Waleed Basyouni – Excellence and Flaws #22

Waleed Basyouni
AI: Summary © The transcript describes various stories and narratives about the use of words and symbols to indicate political status and personal emotions. The Day of J-cost is discussed, including the importance of strong evidence and witnessing in court. The speakers stress the need for strong evidence and avoiding mentioning others. The transcript also touches on the negative impact of past sin and apologizing for actions, as well as a famous statement about women being treated similarly to men. The segment ends with a mention of a future chapter on the topic.
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Smell out hamdu Lillah wa salatu salam ala rasulillah who Allah Allah He was a woman who had our fallback

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plan with da da da da Allahu anhu pada pada Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa early he was seldom in La Nina yaku Luna schufa What a shuhada Yama Yama haha Muslim,

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a Buddha Donald Allah and said that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said

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men accustomed to cursing will not be intercessor or witnesses on the Day of Resurrection.

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So the people who are accustomed to or they are excessively always curse, okay, yeah, Lan, LAN Allah curse them using things of this nature. They will not be an intercessor nor witnesses in the Day of Judgment. This Hadith reported by a Muslim Rahim Allah

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Allah amin, Poland Ibiza Salaam, Allah and in the one who is accustomed to cursing or the one who excessively curse a LAN in general and see what mobiola mean excessive a lot.

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And the Hadith said those who do this a lot because sometimes a man a believer a Muslim might curse

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Yeah, and it's done the good thing but happens sometimes. Allah Allah and Allah and Allah share by Allah and Kelly sometimes comes out of your mouth, the word LAN Allah curse mela curse those curse

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but not expected from the movement to be custom accustomed to that not expecting from the moment that always talk like this. Yeah, he will lie I don't know about what your culture is. But I'm familiar with cultures. a nun in the home.

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Yeah, and is very very common.

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In one of the Muslim countries, any Arab countries they now

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somehow have good morning. Allah land caves or campuswide Lana Kala how you curse him? Is it how's your morning

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Kherson how's your night

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curses wife curses kids curses car curse. When us Allah afia in some of the Muslims countries streets you hear them yell and Hoon Allah for Shahada

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the curse Allah Himself

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it's a very common Yeah, and he Kelly Masha Allah and Allah and Allah. Tisha dimino

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that's a common thing. Yeah, I know the villa to curse

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and people don't be any pay attention to it. They don't consider biggie. I will do Billa

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that's haram and it's absolutely something needs to be stopped.

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Pardon me, Salam how Allah Allah anindo so accustomed to it, though it doesn't sing it, they will not be intercessor schufa.

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General shafia

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intercessor means Shafi in Arabic language or shefa.

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It means

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the intercessor is the one who helps someone to achieve something.

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That's what intercession mean. Like, you want something from this boss. So you talk to his assistants and his assistants help you to get what you want from the boss. So he interests eater.

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intersessional, it comes with the last panel data only happened by his permission by his will and no one can initiate it. And he no one can initiate intercession with Allah. No one can go to Allah Allah to take this person out of hellfire. Impossible. It is Allah give you the permission.

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And you say, Allah said, I give you the version to intercede

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for son so I said y'all I asked you to let him out. So I'll let him out

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or raise his level or forgive that person.

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But no one can intercede to Allah directly. That's why even in the VESA Solomon the Divisional Court for alcohol that allow for your coffee akuto lowly erfassung Wash Factory shaft and your lower legal

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lash for any match for owner and the like. I'm a coffee, my avocado

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Well, I'm in Lebanon, when he gives the permission in many verses, he will he will allow you to intercede anyway. So those people will not be intercessor we will never give him the permission to intercede those who are accustomed to cursing, they will not intercede for their friends, family members and so forth. What actually had that witnesses?

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What actually had witnesses that is to opinions about Shahada helps you had that manner how witnesses

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so as you know, in the Day of Judgment, Allah subhanho wa Taala will ask the people do you testify that your messenger delivered the message to you then they said Yes, we did. This kind of honor you know for you. Those people will not be asked excluded

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by Allah will not take them as because when you take someone witness that means you're on the trust that person so you only get somebody you trust to be a witness. But that's one opinion or what you are her lie attacker Domine whom schufa schaffen shuhada ne La Creme hula hooping roti, Shahada,

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Jani, they will not be

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murderers, shades, they will never die Shahid.

