Taleem al Quran 2012 – P02 025E Tafsir Al-Baqarah 187-188

Hey, Lola come later, cm and Rafa thought Illa Anissa eco. These verses are about the rules of fasting. Previously we learned about when we are supposed to fast

about the obligation of fasting. And if a person is not able to fast, then what should he do? And when is a person not able to fast? So we learned about those rules already.

Now we're going to learn about what is it that is not allowed? When a person is fasting?

What is it that is allowed on in the night?

In the night? Of The Day of the fast, right? So in other words, in the nights of the month of Ramadan, what is the person allowed to do? What is the person not allowed to do until when can he eat from when to when can he eat? So these rules, Inshallah, we're going to learn now, as you know, that when a person is fasting,

what is he not allowed to do?

What is it that will break his fast eating, drinking, and fulfilling sexual desires, right, so sexual intercourse that will break a person's fast it is something that is not allowed.

And before we continue, you might feel a little uncomfortable that we're talking about such things, and that it's mentioned in the Quran. I mean, generally, we don't talk about these things. And you know, we're supposed to be shy and modest and very careful. But the thing is that this is a part of our lives. Okay? This is a part of our lives, just like eating and drinking, for people who are married sexual relations is a major part of their lives. So this is something that cannot be left out. And we know that Islam is a complete religion. And Allah guides us with regards to every aspect of our lives, private or public. So that everything that we do becomes a means of pleasing him. No

action is wasted. No effort is wasted. Every effort draws a servant closer to Allah.

Alright, so when we are studying about such things, yes, it is kind of awkward for many of us, but we shouldn't make a big deal out of it, just treat it as a normal thing. All right, just treat it as a normal thing. Don't be like oh my God, what's this? What's that don't have those smiles and you know, trying to control those smiles not be normal about it. All right. And if there's some things that are beyond your understanding, Given your age, then don't think too much about it. Inshallah, when the right time comes, you will be able to understand it. Okay. Inshallah.

So, Hyndman accumulate at the CML Rafa thought Illa Anissa eco healer, it has been made permissible from Halal her lamb lamb, what is made halal lacO for you, meaning for you or believers, when you're fasting late at asleep early in the night of the fast what is the night of the first we know that in our legend the date changes, when the night comes in not when the day comes, but the night comes. This is why we look at the moon if the moon has been seen has been cited then the next day we will fast alright. So, the 24 hours the day changes when when the night comes in.

So, the night preceding the day when you will fast.

So, from budget he will start fasting before that the night that is Leila the slim.

So, in that night, what is permissible for you a rough fo Isla Anissa eco a Wolfforth is from the root letters off

and Rafa is basically to indulge in the satisfaction of sexual desire. So it is sexual conduct. And it doesn't just refer to sexual intercourse, but any other relationship that is between a husband and wife that is of sexual nature, it is included in a rough birth. So this rough birth is permissible for you meaning intimacy, it is permissible for you ilani say come to your women Nyssa is a plural of Nisswa it means women and a weird refers to wives.

So in other words, the husband and wife are allowed to engage in sexual relationship when in the night in the day it is not permissible, but during the night, it is permissible during the day. If a person does that it will break the fast but during the night it is absolutely permissible. Why is this being mentioned?

We learned that initially, initially, when the commands were being revealed on the Prophet portal

under Saddam for the Muslims. Initially the fasting it was such that if a person slept after maghrib whether he prayed or shot or he did not if he slept even if he snooze for five minutes for 10 minutes, then if he woke up, then he was not allowed to eat, drink or have any sexual relations until the next day meaning until the fast would come to an end, the sunset of the next day.

Initially, this was the rule.

But as we know, it became very difficult for the people we know from a hadith place when Selma Al Ansari, he was fasting one day and he was working in his land, he was a farmer. And when the time to break the fast game, he went home and he asked his wife, do you have any food? And she said, I don't have any but I can try to get you some. And this just shows what a difficult what a difficult life people were living in Medina initially, times were very tough things were very difficult for the people financially. Imagine you go home, after all, they're fast and you find out there's no food.

Imagine, what would you do in such situations? You'd say, Okay, no, I'm not going to fast these days, because we don't have much food. And wherever I can find it, whatever part of the day, I will eat, so I'm not going to fast. But we see that the Sahaba they would still fast.

So anyway, she tried to get some food for him. But he was so tired that before she brought the food, he fell asleep.

And when she came back with the food, she said, Warren to you, did you sleep? Like why did you sleep now you can't eat. Now you can't drink anything.

