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In the previous class we learned about the difference between Avast and halal. We learned that mainly all the rulings are the same with the exception of only how many five one of the rulings was that during the Fast Lap is given and during hailed divorce is not given. Just to clarify this point a little bit more. Remember that when a woman is in the state of impurity, meaning she is bleeding, whether it is hailed or as it is not correct to pronounce a divorce to her because the Quran what is Allah say that give divorce to women when fatale acuna liberate that inner meaning what are solid meaning when there is that can be counted, but if a woman is bleeding, meaning she's either in
postnatal bleeding, or she's having her hailed, you cannot begin to counter it. Because there it does damage, three menstrual cycles. But if a woman is in her periods, this is not correct, because she has to be in the state of purity. Because when she'll begin her beard, that will be the first order and then ducru after that to three Kuru total, right? Likewise, if a woman is having postnatal bleeding, then when will she have her period? It could be months and months from then. So this is the reason why it is not correct to give divorce to a woman who is in her head or in her NFS. But people still do give the law in these times, right. And this Fallout is termed as Bill Pollock.
Remember, we learned this interstate This is termed as with Republic. According to many scholars, this philosophy does not have any effect, meaning it's considered as a love statement. If a man says pull up to a woman who's interfered it doesn't have any value whatsoever. But others said that no, because remember, this practice became common at the time of a moral dilemma.
And it was applied meaning if a man did pronounce the lock on his wife, it was applied. So it is considered as busy All right, but the difference is that if a woman is in her period, then her adult will not begin immediately. If a woman is in her period, her it though, will not begin immediately. When will it begin from the next cycle? So let's say a woman started her period it's her second day and the husband pronounces divorce in her winter it did begin No, it will not begin, when will it begin from the time that she begins her next period. So basically, her it will be how much you can say it will be like four cycles as opposed to three and a woman who is in her affairs her it will
begin from that moment. Okay, her ID will begin. So this is the difference that a woman who is in her head her it though will not begin. But a woman who is in her new fast hurry that will begin. This is the mean that was meant by that in the past bollock may be given an inhale, it may not be given. So the differences in what in when the reader will begin. In both cases it is the only difference is that for help, the reader will not begin immediately, but for the faster they will begin. The basic rule is that it should not be given, it should not be given exactly but but if it is given, then what's the difference in the ruling that for one there will begin and for the other,
it will be deferred. Another point I wanted to clarify was that some people misunderstood the fatwa that I had quoted by Sheikh Saleh aluna did that the question was, that is masturbation how long between men and wife not that a person does it himself but between men and wife and the response to that was that yes, it is permissible because it is clear that a person cannot do it himself. But if when a woman is menstruating, for example, and this fondling because we learned about this whole topic, right? This funding if it leads to a man ejaculating even is that how long it is not how long? Which is the reason why when a person does it himself, it is forbidden, but what's the ayah
that will let you know whom leafa rajim have Elune Illa Allah as well. Okay Illa Allah as well. Okay, so the Zodiac can do it, but one cannot do it himself. Alright, let's continue
Bob, don't kill her in the soma donkey leaving off the menstruating woman, leaving what a song fasting and menstruating woman will not fast. This does not mean that she is exempt from fasting completely. But rather what it means is that while she's menstruating, she will not fast but later on
She has to make them up.
For Salah It is very clear that a woman who is menstruating she's not going to pray. Why because the Hara is a condition. Voodoo is a condition and a woman cannot have that while she is menstruating.
But for fasting, we see that as a condition we need you have to be in the state of Voodoo for fasting. No you don't have to be in the state of Voodoo for fasting. But still we see that a menstruating woman cannot fast. A menstruating woman cannot fast and when Buhari proves that over here with the support of a Hardee's
had this unnecessary the new herb Imodium color as well I know Mohammed Abu Jaffa of Barney's aid who knew Islam under yellow Nia Abdullah and Avi sorry the
color he said hora de Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he called her the Prophet sallallahu Sallam he went out for a prayer meeting the selected read their eighth prayer which it was this either it was at her outfit or it was fitted which one is
the one in which you slaughter animals right and what is the one that is after Ramadan al masala to the place of prayer for Marlon Nyssa and then he passed by some women for color so he said yeah Mr. Sharon, you said he or group of women does not give sadaqa give in charity for in need for indeed I UI token I have been shown you, meaning you women as Xsara the majority of alien now as the people of Hellfire, meaning I have seen that the majority of the people were fire were Who? Women for color. So those women they said what Bhima your rasulillah and how come Why is it so a messenger of Allah? Allah He said, took Scylla learner, you are excessive in cursing, meaning you curse a lot.
You curse a lot with a formula sheet and you're very ungrateful to the companion meaning the husband, Mama a two I have not seen mynap this hottie Rocklin wedding men are of NACA SOT NACA South Florida na casa meaning one who is deficient, I have not seen anyone who is so deficient in what in intellect and in religion. Meaning I have not seen anyone who lacks intellect who lacks in religion, but still as hover is able to take away look below virtually the intellect loop from above remember the word Alba Alba, that they're able to take away the intellect of a Virgil of a man who has a husband who is resolute meaning someone who has firm resolve hasn't missed from hasn't been hasn't
missed a bundle to tie up to wrap up something in package and her Zuma is to be firm. So hasn't been someone who is determined resolute you can say like hard headed, you know, strong minded people are like that they're very difficult to convince, and some men are very much like that. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said, I have not seen anyone who was as deficient as you in intellect in religion, but still you are able to dissuade a man who is hard headed, okay, I mean, if DACA from one of your meeting, you only can can dissuade him only you can convince him for now they said woman auxano de Nina. They said Okay, so what is the deficiency of our religion where our cleaner and our intellect
the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said Naka salty are clean Medina and so they said, How come? We are less in our intellect and in our religion? Yasuda? laucala, he said, Elisa, is it not Shahada till Marathi the testimony of a woman mithila like Miss Fisher had that half of the testimony of a man called Annabella they said of course yes, it is. So Allah He said for their legal monopsony are clear that that is the deficiency of her intellect.
