Channel: Taimiyyah Zubair
Series: Taimiyyah Zubair - Bukhari
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So, we are learning kuttabul we do have Sahil Buhari and inshallah we are going to study from Bab number 14 which is Bab a Tabata z fill booty a tuber was meaning using the washroom. It's from Baraz to use the washroom were filled with youth in the houses. Meaning Is it okay to have toilets within the house? Or is that something that is not permissible in our Deen? It is something that is permissible as long as the field does not contaminate the rest of the house, then it is completely permissible because in earlier studies, we learned about how people would go out away from the houses away from the population in order to use the washroom so is that something that's mandatory?
Or can you use the washroom within the house as well? But we see that it is something completely permissible, absolutely allowed. And if these days if that was not the case, then we would be in a lot of hardship. Why doesn't Abraham have no one there Carla had the Santa Ana signori Albin and obey the law and Mohammed live near here near haben. And Wesley urban you have been or delay him neuroma. Allah He said meaning of the law even or he said, if the ITU I went up, I ascended felpa above law at the back of meeting the roof of Beatty, the house of house letter, the house of houses and who was the wife of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, and she was also the sister of off of the
Laban oma. And he was very young at that time. So he went up on the house of hafsa Liberty Hagerty for some of my need for some purpose. And when he was up on the roof when he looked down for a two so I saw Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the Messenger of Allah sallallahu sallam, yuck Li hai Jetta who he was fulfilling his need meaning he was answering the call of nature. He was using the washroom mustad the bureau with his back, his back was towards Qibla the Qibla Masak Bella facing towards a shot me the Sham, Sham is Philistine and that is where beta mock This is. And we know that Medina do the north of that is a sham. And to the south of that is Makkah, so if you're
facing Mecca, then your back will be towards beta mock this in Medina. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam was using the washroom and he was facing Sham and his back was towards Bay to knock this. So what is this how these shows? Obviously, we discussed this earlier, it's not even conceivable that our beloved in our mode would deliberately go to see, you know, if somebody was using the washroom or not, no, this was accidental. And the reason why he narrated This was because there was something to learn in this. What is it that we learn from this Hardee's there are many lessons first is that a person may use the washroom within the house, as long as a separate area has been designated for
that purpose and proper arrangements have been made, so that the film does not contaminate the rest of the house, then it's completely permissible. Secondly, we also learned from this that as it was mentioned earlier, as well that if a person is in an enclosure in an enclosed place, then if the situation demands that he has to face, the Qibla, then it is permissible, he can have his face towards the curb line, he can also have his back towards the Qibla. It is permissible as long as it is within an enclosure, there is a wall in front of the person. But if it's out in the open, then it is not permissible to do that. The Next Web, there is no chapter heading that's given only Bab is
mentioned. And we see this as something very common in this book. And the reason is that what is mentioned further is a subsection of the previous section meaning it is further elaborating what was mentioned previously further emphasizes it further clarifies what has been proven over here had this an IR koebner Ibrahim farla had data now you see the blue heron color of barren area here and Mohammed near him may have been an Ummah, who that his uncle was there have never been a hobo that an Abdullah have neuromotor Abdullah Ahmad abajo. Who, Allah He said, Look, I don't know how to. Certainly I went up I ascended that Yeoman one day, Allah allottee by Tina, on the roof of our
house, meaning of one of our houses, and he considered the house of a sister as his own house for eight Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So I saw the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam clariden sitting, meaning in order to use the washroom Allah La Vina teeny until
brixx mostakbal are facing beta blockers, the beta knocked this. One thing that I want you to notice is the difference in the chain. The Hadith is similar, but the chain is slightly different. And the wording of the Hadith is also different. What does it show that this hadith is motivated? It has been narrated multiple times with multiple chains and also with different meanings so it has been narrated in meaning as well as in wording. What does that prove? If a hadith has been narrated in meaning as well as in wording, what does that show the authenticity of that Hadees Why is the man behind you mentioned the same Hadith and different different chains, different different wordings to
show how strong this opinion is? What opinion the permissibility of facing the Qibla when using the washroom or having the back towards it within an enclosure, or using the washroom in the house. So, a person should not have any holiday any kind of bad feeling, any guilt any feeling of sin when he is in a situation like that? Because sometimes it happens that you end up in a place and the toilet is fixed. I mean, you can't change the position of the toilet. Right? So we use the toilet but we have this guilt in our heart. So we should not have any guilt in our heart. inshallah.
