Bulugh Al Maram – Book of Etiquette & Manners #07 – Hadith No. 1236

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smilla hamdulillah salat wa salam ala rasulillah Juana AlLahi wa sahbihi wa. About we are at the last part of the Hadith

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where we talk about the etiquettes and the ruling relation to

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following the janazah to bow janazah.

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And last time we were talking about the woman following the janazah. And we said that this is an issue of debate between the scholars. The majority of the scholars said it is disliked for a woman to follow the janazah all the way to the cemetery.

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Even though a show Kenya Rahim Allah took the position that it's permissible. But also on the other hand, you have the INF and

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Han Abdullah said is not allowed. But then there be some lava it was seldom as miaka said, Nana, antiviral Jenna is you or me as him Elena. He told us not to follow the janaza for woman, but he was not very strict about it. And the majority said that that means it is not forbidden.

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Even Aqua gamma Rahim Allah who's a henneberry scholar said something important pay attention to it. He said it is recommended for the person who follow the janazah and equip them with the hatia and motiva Kiran family motel and remote that if you walk behind a janaza janaza the funeral somebody's dead to be buried. You have to think about this moment of truth which is we all gonna die regardless you're young or old. And you reflect upon that and you show

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basically with your body language

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that you are moved by that

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that question while he comes ceramah Toma

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Abdullah you just came up della before he pray pray motorable Asana

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so Layton and Mana Mana

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okay so before you pray or sooner

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the man here saying

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if you go to follow the janaza lasme to the huddle horseshoe he said you show it with your body language that you are moved and thinking about that the death isn't that showing off?

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Isn't that like real?

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Yeah, but she You said you show with your body and your body language should be Yeah, and you put your head down. You're like, you look like sad. You look like you know, like been moved by the scene.

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Type Noria type. Why would you do something?

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Why would we do that? You think

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by Abdullah

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emark I want you to look down, close your shoulder and do like this.

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Yeah, do like this. Put your shoulder like the

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Android and look down.

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Okay, now let's do the opposite. Abdullah. Abdullah. Hello, Santa Molina. Okay, raise your head up, like shoulder straight. Smile, breathe in. How you feel? Good. And like this? What did you feel?

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Sad down. You see, that's where your body language actually affect your feeling. Somehow, like the way you look, the way you behave, impact how you feel. You see, I'm saying I'm the law. So when they said you do that, because that brings me actually to the heart, that bring your heart to humble, that bring yourself to focus. That's why I say to these young people.

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I say to these young people here when the Salah comes, if you do like this and like talking unlike Allah, you never gonna be able to focus. That's why when the sunlight comes, we stand up. We only look down at the place of solitude, we focus because the way we we behave the way we act. You can

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impact how you focus how you feel.

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It is so important.

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You sit like this you feel like you want to sleep sit down properly when you when you sit in class. Okay. So, it is so important to think to remember this. So that's why I said a lot in the janaza you do that you show on your

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You put your you know, you look like someone who is moved by the scene and that will even if your heart has not moved at will and Sharla kind of the Minnesota model uncut in Colleen It was very mad at a person laughing and joking in funeral God you'll have my NASA Takara loca limca avida I will not talk to you again was very strict about it and has an imbecile he permitted a young man in funeral was laughing He said that's not a place for laughing that's a place for tears that's a place for fear not place for being careless. Not right when we are in the cemetery, you texting and you checking your Facebook or like you know or you you posting and you're taking I saw people taking

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like the stomp the stomp the the the pulling the federal and he's stick

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and with the janaza he carrying the janaza and he's like, doing selfie is not I'm not making this up

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as people like no it is. It is became showing off.

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Especially if the Did someone was famous.

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Like celebrity

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and athlete

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or politicians or a businessman or a famous chef, it became a show on his new Nike bond which is not correct.

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LLC alpha Do you have to follow the janaza

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panel or an LMS you have to be behind the funeral better

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from being heard of it. Called a fugly Roger if you Gema Roger infarct like the same reward of praying in congregation versus praying by yourself

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so if behind it your edge is more Can anybody tell me why why the scholar said walk behind the funeral Not in front of it. Yes

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to show that respect what else

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by the group

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so you don't delay the generosity restrictive now you know what? I'm going to be the site

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yes and America Mashallah.

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Mashallah, so, Allah said, so you reflect you see it in front of you.

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Yanni, you walk behind the car, and you see one day I will be in that car. One day, I will be in that box. One day, one day, one day I will be followed.

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Not following.

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So that's why no matter human law and the Sahaba said that one of the sinner when the when the body comes, people stand up. So if the janaza brought into the masjid, everybody should stand up, if you can, or brought, let's say on the cemetery brought it they brought the the took the gentleman out of the car, let's say somebody sitting should stand up

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on a chair, they stand up. What's the proof for that? And how do they say howdy Muslim? And how do they really align? And that'll sort of last when you see a funeral a janazah for almost stand up. For men tibia, however, followed, fella I just had that over. Don't sit until it's great and jabber or the alarm unsaid once a funeral passed by, and then the visa Salaam stood up Pamela narrow sobre la in the hoody. She's a Jewish woman. He sits also in motif as a weather item agenda. As

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he said, That's terrifying. When you see it stand up

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ahead either behati or Muslim. Also,

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one of the etiquettes also in the Buhari NW salsa, lamb stood up and he said, he said nificent isn't this alive? Isn't this a human soul? He said this a Jew. He stood up is it isn't that even even if he doesn't, even if he's not a Muslim, he's still a human being deserve respect. So he stood up some allow it or send them what kind of Nima pseudo face even side

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neuro boda whenever they see a janazah they stand up for it and say hello Buhari

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should be advised.

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He's saying, like, in so many times, even if you tell people, they still don't care, they kind of joke with you and they start like trying to socialize what's going on what's Did you get a job? You know, how's your wife? How's your family? You know, just see what it comes down to like just a small talk and cut it off. Let them feel. Sometimes one person came to me as a chip, you look so mean that janazah? You know, you're like, you didn't even talk to me back. You just cut it short. I said, Yeah, I'm in general, I'm thinking about myself and think about my death. Nothing about you, like a radical. I don't I wasn't mean or anything. But you look like upset he said

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that it is not to speed the janazah. Don't make it slow. Don't delay it. So people delayed for talk for announcements, for reading or an okay, for whatever the case is for talking about the history of this man. No, you know what speed speed also in the in the car, but don't you and you pass the speed limit. But you tried to speed that's why it is good idea to have what a police score to make sure that you can go fast. And Debbie solemn said if it is good, you will deliver the person to the goodness that waiting for him. And if it's bad, you get rid of it from you don't carry this bad person.

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also, it is from the best way that to follow the janazah

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from where it come from the hospital or the home. The more to the mustard where you pray, then to the graveyard. That's the perfect way of following the generals. But if you can't, you know, if you pray on it, and the mustard is shot law, you will have one key right even if you don't follow it to the funeral, or you didn't follow it from where it came from. And that's what NACA Rahim Allah said. And if you follow it until it's buried, you have to clear out and if you follow it from the hospital, to the place of prayer to the funeral, you have to clear out these two carat is greater than the other to get out of the person who didn't do it and carry out even if it is a mountain but

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the mountain itself levels

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and now he Rahim Allah said listen to those

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who ever prayed and as on the funeral

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and went ahead of the janazah

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and stayed in the graveyard

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stayed in the graveyard before the general move from the master.

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He will not take the second craft he only takes one of the salaat but he will not take down following the generals. So he said you must follow the journals not to go ahead of the journals

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and I really don't agree with him or him a whole lot with this. Why? Because you have witness that

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the barrier and that's part of following the janazah you don't take a full carat maybe

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but you still participated in the burial and the activity that takes place after masala so inshallah you will get also Akira

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on the last panel I was

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at one of that completion of following the agenda as as you know, in the Visa Center mcaleenan janaza to follow just for marching behind it less than FEMA and alum and danek which is

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is not about just to show up to show up that day and follow on walk and drive that is more important than this which is to make sure to pray for the person. Karlin levy Solomon he buried someone is still federally illegal masala to beat for our knees and ask a lot to forgive him and ask a lot to give him a string because when you go to the grave, the endl comes and ask you what's your de what's your religion, who's your prophet and who's your Lord

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based on how much you believe in that based on how much you practice this

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You will be answered you will answer will be

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and so the more you make do out the more you'll fulfill the concept of following the Jeunesse so our Hello

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fi hemily Nash our generous is there is any reward in carrying the body is your people fighting and getting the body

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I I never heard of I didn't come across any proof that carrying the body has any specific reward

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the father in the magic Fie

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it by the father and preying on the janaza I'm following the Xs, but if you carry it because there is need that show that who are the Brotherhood and the love that you care about the person, so you carry that body, but make sure that you don't like come sometimes when I carry some people, I don't do this anymore, people comes to carry on give you an elbow in your face, you know,

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it became like too aggressive sometimes

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play there is heavy in the virtue of following carrying that funeral the bodies and it tirmidhi at the body autonomy, but even headband and determine the who reported the honeyed said it's weak

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by if you missed a lot of janaza on the person, what do you do?

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You have two options. Number one, to prey on him before that person's buried.

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Okay, number two, that you prey on the person after the person buried in the grave. You stand up in the grave next Is it is it a law about facing a criminal and you pray do not

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pay if you come to the masjid and the salado janazah you missed some of it what do you do?

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But I came and the person is in the last year a lot. The last one and I can't

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do I pray?

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Lord first What do you pregnant as a first you say Allah, that will be your first one.

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You have two options. You can say Allah, ma'am, and he said hamdulillah Allah, Allah Subhana Allah Allahu Akbar.

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Okay, then you make the dry you catch with him

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or you read the fatty how them and when he said Santa Monica Muhammad Allah you say Allahu Akbar Lama Solana Mohammed, Allahu Akbar, and you make that because you can make your as long as the body is still in the mustard and is not moved. And the first one is more beloved to me.

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Yeah, you finish quickly and you catch up.

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By the way, let me as with any Navy, solemn offer laden if you have solid generals, there is no report in the Navy, so solemn raise his hand for salata. janaza when he said, a law Come on, there is no any report that needs to raise his hand.

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First of all, yes, but like, that's the second, the third, the fourth? What came, he makes the kebele. But no one said he raised his hand.

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But what why would is is our hands why I just raised my hand

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because of numerous other law, and he used to do that. And he'd been a model of the law and among the strictest, the strict, one of the most strict people, but he's very strict and following the strict and avoiding Listen, man should the necessity be under sooner. So we think that because of that said did that he did it only because he saw the process of solemn did it and also because there's a general Hadith that didn't have his solemn use to raise his hand with the clear even though that's in the Salah in general, but we can apply the generality of it also to solid origin as

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they descend know when you attend the funeral to participate in burying the body to participate in bedding out

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and most of the places now you don't really take the shovel on, you know, clothes, bury any put the sand on the grave, but you take maybe with your hand and you throw

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tape is there is any proof that we do three times feroza

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and abuse will allow you to settle down if you had even imagined

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prayed janazah then when the bury the person, he came Salalah Salim from the head site and he through the same three times. He did three times also in every saw and this is the magic and also there is when he prayed Jenna's on earth madam

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alone. He also took three full hands of dirt and he put it on the head in data

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and in basketball they allow and when he buried GWS habit, he took three handful of sand and he wrote on the great okay and even I met him a whole lot did the same

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show he was asked he said if you do it's a good these two howdy howdy the record no matter there is debate about the authenticity of them. And I'm not sure if they are authentic but there is bass for this for someone if he does three but I don't know any very sound hearted in that regard.

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Is there is any liquor you say when you when you throw the scent?

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What people used to say when you throw the scent,

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Asian nausea Oh, man ha ha Conoco Murphy 100 au como minha Noriko Tara 10 Ohara

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this hadith which is minha hallak nakoma via a taco woman hand

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reported by mmm Edward Bay happy and you know he said it's weak and then went up and even had your suit it's very weak a little one he said it is close to be called fabricated mobile makeover is awesome because it is reported by a man his name obeyed the lead me away the love and aliveness and honey and the passion and these three of the come together and one is not even have been said you immediately know that this is not a fabricated this honey This is a no base is made up.

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So there is no any draw from the sun while you are throwing that scent. But you should say along with a bitter llama fella. You pray for his forgiveness and a lot of gotta give him about

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Yeah, a Llama Llama with a bit

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nice night I Lola. I don't have any proof for that.

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Anyway, one of the things also is very important to pay attention to it. We don't have this an auto culture medical field, but it'll be I don't know if countries do do that. But I know for example, in Egypt, Saudi Arabia, we don't have those in the Gulf area. We don't have this practice but I don't know about velocity in Oregon, Syria.

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North Africa I don't know about India and Pakistan. I know in Bangladesh they do that sometime

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before the bury the person the uncovered of the face and they let people look at his face.

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So before they put him in the grave, which is the box they uncovered and let people come everybody comes and look at the face

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I'm looking at the people

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now I it is it is a practice. It is a practice of certain culture.

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Indonesian culture

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Philistine do you guys do that?

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for everybody, there's only shade they do that.

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Well, that's the shade the uncover.

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Yeah. So

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to open the face

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for family only for everybody.

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Okay, so the right thing.

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We don't do it good. That the sun is for face to be covered. And only those who want to see his face and to kiss the person or to look at him before he died. They uncovered then the cover back like Abubakar did with the Navy sauce on them. He uncovered the face and he saw that for something he kissed in between his eyes. And he covered him again. And he does a lot You look so perfect, alive or dead.

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And you've had a lot one of the time guys. I have a friend of mine who died.

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A lot of loyal hammer. I know this guy has the most beautiful smile as you can think of. And you know when I think of this person, he always I think of him. You mock testing, smiling happy

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Very happy man

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he got cancer got treatment with chemo so you know with chemo and treatment his face changes body changes like you can imagine

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then in the funeral the uncover the face

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and they kept it and I saw him

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and obviously not in the best look and we're not like Catholic Wella Christians that they you know they put a makeup and they put like what do you call that

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and bottom the body with fluid and make it looks like fresh they make them even better than the life

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okay, so we don't do that so you get to see the dead so why in the world I have to live with this right now every time I think of the brother I think of that last image which was what not a very pleasant and instead of the beautiful one why I'd want my kids for example to see my face if I die or these see your loved one or friends and the worst look you know you want them to see you and remember you in the best way in the best manner so I'm not very big fan of that and even remodel the Alon even overkill the line when he did this who knows maybe did it to make sure that he's dead so awesome because he came in he was told he just want to make an heard Omar said no he's not dead he's

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coming back maybe he just double check. But we don't know this like common practices that people just come in. But when you put the person in the grave you undo some people said you can peek to the to the face to make sure and I think if you do this to make sure that he's really dead because many people in the past buried and is still alive.

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any My dad

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told me a couple of times they hear people in the cemetery

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knocking me out in the grave he thought they are dead

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and they buried them and he said many times there's one or two that and they have to go take them out

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you know the thought is that

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that's terrible.

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By the way is not

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it is scary.

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Also one of the things we should not occupied the people attending the funeral with lectures with reminders with portal on with hotel bar. It just makes them and that's okay. And in Ibiza someone said the angel thing I mean to what you do. Also when you visit the graveyard make sure that you follow the proper etiquette. Okay? So one of the proper etiquette you don't overdress

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Have you heard this heading Solomon. You also have a sub t yet you can go you also have a sub t attain in that humor.

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Oh a man who wearing the shoes it's called sub t take them off.

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He was walking between what the gray that's why if you notice some people in the graveyard what they do the gifts of jasmine from Kabbalah. Our now we took off the shoes. Have you seen that? We don't walk because of this Howdy. But what it seems to be that a sub D attain it's a very fancy thick type of shoes

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used to bring the bring them from Yemen. And it never is and don't take it up because it's overdress. This is a time where you don't show like fancy clothes or so you know what, if you wearing a tie and fancy clothes, make sure that you leave it

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in the car and tie on to it and come just in regular. It's the opposite of the culture of the non Muslims wear the dress well, when they go to the funeral,

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also no makeup for a woman and so forth. Also, you should not stand on graves and walk on grave and you should do the dirt out of entering the graveyard.

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If a nun Muslim died, you are allowed to attend their funeral and friends, family members, co worker and to give condolences to the family. What you're not allowed to do is to pray for that did want to go to Jenna or forgiveness or anything like that. But you say you make doubt for their family. Okay.

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And, and to not to participate in any ritual.

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Any any act of worship, or any kind of ritual, reading Bibles, reading from the Torah or you know, being part or lighting candle, let's say a Buddhist is only that, you know a lot to do that. But you'll be there to support to show care to show that you care about the family and the person who passed away now. You can yes

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Yeah, you can attend a burial too. Yeah. For any any person even atheist. Yes.

