Taleem al Quran 2012 – P12 123D Tafsir Yusuf 25-35

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and they both raced to the door is double or they both raced scene back off subaqua is to get ahead is Tabacos to race because in a race what's going on? Both people are trying to get ahead of one another. So basically when she called him use of race and I'm said no and he wanted to get out of that situation, so he went towards the door but as he raised to the door, she followed him. Can you imagine how difficult it must have been for use of our listener?

He raised to the door and she followed him and she grabbed him and he still didn't stop he still ran. And in that process what happened? What caused that and she tore come you saw with Sherman Dubin from the back because she got hold of him. He didn't stop there. He still ran and when he ran because he was holding his shirt. What happened? The shirt got ripped as he moved forward. We'll cut that Musa home and Uber in what URL fire and they both found say either her her say hit her master meeting her husband led Al Bab here the door. They both found her husband by the door he was right there. Alpha is from land farewell. And it is to find someone or something unexpectedly. You weren't

looking for them. You just find them unexpectedly. She locked all the doors and made sure that nobody was home. And what happened they both found her husband by the door.

Now she was in love with him so called Love what happened. Call it she said marriages out oh, what should be the punishment of men are all the BS Lika sue one of the one who intends with your family evil.

Look at him. She's saying basically look at use of he's trying to do something evil with me. He's trying to do something wrong with me. Basically, she's accusing us of various anime of sexually harassing her. She says mergers out woman or other be Alika, Sue and Illa except a US Jenna that he should be imprisoned from surgeon surgeon is prison or that one Aleem or a painful punishment. This was her so called Love Was it love?

Was it love? If it was love what you accuse him like this? Would you be angry like this? No. Because true love genuine love that makes you generous and forgiving.

But lust

is what? It's your selfish desire. It's a person selfish desire, that doesn't make them generous. That doesn't make them forgiving, that makes them selfish. And if they are refused, they get angry. And when they get angry, they want to take revenge. They want to take revenge. So she also tried to take revenge because he refused her.

And it was very upsetting for her that he refused her. So she blamed him.

What does this teach us that many times people will try to tempt you in the name of love.

They will tell you, you're very different and can't stop thinking about you. And it'll like subtle messages here and there. And you're like, Oh, I'm blushing. Oh, it's so awkward stuff with the law. But you know, it happens.

I'm sure you know what I'm talking about. You all go to school, university work and you come across people from whom you get this kind of awkward vibe. And you also hear such inappropriate words or messages, you know, that are hidden or that are slipped through in different ways. People try to lure you in the name of love, but remember is their sexual lust. It is their sexual lust. They don't necessarily love you for the person you are.

They just want to satisfy their own desire through you,

Simon I remember once Yasir qadhi, he was addressing a group of ladies after one of the Al Maghrib classes and one sister had a question for him about somebody who was so interested in her and but wanted to keep it such a secret. And mashallah Yasir qadhi. He addressed all the ladies and he said, My sister's men are like wolves. So be careful.

Coming from a man kind of makes sense. I remember as, as children. I grew up in Pakistan, and there are a lot of flies over there. A lot of flies. Do you see flies over here these days? Okay, so multiply that by maybe 10 times in certain places in Pakistan, so a lot of flies. So, you know, whenever my mom would tell us don't

So, so close to a man or, you know, be careful about whom you shake hands when we were young little, but still, she had to protect us. Because over there, I mean, you interact with so many men, especially when they're in the house also as servants or as workers. No, we had very, very strict rules, very strict rules. And we all understand. And one day, she said, Men are like flies.

What does that mean?

They know what flies do. They go where there's something to get, there's some food, they will just go enjoy it, and move on.

They will go enjoy it and move on. You want to protect yourself, you're not an object of enjoyment, that people come and they look at you, or they're talking to you, and they are touching you. And they are thinking about you in a filthy way. You don't want to be that object. Never. And you need to protect yourself just as you protect yourself from such creatures. You need to protect yourself from the looks of others. Also,

how do you know when a guy does like you? Or has those kind of creepy feelings not creepy, but natural men feelings towards you.

Any idea?