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Allah will punish such people not give them that shut off that honor to die as shade. So there's two opinions about what this word means could means both Yes. What we learn from the habit, but hopefully they do mean a line. What are CML examine warning against cursing, especially being excessive

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by a LAN, it means to ask a lot to take someone out of his mercy. And that's something so severe Yanni Allah, not let your mercy to get to this person or to be prevented with Allah's mercy kompass everything so oscietra to Coalition for you to say this excluded from it. First of all, you putting yourself in a position to say who will be in Allah's mercy and who's not whose outcomes and that's that's that's not your call? That's why it's haram and it is bad thing.

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Yeah, and I know you're him on Lacan,

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land and alumni agreed that cursing is haram because it is excluding someone from Allah Zoomers and this is something not allowed for a human being to claim by or to wish for for someone that

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he said and I know he said I'm some people became easy for them to say Lana Hola Hola. Even though it is not easy, it is something great with a loss of Hana data. And it is one of the major sins and the person who curse becomes faster. And in the day of judgment will not be a shaffir or Shahid, like

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to another lessons we learn from the Hadith. In Lana, may Allah take you out of his mercy, curse you damn you and stuff like that. It goes against what Islam teaches us to have towards one another.

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So we should be loving one another.

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We should wish the best for one another. And even when I see someone who is far away from the dean, I wish for that person to die as a Muslim.

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And another machine who had caframo he had Muslim agree rpd when I see someone who's so bad I see Allah Gaiden

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he came to gatos Allah those

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those is terrible. Those is a tripe terrible did this and this and that he said yeah, Allah guide diagnose and bring them to Islam.

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But for you to say, curse you may never be in Allah's mercy that's just absolute opposite of what the heart of the Muslim should.

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That's why Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said And guess what, who is the closest to Allah, the prophet, the messenger, the severe pain yet those people who have very high level of Eman karlen evisa salom lambda canacona an official Muslim in the lava bath and your ama with me, Bethany, Lana, Allah sent me as a mercy not as a one who curse. The process of them said also Muslim, acidic, the truthful person will not be a person who will curse.

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I haven't had a bit of a hack, calendar be sallallahu Sallam Latin minica partly kind of have to be I feel if

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In the bizarre solemn said cursing a believer is like killing a believer the sin of cursing a believer is equal to the sin of killing a believer and that shows you how great the sin is this is

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also Yanni Stover lion It is sad for me I don't know about your culture but like in culture that I'm very familiar with the curse a lot a lilac lilac Alana it just easy for them to say that's harm and I hope in this will come to an end and stop because it's very very serious and indeed we sell a lot of stuff Sallam was with a group of people so somebody said May Allah curse this camel in Ibiza Some said let this camel go. Cannot be in the caravan. aerosolized that's it was cursed by you. Let it go not touch

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so can you imagine those who dam their children then they're live their luck their days they're like

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like I didn't Muslim agenda will land little heroin was a man will McCann Muslim should not curse a human an animal any objects anytime the time or place?

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Any curse? Or even trout like you don't curse Allah to sue him we don't curse we don't do things like it comes to him I need that diseases or times or days or a we don't just cursing is not something right as I said with the with you earlier how about this camel? I didn't say Muslim.

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Affiliate Allah policy Rama Annabella loon will not be in our company a camel which is cursed.

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In evisa salam por la tele ano re in mora

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manleigh Anna Shea and Lisa level vianne Roger Atlanta to LA recently widowed isn't a widow The name is awesome said don't curse the wind or the weather.

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Why? Because a wind only goes as a lot older it

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you know don't curse him. And he said anytime you curse something does not deserve that. The curse will go back to you.

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And it will fire back on the person who initiated the curse by

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Allah Buddha Samaritan abuse also Lamia toad in the lab the EDA Allah Anna Shea and saw that in Lana to the Center for Tobacco Ababa Santa he do not have to mata habito

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for Tula Ababa tomahto do you mean no Shimada for a limited massage in a lady land thing can Helen Lauren can Helen was

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also the most rude and I would know that both reported that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said one in Abu Dhabi, which is the one

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that when somebody curse, that curse, it will be taken, that request will be taken to the heavens.

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And the doors will be closed, to go back. If the person that you curse deserve the curse, it will apply to the person. Otherwise, it will go back to the person who initiated the curse, the curse. But even though the ahaadeeth any movie, it's not the most authentic, but that concept is reported from several companions, yo multi armor, so they will not be sure for our or Shahada and the day of judgment that shows you that those sorts of merger was not very strong, because in the Day of Judgment, play

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time you will not be intercessor in the Day of Judgment.

