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Bismillah

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Alhamdulillah wa salatu salam ala rasulillah

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the woman that had eaten and later headed

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by sauce on the female will be called a year yeah evadne one two Bulma and NFC or gel to have a knucklehead woman fella who

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bought her Abu Dhabi Allah and coated that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam saying, among what he narrated from a law

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that the Most High that he said, All my slaves, I have made oppression unlawful for myself, and I have made it unlawful among you. So do not oppress one another reported by the man Muslim Rahim Allah how to add. And by the way, this hadith only reported by Muslim from all six books of Hadith. Buhari or son the four books of Sinan did not report to the Saudi this hadith. Lima Rahim Allah is to say how the shopper had eaten Leah had a sham is the most honorable Hadith that the people of a sham ever reported. And I would da da da da da da da and

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subtle and a sham. And this hadith reported by Teresa how Lani who was also a great scholar from a sham. And when Rachel holiday used to narrate this Hadith, he will, he will be sitting on his like he will kneel down he will go down and put his knees on the ground and said like the same way you sit in the shirt, out of respect for this heavy Yeah. And if he said it like me, and he noted that he will move and he will sit down and put his knees basically down

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by

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the side

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or,

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or Hina and I'll tell you later why.

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But

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can have that yes a mono Yanni album Hadassah has

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the greatest Khalid al Sham ever narrated, and the Hadith is long. But this is the portion that lmm even had reported. Otherwise, the Hadith is much longer than that. I know it will come in Charlottetown.

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But I will just comment on the person in the portion that had been hijacked by Milan mentioned here, almost a salon.

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He just took one portion of it, because it's related to what he's talking about. One of the bad manners we should, we should be aware of and stay away from is the mat is the issue of volume of being

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oppressed or oppressing others. oppression is one of the bad quality that the Muslim should not have.

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And the Hadith says, females are we and Rob before what his Lord said for what he inherited from his Lord. And this we call this a Heidi Harris puts he puts it means something that the prophet SAW Selim said that Allah said, but it's not part of the oral an editor could see the wording, the meanings are from a lot. But it's not something that it is you read in Salah, and it's not something that was revealed, and was told to Mohammed This is part of the code. I know, a lot telling you that, but it's not a part of them, because it never is a limb received so many revelations from Allah. So sometimes the debris will come and tell him this from the aura. Sometimes he said a lot

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telling you this, then sometimes he will be, you know, just giving him the answer for questions or something that he was wondering or he will explain to him something from what his what was revealed to him, so a lot is on them. And when jabril tell him that Allah says this, and this and that, and it's not wonderful, and maybe saddam will say Allah set. But when jabril tell him some of the things that Allah also telling him in Ibiza, Lala Salam will not keep the same wording. So in Ibiza Salam will use his words to express that meanings. He's not be strict to the same wording that came from jabril to him, for instance, jabril would have told the Prophet salallahu salam, for example, that

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intention or the basis for all actions so individual Salam would say in them and Mr. Lubin yet Oh, no man I'm Albania. It's not nothing necessarily will take the same wordings but he understood from debris what exactly the conversation we don't know. But the debris told the process or learn something from a lot in relation to that.

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intention so maybe someone will say it and explain it to us that explanation What do you call a sooner and it is a it's a revelation from Allah subhanho wa Taala because everything that process alum says from religion, it comes from Allah.

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As for a hadith or could see it is specifically it is something that it is the wording and the meaning both are from our last panel. What are your ebody my service? A buddy, it's just yeah, it comes from the word Abdullah, the servant of Allah. And the servants have a lot to type rebag the law, two types of Budi and the law the servitude to a lot two types. A servitude by choice, a servitude by no choice.

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Okay, and I'll give you an example in real life. If there is a slave in the old day somebody took a slave. This person been enslaved does not buy destroys what's right, you know, prisoners, the go to work not by choice. It's a form of slavery, you know, he works for me, you know, not by no choice, you don't even get paid for it.

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So,

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here, this is by no choice. So when it comes to Allah subhanaw taala. We are all controlled by Allah. I have no choice, no one, no one in this whole world, unless that person under the decreed of philosophy.

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So philosophy, the grant decree that he will be sick, he will be sick, this person have no choice and philosophy that he lives he lives he died, he died born he born right. You know, he said that this is whatever Allah decree so upon you, it will happen to from that perspective. We all slave of Allah, He controls us.

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But there is another servitude which is by choice. I choose to obey Allah. I choose to pray, I choose to fast I choose to follow the rules. That's why I'm de la Yanni. I choose to be a slave of Allah, I choose to be a servant of Allah. Because if you don't want to pray, you don't want to pray. Allah will not force you to pray alone, not force you to do what is right and law enforcement to believe in him. You choose that? So when he said Abdullah in the Quran, you need to recognize the difference between the two. So for instance, Allah subhanaw taala said in the bottle, I couldn't do it. Yo, Pia Mati

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for

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Rahmani Abdullah aku Mati Yama pmet. For everyone on heavens and the earth are wrapped are servants of Allah.