Bab ellisdon je Wilma, I have a question for you before we continue.
What's the name of the book? This book kuttabul right. And what is it that we just learned about the etiquette of using the washroom What does that have to do with
why is the Mambo Hari mentioning this under taboo cleanliness taharah is a requirement for
it's a prerequisite for Voodoo and one must know the etiquettes the proper etiquette of using the washroom right so that he is clean so that he's not doing anything wrong. So that his window is also valid. Because you will notice that in this in this collection, there is no kitahara right. There is no kitahara we learn about war he we learn about Eman we learn about him and then directly to will do Why? Because we do is cleaning yourself and part of cleaning yourself is using the washroom as well. So where am I Buhari has mentioned the matters concerning boo boo. He has also mentioned matters concerning bajada in detail in this book, Bab lsdj bill Matt
Ellis danger cleaning oneself washing oneself how Bill Murray with the water This word is from noon Jean well from the word no jets and the jet is to be saved from some trouble and his danger is to rid oneself of harm. So it is to clean oneself to purify oneself after using the washroom
so it is to purify to clean the private parts after using the washroom so at least enjoy a bill man with water. What does it mean by this chapter heading wisely mentioning this that is it permissible to wash oneself after using the toilet? Or should one just wipe himself? We learned about we do that how when a person does will do he should be very conservative in the use of water. So the water that you bought that you paid for, you know that's so precious. I mean, should you be using it in the toilet to wash yourself? Yes, this is so now this is part of cleaning yourself. And at least in jabil Matt is also mentioning this to prove that washing yourself with the water. This is also
sufficient to obtain purity. Meaning it's not necessary to wipe oneself for example with toilet paper. Back in the day people would use caked mud
or they would use stones. So it's not necessary to wipe washing with the water is sufficient. Had the above led he shall have no Abdulmalik Allah had gotten a Sherpa to be more than what and his mobile his name whose name I boomerang. His name is Otto ob maimunah. Kala he said Sameera to enter sub nomadic and I heard and I said Malik yaku he was saying cannon abuse Allahu alayhi wa sallam the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he used to either holida when he would go out, Lehigh jetty for his need meaning to answer the call of nature. A G. I would come on myself wahoo Lamin and a boy Marina along with us. What would he bring what would we bring to the Prophet sallallahu sallam, he
that was on a vessel a container mimma in of water. So when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam would go to use the washroom, myself and another boy, we would go along
With the Prophet sallallahu Sallam carrying a container of water, why? The irony, meaning he has 10 gb he would wash himself with it, he will clean himself with that water that we will bring. for him. The word Adela is used for a small container that is made of leather. So you can say like water skin, so they would bring that for the Prophet sallallahu Sallam so that he could use the washroom and clean himself after that. Now, that's quite obvious. Why is the member Hari mentioning this? The thing is that the scholars they dislike that a person would touch the field directly with the hand. Yes, inshallah, we will learn that the right hand should not be used when cleaning oneself, the left
hand should be used. But the scholar is disliked that a person should directly touch filled with the hand. And this is why they recommended that it's best that a person wipes off the filth first and then uses the water. But a man Buhari has proven over here that it is completely permissible to just use the water. Because in all circumstances, it's not possible that a personnel to wipes himself if he only has bought water available to him, then that's also completely fine. But there's a very neat thing that we see in this Hadees that two younger companions, they could go along with the Prophet sallallahu Sallam carrying the water for him. could he not carried himself? Yes, he could, then why
would they carry it for him?
out of love, because children, especially when they love someone, they don't want to leave them. They want to go upstairs with them and downstairs with them and inside with them and outside with them. So these companions were very young, and they love the Prophet sallallahu Sallam a lot. So they did not want to leave Bart with him, even for some time. The prophets of Allah Islam also he accepted their love that when they wanted to help him, he accepted that he didn't say, No, no, it's okay. I'll do it myself. You go do something different.