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Also, what about you will not be shuhada witness

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in the Day of Judgment type let's assume if it is Yum, Jen, the day of judgment is not restriction any Kelly met? Yo malkia Melissa was from hospice. In another word, in the Day of Judgment, you will not be intercessor you will not. But you can intercede in the dunya That's right, even if you curse a lot. Even if you curse a lot you still can make that you still can pray for someone. So Allah would say in the Day of Judgment, it means you need the absolute form of being a witness or being intercessor will not happen in the future. But in the dunya maybe. So no matter him Allah said the

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if we say

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They will not be witness in the Day of Judgment. Can we say be cannot be witness in the dunya to in a case

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like in testimonial in courts?

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We can this be there is a debate based on this honey, some elements that you don't even accept their testimonial in that in the court. Why? Because they are for suck because they are faster because they commit a major sin. But the correct opinion you can take them as in case of like criminal cases you can, because we can use witnesses in criminal cases.

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But know that I have a look on location cool facet, multiple Shahada to come up with dunya. How come?

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He said if every facet will not take his testimonial court, no cases will ever

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be in court. Because the vast majority of people for sub i didn't know that I realized that car right. And that agenda has gone on for some

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majority of people have Fisk's, if we're going to say only the trustworthy person can be a witness a lot of contracts will fail business contract marriage contract, that means of that Father will have to let up he is fast. If you cannot have a be a witness. That's not the only possible that's not possible. And there is a lot of simple things. Any element any that a lot of sins people do constantly, which is make them facade. Okay? fiscal is not one level, you have to understand that too many different layers.

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Any For example, some error message if you don't constantly pray in JAMA your pastor.

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If you shave your beard 100% you're faster.

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So that'd be problematic. Some random I would say if you have your third long touching the floor, that's fast. There is that's a problematic if you're going to open this door. I can imagine you can take that person testimony in court.

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You know, that's why I know that I haven't lost it makes no sense. Many people drink many people, you know, involved in haraam, you know, so he said for example woman doesn't wear hijab don't cover our philosophy which is a case I cannot take a testimonial

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I also been to me didn't agree with that and he said there is no connection even as long as we know that she is saying the truth yeah and he will find we can take their testimonial by this head it also show you that there is an intersection in the division because you have some people deny the concept of the assertion in the deal gentlemen aladeen nfo shefa Phil othera homie livina Todd ob Annette zu noble Moussa, touchable hold for now. Anyone believes sense means that you will be forever and Hellfire did not did not accept the concept of intercession in the Day of Judgment.

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Is anyone in the history of awesome Muhammad's oma ever said that sense will make you forever? How far? Yes. Many?

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The first group the whole outage? The hydrogen they said hard and then yes liberal email major sins take your email away and you became Catholic in the dunya and in the era forever on hellfire.

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Who's else al Motta Zilla

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is another big group in history in history. Mr. Tesla said that in the dunya you take the name of the Muslim

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and in the dunya you be treated like a Muslim. But in the ohana you are on Hellfire forever, because if your major sense

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so these two deviant sects and and there is other many in Bali, like people like that they have you similar positions as well.

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But, and those people because of this, they said there is no intercession because if you make a sin, you're forever in hellfire. He became like Kapha. So obviously they will not accept intercession. That's why they rejected all the verses all the Hadith, all the things that anything that indicated intercession, they didn't accept it.

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Allah Subhana Allah does not need any witness. So

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he doesn't need you to witness walk cafe biLlahi shahida. Allah is sufficient witness. Yet he asked us to be witnesses, not because of the lack of proving the case. Or the need for you. It's an honor for you to have the Shahada yamaki Amma Hua Ikram lishui what is bat masala so it's not about to prove the case as much as it is an honor. Also sometimes Allah take witness

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isn't the day of judgment not because he needs it but to make the clear evidence that's why he let your eyes your your hands talk your legs thought the earth talks

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and every angel talks you know why there is written not because allah will forget it just to show you what he did it's written against you your comments in her journal a bad

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that's also had it shows you that there is witnesses in the day of judgment and you know who is a witness in the day of judgment the oma of muhammad salam at large

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allah says in surah al baqarah