And then he said, Elisa, is it not either how but when a woman menstruate lamb to salad, she does not pray while I'm assume and she does not fast for labella they said of course, Carla, he said furtherly coming up Sani Dini. So that is the deficiency in her religion.
Now, this incident has been narrated through other chains as well with varying details. We have read a version of this earlier in Qatar, which were slightly different details were given. And over here we see in this narration that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam he left Medina meaning he went out of the masjid he went out of the city in order to perform the read prayer. Because prayer is to be performed were in a larger open space so that as many people as possible can come in. And also people are to slaughter their animals especially at ultra close by so for that also, it's better that it is in an open space. And this is a reason why
Scholars have said that when a person is in the city of Medina, around the time of read, then it is Sunnah, that he should pray celebratory, not in mustard in a buoy but somewhere else.
Not in the city, but outside the city. Now the city obviously from the time of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, it has expanded a lot.
And we see that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam when he went for Salah, after the Salah, he passed by some women, okay, because we learned that after the Salah, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam advised the men, and then he also admonish the women separately, and this was at the request.
And when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam advise them, What did he tell them? To give sadaqa to give in charity, why? Because he said that he saw that the majority of the people in Hellfire happen to be women.
So why is it that he told them to give Zakat because other expats since it is a means of forgiveness of sins, it extinguishes, sends, like water extinguishes fire. And we see that sadhaka has many benefits, it repels evil, that it leads to personal harm or good end. And we see that a person will be under the shade of his charity. On the day of judgment, every person will be under the shade of a subtle quantity of judgment. So sadaqa has many benefits and this is the reason why the Prophet sallallahu Sallam encouraged them to give sadaqa now the women there wondered that How come? Why is it that the majority of the people of fire are women?
Their question remember was a stiff ham not a stinker? What is different? To try to have fun to seek understanding? They want you to understand that what is it that has led so many women to the Hellfire?
They were not asking out of rejection, you know to argue with the Prophet sallallahu Sallam to refute him now the biller not at all their question was just so that they could understand so that they could better themselves.
And what was the answer that was given by the prophet sallallahu Sallam that why is it that the majority of the women are the majority of the people of fire? Are women What's the reason? three reasons he gave?
First of all, Alexa, right, it's out of alarm. Of course. Secondly, confront in gratitude. And thirdly, it have it habit loop of a person visit three reasons he gave Excel coupon and it has, first of all, Excel Excel have what have aligned meaning the curse a lot.
That it is a habit that is found mostly in women not saying that men do not have this habit. But mostly women have this habit, that on every little thing, they start using bad words.
Because a woman's life is kind of challenging, because she has to deal with children, and she has to deal with so many accidents. And especially when you have children around, so many accidents can happen you clean something and there comes a child with a cup of water and juice and the whole floor is dirty. Or there comes a child who's being toilet trained, and Nanos, and the whole carpet is dirty. Alright, so a woman, you know, she has to have a lot of subs in her life.
And when she lacks that sub, then what happens? Then she starts using foul words, bad words and every little thing. And we should really check our language, our expressions, that when we are unhappy or when we are tired or frazzled, or when you know, the dishes are too many or when you know, apart, you know, no matter how much you're cleaning it, it doesn't become clean, or when there's a stain on something and it doesn't become clean. And what words are we using? What kind of expressions are we using against our machines and against our butts and bends against our utensils and our clothes and our furniture? What kind of words do we use against them?
You know, it's very easy that such expressions come out of the mouth.
The second reason that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam gave was that they're very ungrateful to their husbands from kasana Rashid.
And why is it so that many women are ungrateful to their husbands? Or how is it that they become ungrateful to their husbands?
It's a very deep problem. If you analyze it, the problem is that many women, what do they think that whatever they're doing is a favor to their husbands. A woman believes that if she's staying at home, she's doing a favor to her husband. She believes that if she's working, she's doing a favor to her husband. She believes that if she's studying even that is a favor to her husband. So her existence is a favor to to her husband. Basically, in whatever situation she isn't. I have to work because you don't make much money. I have to study to find a better job. I have to stay at home because you can't look after the kids. Because we have kids because you wanted kids. Everything happens to be
whose fault the husband's fault. So whether the woman is working or she's doing the laundry or preparing the food or looking after the children. She believes that she is
doing a favor to her husband. And this is a reason why if she is slightly disappointed or slightly hurt or slightly tired, then all of a sudden, she begins to list her good deeds and her husband's faults,
or everything that she expected of him, and he did not fulfill it. And he didn't even know what was expected of him in the first place. So it is as though the husband has no good in him. Right? This is what she does, basically, that she completely washes away all of the good that he has done, she completely dismisses that. And unfortunately, it's very common in many of us. I mean, all of us know that, which is why I, I see all these smiles because this is what we do, unfortunately, without even realizing.
But if you think about it, a woman when she does something in her house or with her children, is she doing a favor to our husband? Is it a favorite whereas No, she's actually fulfilling her own responsibility? What does that tell us that well, Maria tun Fie Beatty's ODI mamas Ola, and
that a woman is a shepherd of the house, and she will be held accountable for what she is made in, charge off. So this is your responsibility. Whatever you are doing is your responsibility.
