Bulugh Al Maram – Book of Etiquette & Manners #02 – Hadith No. 1236

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spill out hamdu Lillah wa salatu salam ala rasulillah Allah Allah He will be here woman Wada who got All Praise to you to align His praise and blessings and peace be upon our Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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nanopi over the Hadith in an interview sal Allahu Allahu Allah He was Sunday mo dito hora

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para para Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam how Muslim a Muslim is? Either Nikita hufa Salim la were either Dhaka jib way the stone Sokka from saw what either out Lucifer Hemi de la have a submit to the wire fishermen were either married or who were either matter for the bar

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that have already reported that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said they have the right of every Muslim upon other Muslims and the word help. It means the right and the right. It means something that I have to give it to someone. So you're right upon me. So that means I have to give you a right. And a right can be something must and can be something recommended and help men who Mahajan yet some been some bit archaic or minimal almost to have. So any Hadith says how it could means something must or recommend it can happen Muslim, Arab Muslim, the right of Muslim upon other Muslims. And we said that so many of these also applicable to non Muslims, but in Islam start with

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the Muslims. Because if you're not good to your Muslim Brothers, how can you be good to those who are farther away from you? And that goes against the notion that some people are so nice, unkind to non Muslims, but they are so mean and

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rude to their Muslim brothers. Yeah, and if a non Muslim comes to your store, you give him the discount and you treat him very nice. And with the smile, another Muslim guy come to you, you just squeeze him to the max.

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Okay, it's interesting, if I also vice versa, if I go to a non Muslim store,

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I will be very respectful.

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How much you pay 10 I give him 11.

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But if you're Muslim brother Tony, it's 10 nine, a

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Muslim brother you squeezed him to the max. Yeah, that's wrong. The default that we should treat each other the best. And that's apply also to your family members. You should treat your family member the best you care for your family the best then the Father and the Father and a parable and our liberty model that the closest they are to you. They have more rights upon you. So when the Navy Salam said the Muslim apartments will not because he doesn't care about Islam doesn't care about non Muslim no

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666 said

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what he said had an added lemma formula. It not many means exactly six because there's more than six. But then that'd be one to point out six. were headed to say hayner revile Matura comes the famous narrations five not six hoonah masala

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in the aroma very own Bain Ziad at the theater ohana.

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There is a difference between when a narrator add something to the narration

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and narrate something that contradict the other narrations when a person writes something that contradicts the other narrations, we call this Mohan alpha contradictions and that will make us consider this notations are rejected. We put hold into it. And we call it in science of Hadith. What shadow Hadith shadow chance, but when the narrator will narrate something different than the others, his narrations has extra information.

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Okay. And he basically add something he didn't contradict. It's adding there is no contradictions. We call this zyada to FIFA, was the added Buddha and all this extra information is basically acceptable. And if somebody's interested to know more about this, one of the best reference for this will be

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by Raja Brahim Allah wrote an amazing writing about this fish.

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The fish have to

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pile for sell either Lupita hufa Selim la if you meet him give him Cena

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see in every one of them either darker for a job either out of a Hemi de la fecha mid, every one it says fat fat fat, in fact how the food is fat

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what to feed money and fat has two benefits number one it means you do this immediately. So, when he gives you Salaam you immediately see what Alico masala

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okay, but a the left side is my key, which it means to emphasis. Yeah and it is important emphasis on that emphasize on the importance of replying

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emphasize on the importance of answering the call to the food or to the feast, emphasize on the importance of

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giving in the sea. Okay, so, keep an eye on

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Paolo sallallahu Sallam for Selim Li give him Sam for submit efficient methods the same meaning and we talked about this before his thumb sahak and he asked you for advice. So give him the advice or seek advice for who it means Yeah, and you go visit him and comes from allowed to car or we'll do it okay.