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No, no proof that black is for death. Nothing like that good. Good question. Yeah.

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Yeah, but just don't over overdressed. Like when you go to the mosque to the, to the to the graveyard

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also type showing condolences to the non Muslims. It's a lot.

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I remember I went once with the,

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for a fame

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a friend of our family, her grandmother, mother died.

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So we went to the church Catholic Church

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to give our condolences to the family. So the priest there. I told him, the priest happened to be the husband.

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I said, I want to tell you what our prophets of Salaam told us. He said what? In nevison told us when you see someone who's in the family of the disease, you told them in the lahemaa

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whatever, everything belongs a lot, whatever he takes belong to Him. Whatever he gives belong to Him, will allow him up. Beautiful This is whatever Allah gives or takes belong to Him. We'll call Lucia in the Hopi mocha, whatever he gives, or takes according to a perfect measurement

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is decreed upon us in a perfect way. For us, be patient and secret word from Allah.

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He said, You have to write this to me, and he follow up. Is it that's the most beautiful prayer ever heard? He was so moved by that. You can say something like this. It's up

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to the person who died.

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loader to sit down whatever so now, I just remember jealous as I wish to Magna Carta or an admin or an Wella or a fat hodler Oh, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, ha. There is nothing in the Sunnah of the prophet SAW Selim, or in Islam called Isaiah. Basically, you put up a place or three days for condolences in my house or his house. Or if you do it, there's no How long have you heard him?

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Listen to me, Listen. It's not from Listen, Nabeel Salaam? Never in his time ever, anything happened like that. But kind of misread your code. So just to say, couldn't do this Chima and Eliza milania hottie Alan mate. We used to consider this big, big gathering for the dead. Part of the nia. Nia, the weeping. And that's an act which is forbidden in Islam. So sometimes people think that the must do that. You know what in the mustard if you gather people, I do say I say it is allowed, because it's organized because today, life is so busy. Not everybody can attend the funeral. So if you're going to and you don't want people to come all over the day, so you said between Europe and Asia,

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Aloha, you can whatever comes to your visit. We're all in this place, that's fine. But if you don't have the money if you don't have the means you don't need to think of that it is also there's no such things reading Fatiha for the disease. or reading social robot per se or hotmail Koran, or Annie Han or anything like that. Or Holland taco and we may cut alkire on that in a minute. On is for the living one not for the dead.

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It is sad. Sometimes we go to Egypt I see in the cemetery nobody maybe I had in the graveyard Can you imagine the cemetery the higher someone there and is raining

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nothing but the graves around him.

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And those people who hire him they don't even maybe required themselves.

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And sometimes there is like funny stories about those who recite or who come to read for the that.

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Mara Anwar had they brought him to read Koran.

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And they charge a lot of money, some of them so they tricked him, they put him in front of everybody

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and they give him envelopes. Mashallah big envelopes. So he starts reading

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and reading and he's like, and he like looked in the envelope on the break. He found it all the ones

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They found out they didn't give him you know, even 50% of what he expected

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for the family. Yeah, I thought you do food on behalf of the disease for the family yes at the subnet to make food for them.

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Yeah, one thing also I want to say it's important

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because the neighbors don't make food for the alija fault because today they lost their loved one

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notice this

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the Brotherhood and the right of the Muslims

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is upon you when he's alive and continue until his death

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spiral the right of your Muslim brother upon you when he's alive all the way to his death

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any local Muslim Takahata remote

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I will end

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with showing you or telling you how the janazah is prayed according to the format so you can understand the difference.

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Okay, I was caught I said people like you know, those who read Quran sometimes in these gathering for Isaiah or you know, the read according to how much you paid them. So you pay them a lot of money. They give you all the verse of agenda and this you know paradise on forgiveness. He didn't give the money. Are you

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telling me about someone who was tricked with the money he starts reading all the verses about Hellfire and punishment.

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The form of that have agreed the form of that Hanafi Shafi Maliki handling what are the forms I have Omar we have an Islam we have the henneberry the Shafi the Maliki the 104 schools.

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All of them agreed that it is sufficient.

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In janaza to do for tech Kabira.

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Allahu Akbar. For

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times Allahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar.

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The Hannah Bella only said you can do more than four. But for a sufficient the anabella said you can do five you can do six.

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Why? Because there is. Evidence shows that the Navy SEAL Salam did more than four. But the rest of the three mme don't agree with Hannibal on that, they said only four.

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Okay, raising your hand with every tech Kabira. That's the shafee and the henneberry way.

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The Hanafi and the Maliki said only with the first one, Allahu Akbar, then after that you don't raise your hand and I told you there is nothing in the son of the puzzle and reported he did it and saw through janazah so the aroma said in the pre Genesis so many times if your ISS engine as it should be reported, but so ever reported the janaza didn't say that you raised it. But the habit and the shaft is it had been used to raise his hand and he's one of the narrator of how the journals are done. So he must saw an abnormal is very strict. He follow the Sunnah by Annie. Exactly. So that's where the difference of opinion came.

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due out all the stuff

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that you do in the salon is soon

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after the first Kabir insalata Jenna's

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and this is the Hanafi madhhab.

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The madikwe the Hanafi said it's an article on Okay, the Maliki the Shafi the henneberry citizen not allowed

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you say Allahu Akbar and hamdulillah immediately there is no darkness of some Hanafi also like an animal behavior a human light did that Why? They said because NW Salaam never reported that he ever

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read or said anything before. In fact, here he is to say, Allahu Akbar Alhamdulillah he will read so Salah never secret, but they never noticed that the present great anything or he told them to do the hardest if

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also, they said because it should be fast. So that is not part of

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breeding alfalfa.

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In the after the first Bureau is must according to the Shafi and the Hanbury

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hanafy and Maliki said is not what

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Maliki said it's optional when a visitor is not allowed.

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The Hanafi the said Latisha is not even Sunnah to read and Fatiha

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for you.

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Unless you read the Fatiha with the intention of praising God that's okay. But to read as a reciting the Quran, this is not right.

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That's the heart of his position.

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And the Malik is its option. It's okay It's good but if you missed it, you saw Stovall, the shaft and the hammer is in its must, because it never did it.

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Then making the out

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for the disease is must in the Salah. And the end of the solar must according to Shafi, Hanbury, Maliki hanafy said it is option

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it is up

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a lot about the fourth one

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as salaam alaikum warahmatullah. Immediately the Hanafi and the Hamburg he said nothing is Allahu Akbar.

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Okay, and or to the slimmer and slimmer come to this, the Maliki and the Shafi. He said no, the fourth one, Allahu Akbar, you make another bit then he says

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and it is also under ratio.

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What's the proof that the live Navy overall they allow and kabara janaza he made the Quran janazah for his daughter. And after the fourth one, he stayed as much as he stayed before making too hard for her and he said that's how the process needs to do.

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So he did after the fourth May the long day.

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Okay, and one reason he said Formica tassa he stayed for a while, even though we thought he's gonna do a fifth or six. But he didn't. He said a lot of a fourth one. Then he said for a while, said he's gonna make another commute but he did it. He just say I said I'm article law.

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Santa Monica had to look left and right.

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We told them

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we never noticed this long pause after the fourth year and he said,

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I didn't make anything from my own.

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I just still said or I just did what I have seen the process lm debt reported by hacking, and it is authentic integration. That's why it is allowed for you to make after the fourth one, as well

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as salam aleikum wa rahmatullah one or two,

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one, Hamburg, handily, and magic to hanafy, and Shafi.

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And it looks like there is some, not a lot of narration from the companions, and the success of the did the two, but I'm not now

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aware of an equity remember if it's something from the process or not, but I know I'm aware of many of the Sahaba did. So, one is good too is also permissible.

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Why that is such an Hanafi no Fatiha, you know, at all and how why these difference of opinion came in such a short supply like you know, funeral prayer.

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This is goes back to something and this is interesting.

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And folk aha the Muslim jurist have a different way of looking at some other genetic any

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they'll see from this autogenous Elif they have very different view whatsoever, Janice is

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the first view which is Abu hanifa Rahim Allah and his followers. They said salado janazah is not Salah

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is not a prayer. It's a form of

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cardio he had a soft Salah

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there is no record and was nothing in it. So you can call the Salah that's why you should not read the Fatiha in it because when you make the Koran

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for them, it's just a matter of adapt

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so that you should not include any Quran unless you do part of the Quran as a part of praising

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but a Shafi and the rest they said no it is Sala and because of Salah we should have Al Fatiha in it we should say to slim and we should say the Shahada in it okay and is it the salad because of the following reason number one you make the Kabir

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ah daddy for Salah what's the definition of a soul I remember

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it is something actions certain actions.

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Start with what with the Kabir and end with this link. That's exactly funeral prayer. Start with the computer and end with Santa Monica to sleep salon. In janazah you face the Qibla like any solid

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wine janazah we have to face the public also there is a ma'am ahead of everybody else like any salon. If it just to you ma'am can be in the back. But that's not the case. It is also people lining up like the way Lila and I've been the salon.

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you're not allowed to talk when you pray janaza That's right.

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If it's just two out you're allowed to talk

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also you follow the anomaly don't follow the email

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at salon, you raise your hand with the Kabir

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people refer to it as Salatu janaza chaverim Allah said Anil refer to it as Allah Allah says in the Quran, why not to suddenly and I had the men who matter Aveda

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so these aren't nine or 10 point was mentioned by him a lot to show you that this is what this is a salon

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and it's not correct to call it just a door or a supplication.

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the next heading is shala is very beautiful. And I promise you there is no other hurry that long.

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I just stretch the first one for several weeks, because it has a lot of etiquettes that it's really needed. Like

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the rest of it will be very fast as we go move forward. The next 30

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odd interviews are seldom

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on Guru 11 who has felony income.

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What are Dumbo ears

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Welcome for edge dot O Allah does matter law hurry Come

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on hurry the process Southern said

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look at those who are below you, not those who are above you.

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Because if you do so, it will make you appreciate the blessings of Allah subhanaw taala

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because sometimes when we just look up, we don't appreciate what we have. You always talk about what you don't have.

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And I'll tell you something in life, you will never appreciate

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live unless you start to appreciate what you have.

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And if you don't appreciate what you have, you will never appreciate what you don't have.

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I'll say that again. If you don't appreciate what you have, you will never appreciate what you don't have. Let's say you know Eunice

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we got you. We

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We We are like you know,

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we I want PC, ps4?

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Is that the HMM

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what's the top one? what's what's your favorite game? going to be?

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No game I mean,

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ps4, so I got you we okay. And you said no, I want ps4.

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I don't care for this. If you don't care for what you have if you don't appreciate what you have. Even if we get you ps4 you will not appreciate it.

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Soon it will be also disregarded.

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This is very important.

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Sometimes we do that we don't appreciate our friends when other friends or family or somebody else we don't appreciate what we have. So if you don't appreciate what you have, you will never appreciate what you don't have

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learn how to appreciate with your pipe so

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why do you think

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they've been handled abroad this hadith as a second Hadith

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after the habit about the rights of Muslim upon each Muslim

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Can anyone think of a connection

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so after he talked about the rights of the Muslim six rights between Muslims upon each other then he brought this hadith don't look at those who above you look at those little below you leash

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Yep, but what's that connection auditor's white came right after that leave?

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Me, huh?

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This is the right to view upon yourself.

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But there's nothing about the right to those who below you. What do you think?

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But it has to the right have a lot

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to be thankful to him very good.

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I never thought about that. In my opinion, a lot of the first heavy establish,

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establish what the interaction between each other. If you follow the first half, we will come near each other. We'll come very close. And we'll start we visit one another and we give you Salaam and I follow visit unis sec, follow your journals, it means we're going to be interacting with each other what more saw, give, you know, see how, you know, we became brotherhood, that brotherhood when we interact with each other, I'm gonna see what you have, and you're gonna see what I have. And we're gonna be basically that interaction and closeness. He wants to tell you yes, when we interact with each other. Remember, that doesn't mean that you look with greed. And you don't have an appreciation

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what you have, because you might now interact with the Muslim better, because not all Muslims have the same level. There is somebody more rich, somebody's poor, you know, people have a different levels. So he wants to teach you some of the etiquettes that are some of the guidelines that you need when you start interacting with people. That's in my opinion, one of the benefits of having this hate eating disorder, but also how much it makes also good sense. Now there's the rights of a lot to be grateful and appreciative of him as well. Thank you. See, Shaolin next week.