the
deed isn't the time, the time and you can't do this action can't do before you can do.
So like for example, if somebody wanted to pray,
you know, they have lunchtime. My lunchtime is at 1212 o'clock, from 12 to 1230. And so you know, let me pray my door right now. Pretty my deliver? Is your prayer accepted? No, because Google doesn't come in, for example, until 106. So if you're playing at 12 o'clock, and you say well, but that's all I have, at one o'clock, I'm gonna have to be at work. So I can, but you can't pray before. And you have to pay on time. Or you can there's a time that's astrostatistics great. But if you're playing in the wrong time, even if you're sincere
will not be accepted not time to create the idea. And you're planning for the time. And
some people eat about half my tears coming up. And they want to slow.
And they will they might say well, I have an animal required, we'll pray that we use water.
Before I go pray that slavery is not accepted.
That all here should only be done when?
When is it? It has to be done after.
After the play, that's when you do that
then it will not be accepted. And so the time has to be perfect. The other thing that also has to be correct. Is is the place the place is what is the place, the place of it. Like for example, if somebody wanted to
make Africa and say I want to make
I want there's a lot of people that have questions that come to me in
other words, I'm you know, I'm assisted. Can I make a pickup in my house?
Can I make a pickup in my house? And I think
it's only the massages, you can't make the data in your house. You can't make it to the school. You can't make it because in other places except for houses.
So if somebody says I want to pick up at home that I want to go to.
No, we say that it's not accepted. You're at the Catholic in Africa as a specific
place. And that specific place is is the masjid well that took us you know at the 94 level Masada and do not, do not have marital relations with them while you're waiting to come in and massage in the house.
And the houses have a loss of habitat. And so every single thing you do know somebody says this is good. Do you look at why are you doing?
How are you doing?
And you're looking at the timing
and the place and the amount. That's all and the type also, sometimes if these things are incorrect, then it's there will be rejected even if it's even if you're sincere. So sometimes a lot of people like for example, they say Okay, everybody, let's celebrate the birthday of the province.
All right, celebrate the birthday the property.
And then that you asked, What are you guys doing? We're making subtle sell on Sunday.
And we're calling people to, you know, calling the poor, and we're coming together as brothers and enjoying your help, you know, like, heeding the poor and feeding the needy.
But the reason why you're doing it is because it's the birthday.
The reason for so because the reasoning for it is incorrect, that it's rejected, because
there's no, we don't have any evidence that the companions did that, even though some people wouldn't they always say, I'm not doing anything bad. I'm not bringing people to drink alcohol. I'm not yes. But even if it's a good deal, like for example, even
if the reasoning is incorrect, there will be rejected most prayers. But if you're telling people every single time to go home to pray, every time you do to your house, there's a debate,
like the hit the masjid, which you'd have to hear, will
also tell you do that. No, we say that's an innovation. That's a bit even though it prayer, the half brother of prayer is good. I'm telling you what to pray, it's a good thing, no matter how good your intentions may be, if it's not what is taught to us, then it will be accepted or not.
And so that's why there's, there's, there's so many, there's so many other things that are related to this.
There are different
there and then there are some actions. There are some actions that are rejected, because of specific reasons that are told to us in the Quran and Sunnah. So, for example, Allah subhanho And Allah says, they are able to do
either moody and select new young Hindu market place, I realized the Kerala weather
plus I will be here, the alarming call, all you need is a new deal.
If you hear the alarm on
the call, which means that this is first I will go to the remembrance of Allah go to the prayer, and that you have to stop. And Allah says whether
li violence,
live buying and selling. So if someone
were to have like, it's time to eat me, it's time to bite, let's say it's the advantage.
And if you sell during that time,
then you're both against the older another conscious of a lot of orders of Allah and His messenger. Right, the order was a lot of total. And so some of the scholars I mentioned because of that, that particular act that you're doing nullifies your buying
that is that agreement is ended up because the type because you are doing something
retire, which Allah told you not to do.
Leave it. And so that's why some of the scholars
have mentioned that whatever you bought, and that does not count, you have to return.