So that companion, obviously he didn't eat, he didn't drink. And he spent the night like that the rest of the night. And the day of the fast also and the next day he collapsed he fainted. Because fasting is obligatory, he missed his school or his meal or whatever. It was his fault. But if you think about it, he was exhausted. And he just fell asleep. And it's understandable. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam when he found out about that, then after that these verses were revealed that Hillel, ACOEM Laila to CML Rafa who Ilana psycho meaning throughout the night, throughout the night, you can engage in sexual intimacy and obviously, if that is permissible than what else is

permissible, eating and drinking is also permissible. So in other words, that previous instruction was abrogated. It was abrogated. So or Hey, Leila, calm, Leila. docm Rafiu, Isla Anissa, eco. And

especially Allah subhanaw taala mentioned this, that sexual relationship in the night is permissible for you throughout the night of the fast. Why? Because Holy basil lako, what untimely vassula 100. This is a feminine of home. Home is masculine and Hoonah is feminine. So who means they're meaning men and Hoonah means their meaning women, so your wives, in other words, they are Lieberson lecan, they are a garment for you. They are clothing for you Lamba seen what I'm Tom and you all men are Lieberson. You are garments for hula Hoonah for them meaning for your wives. In other words, the husband and wife, their relationship is very, very close. And Allah subhanaw taala describes it like

clothes like garments.

If you think about it, your clothes, are they very close to you. Of course, they're very close to you. They're touching your body, they cover you, right. So just as your clothes are very close to you. Likewise, the husband and wife are also very close to one another. And it's not possible that the husband and wife they're living together for 30 days, they're fasting during the day. And if they end up sleeping in the night, or if they're not allowed to have any sexual relations in the night, it's not possible for them to live like that. It's not fair. So just that you can't do without your cloths for a long time. I mean, if you're wearing very short clothes and you start

getting cold and you end up putting a hoodie or a sweater or shawl or something on yourself because you don't feel comfortable, right? You feel that clothes are a necessity. They are a need. You can't do without your clothes. Likewise, the husband and wife cannot do without each other. And it's not just about seeing one another and eating with one another but the close intimate relationship that is between them. They cannot live for long without that especially when they're living together. So this is the reason why that command was abrogated that if you do end up sleeping in the night, if you wake up in the night, then it is permissible for you. You may have sexual relations with one

another.

But this is so beautiful.

Will that Allah call the husband and wife what clothing for each other?

This is a very beautiful thing. First of all, we see equality in this, that just as the wife is like a clothing, a garment for the husband, the husband is also clothing garment for, for the wife, just as the husband needs the wife, the wife also needs the husband, just as the husband has some rights. Likewise, the wife also has some rights. You understand? Does does the husband loves his wife, the wife also loves her husband. It's a very intimate a very close relationship. And then we also see that clothing your clothes, protect you. Right first of all, they are a need, you cannot do without it. Right? So likewise, the husband wife cannot do without it.

Then secondly, we see the clothing your clothes, they protect you.

They protect you, from what?

From what? Go out in the cold when it's minus 20 without a jacket, go out without socks.

What will happen to you? What will happen to you?

You'll just get cold. No, you could get seriously ill, right? Likewise go out in the heat uncovered, you could get sunburned, right, you can get overheated.

So clothing, clothes are what they protect you.

Likewise, the husband and wife also protect each other, protect each other in what way

that first of all, they are protective of each other, they're responsible for each other, they want the best for one another. They want to save each other, you know from the Hellfire or from any hardship in this world from any difficulty in this life, they strive to protect one another. But we see that the husband and wife also protect the private parts of each other. How the Prophet saw a lot of sort of advise the young people that those of you who can afford who are able to get married, why? Because it will protect your private parts. sexual desires are something that is natural. And when a person is married, then it is a means of fulfilling those desires in a halal way. So they

protect the person from doing what is unlawful from what is haram. So just as your clothes cover you, likewise, the husband and wife also protect each other. Because many people what happens with them is that once they become religious to think I'm not getting married,

I'm going to study and I'm going to become an island and I'm going to become a share Ha, I'm not getting married. I'm going to go to Cerruti, and I'm going to go to Egypt and I'm going to study I love getting married people saw them with so much confidence. But what do we see? You can live like that you can become a scholar, you can recover very learned person, but you cannot neglect your basic need.

Likewise, some people say oh, why get married? You know, if you're going to end up in a divorce? How do you know you're gonna end up in a divorce? How do you know that relationship might be the best relationship that you've ever had with anybody? How do you know? Some people say I don't want to get married. You know, being a wife is too hard. It's too difficult. Being a mother is impossible. This is not me. I can't even think like that. Or they say I'm perfectly fine as a single, you know, I'm very happy life. I'm independent. I work I make my own money. I can go I can come back however I wish whenever I want. If I have a husband, and I'll have to answer to him, and I'll have to take

care of him. I'll have to fulfill certain responsibilities. And I don't want to live like that.

I like the way I am.

I don't think I need to get married. But what do we see here?

Can you say I don't need to wear clothes. If a person says that, I don't need to wear clothes, what would you say to them?

What would you say to them? here right?

So likewise, marriage is something that is essential. Hold an alabaster glaucoma and don't leave our salon.

Likewise, we see that close they beautify you don't they do the beautify you yes they do.

You know you could be wearing nothing. And you could be wearing something very nice. There is a difference.

Just the other day I read a quote somewhere that if beauty was or freedom was a nakedness then all animals will be free or something like that, that animals don't wear clothes like human beings do. Right? Human beings wear clothes and with those clothes, They adorn themselves. Correct.