Because children, they learn from companionship, they learn from observation a lot. And we see that they were also assisting the Prophet sallallahu Sallam in this way, they were also helping him. Because if the Prophet sallallahu wasallam, he would be distracted by these little little matters, then how would he be able to do great things? Because for ordinary people, even these little matters can become a big deal. Right? I have to get food I have to cook, I have to eat and you do this. Your whole day can go by in just worrying about these little matters, but essential matters. So they were helping the Prophet sallallahu sallam. But we see that these days, what's the situation that every
person thinks that you know, let them do it? themselves? I don't want them to depend on me. I don't want that I should depend on anyone. And I don't want that they should depend on me. But the thing is that we are people and we need one another bad man, Camila Mara, who? Man the one who Camila Mara who it was carried with him, allow all the water, little hoodie for his purification. So before we continue the previous studies, how does that show that water is enough for cleaning oneself? How does this previous studies show that water is enough for cleaning oneself? that the children those boys, they did not bring stones or any other thing along with them, all that they brought was water,
which shows that it was the way of the profit sort of autism to just use water as well. So when homina Mara who allow a little hoodie on someone having water carried with him for purification purpose, meaning should a person carry it himself, or can another assist him in this cause? They can, meaning another person can assist him when in using the washroom in bringing the water and there's no harm in that. It's not that a person is being proud if he accepts a child, or if somebody is helping him or her in this way. It's not arrogance, it's not pride. It's something that's completely permissible, because sometimes it happens that that's an elderly person or a person who
has let's say, their children with them. So if they have to use the washroom they ask somebody could you please hold this for me? While I use the toilet? Could you please wait here for me? Could you just bring this for me please? So is there any harm in doing that? There isn't. And it also shows Minho, Mila Mara, who will Maria to hurry that water was brought along with him before he went to use the washroom not that he went to use the washroom and then he discovered there's no water here. So he's screaming out for help. What rather that a person should prepare from before? So when you enter the stall, make sure that there's water?
Of course, yeah, many places until recently until today, even. This is a situation that people when they go to the walk to the washroom, they have to take water along with them. Or, for example, if you're living in a place like Canada, there aren't showers installed in your washrooms next to your toilet. So you have to take water with you from the sink to the toilet. So yes, you take it yourself but if it
person is in a situation where he needs the help of another. Can he take that help? Yes he can. So for example, you go with your let's say grandmother, who's elderly you go to a public washroom and she needs to use the washroom immediately she can't wait for the lineup to in order to get the water so can you get the water for her while she's in the washroom? Yes, you can. There's no harm in this. Never think that you have been insulted or, or that you know, this is something that I should not be doing. No, there's nothing nothing wrong with that at all. And, in fact, this is actually the means of great honor for a person to help another obtain purity. We see here what color a Buddha and a
Buddha he said la Serpico is there not among you saw heavener Laney what the hoodie while we Sadie is there not among you? The sorry, the the the person off the carrier off a narrow lane the sandals, what the hoof and the water? Why is it called the hood because it is used for washing for purification? While we Sadie and the pillow The question is you're not among you, the person who would carry for the Prophet sallallahu wasallam, his sandals, his water, and his cushion in his travels in his journeys. Who is this person who would carry the prophets of Allah Islam sandals, and his water and his fellow when he would be traveling? Does anyone know of the law even was rude?
It'll be a low or no, no ordinary person. Yes, he was a very young companion at the time. But he grew up to be one of the greatest scholars of Islam.
So if we ever have to help someone assist someone in these ways, never ever think that our time is being wasted, that our energy is being wasted, our talents are being wasted. We have so much ability to other things we can read. And we can write and we can brainstorm ideas, and we can implement such great things. Why is it that our time is being wasted in these little things? No, there is a time for everything. And a person learns from these experiences as well. Because we see that a valuable student of knowledge is not just someone who studies a book from the teacher, and that's it, or just sits in front of the teacher and learns and that signal. He accompanies the teacher outside of the
classroom setting as well, in these apparently very little matters. And it's this companionship that brings honor to a person and that a person really learns from that. I have seen myself that, for example, my mother, there have been some students of hers, we've been very, very close to her very attached to her. And doing things like carrying her bag or carrying her book or taking out her glasses from her glasses case and giving them to her. But you learn from this. You learn from this. And I've seen that all those people who have been this close to her who have worked so closely with her their level of ailment, Armand is different compared to others. Because when you accompany
someone, then you learn hikmah. But when you just sit in the classroom, then you just learn,
then you cannot change that element or hikma, you have to have that experience of working along side by side with.
And when you're working along with the teacher, then the other also has to be there. And to show that other you have to serve the teacher as well.