And some scholars have mentioned how you know if whatever it is you're doing, it doesn't count, which means what this means when it's time to pray up and close down the shop. Because whatever buy and sell today, you'll be going against the orders and lots of
going against the orders of velocity.
And
and so there are some times there's some that are rejected because it's against profits. So certain actions like for example, if a woman gets married without overly
like you said woman gets married without actually in that marriage.
Why because the prophets of Allah, barnacle Sunset Valley
is anybody. There's no decaf. There's no, there's no
marriage.
Marriage Contract is something that you have already. So anytime a sister says okay
I don't need my father and brother.
I'm married.
Then if that's the case, someone does happen.
We say that that marriage is rejected, because the path of cellulite is
There's no data set, by the way, unless you have an audit.
And so there are different different things.
That and then there's some issues that the difference of opinion among scholars in relation to it also. And so it conditions like a person or two, with a person wants to,
to divorce.
They want to divorce the wife, and she's in his State of Nexus. And one of the things that prohibiting
profits in particular, is that
valid or not. So like, for example, if somebody plays, according to you,
if you pray in the house, that's unstop.
You pray on stolen property,
then your prayer is
according to the majority of the scholars,
these coins, the majority of scholars still valid, but the same is
so let's say for example, the coin of the handling.
If a person buys a house owns it is based off to have up this is like
any player that played in the house that's acquired in our manner players in
previous is very strict because what you that's that's the place Hara, the majority of stuff that's haram have the acquiring of the house is different, then the prayer itself separate is that that seems to get stronger, and a lot some hammer that knows best. And so there are reasons why some some things will be rejected, and some things may be accepted. So sometimes, when a person buys something, like for example,
if you if you're an if it's an involvement with you, but
then that particular transaction is also rejected. That means if someone says, no, no, you can't give a gift, give me back my money,
I'll pay you only that. And that's, that's the only view of the transaction itself, itself is not invalid, but the taking of the extra is considered invalid. It's haram, something that's not permissible. And so.
And also,
if somebody prays at a time in which is prohibited, you pray at a time on a very regular summer, you can easily say, you know, it's after hours of hard work.
And you just put prayers
because there are certain things that you that are good, but there's a time
there's a time, sometimes there's a platform, and there's a way to do things
that are considered correct and incorrect. So based on this ID, we say that
the process of logging
My God, if I have my license,
or whoever innovates and the innovation can be in the reason.
Innovation can be the reason.
And innovation can be in the amount of
innovations, the way you do things. And the innovation can also be in a time frame.
And innovation can also do that place
an innovation and also be in a specific error area, or time or sometimes it's just contradictory to another Hadith, or something that were ordered to do or to not do. And so
we just just to review for you things. There are certain things that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam mentioned in terms of
the surgeries that when it comes to innovation, and non innovation
that was not in the gym. It's like you can't innovate. It's not in the worldly matters. Or if you make up like a food put you put things together, like nobody puts these things together and you like make it up. Okay, I think this is good. Yeah, it was good that you start selling you know how some people make different products. It's good and it's part of the, the American so you can do whatever you want. The default is as Khaled and talking about
otherwise, but it would be really hard. If it's in our
within our team, then any innovation, it is hard.
And innovation in it is not only haram, it's rejected, it's rejected, that means you're not going to get any reward for
those who do it, they will not get any reward.
Right. So let's say some people, they want to celebrate a birthday party, or they want to do something that's, you know, like something good. They think it's good to them to
make a big hit in a certain way, gather people to do something on a particular day. And they do it every single time, then that's considered innovation. And, and the act that they do is considered rejected, rejected by what we talked about a loss of a hammer.
And that's why sincerity was not sincere. When the loss of hammer
he says when I'm when I'm an actual completed eyelid
it is a de associated with you and it's not sincere, I will leave him and when whatever he has, as he has associated with me. And here we learn money, Andromeda,
nice ID, or whoever also does a deed. That's not part of our deen. And he makes it part of the need is rejecting. So let's say from you know, the Christian where we learn from when it comes to innovations, innovations, for example, they celebrate the birthday of property.
