Seerah – 56 The Slander of Aisha RA Part 2

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Shaykh Yasir Qadhi delves deeper into the reason behind the slander of Aisha RA which was the need for revenge by the hypocrites after Allah had exposed them in Surah Munafiqun.Abdullah ibn Ubayy capitalised on the opportunity the minute he saw it and sought to get even through Aisha RA.

Here we see a mention of her aunt – Umme Mistah who was in fact Abu Bakr RA sister. And how a conversation with her makes her aware of the fact that a filthy and evil act of slandering against her has begun in her vicinity. She then rushes to her parents house after seeking permission from the Prophet ﷺ who sees that something is amiss about her.

When she reaches her parents home, she expresses her shock about whether people are actually indulging in this horrible act and this shoes us the innocence and sensitivity of Aisha RA and how this made her cry endlessly.

Three others of the sahabah made it even more difficult as they were prime factors in the spreading of this disgusting rumour and they were -Mistah (Aisha’s RA second cousin), Hamala bint Jahsh, Hasani bint Thabit.

Testimony is sought from Ali RA and Usama bin Zaid RA by the Prophet SAW and each of them suggest the Messenger of Allah what they think. Then the help of Bareerah, the maid servant of Aisha RA is called for in citing details on the matter that transpired that night.

The end to these false rumours and the horrendous slander of Aisha RA came in the form of Allah’s intervention through verses and revelation to the Prophet ﷺ. The first section of Surah Nur is a firm declaration on the punishment that shall be meted out for slandering .

This story reasserts the honorable and high stature of Aisha RA. She is the mother of the believers and is pure, the daughter of the pure, and she is the wife of the Prophet ﷺ. Her purity and dignity has been verified by Allah SWT and one who does not uphold this  is not from among the Muslims.


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smilla rahmanir rahim al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa salatu salam ala Sayyidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi Marin about in our last class, we had

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begun our discussion of the famous story of the standard of Ayesha. This sort of lift, and the slander of it occurred after which battle who can remind me quickly after which battle

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buzzword to

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legitimize you also known as Ben and Masada. That's the same, also to Bernie, Masada. And just a quick reminder, what are the differences of opinion about the dates that this occurred?

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Quickly? One opinion says the fifth year,

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and another opinion says the sixth year of the digital, and we said In fact, whichever opinion whichever opinion is right, it doesn't really matter. In the sense the story is exactly the same. It's just a historical anomaly. Whether it's the fifth or the sixth of the hero, there's really no stuff really about the story itself. Now, what is important to understand is the incidents regarding the hypocrites that occurred right before the story. They're looking for revenge. Abdullah niobate wants to get even after what has happened to him. After a suffered Allah, Allah has exposed him and stuff for Allah. He is so low, really, he's so evil that he wants to get even in any way possible.

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Right? And this is why the story of the slander of Ayesha occurred when it did, because Abdullah nobody, even a salute, he saw his opportunity to get revenge, he saw his opportunity to get revenge. And the story is, of course, a very traumatic one. Now, one of the interesting things we mentioned about the story, the story of the slander of Arusha, actually two things number one, out of the other four are issued, the slander itself is never ever verbalized. And this is really amazing that none of the books have seen up until our times actually, none of them, they actually explicitly mentioned what the slander is. And this is because of the utmost respect that Muslims have, for the

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honor of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, you see, insulting the wives of the process of is insulting the prophet of Islam. And that's something that we as especially, you know, Sunni Muslims in particular, we value this very highly. If anybody insults your wife will love you, you will get angrier than your wife. And it is human nature, that any man will get angry or that even his wife, because it's your manhood being insulted. This is your reputation. This is your this is, Your Honor. Right. And that is why we and especially understand our Gemma, we take extra concern with the family of the prophets of the law while he was setting them. And this is, of course, a fundamental

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difference between us and the Shia groups in that for the Shia groups, they define the debate only as basically the blood relatives of the Prophet system, such as Fatima and Alli and their descendants, whereas for us, the albite is the wives and the blood relatives. That is the family. Right? Your family is what it's your brother, it's your sister, it's your uncle, it's your audience, also your wife and your children. This is human nature, this is shadowy, this is linguistic, this is UrFi in every sense of the term, right? So for us, we love other debates. And we love our debate more than any other group because we love them properly. But our dual bait includes though just

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interviews a little awkward, he will send them and this is by explicit testimonial pseudo pseudo soon, as I've explicitly mentioned, the term ad will bait and invade, explicitly links them to the mothers of the believers. And we have no mincing our words here. With this regard. They have their beliefs that's between them and Allah subhana wa Tada. But we have our beliefs, and we will defend those beliefs and we view them to be definitely in accordance with the testimony of a lots of Hannah with data. And therefore, the story of actually becomes extra sensitive for us. It becomes very sensitive for us, because attacking the wives of the process, and especially the most favorite and

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beloved wife, and especially such a young wife, she's very innocent. She is, in some sense of the term, innocently naive. And I'm not saying this in a negative sense. She doesn't even understand how evil people can get as we will see today. But she's innocent in this regard. And so to attack her, the most beloved and the most innocent and the youngest, no doubt this is something that we take very seriously. And we're going to conclude as well talking about what is the verdict of those who still propagate such stories. Nonetheless, we talk

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about the fact that Arusha returned from the venerable startup that she was found by was the Sahaba. His name was his name. So far they've been well, she was found as a fundable actor. So what a bit motto did not even say one word to her, other than what is the one phrase he said, the whole load boards end up in the Health Fund. That's all he just recognized her. You saw her and that's it. She said, I shall law he I never heard one word from him other than that, and he put his camel down. He sat he turned his back, he sat and he led Arusha as fast as he could to catch up with the caravan. And he caught up with the caravan before they entered Medina. Right. So Abdullah of new wave in

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saloon is fresh burning with anger. He has been humiliated by Allah and by the messenger and he deserves that humiliation. He has been exposed by the Quran. Allah has revealed verses in the Quran. They swear to you, and Allah knows they're lying. Doesn't the Koran students and they swear to you, yeah, California. Bella will love Yeshua in the home locatable? Allah is testifying that they're lying straight to their teeth. So he's been exposed his own people have abandoned him. So before even the caravan returns, Abdullah newbay gets the idea. Here is Arusha, coming with a young man and he was unmarried. He had never touched women. And so he was a very upright and chest and honest and

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virtuous man. He had never been married up until this point. Some say he married later on in life and some say he actually died to Shaheed without ever marrying he died a Shaheed whether he married or not as a difference of opinion. But for sure, up until this point in time, he was unmarried. So he's a young man. And so Abdullah bin obey begins the rumors now Ayesha says, she returned home and thought nothing of it, no big deal. She was late for the Caribbean. They caught up what's the big deal, and she felt sick with fever, she fell sick with fever, and she spent an entire month bedridden with a a fever, regular fever that takes place.

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And she said no one informed me of anything wrong. No one told me that the rumors were spreading like wildfire. And I was completely unaware.