I was looking at you and I was wondering, be Canadian, how a girl could be so much you know, that added here in living in here in society. And now it is because I'm sick and I need a lot of help from my kids. By that time, I couldn't even think of it that my kids would someday do that. But never miss out this chance. Because when you get too small when you're learning you're staying with someone with the teachers or whatever. We're learning a lot now and hamdulillah my daughter, she has been literally doing all these things. She holds my shoes when I have to enter into the machine. And same scene I saw myself when I was thinking No, it's not possible. But what tighter is to manage
when you are in a company with the people because he has been coming here for a couple of years, you will know you're gaining something and not losing something, she fills up even the water in the washroom for me. So maybe might be up personally would have not done that much what she learned from other teachers here from the companions this time. It's something amazing that you can learn a lot so we should not miss out.
And this is what no teaches humility. You know, it's very easy to sit down the teacher and listen and disagree in your heart or not do the work that they're telling you to do. Yeah, you can do that. But when you have to hold their sandals or their bag or their
Bring water to them in the washroom, then that really humbles you, that really helps you accept what your teacher is saying that unfortunately, this has been completely reversed, that elders are serving the younger ones constantly, constantly. And the younger ones are not being trained as to how they should help the elders. So a very good suggestion that teach your children from now that if there is an older person, give water to them, especially if they're living with their grandparents, their uncles, their aunts, then have them serve them. I was just thinking about the honor of knowledge that, especially with our scholars, and you were saying like, for instance assessor and
other people that, that the lava and they do follow them around, and they show that kind of respect, and it's showing honor of having that knowledge. And I was just thinking to what Adam is to them that the reason the angels did search there was because of that he had the honor of knowledge. And so for us to that shows that I was thinking that that we also also have to show that honor to our respective teachers. Yes. And this honor, this respective person can only show when they have love, you know, true love, sincere love, then you know, person can do anything. Like I've seen people that really fight over who's going to take the shoes and who's gonna take the bag and who's gonna take
the book. I've seen it myself. There is a competition, a healthy competition, but it's there.
That doesn't necessarily matter with no help. In fact, I had that in a Sherpa too, and it'd be more often who are a thought of new lbma Mona parlor similar to Anderson. He said, I heard a little more on who you follow. He was saying ganahl assuta law he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam either Harada when he went out he had a jetty for his need to adhere to who I followed him. and myself were hula Amman and another boy, I mean, none of us meaning another boy, one of the other boys, Marana along with us, and what would we bring either within me man, a container of water. So all of these are Hadith show that there was our beloved Massoud who
was our habanero lane with the whole world while we said and there was also an a signal Malik and as even Radek, he says that there was another boy, now that other boy could be our beloved one was rude. He's not taking his name, and it could be somebody else as well. But we see that the younger companions, they would do this regularly, they would help the Prophet sallallahu Sallam use the washroom but how many learners at carrying the anessa Marla he with the water Phyllis danger for a stranger. Now, earlier we learned about the use of water. Here we learn about anessa as well what is another another is a spear. So if a person is going to use the toilet out in the open somewhere,
then yes, he will take something to clean himself with but along with that, he will also take a spear with him. Why for what purpose for several reasons. One of them could be to dig the earth in order to soften it so that when a person is using the washroom there are no splashes that come on to his body right to soften the earth and also so that he can dig out more Earth in order to cover the filth in order to bury it because the person should not leave such things exposed. Yes, it's out in the distance but still it's not good for the environment that you know such things are lying out in the open and there are other reasons as well which inshallah we will learn how does no Mohammed Abu
Bashar in Paula had the Sunnah Mohammed no Jonathan, Allah had done a Sherpa to artha if need be maimunah semirara nsfx numele he heard an SF nomadic yaku he was saying cannot assume de la he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam at the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he used to Yeah, the whole holla he would enter the washroom. Holla is a place where a person is alone, or either Hello. They were alone, they became a non suhaila a place where a person is alone Why to use the washroom so you would enter the washroom and this could be a place that that could be designated somewhere it could also be out in the open somewhere for Emmylou. So I would carry and I myself will
hula moon and avoid it our time we met a container of water where on a certain and also a sphere. Yes, Benji bill met he would clean himself with the water, Deborah washer then unsure about that. And remember how he writes that Allah has to also and another is an assault meaning it's a staff it's a stick, I lay is on it is a spearhead. So in other words, a spear. So this pair, the when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam would go to the washroom he would take one along with him and the boys would carry it for him. And like I said earlier, it would be used to dig the earth and also, it would be used to butt in the earth in front of a person or in the back or on the side wherever and a
cloth would be hung on to it in order to screen himself.