And what is in gratitude, in gratitude is when someone has been good to you, and you don't appreciate their goodness, you don't acknowledge that goodness. So we see that many women, they even refuse to acknowledge the goodness of the husband. Right, which is why they believe that they can survive on their own or that life would be better if he had not come into their life. But if you think about it,
if a woman ever analyzes her life,
that if that man was not there in her life,
then what would she have? And where would she be?
If you think about it, Could she have had the house that she is living in? No. Could she have had the children that she loves? And adores that or coolness or comfort of her eyes? No. Could she have travelled so extensively? Perhaps not? Could she have had all those clothes and jewelry? No. So really think about how life was before the husband came in? And how it has become since he has become a part of your life? And that will make you realize that yes, there are many favors on you, From who? Your husband through your husband. And a person might say no, no, but this my parents gave me. But even then, why did they give you because you were married? Because you got married, you had
your children, and you could not have them without your husband being around. A woman writes in one of my parents bought me this house. Why? Because you needed it. Why? Because you had children. Why? Because you and your husband were looking. So at the end of the day, many things that you enjoy in life are why because or through your husband. So first of all, we should acknowledge the goodness the favor of our husbands on us, and then realize that what you're doing is not a favor on them. It's just that you are fulfilling your responsibility. Recently, I heard this example that was quoted by a sister and she said that she heard this in a lecture, she said that someone mentioned
that, you know, all women, they have like two bags, okay? Whatever good the husband does, whatever good he does, you know, gifts, he buys groceries, he brings the vacuum he does whatever good he does. Now those acts of goodness, she puts in one bag, and whatever wrong he does whatever hurtful words he says with the attitude issue as she puts them in the other bag. But the problem is the bag in which she keeps all the good things, there's a hole in it. So what happens, whatever goes in, falls out.
Now when the husband says something nasty, or she's hurt, or she's, you know, tired or frustrated, whatever, she tries to put her hand into the bag of goodness, but what does she find? Nothing.
And as soon as she looks towards the bag that is full of bad things, it's overflowing.
Because you know what? We forget the good. And we remember that.
We forget the favors, and we remember when we were hurt. So this is what leads to in gratitude. This is what leads to in gratitude to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said, that you are many of you are ungrateful to who do your husband's you forget his son. So what should we do?
Leave something in the back of goodness. So it fix the hole. The third reason that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam gave was it had that they take away the determination the resolve of the most strong headed person. And what does this imply that they use their strength in the wrong way.
That the strength that Allah has
given to the women, they use it in the wrong way, instead of acquiring goodness, they become a fitna, for others. And the prophets, Allah Larson remarked here, that it's amazing that women in general are deficient in two areas ockel. And then, but despite their deficiency, they're able to dissuade, or they're able to convince them who may be much firmer in their article and in their day. How is it so, because a woman is a fitna for the men, because men, they are attracted to women. And when a man wants a woman, then he will do anything for her.
Because his knifes his body, his desire is pulled towards her. So basically, he will do anything to have her. You know, there's so many stories and incidents that we have heard from the people of the past even that how people gave away their Deen just to get a woman. In New Jersey, he, he mentioned the story of a man who was a very learned man, a teacher, who decided one day to go with his students for Hajj. And as they were traveling the past by a Christian church, or something like that, or monastry, or something, and over there, this very religious educated scholar, he saw that there was a woman. And when he saw her, he fell in love with her. When you found out about her, he
found that she was the daughter of the priest.
And she refused to marry a man who was a Muslim. So he decided to stay there and give up his faith, just so that he could have that woman. His students are the ones who are trying to advise him convinced him that please, you know, this is wrong. But he refused. So the students went for Hajj on their return, they came back to the same place to meet their teacher again, to try to convince him and Alhamdulillah he understood and he went along with them. On the way back, you know, he went home with them.
And this is a story that is mentioned by Josie. So anyway, there are many men who lose all their determination and their resolve. When a woman comes before them.
There are people who will leave their jobs, who will sell their car to get a ring, who will, you know, forget about their education. Why for the sake of a woman.
I mean, it happens the other way as well that a woman goes crazy for a man and she forgets everything in her life. It happens the other way as well. But typically, it's the men who are when they're in love with the woman, then they forget everything. I remember the incident of the man, the three men who got trapped in the cave, and one of the men he said, I really loved a cousin of mine whom I wanted. And then eventually he did convince her. But as soon as they were about to do her arm, she said to him that fear Allah.
And then he left. So anyway, there are many incidents. And it's amazing that a woman through her logic, she cannot overcome a man, she cannot defeat him in an argument. But through her tears, or through her sweet words, or maybe sometimes through her, you know, remarks or whatever, she can easily convince him, he will be at her feet instantly.
If a woman uses the strength of hers, to make the men convinced of doing something that is wrong, meaning wrong in his Deen, and yes, she is responsible because we see that this is something that has led many of the women to hellfire. But when Allah has given her the strength, What should she use it for? For goodness, right? I mean, think about it, many women, they're able to convince their husbands to buy them, what they want to live where they want to eat what they want to travel somewhere, do not travel somewhere. But when it comes to, to good decisions for the family, or religious decisions, many times women are working the other way. Instead of helping the man go to
the masjid. She says, I'm scared if you I'll be all alone, if you go. And their husband, he was so determined. I'm going to go for Frederick, I'm going to go for Isha. And they're the wife is saying I'm scared. I don't want you to go, and he will not go. Even if it takes only half an hour he will not go. What is stopping that man who is so determined to fulfill his duty of karma to Salah what is it that is stopping him?