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So everything in the heavens and earth are servant of Allah, because they are controlled by Allah subhanho wa Taala. They hear when the process of them said Yeah.

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So the first column the first meaning, the general meaning of Buddha, include Muslim non Muslims, righteous and unrighteous. Hmm. So when he said, Oh my servant, I have forbade injustice or oppression upon myself, and I made it forbidden for you. When he said, All my servants might evaluate, was he talking to all humanity? Or only talking to the believers among the homeodomain? humanity?

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What do you guys think?

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all humanity because Allah farrowed everybody very good, excellent. A law fair with everyone allows not only fair with the believers,

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alone will not oppress anyone, Muslim, non Muslims doesn't matter. He will be fair with everyone very good. But, and I made it forbidden upon you to oppress one another. This is also for all humanity, but for the believers comes first because they are the believer, to gentleman by the hour if you have been one minute, by a volume I have made it forbidden upon myself to do any form of volume, oppression, what's the volume?

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What is volume, a volume, what brochet if you heard him obey Allah, the additional level

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of volume is to put things where it doesn't belong.

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How would we know that this belong to that? It is according to what Allah have told us, and how we know that what Allah told us a lot told us either through his religion, through the Sharia, or through that facts, the factual science. So you know, that's what it does. So, it basically it is clear. For instance,

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we know that if you

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Put these chemicals in the water, you will ruin the water. That's fine. I know that.

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So it is wrong to go on to basically ruin the water by putting these chemicals in it, or dump the trash and, you know, so I know for sure I know that this is wrong. So the goal is to put things where it doesn't belong your trash belong to the trash.

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You know, your chemical should be in the waste chemical waste, not to put it in that people

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basically,

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waters sources and so forth. So if we understand that that's important, and I will comment on this later on. So a little more watershed, if you read him over he led me in a lobby, Fela tavano so do not practice law do not oppress one another.

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And he said, how to run to will I made oppression haram upon myself. Hold on.

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To him, it means elmen is something you're not in you're not going to do. So Allah subhanaw taala telling us injustice or oppression or world will never happen from me.

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Why? Because the greatness of Allah, world will never let a loss of Hannah wattana do any form of oppression because if he does any form of oppression, he will not be perfect. His added his firmness and justice will not be perfect. And that's impossible. And that's impossible. So his greatness, His perfection. soprano idiotic commando will will Hina who will be the man or woman of volumes of Hannah, what's that? Like? As Allah subhanaw taala said a mini version of the modern woman and I'd be her lamb in the lobby. I never oppressed anyone of my service, or my law who read the wound Melville a bad law never intended to do any form of volume to people in the law Halla, elderly moon

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NASA chez washy and Akira Delilah moon that Allah will never ever do any form of injustice, any form of injustice, liable the moon NASA shape

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and it is forbidden upon a lot to do that, because he has himself made it forbidden upon himself due to his greatness soprano without tavano will fit tavano

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by and it added a tap

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it could be it the way it is the format and Arabic language without going into sort of it means Yeah, any it just to you should remember it means absolutely do not oppress one another. The way it was said is not only do not oppress it's absolutely do not oppress one another to show that oppression is something major sin in Islam of all men covered

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by what we learn from this hadith number one, this hadith tells us that Allah subhana wa tada have told us that he would never do any form of injustice. He would never be unfair to anyone.

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Well, I am and I belong to them in the lobby. So if we understand that, and we comprehend this point, don't ever at one point, think of any one of his rulings that is not fair.

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Or not just

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like somebody that died. I will never forget that long time ago, way before I came to America. I was like hearing about this in one of the gatherings somebody was saying, What's this? The Killers to be killed? Now we lost two instead of losing one. That's not fair.

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And if somebody killed someone, then you kill the killers. Now we lost two in this society.

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He says not fair.

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As panel would allow us to do anything which is not fair.

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Never. For us as a believer we believe that Allah would never ordain will never legislate will never decree anything that is volume. And that's important as well. Sometimes people will be angry with the leader of Allah and said that's not fair God.

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Because and and and you need to realize that it will always fair to always just, but what you need to need to look at to look at the wisdom of Allah subhanho wa Taala behind his actions. And sometimes you can see that wisdom sometimes you cannot because sometimes the wisdom is based on the knowledge that beyond your knowledge, but one of the things that we

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100% sure about that a lot is the most fair and just. And that's why somebody, you know, once was talking to me about somebody who passed away was not Muslim. And I said, What do you worry about? He will be judged by the most just unfair one ever.

