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Bukhari 069 Menses Hadith 313 318
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Lesson 69 – Chapter 12-17 Hadith 313-318
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the Cleveland model Marathi are in the hosley her main Alma Haley, a PB using perfume. Lil Marathi for a woman meaning a woman putting fragrance on herself when in the hoarsely her at the time of her rehearsal at the time of taking the bath with Mr. Hale, which breath after menstruation, meaning that when a woman takes a bath after her hailed, then what should she do? She should also perfume herself. Why? Because hailed we know has a foul odor foul smell and in particular some women for them it is even more foul smelling. So even after washing with water the smell may be present. So yes removing the blood is necessary cleaning the area is necessary but perfuming it putting
fragrance on it is in a way of you know getting cleaner and this is the reason why it is recommended. Remember it is not magic, it is not mandatory, but it is recommended. So this means that a woman should perfume herself in her private area on taking this bath off after the head. And remember this is part of the cleaning not after taking the bath but before or during mating one should perfume themselves in that area. And this doesn't mean that a perfume has to be used but even you know a soap or something should be used.
At the center of the law. hypno Abdullah Habibullah had the center hammered of New Zealand and a UVA and have selected honorable Abdullah Alicia of new herson on half slaughter on omiya. So Amir, I'll tell you how she narrated by that she said could never known her. We were forbidden under header that we mourn. I let me get in on a dead person on a deceased person for a lesson for more than three days. In that except meaning the only person who was allowed to mourn for more than three days was who are less Elgin on the wife of Martha Assurant Marsha four months and 10 days and in this era that in the spirit of mourning, while an actor healer, we would not wear cotton wool and etapa yerba
we would not put perfume well in Alberta and we would not wear so been a cloth a garment that was most bhuvan that was colored in law except silver has been a cloth that was off us what is us inshallah we'll discuss later, Waka salena and an exemption was made for us or in the UI at the time of obtaining purity either desolate when she took a bath if there now one of us may Mahalia from her menstruation, meaning even if a woman was sitting in her ADA, then the only time she was allowed to use perfume was after she took a bath of her height meaning after high when she would take a bath she was allowed to use perfume. But how phenol that in in a piece of in a small piece of main
castelfalfi because the outside is a certain type of fragrance, which is very light. So a little bit of a small amount of this perfume was allowed for such a woman to be used. What come now known her and we were also forbidden Arnie devaron Gina is from following the funerals meaning following the funeral all the way to the graveyard. This is something that the women were not allowed to do and are still not allowed to do. Allah. raha Shama Hassan and have SATA and O'Meara yetta and in abuse on Allahu wa sallam. So in this Hadees, what do we see that amiata she said, we were forbidden Nanda, we who does we refer to the men as well as the women, meaning the Muslims, the men and the
women were forbidden, do mourn the death of a person for more than three days. And they were forbidden by who? by the prophet sallallahu sallam. So when the Sahaba if they use the word Nola, or not more, we were commanded or we were forbidden, then who commanded them who forbade them, the Prophet sallallahu sallam, but when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said, omit Do I have been commanded, right? Or knew he to then who has given him the command? Allah subhanaw taala.
So we were forbidden from New hit that we know whether we mourn in our header is from the word that from her doll doll and that is basically to refrain from Xena, it is an MTR Amina Xena to refrain from adorning oneself
when a woman's husband has passed away, and she is in her and how much is it that four months and 10 days that is wired up on her. This is mandatory on her What? That she should refrain from adorning
herself she should stay away from it. And if that some scholars have also described it as to refrain from everything, to refrain from everything that will invite her husband meaning in normal circumstances when he was alive, anything that would attract her husband, basically. So this includes clothing, this includes makeup, this includes fragrance. So it's not just extra adornment, but anything with which she would dress herself and make herself look nice, because that would cause her husband to be attracted to her. This is something that she has to refrain from. And there are a number of things that are included in this in that, remember, there are a number of things that are
included for that widow. First of all, the wearing of beautiful clothes, the wearing of beautiful coats, must bulan has been used that such clothes were forbidden for women to wear in there. What is must bulan cloth that has been colored that has been dyed, similar, it must have been a cloth that has been colored that has been dyed. What's the exception, the exception is of what is asked is a Yemeni cloth, the threads of which were colored before the cloth was made before the cloth was woven. So you can say that it was the original color of the cloth, it was not dyed. So what kind of clothes can a woman wear in her
clothes that are not dyed, not embroidered on not printed on.
Not necessarily not just off white and white. But it can be any color as long as the color is original. You know how some clouds when you wash them, they bleed, right? The color comes up and other clouds they don't for example, if you wash your hijab, the one that you're wearing right now, especially the stuff, it's not going to leak, the color is not going to come out, but there are certain materials, all right, the color has been put on which is why it bleeds usually when you wash it or for example, it has been dyed or embroidery has been done or a lace has been put on Do you see what I mean? So, colors are not fast, but these days with, you know with extra chemicals and all
that you do end up making the color fast. And also remember that when a garment has been dyed, then the color will be more it will be brighter, there will be more pattern on it. So what kind of clothes should she wear? The simpler the better, simple in color, simple in beautification. So they should not have any embroidery or anything on them. No lace on them. It doesn't mean that she has to wear only white because she could be wearing white but it has beads on it or has beautiful embroidery on it. That's something that she should refrain from. So, this kind of cloth she was allowed to wear. And also remember that a woman has to see what is considered beautiful in the
culture. In certain cultures, white is considered very beautiful, which is why a bride will wear white, but another culture is considered lifeless. So, you have to see a woman has to see that what is considered beautiful in her culture and what is considered normal in her culture.
So accordingly, she will dress herself up. Secondly, what is forbidden is wholly jewelry. Whether this jewelry is in her hand or her neck or her ears or her head or her feet, anyway, jewelry is not permissible whether it is of gold or silver or any other metal. Why? Because this is considered beautification. And if that is what to stay away from beautification. And some scholars have even said that she should not wear a watch even because a watch is also for what purpose, adornment. Some women, their watches are, you know, made of gold or whatever. Sometimes they have diamonds in them. And they will not wear them around the house when they're doing the dishes or cooking or doing the
laundry, when will they wear it when they're actually dressed up? Correct. So that's when they will wear that watch. So a woman should refrain from wearing such a watch as well. And otherwise also, if she wears a watch that's not made of gold or doesn't have diamonds in it, it is something that will adorn her which is why around the house, she doesn't the when she's dressed up, then she will wear watch, even if it's very simple. So this is also something that a woman should refrain from. But if it's, you know, a wash that she wears all the time. Some people do, it's a part of them, they wear it all the time, because they use it so often. It's not with the intention of beautification, it's
just so that they can check the time on it. And it's waterproof they use it when doing laundry or when cooking or even when swimming, so they can continue to wear that. But if it's a watch that is you know, a woman knows when she wears that watch, if it's for beautification or as jewelry, she should refrain from it. The third thing that is forbidden is all kinds of CNET, all kinds of beautification, whether it is on her eyes, on her nose, on her cheeks, on her lips, on her head, that she should refrain from it in the head is what has been mentioned that they would not wear
Go ahead, they will not work. Now currently you know the prophets Allah loves enemy when used to where it could be a habit of a person to regularly wear it. And but still we see that a woman who is inherited that should not wear it. grandmother had eaten which a woman came to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam asked him that her daughter had lost her husband and her I was hurting. So she asked permission that if her daughter who had become widows I was hurting good work ahead in her eyes. The Prophet sallallahu Sallam said no, she should not. Because even if it may be out of regular habit, but still it will beautify her. This is the reason why she has to stay away from it.
Likewise, lipstick, henna, whether that henna is on your hands or on your nails or on your hair, it doesn't matter she should not wear it. Likewise, hair dye, she should not put it on. Similarly perfume. She should refrain from it because it's a part of their scene. It's a part of those things which beautify and adorn a woman. What about fancy glasses? Because some people have multiple pairs, right? Some pairs are the nicer ones. You know, some glasses you wear normally, but other glasses are nicer, which are kept for certain occasions or for certain times. So she should refrain from wearing those even. Because this is something that will beautify her. You cannot wear makeup inside
the house and you cannot wait outside the house. When a woman is not in her in the den. Can she wear these things? Yes, she should. Before her husband definitely she should. And even in front of other people as long as they are my home. As long as they're women. There is no fear. If it's not then she should wear it. But if she's going out where she knows that men will see her, then this is something that she should refrain from. Because this is what the verbiage This is why hijab is there, that you wear your jewelry, you wear your makeup, you wear your nice clothes, but then you cover it up. How is it difficult? Never tell yourself it's difficult. Because in our Deen we have not been forbidden
from Xena. Remember, women have not been forbidden from Xena, they should wear Xena. But the only thing is that when there is a man who's done more harm than simply covered. That's it.
Because some people go to the other extreme, don't worry anything. Nothing at all. It's considered bad. It's not bad. It's a part of a woman's nature. It's something that over needs, and she should do it. But the only thing is cover up. So the third thing that's redundant, I've seen that the fourth thing that's forbidden during that is that you should refrain from going out of the house, meaning she should not go out of the house, except for a hygiene of the day or a law of the night. These two words Remember, a hajer of the day, the law of the night, what is a need a need that she has to fulfill. So for example, she is the only person who works
or now that her husband has gone she has little children, she has no one to financially support her, she has to go to work. So she will go but within the day, so she will return within the day.
Not that she goes and then she stays at a friend's house. And then she goes and stays at her brother's house, that now I'm out anyway. So might as well no, she will go only for the fulfillment of her need and return. Likewise, a woman could be a teacher, she has a commitment. And likewise, there are many students. And if she stays at home in her, then the students will be neglected. She has a contract. You know, for example, a woman is a professor or she is working at a school there's a contract that she's made, she cannot get out of it. So in that case, she will fulfill her commitment, it becomes a harder for her to fulfill. Likewise, a woman could be a student, let's say
she's going to university, she's in her semester, it's the end of the semester, she has to take her test, she has to attend those classes. And if she doesn't, that entire year that entire few months are wasted. So this is 100 that she will go to fulfill by the day, but then she will return.
Likewise, she has to grocery she's the only person whose children are young, she doesn't have any friends or any relatives who will be able to help her in that. So she has to look after herself and her family within the day hajer of the day.
Secondly, the ruler of the night meaning a desperate need of the night that during the night she should not go out. But if there is no way but go out. That's the only option she has. I mean, for example, a male a protector but if a house is you know inflamed or something she has to get out. All right, this is a little note she has to go. Like for example a woman is let's say she does have friends and relatives, family and friends. But everybody is busy in their own work in their own life. And let's say she has children whom she has to take to school and take to their classes and you know different different things throughout the day and do the groceries now if she's asking so
many family members to help her she will become a burden on them. She should seek help other people should take responsibility of her, they should help her. Because this is her right in a way. But if it's not possible, then she has to fulfill her needs herself.
So these are four things a woman has to observe during the period of freedom, meaning this is what is included in that in the Hadees what has been mentioned, Lana, Lana Tata. Yep, well, nl best Silva must move on Eliza Bosman, the only exception that was made for who for the menstruating woman that after her hijab, when she's cleaning herself, she will use perfume, which kind of perfume? Nope, the Tim in costume offer a little bit. Of course, the Athena costume as far remember that this is a certain kind of fragrance, which is very light, which is very light, meaning it is not very strong. So this is the reason why the women used that in particular. So likewise, if there is a certain kind
of soap, or fragrance or whatever, that is light, that is what a woman should use, she should not use strong fragrance. And also remember that this fragrance that a widow will use after her health is not all over the body. This is in particular at the place of help to remove the smell as a part of cleaning the area.
So this doesn't mean that she will perfume herself all over her clothes or hair, her neck her hands, no, she will refrain from that the only exception is in the private area after the head. And that do will be a fragrance that is very light.
So this is the evidence which tells us that after hailed a woman should perfume herself. Now, in the Hadith that has been mentioned is that everyone, meaning all the relatives and friends are allowed to observe that but only for up to how much three days. For the widow it is more than three days for the rest of the people it is three days. But remember that for the rest of the people that's not watching that, for example, the siblings, the parents, the children, the friends, these close relatives of the deceased person, even the husband, they can observe that they are allowed to meaning this is joy is it is permissible, but it is not my job. It is not mandatory. So for example,
if the husband, he doesn't wish to perfume himself, for instance, because his wife has passed away, he can only do this for three days.
Likewise, if there is a sister, or a mother, her son has passed away, then in that case, she doesn't wear perfume, she doesn't wear her girl, she doesn't wear nice clothes. But this is only permissive for how long, three days, not more than three days. Because we are allowed to take time to heal. Because we are human beings. I mean, certain losses, certain groups are so intense that you can't get over too quickly. And if you cover it up, if you suppress it, eventually, you know, it will come out in other ways. So it's not healthy for a person, it is normal to experience hurt and pain. But remember that we should heal within three days. Because if you sit with your loss for more than
three days, then you won't be able to get over it,
too. After three days life should resume. But we see that in certain cultures and certain families is considered that as respect for the deceased. As respect for the deceased, don't go to work for the next whole month. If there was a wedding that had to take place the month after it will be deferred until the year later. Correct. Why out of respect for the deceased, that even either is not celebrated or if it's within three days, it's understood that people are extremely sad, but after three days, I mean, what is permissible in the dean should be benefited from it. For example, a woman is in her and she's afraid for her that she doesn't work for her anything after her it does
over does she have to work hard. No, she doesn't. She doesn't. And if she does, then that means she's ready to remarry. Okay, because that's what the women would do.
That sometimes people want that a widow should always remain a widow, that she should always be in the state of mourning that if after a year of her husband's death, if she is wearing makeup or something then people think that how wrong I mean how quickly she got over her husband. This is not correct. And it's considered mandatory for such a woman to wear white for the rest of her life. Yes, it's considered mandatory almost which is why you will see such people weighing only why I've seen myself that some women refrain from completing it, even if it's the, you know, their daughter's wedding or a very happy occasion. They will refrain from Zina just because their husband has passed
away. But remember that even for a widow, the morning is how much four months and 10 days. Like for example, oiling the hair. For some women it's almost a necessity because otherwise their scalp their hair
becomes so dry, it becomes extremely difficult. Now, it's not for the purpose of adornment. It's not for the purpose of the scene. In fact, sometimes it's the other way, like it's not considered purification, but, but it doesn't have a smell to it. It's not for beautification. So it's different. But if a woman is wearing, you know, certain kind of hair products, that is different, that is for the purpose of adornment. Again, she has to see what is considered nice and fashionable in the culture. What is considered pretty in the culture, like you have certain shirts, there's one shirt that you wear under the bio, and there's another shirt that you wear when you're not wearing
your bio, there is a difference, right? There's a difference. There's one shirt that you wear when you're cooking, and there's another shirt when you're done with cleaning and everything. So there is a difference. My sister died at the age of 25. And after the funeral, she just had a bath and very, very normal summer clothes. But she was looking very pretty and young. The old woman said her husband died. Yeah, okay. And then she had a bath after the funeral. She was a very plain dress, but she was looking very pretty and young. So my mother said go and change put another color of shirt and another color of pajama. So it can look very normal. Yes, because some cloth is printed bright
colors, very lively. So those should be refrained from one more thing that for the rest of the family, if that observing if that for three days after the death. This is something that's permissible. So for example, if there's a party or something that people are being invited to, and they have the right to not go, like I remember when my grandfather passed away, my sister somebody had invited her. My mother didn't allow her to go. She didn't allow her to go because you know, our grandfather had basketball. So it was not allowed. This is part of that. But remember, this is gize it is permissible, it is not wide.
It is not wider. But after three days, it's not permissible. After three days, it's not permissible for the rest of the family. Only for who, for who, for the widow.
Even inside the house, she cannot wear jewelry and she should not. I remember once we went to see someone whose husband has passed away, and the lady was wearing gold bangles and my mother told her to remove them immediately. Although she was in her house, but even within the house in front of other women in front of your brother in front of your children, you cannot you're not allowed to. Okay, there's many wisdom behind that which I'm sure you've studied in the sea.
But del mar 18 of Sahara either Tata, Herat, minella Haley del Kilmer, that is to rub. So the rubbing by who by a woman nafsa herself, either Tata Herat when she has become clean mean in my head after menstruation, meaning after a woman's period is over. And when she is taking her bath, then what does she have to do? She also has to do that. She also has to rub,
then kiss to basically rub clean.
Like for example, you pour water on yourself, but you don't just pour water. You also rub with your hand. Why do you rub
to ensure that the place becomes thoroughly wet. And if there is any dirt on it, it can also come off. You know for example, if your hands have grease on them or mud on them, and you're washing if you just put your hands under the running water, they won't become clean. What do you have to do? rub your hands. Even just putting soap on your hands is not sufficient. You have to rub the soap. So this is what the Hulk is rubbing in order to thoroughly wet the place and in order to thoroughly clean. Now remember this bath after help when the woman is taking this delk this is not delicate luck that she has to rub her entire body. So her neck and behind her ears and even the parts of a
back that she cannot reach. No, this is not what the meaning is that both of them are well they're of Haley delk of the place of menstruation, meaning her private areas should not just pour water on it but she should rub the area clean. Why? To 30 remove any blood and also to get rid of the foul smell. All right, to also get rid of the foul smell. But even otherwise, when a person is taking a bath, then they should rub themselves because this is something that will make them cleaner and catani he said well slowfall been what the De Luca Sonata the rustle washing is mandatory. What the look and rubbing is asuna Houma be Madhavi mannequin for Barney. But in the matter of Mr. Malik,
they are considered for some scholars considered delk to be wedgie when others considered it to be Sunnah.
