The Importance of Akhlaq

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Episode Notes

Shaykh Yasir Qadhi delivers a beautiful lecture on one of the most persistent topics in Islam that needs to be given prime importance and that is the topic of Husnu Akhlaq or good manners.

What do u mean by Akhlaq? There are three categories in this regard:

  • Akhlaq that is shown towards Allah
  • Akhlaq that is shown towards others
  • Akhlaq that is shown towards oneself.

The Shaykh summarises the 7 simple blessings of Akhlaq in the light of the Qur’an and the Sunnah. They are as follows:

  • Comprehensive advice on perfection of good manners always, for instance,do not get angry.
  • The advice given to Muadh Ibn Jabal on maintaining Taqwa and having the best manners side by side.
  • No blessing is better than good manners. Good manners and long silence should always be advocate for a successful life.
  • Having good manners is a sign of Iman.
  • Allah loves those with good Akhlaq and there can be no better substitute for this love.
  • Akhlaq is the weightiest thing in the Meezan after Iman (Taqwa).
  • In a Hadith, the Prophet ﷺ has promised the person who shows impeccable akhlaq, the most proximity to him on the Day of Judgement.

The main audience of the akhlaq is always one’s own family and hence it is binding upon us to show the most excellent example of Akhlaq amongst your loved ones.

 

Episode Transcript

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Lina

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woman you

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What's up, lady, Luna de

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la

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diva

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are shut out

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unless otherwise with the other describe the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in the Koran by saying,

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it is an oath by the 10th and that which is right.

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Imagine, you are not from the grace of your words a madman

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out on the road, and you will have a search and he has a great reward reward that will not be counted.

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I know the surety, you are 100 very noble,

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you have a very great characteristics and manage some of the ways that a lot

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of the characteristics that we mentioned with regard to the purpose of the law

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is the purpose of the practice good manage the practice,

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the practice, and characters.

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And this is a topic that many Muslims have them they know that it is good to have good, it is important to have good manners, yet, unfortunately few of them

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put this into practice.

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And if you ever don't know the evidences and know the importance and the status of good luck and

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therefore, when we turn to the Quran and Sunnah, with this golden mighty extract from the Quran, to extract from the sooner

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we find out

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not just in one not just in dozens and dozens of verses.

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So, in order to summarize the importance of love, in order to mention the most important factors, I have summarized today in the short lecture are now points which I mentioned by the forum is sooner which show why are so important, why are so important characteristics are so important in the Muslims. And this is like a precursor. This is an introductory topic, which will not actually deal with us not to raise interest insensitive, it will raise

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the reason why we should study class participation, the importance of some of the importance of having allowed the importance of

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these characteristics and

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actually understand the purpose of the purpose.

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If we don't know the importance, what will give us the incentive to act upon these good.

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So, like I said, I've compiled eight or nine points.

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And I'm sure that there are more than these but just as a summary and a reminder for myself and my fellow Muslim brothers. The first place we showed you the importance of

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this, we found that comprehensive advice that Allah subhana wa Jalla gives to mankind and the practice of law who gave to us as well. And this exemption in many, many verses and many of the practice of law as well. For example,

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when we took the covenant somebody started last

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summer.

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So there's a Providence that

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shows it must be a very important topic. What is it consisting of number one worship

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and be good to your parents?

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Or with your parents

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and close relatives? What are your Dharma and orphans? What am I searching for people? What is the name of the traveler and the waiter

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People, you must be good to them show good luck to them. This is a covenant that a lot

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of worship of our love and show

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our love was lovable.

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And the neighbor that is further away from you and

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your permanent neighbor enjoy driving generally is the one that is your temporary neighborhood when you're traveling and using temporary neighbors,

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when I'm

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so confident that I'm not

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alone, and have good luck to the rest of mankind, basically this will happen.

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Which shows you the importance of systems, the cognitive of luck consists of being good. And being good to the rest of mankind, whoever they might be, even your slave, likewise allows us to just scratch the surface of

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the surface of the humidity.

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And when the EPA

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is set up with peace,

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above

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the Manage above the mountains and everyone else, even though they have so much knowledge and

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they work with

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it and

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also destroy

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the stories advice of this man and his children, we find so much advice.

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She

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advises you not to shoot with Allah Subhana Allah, and the rest of the advice is all about.