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And the only thing that brought me some doubt was that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would not be as open with me as he usually was, he was not as free with me as usually was. And he would just visit and inquire as to my health and then leave. And so this is the only thing that bothered me what's going on? Why is the profitsystem not treating her the way that he usually does. The usual tenderness was not emanating from him. And this was the only thing that brought you some suspicion. But she didn't at all realize what evil was afoot, and it shows us the innocence of our Asia. It also shows us and this we're going to see throughout today's lecture, the humanity of our prophets

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of the law, while he was sent them the confusion that he himself solo Selim had the fact that he is a human being, he's not a god or a demigod that he knows in my life, that he's a human being that when the munaf own, began spreading what they began spreading, that he was perturbed. He was disturbed, and he didn't want to confront our issue because she's sick. She says she's, you know, in this feverish state, and of course, it's instinct is telling her that she is free of this, and he wants to defend her and he will defend her as we will see, but still, human nature is human nature. So he's not showing her the usual type of relationship. So I should only a wife would know something

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is wrong. Something is just a miss a little bit. I she says that after I had been cured, so now one month has gone by she was cured. So once I exited with Ole Miss LA,

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towards the area that we will use to relieve ourselves. And our issue then explains and clarifies to her audience, that we would only have to go to the restroom once every few nights. And this was before the time when people started building restrooms inside the houses, we were of the Arabs. So what she's saying here, even in her own lifetime, the customers began to change. Right. And the Arabs disdained building a restroom inside the house. This is of the customs of the non Arabs at the time. Remember, there is no irrigation. There is no sanitation, you know, not irrigation. There's no there's no running water. So obviously, it's not the most cleanest thing to have a restroom inside

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the house. Right? So our issue by the time she passes away, these customs have changed. And she died 56. So literally within three, four decades, the whole oma is changing, including architecture. And this shows us the wealth that came into the oma was an immense amount of wealth. Within the first 3040 years then the next 120 years, the whole world changed the Arabs lay way came from being literally a backward civilization to becoming the rulers of the world. That's going to be an instantaneous change. So Alessia herself is giving an impressive

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We didn't have to go to the bathroom every day. We'll go once every few days, right? Somehow to leather eating so little food, there's no need for them to go relieve themselves except once every few days. And so we would go a group of women would go and we would go to their area that was known for the restaurant area. There was a joke when I was in Medina, not a joke, but a true thing that that area, which they use for the restroom, when I was in Medina, now they've even destroyed that this is in the mid 90s. It used to be the area of the gold shops of Medina. Right. So look how history has changed it around. Right? That our teachers told us that this area that they used to

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use, you know if you remember in the 90s or even the 80s in the 90s there was large areas of gold shops in Medina, right Babu nice on the one side and you had the gold areas in this area where the post office was enough remember where the post office was and then all of the gold shops right there. So our teachers used to tell us that was the area that would use this restrooms right now it's the most prized area of Medina. So look at the the flip that took place in any case, so they went out to that area, and she was with only Mr. And Mr. She is the daughter of Russian abnormal polyp nabbed him enough she was also a hoarder, she and her mother or mother is the heart of Abu

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Bakar. So aboubaker is harder.

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That's her daughter. So only Mr. Walker's first cousin, first cousin. Right when we miss that double buckers first cousin. And therefore it's like our issues aren't almost right. It's like our issues aren't because I have been to a bucket. Okay, so she is a friend, family friend. She's family she's visiting regularly, so they will usually go out. So a minister went out with Arusha to relieve themselves on the way back to Minnesota, tripped on her garment. And she fell down.

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And she just blurted out

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an expression that in English translates as may mislead my son be despaired or May he be cursed. It's like a very harsh phrase against your own son. Now what is this show? He shows that on her mind is something else, even though she's walking with Alisha. She's very angry at her son. And something happens. And immediately the anger at her son is just

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Freudian slip, yes. It's just comes out. Okay? She's not thinking about how she's concealing something from Russia. And when she trips, automatically the anger that she has against her son, it is simply released. And she says Mavis, like be cursed? Or maybe it's like the failed, maybe exposed or something. He says way hacky, would you? How can you create your own son? How can you say this about Mr. And he has witnessed the Battle of butter panela. Notice, our issue is defending Mr. Because he's attended the Battle of butter. He has witnessed the battle the budget, even within three years after burden, they knew the status of the people. But it wasn't something that took

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decades or years to build within three years after whether they know anybody has such a status, right? How can you talk about this to your own son, and he is a burden He attended. But he witnessed better. And this shows us that again, I said I should never forget the entire story that's going to happen. Look at her fitrah instantaneously to defend a Muslim.

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This is the fitrah that the processor has taught her the love that the processor has taught her. Don't speak bad about other people. Right? instantaneously, she comes to defense. She doesn't know why she doesn't know anything. But this is of the slap of our religion. Somebody has been defamed, somebody has been and this is the mother doing it to her own son, who is Ayesha to get in the middle of But no, our religion says don't speak out of other people behind their backs, especially. So she says How can you criticize somebody who has witnessed butter? Or Miss thigh says, My dear child Don't you know? In other words, old minister is thinking that she knows everything. Right? Don't you

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know what's going on? And I just said what?

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he said she said Don't you know what he is saying? She said what? And so I she said that's when she told me Even she did not verbalize right. That's when she told me the news and the slander the if that was being spread, and according to some books, she fainted on the spot. Like she could not believe somebody could possibly say this about her. And when she went home, she fell sick a worse sickness than the whole month she had been cured from right now. Now this was a sickness of the grief. She had been biologically sick fever. Now this news made her physically emotionally sick, wretched to the stomach. And she said I felt more sick than I had ever been for the last month and

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the process of entered upon me and he doesn't know how

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She knows, and the process of entered upon me and asked how I was. And he did not know that she had been cured, she had literally just been cured. Now she falls exactly sick even more so. So she said, I asked his permission to go to my parents house because I wanted to verify the information from them. I wanted to find out what's happening. And the only people she can trust in this sensitive matter is her parents. And this shows us

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how affected our show was. This shows us her emotion. It shows us the importance of verifying information, it shows us her wisdom. She didn't just go emotional instantaneously. And she is barely a teenage girl at this stage. Right. And yet her maturity is amazing. She calmly asked permission to go to her parents house. Now she's gonna get emotional and we expect her to, but right now she is composing herself. She doesn't ask the process of directly, she doesn't confront him. Let me find out what's happening. That requires maturity and wisdom, especially for a newlywed, especially for somebody so young is an issue. And this also shows a simple fifth point that a woman does require

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permission to go to another house if she wants to spend the night Even if it was her parents house. So she asked permission, can I go and you know, spend the night at my parents house. So obviously, the process of them gave her that permission. And so she rushed back home to her parents, she rushed back home to her mother and father. And she said, my mother, yeah. Oh, my dear mother, what are the people talking about? What is the slander going on? And why did you tell me? Why are you keeping this from me? and her mother, and of course, her mother is a middle man, or middle man or middle man, calms her down and says my daughter, be easy upon yourself? How would you honestly calm down?

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be easy on yourself. For voila, he never does a good man love her husband as much as your husband loves you. Except that people talk about her.

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Now, this is so true as well, that successful marriages are always the object of jealousy, especially amongst women. This is the reality. Successful marriages are something that always gossip and slander and innuendo and whatnot, and so on middle man is trying to calm her down. Right. And she also brought in the issue of CO wives, you have co wives as well, and who knows what they're going to be doing gossiping and whatnot. Right? So never does a husband love his wife so much and with us such a successful marriage. And she also has co wives except that there's going to be gossip, there's going to be slander. In other words, she's not even saying yes or no, it's just

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saying, don't worry about it, right? You're gonna have some gossip, you're gonna have some slander. Now, her response tells that it showed that everything she had hers is true.