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And why we call visiting a sick persons ADA, because people go back to the person people go then another people go back and another people come any usually a lot of people go to visit the sick person. They we mentioned some of the benefits and then the Messiah last time. So I will start from where I ended last time. And I will start with the issues related to when you meet the person give him set up number one As salam aleikum Khalid

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you remember as salaam alaikum it's a greeting that was giving

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was giving from a lot to us. Okay, so who taught us to say as salaam alaikum Allah that's why the social Bahati

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and also Muslim and in the Bissell Allahu Allah it was send them and cod Haddock Allahu Allah Allah Swati. tolosa tuna de la la hora hora de la Mata it can never afford them in America. Juice festival, Matthew g bruneck. For inhaca toka water here to re etica for the hub of our Salam or aleikum. Wa Alaykum wa Salaam, WA salatu wa Taala that Allah told Adam in general, go and give Salam. So he ordered him to give Sam to the angels. And he said, Listen to what they're going to tell you. So when he told him a Solomonic and so who told Adam to say it's an American a lot, then the angel said, Why did he come Sam, and the added one rock, metal law, and the laws mercy upon you.

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So this is something from a lot to us. He's the one who taught us this beautiful greeting.

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And a lot told Adam, this is your greeting and the greeting of your oma and tell what that they have judgment question

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why we never heard as Salam alikoum this greeting in nations before us.

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And it was moose on a sand and all the profits before us.

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First of all, we don't have a detailed history of all the profits. Any Do we know what Moore said? We don't have a detail of what these maybe they used to say send each other? Who knows? Maybe Idris used to say who knows? That's right. There is no proof that it was not used through history number one, the closest one to ask like the Jews and Christians, they don't say Santa Monica, because a lot of change happened to their religion, they change parts of the religion and they adopted other greetings and maybe they say greeting in their own language similar carry the same meaning of Santa Maria Kumara Matala

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and But anyway,

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many things that Allah subhanaw taala have given this ummah, nations before off have lost it and Mohammed Salim reignited again Muhammad wa salam revival again, and it was given to the Prophet sallallahu sallam. For instance, just a simple example Friday

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what social

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special about Friday.

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You know your neighbor.

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What's so special about Friday?

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Juma prayer, what else? Good.

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It's a day of judgment start and all prophets knows that is the day Adam was created as almost put in Jen, sent down to earth. But notice none of the other religions knows anything about Friday this way.

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It was lost.

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Okay, but our oma Allah guided them to take advantage. That's why like what he said, we basically pray Friday, and that was made in that special day because it's a very special time.

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By the way, this headset I just mentioned to you, who diliman con and Adam Lovato cannot be

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this is the proof that some scholar has to say that Adam used to speak Arabic, because he said to them as Salam aleykum and he said, Well, it was Salam Rahmatullah. So that means that's the language that he used. Okay. And that's one of the strongest evidence that the scholars had about what language Adam used to talk. Because we don't believe what some geologists cite, that caveman, or humanity started with sign language that they don't know how to talk, then they develop talk later on. That's right. Is that what you guys may be taught in school or something of that? You know, we just don't agree with that. We know that Adam was fully aware of languages fully aware of words. And

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the other opinion among the scholars that Adam spoke many languages, that's why a lot taught him all the names in all different languages. But

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I wouldn't say all languages because languages come from each other. So maybe he knows the language that basically the mother tongues of all the languages, like for example, English.

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Which, which language come from which English come from French or French come from English.

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French come from English.

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Now, English made of five languages, one of them is French. So French is older than English. Okay? So it's more authentic than Latin is one of them. So you go to the mother languages, you see. So when you go to these, basically, maybe Adam he mastered these languages 546 languages.

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And that we're all languages the world comes from, like

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this hadith onanism when you meet him, when you meet your Muslim brother, you give him Sam, him or her.

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This hand it shows you that it is highly recommended that you give Sam to someone you meet, because in order for you, and he encouraged you to give the person sign up, and in the resource, Olympus or handpan y room and let the Adobe sign up. The best among both of them is the one who start with set up question.

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The best among both of them referring to whom anybody knows the story of the Hadith.

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Allah hi Rama, the best of the two is the one who starts Allah.