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The rest of the advice is all about the good to your parents, do not say to them,

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Do not look arrogant

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or did not Don't show your teeth

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or be metal, and do not be boastful, as

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awkward, as if you are someone of substance,

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you will not be able to go down this idea, nor will you reach the mountains and it

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was

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so good to

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see. So often mentioned laughing important situations and circumstances socialist the Prophet

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came to the Prophet

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after some advice. So the promises that affect

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Allah, wherever you might

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eat will be with a cookie which will be listed

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three things. The third thing was and when you meet people, when you interact with them.

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Likewise,

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a man came to the process.

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So the profit of the firm. In other words, the firm

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what's your demand the firm, your

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your practicing? firm was yesterday

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and lecture.

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So what are the practices there was asked about less comprehensive advice in general many times he would mention some

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of

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the properties and

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he said yes, we'll give you advice. He said.

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He also give me advice

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kept on saying

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this was the contract and the rest of the government.

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Because as you know, anger is one of the routes which causes evil in the society. When we get angry at other people who say things that we don't need other people, when people are offended people are

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doing irrational things.

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Likewise, the process of

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fear of loss and do not trivialize any good deeds, no matter what it is don't trivialize it. Even if you pour some water from your bucket into your brother's bucket.

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easily if you put water from your

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water from a bucket, and this was something that was very complicated, it was not something that's difficult.

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So the purpose of

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anything of cooking, even if you just throw some water

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in the trouble of picking up that water, even if you meet your brother with a smiley face

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so that we get the comprehensive advice of the process of

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it shows you that a clap is a very important characteristic of the Muslims. And when he said that if one person curses you

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he should point out

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For you, which you feel you don't have, you can do not.

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And do not point out

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that he does.

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So suddenly something bad about you, is putting you down. And he should start saying first that you don't have the proper senses you feel you don't have what should be respected in

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the practices

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and hours,

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that he does have.

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Because if you do so

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he will be upon him. And they'll be most of

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you are scared that if you start something, you start getting angry to become worse, and both of you become disinterested. But the purpose of this is,

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because it's human nature. And everyone knows when a person gets angry at you, and you respond with patience, and he

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has the status.

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And he will come and seek your forgiveness. But if he doesn't, if you respond back to him, and he responds back to

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you, or

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you forgot about,

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if you show the wisdom, and you show this type of situation, but the purpose of advices

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when someone curses you and when someone says something bad he thinks you have and you don't have it, don't respond, but

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if you remain quiet,

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the angels themselves essentially,

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as long as human beings, angels will

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also get this other person has a man in his heart, even

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if you follow the prophetic advice.

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And if you don't,

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then it will shatter. But if so, this is one of the evidences that is very important that we always mentioned in the promises and not just at anytime, as comprehensive as the profits, and also the meetups that are left over the

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summer, some of the other verses describing the believers,

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the emphasis is upon.

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The second benefit of the flap, is that the purpose of

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blessing a person can be given in this life is good luck.

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The first lesson, that anyone can be given more venture,

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money, investors and status and power better than anything will be position is the process of

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cleaning up

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pools and the best thing that mankind has been given,

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good

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receiving some of us

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given to mankind, in the process will love it. He says, I will equal the customer qualified advice

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I command you to do upon Good Will food is remain silent for long periods of time.

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Without

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the rise of the thinking as an English

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speaker is a time for

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the practice of

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mankind and not

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to have

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to remain quiet for long periods of time. And by the way, remaining quiet for long periods of time is in fact a part of

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wherever person goes, he shows his humility. He shows his view of the law by not speaking

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backwards, the Prophet syllabub right he was telling themselves that in Macedonia appreciate and praise on the efforts that mankind has not been given anything.

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So we find that the second benefit that essentially is a good is the blessing that mankind has been given by Allah Subhana which is

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the third benefit, the third sabita of

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rewards

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can be greater than or at least equivalent to

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their worth of worship.

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The practice of them said that it is possible that a man

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can reach the level of the Salaam and niharika lemon be willing to stop continuously in the day and are the one who prays continuously in the night

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with his

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surfaces is one of the ways which gives us the power to

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get up. Every single day every single initiative not only plays a nice how can we reach such a level

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In the world,

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the purpose of the left right is

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that it is possible

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to stop that means is very friendly and he fills in the gaps. As soon as the gap between you and your brother, you will fill up that gap. It is possible

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that many money to delegate and so one for one.

