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the last hamdulillah al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa Salatu was Salam O Allah Rasool de Nabeel Karim or praise and thanks are due to Allah subhanho wa Taala who gave us help gave us the ability and quite frankly all things are due to Allah subhanaw taala because we not only have a place to gather but 100 love we had a beautiful hottie a lot after a lot of Asia, which is the the Sunnah, right right after the prayer to give a reminder to the people. And then Moreover, Allah, Allah kind of gathered us together here on something that's even difficult. So I will preface today's lecture with one sentence that it took me eight weeks to prepare, because we know that the story of lutein

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is saddam is not difficult. But in the time and age that we live shavon has washed our morals in the spin cycle like 50 times. So you don't know what's kosher and not kosher. What's politically correct what's not politically correct, what we believe in it in our heart, but we won't say publicly. So where were we going to start this conversation? It took many weeks, so I praise Allah for giving us the ability to face something that takes a bit of courage. We say a lot from him. niraj de Juarez name and sure enough, Samia las panatela inspire us towards that which is good and save us from what makes us human. And I will specify today's

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what makes us human is wanting to be accepted. And if I say something politically incorrect today, you all will care about me still, but they will immediately be slaughtered and homophobic II mom and jihadist right so the first thing that's going to hit us but we praise a lot Harada and say a lot Don't let me say what's not right so that people like me, don't let me get comfortable with always a good talk. I'm not really sure what the point was. Was he trying to say this about the people of loot, oversea, trying to kind of get around it. So we ask Allah subhana wa tada today, a lot in the Ruby coming Zawadi. neomatik What the hell boulia theoretic was Pooja Tina qmatic Marisa hot like a

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shadow La ilaha illallah wa shadow Adnan Mohammed and Abu rasuluh. And again, I say these words I bear witness and I know by you sitting here you bear witness. There is no other ILA sisters, can you give us a word that we use a lot? God God sustainer creator, Judge, ruler architect of our bodies. What is another meaning we said for uninflected? Ha Does anyone remember?

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Love? We say he's wearing a hood. So it's kind of like a job so it works like a sister. So Allah subhanho wa Taala gave us the word

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law, which is no one is more deserving of authority and love, compassionate love, like the tender love you feel when you're squeezing a pillow. Unless that is the only one who is deserving to this ultimate love compassionate love. So we turned him we asked him for this protection, I start with three very small

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corrections. One was a small tweak mistake. And so I have to start with this one last week, we said,

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we said Alhamdulilah could be hard. For some reason I was pushing the letter Ha. And we all said alcohol, which doesn't actually mean anything. So last week, right? I don't know why I was kind of focused on something else and Subhanallah it left. But I need to take a side moment here. You notice we did the whole story about Ibrahim Ali Salaam, it was amazing. He took to his submitted to the laws of a lot and a small letter of our religion was moved. And Allah subhanaw taala put a science there to put it back in its place. Last week, I said Allah could be hard, which again, doesn't have any meaning. So it is the word is hard. But I think that that's amazing. Even in mistakes. It's

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amazing. Because a lot preserves the religion. We don't do anything. We just go through the motions, right? We teach we talk about profits, you get reminded about something that I'm going to tell you and then you take it into your life. We don't preserve the religion coladas, we just go through the motions. So what is one of the things a lot promised us? He said, I'll give you Jenna, I promise you gentlemen, just go through the motions. And along the way, you're going to make mistakes along the way, you're going to miss fudger along the way, you're going to have an argument with your spouse. But guess what, stay to the path of that there is one creator and that make is still far constantly.

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So that's the one thing that I will start with. Before Time trickles away. Let us begin. We first need to start out with a few notations in Salah today we start in Surah out off. So if you want to write down surah out off, I am number 8284. This is the beginning of our discussion. So quickly brothers, can you run me through what was the last prophet that we discussed? Abraham Ali Salam and he started the third dynasty. He opened up the concept of organized religion and through him the three major religions that dominate the world right now. Chris, Judaism, Christianity and Islam calm. I have to bring all three religions on the table today to discuss the form of loot, because we

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might say, as Allah, Allah said, Get that cow Moo loot a needle. More said in that loot the people of loot RT Salaam, to them came a messenger and they rejected mursaleen What's the translation of this one messenger or multiple, multiple, but only one messenger came to the people of loot. So what's good with that? Allah says in the Quran, and the people of loot district rejected all of the prophets, but only one Prophet came to them. Luther is an Akita as the billboard right now we'll answer that question in a moment. We start out by where was it set up in this whole story of Ibrahim? Who was he in the story while we were going on? He was a young man. Where was he? Where

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does he debut as a character?

