Friday Sermon – How to be a Happy Wife 2 of 4

Waleed Basyouni


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your spouse, you should expect from you exactly what you expect from her. If you demand something from her, she should expect the same from you the same treatment, find

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if you hold her and keep her with you, you should hold into the solution while you are dealing with this.

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And if you let her go the extra

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one of his last speeches, one last week, they said, our social

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for him.

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He said I committed, I ordered him to treat your wife good to treat your wife.

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They are basically in your house, it's like it's he used the word that means literally like a person or like somebody you are, you know, talking to her to you for that marriage.

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Or the woman getting married, she came in that she attached entirely to that connection, Jasmine. So she was part of what we call kind of freedom to responsibility duty towards you. So don't take advantage of that don't abuse that right, that kulob giving you as the hospital.

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let's share some points that you can practice with today.

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And I know some of you're single.

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And you know, you get excited and how can I really get to this point. Now as soon give you the way that you wish, and you deserve.

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Maybe you grew up soon to be also married person and don't say Oh, come on. That's another one of these talks about being able to live you know,

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I didn't want to last them in the block.

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The the

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in both parties have the intention to make peace to make a change in the light of success.

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Don't say Oh, it's not gonna work out.

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He's it's always possible to reignite that relationship, love and hate.

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Don't be like the person who said *, I don't love her anymore. I want to divorce him. This is why he's a child.

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said you might be someone who said, you know, my car ran out of gas. So instead of refilling the guys, he said, I'm gonna sell the car, no, go refill the gas, you can do that you can reignite that relationship.

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You can keep definition for good. And these some tips, some points, that they hope that you will take them seriously and try to practice. And

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we all should take that into points that we raise here. And someone sent me an email as a feedback about my foot basic check. Too many points you mentioned in an hour, my philosophy for that I'm not expecting everybody to remember the 1015 points. But I always mentioned these because it's very vast, different points. And everybody can pick two, three or four of them, grab them and focus on them and they'll be good enough for me that just my philosophy in getting 10 points or 11 points. So you can relate up to three or four this something I can do I can I don't think every points we share everybody in the city can be able to do

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one which is an interesting I'm going to be very practical in this one how to win your wife how to make her happy. One dress up for your wife. It is so sad that so many times we don't even pay attention to this. I start with this because not many people pay attention to that when they go home. They were the worst time to their wife.

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You know they just go through their you know, nice closet just with that old junky

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box or whatever. And it's just not old books you present

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them in a bath was seen before he entered his house, taking the perfume out putting perfume in his beer fixing these beer. So this student said in the

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past people dress up and put perfume on the intro. Hi.

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Don't you want her to the dress up for me and snow good is awesome. Everybody would like to do that. Then he said when I wouldn't. Even if we demand this from them, we should expect the same from

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So that's one thing you can let her feel like you know what? I tell you something you do and come back to me and tell me that your wife one day was surprised that you go and change your clothes and all of a sudden you wear a nice shirt with a tie.

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and come back and tell me how

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can you just make

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that interesting up for her.

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Also, number two,

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try to use the cute the progress of the woman when

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he was cute names with his wife, for his bar, give her a nickname, nice nickname. Well, like sometimes you will be surprised some people.

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one guy's

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name is

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he calling his wife for example, going to

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And the form basically.

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Firstly, you know, something like, give her a nice thick

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color with a nice color.

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Wherever you may walk because she hasn't been cheap.

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Wha number three.

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Don't treat your wife like a flop. And what I mean by that don't tear like a fly. When you guys notice the flock in the room

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wouldn't start barking and bothering. That's when you get irritated. That's right.

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Like the only time you get nicer existence in the room, which is still bugging you, when you stop,

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we should not

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know tokenizer before she started Bucky, give them that attention that she worked that she means and see how this room is affected in the relationship.

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We never think about fly in our daily life until

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a wife will do well all day, which means no attention from the hospital. And she does something knowing or surviving and then after the period of existence,

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most likely, number four.

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And this is a tricky one but I want to take the area patient

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don't pick an every mistake he makes. So very bad habit that you think that you can correct me

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in the

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in the

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one hour, two hour window.

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A lot of people think it is

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humilated woman or

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woman are created from the rich are created from Adam strip from Adams rip. And that's so cute by the way to be connected from the read. They say that she was not created, for example, the speed so you can simply her not from his head to control them. They just read the closest things to his heart cytosol.

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the rate is different. The rep is basically

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as long as straight. It doesn't mean that she is corrupt or bad. No, he means that she is definitely

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a woman. And sometimes they see things in a different way they be calculating in a different way than the men. So that man if everything goes against what he used to we as men, and you see she doesn't know the difference. And he tried to predict to pick on it to correct. In this case, Antonio, the person said in this case, you will end up divorcing this one. You cannot come over like that.

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But you have to understand the difference between men and

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women itself

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about how men, men think women encounter different differences. I call them different stages.

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The way we think there's a big difference between men and women and this is very important for those young men and women about to get married because one of the biggest policy we tried to treat them the way we treat men. We expected from the men there are things are a gap

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No, there is a different way and it doesn't