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Without even mentioning the details, or middleman is simply saying, don't worry about it. Right? She doesn't deny, she simply tries to dismiss and our issues first responses Subhana Allah have the people actually said this. Again, she just cannot imagine. She's an innocent young woman who has never had an evil thought crossed her mind. And now she cannot believe that people can be so cruel. And this is the reality of slander and of societies and of smearing and of gossip. This is the reality How cruel people can be. So panela this is what the people have talked about. And she said, I cried that night, and I cried, and I cried, and I cried until the morning came and my tears would

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not stop. And I did not taste the sweetness of sleep. So this is non stop now. The emotions get the better of her and she's crying and crying and crying. And the entire night goes by and she does not know what to do. And this shows us again, I mean, the sensitivity sensitivity of actually the innocence of Alisha, she really and truly could not fathom how evil the Manasa own can be, that they can talk in such a personal such a nefarious manner about your own honor and the honor of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and explains that the one who took charge there's a phrase that occurs in the Quran, Willa DITA one Kibera who this is in the Quran, this is in the Quran, and it

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translates as the one in metaphorically transit is the one who took charge of this, the one who was in charge of all of this slander, right, the one who main person who instigated it, and this is of course, the Horan does not mention by name obviously, he says one lady to one Kibera who and she quotes this phrase of the Quran, and then she explains who it was it was Abdullah bin obey even saloon. So she mentioned him by name and this is the seat of the Quran, by the way, because she's quoting the Quran. And then she said, this is Abdullah. Nobody even saloon and some of his followers have

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100 you know, Abdullah, who was from the village, right? And therefore, the bulk of the munafo own were his followers from his own tribe, which happened to be Hassan, not that the 100 were a stockholder any better or worse than the others? It just so happened that because I believe nobody was 100 G. So obviously, who is going to follow him when he was the leader of the hunter lodge? He will majority Bz has Raj. And then she says, and three others of the Sahaba followed along, and these three we'll talk a little bit about them throughout the today, and that is Mr. Omega slice son, Mr. The one that she cursed, Mr. And this is, of course, is your second cousin. Right?

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With a thought and a half, Miss thought with a thought and meme seen for her, Mr. Mr. And Hamad have been the judge, and has certainly been savate. These were the only three of the habit of the non munafo own, who were guilty of gossip, they were not guilty of instigating the rumor. They were not istockphoto guilty of inventing the lie, but they fell prey to what many of us fall prey to and that is titled tailing, gossiping, spreading the news. Have you heard what happened? Do you know what there's the nail is this? This is what they were guilty of? And that is to simply spread that which they didn't invent. They didn't the holder of the villa, do you think has anybody ever going to

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invent this? But they succumbed. They fell weak, and they began gossiping? Do you know what the people are saying? And they didn't invent it? They're actually saying the truth meaning that the people are saying this, do you know what I'm saying? Right. But we know in our shady, we know that these types of slanders and gossips are not tolerated, and even gossip in general is not tolerated. Gossip, in general is haram. And especially when it involves such a sensitive issue as Xena as something as far as honor. So these were the three that spread it. And

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as for so we'll talk about the three of them later on the shallow data. But she simply points out here that as for HANA. As for HANA, her sister was in a vintage wash. Her sister was then a vintage ash, and she was the only one of the wives of the Prophet SAW them who rivaled me.

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And therefore, she wanted to

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put something basically for her sister.

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She wanted to basically help her sister in this rivalry. And the law protected Xena because of her religion, she didn't say anything but to quit.

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But Hannah fell prey and she suffered because of it is all I was just speaking. This is your speaking. Isha and Zainab did not get along. And they were the two co wives that had the most rivalry. And that is because Xena was of the most noble lineage. She was the cousin of the Prophet so seldom, she had many other things in her favor. And and the process of them I knew that he had a love for her as well. And so she says the only wife that truly rivaled me that I was genuinely like a rival to all the rest, I knew their position and status. As for Khadija, of course, you never saw her dejan the jealousy that she had for Khadija is a different type of jealousy. She never she's not

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competing directly with Khadija, right? The only wife of the process and that she's genuinely competing with is Xena.

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And then she herself says, but as for Xena, her Deen protected her panela her Deen protected her. Even if I was jealous and envious and having some rivalry. She knew that Xena was a righteous woman. And that jealousy was personal. She didn't make it religious. So she herself said as far as her Deen protected her tongue. She didn't say anything except the truth. But as for him and her sister, her blood sister, does anybody have an older sisters? Right. As for hemin, she wanted to help her sister, but she suffered because of this help. She wanted to help but she suffered because of it. Now, this shows us a number of things. Firstly,

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well, about a little bit new babies. So new

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issues report is explicit in that he was the one who who began it. And this is something that all of the scholars of Syrah agree he was the one who began it. Also we find here the

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problems of tribalism, that the only reason that the majority of them went after Cornwall from the village it's not because the husbands were bad people. But it's because Abdullah obey was bad. Look at how one person brought about so much damage to his own people and tribe.

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This is because of tribalism. The only reason when I followed him is because he was of their tribe. And he was their leader in the days of India and the US did not have any equivalent. All of the leaders of the house had been killed in the Wars of blast before Germany before the end, the days of God, the Wars of blast, right? So they didn't have any equivalent. And this shows us the evils really of tribalism, that the moon after own, we're simply following the one of their own tribe. I show goes on. And I she says that the Prophet says, and I'm had in these days now she's finding this out later on, she doesn't know this at the time, he had already called testimony from people within

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the family. And he called it

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and Osama bin Zayed.

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And both of these two are basically members of the Prophet systems household, right? I live in Utah that this is his son in law. This is his cousin. This is somebody that has grown up in the house of Khadija he comes every day, every second day to the house of the processor, and so he knows what nobody else knows. And as for Osama Osama was literally born in the house of the prophet SAW Selim, and his father was the quote unquote, adopted son, they even had it right, quote, unquote, adopted son, right. And his mother, only a man was the woman who took care of the profitsystem as a baby, right? Because only a man was a slave, or a man was ominously, but she was a young girl at the time.

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And so the processor was born on a man took care of the processor. And she was not a foster mother. She didn't suckle him, but she was a caretaker. We will call an artisan nanny, somebody who took care of the Profit System, right. And nobody is closer to the processor amongst the women than a man amongst that older generation. Right. And I'm Aiman married zaytoven house editor, and the two of them they had Usama Ibn Zayd, so both his mother and his father are beloved to the process. And that's why was Sam his nickname was hip buena de is awesome hip Burnaby even it wouldn't be right, the beloved the son of the Beloved, he was beloved. And his father was beloved. And he is literally

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somebody now at the time who Sambo would have been around 1314 years old, right? So he's just becoming a young man, boy. And so he's entering in and out all the time amongst the wives of the processor, and therefore he's calling these two to find out Have you seen anything strange? Is there anything suspicious? And so he calls it and Oussama. And, of course, he does not know at the time she finds out later on that all of this has happened. So as for Osama, he testified what he knew about the profits of his family, and that they were free of discharge, they were not guilty of this whatsoever.

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So it was Tomba testified it's not possible that I know all of them. And none of them have such a character and asked for it. He said, Yeah, rasulillah Allah has not restricted the mattress upon you. And there are plenty of women to choose from. Now, Id and Asia and we know from the zero that they had some minor tensions between them. And there's nothing wrong with expressing this in this manner. After all, there are humans, but I shonali they never went beyond the bounds are the speaking the truth here. And all he is saying is Yasuda if you really do have any doubts. Allah has allowed you to marry any woman you want, right? But then he says, If you want to know her character,

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why don't you call her maid servant, buddy era burrito will know more than us. Now this is true. Now you can tell I she's not the happiest at are these testimony to the loved one, because I needed not defend her as clearly as Osama did. Osama said this is not possible to be true. And I've never seen anything of doubt. And are these responses a little bit vague? Well, the old one, and it says, you know the world The world has plenty of women. If you don't want this one, then you can have another one. But if there's any doubt then called buddy, right? So again, it is speaking the truth. And there's no incorrect statement in what he is saying. But we know that and I said they had some, you

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know some minor issues and this will later be manifest in the Battle of the camel. But even then, both of them dealt with each other islamically and honorably. And this is the position as you know of and should not watch Mr. So it says called barrier. So the process of them called burrito. And burrito was a fried servant, but you know, was a slave that used to belong to another family and Arusha had purchased her with her own money and set her free fees to be the law. And Barbara was so happy and overjoyed that she basically became a maid servant. She's not a slave anymore. Right. I she has freed her, but but he liked it so much and they were she wanted to repay her loyalty

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basically. So she is like a servant Tasha. So she is living with Ayesha and she is taking care of Alisha

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She is also not that old. She is also young. And so the process some calls very long. And Maria is trembling, because the process is calling for eyewitness right star testimony now, and Maria is terrified. She doesn't know what to say, because she's stammering she's stuttering, the process is now interrogating her directly. Right? And the Profit System says to very wrong. Yeah, buddy, have you seen anything from our issue that will cause you to have any doubts? Is there anything that will give you any shock in her character in her manners, and so very raw, in her full honesty, and her full now she's being put on the witness stand here, right? So she has to mention the false. So she

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says, well, La Jolla rasulillah. I have not seen anything from her except now she is going to mention this heinous grievous sin that Ayesha has committed. What is this sin that she has committed? Except that sometimes Yasuda law, she is supposed to knead the dough, and she falls asleep. And the goat comes and eats the dough when she's supposed to be needing it? How old was 11 now?