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But it is possible here at least for Level

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II will fill in any gaps. There's some Japanese brothers right about you, you thought about this, there's some distance between you and another relative or friend friendship. So, when he is like this, he is outgoing, he has a good personality with the Muslims, he is very friendly with them, it is possible that he will reach the level of

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a woman

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or one the one who fast continuously,

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continuously because of luck.

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So this is the third lesson that

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brings us to the level of fast

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as

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the first lesson of good luck.

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Good

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luck is a sign of perfecting one schema, it is a sign of perfecting one schema. In other words, if a person has emerged he must have.

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And if he does not,

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he will not have

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the purpose of love running at the moment.

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But but of those who have emerged as

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a man with a person

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and never

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be the first of all,

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upload, which means the most perfect the most complete,

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which means the ones that have the highest status,

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or those who have the best of luck. And then he said what

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are those who are back to the right one for

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the diversity are those with us to the right. Because if you can show good luck to your wife,

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it is very easy to put on good grace out of your house, you meet some Muslims in the masjid for an hour, you go to work for two, three hours and you meet the people that it is easy to put on their shoulder.

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But if you have good luck with your wife, if you can be patient, at the source of your wife, if you can overlook those faults, and show the good.

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This is a sign of

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each we'll dig deep with everything. This is the one that you can show that other shows you'll be able to show good luck to others.

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And that is where the profit

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have a vested

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interest in my life.

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Because if you can be good to your wife, and your family and your children,

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this is a sign that you can be good to others. And if you're not

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practicing, when you need to argue for another sign another face

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an angry, angry face, getting angry at the most trivial things,

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hypocrisy, but essentially other people you act like this, and in front of your family and children.

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So we said that this is one of the signs of any one of the blessings of FEMA, that's a person the more imagine.

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And the opposite is also true.

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A person who cannot have

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because the process was

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the most effectively the most productive human inner are those that have the most love, and in what he described them.

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Those whose shoulders are traded over.

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What does this mean? It means that they are humble. It's not a matter of ego. And most of us

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will be credible. People can walk over there even the expressions in English, people can walk over them because they're so humble.

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They're not

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eager to boast about their own characteristics. Rather, they are those who are humble.

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Those who are friendly and responsive.

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They are very outgoing. And they respond to this type of friendliness. And this is in contrast to many buttons. If you try to become close to them, they will show your coldness for you. I don't know.

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The purpose was to inspect the overflow. You can walk over their shoulders in other words, they are humble and

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they are friendly.

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are going to

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receive this funding.

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In other words,

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when the assurance

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is no good in some way, who is not, your decision

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is no good essentially,

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the person who stated that he doesn't care about as Mr. Burns, he doesn't get to know them.

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It's only his own muskiness. In

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the practice of Obama, as I said, there is no good. And that is what he said.

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The one who lifted with the people, and the patience of the hardware she suffers from them, is better than the one who stood away from the people, and does not mix with them. So

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it is a part of human nature is a part of society when you mix with the big picture,

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when you mix with the wisdom section.

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So the true believers

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will mix it with society, and teach it at the harm that you see is better than the ones who put global society. The isolation is the one the only

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thing anyone that will come back

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to the world doesn't care about the Muslims,

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themselves, the one who goes and needs to be patient after he receives.

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Like you said, Nothing

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is no good in the

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show's back.

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So this is just one of the lessons of of law, that is a sign of protection of the law. And this is the general rule

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of law a person has

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the sixth or the fifth place, which

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is that the one who has the touch of a class is the one who is more or less

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around the person, even if it's good, or not

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good.

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And a lot of hate a person or even a club, even his friends, his properties and fasting and

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a lot hates the person who has to sacrifice the prophecy level

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in the love of Geneva,

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a lot of beautiful and love beauty,

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a lot of

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like, local love, and he hates evil, he hates the lower end. So a lot of nice results and good content. And he hates evil conduct in the practice of law.

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In

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Alabama has utensils and earlier like a utensil from the people of the earth.

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And the intensity of your door are the hearts of the pious people, the heart of the of the fraternity, and the purpose of this adventure.

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Most of these parts and union

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are the most.

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So when the heart is full of love, full of love for the other people

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listening he cannot bear to see their pains and suffering. He loves to see goodness. These are the parts that Allah loves. And these are the parts of the job or the essentials of

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data on this earth. And that is what is the purpose of alarm it is for themselves in the law, practicing with Association for the rest of our data.