That's something that's innovative, if you look at the history, and you know, it's innovation, because even they themselves don't celebrate it. They didn't celebrate it before. In fact, you know, the people who came to America, they didn't celebrate birthdays, or Christmas, because they knew that Christmas is the innovation. So the people in Massachusetts, Massachusetts, colonials, Massachusetts, they passed the law. If you were to if you open your shop, if you close your shop on December 25.
On December 25, you close your shop, you will be fine for closing.
Why? Because they know that you celebrate Christmas.
Because why do they why did they come to America? Why did the Protestants and why did the people who came to America because they knew the people in England or
in their religion?
They call them
because they celebrated Christmas. And so they came here and they said, if you look at the history Christmas, in Massachusetts, they passed a law I forgot you will find like five
clients the
sort of like it's like $50, or something like that. And if you close your shop, that means if you close you didn't come to work on Christmas, the middle of Saturday business and celebration of Christmas.
And that's and that of course now nobody knows.
Nobody even knows you look at the history. They did. And also how do you watch Allah? How do you worship?
What are they? What are you going to
listen
to what
they say different? Different songs.
Every every country says Oh, has
everybody makes it.
Everyone makes movies. That's not when it comes to do. Because there's no source no evidence for everybody does.
Everyone does in their own way. So they are for example, molded. Those who work who celebrate moment before
you go to Pakistan, holidays are celebrated. And certainly
if you go to
Somalia, and those are so they do differently. Because there's no there's no broken. There's no magic. There's no
because it's not part of our game. So everyone is thinking, Okay, this is good. It looks good to me when we were developers. And somebody might be like, Okay, let's, let's meet the kids or whatnot, let's dance. And so when they can and they dance, and you'll see people dancing differently. You want to try to do different things. Because there's nothing everyone is using the brain there.
It's not based on any of the evidence and sound evidence, and so forth. So that's why we have the data people calibrating
and do everything different. But when you have the sun that Quran and Sunnah, everyone goes back to it. And then we, for example, we pray that, with the exception of few minor details, if you go to China, everyone prays five times a day, everyone prays five times for NASA, and to 5g and people anywhere in the world, four places.
Right.
And when it comes to
the fast thing, everybody fast
sensor from dawn to sunset,
because we have proof evidence.
And so, when it comes to the vid, most people they think that they think is good, or this is good for you. It's good. So those who say that it's good. That means what, what does that mean? They either that means either the deed is complete,
that is the practice or something like that teachers, you know, when we do build better, this is something that's better, that he should have taught, but he didn't teach.
Let me just complete know, everything that he has taught everything that you can do to earn the reward. Allah subhanaw taala added this message already
at the Omega mental level, let's move on to other
what are we doing
today, I completed my favorites upon
completed
my
complete my religion, religion for you. And I have completed my favorite upon
what will lead to love with Islam, and I have chosen Islam as you lose, so that everything that's halal and haram good and bad. So
you don't need to add anything. You don't need to
subtract.
Everything is perfect. A lot says, a commodity level.
What I meant to do and I completed my papers upon the blessing of the greatest blessing is at least and it's already completed.
The Blessing has already completed deliver what is complete, whatever you need to enter agenda to the pleasure already to talk to wherever they anything that's bad that you could avoid. It's already been taught to you. They're gonna talk to you and so anything you want, you go back to the Quran
and the prophets of Allah. So with that inshallah will.
Next week we'll move on to the sixth highlight. And before we get to a nutshell that I just mentioned the holy the hadith is from next week we'll elaborate
but this is the Hadith we'll cover next week is Allah is the Hadith RB Abdullah
calm so natural so long so the love
I heard the message of a loss of a little earlier in the hierarchy analysis is not haram and the Haram school webinar
wish to enter between them there are matters that are out there 11 minutes most people
know how many times your lover stays away from the doubtful matters of a distributor led wherever and he has protected himself
protect us as dean in response many of you stay away from the shoebox
now these are some things our courts they say we stay away from the you'll be safe when my mom buys a shoebox but if you're always this is done for you always do this is done and you always will part of how you will eventually it's quality
cut well here are how just like a shepherd
the princess flock that's always going into the border. huge gap arcades like almost gone to the other people
right at the border and what level in the liquidity. MILLIKEN Haven. Every King has his boundaries. And that will enable llama hiding and in the boundaries of Allah Subhan Allah, Allah.