So clothing is a means of beautifying you.

So don't think that marriage is evil. It's not evil. It is beautiful.

But you have to strive to make it beautiful. And any marriage you can strive to make it beautiful.

Well, and if it doesn't work out, then Allah is also open up the ways for ending it. But why not even try it out of fear that it might not work.

So who none of us are Nico were unknown Libras who love them. Also, we see that clothing as a means of comfort,

clothes, they bring you comfort.

And sometimes you're wearing this shirt or this hoodie or these pair of pajamas and you're so comfortable in them, you feel so light, you feel more relaxed. And you can't have experienced that enjoyment, that comfort, unless you are those quotes.

Right. So likewise, the comfort, the joy that comes from marriage cannot be enjoyed, cannot be experienced unless the person is married.

So anyway, we see that the relationship between the husband and the wife is a very intimate a very close relationship. Yes, it comes with its own challenges. But at the same time, it comes with its own beauty and enjoyment as well.

If you think about it, clothes, if you want to get comfortable clothes that fit you well that look good on you, will you spend time looking for those clothes, I see people going from one store to the other one wall to the other, every other weekend, they're looking for that particular shade of that particular style. And they can't find it when they will not settle for anything less. They spend their time and effort into that. Right. And, likewise, to wear clothes, don't you have to go through the effort of ironing them and washing them and dry cleaning them or whatever you have to. So it comes with its challenges with its difficulties. But at the same time, it has many benefits. You

know, people go to weddings and they're wearing the most uncomfortable clothes.

Right? The most uncomfortable ones. But just because they look very nice on them, they will still wear them.

And if you know they get stained, that's it they could get ruined. So they have to be extremely careful in what they eat, how much they eat, how they eat. They take that precaution why? Because wearing those clothes is worth it. So we should also make this very clear that getting married is something that is a part of our faith, as we know that marriage is something that perfect completes once Amen? It is half of faith.

So Hoon alabaster laka we're untung libre sola.

Alright, live Allahu Allah knows Anaconda indeed you quantum you were Dr. Luna and for sakam, you were all being unfaithful with yourselves.

Allah knows that you were being dishonest with yourself, you were committing kuleana with yourselves.

Dr. Nona. Hall well known piano,

piano is betrayal

that when someone gives you something to keep, to guard to take care of, and you fall short in taking care of a property.

So for example, they tell you, this is my plant, please take care of it. This is an amount of with you.

So you walk through it for a day or two, and then you forget about it. And then when they come back, they're like, Oh, my God, you didn't watch my plan for like, Oh, I'm sorry, I forgot. I couldn't be bothered to the plan died by then. Then what was that piano, you fell short in your responsibility?

Right. But piano is also do not do what a person is made responsible of. So for example, certain responsibilities are laid on a person, certain rules are given that you have to do this, you cannot do that. And if a person does not follow that code properly, then what is that kuleana.

So for example, a person is told they're working out a business, they're told, whatever money comes in, you have to write everything down, you have to record it. And then you have to deposit it in the bank. And you have to bring the receipt and you have to submit it to your supervisor, whoever. And that person, what they do is that they don't follow the rules properly.

So for example, there were supposed to write down every transaction, they don't write down one transaction, then what is that? Piano?

So when it comes to fasting, are there some rules that we have to follow? What are they? We cannot eat, we cannot drink during the day. So if a person eats, then what is he doing Triana? If a person drinks then what is he doing? kuleana.

Likewise, at the beginning, initially, we know as I mentioned to you earlier, that in the night if a person slept if he woke up after that, even if it was still nighttime, he was not allowed to eat or drink or have sexual relations.

But what happened was that some people did it. Leanna in that

Listen, it's okay. It's not that big of a deal. Inshallah Allah will forgive us no problem.

And they had relations that has been quite they would have relations in the night of the fasting after they had slept. Okay, so before the next day began, the before the next fast began in that same night, because they slept earlier, they had those relations. So this was what piano

this was not that they were like, I don't care about the rules that Allah has given no, but this was like, you know, it doesn't matter ALLAH is forgiving. It's not that big of a deal.

So Allah says, Allah knows that you were doing piano with yourselves. Notice Allah does not say you are doing piano with me. But that you were doing piano with who? With yourselves. Because whenever we do something wrong, even if it's slightly wrong, that your heart not tell you.

Does your heart not stop? You?

Don't have this bad feeling. I shouldn't be doing this. I shouldn't be saying that.

So when we do something wrong when when we don't follow the rules? Who are we actually betraying

ourselves? Because were we harming ourselves?

So I live Allahu unknown content, Dr. Noona and fossa calm, you were being unfaithful to yourselves. Allah knows about that. And this also shows to us that no matter how personal and how private of a matter, it may be, who knows? If we're being honest or dishonest, Allah knows.

You know, for example, your goal could be that you have to recite, let's say, a juice a day. Okay? And you're like, No, I have to recite it, not listen to it, but after recite it myself.