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When when Ibrahim Ali Sam comes out of the comes out of the fire, everyone for a moment said that guy's a prophet. Even the disbelievers are yo That's crazy. So they saw him come out of the fire, except one young man stayed on that belief. His name was Luther issara. He was the nephew of Ibrahim later on sisters, who was the first woman to then take to accept the message of Ibrahim. So So we now see these characters so a young we say about 13 year old Luca Salam sees this miracle accepts that Ibrahim is a prophet and he goes away by now the religion is only worship one god lutherie salaam moves to a place named doom. Sodom and Gomorrah you must know these names are very important.

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And the concept of Doom is the word where we get sodomy today, the people of Sodom did an act three acts that we are going to highlight only using the vocabulary that last petawatt Donna did, but I need you to start with me on four major concepts. Number one, one other money salami ate from the tree. What was the number one thing that happened to him? He stopped praying his beard fell off. What happened?

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First, he ate from the tree. What if one of you guys is inappropriate, brother is what happened.

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And we discussed this specifically the part of the brain that illuminates the lower self, and I want to give you an example, when a child is running out of the shower. What do the kids automatically do? They grab some clothing, and when they are unclothed, where the kids usually they jump up and down and dance. This is just a natural thing. They jump out of the shower and the nakedness gives them this feeling of we said it last week.

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Tango, Tango, right? They start jumping up and down out of the shower. We discussed this. The first thing that happened was he brought one other man a Salam transgress the bounds of a lot. And we say this with so we can understand it when he ate from the tree Allah told him not to. When he ate from the tree that last night Allah told him not to what happened automatically after that

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his private areas became exposed. So number one between us and the disobedience of a lot his sexuality. No one's gonna sit here arguing with me about Salah, someone might have an argument about hijab or someone might say something to the effect

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of fun.

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Someone might come to the effect of sin, as I'm not paying my soccer. This is a single person, but all of us innately as human beings. So this was point one he ate from the tree number two, and we pointed out it's on the left side of your brain, the part of your brain the appropriate receptor that allows you to know that I have Where are my body parts when you close your eyes, you know where they are. This concept of awareness and I want to put this on the table now, Islam does it rejects the intimate part of our human race. Islam accepts it embellishes it loves it, calls it a sukoon. But what happened to Adam and Eve, when they seemed something that was there became apparent? Does

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this make sense? young people, I need you on this one. Sexuality is there? Do we constantly need to point it out? Do we constantly need to have it pushed in our face? No, but guess what it is on every single level. In TV in music when you go outside? Forget about a job for a second let's remove a job as a cloth. And let's say you can dress any way you want immediately by the human features that Allah has created the female with, you will see Oh, there's curve here there's a curve here and automatically what's there becomes apparent point number one, the first bridge between us and the disobedience of a lot is what innately human our need to procreate. We then move into the concept

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where we cannot and I put up a billboard for you that the people of loot, disregard rejected how many prophets? Actually how many prophets? One when you disrespect one messenger Isa Musa Ibrahim, Adam, what happens automatically?

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you automatically are outside the fold of Islam, I needed to answer this question because now we open the story of loot. Because Up to now, we in this room, I am sure are all on the same page about this form of loot. But the discussion outside of this room is what's more important. The first thing that we realized is by us rejecting what loot Ali Salaam took on to his people by saying Well, let's become politically correct. automatically. We're rejecting one of the prophets it's as if we rejected all of them. Now we take from here this first and most important concept of what the people of luta de saddam were doing. Number one,

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we realize that up till now the sins that exists amongst the people, can anyone quickly rattle off the sins from other malisa we didn't get any major sense what happened during the time of sheath arisa anyone remember?

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It was music. It was the concept of music was introduced. The concept of rationale was in cute in you have to go over this one, the concept of music rationale and then the women started to adorn themselves to attract the people remember, the guys from the valley were kind of ugly, but the guys who lived in the mountains were very attractive.