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This is the sin that I am I witness to that it has happened now will allow you don't know whether to laugh or to cry. Right? She's terrified. She wants to be honest here. You want me to know, you know, any type of sin, any type of doubt? Yeah, Rasulullah, the goat ate. The goat ate that agenda. It ate the dough. And she was sleeping and she fell asleep because she's a young girl. So this is the sin of heart issues panel, right. And this really shows us will lie. And not only the honesty of buddy or you can even feel sorry for buddy right here. But the innocence of our issue is demonstrated even in this quote unquote sin, that she has to make an exception for this and say that this is the the

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crime that she's guilty of. We also learned from here that it is a part of human nature. That one goes to his close friends and close relatives for advice. Even our profits, all the sudden he went to his closest relatives and friends. And that is Ollie and that is Osama. Right? And the both of them are so much younger than him Osama is barely just becoming a teenager. And yet the Prophet system is bringing him in and getting his advice and hearing from him. So panela this is something that especially men amongst us should learn from we in particular, we have a problem getting advice from anybody, right? We have a problem listening to anybody else for any issues we have. And here is

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our profit system, getting the Matura getting the SD Shara, what do you have to say give me your advice. And this is something that does broaden a man's horizon. And he brought in the ones he could trust obviously only ask those whom you can trust and he brought an alley and Osama bin Zayed. So when all the testimony appears to be that our issue is innocent, and I shall not lie to her mother's house so the process of him feels some comfort by the way aboubaker his house was somewhat outside the city. It wasn't in the center of Medina it was somewhat outside the city in the area called hourly which is like a 40 minute walk in those days.

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So he feels a little bit comfortable now be going public. For one month Ayesha has been next to the masjid. Because remember, His house is next to the masjid. So he really also cannot do something public. Now that Ayesha has gone. Now he can make matters public. And so the Prophet system called the General Assembly in the masjid and our issue is not there. Obviously, I had had I should have been there, she would have heard everything, right. So I she is in your mother's house. And he calls the General Assembly. And everybody knows the rumor, but nobody has actually said it right to the Prophet system in this manner. So he calls it a general assembly and he says yeah, Marshall, meaning

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Oh, gathering of believers, who will excuse me, from a person who has heard to me, even with regards to my family now, what is this mean? many out there and who will excuse me, meaning in Simple English? Will you blame me? If I get angry at Abdullah widow waving salute? Will you blame me if some punishment happens to him? But he doesn't mention his name out of his other so seldom does he never would mention names. But he just generically said, Is there any blame on a man who protects his own family? This man has harmed me, even with regards to my own family. In other words, this is stooping to low he's taking it solo he's even heard the question and family and will law he I know

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nothing but good from my wife's. Now he's defending our issue in public. I know nothing but good from my wives. And even this man that they mentioned, this has finally been worked on. I know nothing but good about him. And this is a very high test gear for someone. This is a very high test gear for someone that the process of me saying I know nothing but good and he was a man who was modest and shy and everybody testified that he was a gentleman

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But he never had any interactions with women. He was never married and he was not of that character. And so the presidency I know nothing but good of him. And we see here the tense situation. That's the people of Medina are now being asked directly by the prophet SAW Selim.

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And therefore, when the Sahaba heard this immediately, say they've been wild stood up. Now we have already mentioned that this is problematic either side, or Zayn have been one of these two people. that's problematic, right? Both of them could not have been in this story. Both of them are mentioned in Bukhari and Muslim. Therefore Allah knows best, which of the two one of these is a mistake, right? Allah knows best. And in any case, somebody made a mistake somewhere and one of these names is different, somebody else might have stood up or maybe you know, what a lot of that's the point. In any case, if it's not sadly been why'd somebody say this is a mistake is to say

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they've been delayed. Whoever it was, somebody from the O stood up. One of the young leaders of the most, the most does not have any old leaders. The only has young leaders, right. One of the young leaders of the house now remember, Abdullah newbay is from

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right, so sadly been wired stanza

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and Buhari mentioned 717. Even wild who is active in wild does the multisided wife Sally when was the throne shook when sad died, sad even was the one who dealt with hyper sad even while the president said you have dealt with them. The ruling of Allah subhana wa tada you have just done it. This beside him and why and sadly been one of the one that bothered when he stood up and said the other School of Law Are you really hinting at us you want to know my our position for will law he go forth in the ocean and go into the dive into the ocean? We will be right behind you. Go wherever Allah tells you to go. You will find this right behind you. This has already been watching. Society

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been watched stands up. And it just so happened. He's from the house. He's standing up because of his email. And he says Yasuda law As for me, I excused you, whatever you want to do to this map. So if this man be from the house, then I will cut his head off. But if he be from the hazard edge, you have to commend us then I will do it. Notice because he knows Jamelia is still

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in memory. Germany is still around, right? If he's from the US, I'm in charge. Don't worry about it. If he's from the hazard edge, you command and then I will do

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Of course he's not from the house. He's from the hazard. Abdullah nobody's from the hazard as soon as sadly been more art says this sad they've been robota another set another famous side sided robot that was at the booth. Luckily for us I live in a bar that has history as well. Sadly been a robot of the has Raj. He stood up angry. And he said Capita will lie You're lying. And here because up to means it's not lie. It just means you're not telling the truth. Right? This is a mistake will lie you cannot kill him and you would not dare to kill him. Everybody knows what's being talked about. Right? Everybody knows it's our leader. Because religious leader everybody knows this right? Even

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though sad is not enough is a Muslim, right? Will law who you will not kill them and you're not able to kill him? And had he been from your tribe? You would never have killed him, meaning you know, he's from our tribe. So you now have the luxury of boasting.

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Right? And I know this is amazing, I should narrating the story. Ah, Isha makes an excuse for Sadie of ennovata. And she said, sad. had before this one statement been eligible, saw that he had been a righteous man. But hamidah helia took over him. It was just an an urge of Jehovah.

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Ayesha is making an excuse for sad don't think bad of sad is basically saying, right? Sad was a good man. But just he fell into a mistake. Well, it's amazing that our issue when she's narrating the story, she makes excuse for Zainab, she makes excuse for it. No, don't don't think bad of them. You know, don't they just a mistake. He made his jacket he got the better of him. But he was he said Rachel sada is a good man.

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And he is indeed a good man. He's also happy. But this is tribalism for you. This is my people versus your people for you. Right. And so when this happened, immediately somebody else stood up from the house.