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He is in the hands of Allah, He is not going to be more merciful than Allah and you're not going to be more fair and just done a lot.

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So one of the fundamental concepts, that it should be in our head and mind and heart, that we understand that Allah never do any form of injustice. So whatever you see from his rules, whatever you see from his decreed you have to understand for sure, it is not something oppression or injury, unjust or unfair or anything like that, or is not fair to a woman. It is not fair for a woman. What it does is not fair for women, not fair for men, not fair for this,

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you accusing our last month of being being violent to Allah philosophy into being not fair. And just

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and that's impossible, because that means if you say that is not fair and justice is not perfect, and no God can be imperfect. Also this handy shows us that any form of oppression no matter minor or major, big or small, temporary or permit

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is hot and forbidden to Muslim or non Muslim.

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To relative or non relative, even to enemy or friends is not allowed. So that's why one is haram to everyone. Those who I hate and those who are i love i can't i can be unfair unjust to anyone

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in life we have the moon, the people of one will never achieve success in dunya or on the other without a job, if you can. And

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it was said in the La embudo am sort of part of enhancing Rahim Allah, but in Allah Allah Allah sort of dolla dolla dolla tell cafetera

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and a doula to via limited muslimah.

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A state that it is a state of California, but they have justice, Allah will give them victory and power over a Muslim state. But this Muslim state is unfair and unjust.

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With a political agenda, ADO assassin milk justice as the base for ruling.

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In the law Han is the home of widely been a law will not guide those who are

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the oppressors? It is one of the major sin

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avant in relation to us as to type

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voelen, Mullah Abdul NFC that you be due form of your transgress against your own self. And that comes in two ways.

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Number one,

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by giving any form of worship, that is supposed to be given to almost to other than Allah,

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or by making anyone, anyone, partner with the law, which is the form of shirk, that's why Allah called us in the Quran, in the sheer volume of being a shark is the greatest form of injustice and the greatest form of

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transgression. Why? Because la vida,

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the worship belongs to Allah alone.

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You remember what the definition of love is to put things where it doesn't belong. So I take that things is the worship and put it where it doesn't belong, which is I give it to other than Allah, that's transgression.

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And it is the worst one.

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The other form of violence against yourself, or the other format of it, who are urtica, boo, boo boo or mass,

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or may attack the hadoo de la, vida Manifesto. If you break the rules of a lot, you have committed in justice to yourself, you transgressed against yourself. So the first one is by doing shirk. And the same by doing common sense, why doing sense is a form of injustice and transgression. Because you remember, put things where it belongs, you belong to Allah. And what is supposed to be you follow the rules. So if you don't follow the rules, you have transgress.

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And you start following other than Allah, which is

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Your own desire to worship and so forth. And that's why it is sent by the other. So this is when you do transgression against yourself by shirk or by sense, but also there's another form which is transgress against others.

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So the first one, I guess herself now you transgress against others. And this is also have to format format number one, when you transgress against other humans,

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and the second transgress against other than humans, animals nature's oldest also considered for its form of justice Carlin Nabi sallallahu sallam, men, Canada in the home of a limit only I think anyone who turns aggress against his brother, ask your brother to forgive you today. Before the day of judgment comes with there is no money to settle the matters. It is only your good deeds, it will be taken from you according to the size of the transgression that you have committed against him. And if he doesn't, if you don't have any good deeds to give, it will be taken from that person sense and dumped on yours.

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That's how things will be settled in the Day of Judgment reported by Buhari Rahim mahama.

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Another form of transgression, which is the format against other than humans. The example that came in the sun and the solar powered by tomorrow atom phenol, I saw a woman in Hellfire

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the hora de nada, her work, she entered her fire because a cat she locked up the cat until the cat died. She didn't feed the cat nor let the cat go out to look for food. That's a transgression. That's

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a loss metalla punish that woman for that so any transgression even against nature's that's why in Islam, it's haram to poison a well, like what is the freshwater in good water? It is how long to

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cut trees. Okay, because that's a boon to the trees long to the nature one to the animals.

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Allah Subhana Allah said in the Quran was a lm Allah de Navarra Mo Mo alabamian. Caliban the transgressor world get to know what kind of punishment is waiting for them, especially upon their death. arland Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in Allahu Allah umeda vollem hatay The aka hula mu flit Allah sometimes wait

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and hold on from punishing the transgressor until when the time comes and he takes a person you will take him with all the sins that you have committed, and that person will have no escape at that point. Carlin nebby salam salam, fis a Muslim of will move aluminum Yokoyama. transgression is the darkness and the Day of Judgment. What mean would that mean darkness of the Day of Judgment, it would lead you to the darkest spot in the Day of Judgment, which is Hellfire because Hellfire is dark. So injustice lead to the darkest place in the Day of Judgment, which is Hellfire, or it could be also another meaning and all of them correct. There is no contradiction that a vulnerable

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imaginary gamma oven will put you in darkness in the Day of Judgment. And even you cannot because you need the light to cross over the Surat, the bridge to general you need a light and you will not have light because of your volume.