Allah we're in the middle of the desert he was born and also in the body. There is a flesh either solid. It is if it is pure and clean, solid just
in this whole body. Whole body is way too fast. And it is not good. I said that Jason could have said that Jason cool.
And then if it is, it's not good for him, his whole body is awesome. That alone is the heart. And so the Hadith, under this hadith is a very, very broad idea. And it has a lot of benefits. So the next week, we'll be covering that we asked about some teachers
and
so on
yes,
if you lose
your will she's in her letters of law.
How do you know? The thing is, first of all, the divorce, whether whether you're divorcing, divorcing, and Islam is certainly the voice in this bed.
And you should never be in haste in divorce, of use that with your wife, that particular one.
Already, you can divorce.
You can divorce
because you have to divorce her after she's, she's in a state of purity. And let's see what he has no, no, this is ideal.
And sometimes baby, she's pregnant. You slept with it. And then he divorced. Now you're regretful.
Right. So that's why you have to hold back. Okay? Are you stuck with it? You can't divorce if she's in romances, you can't divorce. Why? Because a woman in events is there not some some woman they're not in their natural emotional state. Right. And so sometimes they get angry very quickly. Just like, it's like, you know, when you're hungry. Like this little thing makes you
angry. But as soon as you finish eating right.
Now your car right. Now your car. And so you're angry as quickly, you're calm now, even though you're hungry when you're driving.
That's why in the afternoon when people
are coming home, because everybody's hungry.
People come and go.
And so that's the time in which everybody is like road rage.
And they drive and they get mad at you. For even if it's really, this is red, and it just turned green just for less than 10 seconds.
If you don't, your car's not moving yet.
Angry very loud, because they're hungry. And so when you're hungry, you're not in your natural emotional state. For many women, when they are in their menses place, it's very difficult for them. And so for guys, imagine you're hungry. You hunt for the pool. Every time you're in that state. You're not in the natural state. And so sometimes if a person divorces his wife, and then later on next week, he says she's good.
Yeah, because she was in romances. And some woman that you hate, sometimes that's why some of them they have to take,
like medicine time. No, because it's
difficult because it would be the worst. You don't know. Does that count? This is where the difference okay? Scholars, some scholars say it doesn't count other scholars, the majority of these folks it counts. It counts. Of course you still have three.
So that's why you should never evolve three times.
A lot of you three chances are you said no, I don't care. I'll take one only one strike up like
why? Why Allah, Allah gave me chances. Why? You know, and I was happy because what happens?
You can't this this this
electrical Kuru li menstrual cycles. That means that the conciliation period and that's why the divorce according to the Sultana, you never regret regret. It's not something that you just do or that you shouldn't have divorced.
If you did it according to select, and you didn't get back with her.
Like to know I don't regret it. Right, because you took all different contract measures, and you did everything that you're supposed to do. And you did it correctly. It's all about regret. That if you do incorrectly those are the people who
then that's when they regret. So as for divorce well if you don't know, if you don't know and assume that's also your fault.
Right? That's how you saw
your heart because you're if you don't that means that
If you didn't ask, so before you divorce your wife or your differences, you are okay. I can't wait. I have to wait. Am I?
Right?
is normal? Yeah. Right. And so that's your fault. And so that's why that's why some
the Jordan scholarships account and Amara Dylon he divorced his wife, when she was in her menses and the Messenger of Allah ordered to take her back to take the holiday. That's where the scholarship in the scholars midway discuss a guest he counted as a divorce or the order to take her back because that divorce is not a correct divorce. But it counts as one. Still, when there's two more, yeah, one strike still counts as a strike. But if that was the end already, then so you should so if you want to divorce your wife, first of all, you have to pay the thing first, okay?
If I did, yeah, that means you're okay with this is why you're divorced.
