Channel: Tim Humble
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and the topic of
this evening Sharla is a topic which
I get asked about from time to time
if we were discussing
the topic of our children's education,
There are all sorts of responsibilities and opportunities.
So I mentioned
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give you an increase in wealth.
notice to the
I'm sure you're caught up to it.
There are opportunities
for us as individuals and their opportunities
at large, as an opportunity for us as individuals,
in the afternoon
or when the child goes out and grabs
time and effort and quality
you spend a
huge amount of
from all over the world from
a pious child that will continue to teach
and family traditions
that will continue.
when the people rejected
given permission to be given a choice, if you wish
to take the mountain
overlook the harms the key
is for you.
of people who wish
NGO of the city rejects
so much corruption and brushed it off, but the hope is that something better will come from them
for the future.
that will change
to take care of children. We don't want to be asked to
leave that place until you're asked about our responsibilities. And one of those responsibilities.
We have to bear in mind
our children have a particular place in
Our lives, especially taking our children can either be a huge
investment asset. But like any investor, they can also turn sour.
Like when you invest in a business, it can be really annoying need to lose a lot.
They can feel
they can gain you.
Judge, it seems to
me and he's told that this team
the good deeds that his childhood and his children before him, released his rank in
the US as
The corrosion of children the problem of
continuous monitoring is
extremely, extremely important that we deal with the topic of our children.
Talk about today is the topic of education, because education plays a massive role in the success of
our children, versus the huge part of our
our children's education.
And there are two major problems that I want to address that most people ask
a lot of people say, how do you reconcile
the desire for us to have pious children and the need for our children to have an education
in terms of the world?
Lots of people ask this question,
are some of the major problems that people are suffering with their children's education today and above
problems that we face
and we face
regardless of the type of school
subsystems are better,
these two problems are the heart of the issue.
the content and the environment. So the content of what our children learn
in school, where they learn things that are incompatible,
or things that will harm
history could be learning out issues of interest
in many Western countries,
it could be
about other religions, it could be
things that distract them of the religion,
all of these are problems with the content of what our children
and what is the content
knowledge to teach them
and it was
an It was a teacher for sure, of course, this is the
content of things that we
to deal with the environment. And
this is unexplored in the world.
is still surrounded by other people and the people influence
your teachers influence for the children's teachers influence the children's friends influence, environment,
is great to
talk to you about some of the differences
for teaching children, Islamic schools, homeschooling, we're going to talk about all these things.
But one we have to deal with these topics is
you have to deal with the problem of environment, you have to deal with the problem of the content that you're going to agree to.
But I want to start with those.
To the parents. So many parents are living in a state of
a state of calm on a list of all exposed to children learn what
they think because they simply
just do it.
Under the current developments,
come from some of the best astonished at how we have seen
in terms of
their involved in
gonna tell you the best of the best Islamic schools
and we know that these kids are into drugs and alcohol, and we've been watching pornography
16 years until your kids from the age of 10 years old.
Just three weeks ago, I came across a situation
from a kid probably 12 years old.
particular child was looking
a lot of people.
once you think about the case
viral are schools in the UAE whose primary purpose is to spread the message of atheism and
so is top 100 and there's tools
the last six months
10 cases of children have become a
16 years old
16 years old.
So we need to
we need to solve this
Tell me about what
are the most important cases I have
he is friendly
for the kids swear.
So, we have to
we have to remember
need to come to the rescue to attend the summit.
So we have to wake up
with a serious issue
it can affect
it can affect
the content and
distribution of the
So, I'm going to talk
about children's education
to take control
of our children's life
for our children's
children's education, teachers
but it means taking
too many people, we outsource our children's education, first of all,
to the shapefile
we switch off the TV and we see
the TV and we'll
about what it was
we outsource our children's education for the internet to whatever is the target whatever
child picks up the most dangerous time
teachers time is
by the time they try to huge percentages
So the first mistake is not apply.
Because those are the formative years
of the likes and dislikes and the majority opinion is often a source
of complex thoughts.
Complex the most simple
and simple likes and dislikes of holding a very young age.
So, we have to be careful about that
then we outsource our children's education to
whatever is in the house or a grandparent or whatever it is you're
doing somebody else
a few hours
ago, we sent
them to the school we don't.
So, this is
is the stuff out of our children's education to
responsibility for a project
and you start treating your children's education the same way
teacher, kids which which
music producing songs
What have you achieved, how are you progressing?
What can you do to
and to do this
something very, very important and that is your
friendship with your children.
are friends and
they will tell you about the
two weeks later
you have to break through that barrier of that false impression
too many people, they like to teach their children to tell them what they want to hear. Did you create it? Yes.
Because you want to hear it and you just want a very good
grade. Did you pray today? Yes.