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waka danika jalna combat and wasaga lita qunu shahada alumnus we have made you a best nation so you will be witnesses witness over people how that happened how that will happen that came in sahadi the interpretation of this verse what that means the will be witnesses over others for buhari and then the bia salallahu alayhi wasallam upon yeji will be no hinfo carla who helped a lot for your poor

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for your car do the omega t * bella come fair coluna for you call lumenier shadow luck yeah no fire cool moto muhammad fe apolo coleman o k for the shadow nanana we're in nema i tatum bagdana paulo bella anna and a b b the b unit b dyadic fisher hina lei en and also depoe for her the golem la heeta anna workaholic a jalna come on met anwar sapa lita konu shahada rns say bihari in the rizal solemn said explain what this how we will be witnesses or other nation

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knew who would be brought and it will be set to know did you deliver the message he say yes then his people will be asked did not deliver the message you they said no

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that allow until noon do you have witness

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witnesses that you deliver the message that no i would say yes the nation of muhammad

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then his people said how can you witness something they did not see the came after us

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they came after our time then the oma mohammed salim obviously represented will be say from them they said yes we came after you but our prophet told us that your prophet delivered the message that's why we testified the truth

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because we know for sure that wasn't poor and told us is the truth and what mohammed has told us the truth

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so those people who will get the honor to say that will not be among them and lampoon those who curse a lot will be not giving that honor to stand up in that position

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that's why the person should be very careful from cursing and we talked about this before this way we're not going to go into the details

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next one more added me gemini radi allahu anhu para cada rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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men i yahoo we then been lemmya mutata mr

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hajah who told me the eu has center who was an adu homotopic

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my attorney generated the messenger of allah sallallahu sallam said if anyone disgrace his brother for a sin he will not die before committing it himself

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related by cermony who graded it to be hasn't

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so disgraces that's disgraces is that a good word disgraces

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is it

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i yeah

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will be also a good word

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humiliate me shame is very good shame so i yep yep

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shame has brother making fun of his brother because of the sin that has this other person that will not die before committing it to himself reported by jeremy v this headed is not hassan it is weak handed actually

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and if you want to say some people said even it's fabricated barbancourt mobile noccalula

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He's also known why because it has a man has named Mohammed Hassan hamadani and he's a liar so that's when you have a liar in any Hadith fear snotty cadabra tarmogoyf immediately any had it has someone accused to be called can that and it's been proven that he is a liar or the other Magritte and that this head is fabricated Hadith and is rejected. Okay.

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But the concept there is other narration but the any it never basically we never use a fabricated Hadith to be a backup. Maya Taki McLachlan light also has another issue which is come apart Moncada. The generation is not even complete.

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And Harley Bynum and Dan who narrated this from either never never met him either. Mm hmm. Anyway, but the concept is correct, by the way, and we will put a cap on it man I era

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as I said they like shame his brother disgrace his brother

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minella Fibromyalgia movie Hill is something that you'll be shameful by to be shamed by

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a ha his brother in Islam or in humanity. B then been attacked by men and shafia he said you're his brother. Because if he is your brother, why would you do that to him? He should care about his feeling you should not make fun of him You should not be happy to see him doing the sin or doing something wrong here reminding you that he just not a person is your brother.

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disabuse them of an associate called a hoe? How can a

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leader cura to remind us of that relationship? We're not talking about a person? This is my brother. So I treat him like a brother.

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But then with the sin with the sin some put a cap on it yeah and maybe then bin Khattab admin. Come up Parliament Mohammed Rahim Allah Yeah. And he shamed him for a sin that this person repented from it

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because you might shame someone for a sin that he's still doing to talk Shame on you that using drugs Shame on you that you do because he's still using it. Shame on you to be doing this in this age. Okay. But the said this was in particular talk about you shame someone for a sin that he did, but repented from it and stopped and change but you still bring it up. And he can imagine you come to a new Muslim for example, and you tell them Shame on you how you were like living without marriage with a man sister. That she was no Muslim at that time.

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Shame on you how you have asked the person to change. Dumb I can't believe that you did that and you're you I was ignorant. But you seek make fun of them and you shame them for it. That person will fall on that sin. According to that narration. Right.

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Remember him Allah agreed? Even this not a hadith from the prophets, Allah Allah is Allah better. Khun Lumia couldn't lay just in some bit them. Allah determine every atom every scholar said it's how long it is. It's bad luck bad manner. to shame someone to make fun of someone who did sin in the past and repented from it. Okay, you cannot do that.