And then you're like, you know what, I'm too tired. So it's okay. Let me just leave out the surah. I know it already. I will recite it tomorrow. It's only one page long anyway, is that piano? Nobody knows about it only you know, and Allah knows about it. You made a promise, you made a commitment, and you're not fulfilling it properly. So that is also Rihanna. So even in the most private matters when we do Leanna, who knows? Allah knows. And this is why we see that once the Prophet salallahu Salam, he was passing by these graves, and he told the people that the people inside are being punished. They're facing or that will cover the punishment of the grave, and not for something

terrible, but one of them he was being punished for what for not being careful when he urinated meaning, when he urinated, the sprinkles of urine would fall on him, and he wouldn't care about that.

And the Jassa filth would fall upon him and he wouldn't care about that.

Who knows about you caring or not caring about the hara about cleanliness in the washroom? Who knows about that?

You and Allah only

other people don't know that ALLAH knows and you know about it. So if you're not careful, you are being treacherous with yourself. You're being unfaithful to yourself. So early mulato unknown content of the unknown and full circle and this is why we have to be conscious of Allah everywhere.

Whenever we're doing anything, because Allah is watching us.

For taba photogra aleikum. So Allah has turned in mercy on you, meaning Allah has lifted this band from you this difficulty from you, this prohibition from you Fatah Eleiko, what was the prohibition that they were not allowed to have any relations in the night if they slept before? So now, Allah has turned in mercy on you, meaning he has lifted that permission from you, what are our fair income and he has also pardoned, you are foreign or you file well, he is pardoned, you forgiven you for what

he has forgiven you. For what? For the piano that you committed?

Why did Allah forgive them for that piano? Because they didn't do it out of rebellion, that I don't care about it. They did it because they were after all human beings.

And they were weak like all human beings are

and they didn't realize that it will be very serious.

So this is why Allah says we're our fair income and Allah has pardoned you it was also extremely difficult. So Allah has pardoned you

Phil Anna, so now I'll earn Hamza well known and means present time.

So I'll answer from now on in other words, bash you Luna. You may have sexual relations with them Basha Romana,

MOBA Shara bear Shinra. And this is a figurative way of saying sexual intercourse. It's not direct, but it's an indirect way of saying

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and it's from the word Bashar Bashar is the human skin and in this relationship, then the skin of the man touches the woman. So there's physical contact of Anna Bashi ruhuna you may have sexual relations with them. And over here this command is off permissibility that it is allowed for you you may do that.

While the devil and you see belvane Yeah, what should you seek market of hola hola can what Allah has ordained for you?

Meaning through this relationship. You shouldn't just be seeking pleasure and enjoyment. But you should also be seeking children. Makarov Allahu Allah calm what Allah has ordained for you.

So, in other words, the purpose of marriage in our religion is not just to fulfill, to have pleasure to enjoy. However, it is also to have children that is one of the main objectives of marriage.

So what are the hallmarks of Hola Hola, como. And this is a reason why a person should not delay having children or avoid having children. Unless there is a genuine reason.

Unless there is a genuine reason it doesn't mean that contraception is haram. No, it is allowed. However, the person must not forget the objective of marriage. So what but the woman Khattab Allahu Allah come it should be one of the priorities.

Work Hulu, and eat, wash, labu and drink, meaning you are allowed to eat and you're also allowed to drink throughout the night of the days of fasting. Now, over here, we see that Allah subhanaw taala is telling the believers that you may have such relations with your spouse. What does it mean? That if a person does have such relations with his or her spouse, then that enjoyment is also what an act of worship? Yes.

Even that action,

apparently obscene action becomes what? An act of worship, something that people feel ashamed of? No, this is not something to be ashamed of. In our religion, there is no asceticism meaning that a person stays away from fulfilling sexual desires. No, there's nothing like that.

We are to be modest we are to be careful. And it means that Muslims have such traditions which just anybody know they only have it with their spouse. And this is the reason why fornication adultery is something that is not allowed. This is a relationship that is limited between a husband and wife. And when they fulfill that when they do that, in fact, what are they doing? They are actually worshipping Allah subhanaw taala there actually obeying Allah.

Alright, even this is an act of Riba. And we learned this from a hadith that if a person fulfilled his desire through haram then that would be sin. So when he fulfilled his desire to Halal then what is that? That what is that an act of worship?

So welcome to my shampoo eat and drink. Diet debate here and oh come on hypo Oviedo, mineral height will sweaty mineral Fajr.

Eat and drink Kulu from a Cana Hamza calf lamb and wash Rabu from shrub sheen rubber to drink. So eat and drink at any time during the night had that until what's the time limit? Yet obey Jenna it becomes clear by noon. What becomes clear what becomes distinct Lacan for you and Hayato Abele the white thread mean from a high level us word, the black thread, the black thread of what mean are frigid at the time of fidget.