I was playing with my friends. okay to
do something to stop this happening in the shop.
I must say
What is the benefit, we have
got to teach your children
you have really big problems, we have the problem of the content, we have the problem of the environment, we have to deal with the content.
I personally believe there are lots of
my school is not teaching
mathematics and science and physics.
But when it comes to this topic,
another practical content to read
is talked about content is essentially one solution. When it has varying degrees of severity, or varying degrees of implementation.
This solution is
curricular for your child to fall.
For your child for
an extended time, you will have to close the child and in English is not a standard curriculum.
So if we look at the best example of this best example,
you say a huge amount of the curriculum.
I think everybody needs to go and sit down and
watch to teach my child
you want to pass on to your
students have a teacher
meaning you just want to teach them about the deep
American curriculum in Sharjah, and one specifically for my children
who has what they teach their children.
Now let's dig into yourself
and see if
I can give you
what I teach.
is to stop taking an effort to teach them what is
that has a quality curriculum.
So 70% 60% so the money we want
for yourself. Want to call
sort of a weekend or a holiday break. Just starting to teach yourself.
you have to say
able to challenge us,
you're going to find it
very disheartening to get
finding is not at all.
But instead what we find is a lot of clever
marketing today people believe in
the challenging market.
So it's incredibly important that when I see control,
to homeschool my eldest child,
and he was interested in schooling.
For years, he was homeschooled.
And I saw
a distress in his friends in the deep end, he was only 2767 out of
approximately six years old, seven years old, I saw it. So it doesn't have to be the change. But I can't,
I can't just take on school, and let all the kids in the house.
So I'm going to stop
Good. So I said I'm gonna
I'm gonna base education on the British National Cricket
that I feel are compatible with this
curriculum with our
And then we start
counting to 10.
child is capable of counting backwards.
Now you are aware
and you're able to find the things which are not able to challenge it.
child can direct your child to what to do after a while,
on the weekends
or holidays, or holidays.
Sitting down, we made a separate area.
I teach them in the same way that
you have to be
basic, basically these are these are the
two options, number one.
Number two, and this is the best way
to learn yourself and teaching
to sit down with a whiteboard.
students with the
is something else.
And that is that the relationship between you and your child was
like a strong relationship because you're spending time to get
is decision I've ever made in my child's education by the grace of Allah
how they progressed, and this issue
the sexual content and if you go online
1000s of websites
to pay $5 for
and then start taking control of my kids education
from the beginning of the story
at least even if you just spent an hour or two hours a week sitting with a boy
I'm talking about how to improve it how to progress
across areas number one is
your child improved improves massively.
And this is where
you will see your
instead of just reading a tree to bring somebody up, bring somebody
And you see
from the teacher
without relationship the parent child relationship
so you teach your children
education you don't know what
the content which is obvious
from the school, which takes less
time high quality
because I teach my child myself
in an English,
or I've got people involved or
you could pull together resources. You don't couple of parents together. What have you seen in Allegheny pull your resources together to help each other work together?
I just love to challenge the things that are wrong with the educational
There's no one
But the answer is simply
take control. And then from there, so have
a great day grades, the certificates. We really love this.
I was just asked to do a simpler example while while all of our students
just to get to attend a meeting with entrepreneurs.
Look at the state of education. University College dropouts
didn't complete their college work. Don't have a piece of paper to support.
You can't even get a job
except that you can do
is the only thing
While you're still
developing my childhood
stop thinking outside the box
about the way that
I'm just giving you an example of how this concept is you have to have x to get y
for the children is the
is the most ridiculous statement.
This very nice article by a
he just shows a picture of a college kids drinking,
and they will not be
able to see
everything. This is just how you're
issue the context. And now
I just want to emphasize the need to succeed see a chance
the status quo. You have to be willing to see what
says, as everybody else, you have to be willing to see, what if?
What if I do my child?
What if I told my child English? What if I did
like everybody else?
And so thinking outside the box? What if?
What if I didn't call everybody else?
And then you surprise the answer to my client, you might suck like sitting
But you have to be willing to ask yourself
questions that other people don't ask
you know why I'm doing this, you know, your child needs to do this.
You need to think outside the box, you need to challenge the stereotypes,
think about differently, and only then will be
able to solve this problem.
So, we thought we should
now have a short environment.
Now some people might write
environments is something
that hasn't been affected by
But still they have siblings, they have cousins that have made they have you know, still you still got to understand the environment.
Number one, give them a cookie
give them the best possible opportunity.
You also feel the input the
possible environment. And
when you say why.
Why is it
The best of the
is not an option.
But you still have a choice of what environmental protection
you have a choice of
kind of environment for kids to take for granted.
the best Islamic schools
the world want
anyone has to make to people who don't want
give the best.
Number two, we mentioned this too,
they're not doing something harmful because they
to be very good with technology.
Like I'm up to date in college, but still
communication before sending messages, but like, it's just like foreign key.
So you have to know all you have to be aware of how you communicate,
to shop, but at the same time,
you don't use
history from time to time.
I'm just telling you
have the computer
in the living room
access to a tablet,
or a tablet, even places where
they can do
so you don't need it.
the past perhaps things have gone on
to communicate with each other.
So again, don't be shy about the Empire
and then find a suitable
control the environment, that you do have some authority.
So you might not have the authority to your child,
So if you can't change it,
you can definitely influence that
when you start to see the risk and have an effect
Saving Time for my children
environment to choose
you wish to experience at school
you get into a situation which is not very good.
We will look at how this is kind of stuck in school
you never know what the problem is someone situations
and teachers alike
too many parents bring their children to
reading, don't even know.
But that's teaching you and not teaching.
So it's extremely important that you try
teaching is not
an easy thing to do.
the role model, or the example you set
the example you set
if you're teaching
people instead of
environment is that
your local or
Do you about
just go and see,
So you give them options if I do a phone call right here does not make sense.
And I think you see this issue of education.
Maybe the best
way that our students are very religious, it's not really that often given the opposite of yours to our children. It's not really because our students are free that we can't control their friends. This is also
that suggestion, I can't do this.
I just want
to see if you see the glass is half full instead of half empty.
To improve the situation. There's lots of very simple changes you can make which will instantly improve
also seek this situation of wondering,
when do you stop five,
become pregnant after time to start from where how we can educate our children?
How are we gonna mitigate some of these negative
issues that exist.
I'm a big fan of
But no one can take control of their children. And if you want to ask them, to the challenge for
everybody to be more of an active parent instead of someone who's involved in what their kids are doing every day,
someone knows what they're watching what they're listening to, or wanting
to control their principal.
And through this process, when you're striving for the same robot, the licensure helps opens the door, to be able to do things.
So this is a topic, which I think is extremely important.
I think it's important
more or less.
And it's a problem in almost every country in the world.
So we have to start with unique solutions. We can't wait until the perfect Islamic school next door, find us with amazing teachers and amazing children, when no one has anything except
this utopia is not going to happen. So you can't keep waiting for it. Maybe next year, maybe next year, make the best
you listen to your children, spend time to learn from the teacher
and ultimately, take control.
So to be able to influence your child's education in the way other people
like your their likes and dislikes, and drivers, just like your influence to
education. And like I said, I believe
you will drive your children to excel again.
And I have two of them.
One is it. What is experience, experience tells us that when you are more involved in a child's education,
the child has academic freedom celebrates
want to teach
a local teacher how
to your children. So as long as you teach them what
to do everything
as well as being an investment for you. In
other words, the highest child continues to teach to you even after you pass. So this is
a big topic.
I think it's something that has to do. And I hope it's something that will inspire people to go on for themselves of themselves and find their own ways.
I mean, the last step
I'm constantly changing and constantly changing.
The things I teach wherever I go, anything is happening. So these are not the timing
methods, whether they need to
edit or whether it should things always change.
One of the benefits
and I hope this lecture has answered some questions
For those of you asking me about how we get started in homeschooling, I hope that that also answers some of those questions as well.
You want to take a few questions from the viewers.
just talking to people might have some interesting
Your child was the pilot.
If you want to chat with your child's pilot pilots, it's not possible to do that except with
Like, for example, if you want to be a doctor, if you want to be a doctor in a short amount of time,
there are two answers the
Child lost, even to juggle,
do we really want to encourage this is the best job
because sometimes people literally go back to work.
So ask the question. The second thing is, do you really need to go through the process?
As long as
there are other ways to do research on how other people
involved, the same thing is
whether please minimize the problems which
so for example, I went against my university, what they want to do, but I don't need to send them to school right now. Because the way the British system that
is no different.
what's the most important case?
But if you look at the psychology of
child psychology, you're worried about the child's age
by 18, because
I need to finish
a responsible for souls. So
Because it's very rare to get people telling me I have to do this to do that.
Traditionally, people say, for example, to this
the best out of it.
How do we choose to
improve? For example, could they go to the university for a distance where they have to be there with the people and
for example, all
the pilots in
America for example,
start questions are asking instead of just taking on board and you start looking at how I can get the best out of that situation and learn about the skills of being a pilot for example.