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And minister when's the moment? cover his brother's mistakes and give advice when Fagor the wrong person the bad person the evil person? Yeah, Dick we

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expose people and make fun of people's mistakes and shame people for their mistakes.

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By what is your or your attire, which is a disgrace or shame others are make fun of them. It means one you

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make that sin that this person did you make it public?

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Something happened privately you take it and you make it public to make fun of him or to put him down or to disgrace him in public or discredit him in front in front of public

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also one of the way if it's a year in urge which is you don't I can't believe you did that. Just only oh my god I can even see myself in even close to this this is ridiculous disgusting. See?

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him he basically insulting him praising himself, elevating himself from that level. That's a

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part of irrelevant

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when he sees someone like following a mistake or did the mistakes or

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Trouble, will not feel sad that his brother or his sister did something wrong. Actually, they feel happy because now they have a story to tell.

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And that's crazy.

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And it's so common unfortunately to

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you, when you see a scholar make a mistake, or a chef did something wrong or a diarrhea or a friend or affair, oh my god, I got you

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kind of attitude

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on immediately go to social media.

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That's just not how the Muslims

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we should feel sad.

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I remember, I talked to one of them once about a very famous chef said something was very, very irritating. Very, very disturbing, very disturbing. And I was telling him about it. And all of a sudden the show start in tears, crying tears

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as a chef, so and so said,

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this is all in all, he said.

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If Allah subhanaw taala would have entered election.

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Okay, he will never score these high numbers that you see in the Middle East president get 99% to like, you know, like 99% our 97 98% you know, vote he got the vote of 99% 99 there is no shame anybody remember this in the old days, sometimes in MOBOTIX days, and, you know, and Syria 99%. And even in these days, too. So 90% for her she was saying he said he was making fun of these guys. But the way he said it was so disrespectful. So I was upset about him, not about the concept that he don't talk about a lot like this. He said, If Allah would go to the election against that president, he wouldn't even get or he will learn for election, he will not get 99% I understand what he's

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trying to say trying to say any majority of people on earth don't believe in God, Michelle Carter, NASA, which I understand, but that's not how we as a people,

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and people who love a lot of stuff to start to talk about the love this way. And also, I don't want to be in the other camp who made the clear to this chair, and like hammer him. That's also wrong. I understand what he's trying to say. But that's not right. That's not how we talk about Allah. But so I was upset. How can someone who have knowledge would say something like this? So I was sharing this with that chair, and that she was in tears. So I was like, why is in tears?

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Then he said, Well, it

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may be so solemn said one word you might say not paying attention to it lead you to the bottom of * find

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a word of disrespect for law or something like

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and this man

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that you're talking about. I know that he spent the last 60 years or more of his life serving Islam serving knowledge is spreading now. A person who put in jail a person who've been through a lot, sacrifice a lot of blah, blah, blah, yet he made the severe mistakes.

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What about us?

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How can we feel safe and we did not offer even 10% of what this person's offer.

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The way the perspective that he was thinking about it.

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I was thinking only solly about how come he did that.

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But his perspective was more merciful, was more spiritual. Was it lessons for me?

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That I should have mercy when they see the mistakes of others? I should have mercy I should make to Allah that Allah guide them to be corrected. guided them not I am happy

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to announce that we're happy to publish it to the public.

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You know when you see I'll tell you one of the big difference between year one no see how when someone who's making disgracing others and shaming others and and being arrogant, you will find one person make mentioned other people mistakes will not make the offer them will not ask Allah Subhana Allah to forgive them.

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He just want to show off that they're just wrong.

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Also be very very careful

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to mix between nausea and diarrhea.

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And if not just Caterpie tap Jamil did did a small farm

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beynon nasi hardtail the raja wrote the book the difference between advice and shaming others

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is a big difference between because sometimes we shame others in the format of advice

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i'm advising him know you intend to humiliate him

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or her

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is like even sometimes our family member yeah and your wife

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she talked to you or your husband and you shame them you humiliate them are just giving you advice or your son son i want to give you an advice

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you this and this you just make him feel bad about himself

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that's that's not that's not my say it's not an advice

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had to mellow until the person will do the same

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sin in other words what that means you do the same sin because allah subhanaw taala well not give him the protection because he's still making fun of others and as if he is the one who protected himself from that sin you know sort of take that protection remember that eventually he will fall into it by

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the one who committed anyone committed a sin is one of for a person committed a sin repented to allah subhana wa tada