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Okay, let's move forward here. So those three things since existed during the time of new brothers what happened, Shrek, the first time ship has ever been introduced was during the time of new. Now during the time of Ibrahim RT set up there are many things that are going on. But up till now this human

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sexuality has not been breached. The people of Luther it saddam took a natural system, the need to procreate and give more creatures and we talked about this last week. If a baby wasn't cute after it what itself you would throw it away. Right? Is it dirty? You just get a new one. But babies are cute. So you keep them you watch them, you love them. But when you turn this system on its head, where do human beings come from? And once we start asking and answering these questions, we get lost in a very difficult place. So the story begins in the in the place of doom, which is Does anyone know what what landmark are left for us there?

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They're the Dead Sea and the density still stands as a testament. So we begin when you meet God and you only he

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At that tune alpha haish. He goes to his people. Now this is Lou Tolly Salaam who believes in one God and He is a human rights person, I want to start this out from the beginning. He wasn't an angry Prophet, he didn't raise his hands and say Allah destroy them. We will come and see the law of Lutheranism in a moment. So he comes to his people and says, How can you interact and a lot actually uses the words, hobbies, or hedonic, which is a disgusting, filthy act, you procreate, not one with your spouse, but one with another male. Now, let's start out from the very beginning of this discussion. First thing that people come to us and say is that it's hereditary. So Can anyone

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answered I think, one of the 10 year old kids can answer this question. So whenever a nation was approached before loot, even up to the time of the prophets of light, so they're like, why are you worshiping idols? Why are you stealing? Why are you drinking? Why are you walking around the carpet naked? What was their answer?

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We saw our forefathers doing it. So now in 2013, we got a little advanced with the vocabulary and said, instead of saying, we saw our forefathers do it, what do we call it? It's hereditary. Okay, let's entertain hereditary for a moment. hereditary means and and from a physician point of view, there are all of these people who are addicted to adultery with the opposite gender, what are you going to say about them? They're called rapists. Are we going to say that that's hereditary? What about alcoholism? That's hereditary too, right? No, it's not. So we took a sin and we validated it by saying it's what our forefathers did. This was number one. But again, we have to push the

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envelope a little bit further. So I actually met with four or five brothers who represent that the form of loot and they say, we're Muslims. Okay, so they're, they're dead stuff. It's, you're sitting down, you're discussing with them you're saying but the Prophet Lutheranism came, they said, No, see, Luke came to explain for us. So I opened this discussion to you. The next concept after Lutheranism called it

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the next concept that his people brought to him was a law set in the Quran to the words of loot, don't rape the man. So loot was saying don't rape. So let's take the simple concept here. A lot what Allah is saying, so you, if we translate, they said, We have read the Quran and our translation says, OH, LOOT, tell your people not to defame other men. So now translate that backwards. They said, rape is what Allah subhanaw taala is saying, but we do it by consent by love. So I'm going to ask you this question, the word is to read. So did that mean Allah was telling them to rape the girls that make any sense to you, we start from the foundational argument that is proposed, that we

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have to accept them and bring them into the deal. Now the first concept from the Quran is Allah says, How can you leave that which was done with

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with partners, and then you turn it into the same gender, but we push a little bit forward? He says

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masakazu on behalf of the men and women, and this is our second point for the people of loot, he came up and said you do this act with the same gender. You forcibly do this. And then he said I had a minute I mean, what is the word I mean, mean brothers,

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people, nations, anything created a law said that he has created xlg in his name, everything in the universe in pairs, even mobile protons and electrons, minus, positive and negative even the animals in the animal kingdom. Allah said no creature in the universe does what you guys are doing, why are you doing it?

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This is where our conversation begins. No, no, society has done it. And what did we prove up till now? A lot does not discuss anything in the Quran until it's an extreme. So even when we get to a lot, you could say but why don't we just talk about husbands and wives fighting? No. Allah says let's go to the extreme and then you human beings will figure out the lesser. So the extreme of Russia is what is the fact that Allah subhanaw taala created everything in pairs, those two pairs would procreate and bring more of mankind. The next concept? What did we say about the hope of Allah? So everyone's with me here on this? What did we say what did from new hotness around to

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Ibrahim every prophet said never lose?