It's that woman right? So that woman has become a fitna for that man. That man who is has him determined has firm resolve, you know, knowledgeable, but the tears of that woman will stop him. My mom she is to tell us about the neighbor. She used to have in back home and she said this man, he's a very drunk man. And then the woman she talked to him suiteworld and she's nice to him, his wife, and he turned it from a drunk man to the avida head.
Chapter you basically how you use the strength that Allah has given you
Convinced men to do something otherwise. And a sister was telling me she was very sad. And I became sad because she said that she wanted the house so bad. And she says, okay, you can take interest doesn't matter, we'll do it, you know, quickly pay off quickly. And when that happened, their life started to fall apart because the husband was not as available. And then they were not very content that they had. And there was a race to get the money and all the unpleasant things that you can imagine. So she said, I don't know how to do it otherwise, now, how to return it, how to go back where I was. And she said, I'm working, he's working, kids are doing going haywire. And I don't
really know what to do is afterwards she realized, so I was really sorry. And I, you know, I made to offer them. But we need to really think it over what we're doing, what our role is and what needs to be done in the light of these bodies.
You know, the women they asked about the deficiency of their Deen and the deficiency of their
What did the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said that the deficiency the knocks of your uncle, what's the evidence of that, that her testimony is half compared to that of the man because of the analysis followed by a woman attorney amendment or the nomination rather than a man and two women, if you don't find do men, then a man and two women. Now remember that article over here does not mean that which is the opposite of June. Okay, June is insanity. And the opposite of that is sanity. So it doesn't mean that a woman lacks sanity or an X reason or lacks intelligence, this is not what the meaning is, rather, are going over here. First to occlude a Shia and look to her meaning, the
understanding of various matters and retaining the information that many women they lack in this, in what that in understanding various matters, complicated matters. And in retaining information, you will see that many times your husband, he will remember most complicated passwords, okay, or most complicated card numbers, and you have no idea. they'll remember when a particular card expires, and you have no idea. They will remember, you know, phone numbers and, and bank numbers and all these details. And you cannot recall this information, you have stored it in your phone, you write down on pieces of paper, and you lose those pieces of paper as well. So compared to men, women do lack in
these two fields, understanding complicated problems and retaining information in their memory for longer periods of time. Now, remember, that this is not, you know, with regards to every single woman, and every single man, but we see that on average, there are exceptions, and there are many women who may be smarter in these matters compared to their husbands. But it would be the exception, not the general rule. And this is the reason why the scholars have said that this hadith should not be generalized.
The Prophet sallallahu Sallam said that a woman's testimony is half of the man's. But this is only in the case of what
in the case of financial matters, right? Because in other matters, you know, a woman's testimony could be equal to that of a man or could be more than that of a man. Like in the case of rodar. A single woman's testimony is accepted. If a woman says I have nursed this child has that as the one is accepted one woman, but on the other hand, many men could say that, but their testimony will not be accepted. So this is the reason why this had these should not be generalized. Secondly, the next indeed, what's the nuts indeed, that she does not pray or fast in her habe and this is the reason why Mr. mcquarry mentioned this long Hadees that a woman does not fast when she is menstruating,
even though she will make up her fast later. But still, when she does not fast in the month of Ramadan. She does have an axon in her Deen. Because fasting on a weekend during the winter is not the same as fasting on a weekday in the summer, followed by taraweeh. It's not the same, right? The effort is different.
Now, many people have found it difficult to understand that a woman if she does not pray or does not fast when she's menstruating. Why is this a deficiency in her team? Because if she's not praying, she's not fasting. Who is she obeying? Allah subhanaw taala. She's following the instruction of the prophets of Allah. But why does this cause her to be deficient in her Deen? Remember that deficiency or an axon indeed is of two kinds. First is that over which a person is blameworthy,
meaning that if a person falls short in doing something and he does so by his own choice, then he could be punished for it. Like for example,
person has to pray. Okay, a man has to pray. But he does not pray all five prayers. At the end of the day, they have prayed only three Salawat not five, but only three. They didn't pray too. Isn't that a deficiency? That is a deficiency? Are they blameworthy for it? Are they held responsible for it? Yes. Could they be punished for it? Yes. Why? Because it was by their own choice. It was by their own choice. There was no Sheree reason preventing them, and no other reason preventing them Sheree as the no religious rule preventing them.
And secondly, no other reason preventing them. What is the reason like physical circumstances? Because in every circumstance, no matter what situation a person is in, aren't there guidelines for us that how we are to pray, meaning even if a person cannot stop the enemy's running after him a lion could be chasing him. And the sun is setting and a person has not paid us? How was he to pray? How was he to pray? While he's running? Isn't that what we learned in the Koran? For in 1540, Jalan Oh, look, man, and if you're in the state of fear, then pray while running or walking doesn't matter while you are on a vehicle or you are walking. So if a person does not pray,
and there is no religious reason preventing him or other reason preventing him this is an axon, a deficiency in their Deen. And this is something for which they will be held responsible. The other kind of deficiency is that for which a person is not blameworthy, they're not blameworthy. Why? Because they fell short in doing something because of either Sheree reasons preventing them or other reasons preventing them shut or any reason, like for example, a woman who is menstruating, she's not able to pray, she's not sinful. Or the reason like for example, a person does not give her the does not give the cat why he doesn't have the money. He doesn't have the money. Now, there is another
person who is giving sadaqa, who is giving the cat, he has earned more hessonite here is a person who does not give sadaqa does not gives a cat, he does not have the same maisonnette as the previous person, right? It's not the same, he is deficient, but is he blameworthy? Is he sinful? Will he be held accountable? No, he will not be Why? Because he doesn't have the means he does not have the means it is beyond his capacity.