So, for instance, a person is somewhere out in the open somewhere and he goes off to the side, no matter how much he tries to conceal himself behind rocks or behind bushes or whatever, there's still some part, you know, some side through which he could be exposed. So let's say he puts a spear, a stick or something, and he puts a cloth over it, so that he has some privacy. So what does it show that having privacy is something that is essential, especially when using the washroom. And another benefit could be that if a person is using the toilet out in the open, especially behind the bushes or somewhere, then it's quite possible that snake or some other harmful creature comes along, so you
need to take action immediately. I remember somebody once mentioned to me that they went out somewhere to use the washroom within a field, it was a field and they went out within the big bushes to use the washroom and all of a sudden they saw a snake. And it had two blue eyes, big blue eyes and to say that they still remember that snake. In that moment, they were so afraid that we'll have to let the snake did not harm them, but sometimes it's useful to have such things with you in order to protect yourself. Now, all of these bodies, they teach us the etiquette of using the bathroom. And they also teach us some important principles of the era of cleanliness. And like I mentioned
earlier that this is part of a taboo, because the condition of will do is thorough cleanliness, a person cannot have will do if the body has some field on it. And we see that these are these they also teach us about the validity or the permissibility of the assault or at least injured meaning the permissibility of using only water to clean oneself that it is not necessary to wipe off the field with something first if a person only has water that is also sufficient.
And I mentioned earlier that some scholars they did not recommend that a person only use water why because the field is is touching the hand even though it may be the left hand but it's best that a person does not have to directly you know these days we have soap but back in the day when people did not have soap available to them. Or if you are traveling and you realize that you go to the public toilet and as you put your hand under the soap thing, there's no soap coming out what are you going to do in that situation. So you have to know you should know about how to use the washroom when you don't have soap available you understand and it happens with us many times many times. So,
we see that there are three permissible ways of cleaning oneself on using the washroom three permissible ways one is only is the mouth which is to use chunks of clay or to use rocks and just to wipe the filth off as long as a person can completely remove the field you can wipe it off this is also enough so for example a person has only toilet paper as long as all of the filth has been wiped off it has been removed it is sufficient it is permissible to do that a person should not make that a habit because eventually it's not something that's very hygienic but it does the job it is permissible This is something new for many of us I know because whenever we have to go to the public
toilet we have to carry a bottle with us and you know feel awkward and filling up a water bottle from you know the sinks but remember that it is permissible to just wipe off the field as well is the smell is also enough. Secondly, there is another way which is only using water only using water this is also permissible and the third way is a combination of both is digital and using water and that is
the best way okay the best way because it is more clean and you know it is purifies the person even better. So that is the best but a person must know what the other permissible ways are so that you're not in that feeling of guilt you don't have that heavy feeling that feeling of guilt in your heart at a time when water is not available to you. If you wipe yourself property, so that there is no filth on the body at all, then you can perform Voodoo and it will be
valid. Okay inshallah we will learn about that as well. inshallah, we will learn that for each mount it's not just the clay chunks that were used, but also rocks and challenge the Hardys we've learned now with a rock I mean, nothing is going to remain on your body you only using the rock to wipe off nothing is going to remain to as long as the film can be removed with whatever material is accessible to you. It is permissible it is valid. Yes, there is a difference between clay chunks and toilet paper, but the result is the same. Okay, the result is the same but an A the prohibition
My name is TJ, from East ninja Binyamin with the right hand, the prohibition of using the right hand for cleaning oneself for washing oneself. Why? Because the right hand is used for good things, clean things, for eating for drinking, and the left hand is used for cleaning oneself in the washroom. Now, like I mentioned to you, before, people didn't have soaps, or even now you could be in a situation where you don't have soap accessible to you. So if you know that your right hand is clean, it did not touch any filth directly, and you have to eat then you can eat right? You used only water to wash your hand. So you can eat Yes, you might not have a very good feeling. But you can eat why
because you know that your right hand did not have any contact with any film. If there was any contact with the field. It was only with the left hand It was very minimal. And it was very temporary. So now here is the injury Believe me because some people they might say that what's the big deal? I mean, I'm just gonna use soap and my hands will be clean. Even if I'm using the right hand. Yes, your hand will be clean after use the soap but still there's you know a feeling that you have had the cinema either mufa baletta calahonda Tina Sherman, who he was at the store he are near heavenly Abbey, Catherine and Abdullah him near Abu Qatada and Avi, Allah He said follow the suit of
law Hassan Allahu alayhi wa sallam the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said it as sediba. When he drinks how to come one of you when one of you drinks fella yet enough for us, then he should not blow fill in he in the container in the cup, meaning he should not exit he should not breathe out into the cup. What is there at Valhalla and when he comes to the washroom, Fela yamasa then he should not touch the camera who his private part be urbini he with his right hand? Well, I yet I must, nor should he wipe be emini, he with his right hand. So in other words, the right hand should not be used, neither for washing the private part, nor for wiping the private part clean. Now
remember, this is not something that's held on. Okay, it's not something that's held on, but rather it is mcru.