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Who gives them first? The best of the two, the Hadith talk about the two Muslims

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who don't talk to each other. And Mahajan. If two people don't talk to each other, me and Khalid we had a fight, man. No, you guys had a fight. You know, and you don't talk to each other. The process of them said the best of you is the one who will start by saying assalamu alikum to break that, you know, hard feeling.

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You break that gap or you basically break the ice as we say, so you send a modicum of what he does not very happy with me. You know he see me and he said Santa Monica he's better than me because he is the one who starts on that kind of had the vehicle motor. Hi Julian from abetik bimota have been

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if the people who have a problem with each other the best of them is the one who gives them first. What about the people who love each other for the sake of Allah no doubt the one will give some first is better so make sure that you'll always be the first one to give Cena that's why I love it. When someone adds to the fun cinematic him he always beats me to it. You know because he starts with the cinematic as I say when it comes to lantern

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He did it first.

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A salaam aleikum, you can say Assalamu alaykum

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to individual or to group. cinematical furball. Gemma, a group of people said a Salam aleikum. Brian by himself a salaam aleikum. Also Assalamu alayka. Only for one person. Okay.

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Also you can say Salah moon alika

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all this is basically possible. Can you add? Can you say what I meant to lie to you about a cat? Absolutely. Allah said in the Quran rahmatullahi

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wa barakatuh who alikoum Alan Bates.

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So Allah added here Rahmatullahi wa barakato

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and it Tisha hood What do we send the shot?

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What do you say to

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a Salam Arica you Johana Vu, while I'm at Alai wa barakato. So we add here or I'm going to lie about our cat and the angel said to Adam warahmatullah, by fishermen Abbe de tirmidhi and Nabi sallallahu, alayhi wa sallam was sitting with the companions from Allah Rajan Allah Nabi sallallahu alayhi salam, Salam Alikum, a man passed by and said a Salaam Alaikum in Episode 10.

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And another man pass and he said I said Mr. La Kumara to law, the prophet said what 20

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another person third person said as salaam alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakato in the abyss of Salam said what 30

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for camaraderie, Romanian mejlis when SLM

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for pan and obese or Salama OSHA, OSHA Camoranesi Asahi bukem

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is interesting after this one of the people sitting left then in Ibiza solemn said and he forgot so quickly.

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He forgot so quickly. I just said 10 2030 and almost he didn't get it. Then he said some of us lm polyphor embed Allah who and yet this failure this worry that palmful new cell limb fell a certain accurately I helped him in an order polynomial Salim if you want to set you can set you give Sam a new set. But if you leave, you should also say cinematical. So let's say Mohammed now decide that this class doesn't is not good for me or Dr. Ashfaq want to leave home? So when he leaves the semester, say what a Salaam Alaikum then he leaves. He said, The process of him said the second one, it is as important as the first one. Can somebody tell me why?

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Why the second one is as important as the first one.

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It means a lot to the person. Because when you say I said American peace upon you, you will never see any harm for me in your present.

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But don't you think also You don't want any gossip any backbite any harm in your absent?

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So I'm telling you, while I'm with you, you should not expect any harm. And when we depart from each others, we should not harm one another. I protect your honor and your opposite. That's always a ceremony. Also when I leave you don't expect me that I will say if this is the reality would be ever fitting that what we see in society today when somebody just left and everybody in the guy said, Man this guy stink you know this guy bad this guy does or he leaves he stopped back by the people. That's no cinematic. There's no peace and no harm. You just harm them and you basically have done wrong to them.

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That's why

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also a man now he said what just Khalid said I mean I was a great scholar who have an explanation for the matter, he said because that will open the heart and make love make people love one another elephant in

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the middle muhabba any make people love one another and respect one another by NW saw some of them said Hola.

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Con sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. La taco la casa lamb for in Africa Salaam, Tanzania to Malta

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very soon an Abbe de would mean Hadith he

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a be joy

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Hey Jamie abou joy, Jamie Han and Debbie solemn don't say

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La Casa ram why because that's the greeting for the dead

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okay so when you say you don't say La Casa La like those greets a mama

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brother ma

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when you go to the cemetery What do you say? How do you greet the dead? How do you make the heated maqbara when you enter the macabre what do you do?

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What do you say? Do you say alayka? Salam aleikum? wa salam to the dead? What do you say?

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A Salam Alikum

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Dara Coleman, many and to Mousavi Poon one I know insha Allah become la Hippo

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you don't say la cama Sara, you say a cinematic the way you agreed the living you agreed the debt and fees Hadith eyeshadow the Allah Allah a Salam O Allah Allah Dr. Demian muslimeen our mininova muslimeen your ham alarm was stuck with me and I mean come on now while

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we're in the inshallah who become law Hippo, so overdue that we have in the subnet. None of it is Anika Salam or Aleikum Sara.

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As a matter of fact, some people thought because of this Hadith, he said alaka salam is the greening of the dead the when they enter the cemetery they said on a chromosome like this, but what this hadith means

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Pilate, Rahim, Allah wa kovanda Babu had some people don't have knowledge and ignorance of the sooner that the sooner when you enter the cemetery said Allah Allah and he said that's not correct what the prophets are suddenly meant HCA to walk a little mushroom

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in Ibiza Salim was talking about that habit and the custom of the people during the process of selling time. Can visa man in Ibiza Salam Al Arab either carrot Arica Salam taco Lil methacholine Hi. in Ibiza Salam was telling what happening in his time in his lifetime salsa lamb when people meet when people go and see a dead person that's in Attica Salaam when they see a grave This is Erica Salah. So that's how they greet the dead not because it's this is the Islamic greeting No, Islam did not differentiate between living and dead when it comes to giving Salaam making draft for them. But tender B was kanaky aloka not because that's the synonym so that's why there is no

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contradiction between this a hadith and what the porcelain meant here. They can and who sell them either Nikita who sell them at a

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and you don't have to lie Allahu Allah Massara

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in Abuja, Salam said when you meet him, give him Sanam is that means I have to give Salah

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what Rama Rama Rama Rama

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Rama Rama agreed and neptina Assam Sunnah.

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What are the Who are you and agreed that initiating Salam asunder

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and replying as must

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wahaca has added many, many scholars have mentioned that

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consensus that men have a consensus and agreed upon this issue that initiating the Salaam is a sin. But responding is must. Why? They said because Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam card layer Hillary Rajan and Yamaha patera inhibitions on giving permission for a person not to give Salaam to each other for three days. But after three days you must give some to your brother. Okay.

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And also they said because a Salam is etiquette and adapt and all the adapt and the etiquettes are not in the obligatory section. It is part of the recommended act.

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I don't agree that there is each mountain this especially what is it about from

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Mahara? In Morocco in

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Dallas, is

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Yeah, in Spain and Dallas. in Dallas, the one of the greatest scholar in Dallas is named not been Hashem Pon a Salam wajib

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Assam wajib to give someone some his must when you meet the person and he took this handy this invitation

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And also by the way, it is one narration from at every moment for that one each man is that selima there is no consensus. Okay.

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But even Abdul Rahim Allah, and many scholars like him, they don't consider they don't consider it been hasn't opinions. Break the consensus?

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Lima that drama mahana Fattah bahariya

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Yeah, any casology map, while Erna don't consider the opinions of the validity mishap is something that break the consensus, or break that out.

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Because the principles of the viremia is different than the principles of unwritten law. because of that reason Exactly. We don't consider the opinions of the Sharia and the martyrs ILA and the motto to do something that break the edge, Matt and assonet in the books of al Qaeda, because their principles of driving the rules and understanding that matter of data is different than the principle that Anderson they used to drive the Creed's of al Qaeda.

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so it is similar to start this. Have you ever heard this word before? I sell on public Cabral Can

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anybody heard that statement? Yeah, I ceram covenant canon, this hadith reported by Timothy but it showed me this is kind of how the mooncup It's a rejected hudy so it's a very weak by men by the Acropolis sermon by the acambis calamy cobbler Salam Farah to gebouw

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whoever talked to you before giving you Salaam don't answer him. Have you heard this headache before? All sorts of very famous heavy whoever start with talking to you before we give you some don't answer him. This header is reported by the Sydney family Dr. Molina and it is a very weak narrations. It's also very neat we can ration out well we'll have to have the heavy thrombopoietin this heavy is void

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and also goes against what you just said. It's similar to give this up

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babe and Islam did not ask us only to greet or to respond to Salaam and Islam asked us to do something more than that. Which is

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F Xu Sara Marina comm

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spread f shoe. Can you say f shoe?

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just stayed with me. f shoe.

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f shoe Can you say call it F shoe? You see your mouth like the air goes all over your mouth. So it's basically a spreading? That's how f Shu means. Yeah, by the way in Arabic language. It's something unique about earlier. many words in Arabic language, the way you pronounce it, it tells you about the meaning. So for example, say Alba

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you see you're biting it means biting.

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It's like you bite okay for example, sama

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sama you go up to his sky.

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feel whole mouth goes down. This is this is this interesting like many many words like this in Arabic language, one of my favorite one in the Quran for kubu kubu

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kubu kubu say cube kibou

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is like

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that's, that's what cuckoo means rolling in and Hellfire and

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Abdullayev in Assam send me an obeah salatu salam ala olfi Avi Konami, la fille Medina, a yohannes. Official salam o mo palm, or something new when NASA Nam did hallucinogen data besana. He sets a low and it's a lamp or people spread selam

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feed the hunger prey while people are sleeping your intergender in peace. Yes, can

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you just say send a modicum to everybody and you leave? Yeah.

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know if you passing by one cinemas enough

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pilot that'd be Salalah to send them

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latter's agenda to help me know you're not interjected into the believer and you will not be a believer until you love one another. And I want to tell you something if you do, you will love one another file to move into habit to

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spread cinema among yourself.

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What did that

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say hey, in an abundant amount of time, what to create ceramah and M and after or mellem tarrif. The best deeds you can do is to feed the hunger into it and to give Sam to those who you know and those who don't know. That's why Amar Pon tatelman Jana hoonah *a Gemma, man three things if you care for them. You will complete your Eman. What are they? Yes or no? in software coming nesic you'll be fair on just with yourself. What better is laminal and him oh did Adam that you give Salaam to everyone to the hall? And when in fact the minute that you give even though you have very little

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Yes or no? You give

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an answer for me nesic in soften mindef sick and to be fair with yourself even if you're against yourself.

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And because of this have Sahaba cared so much about spreading Suriname to the extent of providing a beanie obeya beanie cap used to go to his like an uncle Cuba to live near him

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and he will go with him to the soup. Yoko Farah Abdullah Omar Allah succop in one hour sahibi biotin while I miskeen

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when I had in Santa Ana Hurry and a socket

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socket not supported led a socket

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and let there be a socket on the one who sell any like what we call a modern days

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or, or flea market. You know like you go to the flea market, you know that people who use secondhand like thrift things or used stuff. Okay, and nobody or miskeen anyone? Poor, rich, famous unknown. He will give the person set up a profile and said Kim Tom De Niro Mario and he basically asked me to follow him to the show. And he said what do you do every time I see you we go to the market to the soup.

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And what are Turkey for Alabama? You never check the price of any merchandise. You never look to anything that is actually sold on the mall

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while I test and sell out one or two sell them and you don't even ask for the price or anything. When I attend the summit and you don't sit there Why do you go

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Kalia have a button kind of fella who bought Nana Kershaw gala button

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in the manner who do mean edgley salaam Musa Lim Adam alakina he said a man with a big tummy you know because he has a tummy he said a

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man with a tummy

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we go to the market just to give sentiment to people and he said well I go to the market I have no reason to be there except that I see so many people. So I give so many setups and I get so much

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hats how they cared about also when it comes to giving Salaam Mansoor initiative Salaam among spreading Salaam and to see the ceramica elimine Hahaha, thank you send your Salaam to people not present in front of you.

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Like what? Like I asked Amar on you see my daughter Sala give her my setup.

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Okay, I said for example to brother out there when you see him or give him Salaam and tell him where he is. Why didn't come

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you know your son. So basically give Sunnah.

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And it is a moment of Rahim Allah Khan. Will you send Nova to salami ramen Habang it is sooner to give Sam to those who are not present in front of you. Also, it is set up to send a text message a text message matassa and I said as salaam alaikum

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you know, just he's not in front of me but I send him or I write in a piece of paper and I email it to someone like in the old days. Okay. And by the way, if someone asked you to deliver the salon, you must deliver the salon because

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Allah tala said Ah in ally moto comm and to Abdul amanat illa Allah Allah asked you to fulfill that Amana the trust that's why I hate it when someone I always say no somebody's coming I'm coming here somebody said give Salaam to my brother and sisters in Houston excuse me

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that's gonna have to see you know this person give you something I said no. You have to be specific because if I said yes and except that it became like I'm on on me to deliver to every Muslim I see or I meet in Houston some people give you this weird request. Okay?

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Also from the Sunnah, then when you give Salaam and listen and when you reply to the Salaam you say it out loud. come upon, no pain can do you will jack Ruby ceram the way the person gives salami said out loud, not like sometimes I give salon and you

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know say it out loud. Pilar Abdullah neuroma edessa lambda esmil farinata here tomo Baraka Tompa when you give Salaam or respond to send them make it hurt, it's a blast.

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Okay, can even hedge offer him a whole lot? When he then he can? Like definitely send me some raw when you start up on Jehovah that's why you don't see it secretly unless you're on the prayer or maybe you know you or you are in a situation where you cannot say it out loud. But

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if I wanted to hear my response

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if I wanted the sun that is to say it out loud so you can hear it shut up Ramos pick on me on this. So I put it here just because he always picked on me on this

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and they found his point is valid.

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I have a habit that I don't write while a competitor Sam. When somebody emailed me or somebody sent me a text message said I'm on a call. I don't try to I because I say all those while he was sent out

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I said it verbally but I don't write it.

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But I was reflecting upon what the Sunnah is to make the person hear your response. So it would be also good for him to see your response in writing.

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Okay, so any I just put this only because of you.

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Carson Annie, if somebody send you said I'm in a paper, you must respond to it.

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If somebody send you ceramica paper and you read it or on an email, he said while a call center so many people don't pay attention to this by the way. You sent he read it but he never say when he comes salami and in your text message in WhatsApp Sonnambula said from this hadith we learn that you must say welcome Sam. Because Sam wotja respond to the Salam is wajib and Mifflin Rahim Allah said if he sends you a Sam in a in a letter or he send you send them from behind the wall you should say why they come send them even if he doesn't hear you. Even if he couldn't hear you. You said respond by saying well how did he come? I sent him

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if someone give you sent him from a distance like I come to him and I tell him by the way, your friend saw and saw your friend

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I was gonna

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your friend son saw give you Sam

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Abubakar from MK from Makkah, give you some how he should respond.

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I get the pleasure to meet you know.

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For example, Abdullah chef, sister and mK

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hypothetic. And as I'm your sister give you set out

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how he should respond. She says salaam aleikum

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you respond by saying What?

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You have options. You can say while he has said he has said you give something back to her and the proofer that actually allow on her.

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Panel hanabusa solemn Yeah, she had a gibreel yo creo que Salam. This is jabril giving you Sam for carnate where are they his Sam? What I am at a law here about a character.

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Well it is Tara Mata Rasul Allah. You see what I can see. So she said, Well, la casa rahmatullah wa barakato

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But I found it interesting to see across the board you can you can eat Bachman at an unknown party used to have visited the salon

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and to sell them and a lady sell them at a lake one lady also like a celeb, the LMS said you give Sam to to, to the person who's in who send us around, and the one who deliver it to you. So you say alika alayhis salam salam to you and to her Salaam to her and to you you both okay. And they know your Rahim Allah said that and all the

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point is based on a hadith incident widowed but this hadith is very weak Hadith as a no he himself said that. Remember him Allah said somebody give you said I'm so and so give you some so he said at a colada his sin upon you and upon him. I sat down and he said that's what's been narrated from the prophets of Allah haka and in the beats of Allah.

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And Narada Allah who in abeokuta salam Takata solimar Salah Mariko Ana de Vika Salam Salam upon you and your father, but this

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nsmt Malik said

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avenues Americana in a model Allah Sudan Santa Maria Jimenez passed by kids he gives him some kids, children, young and he said can be so salami Fado. In Nevis, I'm used to give syrup to the children. So make sure when you pass by kids, you give them some so the Learn from early stage that they give something to one another. Also an S map and to z that are the allow Anna pirate Marina rasulillah salam Fini, swattin vessel lemma Elena in Ibiza Sallam passed by us by a woman and he said Assalamu alaykum to the woman he gives them that's why it is permissible to give Salaam to woman but make sure that you give some time to woman for the right intention and in the right way because some

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people Mashallah you see Dr. Ashraf is in Santa Monica. And you see a sister Sonic?

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I mean, why is Fox Santa Monica man Harris's? sonica? Like, some kind of data. Why?

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Why would you like start like flirt with his life? You know, and one of the worst thing

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you're both

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in so

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many improper Dean leetonia

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one of the worst thing to do is to use the dean, the religion, for your own desires, to use Islam to fulfill your desires. Use a Sunnah

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to basically to hit a woman or to be a player. I'd say so evil.

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Don't use it. Do whatever you want.

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That's very wrong. Play. What about the opposite woman giving ceram to men

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and omiana and been to Allah, Allah, Allah rasulillah salam Hamad fast forward to your tests in order to ignitor who wanted to find a meta meta Who?

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I found Fatima holding a curtain and covering the process Ellen White is taking a shower for Salim to add a I said a Salam aleikum. Carmen Howdy. Who's this? I said, This is me. Hannah been to a party. Then in the visa car model haben the omiana Welcome, Oh, man. It

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also shows you that you're allowed to say to woman gifts and unto men.

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Can you say more than one barakato salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. Can I say more than what can I say extra? About our cattle monferrato what is one? Wha wha

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wha temporary cattle. I can add whatever you want.

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Allah Subhana Allah said, for how you will be asked in a minute.

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When you respond, respond with better respond. So if you say Salaam Alaikum I say why do

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you say What about a cat? But what do you say about a cat? What do you do?

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what about a cartoon is the cut off. When he then kind of bask in TAs and albaraka. They've been ambassade A Salaam ended by the Baraka to know more.

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Okay, and even Omar or the Allah and a man came to him and he said As salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato monferrato. sakara. Omar has spoke in about a cat in about a cat. Stop at about a cat don't add any more in offering or responding.

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an aroma Kyle intense

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Assalamu alaikum wa barakato salaam ended add robotic cat. But to be honest with you there is also plenty of narrations from the Sahaba they added more than robotic cat

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model have been widecombe ceram rahmatullahi wa barakatuh Alhaji Otto Rihanna hot

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yeah and the day and night

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and also one he said, What are ye salvati? He added

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Okay, maybe if you added one time, it's okay. But you should not add it in a consistent base more than robotic cat. The only thing that I would say the word Murphy urato came in a hadith it showed him Allah said unto setubal Hassan that to fill in the responses woman Pharaoh to There is also another narration what is why no, but it's much weaker than the first one but also middle fellow to order the one if you add the concept together it shows you that this is allowed to add but I will feel more comfortable because that's what has been recorded from the majority of the generations that you end with Bala cattle they initial assumption if you meet your gifts and

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is this applicable to what if I meet someone who is younger than me? Do I give him Sam or the younger one give me Santa.

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You see illawarra him Allah said it doesn't matter. You whoever start first is the best.

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So even if he's younger than you, you still give him set up. They can you repeat the Salah?

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Can you repeat it? Like let's say we walking me and you said I had a lot? Then we want to the car. Okay, you get into the car. Maybe one of these cars like like Mohamed Saad has his car, you know, he has to get inside then he unlocked the door for you to get and it's not like one of these fancy cars where you just from a distance unlock all the doors, you know? So on one of these like cars, that's where you have to go all the way and you know, do it like Alphonse car for example. Yeah. To reach out and to manually Oh, so by the time you get into the car, can you see assalamu alikum

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You see? Can you do that?

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Let's say me and you were talking Sri Lanka. I got a phone call. So I'm answering the phone call. I finished with my one phone call. Okay, and I turn off the phone. Then I go back to talk to you. Can I say Assalamualaikum

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so there is a Fossum Zamani. Oh fossil mechanic? The answer for this

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Hello nebia salaam sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he sent me the route is Allah pa lucam Sahaba who produce lmra when you meet your friend give him Santa Fe and Hannah Bina who Mashallah LG dar through malatya hopefully Salim Ali

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and separated by a tree or a wall. Okay, then you meet him again you give him sent out. That's why Anna said canals have also allowed the problem companions, you walk together and if there is a tree or you know something, separate them from each others and be when left and right. Then they meet again. They give some time to each other's again. So a time like a short period of time like a phone call, for example. Also,

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I came to them

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as salam aleikum wa rahmatullah. Okay. Then I went and I prayed sinner, then it came in a set here, can I say Assalamualaikum? Again,

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that's a period of time separated from the first time to the second sun up. And no matter how Allah said, Yes, what's the proof? The proof is the story of Moses allottee the man who known as the one who didn't know how to pray properly, the Tinder be so solemn time A man came, and he missed it was Sunday. He came and he prayed and he came to the process after he finished the praise it as salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah in Ibiza, Salim said, Go back, repeat your prayer. So he went and he prayed. Then he came back just he's sitting here and he prayed there. Then he came back and he said what a Salaam Alaikum again and in Ibiza Salam said you didn't pray go three times. So in the be approved

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him repeating the Salam every time that he came back and that's

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my dad. What is not right, that you are in the same gathering. You didn't leave, nothing happened, no separations.

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I need to just keep cinematic. I give you an example. And this has happened a lot. Now we have a gathering and we say I would like to know everybody's name.

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Then Aqua will say Samadhi calm My name is Aqua

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there is no new point it's a very common thing. Have you noticed that it's a very complex a lot Aiko is

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actually here

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in Nabi sallallahu Sallam order us to give Salaam to those who we know and those who don't know, it Massoud said that the prophets of Salaam said in them in Ashanti sell an akuna salam O Allah Allah Marika

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all the sun of the Day of Judgment you only give Salaam to those who you know.

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We have to finish

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stop here because I still have about 16 points

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related to us in America.

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So yeah. Do you want it? We can skip it next class. We can skip that. 16 points.

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Next not next week. Yeah, unless you want me to skip it. But I thought it's very practical points. Like some of the Yeah, we'll end here. I thought there's only two left but no, that is 16 left.

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Then another one we're going to talk about

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the rest of the heads all this only in common on the pole. And the reason is Allah petofi. Salim Ali,

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you know, in Hades, that's one part of the signs of honey, there's just is too much is so many things you can learn from it. You know, and, and I always believe a tsunami is one of the most amazing

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concept in Islam. There's so much rules and rules in relation to it.

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And one of the things that we challenge next week we'll talk about there is many things has to do with Salon in salons and outside the salon. Somebody's praying how he can answer this and I'm so far as salaam to non Muslims and all these kind of things. We'll talk about a shell on next week, and we'll talk next week about the rest of the Hadeeth the other five pillars, maybe it will take us two more weeks to finish them. But the good thing is the other Hadith about Salaam which is going to come next, we're not going to go in details like this because we've covered so much already in the first half.

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In my years in college I wrote or IE,

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I attend to Kate.

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A paper that's written by Bill Payne, Brahim Omar, about assalamu alikum. And in that paper that he wrote is about 100 issues related to us and America.

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And if you are interested in seeing it's more than 100 points he mentioned, if you're interested to read it, it's published and it's part of a book called by diode for wide,

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wide and it's part of it. It's about

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over 160 pages, something like that. It's a very interesting papers that you wrote to him online. Anybody