Asr Khatirah – Seeking Safety In A House In Jannah

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The importance of the Jeunarian book for providing guidance for those close to their spouse is highlighted, including the example of the woman of Noah and the wife of Lut who were married to one of their steam partners, but the relationship was not beneficial. The speaker emphasizes the need to find guidance and not bl wonder oneself for circumstances, and to avoid blurring oneself into circumstances. The speaker describes the difficulties of obtaining a house in Jannah and a constrained or loud house, as well as the difficulty of obtaining a house in a clean house and a loud house.

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What a beautiful start and end, SubhanAllah.

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Start of this day or this is and

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the end of the month of Ramadan, the

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last Jumah

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with brother Robert Gabriel Shahadah right now.

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And our dua, hopefully matches his journey,

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is the dua of the wife of the

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that we have in the dua of the

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Quran today inshallah

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is from Surat Al Tahrim

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chapter 66,

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aya number 11.

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Aya

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again, that's aya number 11, chapter 66.

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Before that, I wanna take you an aya

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prior to this. At the end of Surat

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Al Taherim,

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, he shows us a

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contrast of 2 images or two two examples.

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The examples of those are truly faithful,

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and the example of truly the opposite of

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that.

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Here, he says,

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Allah

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says over here, Allah sets forth an example

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for the disbelievers,

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The wife of Noah and the wife of

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Lut,

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each was married to one of our righteous

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servants yet betrayed them.

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So their husbands were were no were of

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no benefit to them against Allah's

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whatsoever.

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Both were told enter the fire along with

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the others.

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So, the first example Allah mentions, subhanahu wa

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ta'ala, example of these believers

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telling us that look,

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if your heart is not clean, if your

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heart is not prepared, if you don't open

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your heart for guidance,

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no one can help you.

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No one can help you no matter how

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close you are to them.

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I mean,

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how close can you get to

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any person more than being close to your

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spouse?

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The most intimate person you are with them.

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You are the one who they know that

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the private life, the public life, that the

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ins and outs of everything.

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They're very close to you, and still, that

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kind of proximity,

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that closeness

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never resulted in them finding guidance

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because their hearts were never there.

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And specifically the example of, Nuh, alayhi salam,

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al jamaah.

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Why is that?

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How long did Nuh alayhi salam give dawah

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in his in his community? For how long?

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950 years. You talk about a millennial of

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dawah.

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950

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years

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constantly

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giving dawah.

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Like, you know what? If anyone if anyone

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has given you dawah for a few hours

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and a few days, maybe you're just gonna

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say, you know what? Fine. Give me the

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shahada.

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Right?

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And here, now a 150

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years,

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now a 150 years,

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and his wife she still chose to be

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with the disbelievers.

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And Allah Mustaan, she also inspired Huwajima?

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Her son.

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Right?

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So Allah says

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if the heart is not pure, if the

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heart is not open, nothing can help you

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here.

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So he says, subhanahu wa ta'ala,

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the example of disbelievers

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are the example of these people,

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the wife of Nuh and the wife of

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Lut.

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They betrayed their husbands, meaning they did not

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follow their paths and that's why Allah

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submit them to jahannam Allah protect us from

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that. Now, the contrast to this, the opposite

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to that is being the wife of who?

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Faraun.

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The wife Faraun.

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And who was Faraun al Jama'am?

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The greatest tyrant.

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The worst example that ever been set in

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the Quran for us in regards to this

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belief.

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Baru Hu, his wife was one of the

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best people of Jannah.

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So what Allah is telling us here,

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don't blame your circumstances.

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Alright?

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Don't tell me my family,

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my husband,

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my wife, you know, my job, my this,

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my that.

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You can find your way

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out of all this misery, out of all

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this situation, and you can find guidance still.

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So don't blame it on your circumstances ever.

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You need to make the effort no matter

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what the situation is. You can't say my

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husband was than Fir'aun.

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You can't. And you can't blame the imam,

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for example, if laqaddaAllah, his family chose another

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different path.

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You can't. If the guidance is not in

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the heart, if the heart is not pure

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and ready for that, it's not gonna happen.

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So here, Allah says

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and Allah sets forth the example for the

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believers,

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the wife of the pharaoh, the pharaoh.

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She said she prayed, my Lord, build me

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a house in Jannah near you.

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Why she's asking for a house in Jannah

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Ajamah?

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Because she wants to leave what?

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The palace of the pharaoh.

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I mean how fancy was her house in

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in in Ortejema?

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How fancy was it?

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Amazing.

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She was the wife of the feraoun, so

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she was basically the queen of the entire

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world that time, back then.

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And still it mean nothing for her.

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I need a house.

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She didn't say a mansion.

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Right? What did she say? You Rabbi, give

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me a house, a room somewhere there near

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you.

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And You Allah deliver me from

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and his evil doing

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and save me from the wrongdoing people.

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So she said, my Lord, please bring me

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near you even if it was a small

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house

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In Jannah with you. And you Allah protect

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me and save me from the wrongdoing of

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Firaun

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and his people, the trans the transgressors, the

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wrongdoers.

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Now that's a profound dua that she asked

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala to give her that.

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And if Allah grants her that wish, Jima,

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what does that mean?

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If she was given that that wish granted,

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where would she be?

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In the highest fanciful jannah, Alfred Rasulallah.

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Right?

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And, if she's there in the highest

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what kind of house is she gonna get?

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Cardboard?

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It's different than what we have here in

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this dunya. So that's the dua

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you make if you're in a constrained situation,

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if you're dealing with people that are causing

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you troubles. You ask Allah all the time,

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You

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Allah, deliver me from the misery of my

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house

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to the house of peace with you.

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SubhanAllah, when Allah honored Khadija

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He honored Khadija

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and he gave a salaam to her, through

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the prophet

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What was the gift that was given, the

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glad tid and the good news that was

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given to Khadija at that

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time. When the prophet said to her, kal,

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You Khadija in najibril yukriqris

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salam. Jibril

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is sending salam upon you.

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Allah himself. His peace and peace come from

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him. And then he told her, and

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he's given you the good

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news.

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He's given the good news and the

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that you shall have

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like a pearl,

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beautiful pearl house made from a big pearl.

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And it has no sahab, no nasab.

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Before even I translate those two words,

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what do women usually complain about the most

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when it comes to houses?

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Cleaning.

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Cleaning? The chores.

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Right?

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Chores. What's the other one?

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The noise.

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The noise. Like keep it down. Quiet. Kids

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go in the backyard. Right? All are yelling

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at each other. And these are 2 things

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Allah subhanahu wa'ala told her, says,

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no noise,

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no trouble, no arguing,

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and no nasab, no fatigue, no no work,

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no chores.

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That's Jannah on earth for any woman,

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right?

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Imagine how it is gonna be in Jannah

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on the day of judgment.

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So she was given that. So if Allah

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blessed you with a house in Jannah, Jamaa,

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Allahu Akbar,

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no fatigue, no work, no chores to worry

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about, nothing, it's always pure, clean,

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it gives you that serenity, that peace and

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tranquility. It's nama. That's nayim. So that's what

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Allah has given and promised

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the wife of the frown in this ayah.

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And then the last ayah Allah adds to

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us the example of Maryam, ibn Ata Imran.

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The Maryam, the daughter of Imran,

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who kept her chastity and guarded her chastity.

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So Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, he commanded to

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the the the the the Rooh, which is

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in this case

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the the soul of to

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breathe it into their wombs,

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and she believed

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and testified the truth about the words of

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her Lord and the scriptures and was one

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of those sincerely devout.

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But the dua that we have here is

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a dua of the wife of the frown.

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May Allah

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So

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So