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Now this is getting tense between the house and the husband. And he said to sadly been Avada rather, you are the gossip. You are the liar and we will kill him. Then up to none no Minix Abdullah bin away, we will kill him. And you are just a munafo fighting on behalf of the other 115 Subhana Allah. Now, the sad point here what's happening the whole

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point of the gathering is being lost. And this is the problem of football and equity laugh. This is the problem of fighting for egos. This is the problem for not caring for the broader picture. So paddler the Profit System has got you together for a very big issue. So very painful issue. Is this the time to bring up party politics? Is this the time to bring up Osen has an agenda. But humans are humans. So how are humans? Right? The Sahaba are humans, and it wasn't intended. But this is what happened. And shavonne got the better of this situation. And the passions of both the author and the husband, because was raised the anger and the temper is flaring. And the profitsystem had to calm

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the two sides down. Instead of the point of getting together, it was completely distracted, and he had to calm the house and the husband's down. And this shows us that not only are the Sahaba human, but will lie he tribalism is something that will remain in the European model. So However, no doubt they are the best, but that's got the better of them. Right? And our Prophet system said for things of giant India will remain in my oma

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for things of yahaya will remain in my own mother never going to go away. And the number one he said alpha horrible unsub which is basically tribalism, right? And in our days, tribalism is nationalism in our days that tribalism is gone. But this is buck, Sunny, and this is Indian, and this is Egyptian and this is, you know, Syrian, and Sudan, all of these different ethnicities have become now nation states. This is a valuable answer, that you're fighting blindly for your people. And our process and I'm set out about four things from Jamelia will never leave my own. Number one on the list. This is exactly what we see. And this is even the Sahaba Subhana Allah, they slip into it, and

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then the process was to bring them back out. And this is the best of the oma, how about us after them? How about us after them. And this shows us the ease with which tensions can be raised. the ease with which shade lawn can inflame tensions between people. And it also shows us the problem really, of bigoted parties partisanship, fighting for your party fighting for your group, instead of looking at the broader picture. And this is true for every single scenario, whether it's even in this country, Republican or Democrat, whether it's on a Masjid board between this and that group where there is, well, I this is party politics, you're gonna go for your party, and then the broader

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picture, the greater unity is lost. And we see this now we see it throughout history. In any case, getting back to our issue, so I should say, so I continue to cry that day. No, she has been crying nonstop for 24 hours. She hasn't slept the whole night. Why? Because she's just confirmed the rumor is true. I continued to cry that day. And my tears would not stop flowing. She's just crying, crying, crying, until she said, I thought that my liver would burst open. Now she's a young girl, she doesn't understand biology, she thinks her liver is going to crack because of the quantity of tears coming out. And of course, when you cry that much that much you get a pain over here. So that

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pain, she thought that my liver is going to burst because of the crying. And Why will we were in this state. My parents state, one of the ladies of the unsought asked permission to enter. And she sat down with me and she just started crying with me. So Pamela, this is what you call sisterhood. Right? She just wants to give her sympathy. And sometimes all you need to do to express your sympathy is be physically present with somebody and show their grief just like them. This is sometimes the best way to show your sympathy and that's why it's a part of our sooner when somebody is in a traumatic situation and relative has died. You go and you visit this person just to express

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that sympathy. It's human nature that when you're with other people when the sympathy is being shared, it kind of makes things easier. So this unsightly lady she hears what's happening. She knows I she's visiting now. So she just comes anonymous lady will never know her name, but she just wants to ease the pain. And all she just she begins crying with the tears of a heart issue. Not that she has been affected but this is our issue. So she just begins crying with the pain of Arusha as well. And while we're in this state, and the Profit System had not

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been with my family for my mother and father for an entire month. Now he came and he visited. Now this is basically the second day after he has left right so things have gone very fast after I show love this is when the process of caller ID they call the sama he called the barrier. He did the meeting there. So also notice he wants to protect the hot issue as well. Issues presence has delayed all of this, but sadly because of her presence and the delay, the rumors have gotten a flame right is the inverse issue here in order to create

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tector he's not confronting her, he's not confronting or is not doing anything msgid. In the meantime, in the background, the field is going, right. And therefore, this long month, in order to protect our Isha in some ways, the rumors became inflamed.

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And now finally, the profitsystem is going to come to the house of Arusha with a worker and Omar and talk directly about this issue. And so the profitsystem asked permission to enter and he was granted. And he sat down and praised Allah subhana wa Tada. Supposedly, even at this point in time, you begin by saying of Hamdulillah, or some type of praise, the process of would always begin any important speech, any important statement with praise of a lot stupider with the other. And then he said that as to what follows, even in this time, little bit of a praise. And then this is something that our religion began. Some scholars say this existed in pre Islam, but frankly, the phrase I'm

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about seems to be from the Prophet Muhammad SAW Selim that he's the one who began by praising Allah and then saying, as to what follows I'm about everything should begin with hamdulillah Praise to Allah and then as to what follows. I have heard about you, such and such kinda worker, not explicitly just, I've heard things about you, these things are being spread. So now the process of them is confronting our issue. And he's telling her This is what the people are saying, I've heard about you such and such. So if you are innocent, and this is how he begins because he believes she's innocent. If you are innocent, then Allah will clear you of discharge, don't worry, everything will

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be fine. And if you have slipped into a sin, notice, if you have fallen just slipped into a sin, then seek Allah's forgiveness and repent to him. For indeed when a servant commits a sin and repentance, then Allah subhana wa tada forgives this.

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Very simple, very straightforward, that if you're innocent, don't worry about it. And if it is the other, then repent to Allah and Allah forgives all sins.

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Now, it shows here, so many things First and foremost, we feel even for the Prophet sallallahu Sallam over here that is confused now, what is to be done? And he wants to ask Ayesha directly. And even in this direct conversation, there's no accusation. It's simply if you're innocent, hamdulillah great. If not, then Toba will forgive everything. And this shows us as well. The status of Toba, the Subhanallah is not an ordinary wife. And the sin for her would not be like any ordinary sin. And as it is that sin, if it is committed is a sin that brings about worldly death in the shediac. Correct. In the Sharia, it brings about the death. Right? If it is confirmed, still our profits or services,

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if you slipped into a sin, repentance, Allah will forgive you. And this shows us repentance is the key to salvation. Any sin can be forgiven by repentance. Now, another point that we learn here is

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this story shows us really beyond the shadow of a doubt that our Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is a true prophet, and the Quran is ye from Allah subhanho wa Taala. Why for one month,

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no Quran has come down.

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He himself solo send them is in pain, anguish, he doesn't know what to do. And he has no way from Allah have the Quran then as these people claim, his own imagination, his own way, his own recitation? Why go through the torture for an entire month? Why drag the entire society and your wife and your mother and father in law Booker and oamaru man, yourself, everybody, nothing has been revealed. And he's waiting for ye from Allah and Julian has not come for an entire month. And as we know, you believe would not come at the snap of a finger. Allah sends him down when he wants to. The process cannot demand an audience from Jubilee. As Allah says in the Quran, woman at 10:11am Arabic

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we only come down when Allah tells us to come down. And this shows us beyond the shadow of a doubt. Our Prophet system is a true prophet. Had he been a false prophet of Allah, the second day where he comes he says, You're free. Don't worry about it. Nothing like this happens. So I should then resume the story. When the process is finished speaking. I stopped crying completely. Like her tears came to a complete stop until I could feel the dryness in my eyes. Non Stop crying for 24 hours. Now. She's feeling an anger.

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Why is she feeling anger? you actually believe these rumors. you entertain them.

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possibility that they might be true. So her young heart is now feeling a sense of zero a sense of positive rage. This is raised that is good. This is raised that is very necessary. Right? And she responds back and she says to her mother or middleman, yeah. Omar, answer me on behalf of answer the process of on behalf of myself speak back to him. And Omar Roman says By Allah, I don't know what to say my daughter.

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So she turns to a bucket. And she says, Yeah, but Ah, oh, my father, respond back to him. Speight Say something. And SubhanAllah. Here is a worker on the one hand is the Prophet Mohammed sysm. On the other hand, his daughter, what are you going to do is going to take sides here? What's he going to do in this regard? He says, You have been taught my dear daughter, I don't know what to say. What do you want me to say? Savannah like me will love you crying for every person in this story. Every single person in this story you're crying for Oh bucko, you're crying for the processing required for it. You're crying for everyone in this story is a loser. Everyone has lost meaning because of

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the evil hypocrite, every one of them. They have suffered because of Abdullah new babies. Right? And a worker says, I don't know what to say my daughter, I don't know what to say. And so when she realized neither her father nor her mother are gonna speak for her panel. I mean, what can they say this is Rasulullah has been front of them. What can they say? After all, this is a man whom Allah is communicating with.

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They're not going to take sides with their daughter just because she is their daughter. They're saying I don't know what to say. And so when she realizes she will have to speak up, she must choose and gathers together whatever semblance of courage and wisdom that she has. And then she makes an excuse for herself. And she said, and I was still a young girl at the time, and I had not memorized much of the Quran. So I tried to think of the name of Yahoo, but I couldn't think of his name. I can't think of who he is right now. So she says, All I can say to you is what Abu Yusuf said Abu Yusuf

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Cooney of Yahoo Abu Musa, right. Yeah, they should parallel you really want to cry at this innocence here that she can't even think of your koovs name. She knows the phrase she wants, but she forgot who said it. So she said I will use have set it right. I can only say to you what I will use have said for sovereign Jamil will lahoma Stan, while Mr. Dorsey phone. Now this is through the use of was revealed in Makkah, we went over here at MIT of this very desk. We went over this phrase that when did Yahoo say it? When did Yahoo say it?

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When he was the last one the first time that use of was kidnapped and captured by the brothers and sold into slavery. So he said, You are lying and I know it. I'll turn to Allah for sabado and Jimmy and Allah Xhosa will help me against these things that you are saying well along with Daniel Allah does the phone so I should say these rumors are not true. And I will turn to Allah subhana wa tada impatience. And Allah subhana wa tada will help me now. And then she said, and saying this, I turned around on the bed and face the wall. Parallel, she feels so alone now. Nobody is now helping her. Nobody seems to be defending her. And her tears have just dried up, and she feels completely

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desolate and alone. And she says that, I knew that Allah would eventually reveal my

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chastity, my honesty. But I never in my wildest imagination could imagine that Allah would reveal or honor about

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I thought that maybe the processor will see a dream that you know, maybe someone's leading her the dream he'll see all the dreams of the processor more true, right? I thought that maybe he'll see a dream, but I never considered myself worthy of a loss of Hana without revealing more about me. Now notice here, when every single source of help from mankind was cut off her own mother, her own father, her own husband, she turns to Allah subhanho wa Taala what happens? Allah answer sir,

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Allah answers you right then in there, right then and there.

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And this shows us the reality of tawheed

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not even the Prophet of Allah will help you against Allah, not even.

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Only Allah azza wa jal, we seek his help, and we seek his shefa and we seek His eight ear canal with we're gonna stay. She turns from all of them, literally, literally and figuratively. She turns away and she turns to Allah

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Subhana wa tada and she says, I know Allah is gonna save me. I know Allah is gonna, you know, protect me and revealed the truth. And I was hoping that the processor might see a dream. However, right then and there, his head lowered, there was an expression, they saw it when he was coming down, they knew it, right when he was being revealed, they could see it from his eyes, and sweat would come form like pearls on his forehead, even if it was cold. There, his forehead would follow up, and sweat would come and he would close his eyes, and they could see a physical weight on him. Because in US nuclear medical colon subpoena we're gonna send you a very heavy revelation. So

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physical almost weight, they could sense it upon him. And they realized what he was coming down. And when the why he was lifted the profits of the law, why do you send them broke out laughing? And his happiness and his joy? He started laughing. And the first words that he said were Arusha. Verily, Allah has revealed your innocence. Why surely Allah has revealed your innocence. Now, Allah subhanho wa Taala had revealed the entire first section of which sort of who knows sorano the first two and a half pages really came down at this particular time. And in this Allah subhana wa tada very explicitly mentions the punishments for

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a slander for others, for accusing somebody of this crime

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and criticizes those who spread the slander in particular fraud issues case

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commanded the punishment of 80 lashes for those who are spreading it. And then said one lady to one keyboard or woman whom love was

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the one that who took charge of this, he shall get the worst of all punishments, basically in your monthly ama. So when the process of them said this on Moodle, man said, Oh, I should stand up to thank the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam stand up and thank him and is still hurting. So she says, No will la he I will not stand up for him. I will thank Allah subhanho wa Taala for revealing this Quran, right? She's still any we excuse her for this obviously right? How will thank Allah subhana wa tada for this and this shows us even the happiness of the process and felt so panela that he's happy he's laughing for joy that Allah subhana wa tada has revealed or on about our issues. And

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our issue says, Allah revealed pseudo news concerning my innocence, the first 10 of which are specifically about our Isha, and then there's, you know,

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issues of calumny and gossip and slander is also mentioned. And he says aboubaker used to give sadaqa to his cousin Miss la second cousin, Mr.

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Due to the fact that he was a relative and a poor person, and he was abandoned.

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after Miss lab began spreading these rumors, Abu Bakar said while law he I will never give him a penny

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he's giving money to Mr.

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And Miss does this in return. So Abu Bakar said, well, law he I will never give him a penny anymore.

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Allah revealed in Surah Noor, verse 2131 foghlaim in Kumasi new to Obi Wan Mahajan, Sabina Walia full Well yes, for who Allah to have buena and yo Pharaoh Allahu Allah.

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Allah revealed, let not the people of grace and old will follow the people of money and further make promises that they are not going to support the for Cora and the Mahajan, the Misaki. Those who are relatives especially let them forgive and forget. Don't they want that Allah forgives them? Subhan Allah, what a religion is this tell me? What type of Quran is this? What type of Revelation is this, that Abu Bakar is not chastise. That's too harsh of a word. But an advocate is told.

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Don't make promises that you're not going to do good. Don't say well, llahi I'm not going to give my relative and my Mahajan Misaki. And for all of these people, I mean, I mean, all of these characteristics are in Mr. He's Mahajan. And he's Miskin and he's a little quarterback and you make a promise you're not going to support him. Don't make this promise. rather well yeah, fool will just

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turn the other cheek. forgive and forget Allah to hit bone and Yellowfin Allahu la con. Don't you want that Allah also forgives you

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What if allow her to keep his job like you're keeping herself? Where would we be like, where would we be? Right?

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And so Abu Bakar said, what law he I will give him as long as I live.

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And he made casada for the previous oath because you make a photo and you give fast 3d you make a photo. And so he got rid of the previous oath. And as long as he lived to continue to support Mr. With an extra charity, just because of this verse, with an extra charity just because Allah subhanaw taala said, Well, yeah, for just for who, so as long as he lived, he continued to give him a better stipend than what he got before. What's a religion is this tell me his daughter is hurt in this manner, and yet still he continues to payments back for as long as he lives. And

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he says that he mentioned the story of Zane have been discharged that the process of him also asked Zane had been dejection about me. And Xena Binti Josh.

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She says that her religion protected her and she said, O Messenger of Allah, I will not cause my eyes and my ears to fall into sin. Well, luckily, I only know good of Arusha even though they were not friendly to one another. There was a lot of rivalry which is expected and to be understood amongst two women in this situation and scenario. So she still did not say anything. She said, I know nothing but good about her, and odawa, who's one of the narrator's from Arusha. roadwatch says that he would never accept anybody to speak ill of Hassan Eben Savage, has certainly been Sabbath was one of those who also spread it. And Allah revealed in the Quran that those who spread it, they

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should be lashed at times, and so has sadly been savate and haven't been to Josh. And Miss thought, the three of them were

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whipped for this punishment of others. And the punishment was because they were spreading it right, they simply spread it, as for them will not feel Kuhn

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and the world who instigated it, they will let off. Why? scholars say because Allah Subhana, WA tada did not want to diminish their punishment in the next life.