What does it mean by this? The white thread and the black thread that when you can distinguish between the white thread and the black thread, then you stop eating and drinking? What does it mean by that? Height is from Hayato and height is thread, string and Erbil veil blood weight and a sweat scene well then sued black.

This white thread black thread refers to the time of

fudging, menial fudging

the time of budget

because at the time of budget, what happens is that the light after that, it starts to come in.

Okay. And as the light comes in, you know, there is a crack of dawn that you see in the horizon, a white line.

Okay, you see it in the horizon? These days since you're up anyway, at that time, go outside, look through your window, go into your backyard and look at the sky. Because we miss out on that beauty. We really do we deprive ourselves of that beauty of

How the mourning comes in how the daylight comes in, when this is why it's called the crack of dawn.

So it's literally like a thread in the sky. Okay, and then gradually that white thread, it starts to become bigger and bigger and the light comes in. So once the crack of dawn comes in, once the time of budget comes in, then what is it mean? You stop eating and drinking?

Okay, this white thread black thread doesn't mean literally, that you take a white thread and you take a black thread, okay, and you keep looking at them throughout the night. Okay, when can I distinguish between the two? Because one of the companions actually, that's what he thought it was.

And he slept in the night with a white thread and a black thread under his pillow. And after every sometime he would look at them, and he would try to distinguish between them and say, I don't get this, what's going on here? So the next day he went to the Prophet salallahu Salam, and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam joked with him and he said, Well, your pillow must be very huge.

Okay, because the crack of dawn is of the horizon. How can you fit that under your pillow?

Okay, so it doesn't mean literally, but this is referring to the crack of dawn meaning the time of friendship.

So, at the beginning, a common hypo via luminol, hiatal sweaty, mineral fractured

and what does it show that we should eat and drink until that time had there?

So in other words, we should delay the Sahul as much as possible. And obviously that happens anyway because we wake up barely 1520 minutes before school time ends, right? But don't feel guilty if you do that.

First of all, have so hold

because the Prophet sallallahu sallam said that's a hurdle for even if it's a hurry, Baraka there is baraka in that there is blessing in that so have that meal then have it as late as possible because sometimes people will eat this or who are two o'clock at three o'clock in the night you know, hours before the time actually ends No, you should have it at the final time but towards the end of that period all right. Had they had the beginner Nakamoto title available? Mineral title sweaty metal fragile

some of them mean once you see this that Fajr has begun then a team mostly a team outta me me to complete to perfect something so complete properly. I'll cin the fasting Illa Lail until the next night

until Fajr you eat drink have relations after that, what does it mean? Your fasting has begun and once your fast has begun, then you don't eat you don't drink you don't have any sexual relations until when?

Until when Illa Lail

but this night lamea lamb does night mean or shattering know this night means the beginning of nighttime and how does the nighttime begin with the sunset

with the sunset.

So that means we should delay as much as possible into hoof okay. And we should do if da immediately we should do if thought we should break the fast immediately. There is no piety in waiting. In fact, that is actually disobedience.

It doesn't mean the five minutes before the sunsets you break your fast No, you will break your fast when the sunsets but don't delay unnecessarily. All right, that even if a person can have a sip of water, he should do that. Whatever little a person can take, he should take that and break his fast.

So for example, if a person is in the car at that time, what should they do?

What should they do? Whatever they have, they should use that to break their fast they shouldn't say okay, you know, my house is only five minutes away. I'll just wait until I get home and then I'll sit down easily and then I'll open my fast no you don't wait. Wherever you are, you should open your fast. So some team was Leanna in a lake. The Prophet sallallahu sallam said either when I lay lumen how Hoonah will advocate on the headroom in Hoonah that when the night approaches from this direction, meaning the East and the day departs from that direction, meaning the West then most of time you see that the day going away and the night approaching from the other side and the sunsets

then the fasting person breaks his fast.

So at that time, break your fast

when I told us you will wanna so until now we have learned about the rules up what is allowed and what is not allowed the timings of eating, drinking and sexual relations during the night and during the day.

Now, with regards to erotica

erotica, what is the earth Acuff

era? take advice from through letters Einkauf

Ah, okay. And golf is to devote oneself to something completely that you doing only that and nothing else.

you devote yourself completely to something that you're doing only that and nothing else. But there's also the element of clinging to something and not leaving it. And it gives meaning of devotion worship.

All right, so era decaf is that when a person stares in the masjid,

he clings to the masjid. And what is he doing over there? Playing football? Like some people do.

You know, talking and talking and talking in the night with all the friends who are hanging out at the Westin know, or playing basketball like some people do know if the catch is that you stay in the masjid and what do you do? You worship Allah subhanaw taala

while other people are in their homes, they are reading something they are checking their email, they're talking to their family members. They are out and about. What are you doing you are in the masjid only worshiping Allah subhanaw taala.

All right, and worshiping Allah subhanaw taala what does that mean that a person is praying Salah whether it is fault or nephrol or sunnah. Okay. And he's reciting the Quran, he's making their eye he's doing vicar. Okay. There are different ways of worshipping Allah subhanaw taala. So he's engaged in that constantly.