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Also, it means valona in the Day of Judgment, while you are in the line different sort of gathering you surrounded with darkness everybody sees and you can see anything

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because if your transgression

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Carnaby Sevilla Sonam also Takashi brahmana or the woman or what oh la jolla Who am I missing Robin

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if you took that much of a land which it doesn't belong to you

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which is shiver, which is that

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your spam

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much like what it's like

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five inches is that what is that?

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Six Six inches of

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in a bizarre Salim said.

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You will have

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seven layers

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of that from the seven layers of earth around your neck and the Day of Judgment. Even if that's not

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Just as six inches

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you will come carrying it in the day of judgment

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and a wound today

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is so common and alone there is a lot of ahaadeeth and I talked about different form of bullying for instance last month on a certain software baccara woman albula mommy

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messaggi de la he got off he has small wasafi hobby her

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what can be worst form of volume than someone will prevent massage it to be belt prevent a lot to be mentioned in the mustards. And a person who actively try to corrupt them must actively try to

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make the mustards can function.

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What can be worse than that, and that's can be seen today in many different formats.

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And recently, recently, about a week ago, I got a message from a group of community leaders telling me in their community,

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they had a fight or a master. And the guy sold the most.

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The Muslim literally came, came sort of fragile, and it was closed. A day what's happening. Two days ago, two days later, they saw someone taken the sign down and he's almost

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it's in his name, the property and

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he got to fight to the community doesn't want to do that.

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Another community telling me I thought these things are not exist anymore. I thought that humanity would grow past this. But you know what still. Also about a month ago, another Imam told me about what happened to him that he said last year after we broke the mustard we could look over so like over $2 million. I fight again with the administration. And guess what? He kicked everybody out. He closed them as the mustard now for three months, literally closed.

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So the people came and they demonstrate like, you know, refusal to the issue. So they prayed outside.

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It's not because pandemic like allowed two people to pray. No, no, no.

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It's because of the fight.

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It kick everybody out. I'm in charge. Close the most. So the people prayed in the parking lot. He called the police on them. You see them in the camera? Well, he lives like really far away.

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He said I prefer to be closed, then to have these guys like running them

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is unbelievable.

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As one of the greatest form of

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another form of government talks about, which is a lot smarter said woman avola Moomin katama Shahada,

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Nina Ma, those who will conceal the Shahada.

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I can testify on something I witness something and I refuse to give my testimony even I know it is needed. And worse than that, that I give the false testimonial

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another one a Lost Planet Allah told us femen Avila mommy manif Tara law he can even he will be less savvy while you're here in

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in LA Hannah dinnerbone avani what can be worst form of volume then someone attribute lies to Allah. So, that person will mislead the people

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comes out and give first one gives us all how

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can you hear to be he lies

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recently someone was talking about

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you know, they do this just to please political leaders or to gain fame or to gain power

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and they will attribute lifestyle loss

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or because they believe in some bid out some innovations and they believe in it. So they will willing to lie for the sake of promoting their innovation. That's what Rahim Allah when the Morteza time, I would have never been to it used to say to the halifa kill Ahmed in Hamburg and I am. I can guarantee you in the Day of Judgment you will not be holed up

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accountable for his blood.

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How can you claim that? How can you talk on behalf of a lie like that? What I can guarantee you you will carry the sins of every person that you miss lead.

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Also, another form of verbal type of form of bullying that is common, backbiting, gossip, cursing, and these are things that we talked about in previous ahaadeeth

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belittling people always learn nicknames making fun of people's mocking people, accusing persons who, with with adultery and accusing them with good fortune they're free from them. Another form of learning which is through actions developed without worst is utterly unnecessary harm Allah to kill a human beings what at up to sell letting her run Allah who will help do not kill

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enough's human beings soul, except for wood wood, the truth Yeah, Annie wood, wood, the wood the lawful reasons for killing,

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which is basically an excuse for someone who killed someone, or in the time of war, or women who TLM of aluminum. Khadija and de Pon Farah use refill PowToon, in who

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we give the power for the one who their loved one killed or the relative killed, you know, the inheritor of the blood, we call them, they can ask for the killer to be killed. But don't abuse don't transgress not because someone killed your father or your son or your wife or your husband, it means that you transgress that person if he killed, he will be killed. But not more than that. Once a person came to me, and he said chef, from a Muslim country, some of our country.

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He asked me questions in the beginning, I thought it's a joke, but I found it is true. He said in our culture ship.

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He said, Jeff, my wife killed my cousin,

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my immediate cousin.

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And I have to choose.