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So he led them off in this life,

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so that in the next life, they will get the full share. Because in the laws I did in the laws, infinite justice, had they been punished for this calumny in this world, then he would not to punish them for it in the next world.

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But he wanted to make sure that they get the full share of the punishment. So only the righteous were punished in this world, and therefore has said, and hammer and Miss LA, we say nothing but good robiola, who and whom they made a mistake. And their mistake will lie. Every one of us is guilty of that mistake, or brothers and sisters make sure we save ourselves from this. What is that mistake? Wanting to feel like the life of the party by spreading? Oh, do you know the latest gossip? Do you know the latest rumors? Have you heard what happened? This is what they fell into. They didn't start for the law fabricate themselves, they are above this. But on some gatherings on some occasions,

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they spread the news. And because they repeated it, they got into this punishment. And

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towards the end of this in our wrapping up here. He says that, as for the man they accused of meanings have finally been mocked. But he himself swore by Allah. When they began talking about him. He himself swore by a law that should handle law. I swear by the one in whose hands is my soul. I have never raised the veil of a woman in my life, much less more than this. He has a man who was a righteous man and he was not married up until this point. Scholars differ Did he ever get married or not the majority say he never got married and he died a Shaheed in the Battle of

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n was Beckett, Armenia, Armenia in the 18th century 18 Ah, in 18 he died in the Battle of Armenia. And by the way, interesting story happens here as well.

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That has said once have one heard that has signed the saying this stuff one took his sword and hit his sand with the blunt edge of it. He didn't. Not with the sharp edge, right? One day his anger This one is the things are happening this one month long. His anger got so much that someone took his sword and just POW smacked him. And his son just fell down. Right. And his son's relatives, you know, and family and tribe basically came and, you know, attacked someone and they did this and that. And they also basically tried to get revenge and vengeance because he had hit so fun. And so one has a famous line of poetry here that has said is opposed.

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Right. So if one said, and a line of poetry that's not very poetic, I haven't memorized the Arabic but it's not very poetic. He said, I am a man who, when my blood becomes raged, I don't know how to give poetry. I know how to give this. Right. I know, this is how I respond back, right? has said, You're the guy, you have the gift of the gab, as you may have this basically the Oh, I have the power to do that. Right. So this is he basically said, you're not going to get away with this now, amazingly, SubhanAllah. So his sound was like, hurt much more than so far, because the sword hit him. He was felt unconscious. So

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the case was brought in front of the profitsystem. Now, this is just amazing. Like, it's amazing, because in the end of the day, someone is angry for a legitimate reason. But he's bloodied and wounded, has done.

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And in the shediac, can you take the law into your own hands? No. And this is his own wife that the whole issue is happening over right. But the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam basically rules for his son that he was harmed, you know, incorrectly, right? But then he says, oh, his son, forgive him, I sincerely forgive him as in Yeah, his son, forgive him. And so has said, For set for you on messenger, Allah will forgive him, and so has said was gifted a garden as a comments, recompense basically for the, for the injury, right. Look at the fairness of our religion. I mean, it's mind boggling will lie, right? It's mind boggling, that has said was guilty, but

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he should not have been punished outside of the proper system. Right. So when someone took the law into his own hands, the law did not side with him. Isn't this an amazing, you know, fact of Islamic justice, right? That in fact, his son was awarded a guardian for damages.

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That the process of did not want to beat someone he said, forgiven my husband if you know, for because in the end of the day, he knows his son knows he's guilty for doing this right. His son knows this. So he forgave him, and in recompense he got a garden instead. So

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yeah, he got a garden from suffering for this

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infraction. Right, because his son technically could demand the same fighting back, the same hitting back. This is Islamic law, an eye for an eye tooth for a tooth, he could have demanded the same thing. So he was forgiven. And instead he got this instead. We also learn over here from this, or sorry, one more story as well. By the way, one more story. It is mentioned that

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you bet on Saudi Khalid Ibn Zayd, were you born in Saudi?

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When his wife came one day, when she first heard of the slander, she came home and she said, Have you heard? Have you heard this all? She said, Have you heard What's going on? Basically, she did not mention the slander. Have you heard? And you became angry at her?

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And you've said Sue Hannukah Maya kulula Linda and ethical dilemma behavior. So Hannukah hada butano, nauseam.

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subharmonic a, we should not be saying these types of things. So panic, this is a evil calumny an evil lie. And Allah revealed in pseudo North quoting a ubelong sorry, quoting him, right, even though he said this in the privacy of his house between him and his wife, Allah revealed in the Quran quoting a will. Why didn't you do like this person? Why didn't you when you heard the news say Subhana Kamakura and then an academic we had somehow like a double down on it. Why didn't you do like this? And who is this? of what you what a praise for this man? What a praise for this man that a lot quotes him from above the seven heavens. This is your role model. He's not mentioned in the

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Quran. The Quran does not mention it by name. But he's the the story is quoted directly. That about you bet on Sati chastised his own wife. And this shows us brothers and sisters, let me be very blunt here. Just because you're married to somebody doesn't mean you'll get away with Riba and the Mima. Even husbands and wives, they're not allowed to leave other couples. And this is a common problem and mistake that we think that okay, well, because we're married now we can get away with it. No, are shady as the same for couples for you're not supposed to do leave of other couples. You're not supposed to talk about other people behind their back. And so even though you did not say anything

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other than Have you heard, No, she's not explicit. But a YouTube's radar on anger got the better of him. And he said, Why are you even saying this? How can you speak like this? Speak quiet about this. Don't say anything. And this is exactly what

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The last part that is saying that, why didn't you follow this example that when you heard, you should have said, we're not allowed to speak like this Maya kulula and the technical number be added? We shouldn't be speaking like this. Rather, what did you do? You did the opposite and what was the opposite? The the Arabic is so beautiful is that a coder who has seen it come? And tilaka it's like, passing a ball between people. Right? Like literally you couldn't even digest it you just soon as it comes to your tongue, you flip it out. And this is what the monasticon we're doing. Right? As soon as it comes, you just flip it out elsewhere. And this is exactly what the Mima is

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titled Tilly is going and spreading gossip and whatnot. And our Prophet system said, one of the sins that a person will be punished for in the grave is an Imam. And an Ummah one of the types of numbers this type just gossiping and tattletaling going and spreading. No mom is not a liar. And a mom is not a liar and a mom is the gossiper. Like Have you heard the latest? Have you heard this this is one of the many types of the Mima This is one type of an agreement, you just go and spread the month. And this is something that our shediac has basically forbidden from beginning to end and of the benefits. Therefore, the story of course then finishes in this regard, of the benefits we can

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derive of the entire story.

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Number one, obviously, the evils of slander, the evils of LIBOR, the evils of Nima each one of these is a separate evil, right, lying, backbiting spreading tales gossiping, each one is a separate sin. And the bulk of these sins are major sins. And they become even more major when they involve the honor of a woman. They involve the use of a woman. And this becomes a sin that is worthy of being punished by the Shetty I would head and head there's only five or six sins, one of them is speaking out against the honor of another woman. We also learned from this, that Allah subhana wa Taala will test the believers by various means. Even Isha and she was young, and she was a young lady, even our

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issue is tested. If I was going to be tested, how about the rest of us, even if she has to go through her trials so that her rank is raised up and the more Allah loves someone, the more he shall test them. We also learned here that every time of ease is always followed by a time of difficulty every time of difficulty is followed by time of ease. We know don't last in this life in either ease or in difficulty. Everyone goes through trials up and down. And Ayesha has good times. He has difficult times for in the Margaret's restaurant in America z Yusra, we also learn here

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the munaf cone, the level they will stoop to the level they will go down to is simply beyond that which is reasonable for them to speak about the wife of the process and in such a manner this really shows they have completely no morals they have no cut them no dignity whatsoever. And there is wisdom in this Allah subhana wa tada said, Don't think that this was bad for you. This was good for you that I say boo hoo Shara Lakhan ballyhoo highroller calm This is in the Quran. I don't think this incident was bad, it was for your good. And there are many wisdoms we can derive of why this was good. And this shows us that if something so painful as the slander of Arusha was for the good

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of society, that there was benefits that came out of it, every single masiva that we undergo, there will be good in it, we just don't see it.