And sometimes you see that after you pour water when you wipe, then there's you know, something or the other so it's best to rubber wash clean like this. Okay, for
Hello, and how will she wash water, she will take
a small piece of Mimosa cotton that has been perfumed with mask. So basically she will take a small piece of something like a rag or a cotton ball, and she will dip it in some kind of perfume oil, for example, Musk, and then further Tamir will be here and then she will follow with that, as are done the traces of blood. So basically, what will she do, she will take a cotton ball or something, dab it in perfume, or the like, and wipe the the private area with that until the area becomes fairly clean.
Now this is in the case where water is less. If you have a lot of water, then you don't necessarily need to use a perfume. It's not remember, like I said earlier, it's not wedging, it is preferable, but it's not watching. So, if you have enough water with it, you can thoroughly wash rub clean that is sufficient. But if the smell is present, then what should a woman do use the perfume in the manner that has been described. And also remember that a woman should not become excessive in cleaning that area. Because that can lead to other complications as well. It can lead to infections because for example, using the door This is something that will harm the woman more. So just
cleaning in the manner that has been described that is sufficient. A perfume also one has to be careful because it's a sensitive area. So it should be a perfume that is gentle that is very soft. You know like a perfume oil, for instance. And using a perfume soap that is also sufficient.
Had the Can I hear Marina and Masuda Sofia tan omiana I*a a number of attend that a woman sir Latina vas Allahu alayhi wa sallam that she asked the Prophet sallallahu wasallam or newcity her about her wisdom in in raheel after menstruation for her so he ordered her gave her doctors you know how she should take the bat? Allah He said what do you feel certain take a piece Miskin of misc meaning that has been soaked in misc there has been dubbed and misc for the Buhari visa and then clean yourself with it. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said this to her that this is how you should clean yourself after the head. college she said gave her a tapa. But how should I clean
myself she can understand how she was to clean herself with perfumed cotton powder, he said Tata arriba just clean yourself with it. He said kafer how she can understand Allah He said Subhana Allah The Buhari, Glorified is alleges clean yourself. So I should have learned how who was there. She said fetch the best to her. So I drew her lie to me. Meaning I drew her close to me I pulled her towards me for Ulta so I set that up very we had them remove all the traces of blood with it, meaning Rob clean that area with it that all the traces of blood can be removed.
Another woman she could not understand how she could clean herself with a with perfume oil, which is why she kept asking the question again and again. But the prophets of Allah said them he was shy, which is why he said so Pinilla in another version of the Hadees we learned that he turned his face away because he felt extremely shy. Now the prophets of Allah said and we learn about him from this hadith that sometimes he said what he said, Magellan meaning in comprehensive terms, in a very brief manner, very comprehensively, very briefly, why? Sometimes out of higher, because if it's a man, it's different, but he being a man explained to a woman, he had to use words that were not that
explicit, because he was a very shy person. You know, in body only we learned that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam was more shy than a virgin girl in a separate room. So he was very heavy, very shy. So he was embarrassed to go into too much detail in front of the woman, but the woman she wanted to know.
So she kept asking me questions she was not shy of asking. So I shall deliver on her she explained to her. And at this occasion, when I showed that I was narrating this incident in another nation, we learned that she said, How excellent are the women of onslaught, their shyness did not prevent them from seeking understanding of the religion. If we were to read this would say, oh, How shameless. This is not lack of higher This is eagerness to learn. She wanted to do it right. And this is where I should learn how she came in. And she explained to her that you have to wash that area, meaning you have to clean that area with a piece of something like a cotton or a rag that is perfumed,
preferably so that the area is thoroughly cleaned.
Bab Leslie and Marie Lee have Aslan mahube washing the place of menstruation. Mahalo over here refers to the place of menstruation in the private area. So we learned earlier that it is necessary to wipe the area clean and to rub it with some perfume.
But this is not sufficient. You also have to wash the area clean so use the water is also good. So the first step is wiping off the area. The second step is perfuming and the third step is wash. Okay rinse at the end had the Muslim Kala had the Santa haven had different amounts owed on omiana I*a and number 10 minute Ansari that a woman from the unsold collagen abuse will allow her to sell them she said to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam kafer of Illumina and Maria, how should I take a bath after How should I wash myself after menstruation? Allah He said holyfield's satin mama satin, take a small piece of bread that is off musk for the world by ether Latin, and then wash three times
there will be over here does not mean do will do. But rather it means in the literal sense wash. So wash three times, meaning after perfuming that area and removing the traces of blood, then wash three times. Somebody in an abuser Allahu alayhi wa sallam is the here. Then the Prophet sallallahu Sallam became shy for another big then he turned his face aside, he was too shy. Alcala or he said web wash with it for us to her so I shall deliver on her she took that woman further back to her. And then I pulled her for a while to her. And then I informed her behind you read interviews that allow her to sell them with that which the Prophet sallallahu Sallam had intended. So perfume as
well as wash. Back in the shopping mall at calming of the woman meaning combing her hair or in mostly hair, at the time of whistle minima, hail after menstruation. Meaning before she washes her body before she takes a bath. What should she do, she should open up her hair if it's tied up, and she should comb it.
Why? Why comb it
because of the hair straightened up, then when the water is poured on, then that will ensure that the hair becomes thoroughly wet.
Now this is necessary when you have little water. But if you're standing under a showerhead, where the water is coming out in full force, then in that case, you don't need to comb your hair with a comb or with a hairbrush you don't need to do that as long as your hair is open, it's efficient, but where the water is very little and sometimes it happens that even from the shower had very little water is falling, then in that case, okay, you can rub your hair 30 but it will take too long. What is faster, what is more convenient, what is easier is that you straighten the hair before you enter the shower with a comb with a hairbrush so that you can thoroughly wet the entire hair. And if a
woman's hair is such that it is very curly, or that she has started into small braids, then if the braids are there, and the hair is not opened up, it's not combed and what will happen, the inner part will not get wet. Because remember that in the lesson of help, you don't just have to wet the scale. But you have to wet the entire hair after Geneva what is necessary, the scalp and the hair. You know it's good if you wash all of it. But if all of it does not get thoroughly wet, it's not a problem. But after hail, you have to wash the entire hair from the root all the way to the tip. You have to wash the entire hair. So for that reason, what should a woman do? Open up her hair and comb
her hair had the thing I must admit is Mary had definite evil he had the flu she heaven on earth whether or not the pilot. I shall deliver on her. She said lol tomorrow Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam if he had written with me, lol to what does this mean? I assumed Iran right masuleh is a lovely asylum we had to deal with so it was at heightened weather. So she also put on her Iran for con two so I was making money from those people who de matar who had the intention of performing hajj de matar. And what does that mean? That you put on the ground for MLA, you go to Makkah, you perform Umbra, you come out of Iran. When Hajj comes in, then you put on the forehead. So she put on
the Iran for that matter. So basically, her intention was off. her intention was up from LA while I'm here, SoCal hodja. And there was nobody that was brought along for zarma. Now the narrator or what he's saying that for several months, she said that under how the that she began her hype, while on top her and she did not become clean, had the harlot lay the two out of her until the night of alpha came in. So basically, she did not to hurt him law and Hajj had begun. And people had reached out for Carla to rasulillah so she said O Messenger of Allah had he laid it out for this is the night of alpha. What in American two, and indeed I de matar to be Roma. I had made the intention of
the Matata I take advantage benefit, literally meaning I had intended to take advantage of the strip and perform Aruba first and then do Hutch. Now my chance of Irma is over and had just begun and now we have reached out
For Karla Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam told her on a cul de sac.
Open up and do your head meaning your hair, open up your hair, one dish up and comb your hair. And this meant that go and take care of us now that your hailers over, go and take your bath, what I'm seeking on regular TV and refrain from your own meaning, cancel that or mono and instead, carry on with your Hutch with your intention of had you been different before it was the motto. Now your hedge The intention is different now you're doing a different kind of hedge for far too. So I did so fella called later hedger. Then when I completed my hedge, Amara, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam instructed after a man, a man the son of Abu Bakr on the lower end, who mean the brother of Russia,
later the house party on the night of hustla hospice, the 13th to the 14th of the hedger and it was spent in the house up on the return journey to Medina. So on the night of hutzpah, the Prophet sallallahu wasallam instructed our little man to take me what it is where for my online meeting, the rest of the people waited. Where as I show went with her brother to perform her MLA
montage up what I'm sorry I'm Latika foul to follow moto Hi, Gemma Rahmani Laila, that has been Mr. Ronnie. So he made me do or what I mean he was my my hump so that I could do a lot. And I did a minute and dreamy Frampton, meaning they went all the way to the dream to put on the mountain dream was an area, basically the three miles from their home. And it is what marks the boundary of the huddle of mocha.
So anyway, she went out of the huddle into the hill, so that she could put on her home again, to perform her
McKenna in place of meaning that I performed in place of ombre tea, my aroma and Latina Sato that I had performing that I had intended to perform. So basically, the aroma of the matter, she was not able to perform, she switched her near of her stomach matter to a different hedge. And that would be off. If rod meaning only had because in that exam, she did not do Hedden ermelo she only did hedge them.
Because remember, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam told her to do everything that her judge did, except for the law, that she did not do her homework. Basically, she went to dinner with the rest of the herd. And then after the hedge, after the hedge was finished, and she had become clean by then, she had come out of the state of alarm. She went to the dream board on her home, and it hurt. Why did you do this isn't necessary. It's not necessary. Because she switched her near. She didn't have to do that. But the prophets of Allah said and let her do it. Why she was so sad. Remember, she was crying. She was crying, she wanted to go and look at the kindness of the prophets. A lot isn't that
everybody waited while she went with her brother to perform. Now see the prophets that a lot of them didn't do that. Her brother did not do it, who went as a Muslim he did not do it. The rest of us how but they did not do it only she did it. Because she was not able to perform. Other people did manage to perform aroma, because some people considered almost mandatory that if they go to Makkah for Hydra formula, and after everything, they will still go to the marine where much of the ISI is now, they will put on your hammer, they will go and do another Umbra. They have made it mandatory on themselves. It is not mandatory, especially if it's going to create hardship for a person. He should
not do that she should not do that.
But if a person has much time, and they wish to and it's not going to create any difficulty for anyone then they can go ahead and do it.
But nothing more atisha raha undoing her hair in the hospital help at the time of taking the stock market. Meaning in the previous lab, we learned that she will comb her hair over here we learned that she will undo meaning she will open up her hair and this will be applicable when a woman has made braids. Okay when she's made a lot of braids. So in that case she will open them up and then she will take about why to ensure that the entire hair gets thoroughly wet. Now again this is when the water is little but if there is a lot of water and a woman knows that when she will pour water even on her braids they will become thoroughly wet. There is no such product on the hair which will
cause the water to be repelled. Then in that case she doesn't need to open up it is Mr. Harper. It is not legit. It is supposed to have but it is not legible if there's something that she has applied on the hair to keep it together to keep the braids firmer, than in that case she
should open up, because it will prevent the water from reaching the inner part.
Had this narrow bezel is married or had the thinner samata and he shall be here on the right. Now morphine, we left morphine at the same time as the Hillel Elijah, at the new moon of the month of the hedger. So at the beginning of the month of the hedger at the approach of the month, we are left for Hajj, for Carnival, sutala his Allahu anhu send them to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said once the people of Medina, they were on their way to Makkah, he said, Man, I have bet you he'll be rewarding valuable, whoever wants to make the intention of Ramallah, then he should make that intention he should put on that Islam. Meaning if someone wants to perform aroma first, then they
should put on the aroma of aroma. Now, remember that I mentioned to you earlier that the machine of mocha they considered the machine they consider that if a person is going or hedge or in the month of the ledger, the most evil thing to do is do it. Okay, they considered it extremely wrong to do at the time of hedge or do along with hedge. So this was the misconception that existed in the companions as well, because this was the previous understanding. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam clarified at this time that no you can also perform or you may perform. So whoever wishes to perform law before their hedge or along with Hutch, then they may do so. But they should make the intention
from now for any Lola any day to learn to be for Indeed, I Lola a nice day too If I had not brought my Heidi with me, my sacrificial animal with me to be wrong, I would have put on the ground for Allah
because the prophets a lot of them left with the intention had because he brought along his howdy with him and when you're doing that, when you're bringing your buddy with you, then you don't do that. First you go directly to Hajj. Then remember I showed that in the previous narration What did we learn that she did not bring her daddy for a handlebar Lubyanka were held about only had some people they put on the armor and other people put on the ground for Hajj. Welcome to and I was made man from those people who had never ombre, who had put on the ground. You see a husband and wife can go with different intentions, even though the husband is a Muslim, but still he can have a different
intention. Remember, man, they'll do that one. He did not do them right. Well, I should have learned how to do so a woman has to go with her home for hygiene aroma. Let's remember that hernia does not have to be the same as that of her mom. It can be different for any young man Yamanaka. So then the day came off, out of what and how, and I was menstruating fascicle to it and abuse will allow her to sell them so I complained to the prophets a lot of them that what am I supposed to do now my chance of Irma is over. I came with the intention of aroma for color. So he said leave your amona one cadila psyche and undo your hair when Tasha Lee and comb. What a Henley we had Jean and put on the
ihram for Hajj. Meaning now ginger nia. So we see that even halfway through Hajj Omen can change your Nia for fall two so I did so. Hector either Canada to hospital until it was the night of hospital of Santa Maria he reminded me of yubico he sent with me my brother a little amendment of you buckle for holiday to elect the name so I went to the dream to be on board and I put on the acronym for Roma, McCann or Marathi in place of my own brother I meant to perform earlier. Allah He Sherman well, Aamir Khan fishy in a sham. He said that in this case there is nothing means alika concerning that Hadean whenever someone will ask for the meaning when a woman changes her Nia from
one type of hatch to another. Okay, because of certain reasons, then she doesn't have to give any heady she doesn't have to fast letter she doesn't have to give any kind of SATA because remember in the Quran, what do we learn what a team will have to learn letter lilla once you put on the exam, then you have to a team or you have to complete for in our system. And if you are constrained meaning you're not able to complete it, then come out of the state of Islam. And then from a space Rahman Al Hadi. And then you have to give Heidi meaning you have to offer a sacrificial animal it is called them. Okay, you have to do that. You understand when you come out of the state of your home,
but I should allow her she came out of the state of your home right out of the matter. She came out of it. She entered another acronym for hedge. But in that she doesn't have to give anybody no fast later No sir the fact why because it was just switching from one to the other. You understand? She just switched from one extreme to the other. She did not cancel completely. For the person who is not able to switch. Like for example, they have to return they have to leave and they have to go back or they became extremely sick. They're not able to continue the HUD
Then in that case, they had just incomplete, it is invalid. And what do they have to do? What do they have to pay the HUD. And if they're not able to pay the howdy then they have to give this other car and the fasting which the I mentioned pseudoscalar 196. She changed her Nia when she was at alpha, because when she got to alpha, and finally appeared ended, she thought she realized that her time for oma was over. I mean, if there was still in Mina, then she could have gone then the block returned. But now that when they were in alpha, that chance was over because now, you know, the hedge has begun, like the main hedge has begun because alhaja alpha, right? So this is why she asked
me What am I supposed to do? No, I can't do my camera. Is my HUD gone? They said no, no, because a woman can do her head even with her head, the only thing she won't do is hurt the left. So she can do her walk later. And I should have put her on how she performed her or more later, which you didn't have to, but she did. Yes, because then she will leave her hedge. In other situations, where a person man or woman is leaving their head altogether they're not able to complete it. In that case, they have to give the body but in this case, the case of head is different. She's just switching her near from one to the other. But mahalo cotton was at mahalo, mahalo calm in that which
has created what is lady mocha locka that which is not created and created? Does this remind you of something these words? Do they remind you of something called La Vida Loca? Have you heard these words somewhere else in the Quran itself? So number one is referring to the ayah in sort of hedge eye number five, where Allah subhanaw taala says yeah, evenness in quantum field, even mineral variety for inner phenomena come into law, that all people if you're in doubt about resurrection, then know that we have created you from dust, some women not sweating, then from a sperm drop, some women are locked down from the anaka meaning a blood clot from them and then from a tube like
substance flesh mohalla cotton was at mahanakhon so this motor is what maharlika and Lady maharlika and you may wonder what is this doing and get that will help.