So when a woman does not pray, in her period, when she does not fast in her period, then this is something for which you will not be held responsible for. But still, it is deficiency.
It is deficiency, even though she is not sinful, even though she's not responsible. But still, if you think about it, it is a deficiency. Think about it, from the time that your husband became part of he's been praying five times a day, without a single day of whether he was traveling or he was at home or he was sick, or he was having exams. And here you are every month you go on a break, and you don't pray for a week, for 10 days for eight days, whatever you don't pray,
you get a break in the middle. Now, if you think about it every month, if you have not prayed for seven days, and you compare your prayers, to his prayers, who has less, you have less? Is it because of your fault? No. But still, this is unox in then, at the end of the day, you do have less followers compared to him. You have prayed less compared to him. Do you see what I mean? This is a deficiency. And this is not just in this case. But in many cases, remember the Hadees in which some companions came to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and they said that they were you know, these wealthy companions, they have gone ahead of us because they have money and they given charity and we
don't have that so we cannot give in charity. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam taught them certain words that they should say, and they started saying them, but then the wealthy companions, they learned about those words as well. So they started saying those words those kalama So what did the Prophet sallallahu Sallam say this is the puddle of a lion he gives it to whomsoever He wants, meaning at the end of the day, you have to accept it as a loss decree. Say that I show when she miss the hedger because of her period she starts to cry Yeah, so but now I'm compare myself you know, I get I get happy when I have my period. I don't have to pray especially Ramadan. I don't have to fast
I really get happy. But is that something you know, my man is not. The thing is that it is a break that Allah has given to the women. And when Allah gives a convenience to someone, a matter of ease to someone, they should willingly accept it. But in this acceptance a person must not forget their
status or their position, or the status of their deeds, that a person does things. Yeah, we know it's my brain, let me enjoy. And every month you enjoy your break, you're happy about it, and you don't realize what you're missing out on. Which is why you don't put in the effort to do other good deeds. You don't use that time to do other good things, that if a woman says I'm menstruating, so I'm not praying I'm not doing because she forgets her morning with God, she forgets her evening with God, she doesn't read any dogs for protection, any car to earn reward nothing, because she says I'm on my period. And then she goes far away from the thicker of a law, she goes far away from any act
of goodness, that is something wrong, that is something that should not happen. Because we see that at the end, this is a deficiency. And when a person is lacking in something, okay, they're not sinful for it. But at the end, they do have less. But you know, there is wisdom of Allah subhanaw taala, behind everything, if Allah is giving you a break, he knows that you need it. The fact that you run for other good deeds, so much time that you spend in Voodoo and all of those things, catch up on your housework or anything else like so that you can spend that time that you right now spending doing chores and other things that you left behind. Next time can do your Salah, it means
that instead of
instead of sleeping away or watching television or reading random things, because we say oh, we're I'm on my break, instead of doing that, use your time in doing other productive things. How it's because there are times you are fasting half the day, and you get it and you feel sad that you lost it or even right before Mother's Day, and you lose it. But you know, when you are in your period, your state is so messed up that you cannot really utilize not gonna be like, especially the first few days you're in so much pain depending on the woman but I've seen sisters, they literally they're taking title and stuff and they're cramping. So it's a Rama from Allah, can you imagine getting sin
for those days if it was fun, so it's a Rama from Allah that, you know, he knows that this is hard for us. So we are forgiven, and we have the luxury of making it up whichever day we choose in the year. But ideally, it's better to do it sooner. But for me, I find it so much easier to do fast in Ramadan rather than after because the motivation is there, the the surrounding is there later to wake up your cell phone suhoor it's just sad, like you don't feel the same motivation. But the prophets of autism describe this as knocks in her name. So this is something that we need to realize as well, that even though this is an allowance that Allah has given to us, but still this is a
And when you lack in something, then what do you do?
You make up for it through other ways. So this is the case of average people, okay, that when they have an allowance and exception in something they fall behind, but we see that there are people who may have disabilities even, but still they go farther than many average people.
Isn't that so? So just because we fall behind, because of one thing, doesn't mean we start falling behind in everything, and that we don't do other good things to make up for it. So the time that Allah has given you use that for other productive things. If there is a deficiency in your body, you take supplements to make up for that deficiency. So likewise, if you have deficiency in your deen, don't just say, oh, okay, it's a deficiency. What can I do about it? No. If there's deficiency in your beauty, in your clothes, in the size of your house, in your education, will you say Oh, whatever, what can I do? No, you will not have that kind of attitude, you will do something to make
up for it. The deficiency does not lead to hellfire. But we see that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam mentioned deficiency over here that despite this deficiency, you're able to lead your husbands astray. Okay, lead ministry, and leading men astray is what leads many women do hellfire.