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Hope in the mercy of Allah so today I share a narration that I saved for eight weeks. The Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said never lose hope in the mercy of Allah until

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you start to sin in public. Until you go into the public arena. And there you feel comfortable, and I will discuss this as scholars of the past have discussed with me

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contemporary way. Remember in the early 90s some of you weren't born. When the shave when shave no one day would walk by what would happen to the radio would turn it down. When you were saying you were hanging out at the mall at someone you weren't supposed to, and your Uncle and Auntie passed by, what would you do that hold in my hand, I have to go. There was some physical distance, right? Then 2000 came and these young stars came, right. We talked about them in the time of Ibrahim Britney came at galera came these young women who were young, they looked like school going people, and they changed our mentality. He said, No be large and in charge fascia. They pushed it on top of

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us. And by now, I have people who come up to me and they're like, so if I did this, what would you do when when people pick me up at the airport? The first thing they do turn on the radio, like, let's see what, let's see what this guy's gonna do. Let's see what happens. He's here to speak about what Ron is here to do this. Let's see what happens. The Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Never lose hope in the mercy of Allah until you start to sin in public. And this is where Habad comes. Because not only would they ransacked caravans, they would rob they were highway Roberts, this is their third sin. But when they robbed the people in the caravans, they also

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attacked the men, and they took them and they enslaved them. I'd like to give you a small concept of how sin affects so we're in our third concept for tonight. So we now see the people of Luther doing this act, they're doing this act publicly, and they're also reading and attacking people. The key point here and we said it in HIPAA like eight or nine times every Friday we say when our rules do Billahi min, surey and fusina. Allah save me from the human part of me, woman says Dr. Medina and saved me from the effect of actions saved me from the effect of the same act that I do. So today, I'm going to open a third concept window within this. When we sin, does it affect us? This is my

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question to you. Have we learned enough for you to answer this question? When we sit here in dunya? Does it affect us five quick examples. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said in Bahati that when you lie, when you continue to under a lie, your heart gets blackspots that means guidance doesn't come in. You listen to the same Byeon dad listens to the same man that says this is amazing. And you say I don't get it doesn't make any sense. Why constantly. Number two, when we don't praise Allah, Allah.

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Allah is a barrier between US and

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Russia see the word one more time

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is something that will be distanced when we pray correctly. Today we pray. But do we see Hollywood and Bollywood become any more difficult on our eyes? No, I don't. Maybe there's something missing from our prayer, something missing from our Salah. We said we do five examples. So we move forward. We disrespect elders. Elders will not disrespect us a generation later the little kids will come to me and they'll treat me disrespectful, disrespectful. And I'll say What happened? We never saw you respect effect of bad deeds. I introduced one concept to you today. The people of loot nadie. Anyone know what the word nadie means? They still use it till today. It's very, it's very painful when you

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travel the world sometimes. And there's always a red light district everywhere, right? So when I would get off the plane, I need to share these things to make it real with you. I got off the plane. I was a young man studying overseas, and there wasn't much going on over here. Firstly, the guy said you want beer? I was like, did use it you?

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He said you do. And I was like, Okay, let's see where we can go with this. I was like, okay, where would you take me and he said the word Nadi which means clock, and I was like, I stopped for a second and I recited the iron that were on under my breath. I was like, you're using a chronic word to tell me about a club. But it continues from here. They would gather in their clubs and I'm appealing to my youngsters right now. When Chris Brown says put your cups up. When Neil says we're in the club when pit bull says that our slow rider tells you club can handle you right now. What are they calling you to? See we

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the point of a club is what so that you can sit in the corner and have a discussion what's the point?

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Let me get some college students to help me out what's the point of going to the club Dude, what is the club clean or dirty? You go fresh? No, I don't know what club you're gonna do. You go fresh. The things are lined up they spend it they start getting ready at 10pm and what's the purpose is to be noticed it's fascia. So when we talk about the column of loot, I guarantee maybe half a percent of someone in this room is still discussing, oh, I have this concept in my heart but most of us are still not thinking about the concept of fascia. Most of us are not thinking about the concept of wisdom.

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same gender, how dangerous it is. So we realized and we move this forward, we move forward to realize they did three things. They were with the same gender, they attacked men on the roadway, they were highway robbers. And number three, they invited publicly to The Club. So today, please write down as a last panel at Allah says in Surah nemos. Because right now you're off i n number 8284. In surah Anika booth first and Caboose in ayah. Number 28 to 30 a lot actually says the people who publicly have this type of interaction, and you're thinking, wow, this is disgusting, what he's saying it is alleged use the word that they would they would be with each other in front of

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everyone. And he said the act of homosexuality would lead to blindness.

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And I want you to realize this. Now when I have this discussion with anyone outside this muscle, they'll be like No, brother, You're so rude. You're so mean, you're not politically correct to these human people. Unless paradata reminds us certain sins will make you blind. So then when you go to a person who said but God never asked us to do this, God never asked us to do this type of thing. And again, I'm going to push the envelope just slightly, just slightly to show fitrah. So my father's please excuse me, one of our teachers, our heels, who we quote here in the lectures, when to speak to the column of loot the people who are here now in the North America. And he went up to two men.

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And he asked a question, he said, who's on top? This is a very, very uncomfortable question to shift as to men. They were furious, angry, they said we could get you arrested for for harassment, this and that. And he said, look at this. You're angry. But I asked you a natural fidra question. But do you see how uncomfortable it made you immediately Why? Because when you engage in fascia and my young brothers, I'm talking about what's on the internet. When you look at what Allah has forbidden, your brain needs to rationalize it. Your brain needs to say, well, it's not that bad, right? It's just a picture. The same way they're at the end of the degree of fascia when they look at it when

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they do it. What is automatically happened? They come up with excuses. Well, it's like this. God created me like this when I was younger. This happened to me the excuses compound, a lost power. Donna said distance this thing from you. And the people of loot. were amazing. In one thing, though. They had clubs and again, I'm going to ask my brothers, brothers. When did the club in chief are the salon? This is the second profit in history. When did the club open for [???]ara? Some one night,

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Saturday night? Has anything changed in the last 70,000 years? Not that much. We think oh, we're so advanced. We live at a different time. And you know those people they didn't know what who what a synthesizer was and what a mix table was. So they don't really know. Allah subhanaw taala reminds us that they were going moon alone. The word pedone literally means idiocracy. Literally someone who is beyond stupidity, he is blind. So we now realize two major things. Open city is what leads to the closing of the heart. Open sinning is what leads to the closing of the heart. And when we sin and transgress against what Allah has asked, so I'm going to put the form of loot over here, and let's

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come all the way over here. You know, the TV that we watch, the sitcoms that we watch, when we watch Glee when we watch Modern Family when we watch a TV show, and I actually asked a young person today, I said, Can you name me one show that doesn't have a gay character. We literally just sat there for a minute stared at each other. We're like

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Animaniacs I don't know. You know, we were just stuck. We were stuck. Why? Because this is something that's being pushed down your throat. Why do I point that out? The people of loot did not give up. So when Buddhism came to them and said you do these three things, stop this action. What is the immediate thing that they said? They said, Look, you're you're crazy. And then they said look, we want you out of our town. And before you leave our town we are going to write a law lute cannot host guests lot. Alice ratusan can have guests in his home. So we live here. First we come back to one major fat boo Tati. Sarah was alone in a nation of people who were perverse pause. Look at yourself.

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We're holding on to what is the filth we're saying? Let it go. And a lot keep me safe. But where do we live? We live in California. We live at a time where every turn every corner is something a little bit more pushing the envelope a slightly further. We live here and Lou Todd is around when he

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People said, loot You're threatening us with a punishment, bring it on. Who else said Bring it on? Does anyone remember?

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The people of Noah? This is when so now we're codifying a tsunami of Allah. Allah sends messengers. Those messengers spend hundreds of years in some cases with their people, and until their people rejected, say, bring it, right, Bring it on, then Allah subhanaw taala does not send the punishment until

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the prophet of that time says, These people are done. So first off, never give up on your people. If you're giving dollar to your family, if you have a family member, if you have someone in your clicks, one of your friends who keeps smoking who keeps listening and looking at things that are illicit, don't give up on them. Because the last panel Allah gave the prophets hundreds of years and their people, how can we turn away from people immediately? They came, they said, Bring your punishment, loot it. saddam then said, he said, I've been sued me. He said, Oh, Allah helped me or less send me some help. What did we say? What did we say I didn't owe me Muslim Muslim. That saved

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me from the people who are transgressors who are wasteful, who are filthy. What did we say about the Ibrahim Ali Salam? When he raised his hands? What did he know?

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What

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he is praying for the whole Ummah, that there was a second, when he raised his hands and said, I'm talking to God, what did he know?

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Allah was gonna send something. That's the key difference between our law and the law of profits. When they raise their hand, they literally say T one connection. I have a T one connection with a law. I'm going to say these words. I know Allah hears me. When is he going to answer me? I'm not sure I'm going to be patient. So now Abraham is watching the people of his town. Act faithfully. The nightclubs are booming in the evenings. We don't know of any alcohol but from the Bible, we get narrations that there was there were a grapes that were there. And they they used it as an alcohol. So we say either they were drunk, or they were doing this openly, but they did it so that people saw

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them. After this. He raised his hands did lusardi Sam was he blessed with any children? Brothers?

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Remember, we asked you to return 160 before coming was he did he have any sons brothers? No sons, only two daughters. Now, time is going to conclude here next week, I'm going to take a little bit of a meteor time inshallah, I'd like you to write down one more section from Quran in surah. Nemo, by the way, seven times, a lot of visits this story in Surah nama Ayah number 54 to 58. This story comes again, I will pause here because this topic is huge. I'm going to stop here for a moment, and I'm going to explain a concept we do not like talking about, you know that have health education in school, you send your kids to school, and they usually have a piece of paper, you sign it, and then

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your kid goes to that education class, they show them a video, it's pretty graphic, I'm going to share this with you today. If we choose not to sign that piece of paper, and I'm all with your parents, if I was the parent, I wouldn't sign up, keep my kid. If you choose not to educate your child to the public school system, good for you. But then if no one's educating their child shake, Google will educate your child. You know that really irritating kid you see at the dinner parties, and he has an iPhone and he's like seven, that kid will teach your child. And if we don't educate our children about the correct concepts of intimacy in Islam, we will be lost. I will share two

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things that elders and scholars have shared with me. fitrah human fitrah we've done actual tests on this. And mothers I need you to boldly answer when your daughter was four years old, and her shirt rolled up. What did she do immediately? She pulled it down right? Even if there wasn't enough cloth, she pulled it so that she was covered fitclub when you teach your child so this is the innate clay Allah gave you. Why did our mothers stop and we said this about Ibrahim son is smart real. When he was in the middle of the desert when there was no Kaaba, just the spring of Zamzam. The tribe taught him the language and what else did they teach him?

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Why did we stop telling our daughters This is the part of your body where the sight of men will fall. You know, this is a common theme in the in the people of the past, they would say their daughter, or this is where and they would use hand gestures. This is where the side of men falls. It's not your fault. This is the way they were created. They exemplified the woman and said you're a treasure but this is what happens with men. You explain this to a child and then early on early on. She's six, seven years old. She's not as

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Develop, you give her a demo. And we go through phases where she's not reading a job on her head. She's wearing a cloth around her around her neck. She feels comfortable. I've shared this story eight, nine times here seven year old girl. We were sitting together in Makkah, and she was joking laughing she was bouncing around. men came in. I was friends with her dad. So she felt comfortable. I was in. men came in this little Jill Bobby seven year old girl. No, he just she started, she quieted down. I said, What happened? And she literally went from bouncing off the wall to

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can you come? Can I give you I said What happened? She said men are in the room. It's not good to laugh and joke, the seven year old. You think she picked that up from watching Teletubbies? No, it's in the natural innate teachings of the mother. This is where the sight of the men falls. And then at some point, you say, and the upper cloak should be a little bit longer. This is something that used to be mixed in the milk of our young women. And for the brothers dads, when did we stop thinking we waited till our son woke up for fudger. And in he didn't come down immediately he went to Picasso. And then you come and say buy tickets? Why'd you come late for a fighter?

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You've never talked about your center, I had to shower you to shower at 530 in the morning. This education is mandatory. And we laugh and joke but the unfortunate part is, if no one teaches the son, if no one tells the daughter then guess what? I've had an 11th grade English teacher, I'm going to tell her to be large and in charge. I'm going to tell her not to stand like this. I'm gonna tell her stand like this. Be proud of who you are. And automatically, I don't feel anything wrong. Automatically the filter of pulling the shirt down is gone. And I will close in this concept. It was a classroom of seventh graders. So that makes them about 12 years old again stories to bring life to

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fascia. That seventh grade teacher looked at the girl but guys and girls public school, and she was explaining the word modesty. modesty. I want you to watch this trailer with me. So one of the girls raise your hand she goes what's modesty? And the teacher said, you know, it's like feeling shy. She goes, why would I feel shy? So then the teacher said, this is actual narration of giving. The teacher said, you know, like, shy like, you want to cover yourself up. And again, that girl was in a Walmart, baby T and skinny jeans. So she's kind of like, why should I be shy? And then the teacher took it a step further. She goes, you know, when you're at home, and you're in your night, good

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night dress. She goes, yeah. And now wait a minute. I want you to stop here for a moment. What are Nightdresses today 40 tweens go to the mall. It's all it's all very, it's something I'm not going to mention here. Let's leave it at that for young girls who should know my night dresses are really pretty. My mom says they're attractive, the seventh seventh grader until the teacher was exhausted. She goes you know if you had then the teacher went next step. She goes What if some of the boys in the class wanted to sleep over and don't you would feel shy you would put a rubber chicken removed. And this was not an underdeveloped uneducated area. This was a good healthy family, remove the

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concept and fascia was never discussed in the household. So she said that modesty does not have a meaning. And that is why today job is a cloth on your head. You can do anything else you want. And if we do, that's step one. And step two fathers if we can acknowledge to our sons, as the tuber Tabata, very two generations used to do. And we again narrate the story, what did they do with their kids took them hand in hand, this is a father taking his son to this is mom taking daughter and father taking son to the grocery store. Son is hand in hand that points at the cover of a Cosmopolitan magazine. Because your son's eyes already looked there. And you say you want mom to

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wear that. You want mommy to look like that? The young child has difficulty the Tibet avatar very used to take their children to the marketplace and buy them they were dancing girls, and let's think about it this way. There were big billboards that were inappropriate. And they would point at it and show their children. You Do Is this good? You want mommy to do this. And they would associate the way the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam did remember when the man came and said, Can I do a shot? That's the equivalent? I know these are extreme examples. Young men come to me for their time. Is pornography really haram? Really? Because I'm not doing anything.

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Before we live the same way. When if a child is sat there and you sit down with your child and say, You know what's available on the internet? No, Dad, don't talk about that. No, I want you to know what's there. And I want you to know how to be safe from it. So in this fashion, the education process must go through for the young man, teach him how to lower his gaze and be very serious. I came to five six brothers five years ago and I said lower your game. Five years later they came back to me and you said that was the worst advice you could possibly give us. Anyone know why?

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Nothing on the bottom either.

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Right, there's nothing about why am I lowering my knees? I better keep eye contact. It's better. So you see this concept. What we read in the Quran has to be opened and explained to our children.

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I close with one small thing that I can complete the only inherit from Dr. Sherman Jackson. And this will be to open our discussion for next week. shala. So where do we leave off Lu Tati, salam, for all intents and purposes is defeated. His people want to throw him out. His people are openly committing this act. And now the people who are trapped they lived in a valley that people who travel in the valley weren't even safe because they were being attacked by the people of loot. Loot arisa ROM has two daughters, and his wife is not taking part in this action. But she is and I want you to write down the word and an embodiment. She was sympathetic to the homosexuals. She was

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sympathetic to them. And we will come and see that in next week's story. So today we will open a small discussion.

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If I drank alcohol Now, I know the villain in the article of mania cervicogenic. Mama Papa, they have an older woman would I still be Muslim?

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Yes. If I gambled, I lived in Vegas knew many Muslims who had problems gambling. Are they still Muslim? Yes. I'm gonna go a step further young kids, people who are abusing drugs, abusing drugs? Are they still Muslim? Yes. What defines us and I'm going to use a word that we never use here. Sunni Muslim. What defines us amongst the Sunni Muslim is one kawari. One pillar. I cannot ex associate anyone out of the fold of Islam because they did a sin. Fair. So call it number one rule number one action in your body, hate the sin, not the sinner, hate the sin, not the sinner.

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If I brought a blind man to you, and I said, Could you help him get to the car? And you're like stupid blind man get to the car. That's the same way when you treat a homosexual disrespectfully unless they were blind. So how can you treat them disrespectfully? The Act we hate the person we respect, we go the next step.

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We then say the only person who falls out of the fold of Islam is the person who takes us in. And I'm going to shout out my young brothers not too many young brothers, too. We live in California, you know, this whole cannabis marijuana thing that's going on? I got a headache. I got this. I got look, medically speaking, it's one thing but when you youngsters when it gets in your hand, and you're like, it makes me feel better. And you rationalize that it's okay. And you make something how long into a hollow thing, the rationale. you exit the fold, you can say you are no longer a citizen of the city of Islam. Does that make sense? If I drank alcohol and maybe still far and asked for

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help, and then I went into counseling, good. If I sat here and told you this rationalization in Surah Baqarah in Ayah 200 something Allah says hubub belagavi Hummer only actually means grapes. And hard liquor is not made from grapes. scotch gin is not made from grapes. So it's okay to drink top shelf liquor. I've heard that by the way, educated, wealthy men, like a $60 bottle of scotch would get us it's not grape. This is when you start falling out of the fold of Islam. We're human beings we make mistakes. So what we say is, is there a place for those people in Islam? There is a place for people in Islam. Islam is the hospital, any disease you have bring it and Islam or Islam will

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cleanse it, cure it and a Lost Planet Allah will forgive it. So we leave this concept here next week. It gets a little bit more story based, but ask Allah subhanaw taala to bring ease and

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I asked Allah subhanaw taala to make at least us in this room, they won't understand it. They're watching the video too. They can get sound clips. What did this guy say? What did and so they can attack us? I asked people in this room.

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If we don't open the doors of love and hikma to all of mankind, how can we claim to be good to

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help can we claim this? Last but not least, I asked you to open this discussion if some your child says on the way home What did brother Hassan mean by Hakka? But he said this, I implore you to please don't. Please

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do not scold your children after today's conversation. I cracked open the coconut for you. You don't want to open it. You don't want to drink the water don't but don't yell at your kids for what I said because what will happen is in

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It was last week, an eight year old child from one of our halaqaat came to his mom and said, How do I know if I'm gay?

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What are you going to answer? What are you going to say mom?

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Because what is fitrah? What is fitrah has been removed, the kid doesn't know anymore, he's not sure. So if you close the door, then they will go through all of this confusion. I'm going to actually take it a step further and only say this much to you. If you are a young person listening to this recording or you're someone who is amongst us now. And there are some doubts and shock that are being brought up in your heart. Please understand disease of the physical body is curable, and diseases of the heart are curable. Contact your Imam contact someone trustworthy, contact Allah, if you are a young person, you don't know who to talk to talk to Allah. Because Allah subhanho wa Taala

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will be there to help you. Parents, please do me a favor this month. If you don't want to talk to your children about this. All you can do is turn on an episode of what they watch anyway. Young sisters watch an episode of Pretty Little Liars. If you watch it with your mom. Let your mother sit through the whole episode. Don't say a word man. At the end, ask. What do you think of this? I don't think you'd get through 15 minutes of that show, by the way, but because we live brothers sit down with your ad. Sit down with Dexter Nosema, right, sit down with a show where you murder someone every day and there's nudity and this and that, to sit down. See if you can get through one episode

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of what you see daily with your parents and parents when you're done. Try to compose you will be burning inside and say Oh, so what do you get from this? What do you learn from this? They'll say nothing. It's a story. No this much the story reprograms the way we think and we ask Allah subhanaw taala for his protection along my vein of Guru Bina was that the vein in our Dena suvidha setup? When a gene Amina lumati in a new watch and even if our HTML la da minha mob upon a lot my baddeck letter he is married in our slot in our bluebee now I was watching I was read in our two bar Dana in a cantata wabo Rahim Allah subhanaw taala along with me as

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a menu, bar many up Bonita avec

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la Mancha Heroku bannermen and nifa Allah cleanse our hearts from any doubts and any shreds of hypocrisy. What are Milena amenorrhea and our actions from being amongst those who show off a lot do not make us weak to worry about what people think about us. We're alsina dynamin al Qaeda and save our tongues from being amongst those who lie or low when we are asked the truth about this Deen and its opinions make us amongst those who utter the truth.

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Well unseen at the nominal kadewe our union Amina Leanna, what are you Nana Amina Leanna and Allah sees our eyes and our intentions from treachery of a lot Do not let us look at that which will affect our hearts and keep our eyes away from that which will stop guidance

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for in a katana Maha Mama, toughie, sudo for Allah you already know what we see and what is depth buried deep in our hearts. Give us the opportunity to come close to you, you and your love brothers sisters asked from a lot and I'm asking you to make dua for those young brothers and sisters who are going through a difficult time now in in this concept of fascia.

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So hanabi globalizer dmrc fonasa Manasa demon hamdu Lillahi Rabbil aalameen jazak Allahu Allah subhanaw taala increase your ability, I would ask the parents. Next week we'll begin right after our time setup. I'm saying this would love and admiration and I will not look directly at you when I say it. I'm seeing less and less notebooks. I'm seeing more and more so I've turned into the sitcom then right Wednesday night he's gonna be on might as well watch him.

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Then I'll do a better job to entertain you. At least if we're going to make this educational. Let's write something or our moods, such as take out your phone and pretend. Well, I pretend the kids will see you have a notebook in front you just leave it in front of you scribble on it. Right loot.

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Right, Pretty Little Liars. Right? Something is good for us. Ciao.