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or someone committed a sin and punished for it let's say somebody that did the punishment and shittier for the sin that he committed

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that person their sins is completely purified he is sin this sin this person became free from it you're not allowed ever to shame him for it not allowed to be brought up against them okay

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so that's why even measurement said you make fun of someone's sin the person repented from

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another person who making a sin

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but in a private manner he never said it publicly he don't talk about it in public it's something private between him and alon the whatever you know

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allah subhana allah yanni i was surprised somebody came to me to cheer me up come to the messages like that she had a heart problem i said what he said i can't stop

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he said sometimes even after i go and drink

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it just very hard for me

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i wait until i pray that i will drink

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so this is a private session you don't go talk about the person expose the person how about

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if you knew about it he talked them them in private

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and don't don't shame them for it just give them an advice and don't expose their sin

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a third person the one who make the sin openly i'm proud of it

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this person can be shamed for them sins openly

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like someone like these singers like this like like these days in egypt for example there is all this debate over a woman who passed away

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his name or sat down

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if anyone if anyone has as mustard seed of eman will know that this woman is not unbeliever

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cannot be a muslim

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anyone has a doubt that this woman is not a muslim he doesn't know understand islam a woman openly telling you i'm not i'm just i don't believe in the quran i don't believe in your god i don't believe in your hellfire i don't believe in paradise i don't believe and resurrection we only openly like that

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what's left

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making fun of the prophet of the quran of the believe talam ngo in pure agnostic

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or atheist no

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this is not an ignorant

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she's not an airline at one point she was a member of the muslim brotherhood

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yeah and it kind of haunts me and one time in her life

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she's not someone who doesn't never come from like a crowd like french raised out of asia and he never know anything my dad is islamic no she was and she basically have activism with at certain point in her life so she knows

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But she just flipped

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somebody openly like that. Yes, I will shame her.

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For her sense of shame on this woman who believe that God is anti woman. And she said the problem that God of Muhammad and all these, you know, religious figures in history Risa Moosa, all this anti woman

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Until you fall in energy and you do you commit this and Abraham, Allah said, it is possible but this hadith means that you will do not the exact same sin, but something similar to it or worse. Any if you make Pam drinking alcoholic shame when you drink alcohol and you make it notionally you will fall and drink alcohol, but you might find yourself doing it something similar, not drinking, maybe drugs,

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or worse.

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Listen to him, Allah says in Nagasaki, Kalam you could have been that

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Allah with tamela Nuri the anti Natal he luckily he can be them be our mo if men mean them be who I shouldn't do me ma said. It could means that this generation that when you make a new disgrace your brother or you shame your brother or you humiliate your brother for his sin

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in itself, it's a sin greater than his sin. Lima v. human soul Latifah. What escaped in nefs were Shukria one mana Managua De La Habra. 80 minute them why it is a worse than because when you do that, you see yourself in a higher position, as a pure person, as you praise yourself as if you're a person free from sins, and they and this person is the center. One talk about his sin, but I don't Allah Allah, Allah cassata, who be them the woman, the fella whom in a village, he will have his raw NFC with the Hon muslimin model the DA will keep very well rich, or poofy, beignet, they learn kiss or watch the harsh perfume casserole and ferula who will mean so let your biotic watarrka theory

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cavia while at DA DB here, one minute, and Allah He will help you hibiya might that send that this person committed cause for that person, hard to be broken, to be terrified from a sin, to respect Allah, to fear Allah, to feel sense of humility, after the sin that he committed stewing in before Allah heads down, while the heart is trembling, and the heart is, you know, in a sense of humility, that

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it's much much better and more more beneficial

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than your arrogance.

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And you see yourself not because I because he didn't commit that sin. You see yourself better than him higher than him

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and to show your favor over him that Oh,

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my God. That's why he said, for them boon

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to the loopy lady, out looby lady, a sin that brings sense of humility to you a sin that brings sense of humility to you at them boon to the looby beignet. They have woman pa at intrado lubi, Holly Yanni it's better than a good deeds that it will make you arrogant in front of Allah. Mina de la Leon.