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Either I stay married to her.

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But that can lead to a very big problem in the cat in the family, and I will explain to you or I divorce her. And I let her

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you know deal with the consequences of her actions. I said, Can you explain? He said she killed my cousin. Because she think that he violated the honor of my daughter. But she doesn't have a proof. She didn't bring this to the tribe. So she went and she shot my cousin.

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Now my uncle's winter event in our culture, you don't kill a woman for a man.

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It's a shameful for the man.

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So I said, What do you guys do? He said, either my uncle has to kill two women, like my wife and her mom, or my wife and her sister, or he killed her father, or her brother.

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And that will be equal. But if he killed my wife,

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I'm obligated by our culture to revenge for my wife and I kill either my cousin or my uncle.

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And if I became a person who have common sense, and I will not do that, I will shame my father and my brothers. So one of my brother will go and kill one of my uncle's or my uncle or his sons. And if you do that, the two brothers this can go two generations.

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So everybody in the family telling me divorce her and let her deal with it.

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She What should I do?

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I don't get this kind of question all the time. But like we get type of question, crazy question like that.

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Well, I couldn't think of anything other than what Allah said in the Quran. As a hook manager, he Li Mo,

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amen. Amen ally.

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That what happened? It is the ruling of ignorance that rules when the rules of law is not rolling.

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I said can you you and your wife run away Is it even if we're on a wire?

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It will not they will have in between the family

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I said ask the scholars of your own village you know the Imams in your village I can't answer this because that's need someone there to deal with it

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but this is one

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fella uses a filter in the economy and Sora now I understand when the last time that I said if you want to revenge the death of your the person who have been killed, don't but don't transgress because there is people transgress

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one person died in the village, the girl on the bomb like random people.

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That's

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one

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you see how it is in many countries, any maybe some crazy person did something. But who paid the price the whole entire city the whole entire village sometimes the whole entire country like what happened in Iraq

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with the invasion of Iraq,

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just because some crazy people, you know, done 911 what happened the whole entire country of want to start the whole entire country of Iraq destroyed hundreds and 1000s of people killed.

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One

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stealing,

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taking money by force from people.

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robber as one of the form of vote.

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One of the form of voting is present in people locking up people for no reason.

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One of my friends, he is now Imam in New York.

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told me he was picked up from his house in Libya. He's Egyptian was teaching in Libya.

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He said I was picked up from the picked up from my house. Somebody taught qaddafi something about to me that unlike me, the Secret Service came and they picked him up from his house. His wife got a heart attack. She died. He said he I got to know that she died in the same day. I didn't know that time. She fall she had a heart problem. She was getting a heart attack. They didn't attended her to the left turn the house on the took me I don't know what happened. later on. I was told that she died that night.

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But anyway, he said he was taken to Hollywood. I stay 10 years in jail will lie if you know why I was in jail. I know.

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Anyone who means I was never told I wanted to take him to court. I was never told why I'm in jail. I was never told when I'm gonna get up 10 years, not 10 months, 10 years.

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After 10 years, kids are randomly

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somebody came to me and said, Hey, get ready. You're getting out.

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qaddafi he had something and always celebrating something thought I'm at the age, the revolutions memory, he said and he let all prisoners

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go. And since you don't have any case in court or anything like that you're among the people. So the took me to something it's not a joke. Uh, hello hydromassage in in mufe, Raja Antonia and he gave you considering an MOU for janome. He said it's the presence of those who are free.

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So the con The irony, a free but still there is a prison for them like those who are released, I think place where they process them or something about he said at that time. There is a

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there is a political things happen in Libya. He thought it the pamet region of Libya and southern Libya with Sudan. A group of people tried to rebel against him. He crushed them he got angry, and he canceled the whole entire

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basically getting out of jail. I stayed in that jail, which is a moron home. There were the process people 11 years

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21 years.

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I came in my mid 50s

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and I entered general my 30s 21 years

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that's

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one

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look at the people picked up in Palestine

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jailed and the Israelis you know presence.

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Now look at the people who picked up and serious

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look at the people in Guantanamo not, you know, just process that there is people that have no case

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If you are criminal, let them face their crimes.

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But just don't leave them like that. That's not fair.

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Look at people like just put in jail for no reason.

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It is unbelievable amount of injustice. Look at Egypt today.

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How easy people can be thrown in jail. Look at Emirates, like liquid Arabia and many countries.

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no due process nothing. It's so easy today and especially in the Muslim world, this issue of just throwing somebody in jail.

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That's a form of injustice.

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To take somebody's freedom away.

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one form of violence also be very careful have

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to be to commit long against your children.

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Not to give them what belongs to them, the love the respect the attention, the education, the teaching them about Islam about them.

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And also the learning towards the parents,

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by a poker player by being disrespectful, not helping, not honoring not supporting them.