But we see that this happens despite the deficiency. So don't think that just because you're deficient in something, you cannot do other things you can. I was thinking about Paralympics, that people with disabilities, they participate in great sports, they compete. And it's amazing. Whether it's running or skating or skiing or hockey, you name it swimming, it's amazing. They will participate they will not stay back just because they have a missing limb.
meaning there's a you know, deficiency in the religion, we can actually use these three things to make up for it as well. Like meaning taking your husband to you know, using your strength in the right way. Or you know, being grateful to the spouse or even using the good words amongst people. These things can also be used to make up for the Nexon 15 definitely we have there was an incident when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam he traveled with a group of people and some people they when they came they just rested. And other people they got up and they served others and brothels that a lot of them said about Islam they have accumulated so much good
So definitely one who does more will go farther, and the one who does less will be behind. But just because you are behind for one reason, doesn't mean that you stay completely behind do something. And we see that I shall deliver on her for example, she attained so much knowledge, she was far ahead in her ankle, compared to so many average men. Isn't that so? So remember, just because you're a woman does not mean you cannot go ahead, you cannot go Excel, you can still Excel. There were people who said that I have heard the hope of Abu Bakr I've heard the hope of Roma. And I've also heard Arusha speak. And they said that the speech of Arusha was far more impressive and far more
effective. So just because a woman experiences something in her life, which is beyond her control, it should not cause her to remain completely behind. This Hadith is used in a very negative way, to enrage women to make them feel that they have such a low status in the deen. But this was just a remark from the Prophet sallallahu Sallam that it's amazing that despite your deficiency, you can convince a man Okay, you can make him do something wrong. So use your strength in a positive way. Very, very important incident like Sula, who davia he consulted his wife What to do? He didn't say, Oh, you are nakazato? Luckily, I'm not gonna consult you. Right? We never hear that he mentioned
this to his wives or daughters or anyone. This is a general thing that he made women realize that be aware you have this deficiency. And don't you know, fall prey to this? Yes. And it's very important that a person has self awareness, they realize where they lack and where they are strong a person should know their strengths and their weaknesses, so that they can perform in the best way. Now, there are many other lessons in this Hadees First of all, we see that there are these proves the hips, the desire of the women of the Sahaba to learn about what will save them and to learn about their faults so that they could improve themselves.
Also, we learn about the fact that it was clear to the people before this incident that menstruating women do not fast, because the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said to the woman, isn't it so that when a woman menstruate she does not pray or fast. So it was clear from before it is something that's understood that a menstruating woman just like she does not pray, she also does not best. And in this Hadees we also learn about the prohibition of using foul language and cursing excessively because it's something that leads to Hellfire and the dislike of cursing, that yes, cursing is something that happens but remember that it is not something that's like that much, especially when
it's against an individual. Like for example, in the Quran, what do we learn?
Learn to love heroin, caffeine, right? So it's general not on a specific individual that may have lockers, this this person. So this is something that is this like, Bab ductal her herbal monastic akula illa tawaf will bait a woman who is menstruating she will duck Li duck, he gives the meaning of different meaning she will perform she will fulfill what a monastic all of the rituals colau all of them Illa will bait except for the wife of the house. Now apparently it seems that she can also do sorry right she can do move out of her she can stain was the elephant she can do the ramen, she can stay at Mina and all the rituals, but it is known that surgery is performed when after the left.
So she will not do the left nor will she do sorry. Then what will she do? She will go straight to Mina Okay, and she will defer her or mana or hurt the left until she is clean. In water it is clearly stated that she will not do the left or sorry of Safa and Marwa but remember that if she is doing around with Hajj and when will that be when a woman is performing hajj Quran or Hajj d'amato if a woman is doing Amina with Hajj, then she will do her omura after she has become clean, meaning she will do her boyfriend sorry after she has become clean. And if she's not doing wrong, okay, she's just doing Hutch. Which one? If rod, okay, she's doing Haji fraud. Then she can do her sorry.
Even though she's menstruating. Okay, why? Because she's not doing and that the left that is for HUD she will do that once she has become clean.
Well, Carla Ibrahim and Ibrahim said, who is Ibrahim Ibrahim and Now hurry, Ibrahima hurry was from the keyboard fuqaha, who was from the tambourine one of the major, one of the great scholars of filk. He said love said there is no harm and dukla that she recites and who
a menstruating woman, meaning she can read an entire ayah and when she can read one is you can read another Ayah so basically there's no harm if she recites the Quran while she is menstruating. Now majority of the scholars they said that menstruating woman should not recite the Quran, which is why this is an opinion which is very common that a mentor
A woman should not recite the Quran. However, other scholars they disagreed. For example, She even taymiyah he said that there is no clear prohibition in the Sunnah for a woman, menstruating woman reciting the Quran, there is no clear prohibition. And when there is no prohibition for it, then it would be considered permissible.
Jeff Immelt was I mean, he said that when there is a need for her to recite the Quran, there is absolutely no harm. And when there is no need, then she should refrain as that is safer. But remember that there is no ajmer there is no consensus, meaning all of the scholars have never agreed upon this at any time in Islamic history. They have never agreed upon this, that a menstruating woman is not allowed to recite Quran. There is no bar over this that a menstruating woman cannot recite the Quran. Many scholars have said that she cannot recite. But other scholars have proven that she can recite the Quran. I'm not talking about touching the Quran. That's a different subject.
We're talking about the recitation of the Quran
when amuro and he did not see who ignore best in bill karate with regards to a little joke for the junior person but sent any harm, meaning even our best did not see any harm. If a junior person recites the Quran, he didn't think that there was any problem with it. And if a person who is in the state of Geneva, if they can recite the Quran, then the menstruating woman can also recycle.
Because Java is in your control, you can just take a bath, or at least you will do. But hey, it is not in your control. Java is temporary, whereas I mean, it's shorter compared to Hey, hey, there's much longer so even our bus did not see any harm if junior person recites the Quran, and therefore, a menstruating woman can also recite the Quran, or Canon abuse on Allahu alayhi wa sallam. imambara he writes that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam used to yet Kuru la used to remember Allah, Allah coli or honey in all his states. And you know that Vicar of Allah, it includes what
recitation is put on as well.