Anyone would like to explain? Come on, I think it's quite obvious. When someone's trying to be like extra talkative towards you,

you know, that you want to put your guard on, when they're asking you repeatedly for your phone number. All of a sudden, they're following you on Twitter, and all of a sudden, they're also on your Facebook, and they're liking everything that you write, there's gotta be something going on. I guess it depends on the age group. But like, if they're at a reasonable age group, they would probably approach your dad or a Willie. But it's not even just the age group. It could be men. It could be big men, it could be boys as young as 1314 even

go could be very young could be old, you will need to protect yourself, inshallah inshallah have also we learn about what kind of distance to maintain. I'm sure you guys watch TV, and you see how people talk to each other when they're interested? Don't you know? Don't you see that all the time? Don't you see that at school don't do that at work, how someone's getting like, overly talkative and hyper and excited and very happy around someone. And as soon as they come in, they get like super conscious. Come on.

It's quite obvious. And why should it get to that stage anyway? Protect yourself from the for.

I was listening to this lecture by Sheikh Hamza Yusuf. And he was talking about, you know, like, being able to, you know, say no, and, you know, protect yourself. And he was talking about one of his teachers, who was at this, you know, really important meeting thing with like, the UN, and like, there were like people from all over, and they had to go around and shake hands with like the other people from other countries. And so at that time, you know, he was really like, I don't know what to do. And he was shaved, there were a woman as well. So he was shaking. And then there was this one woman, and she was from Chechnya, and she was a Muslim woman. And at that time, when he put his hand

out, and she was like, No, I'm not going to. And at that time, that was like a shock for him. Because, you know, he felt like he couldn't do it. And this woman did. And so basically, you know, you should be able to say no, and protect yourself.

I think one of the ways to protect yourself is kind of protect yourself by looking at the friends around you, too, because all the workers are employees, and how they react with guys and men and stuff like that. Because my work actually couple last week, I had a very bad encounter with a couple of my girl colleagues, where they were like, two older men who we have meetings with. They're like, Oh, he's married, but he's my, and I'm like, Whoa, what?

I was just shocked. And I'm like, Okay, you just stay away from me, because I don't want your influence on me. And so that's very true, that you will find people who are much older, but they're going out with people who are much younger than them. So it's not the age difference doesn't really matter much. I mean, think about the age difference between use of a listener and this woman. You will have to protect yourself from every non Muslim man. Doesn't matter if they're your brother in law, doesn't matter if they're your cousin, you've grown up together. If they're your non Muslim, they're your non Marham. They are human beings. They are weak, and it doesn't mean they're filthy.

It just means they're human beings. It's natural for them. I mean, come on, if you're hungry, and there's food in front of you. Are you not going to look at it again and again. Aren't you going to look at it again and again?

You are going to because you want it. So as people grow older, in addition to desire for food, they also have other desires. And if there's an opportunity, they want to fulfill it. So you have to protect yourself. And we see that use of our s&m

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he got out of that situation, and this is something we need to do. Also, if you feel uncomfortable somewhere, you get that sense that this is not going right. Get out of that situation. Go away, walk out of it. Delete that person's contact, block them on Facebook, whatever, do something, get away from them. Let your parents know. You know, your maybe sibling, get their help. Your mother's help your father's help. You know, trust them, and they will protect you. But it's very important that you don't get trapped by other people in the name of their love towards you know, it's a trap. mean think about it. If you subvert us, I'm actually responded. Now with a biller, then what would

happen? Think about how what kind of a life you'd be living a double life first of all, a slave and then not having this kind of freedom and that abuse

that abuse that blackmail? If you don't do this, we'll let the secret out. I'll tell other people about it.

You better listen to me, because this is what people do they abuse others in the name of love and trap them in the sin

so just run refuse from the very beginning. refuse from the very beginning. So use of s&m He ran she ran after him. They both found the man the husband at the door. She accused him and use of artisan um, what did he do? He didn't stand silent. He defended himself Allah he said he or she you allow that near enough. See, she is the one who sought to seduce me.

I didn't do this she tried to seduce me was Shahida shahidul mineralia. And a witness from her family testified in if Cana it was called musu his shirt, put them in Oberlin. If it is ripped from the front facade, then she is truthful. Well, who I mean, okay, they been in he is of the liars.

Because you see who is actually right over here, because both of them are blaming one another. Right? And if you're ever in this situation where two people are blaming one another, and no third person has seen them, there is no eyewitness than what do you need circumstantial evidence, right? So a person from her family meaning the family of the woman, he said that if his shirt is torn from the front, then that means that she is truthful, and he's lying, meaning that he's the one who tried to harm her. And she protected herself. What incana Musa who put them in Dublin, but if his shirt is torn from the back, *a, but then she is lying. Wilhemina saw the pain and he is from the

truthful. Now how is this a circumstantial evidence, it's very logical, because think about it. If he is approaching her, then she's trying to defend herself. And to avoid him, she's pushing him away. And in that process, the shirt gets stolen from the front. But if he's trying to run away from her, and she stops him, then his shirt is going to be ripped from where? From the back. So this was circumstantial evidence. Now what happened, shirt got ripped. And sometimes we get very upset, oh, my bag got ripped, my shirt got ripped. Oh, this happened that happened. But you know what? It's actually working in your favor. The other day somebody was telling me about how they got a rental

car. And their GPS was not giving them the right directions. So they basically got to the airport very late. And instead of just leaving the car, they wanted to go and complain at the desk, about the GPS. So they went complained about the GPS got all the paperwork done. And then finally, after a week later, when they got the charge, they saw that they were double charged for the entire car rental. And they're like, what happened over here? So they called them up. And they said, you know, this is a mistake on your part. And they're like, Do you have any proof?

Do you have any proof that you actually rented the car for only a day? And this was how much the cost was supposed to be? And she's like, yes, actually, I do have paperwork. And how did she get that paperwork? When she went to complain about the GPS, and she would not have gone to complain about the GPS if the GPS was not giving her trouble.

And if she didn't have any paperwork, she would have lost hundreds of dollars. So you see, sometimes we get upset. Why is this happening? Why is it happening? But it's actually working in your favor, another shirt got ripped, but that actually saved us of racism. So what happened for them

Other than when he saw coming saw his shirt put them in Dublin in that it was ripped from the back. Color he said meaning the husband the master as these missiles he said in the home in KD con, this is from your plot your plan meaning you women in the K the corner of him indeed your cage your plot is indeed very great that strong men become helpless before you and lose their senses. If you trap a man, it's very difficult for him to escape. Very, very difficult for him to escape. So your plot is very great, useful article don't have that. Then he said oh use of turn away from this meaning ignore it.

Ignore this, whatever has happened has happened. Don't dwell over it. Just ignore it. Just pretend as if it never happened. And he said to his wife, there are these myths what he said was stealthily them back and you seek forgiveness for your mistake, meaning you apologize to use of because in Nicki condominial Kathleen, indeed you are of the sinful meaning you are at fault. It is your fault. Now are these misheard he realized the truth of use of an s&m statement. And he basically asked him to pass over this whole incident in silence and also asked her to apologize to use of why? Why should he just tell us support isn't him to ignore it? shouldn't use the rally Sam be given justice

over here?

What could have happened at this point, if if he decided to separate the two, he would have to send you some artists send them away oh, by selling him by sending him away elsewhere. But he didn't want to lose use of our listener. At the same time. If he sent his wife away, divorced or whatever, then the whole news would spread. And that would be more difficult for him to deal with.

Yes, and it would give us over the summer very suspicious reputation. So he didn't want this news to spread basically. So he told his wife apologize, and he told us to release I'm just ignored. We'll pretend as if this never happened. But you're seeing these kinds of things. How long can they remain hidden for?

Can they remain hidden for very long? No. So what happened? We'll call on the sweat and Phil Medina, the women in the city they said imra tulasi is the wife of Aziz Tierra widow Fatah, she is seeking to seduce her Fatah. Fatah is young boy, meaning she is trying to seduce her slave or Nuptse from himself meaning she's trying to have relations with him. Or the Chava hooba. Certainly, he has impassioned her with love shall Hoffa from sheen lane for Chava Herban. Basically shafa is the inner part of the heart. So when something penetrates into the heart and just settled there, that is shut off. So Chava hubba he has covered her with love, meaning she is infatuated with him. She's fallen

in love with him. She cannot resist him, but Chava hubba and they said in Elena Raha feel Bolelli Mubin indeed, we see her in a clear error mean, she's crazy. She's fallen in love with her slave.

So this talk is going on. Now women are talking not men.

Do you notice this Miss Watson? Why? Because these women were who of the elite class who had plenty of time, plenty of riches, plenty of you know, Tea Parties, whatever. And when people are free, what do they like to do? Gossip?

Right gossip. And if they've got nothing interesting going on in their own lives, then they have to gossip about celebrities, right? They have to be concerned about the lives of other people, and they have to talk about it. And that's what they were doing. And many times this is what we're interested about. I mean, think about the typical conversations that girls have. I think she's got a crush on him. I think he likes me. I think he likes her. This is what young people are talking about.

And as ever happened with you that some girls they're just obsessed obsessed with boys talking about boys

from like grade six onwards, or maybe grade four even. They're so conscious about who they're sitting next to and know who they're talking to. And the guy is they're just playing their football or they're just playing their basketball and the girls are going on e and talking about them and dreaming about them and getting excited over their name even

these conversations don't be fit decent girls. Really they don't.

They don't

you know one thing that can help you always whenever such feelings come or people you know people ask you so do you like anybody? And if four of your friends they're talking about guys whom they like

How can you feel like the odd one who doesn't have feelings for any guy? Then you have to make something up just to fit in? How you protect yourself in these situations, always think about what kind of a husband do I want?

What kind of husband do I want? When I do get married? Inshallah? What kind of husband? Do I want someone who's had affairs without the grills?

Would you like that? Honestly, tell me. Would you like a guy who's had like three girlfriends?

Would you like that? Or even one? Even if he's got a beard and he goes to the masjid and sometimes he gives a football so at the school, and would you ever like that? That he used to like someone? And he was actually, you know, talking to her also and everything. Would you like such a person for yourself?

Tell me honestly.

Or you don't care. You don't care? Or do you care?

Do you care? You don't care? Do you? Tell me and Sir, your mom is watching you. You're facing me.

Okay,

so what kind of a guy would you like for yourself? Someone who's pure. So you will keep yourself pure

for your husband to

Alright, keep yourself pure. Because you get who you are. You get what you are. Because a hobby set little hobby scene. Whatever you won't let the You bet. Impure women are for impure men and pure men are for pure women. Pure pure go together, impure impure go together. So if you want a pure person, you better keep yourself pure. Also, obviously if someone has done something in ignorance, that is different because soba eradicates what was before. But once a person knows, then they better protect themselves. Phenomena semi I'd be Macrina now when she the wife of rz is when she heard about their MK their plot. Why is this called a plot this gossip? Why is it called the plot? Why were they

gossiping? Why were they saying that? Oh she's fallen in love with him. And she's just crazy to do that. Why were they talking about this because they wanted to see you this use of is Who is this guy? What does he look like? What's so special about him? And many times this happens that people will talk about others just to get more information out. So when she heard about their plot, she made a plot also of a salad la hinda she sent for the meeting she invited them what Arthur that Laguna moussaka and she prepared for them um with DACA what is what Becca? What DACA is from welcome Hamza, which means to recline and look DACA is a banquet, a gathering of couches, where everybody's

sitting, relaxing, sipping on tea, having fun having casual conversations, chilling, basically, so she prepared a mock duck out for them.

And what at that she gave quinoa headed to Manhattan, every single one of those women she gave them sick Kenan a knife.

She handed each woman a knife. And obviously a knife because they needed to cut something. And this shows that back then 1000s of years ago, people use knives. Alright.

So if you're using a knife and a fork to eat, okay, nice, but I don't think you're like really, really cool. So she was she gave each one of them a knife. We'll call it and then she said, Oh, Roger la han, come out on them. She had him come out before all those women, filler metal Aina horns. And when they saw him, Varner, who they greatly admired him, aka Obama is to find something great to be in awe of something. They were like, wow. You know, like they're like, Wow, they were just shocked when they saw use of La Santa because use of La Santa. He was extremely good looking extremely good looking. So they were shocked by his beauty by his looks. But at the same time, his

personality was also that shone through that was very attractive. Because it's not just the looks that are beautiful. It's also the person who they are that you can see through the eyes that attract you. So a Corona who and in that shock, there are knives that just slipped walk Alterna a dionan and they all clap their hands. Not that they cut all their fingers, but that the knife just lit from their hand. And, you know, it's like when you're cutting something and all of a sudden you get startled. You don't realize where your hand is going.

And they cut their hands. We'll call it and they said, How shall Allah perfect is Allah Maha that Bashar? This is not a man in her that Illa Malecon Kareem This has got to be a noble Angel. He's not a human being he's an angel.

You know Hashem Allah. This is basically an expression which means perfect is Allah Allah is perfect. Why did they say this because they were amazed at the beauty of use of ideas. The Prophet sallallahu sallam said about use of our listener, that he was given half of all beauty

has given half of all beauty. Think about all the beautiful, gorgeous people that you've ever seen in your life. Use of Renison was more beautiful than them he was given half of all beauty.

college she said now she addressed her friends and she said further than he can. So that is a lovely that which Lovington any fee you were blaming me about?

You were saying I'm crazy. You're crazy. You caught your hands when you saw him and you blame me. I live with this guy and you think I'm not going to be attracted towards him?

What are kodra what to who are Nuptse? Yes, I certainly sought to seduce him for starsan but he firmly refused is there Assam is to guard oneself to resistor temptation to eat refused. What a Elomi of Alma Amaroo who and if he does not do what I tell him, let us Jelena he is going to be imprisoned. What a Hakuna Mina solvating and he will be of those who are the best. What kind of love is this? This selfish?

She just wants to use him and use a rather Sadam he's protecting himself by refusing her What did he say a call I said Robbie, my lord a sigil the prison a hug booty layer it is more beloved to me. Men may have their own any delay than that which they call me to. Oh my lord, I'd rather go to prison. I don't want to fall in this trap. We're in let us refine me and if you don't turn away from me Kiahuna their plot us Bula hinda I will incline towards them. I suppose from slog bow well and Cebu is to incline towards something sabe is from the same root which is a child and a child is someone whom everyone is inclined towards. He said I will incline towards them I'm weak. I'm a human being.

How long can I protect myself? How long can I fight? Well, comingle J Helene and I will be of those who are ignorant yalla you protect me. Because now the fitna had multiplied before it was one woman hours all the women who were after him.

Just think about it. All the women were after him think about the pressure. He's all alone. He's got no family to go to. In an ocean. He's basically surviving on his own. But he's afraid of his Lord and He says, Yeah, Allah, I'd rather go to prison. So faster Jabba who Rabu his Lord responded to him for sort of foreign who came home and he removed from him their plot in Noho. Samira Aleem, indeed, he's hearing annoying, you protected him how that he sent him to prison.

Allah subhanaw taala saved him from the plot of those women how, by sending him to prison, that some of Adela home then it became apparent to them who the people. So for example, are these missiles. The understood mimbar the model or will if after the saw the signs that last June who had their hand that they should put him in prison for a time, because basically, it became clear to our Z's and his men that use of was innocent. And these women were not going to leave him. They were not going to leave him. So it was better for Yusuf to be away from them. And it was better for these women also to be away from use of that they should be separated, because how long could use of fight. So they

realized that it was better to put use of Rene Simon prison, where he's separated from these women, nobody can see him. And after some time after him when he comes out, hopefully the women should be over this phase. Was it used to really Sam's fault? No, but he was still suffering. And it happens. It's not your fault, but you suffer because of other people

because of them. But don't think that that suffering is going to be forever. It's just temporary. It's just for some time, relief will come. You know, like when you go in a tunnel. When you go in a tunnel, we went to New York recently and we were going through the Lincoln Tunnel so long. Once you're in there for the first time you think you're never gonna get out, especially when there's so much traffic, but then what happens Keep going Keep going gets darker, and it's difficult to breathe. It feels like you're gonna get suffocated. You can smell all the smoke. But then what happens eventually.

Eventually what happens? There's relief. So just keep looking at the end of the tunnel. recitation. what stuck out

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