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The volume

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from the husband to the wife and the wife to the hospital.

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One the common form of will he married her and after the marriage, she never gets her dowry.

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When nobody saw me who ever married a woman and give her a promise or a dowry and never give it to her. He meets a lot hotter as a fornicator.

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Or lucky Allah has anyone

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under the yucca Valley

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never give her the money that she deserved or the financial support. Especially when there is a conflict. Shuffle no matter how Allah said Hatton Nash's edge American Nevada, even if your wife this obey you and she leaves the house. Still her financial support must be given to her

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until the divorce her

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look at the volume to the husband.

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I did nothing to me you're not being good to me, never recognize His

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goodness and and and the good thing that he did, or his status.

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One of the form of injustice that also witness in society towards daughters favoring the son over the daughter

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and treating son so good and treating daughter so bad

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as heroin rnav Susana marami

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la hin whoever Allah bless him with the daughters, he take good care of them. And he did not favor his son over them couldn't allow him to have a min and not they will be protection for him from hellfire.

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Allah, Allah Tao, the new one.

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Do not harm your daughters when it comes to marriage.

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I read once an article about a woman

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her dad asked for her before he died.

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It's very hard for me to say that.

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I don't like any bad bad stories, but this is unfortunate reality.

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When she came to her dad, he was in his deathbed

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and he begged her to forgive him. begged her to forgive him.

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She said Allah

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subhanaw taala never forgive you.

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She left.

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She's 50 or 49 something.

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He never let her get married.

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Every man proposed to her. He said no, no, no, no.

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Why? Because she was living off her salary. She was a teacher. She makes money and he needs the money

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until she reached an age where she couldn't get them husband.

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Boom.

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I called once. I was once involved. Let's put it this way, in a marriage in a situation of a sister

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who want to get married, she said, and I'm in college. I didn't live in this country and I live in another guy. He said, If I don't get married, I don't put I cannot protect my religion.

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We'll call the Father.

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He said the father. I don't care. I want her to be a doctor.

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She's not going to marry, I will never let her get married.

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I said, even if she do the harangue, even if she have a boyfriend, she said, Let her take contraceptions.

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I said, Men into Sophie, lots of Atlanta, Chua Lee,

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this person has no right he doesn't have the power. You know, he doesn't deserve to be there. Well he for this woman, she is caring about her Dean, and he doesn't

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Volume

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One of the form of volume estimates against your children,

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to be so mean to them,

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to hit them and to, to abuse them

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to favor one over another from your children. And in Abby's assumption, I will would not witness that when a man he said he also like give this one of my children this gift, he said did you give all of them is it not only this one said I will never witness

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anything on a machine.

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When it comes to the volume of people on leadership,

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one of the clear form of volume is not to follow the Sharia and to rule by the Sharia.

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As to favorite some people over others when it comes to financial reward and deals and

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to give in position to people who are not qualified only because they are relative.

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Or because they are from your party.

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When you don't reward those who work hard.

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When you don't, also for people who own business, I just want to give you example, in every area in society, there's many form of injustice when someone work for you, and you don't even pay them, because you taking advantage of them being illegal.

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They don't have papers. They cannot go to the government. You said I'm going to call policia

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I'm going to call immigration on you.

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And meet once

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a guy overseas in a Muslim country around the Muslim country.

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As well, I was talking to him and he was telling me a story.

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He told me

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he meant a paint job, like a building.

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He said, this will cost like $50,000 because I'm illegal in this country. I agreed to do it for 30,000 said yeah, and the 30,000. I, I made like 2% 5% profit. That's it. Just to have something.

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said after I finished it the guy, give me 10 were left 12,000

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said I can't It is like

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I'm in debt to the people. He said that's a good go to the government. He knows he's illegal, he cannot do anything.

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But he told him something unbelievable. That's the point of the story.

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He says God will lie about am not I'm not angry. Because he said to me something that comforted me said What did he say to you? I was excited. He said he said to allhallows alibag, afriqiyah, opium?

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He said what is left from the 30,000? I'll give it to you in the Day of Judgment.

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Can you believe that?

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As a man who doesn't believe in the Day of Judgment, I guarantee you, because of that person, believe in the day of judgment will never say that.

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He said this brother told me when he told me that I said deal.

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I'm happy.

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I will wait for the Day of Judgment.

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Unbelievable.

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When people do the same job and you pay this one more on that last, like one of the interests today is you know this whole area also of not equally pay men and woman. They do the exact same job. But woman will take less, I think 73 cents in $1.

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Also one of the forum justice, not that you don't pay them but you delayed.

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Oh my god. You have to chase the person to pay you.

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You chase him to give him money or money back.

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To take money that it doesn't belong to you. by cheating people that's not being smart, that being cheater.