Okay, climate is something very specific, but it's based on
it's based on
After the various branches of economy, geometry and all these other
the pressure and all these other things that
in the scene
so, maybe the final step
you will need schools
these institutions and universities, but ultimately it's up to you to sort of decide how to make
and to ask as many questions as possible
and to try to get the best out of the situation possible. And I want to see why First off, and the reason why I asked the question when why they want to do that is because I believe that the best way to mold your child's career is to start with
should be an accountant
until they become an accountant
insurance terms of career advice
that involves loss of
which evil father is
giving an example of something
you can apply to anything so when he says
lot of us often have to compromise in other parts of
because it's got prestige because you
sometimes the answer is surprise. Sometimes you saw
how I don't know what to charge for this.
Because this has the best chance
in a way that is suitable for that person.
And you will
be surprised at the results.
minutes from the Chocolate Factory that he sent to get
we'll think about what it is that
are quite interesting for boys going out for meals for example, and especially when you build stuff getting eight, nine years old.
The walls fully insulated, it gets really loose.
I think God's voice of goodness.
I think it's a misconception that other boys,
Men and women out there we do
and those qualities are needed The child takes differently
So when I talked about
the system as well as the root cause of
my case, it's a collaborative effort.
Between me and my wife, for the boys
because the girls,
think no one voice, voice and
a voice to be successful in our voice.
getting the mother involved of sending letters to the toxic mother
in the way that she starts to believe that she did it the way that she
from the outside,
walking around, it's pretty good to
that's the end.
How can you advise against
very, very common tools?
A lot of
because it's accepted,
accepted in British culture in the US and Canada.
do you have a passport from a country that doesn't recognize this week? So we feel that it can be about this.
I think this is to us.
First of all,
the first one
come to believe that
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have to believe that it's not
We believe in our success of all those people.
try our best even
mainly because our kids our school costs because like you said,
we have to try our best. That's the first thing
we try to
are some people who did this before everybody else
But they were the people who set out this thing, we're gonna come up with an
example of not taking things for granted by Charles
unless you have other ideas and options, and let's look at what other people are experiencing.
And the third thing is just because
I'm not seeing each other.
I believe that insurance is a penalty
they come up to,
so for these people to receive me the best portion.
until I sort
out the problem, and that sort of answers.
But it's a sauce that either allow me to
recall opportunities, and don't just resign yourself to whatever else
should be shut up.
Focus economy percent, to 20%
to 10%. The
rest of us. And I really believe that if people don't care about education, even if we separate the worst school in the world, it would still be better if we weren't able to see your file awareness. And we would just give you the
opportunity to sometimes intertwine. And that's why I'm one of those people who couldn't use it anymore.
But I just believe that everybody has to
take control to do their best to
get the most out of the circumstances, they're in their minds to opportunities that might present themselves one way or
Can you recommend some of the institute's or websites you have experienced as for your students?
these certificates will be
amazing media, just to be honest.
But these websites,
they should provide your
The country that was in,
in the UK,
exam in your
In many cases, the
higher the higher quality.
But in the UK, the US economy is no good.
So you teach your child how to sell and then you send them to their school for
now, I'm going to explain how this works.
Because that's like,
when I don't even know how groups work is not possible, something that you might accept foreign students as an external factors. So for example, check it out. Is it possible for me to send my child a British passport to school in the US to
Sweden, France was your visa.
These websites they provide the curriculum, they provide worksheets that provide lessons and teach you how to teach your children to the goals. They will examine your children
certificates will be the cause of
the problem of the country you live in a
which accepts foreign students as
it's appropriate to start homeschooling and go on until age or a certain grade and then pretend
it's not the person is not from the acceptability of school all the time.
Is it appropriate to experiment with something
very, very different set of books, it is appropriate to homeschool my child and then later on, put them into into a regular school, for me got options. And if you couldn't do this,
I didn't give you examples.
To change the system, I don't want that. That's not practical in the world especially.
It's just not practical. So they leave my country, the last Asian except my child for me just for 12 years.
So I'm your host to my challenge to them, and then put them into a trust that has a
very good environment to work very hard and very good
at every option, so
for me what I've learned from this and helping parents with this,
your property is worth to the
child, for your country for your certificate that you want for that, and that's something that you have, but then again,
from beginning to end, which automatically for me
are taking off, taking them off.
And then putting them back in all of these options
are no positive
to your child.
My name is
you will find our children 2222 years old, they need to get married, and they're telling me to get married. But you're not you're not tuned into the signal until the end of something which is power.
So it's important.
What are the experiencing? What? What are they doing?
You don't even need to contract your child to school tomorrow. Maybe they're 1617.
But at least
you're getting by right?
why don't we do this?
On this course on your college in your first year, second year.
And certainly our
target 17 we're not
going to be attached
to a strong connection.
But the difficulty says no. When you finish your PhD and you know you get your job then you can get back to your house to get back to
the parents working with the children.