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The fastest and the professions that are similar to each other out loud, most

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vocal person come from people who like to go to the practice of the

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idea that the most severe people on the judgments of punishment are those of the people used to avoid because of

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a person be concerned that

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says because they're evil,

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the context from

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the person becomes so bad. What people try to avoid. people stay away from when they know that Sorrento is coming to a party or a gathering. Right? They will not go there because it's such an evil person he doesn't even want to meet

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me they combined and they agree that this person is so bad. I will not even go to places in point

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I don't want to meet

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such a person

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These type of people will have the most

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radical who have been affected by this.

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wherever he goes, he gets rid of noxious, loud mouth,

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to people.

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And that's the purpose of

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life

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you ever witnessed?

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What are

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the sources of good character, the noble character of good, have good knowledge, this is not

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the sole source of evil. And he has a bad reputation if you

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testify

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on behalf of a lot

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of laughter, a lot of love.

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And he hates the one with

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yet another 6% of good is that it is the heaviest things the heaviest matter on the demonstration, as you know, we will come and our good piece will be weighed, and our boundaries will be weighed on the scale on the meter, and the purpose of setting it up in the bathroom.

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The most healthiest things in the world.

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And we know that there are many things that will be hidden under

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the practice of themselves.

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Two things

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are very nice.

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And very heavy in the skills, some have allowed

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certain things or certain features or certain acts that

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they will be held in the scale of the smartphone. But it will wait for

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the purposes of what will be the most

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the most editing

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machine.

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So how do you think that will ever come into this case,

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according to

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we have a lot of evil, that we need to make up for a lot of similar types of wishes. And

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we need to make up for that.

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So this is another lesson of good classes that can help you think on the skills of

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the person who

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will be the closest to the practice level, it will set you up

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on the day of judgment as

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you have, the closer you will be to the prophecy,

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the higher the arrest in general,

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the closest of you will have a sitting place with me on the Day of Judgment.

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If you want to be close to the purpose,

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you want to have

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a station around where you will be close to the practice and

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the way to achieve that is through a plumber and he said

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have performed well in the majority those of you who are the most beloved to me.

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So we talked about a slap and

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slap was also built up into the practice. So he said those will be who will be the most beloved animal have the closest faces and rescue me Indeed, there are those who

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had good luck perhaps

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those who have the best of luck.

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But best

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of luck to have the closer will be erratic and in addition to the practice of love, and the opposite is also true that that was

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the most hated

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practice

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if you think you'll be successful, but what was the most hated to me, the one I hate the most

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of agriculture

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and the furthest from me in the front of the semi semi face of city are those

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of the worst of the worst.

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is a few descriptions given are similar in meaning loud mouth, nose or mouth for our speak bad nothing evil comes from below.

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So these type of people because a lot of commotion wherever they go, even wherever they go there Arabic loud mouth effect of people to practice the lovers that

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will be the most patients in this position and the third is for me in the month.

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In the illustration that they wrote, so, this is yet another important thing. And it also shows you the dangers of

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the missing

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anything good

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luck,

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the mercy of Allah Subhana Allah He has carved out to be of such, and such characteristics that the people have genuine.

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The most common reason that people intergender is because of

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the most common reasons that the people wouldn't be able to reach, perhaps a person might be weak and this is the amount of smoking we could

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be weakened, weakened, something might be able to do some some tissue will

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be covered a lot worse. And because of the loss of our Look what is going to be covered up you ever seen

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dragging and

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dropping to the level it was

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when he was

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a junior? What is the thing that will cause people to intragenic

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of the blessings of the love of having such beautiful questions.

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Such beautiful questions.

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And we've been there, we could not have asked anything more.

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So someone asked him, What is the one thing that will class people to encourage him that the most is that

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this is one

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of

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the most common things that will cause a president agenda.

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And of course, it's

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mentioned here,

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before we conclude is important to point out that

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what is combined with knowledge,

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this is

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a person who has good luck, but is not knowledgeable

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physician

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will reach the perfection, it will reach its height when

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a person also learns.

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And we teach it to people that progress

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is

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the best, the highest of genius level

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those who have the best of luck.

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So the height of the height of the house

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comes when a person is knowledgeable.