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We should remember that verse not taxable who shall Rilakkuma highroller don't think it was bad for you. It was for your own good. So every we'll see but that happens to us. There is some good in it, whether we realize it, whether we don't realize it, we also learn from this final two points. The final two points we have also learned from this, that the fruits of patience will always be sweet. If you're patient and you turn to Allah subhana wa Taala all always you will be vindicated, Allah will help you

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and even if no one else will help you, your mother, your father, your husband all have turned away or they don't know what to do. Turn to Allah subhana wa Tada. And if you are truthful to Allah, Allah subhana wa tada will be truthful to you. And the final point that we mentioned, of the wisdoms of the story is that this establishes beyond a shadow of a doubt, the high honor and the status of Arusha or the Allahu taala and the one whom Allah subhana wa tada freed from above the seven heavens, more than 25 verses of the Koran have come down specifically talking about our Isha rhodiola one and therefore she is the pure and the daughter of the pure

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She is the innocent and the daughter of the innocent. And she is this diva bento Siddiq, and therefore anybody who accuses her of immorality, such a person is beyond the pale of Islam. We do not mince our words about this. It doesn't matter who they are what they call themselves. Allah subhanho wa Taala has freed her from above the seven heavens and anybody who dares accused her of any crime of chastity of any crime of morality, we do not consider this person or this group or this sect or this Philippa to be Muslim, if they make this accusation with that condition, right, if they make this accusation, and I want to be very explicit here

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to a group that is

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typically accused of this, it is not true for us to say they all make this accusation Oh, this is not true. Some amongst them do and some amongst them do so we need to be fair and Allah says in the Quran, liars Amanda commission Andrew Coleman Allah Allah Terra de leeuw eridu, okra taqwa let not the hatred of a group of people cause you not to be just be just it is closer to taqwa. And we want to be very clear here, that there is a controversy within that group. And these days, the mainstream amongst them do not have this belief. It is only a very fringe, very vocal, very hubbies. minority.

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And yes, they are very vocal and will lie to their homies. I don't make any apologies about that. But it is a small splinter group, the bulk of that group, the bulk of that group, they don't like our mother, but they don't accuse her of this crime. And we need to be fair here. Right? They don't like our mother and they have things to say that are not nice about the fact that she did this with Ali and whatnot. But they do not accuse her of what Abdullah Ivanova accused her of. And as long as they don't get to that level, then it does not reach kerferd it does not reach prefer the minute they accuse her of what Allah has freed her that we will say we don't accept this group has been or

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this people as being Muslim. So we we do an individual case by case spaces. We don't consider the entire group because they don't rather a small minority perhaps in the past, they would have been more I don't know, but in our times in our times the bulk of them do not claim this at all. And I have enough spoken I mean you inshallah You can trust me on this. I'm not an apologist for them, you know that I have very strong disagreements with that group. And I have no sympathy for much of their theology, yet at the same time, truth is the truth and the bulk of this group does not say this at all. So we be fair, and we say, anybody amongst us who accuses them, that they say this about

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Ayesha, we need to say please be academic. Please be precise. No, they all of them do not say this about Arusha. And when you make this accusation, you are the one who causes more fitna and more felpa. The bulk of them don't say this, you can say they don't like Ayesha, for these reasons. That's true. You can say she opposed it, you can say you can say this is all valid, but don't say they accused Russia of what Abdullah nobody accused her of that is simply not true. And with this inshallah data, we have a few minutes for q&a. And then we will press the lottery shares.

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We don't have any narrations about where the Mahajan work. But we can we can understand that the Mahajan did not feel

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that it's their place right now to do anything. Meaning that this is something the unsought have to deal with because I believe nobody is one of them. And if sadly been wired got into so much trouble, and he's from them, but he's closer and Oh, sorry. What do you think would have happened if a more Hydra stood up out of their wisdom? They did not get involved with absolute newbie in this point in time. And we don't have any narrations and Allah knows best Okay. Yes.

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So, we

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went and made like investigation

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before last month, our guild, you should not have been talking about such things.

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You know, putting those two together. Why did they do that is because before they even knew what is right or this is the right thing to do.

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So rumors are spreading and the Prophet system wants to verify there's no truth to them. There's nothing wrong with this. And he did not believe these rumors and that's why he defended her in public.

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But in private one on one, it's different now, in front of her, the two options are there. But in public, he defends her. And this was the most sensible thing to do. And the end of the day it is in Milan, what happened? It is in the middle, like, what's going on. And the rumors now we don't know the details of the rumors. How long was there some longtime relationship? Nobody knows what the details were right. But perhaps he's calling it and some that, was there any previous friendship or something like this alone knows, we don't know the details of this. Right. But the point is that the process of them, obviously, he did the wisest thing for him. And that is that in public, he is not

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believing the rumors, he is defending Isaiah, but in private, he needs to verify. Is it true or not? That's basically what he's asking. What's wrong with this? Is it true or not?

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I mean, we cannot read into the mind of the Prophet system, Kenya.

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Allah, I think it is safer for us not to go down this road. I think it is safer for us to shut this door and leave the affair.

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responses to this. If you don't have the four witness evidence, then you say no, of course not. Is that right? No, because we're talking about a case in our times. Let's not talk about the process of an issue. Well, let's talk about a case in our times. Okay, let's talk about something. This is much easier now to do.

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If you have doubts, if a couple has doubts, if anybody has doubts, there's nothing wrong with confronting

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without accusing of the crime, because for that crime to be accused, you need the witnesses. But without accusing the crime. You just say there's something suspicious.

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Nothing wrong with that. Okay, so we make a distinction between

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the crimes and between a question mark if you like, right, sister, good.

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Sabrina, Yes, go ahead.

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I can't hear you.

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Oh, you're quizzing me?

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Yes, yes. Yes. Yes, I heard you. Now you're putting me on the spot.

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Leave it to you. Leave it to you to embarrass me in this regard, Marcela, number one, alpha proven. beta sub number two a near had immediate which is to quail over the dead.

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Number three, believing in astrology. Looking at the new gym. And number four, number four. Number four. I'll have to think about it. Okay.

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I will lie as soon as I know is it gonna strike you? Why didn't I remember it here?

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Can you say that louder please?

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How is that from the

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doesn't make sense.

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Do we have any record

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keeping direct testimony from Cephalon about this?

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We don't have any information about the Prophet system speaking to someone directly However, he did defend him as we know he did defend him yeah

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that's what it says I already said this astrology

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already said it's the

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time of freelancers

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and fulfill as a freelancer will profitable as up so photoreceptors nation nationalism autofill and set time fill and sub This is easier to explain. They had something in the past that they will do, which is

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people doubting other people's genealogy. Like are you really legitimate? So they're casting doubts on the parents purity, let's say and this is one of the ways they would make fun of or crack or not crack jokes but I mean criticize their opponents. Okay by talking about are you really the son of your father? Here are you really this is pure blood lineage and whatnot This is a part of it and set right upon you for the answer will follow via his app when Nia hadn't met yet and then also what is this pub in the gym which is basically astrology and looking at the

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any, would you call it the chart? What is it the zodiac signs and all of this, okay these things okay. There was a hand raised your hands.

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Okay, inshallah with that inshallah Tada. We will conclude for today.