And now let's start with.
Okay, now she has her lenses.
And even after the divorce, you're still together, you can't pick her up and then go back to your parents.
You can't pick up and you can't just leave.
You have to stay together still. And then when you stay together, maybe you remember the old time
then you might come back again. So that's three menstrual cycles a long time. But most people don't follow that a lot of people don't call it as soon as an important topic. They have no more chance for reconciliation.
Right so that's why the person divorces. We don't know how long those verses to cancel because it's your fault you should find
these find out the fees that I mentioned and a lot
of sadness, okay, great.
That's okay. What do you mean? No.
Yes, yes.
It's better to
all of a sudden the players are better to pray at home I do pray at home better but what I'm saying is that if somebody says if I go more, you know, anytime you go home I pray because the reason why he's praying that you enter the house like this into the house, okay, into the house that year to date, somebody makes up something like that. But as you go home to pay your son to fit home that's good. It's more rewarding payment must the Sunnah prayers are more rewarding at home and the obligatory prayers and more we work in muscle but I'm not
saying pray to luck as because there's a tutor kind of person
in the house so that the reason why you praying to the house or to hear to hear
somebody might say for the parka Oh, if you go to school to work before you sit in
your office creating records for you sitting on paperwork.
See there's nothing in it that tells you to do that. So when you're telling people at some point it's a good thing. Prayer is always good yeah but the reasoning for you I tell everyone at work to pray for right to work as
you can say if you if you'd like to pray it's good thing to pray. But it's not part of our deen to do so. And if you are doing because of that reason, and it's rejected
the iOS like a
pillow.
For example in this country, people work shift is on that and there are choices.
And your work study will change before your choice and you have to work these days or you have to be on
you don't have choice and you lose the German.
Like I said
Joomla is something that's mandatory. If you can't get off right if you can't get days off for Joomla then you have to look for another job.
You have to look for another job that you're able to you're able to be able to take him out on the
bus he said three consecutive
different day in the honeymoon. I mentioned if somebody misses three consecutive but still you don't you should missing them.
Why does not miss any some people that might miss one or two rather like
But
he didn't he couldn't he doesn't want to do it. He says, I told her he said, he said, Okay, on every tomorrow when I can't make it, I bring an onion. Because you can't go to the masjid
because
they thought, well, you know what that means? And it's It's haram.
It's not just you, okay, I don't have to go. Like, I'm okay. I'm not. I don't have to go crazy. Because I can't go to the masjid. And so even the idea, just this feeling sorry for
any
of
the other questions?
Yes. What did the person
say?
Yeah, if somebody, somebody does appraisal article missing, itself, is missing something that's obligatory. And anyone who makes it something that's obligatory is considered the least of which is considered the major sin. And anyone who, who,
who everyone who says they don't have the page on getting Joomla is not a great way, of course, and that's
it, they say that Joomla is not a good choice, because they don't make it something that is everybody knows is
to say that it is not illegal to work at all. Joomla is not part of the team, then that person has rejected, rejected the DM philosophy.
And but somebody was lazy, they say, Oh, they are the manager. Or they say, you know, like, that's, that's, you know, that that's, that's considered that that's on them, in terms of, you know, whether
how you deal with them or not, depending, you know, some people just just they try, but they're looking for a different job and so forth, and they miss some tumor. Well, that's between them and a loss of hammer. When it comes to those mandatory, they're sitting, and they're deserving of
the deserving of punishment. But to say that DOMA is not something that some people they say that, you know, it's just lazy laziness, but they never want to do that you don't want to ignore. It doesn't mean you're lazy. It means you don't believe it's obligatory. Why? Because maybe once in a while, once
a year.
But you haven't done a whole year or two years. That's not because you don't believe that? It's because related people releasing once in a while, right. But lately for 14 years, like
that's because you don't believe in something?
Yeah.
No, because because if you need them and give them advice.
If they make you bet, and they influence you in a bad way, then you need to, but if you can still influence them. You don't
continue to try to remind them maybe one day sometimes they never listen. But then at the end the last person last moment.
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