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And of course, this doesn't mean that if a person is

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already mentioned

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but we'll say the perfection comes the command comes when this is combined with

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another

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animal direct. So,

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you have to point out that

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and this is very important.

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The first of three categories, the first category

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should have

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a recipe.

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So the

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primary key is

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having good thoughts about a lesson

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or always remembering a lesser

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person should have

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the second

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person has

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primarily his parents and his children, his or her spouse, brothers or sisters or siblings the cover of extended family and then the Muslims and then his friends and relatives and then any other medical

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degrees within here as well. But the second category general is that a person should have

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any the rest of the Muslim or from the optimistic, okay, be good to them. Anyhow, good thoughts about them? Okay, avoid lying and cheating and stealing from them

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that a person should have with his fellow Muslims. And the third category of

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person should have to consult there certainly. Should we even have an

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incident with

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his brother in Islam?

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worship is

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such a degree that he would have every single day and he prayed every single night and he would not even approach his wife, his wife, Janet non precious opportunity. So what am I doing with the video my husband has

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actually missed the practices of so many people

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Some

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stuff that

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your body has,

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as

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part of your class with yourself, that you do not strive for that you can do, you make sure you get enough sleep, make sure you eat healthy,

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you make sure that you take care of your personal hygiene, which is a fundamental, this is the

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this is the person should have with himself. So these three categories of

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people

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of love with yourself three categories of love, once we understand the three categories of a flower, we now understand it for the purpose of love rather than in

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other

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words, which means exclusivity, which means this is the only reason.

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The only reason I have this

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is to perfect good manners, good luck. In the library.

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I have only been set to perfect

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lot of people don't read this.

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I thought the purpose of our syllabus

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was the most important and the worship of

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it. But once you understand the three categories, the category

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once you understand this makes sense. Yes, the only reason the purpose

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is to perfect a good manager.

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And of course, the management,

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the most important and important is the person. So once

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it becomes clear to you that the only reason the puppet has been set

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up to protect matters. And with that we'll conclude by just pointing out the two extremes that exist amongst Muslims in our time, there is a certain category of Muslims and this is in general, those who are not knowledgeable enough practicing done much they make a class

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amongst people, the most important. So they say even if I go to my

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neighbor, and doing this, as long as I am good to other people, this is the most important.

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This is one extreme. And this is very common amongst Christians as well

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as rather than good to everyone.

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Good to everyone,

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then I will be safe. They forget that

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if a person does not follow one of the most major cities,

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so

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you're not even protecting yourself.

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And the other escape, which is also very common in our time, is that as long as I'm left with a lot

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of energy, I couldn't care less about anything else.

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Everything else will be forgiven as long as

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as long as I have believe in 11 from the names and attributes of the law.

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I am not guaranteed gender. And I can do whatever I want to do with my other fellow Muslims live backbiting, slander, whatever, it doesn't matter to me. I have the proper APA with

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us for this edition of precise and it is very possible that a person will be thrown into the fire just because

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nothing

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asked us to happen. He said Do you know what is the most

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popular the beggar? The one that has nothing? The poor person in my community

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is the one who doesn't have any money. He doesn't have

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any

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capital

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is the one who comes with good deeds like mountain

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marches.

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Yet at the same time,

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this person

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that he has

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abused that way and he has

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nothing to do with

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just the design. So the purpose

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so under the addition

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of Jesus He will give those

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matches, he will give this to every single person that he rounds in this one, until he will have nothing.

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And when there will still be people remaining

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because he doesn't have any

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hair cells will be

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very soon we'll be back in

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the summer

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we'll be putting upon this person a project

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that

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will be taking and drags on

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the person, he has

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nothing to do with.

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Solution avoid the two extremes.

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Let's understand the three categories that make sense.

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in existence today, you can't

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ignore them.

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And you can't sit on your

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lap.

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Right.

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Everything is probably without a doubt the most important thing and then after that, and this is not trivialize when we have to ask

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our fellow human beings with that in mind, are lucky

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enough to be amongst those who

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got

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some questions?

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You mentioned that.

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The question was that we find people who are following the same IP that looking up to the same spelling. Yes, we find so much disunity and so much fat fighting Islam.

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What is the cure for this

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disease and problem? robotic brother your question

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is the question that is coming into the minds of the majors.

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What is the way to deal with this disunity that exists?

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This is not a trivial question. It is not a question that I can respond to.