They could have Allah includes curato Quran. So if the prophets of Allah doesn't remember Allah in all states, that would mean that he would also recite the Quran in the state of Geneva, if there was a need. Okay, if there was a reason, and this affirms the opinion of even our best, and remember the eye and also that alladhina is kurunegala pm and Walker.
And the Prophet sallallahu Sallam used to recite Quran when his head would be in the lap of I shall deliver our nine children menstruating or call it Omar aka and Omar Alia. She said canonic model we were commanded meaning we women were instructed that and yes, Raja that should go out Who else? Are you menstruating women,
meaning the menstruating women were also instructed to go out with the rest of the people to the place of faith prayer. Obviously menstruating woman will not pray there a prayer. But she was also instructed to go there. Why for you Kabira bitok medium where their own so that they would glorify Allah, they would mention his greatest name, they would say takbeer with the tequila the rest of the people meaning as the rest of the people are saying that we robbed the menstruating woman should also say that we were their own, and they should also make Dora So what does this show that the menstruating woman? Yes, she will not pray, but she will do the
the menstruating women were told don't stay in your houses underneath come out.
Okay, you're not praying but still take advantage of the beat. Take advantage of the raw. And this gives us the answer that if you are deficient in one matter, make up through other ways or take advantage of other options. Don't leave they could completely.
Don't leave that beer completely. Don't leave the are completely just because you're menstruating. do other things. So a menstruating woman can participate in the gathering of liquor. She can make the ice she can recite her a god morning evening, before going to bed. On waking up all her adult she can see so she can take advantage of other acts of worship. We'll call him our best and even our best set of barani Abu sufian I will Sophia informed me and nahi rocla that hirako
Who was he? The Christian king that we learned about in which work by the way? That hirako da vikita been obese or Allahu alayhi wa sallam he called for the letter of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and then for Cora and he read for either fee and there was in it meaning in the letter was Bismillahi Rahmani Raheem, we're Ll kitabi Corolla, meaning I
and I have the Quran who was a non Muslim. Previously we learned that Indonesia Kona notice
What is that impurity? spiritual impurity. And despite that, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam gave them an ayah, to read, to recite. Now a believer what are the prophets on a lot of sins, say concerning the believer, the Indian woman lay and just he never becomes impure. So even if you are in the state of Geneva, or hailed, you can still read because you are not unclean.
And this is the evidence that even our best will deliver and who used when the people criticized him or if someone did criticize him? This is the evidence that he used that if you're not gonna read the Quran, and why can't I?
Why can't a menstruating woman? Of course they can. It is also said that once even our bus was found reciting the Quran instead of Geneva and someone criticized him, and he said, there is more Quran in me.
Meaning I could be in the state of Geneva, but there is a lot of pollen in my heart. I mean, it's it's coming on my lips, but there's put on in my heart. Would you take that out of me? Because I'm in the state of Geneva? Is it supposed to be pulled out of me because I'm in the state of Geneva? No. And likewise, if a person is not in the state of Geneva, even there's still more filth inside of him? Correct. So there's filth inside of you, but it's okay for you to recite the Quran. It's okay for you to praise Allah. So just because a woman is menstruating, she is not prevented from the recitation of the Quran. We'll call her a thorn and Otto said on jibber jabber How did our Asia to
our Asia menstruated Vanessa cotton monastic, but she performed all of the rituals the right of the left will bait except for the wife of the house will have to Sally and she did not pray. So basically the only two things she left out were what the left end Salah So likewise, the menstruating woman will only leave these two things out and when it's a month of Ramadan she will also not fast other than that. Can she recite the Quran? Can she reset her alcohol? Yes wacol How come and how come set in Nila bajo? Indeed I slaughter meaning a slaughter an animal will enter Juna and I am in the state of Geneva at that time. And remember Hari, he gives the evidence of that that
is it. Okay to do that, of course, because we'll call Allahu wa kolomela musica this will not hear it, that do not eat of that meat on which the name of Allah was not pronounced. So basically, if you're slaughtering an animal, you are mentioning the name of Allah.
And if you're in the state of Geneva, that means you're mentioning the name of Allah. So you're mentioning the name of Allah in the state of Geneva, that means it is okay for you to do that. This was the understanding of the Salah, this was the understanding of the companions, this was the understanding of the tambourine that you can do, even in the state of Geneva. So when you can do they can in the state of Geneva, you can do this in the state of hiab as well. And they can includes the recitation of the Quran. Now, the purpose of this bb uncoating, all of these are thought is to prove that hailed prevents a person from solar prevents a woman from the left prevents a woman from
fasting, but not all acts of worship.
Which is why you see the various things I've mentioned over here. Hail does not prevent a woman from all acts of worship. Imagine a woman is inhaled. And she can do sorry, if she's doing Haji fraud.
Imagine a woman is inhaled. And she's standing at all of her. She's an Minar. She goes to Mr. Alpha, she goes and does for me, it's perfectly fine for her. And all of these acts of worship are what physical, and they also are acts of worship that involve the tongue because you have to mention the name of Allah. Like for example, when you do it, I mean, you have to mention the name of Allah. Correct. So, the point here is that a woman who is menstruating can still worship Allah, okay, she can
only those acts he will leave out which are prohibited by some text that we find in the Quran and Sunnah.