So where's aircraft done?

My question to you is where's aircraft done? In the Masjid? When is it done?

In the last 10 days of the month of Ramadan, does that mean that a person is only in the masjid during the daytime? No, he's also supposed to be in the masjid in the nighttime and he stays in the masjid can he go out?

He can, but just to do something very important. Urgent quickly and return to the masjid immediately. Okay, not that a person goes home and takes a nap and showers and you know, as fun and then he comes back after some time. No, he's in the masjid mainly. And if for something he has to go to the parking lot to get something from his car. That's a different story. Okay.

So that's permissible. So anyway, now with regards to ethika Allah says we'll add to bash ruhuna and do not have sexual relations with them with who with your wives, meaning the husband and wife cannot have sexual relations. What unto why you are Aki funa Phil masajid or Aki for implore luff kiff one who does erotic F or Inca?

Phil masajid. Massages is the plural of Masjid seen Jean that.

So when you are doing erotica in the masjid, then in the night, you are not allowed to have any sexual relations with your spouse.

You understand?

Otherwise, in the month of Ramadan, can a person have sexual relations with the spouse in the nighttime? Yes, they can. But if a person is doing erotica, and he's in the masjid, then he's not going to take a break and go home and come back. No, he's not allowed to do that. Whatever tabash You wanna we're onto Marquis fauna, Phil masajid.

And this also proves that erotica is where Phil massage it. It's not anywhere else. And l massage it means all massage at any mustard. It doesn't have to be musta haram. It doesn't have to be mustard, the nubbly It can even be the German Masjid of your city or any Masjid.

Okay, as long as the arrangements are made, then you can do earthcraft Over there. Allah Subhana Allah says Tilka who do the law Tilka that hoodoo the law? They are the limits. They're the boundaries that have been set by who? Allah subhanaw taala called who has said Don't go near them or do discipline or had had other and had is a limit. What has had a limit?

And

who do they who do they have? The door of the house? What are they? The boundary wall of the house? Okay. And over here, for example, in your backyard. You have a fence? Correct? That fence? What does it do? What's the purpose of that fence to separate your yard from your neighbor's yard? Right? That means that if your neighbors are playing in their backyard, they should not come to your backyard. They should not come to your locks. They should stay in their locked.

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boundary. Likewise, some factories, some buildings, some houses are such that they actually have a boundary wall outside, and you see a sign no trespassing, right? That you're not allowed to come in. Okay? So boundaries they are set. Why? So that people know they're not allowed to cross them, they're not allowed to do to go inside.

So Tilka who do the law, meaning these are the limits that Allah has set, and you're not allowed to violate them, meaning what is inside the limits is something that is prohibited,

something that you're not allowed to do the don'ts

and you're not going to approach them, you're not going to indulge in them.

There is a fence that has been put around, and you're not going to trespass. And sometimes it happens that a boundary wall is put why? Because what is inside is dangerous. It's not safe.

People should not go there.

Right. So for example, a construction zone, there is a boundary wall around so that people just don't wander over there, they don't accidentally even end up over there. Why? Because if they end up, they could actually get harmed.

I remember once we were in Morocco, we had gone for Hajj. And there was a building that was being constructed. And it was dug deep inside, you could imagine if if a tall building has been constructed, how deep the ground would be dug from before. So anyway, and there was a boundary wall and there was a yellow tape as well caution, you know that don't come close here. Because if you do, you could get hurt, you could actually fall. And then after a few days, they saw something white, you know, deep down and they checked, it was actually a person who had fallen in his home.

Anyway, he died in Makkah, in the state of your home in the days of Hajj. So that is indeed a very blessed thing. But I was thinking at that time that if there is a tape, you know, caution, it's written

warning signs are there, there is a boundary wall as well, then we should not go over there. Right? We should not go over there. Because it's not safe.

It is for our own benefit that boundary wall has been put. Likewise, there are some things that Allah subhanaw taala has forbidden.

Allah has not allowed for us that we should do them.

And he has clearly told us about the rules led to bash ruhuna.

Door don't do this. Don't do this. Don't do this. So when you're not allowed to do that, what does it mean? This is a prohibition there is a boundary wall don't even go near that.

So Tilka who do the law? Allah says Falletta caribou don't even go near them cough Robell to go close.

So don't even approach the prohibited things.

Don't even approach those things which are haram. Why? Because if you go near to that, which is haram, then what's going to happen? What's going to happen, you're going to end up falling into it.

So for example, there is a ditch, and there is a boundary wall and it says don't trespass. Don't come here. Caution. And you say okay, let me just go see how deep it is.

Let me just go check it out. Let me just see what's inside. And if you go near, is it possible that you may fall? Is it possible? Yes, the chances are very high. You could slip. You could get alarmed by something. You could get terrified you could get pushed by somebody and you could fall very easily you could get hurt.

So many times it happens that people fall in a ditch or something like that in a well and they die. What were you doing there in the first place? You shouldn't have gone there.

Likewise, people say Oh, I ended up doing something very wrong. Why did you even go near that? Why did you even put yourself in that situation? The hypocrites about them, the believers will tell on the Day of Judgment, that Phantom and forsaken. You put yourselves in fitna, you put yourselves in those situations where you cannot control yourself, where you could not stop yourself and you did wrong as a result of that. Either a sinner when he was in paradise, Allah subhanaw taala told him while at Taco Bell head he shut off, don't even come close to the tree. Because if you come close to the tree, you will be tempted. You will wonder, okay, what does the fruit tastes like? I wonder what

it is like so you're going to be tempted and you're going to end up eating of it. And that's exactly what happened.

When we keep looking at that which is wrong than we are tempted to do

With so Allah says, These are the limits that have been set by Allah and don't even come near to them don't even come close to that which is forbidden stay far away from it. Because they're Lika Yuba, you know, Allahu ala de, Thus does Allah clarify to you, I add to his vs. Le NASCI for the people that are Lomita own so that they can save themselves. Allah has elaborated the ayat over here, the commands over here the rules over here very clearly, very explicitly. This is what is allowed. This is what is not allowed. Why, so that you can save yourself, save yourself from what? From the anger of Allah from the punishment of Allah? Because if you don't find out and if you do

something wrong, whose fault is it?

Your fault.

If you don't know the rules, and you end up in an accident, whose fault is it, it's your fault. This is why they said the driving is a privilege. It's not a right and before you start driving, you have to take a test to prove that you know the rules of the road. And if you don't know you're not allowed to drive, even in emergency cases, you're not allowed.

So Allah has clarified the ayat why so that you can save yourselves and if we don't get to know about those ayat and we end up harming ourselves then whose fault is it? It's our fault. Let's listen to prostitution

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Yes. Are we allowed to drink General? Yes. Are we allowed to spend the night at home? Generally? Yes.

But when a person is fasting or when a person is in erotica, then these things that are permissible, they become haram. You can't do them. Allah says they've got her do the Allah for Allah to caribou her.

So what does that teach us? That if at the command of Allah, you will stay away from that, which is generally allowed for you to do, and you can do that, then otherwise, you should stay away from what? What is completely forbidden for you what you're not allowed to do at all.

Ramadan teaches us that we can control ourselves, we can stop ourselves.

There's some things that Allah has completely forbidden on us. But we still give excuses. No, I'm in a situation that I have to do this. I'm in such a situation that I have to do that. And we know it's wrong, but we still do it. But fasting teaches us that we can stay away from wrong things from those things which Allah has forbidden. And that's exactly what is mentioned next.

That will at Kulu and do not eat just as when you're fasting, you don't eat halal food. Otherwise do not eat do not consume what unwelcome your properties Boehner come between yourselves Bill balkman in the false ways in the wrong ways. Letter Kulu Akella baccala is to eat something. Allah is saying don't eat unwelcome and while is a clone of mail, and as you know that mail is not just food, but it includes your clothes and your house and your car. You don't eat your car, you don't eat your house. So what does it mean by this? Do not consume. Okay.

And also if you think about it, when you eat food, then whatever money that you spent on that food, it's gone.

Right? You had $5 You went and bought some food and you ate that food where those $5 Go.

Where they go, gone finished.

Okay, you have another $5 And you go and buy a hijab for those $5 Now those $5

have been converted into a hijab. Does that hijab have some value? Yes. You could sell it for $15. Right? You can make money through that. But when you eat something, then it's gone. All right, so well at that Kulu I'm welcome and while is the plural of male don't consume your wealth, and your calm is plural. It means off one another of each other because all Muslims, they're like, a single body. Right? So don't consume the wealth of each other Boehner calm How will battle backward is what false wrong incorrect.

So don't consume the wealth of each other through wrong ways. Batteries from bathala through incorrect ways through prohibited ways.

Transactions business buying and selling, you know, gifting something and receiving a gift. All of this is what permissible

but there are some ways of acquiring wealth that are wrong. What are they?

Did you think of something a wrong way of acquiring wealth? Yes. Okay. For example, gambling? Yes. Stealing? Yes. Interest. What else is haram? Bribe? Right, that is also haram.

So don't use wrong ways to consume the wealth of each other, while at Kuru am while a combiner crumbled badly.

And if you think about it,

Baba is basically when a person consumes takes the wealth of the other, when he doesn't have the right to do so when he doesn't have the right to do so. So for example, theft, it's not your right to take that money, but if you take it what is that battle way of acquiring that wealth? Right. Likewise, if a property if some wealth belongs to an orphan, if there is a share of inheritance, that is the right of a particular heir. And if you take it, if you take the wealth of the orphan, then this is what badly wrong this is not right. Allah tells us don't do that. If you can control yourself in the month of Ramadan, and not eat and not drink when the food is right in front of you,

and you're desperate for that food, you're hungry, you're thirsty, but you control yourself.

So other times, even when you want that money, don't take interest, even when you want more money, don't steal, don't cheat, don't bribe

while at the Kuru, and while a combiner can build badly, what to do to be her what to do, notice the well, well is known as how far out in Arabic, it means end, right? But in English language, whenever we use and sometimes we're establishing a connection between two words, okay, or between two sentences?

Is it words and sentences you're connecting them?

So in Arabic altered works the same way. So what toodaloo meaning and do not toodaloo just as Latta Kulu so what are the load this is connected with? Well, atta Kulu so just as letter Kulu so led to the doula is not written here. But it is meant it is implied and do not do the law behind it. And who can do you know, it's from the roulette wheel is Dan lamb Well, the blue and the blue is used for a bucket, a bucket, especially that bucket which is thrown down into a well and with that, you take water out,

okay. So, you throw the bucket into the well and you pull it out and as you pull it out with the bucket comes what with the bucket comes water.

So, to the loo be here, meaning through your wealth, you pull to yourselves, you take to yourselves, you bring to yourself,

why would a person use a bucket because that water is inaccessible to him otherwise he cannot reach he cannot put his hand down or put a straw in, okay? And get that water out. So he has to use some means.

Likewise, sometimes it happens that there is some property and you are not deserving of it.

You are not deserving of it. You're not legally allowed to take that property to take that well.

So sometimes what people do is that they use something to get that well.

They use something to get that well. They use some trickery so

Some deceit, okay? Or sometimes they will bribe somebody. All right, and they will get that wealth.

So Allah says don't even do that what to the Ruby her? Ill who come Ill who can who come as a plural of Hakim

Hakim is someone who does hokum and how come is judgment, ruling, judgment or ruling. So how come in other words is who? A judge someone who makes judgments, if called the

Okay, but how come is not just a judge, but it also refers to someone who has authority, a figurehead, a ruler, someone who is powerful.

So what to do to be heard ill hookah, what does it mean by this? That do not use your wealth? Do not use your well do get that wealth, which is inaccessible to you, which you're not allowed to take? And how would you do that? By offering some of your wealth to who to the Hukum This is another word referring to bribe

that you bribe the judge. Okay, you say, You know what, Judge, I'll give you $50,000 Just make this decision in my favor, that the house that me and this person are fighting over? You say that it's my right, you give it to me, you give it to me and I'll give you 25% of the share. I'll give you 10% of the share, I'll give you $50,000.

So don't use bribe, don't bribe the judges in order to get wealth that is not your right what to do behave in an or calm.

Or another meaning could be that don't make the Hohokam a means of acquiring wealth unlawfully

that don't get some wealth. Don't get some wealth. How? By acquiring it unlawfully and how would you acquired unlawfully by using the hookah

that for example, the wealth belongs to somebody else, and you are debating in front of the judge, you say you claim it's yours the other person claims it is okay. But you say in front of the judge, that I swear by Allah, it belongs to me.

So if you're swearing by Allah, the judge is supposed to believe in you, right? The judge is supposed to believe in you. So then he says, Okay, fine, this property will be yours, and it's not actually yours.

It's not actually yours. So the wealth belongs to somebody else. And you say in front of the Hohokam, that it is yours, and the Hakim the judge, he decides it in your favor.

So what to do behind it's understood in two ways, first of all, to Rubia meaning you make an offer to the judge, bribe, and secondly, you pull with your wealth. Okay, you pull you pull to yourself, wealth, that is not your right. Wow, by swearing in front of the judge, leader Kulu so that you may consume for econ, a portion minimum well enough unwillingness of the property of people, Bill is me with the sin we're unto tarla Moon while you know,

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one is that a person does not know when he's making an error.

And such mistakes in Charlotte, they're forgiven by Allah subhanaw taala. But if a person deliberately, deliberately does something wrong, knowingly, then he is sinful.

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Let's listen to the recitation.

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What do we learn in this is why do you think this is mentioned over here after the verses of fasting?

That fasting teaches you Taqwa? La La Quinta Takuan.

And this taco should not just be limited to when you're praying and when you're fasting, but it should affect you in every aspect of your life, from your financial transactions, to even your court cases, to your marital relations, everything. Have the fear of Allah

Because many times it happens that people will fast. But they will be the most mean people very rude. They break their promises. They're the ones who will take interest. They're the ones who will consume wealth unlawfully.

So fasting teaches us that we have to spend our entire lives in obedience to Allah subhanaw taala. Like somebody once said, that a dunya, Yeoman, this life This world is only for a day well enough, he he saw one and for us in it is a fast meaning we are fasting.

So just as in the day of fasting, you don't do what you want to do.

You want to eat but you don't eat. Likewise in the day of your life, don't do what Allah doesn't want you to do.

The lessons of fasting are such that they guide us with regards to every aspect of our lives. So may Allah subhanaw taala give us all the Aqua that we need, that is necessary, so that we can truly worship Him. And we can be successful in the hereafter in sha Allah Subhana Allah will be Hamdi Kenisha to Allah Illa Illa. Anta nostoc Luca wanted to be like I said, I'm welcome rahmatullah wa barakato.