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responses. However, I work by myself and not to lose track of our goal

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is to earn the social progress

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to earn the rewards.

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Once we put things into perspective, that our purpose here

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is to worship Allah

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the messenger

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with

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a stellar

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tradition

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because we are the methodology of the purpose of

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the activity

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and what is the snap? two simple principles the worship

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and worship is based upon the Sunnah of the Messenger of Allah, some of our

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understanding of the Sahaba the origination of the meaning of

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worship Allah, Muhammad Rasul Allah, that worship we based upon the methodology that

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must be put in my perspective

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is to curl to the worship of the soul and the Messenger of

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God as understood by the only generation.

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I don't think it will be that much of

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a problem people.

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equations complicate the matter. And this is where most of the problems start from.

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level,

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a lot of people lose track of the purpose of creation, we have forgotten that we are here to worship.

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And this is

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the purpose of

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my advice

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here is that every person should try what is best for him. Every person

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in the family is surrounding

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himself not to perfect his family

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changes, or a change in our society. But if we're worried about everyone else all the time, and ignore ourselves,

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everyone else.

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So many, so many

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laptops, so many diseases of the soul, and so many things that is funding short

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term into ourselves, how we can improve our own situation?

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And how can I come closer to a less

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controversial?

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How can

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this question is asked to

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me I think the priorities and I think the understanding that will change

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your question is not an easy one, and make lots of money. He loves us.

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Because when, when we're leaving this type of situation, and it becomes difficult to grow.

00:46:42--> 00:46:43

Sometimes we get

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so

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caught up. And I also like to mention one instance of the purpose of our production method showing the importance of a class

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that should

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be refined.

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And the purpose of tonight's lecture.

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Maximum is a young girl,

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she became jealous that maybe he went

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to another device or something. So she promised.

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And actually, she walked

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in, she was scared that

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she was

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right. She thought

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she came up to me.

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And he was telling that indeed he is alive. There's nothing wrong with him. Why?

00:47:48--> 00:47:50

Can you imagine all alone?

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most beautiful one.

00:47:55--> 00:47:57

Coming to the rescue to worship

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in the middle of the night no one is hearing

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alone

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alone.

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Right into the

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middle of the

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guide me to the festival. No one can guide me

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and turn me away from the most well known ones.

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So in response to your questions, and let's turn to our last panel, let us turn to a lesson and good luck for ourselves and for all of the Muslim brothers that are here and inshallah like I said, slowly but surely the change will come to not give up early this

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victory does come from a lesson. For those who are patients. We present a lot of kinds of experiences.

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How do we

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The question is we know that we're supposed to love and hate for the sake of a lot harder we totally disregard manners to the

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vocal question. We have to realize that there is various types of love. Like this various types of love. There is a natural love that a person feels for his parents, his children, his wife, spouse, whatever. It is a religious love.

00:49:41--> 00:49:59

And of course, also categories, the love of God which is the essence of the love for the sake of Allah or the love it because of a love because of the law. You love. The purpose of the love thing because of the physical love. You love the idea of the religious thing and the love for the sake of a lot you love someone because unless

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And this is where we have Muslims. So, this type of love cannot be for the longest, it cannot be for some of us mitochondria, some of us might

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have a lot of natural,

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as long as we have a lot of in Africa, it is not possible that a person can and his parents are not listening that he doesn't love, it is not possible.

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But

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he must realize as a religious exclusive for themselves. So, once we understand this, also obviously in terms of

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you cannot have a religious

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or general look and he's

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like Therefore, I must try to guide

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you cannot have

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been rejected.

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But if we have a relative we have a spouse we have a parent and we have not

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loved his mother and his father very much and he cried when he visited.

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So, keeping this in mind, when we

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are allowed to have good weather it is imperative that good luck.

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And over multiple Cisco Allah subhana wa tada has not prohibited you from being good to and being just to those who have not tortured you. In other words, if they haven't done evil to you don't do and this is the case of the copper that we are living. We be just to them and we

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just

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don't like it just because you don't that by the just because he's a doctor, not even the copper has

00:51:49--> 00:51:57

backed by him alive, lie or cheat or steal or slander. Rather we should show but the goal, the reason should be in order to

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guide

00:52:00--> 00:52:08

the reader should be closer to Allah, closer to Islam through into the law. But in the process, you must realize that the love

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is only for the mystery and

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only have a sympathy to guide him. But this religious stuff will never be his