And what are those actions which are prohibited? Those that remember how he proves over here after Marsala and fasting and though
like your with your daily with right meaning you recite a particular part of the Quran every day. Can you do that? Yes, you can, because it is your habit. Now, there are some weak narrations that prove that a menstruating woman cannot recite the Quran or that a person instead of Georgia, he cannot recite the Quran for example. The reason why I'm mentioning this over here is because if you read them anywhere, if you hear them anywhere, you should be aware that they are proven as unauthentic for example, there's a report described earlier, the lower and who that kind of a sort of is an anomaly or Salaam Yamuna holla II for your criminal court koloman alarm while I'm here
konnyaku Anisha on lei Sultan Allah the Prophet sallallahu Sallam would return from outdoors meaning after using the washroom and he would do
The Quran and he would eat meat with us meaning all this he would do without will do and nothing prevented him from the recitation of Quran except for Genova.
But this hadith is graded as a week. It has a weak chain. Another report that already who aren't who reported seeing the profits or losses and performable do recite some Quran and then say Hakka dalaman laser be Juniper ml Juniper, Fela wala that this is possible for a person who is not just meaning he can recite the Quran in this way as for agenda, he may not recite even one ayah for a magenta fella, whatever, gentle person cannot recite even one ayah again this Hadees is weak and other Hadees which is reported by Javelin and have been remodeled in our and who subscribed to them that layer will have a mineral Quran that a person in Geneva or menses may not recite any portion of
the Quran again this Hadees is greeted as weak. So, there are many references that are made but remember that they are authentic. And all of these evidences that are mentioned here from the statements of companions to the actions of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam What do they prove that a woman can recite the Quran even when she is menstruating
had a wound or even had the Center of Disease selama or mandible passing or not passing would be Mohammed on Aisha Takara Rajan, Mr. Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Lana guru el Hajj. She said, we went out with the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and we did not mention anything except for Hajj. Meaning we did not intend anything but Hajj Leonard Kuru, we did not mention because when a person goes for Hajj, obviously he mentioned what he is going to do. The people of je Leah they would say that earlier in the month of Hajj is of general for God, meaning it's the worst sin performing formula. In the month of had this was their belief. Now when the prophet SAW a lot of them, he said out with
the companions, he told them on the way that whoever wishes to do Irma may alter meaning he permitted them. And this is a reason why and so he Muslim it is narrated, that I shall deliver on her she said that when the people reach them you thought some people put under your hand for Hajj, meaning Hajj alone. Other people put on the ROM for Aruba first. Okay meaning tomato so they would do Umrah come out of the state of your home and when the day of Hajj would come they would put on the farm again and some people for Hajj and Ramallah combined meaning they're on. So this is story behind Lana's guru el Hajj when they set out their intention was only Hajj. But on the way the
Prophet sallallahu Sallam gave the instructions. And he told the people who can do or Mullah first and who can do it on one hand and hatch together and who can do hydro only when they reach the me thoughts. That's when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam instructed them when they left. They believe that only has because that was the belief of the people of jelly and that's what had continued until now. But on the way when the people reach me thought then the Prophet sallallahu Sallam gave the instructions, okay? For the magic now. Then when we came sediba at a place called serif, Thomas.
I began my period. For me it was from thumps. Let me automaton insulin pumps is basically vaginal bleeding. So for me, I began my period for de la la Antabuse, Allahu alayhi wa sallam, what an Abba key. He came upon me and I was weeping for Kalima. ukic. He said, what makes you cry?
I said, lava did I wish will lie by Allah unneeded, indeed, I love a hood jalaram that I did not do how to this year, I just had this, you know, I've had this feeling that I should not have done hard this year.
Either he said learn luck University, is that perhaps you've started your period will turn around? I said, Yes. Paula, he said for in the Delica union. So indeed, this is something that Allah which Allah has prescribed or lebon at Adam, on the daughters of Adam, Friday, my father had to do what the pilgrims do IRA and let the two female Beatty had tottori except for the left do not do that, until you have become clean.
So once you become clean, then you have to do the work because without it had is incomplete.
So what do we see here is the Prophet sallallahu Sallam told her to keep her Iran and carry on with the rest of the hijab performed the rituals, everything except for the left, and this is a reason why when she was at Mina, and she became clean, her beard ended. She went to do her the left and the rest of the people did that though at first, but she did hurt the left later, when she was at Mina and after Hajj when the people were going back then what happened? I should have known her went with her brother to do her. The rest of the people had done it before but she did it afterwards. A question was asked if a woman is going for her to the Mater, which is the case of the majority of
the people and on her way she begins to appear. You
Then what is she supposed to do? She hasn't been your brain, he replied that she should remain in her state of Iran for her. Because I'm gonna first right. So she should remain in the state of Iran even though she has begun her period. If she becomes pure before the ninth of the ledger, and she has the ability to complete the remote meaning there is enough time, then she should do so. And then she enters the equation for the hedge and goes to alpha to finish the rest of the rights of hedge. But if she does not become pure before the day of alpha, then she will combine the hedge with their own law by saying Oh Allah I have entered a state of hedge with marimba meaning she will say the
statement then is performing it as Iran so basically she will change her intention from the material Quran because her circumstances don't allow that anymore. And then she will stay with the people and complete all the acts are entering the inviolable state and her the wife on the day of either afterwards suffices for her visiting for her the laughs era and the running between the two hills mean the sorry for both the Hajj and Aruba, and she must also offer the sacrifice of Quran as also the one who does the mother must do so basically she can switch her depending on her situation. But what will she do mainly she will keep her economic.
Okay, she will not come out of the state of Islam. And this is what we learned from the Hadees of I shall deliver and she will do everything she will just defer her to left until she becomes clean. So her hard you will become from the motto. And if she wishes to do a Mullah then she can just do it afterwards. If the time is there,
or it's a panic along with your hands, they going to show the La ilaha illa Anta the stuff we're gonna do, we like Assalamu alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh