Waleed Basyouni – Friday Sermon – How To Be A Happy Wife 34

Waleed Basyouni
AI: Summary © The speaker discusses the importance of not limiting oneself and offers advice on achieving happiness without blaming oneself. They emphasize the need to be faithful to one's wife and acknowledge that emotions are important in relationships. The conversation also touches on a woman who wants to divorce but is hesitant.
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It doesn't at all make any kind of disrespect for her or make you think just the different ways different ways of thinking reacting

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and so forth also so you need to let little things goes You don't pick up but if there's something hot in the room I said she backed by someone she sees a nose as demons backed by I don't know and he forbade him from that interest is done you don't basically let it go who make that correction but make sure that to remember what the prophets are so listen now kind of difficult fishy

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when I mentioned it in Russia, gentleness and being gentle and ease easing the way you handle things always bring success will always make allows you to achieve success but if you mean if you repress it when you don't, that's not gonna change things. Number five smile at your wife. As you said we always kind of saw something that was something that he used to smell the most inside his house, smile a lot to write look at her open your eyes. Gazing is a powerful tool of making the connection between you know how the icon smile

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and brush

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so often in the case of somebody before he leaves he used to kiss his wife before he moved to the salon

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that's a five times you won't even side with the American Vikings that attention in Guinea makes a huge difference in her life number six thank you for all what she does for you. This is something we forget to do. We're not very grateful make sure that you thank you for the meal Thank you she correct that if she cleaned the house thank her if she does if she did something good to your to the kids thank you for being a good wife to thank her for him for being a wife

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and say that I'm grateful to us I'm gonna

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make her she feel that do not acknowledgement that's will make her feel so happy and so special

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to my to anybody else thank you for more than

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number seven, which is very interesting point and I hope that you seriously go and do that today.

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I want you to go to your wife

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and to tell her or text message her What do you saw today? Text message every time I want you to send me the five things the five things that I have done recently and you like the most five things I have done and it really had a good thing back to

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five totally share with me five things made you so

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I hope that exit will not be your protector

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I hope there's more than that text message and that you're happy

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you know asked her to write down and let's say step number 30 How can you

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tell because it's about her it's not about you

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it's an honor

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to have Nicky cow bizarre indictment I have to you like the weight of the so long as

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ever before she like what this man did.

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man what's

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up I'm sad

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to say Hi

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I'm Henry was salatu salam ala Milan.

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So we said dress up for her. Use cute names for her. Don't treat her like a fly. If you see something wrong, little things go commented things which is that had to do with the Hello. I'm not acceptable Islamically in a gentle way. Smile, gaze at her was smiling. You know, embarrass her often. Because love has to do with physical touch. That's one of the language of love. Also thank her for all the things good things that she she does, and asked her to write down the last five things you did for her that made her happy. Then go and do them more often. Again and again. Number eight, don't be limited in your desires. And this is something very important. Her desires can be

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different than you anything your stops thinking that is important. It is important

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even if you don't see them

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even goes

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And so many times are for that trial. My wife will say something I said well it's not about

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me maybe it's the biggest things in her house. It's about her it's not about you.

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So you can talk Don't even belittling her design what you want in the midst of a lesson that used to ask the Lord girls to come to play with it because he knows that she loves that.

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And there is so much respect in their habitat for young singers when they were in the back of domestic dancing and with the with the spheres and he noticed that she wants to play that in the midst of Allah allow her to do that. And he facilitate that for her

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you know, anything you think that your wife is interested in, make sure that you get attention as well and the sector, the sector field

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you know, when the profits are solid points as why, you know, she she has the problem with guests so one of his other wives send food so that was good, so jealous. Why don't you send food to my house and my dad I was like, I should cook for them. She went and she hit the plate and the plate fall on the floor in front of the guest can you imagine that you have a guest in your house and your wife would do that.

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Then there is a some of the smile on he said She is jealous. Just give your sister another plate of fuels in the store. He understand her feelings.

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Don't play with her feelings. Don't ever belittle your desires in your field. Some men are so good at easy

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I have to say they are so bad with teeth so hard and every

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time I bring I am going to marry another one get a divorce I'm going to do this

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don't don't hear people's emotions. Maybe it means nothing to you but it means everything to them especially your wife

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be humorous and playing games with your wife as simple as that and then arrange twice the action plan in some way up the process of them is wired to the human nervous system among people who recognize the app like they used to laugh and joke can be she has no good sense of humor. Even one day she had the salsa the food and they were playing on the paint each other's face her and one of the other problems while watching it was just talking with

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the will draw the will have fun doing playing together.

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And in the midst of Selim said after Isha if there is any three things deserve to stay for them, they will be one of them. And we'll have our to want you to result in playing together they have fun together.

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Then you get to rely on play together.

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You know, he you bring her in the mustard and back in the mustard. We have ping pong table Earhart, and you put your plate there again. And then Esther

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do a competition between each other. Either kids it's a it's a spring break isn't. That's how so fun. I'm gonna compete with you. Maybe I'll cook one day and cook one thing and we'll see who's cooking his better. He created the to some activity together as a family.

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Hang on, bring happiness.

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Number 10. Always remember the words of Allah as myself. The best of you are those who treat their wives the best. I am the best among to my

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report to

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the best among us all the best.

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And that's why I'm saying but remembering that every act of kindness it says we form a free world. I have to look man follow things up. Even the food that she puts in her mouth with your hand. It is a form of saliva. Let's review the word for it. Finally, be faithful and loyal to your wife.

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Be faithful to

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the province yourself is the best example for being very faithful.

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I asked

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her she said I have not felt jealous from any woman like healing. He admitted to me for years after her death I never met. I never met her. I only heard about but she loved her so much. Even to the extent after her death when the alarming comes he will kill the sheep and he will donate from that meat on behalf of her after her death.

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And he will donate from it to her friends once had the prophets or sometimes sister in law Helenius the sister she came she said how you're going

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to get cave. He heard her voice

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See his face change

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