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Especially the weak like orphans and Allah told us those

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To eat the or consume the wealth of the orphans, the consumed fire and their bellies

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bribery

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cheating in general, it's all kind of it's hot.

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So, these are many format of volume that is harm

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any I just want to show you how wide the subject is

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another lessons will end

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quickly with these points. Number one, one of the lessons also we learned from this heady lilla New Japan NFC mashup, Masha, what are you doing Eva? Allah subhanaw taala he can make whatever he wants obligatory upon himself or forbid himself from something due to his greatness, but none of his creation can make that upon him. For lahoma, liquidmetal cafardo Masha Allah, Barry, hook me up by he does whatever he wants. That's why I said what is wajib Apollo it is obligatory or what the last one that I made it upon himself are forbidden Kwanzaa, it is from himself, not because of our alcohol not because of our logic, not because of us. No.

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Also, it is because Allah will never allow and he do that it is according to His perfect knowledge. Because also that is some people said that Allah can do the volume.

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Logically, they said, it is logically possible for a law to be unfair. Why? Because the said, avoid, what sort of female kill hire, they said a verb is to do things in something that doesn't belong to you. Yeah, and this is doesn't belong to you this cell phone, I take it from him. That's what

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but if it is my cell phone, I can do whatever with it. I want.

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Okay, so since everything belongs to Allah, so Allah can do whatever he wants. So I'll also add that I can put the most righteous person he can put gibreel and Hellfire and put Mohammed and Hellfire and he can put for around in general. It's not.

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They said it's not. It's not unfair, because all a lot more cola. And as soon as you might have rejected that concept completely,

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he said, No.

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That's not logic. That's nonsense.

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Allah subhanaw taala will never do the unjust and unfair things. Because of his greatness, as I said earlier, has nothing to do his kingdom or he owns it or he doesn't.

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It is because of his greatness. subhanho wa Taala.

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Some people said,

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No, and I don't want to bother this, the one who said that he

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will only to do things in a kingdom that ordinance and things that you don't own. How that I shall have a mother have a home, man and it cannot. And the that's the one who said Allah can put all the righteous people in Hellfire and put all the bad people in paradise. Let's not bother him because he can do whatever you want. But he does he didn't do that. Why? Because that is well known endometrioid F mouseland. Anyway.

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So for them, it's there's no reasoning behind a loss actions. What is no jamaa said no, there is a reasoning. And that reasoning is the complete fairness and justice of a loss of data and wisdom. In the other end, you have in Martin de la de came also with another completely. Yeah, and the unbelievable he said, a lot doesn't do any justice, because it's not possible for him.

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And they have a whole entire justification for that. What is the definition of vote? I don't think we need to go into this right now. But

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this understanding that what a vote means that what I explained to you earlier, it's the opposite of justice and justice is to put things where it belongs. And the opposite of that is oven. Be very careful from any volume that you do to people

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is a no brainer later on said be careful from the dirt out of the one who's oppressed.

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Because nothing can prevent this drought from reaching Allah because as you know that a certain things can prevent the door

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from being accepted or answered. Like what like consuming harm like not being like being focused on it, you know, hastin that all this doesn't matter. If you are

00:55:00--> 00:55:04

unfairly treated or oppressed? All that doesn't matter your our reach

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even if you are a catheter that's why in one generation in part one oh can a calf era with that blue model can a calf era Be careful from the drop of the one who pressed even if he is a Kapha he had it in the DNS in Malta.

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Allah Lisa nobody more

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Tessier in my room over it avoid me call me Monica mahalo.

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Bar Amica is a very powerful family in that bassy time. They used to control the rulers but they were very oppressive. They do what they did very bad things to so many people they were shear as well a lot of them anyway.

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They ended up at the end of the live in jail.

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So the father and the sons after they were the kings, they were the real Hall of Fame. They control everything in the country

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and when they were sitting in cells chained

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he said that

00:56:14--> 00:56:19

what we have done wrong Kalia data that is sold never paid you will have

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now had what happened after all this power and we ended up in jail like that. Then the father said you have been a downwardly mobile have a room in Surat belaid in Helena and our young fella Juana.

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I'm sure this is a draft of someone we have oppressed. The team pay attention to

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but a lot did a lot paid attention to it.

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Can you Kenny is in Hakimi a poor man hip to a hidden

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Hey Betty Rajan varam

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was an Alamo and hula Nasser Allahu Allah ma

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I never filled anyone like the one that I oppressed and a no no one can support him except Allah He has no other support or other than Allah that's the one that I fear the most.

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You know if you have a supporter family or power or lawyers or that I can take that but the one who have no nothing can help him except a law. That's the one that I fear a lot the most. Your call has to be a law Labine obey Nick.

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There is like some stories and a lot of stories about volume and accurate of volume. But what we said is enough tonight, I think that's something that we can review. Please don't last year and while you have done any volunteer anyone, review yourself, especially yourself, if you've been wronged yourself, if you have wronged yourself done justice to yourself, and justice to your husband, to your wife, to children, to your parents, to relatives, to your fellow nitori neighbors to someone to your workers, to your inner friends, make sure that you try to recollect that and to correct that and to

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any do whatever it takes to fix that wall before a day will come. When there is no nothing will settle the matter between you and people except your deeds may have lost power to Allah protect all of us and New Zealand Oh yeah, come on, you're humble. And

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we ask Allah Subhana Allah, that whoever we have wronged or done wrong or any form of injustice to to forgive us what we have done, and we asked him to be our representative in front of that person, and to give that person and that person's will

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forgive and let go and and we asked him to pan over data to always keep us fair, and just long money.

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Any questions before we call it? Okay.

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Okay, just give me one second to put.

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Yeah, go ahead. Some are under No. Yeah, go ahead.

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No, I was wondering about

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it made me think of

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Yes, sir.

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I think of that

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reflection

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Yep.

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One of the meaning of saying I don't need to rely on by I'm pleased with a lot to be my Lord and Mohammed to be my messenger and Islam to be my religion I'm pleased with it any I pleased with all the rules and all the things that Allah decreed and all the guidance that Mohammed have given that what it means it's the submission to submit while you are pleased with it, that's a level higher than just submitting a might submit but I'm not pleased I'm not happy. But no, this is another level that you submit while you're pleased and why you should be pleased with it. Because you I can guarantee you that Allah is fair, I can guarantee you that Allah only displayed the best for us and

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decreed the best for us. So Hannah with that

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the question is when we say like one of the form of when we realize that Allah never done any form of volume

01:01:15--> 01:01:20

she said that remind me of the handwritten Navy so some of the drowsily to be law here

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because I know that a lot will never ever legislate any rules which is not fair.

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Because that's why I'm pleased with what our last Madonna have decreed.

01:01:33--> 01:01:35

More of a good comment. Good point. Yes.

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alone is a function of roads.

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Yeah, so that fruit give

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the fruit of the tree or I'm terrible admin who did not hold back anything. So every single fruit was ready to be picked. Because what's the point of the tree while we're shaving all that the tree is allocated and made the tree for the tree to produce the fruit so the fruit will be taken. So the truth the tree doesn't produce the fruit have did not fulfill its Yeah, its mission now it is goal. Shayla the Buddha admin agilely. Which it means your any it that that tree, give you everything. Pamela did not hold back anything. And a very interesting because recently I went to somebody's house. And he said sure. Come on, pick up the fruits. Not not recently about few few months back,

01:03:16--> 01:03:18

they have a fig tree

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and martial law, one tree, every single branch, everything little things where the fig comes? It's there not a single one missing.

01:03:31--> 01:03:33

Yeah, and just perfect.

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Beautiful.

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Yes.

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Absolutely. So for example, if you have a task to do in your job, you should not hold by you should fulfill your job. It became volume if he did not fulfill the job. You have 10 tasks and he said, Okay, I'm gonna do two that's it. Or four? No, you have to do the whole thing. Absolutely.

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And also the project levels, we have to keep that in mind as well. Yes.

01:04:25--> 01:04:26

Other than a lot.

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A definition of volume is to put things where it doesn't belong.

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So to give things or to put things where it doesn't belong. So the act of worship belongs to Allah along giving it and putting it to other than Allah, given to Allah that's a form of born.

01:04:56--> 01:04:59

Your parents are what belongs to them.

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is respect and love, you don't give them that that's your job to fulfill.

01:05:07--> 01:05:14

And software. So that's the definition to put things where it doesn't belong or to give things that doesn't belong to it.

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And the worst form of it is the shift because the one who deserve the most is Allah subhanaw taala that to be worshipped alone.

01:05:41--> 01:05:43

Whereas the other way where those who are wrong

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if I understand your question, correct, you said what about the rulers?

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If he is punished, people

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say that I am

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committed. Okay.

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So if it doesn't try to do a loan towards the people who did something wrong, isn't that alone for those people who didn't Anything wrong? No avoidance to put things to belong. So for example, if there is people who did something wrong, it's a form not to punish them, but you punish them according to what prescribe or what is considered fair.

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And it will be formed if you let them go, if you don't punish them, or you don't punish somebody because and they deserve to be punished. That would be a form of one because lnas to help get what he deserves to be punished, unless somebody forgive. And forgiveness is not against learn. Why? Because forgiveness, it is after the fact that you establish the fact that this person is guilty, and I give the person a second chance. But if this is always what you do, and you only do it for people, certain type of people, like you know, I only let go, the family members or the friends or the powerful or the rich or the certain race that became something that you're not consistent with

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everybody this way.