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I'll say this again, I send that will lead to humility. And you know feeling weakness and seeking forgiveness better than a sin that our good deeds that will lead you to feel that it is you know,

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something that you are proud of and you feel that this is something that

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you feel that you know you're better or big bite. We're in nikka Entebbe tena Eamonn were to be hoonah demon, higher amin and tabetha. Eman were to be hammer more Japan

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to spend the night sleep

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then you wake up oh i missed the night i missed the opportunity to pray better than you spend the night make a tree i'm elaine and you come to fetch a prayer i'm the best of all of them i've been the whole night to praying you feeling proud of like better than everybody else

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we're in naca for in del mar jabba elia soto amman those arrogant and feel better their deeds will never be carried up in heavens we're in naca and to pick up one more telephone hi roman and tab key we're into moodle we're an email moodini been i have been allah him in surgery musa behenyl magdalene he said that to laugh while from inside your heart you're afraid and scared from your sin better than crying while from your inside your hearts have no fear from god

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you feel safe he said and allah loves

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the weeping of the sinners over the sense more than the tisby and the liquor of the righteous who feels that they are perfect

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for the levy and the party he will not see at a certain layer and a mother in law who was a pioneer in the bossa fairy funa min hubby padri methanol humare full bashar or other li camellia le hill kira mchattie boone he said he and he almost mattala has secrets and has certain wisdoms behind the thing that he decreed upon us that's why in ibiza solemn said he does an ama to a haidakhan for neocon allah had when are you 30 vianney here

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when your girl any of you have a girl work in your farms or with you and she committed zina adultery she got her punishment don't bring it up again

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don't keep bringing this up

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as well this is a very important thing and tarbiyah

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and raising children or family or friends somebody mistake don't keep bringing up yeah and every time you see your son out let's say you caught him smoking

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a week two weeks later on are you awake

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you're all here

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helaas yanni keep bringing it up and keep bringing it up keep bringing it up that's not good and the reason don't bring it up hanasi you punish the person you dealt with it move on okay

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and also uses said yes or no are on use of latter three battery accumulation use of said no shame for you today how else you repented spalla and one of the verses in from chora element agile and difficult i mean agile but ethical so to sum it up this particular verse one of that

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punishing versus unsought use for me person

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which is

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when he told after all these years after all this years of you know what happened in jail putting in the will like slave yeah and you name it what happened to us when they apologized to him and he said sharpeners ababa in another ship on have caused this animosity between us and jealousy what did he say nothing he has done nothing

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new paige

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willing to forgive and to forget all this

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anyway any there is longer talk

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by no pain rahim allah another lessons we learn how to add a bit more i have to say this maybe you will not fall in the same sin but something similar to it or even worse than and we have seen in life sometimes this happened sometime doesn't happen that's why when i say even ella said that person will fall into the sins that you made fun of other people's

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because they are doing it it not necessarily to happen to every person we have to keep that in mind okay

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so it doesn't need necessarily to happen it can and it cannot be any sometimes it happens sometimes it doesn't happen

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and a there is a very famous statement that will read amazon

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times used and I want to say it because I completely disagree with it.

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Which is, woman is the US Navy, what our big daddy?

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what they said if you commit fornication with someone, someone will fornicate with your family.

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And if you touch a woman, which is not allowed for you, someone else will touch one of your woman.

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It's a very famous statement. It's a very, very commonly used and coded and books of falconhead, even in the sea of slavery. I disagree with that statement. First of all, it's not from the prophets of Salaam, it's not from the companions, or him on the low to Allah, it is mentioned by some of the scholars.

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And there is a hadith in unhackme body, or photofinishing.

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be trusted, and your woman will be trusted as well. I disagree with this, because that's basically First of all, again, is the concept of Adam.

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If somebody is terrible, and he *, for example, a father was just messed up.

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What his little girls y'all need to say that will happen to his girl?

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is not as not as not correct. It's not right. It's against us that the console justice, you know, and so forth. Yes, almost one might punish the person with punishments, you know, similar to the sin that you commit as a form of punishment, but to say this as a general rule now.

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Anyway, but it happened like a common thing will happen when people are bad to their parents, their children, usually also bad to them. But we have also seen people who are bad to their parents and their children were so good to them. Not necessarily that they were bad to them. It can and cannot the person should be careful, I think which should be taken as a warning but should not be taken as a default rule.

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Not a law and the sort of law and this a lot of it now law protect us because that's just too scary and terrible.

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Charla next week we will do the two Hadeeth left and this chapter. I was hoping to finish it today. But

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that's what it was meant to eat. That's not fair to the other woman in your family. It's just not Yeah, woman, men, any whatever it is. Yes.

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I'm showing next week we'll finish the other two.

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We still have five minutes.

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