Alright, as I explained, you will understand in this ayah what has been mentioned the stages of fetal development. Now on conception, when a woman conceives, the human being is the form of an alpha. This is what the ISS men not fighting for the first 40 days after the 40 days, then it turns into a law and then after 40 days, it turns into motiva so basically it turns into moto after how long it is, it is not for for first 40 days, and then it turns into a locker. It remains our locker for two days gradually, gradually, then it changes into motiva so when it turns into Mottola, how many days have passed by 80 days since conception. Now this model, Allah subhanaw taala describes it
as maharlika was it Macaca meaning it is created and uncreated. What does it mean? That once this Moodle happens, then either this will continue to grow into a human being. So it will become a locker or it will not grow? It will be laden with a locker and it will be shared from the woman's body. So what is the intent towards miscarriage? That the bleeding that results from a miscarriage is that hail is that in advance is it this to hell that what is it okay, this is what he is referring to. Now, remember that in the modal stage 80 days, it is somewhat creative and somewhat uncreated. Either it will continue to develop and eventually develop into human being or it may
continue to develop and eventually finish or it will stop growing right there.
But the point is that 80 days, the fleet is not determined, the fleet meaning the creation is not determined. At 80 days, it is not a human being basically, at 80 days, it is not a human being after the completion of three months, which is another 40 days, so 120 days, that is when it becomes more Kanaka if 120 days have passed, then it's definitely mahalo because even when it's expelled from the body, right even at that time after 120 days, then there are certain features like you will see small hands and small feet like webbed even but you will see some kind of human features but before that, it's hardly anything, the angel will come later. So at three months, 120 days, that the heat
is determined. Now based on this, some scholars have said that when it is muddler that Islam to fluxo before it is even before 120 days, and it is miscarried, then the ruling of new fast will not be applied. Why? Because the fastest at the birth of a child. The Birth of
Have a human being whether born alive or dead, whether falter or not. You understand this is the condition of life is that the fetus should have distinct human features meaning it should be mohalla car It should not be late mahalo. So basically the moholoholo halaqa It's a human not human issue, that if it has grown into a human being, and then it has been miscarried, then it is no fast. But if it has not grown into a human being it is laid maharlika not human, then it will not be nefarious. You can say that it was a fetus but not a child. It was a pregnancy, but not it did not lead to childbirth. Okay, is it clear, and this is the distinguishing factor. This is why the Bab is mohalla
COVID mohalla. But if it's maharlika nivas, if it's a maharlika, not us, and remember that if it is late no halaqa so before 80 days before 120 days, inshallah we'll get to more details after the holidays. If it's raining halaqaat and the fetus is expelled from the body, then remember that listen is not required me you don't have to give a bath to that fetus. Likewise janessa is not performed guffin will not report on a name will not be given, you know, the fetus will not be buried when it's before 80 days before 120 days. And it can be discarded just like hair and nails are just like the rest of the you know, bodily discharges are discarded the same way it will be discarded.
But if it's after the stage of mohalla, meaning it is mohalla. It's after 120 days, after three months. If it's after four months, even Okay, four months definitely the rule has come. Then in that case, fetus will be dealt with like a full term, baby in the sense that janaza will be performed, who also we'll be given guff and will be brought on. And some scholars have said that even a name will be given because the soul was blown into it. It was actually a human being. So you want to refer to that mohalla as an IT, you will refer to it with a name. So for example, Adam or Miriam, or whatever name, you have to refer to that individual with a name because the soul was blown in and
they will be resurrected on the Day of Judgment. They will be resurrected on the Day of Judgment.
Now, what's the evidence that Mr. Bahari uses first of all the ayah? Secondly, the Hadith that had the anamosa didn't Kala Hadassah hammered on Obaidullah hidden every Bucklin on NSF, pneumatic and interviews are love radio, Salim Khan, in Allah azza wa jal, that Indeed, Allah subhanho wa Taala What can I do for him? What can I he has appointed below him at the womb. moluccan an angel, meaning as the human being is developing in the womb of the mother, an angel is appointed to safeguard it to look after it meaning to to do what is required. You know, he says Europe be not far when it is conceived when it's in the state of North for the angel says oh lord not far. And then after the 40
days are over, the angel says yanaka it has grown into alaka after 80 days are over, then he says Yamamoto Oh Lord, it is moto now, when it is motiva it could either go into the direction of Maha locka or into the direction of ln mohalla. If it is to be maharlika for either Radha and Jacobi or halka, who, so when Allah intends if Allah intends to complete his creation, meaning make it into maharlika then what happens? The angel asks Connor, he asks, as the fetus continues to develop, he asks the car on on sir, is it going to be a male or a female? Meaning then it continues to develop into a complete human being and then all of the features are developed? shocky Yun unsalaried is it
going to be unfortunate or fortunate isn't going to be unsuccessful or successful? Who is shopping? Who is there he is one who ends up in Hellfire who is very successful one who ends up in general meaning the fate is decided from there. The angel also asks from a risk pool. So what is the provision? What provision will this human being that well agile, right and the term for you, everything is written for the button to me in the womb of his mother. Everything is determined from there.
Now, what do we see here, that between each stage of NOFA our local motto is a gap of 40 days meaning it It continues to grow over 40 days and then finally it enters into the next stage. After the first 80 days it turns into a moto and after that within the next 40 days. So after Moodle within the next 40 days, so basically within 120 days of conception. It will be mahalo.
It will be mahalo calm.
by four months, the roof is blown in for sure. The roof is blown in for sure.
So by four months, it is definitely a human being not just blood, not just flesh, but definitely a human being. Now, the period between 80 days and 120 days to four months, this period is the time when it is being determined. Either it's going to be human being or it's going to be discarded. Either the root is going to be put in or not. You see what I mean? So that period between 80 days, to 120 days to four months 80 to 120 days is the state of becoming mahalo. By 120 days definitely mahalo. But the rule is not in for sure. When does the rule come in from another Hadith we learn by four months? Now, based on this understanding, the scholars have said that if the woman has a
miscarriage before 80 days of pregnancy, before 80 days, then what is it? It's not a human being right, it's right in her locker. So that blood is not enough, as you understand it is not happening fast, because myth passes after human being after the birth of a human being, whether alive or dead.
So this is why she will continue to pray and she will continue to fast she will continue to do what she normally does, as when she's not bleeding.
And if the miscarriage took place, after 120 days, after 120 days, then there is no halaqa. Now you don't know whether the roof was put in or not. You don't know.
All right, you don't know because that was gonna come at any time by four months. But it's definitely maharlika. So in that case, it will be nefarious, because it was a human being. In that case, it will be in a fast. Now what about between 80 and 120 days, because these days, especially with the tests and the ultrasounds and all that you can know, the days right? You can know the exact week. So if it's between 80 and 120 days, then the embryo will be examined, it will be examined if it has human features, then you will consider it as maharlika
because it doesn't switch from Red mahalo Guatemala within a day, no, it doesn't happen. It's a gradual development right. So, if it was between 80 and 120 days, you will examine the fetus that okay, if it has human features, then it will be considered as a human being. But if it doesn't have those features, then it will not be considered. So basically, when the human features are present, then rules of fast will apply if the human features are absent and the rules of affairs will not apply. You understand?
She had a minute with me and he said that new fast is not established unless the embryo expelled has human features. If she expelled a small embryo that has no human features, and her bleeding is not fast, rather, it is bleeding from a vein. So it comes under the same ruling as to whether the earliest at which human features may appear is after 80 days from the beginning of pregnancy, but it usually happens at 90 days. This is what he said it usually happens at 90 days, but by 120 days, it's definitely happened.
And the woman in the past has to start praying and fasting until she becomes pure when the bleeding stops and she becomes pure then she should do listen and pray and fast if the bleeding lasts for more than 40 days. That's a different case. So anyway, this is what we learned from the statements of the scholars that new fast will be considered if it's after 120 days, if it's before 80 days not enough as between 80 and 120. You have to examine the embryo.
Now, this is with regards to miscarriage
miscarriage before 80 days, the bleeding is not hailed it is not as fast because number halen Fs considered same thing right? the words were also meaning one word is also used for the other. Remember when you summon Mufasa and FST The words are interchanged. So the same ruling applies to them. So, the blood of miscarriage before 80 days it is not a fail it is not a fast What is it? Is they held
after 120 days it is off me fast. So you will treat it like the blood of head.
The thing is that consumption did occur, right?
Yes, which is why there are some scholars who disagree with this opinion but that's a minority opinion.
That is a minority opinion who
Say that bleeding after pregnancy, meaning in pregnancy, which is a result of miscarriage, whether it is before 80 days or after all is considered too fast, but other scholars disagreed. And that is the majority of the opinion. And this is why I'm presenting it to you alone
So it's not like fertilization is embedded
on the computer, the actual weeks that Hartmann the babies are supposed to be after that.
recognize the value of the
worker, my question is, it tells us apart from the babies in the heart, is there a 12 weeks? How many months are there? How many months or three months? Right, so 120 days are done before
the fetal movement started after for a second?
Yes, yes, the fetal movement begins quite early. Yes. That when the human features are present, okay, that's when it becomes mohalla. I mean, the heart develops at what time at 12 weeks, that's 84 days. So again, it can form any time after 80 days. So it's the period between 80 and 120 days. So then you have to observe the embryo. Okay, if it has human features, then it will be considered like a human being mechanical. If it doesn't have those features, then, okay, mohalla. Now, this was with regards to miscarriage before 80 days or after 80 days. Now, what about bleeding that a pregnant woman may have throughout her pregnancy? Doesn't mean she's had a miscarriage, but she's bleeding
constantly. Right? For some women, it's heavy for someone, it's like there could be different reasons behind that. So this bleeding is considered as is to help.
Okay, it is considered as this as to help unless there is a miscarriage. If it's a miscarriage, then it's not as to handle after 120 days, if there is a miscarriage, then it will not be as to However, because it will be faster. But if it's bleeding throughout the pregnancy, pregnancy is normal, the baby is fine growing everything, then in that case, it will be treated like is there. One more issue, which is often hailed during pregnancy. It's very rare, but it does happen. Some women right that they actually get their period during pregnancy, which bleeding which looks like hail, all the symptoms are there, and it comes at the right time. It finishes at the right time as well. So in
that case, it will be treated like hail.
Because it is hailed there is a view the view of mamma Shafi that a pregnant woman may menstruate. And this is a reason why she married a man, he said that if a pregnant woman experiences persistent bleeding, that comes at the time of the month, when she usually monster rates and looks like menstrual blood, then it is most likely to be menstruation. And she should stop praying, fasting because of that,
that the lining that was thickened. Sometimes it was not shed properly in the previous period or consumption happened, right? You know, a few days before the period was due. So in that case, the lining is extra that blood is extra. So this is the reason why the body sheds it. So for some women only for the first one or two months, they will have their period, and other women will have it throughout their pregnancy. So it is considered higher. And this is an opinion that exists. And especially when the characteristics are the same as higher than it will be treated like hype.
But it's a it's a very important topic. Because when women are experiencing this, that they do not know what they should pray, or they should not pray. And because of this confusion, they leave so many prayers, they leave their fasts and you know, this is incorrect, you should learn about these things. If a woman is not able to observe the embryo that has been lost, the tissue went to the toilet and there's no way of retrieving it, it's gone. So how will she determine a lower limb? I do not No. inshallah, if I if I'm able to find out. And I will mention to you but if I'm not able to then please forgive me. But this is an important question. Like it was mentioned that by 84 days,
the heart is developed. So that's a major body feature, right? Human feature, it's a major one. So if it's after 84 days, like let's say 200 days, 110 days, 119 days 15 then it makes sense that you would consider like maharlika because the heartbeat was there.
But if it's right on the dot 80 days, a few days after 80 let's say the doctor tried to look for the heartbeat but it was not found. Then in that case you will consider it as a label halaqa
Okay, so panic alarm will be him. The clinician will let you into the staff little governor to relax