It is disliked, because a person could be in a situation where he can only use the right hand. For example, the left hand is injured. Let's say you cut your finger, and you have a big bandaid on your left hand, I mean, you can't make that hand wet. Likewise, the person could have fractured their left hand or arm or it could be any reason. So in that case, he will use the right hand. And again, when he's using the right hand, you should not feel that guilt. Because remember, this is not how long it is makuu, but it is not how long. But this does not mean that without any reason any genuine reason, because we find it convenient to use the right hand, we are used to using our right hand. So
we go on using our right hand, no, we should develop the habit of using the left hand for wiping and for washing, for wiping. Okay, you have to wipe off the field. So for that you have to use, for example, toilet paper. And then after that, you can pour water on top. So for that, when you will wipe off, then do not use the right hand only use the left hand, unless there is a genuine reason why a person has to use the right hand. Because if you only pour water, okay, and don't wipe yourself clean, then it's quite possible that some field has remained and you did not know. So a person should also wipe off
that we think are what's the big deal. But for them, it was a big deal. Because the Prophet sallallahu wasallam said do not use the right hand for this purpose. And we might say, well, it's not Haram. So what's the big deal with the profit sort of artisan upset and we should make a habit of not using the right hand instead only using the left hand. So we see here about the prohibition of using the right hand for washing or for wiping. Why What's the reason? There are two reasons. First of all, ecomm lillia mean to honor the right hand, because the right hand you use for like we discussed earlier eating and drinking and for writing and in Salah, you know in the shower hood,
right, you're using your finger, you're moving it up and down. When you're standing in prayer insula, you have your right hand on top of your left hand. So the right hand is special.
And that means it has to be honored. So it has to be honored then there should not be any direct contact between the right hand and filth. And secondly, to avoid cross contamination to avoid filth from spreading. So what is dirty it's only on the left hand
Even if you don't have soap accessible to you wash your hand, but still don't use it for eating or drinking for greeting other people. Because you use the washroom you didn't find soap, you washed your hands multiple times, but you have to greet someone, if you use your right hand, it's quite possible that there are traces of failed still on your hand. So you don't want to touch other people with that hand. Right? You don't want to eat with that hand. So for this reason, these are the two reasons. An important thing that we learn in this Hardee's is that when using the washroom wiping as well as washing, both are necessary are better wiping and washing so wiping off the filth first and
then pouring water on top. And if we observed this etiquette property, then our hands would be much cleaner and the spread of many bacterias and viral infections would also be limited. By Liam siku vacarro, who he should not meaning a person should not hold his private part be a meanie he with his right hand either Bella, when you're in eating, and this is of relevance to men, specifically, that when a man is using the washroom, then he should not hold this private part with the right hand Rather, he should hold it with the left hand. But this is important for women to know as well. Why? Because we have to teach our children, our boys and it's necessary that they are taught this
etiquette from the very beginning. They're taught this etiquette from the very beginning because these habits they develop when children are very young. Hadassah, Mohammed Abu Yusuf, Allah had the tunnel Oh, sorry, and you're having a bigger theater and of the lay of niobium patata an OBE on an obeah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam upon either Bella had to come when one of you urinates fillet who then dakara who be Yemeni, then he should not hold his private part with the right hand while a stingy be a meanie, nor should he wash with his right hand, whenever yet enough, first fill in, nor should he blow into the container. So another Hadees proves that these three things are not allowed.
There is one thing that we learned here about not blowing into the container, which container, which cup, the drinking cup, mini when a person is drinking, then he should not exhale into it, he should not breathe out into it. Why? Because when you exhale, obviously, carbon dioxide comes out, right. So you don't want that to enter into pure h2o into pure water or the drink that you're having. You don't want that to get contaminated. But especially when it's a shared cup, because back in the day, every person did not have their individual cup, they would have one big container from which everybody would drink, they would take turns. So especially when you are sharing a bottle or a cup,
or a glass or whatever, then please observe this etiquette. Because it's a very uncivilized practice. I mean, even if a child blows into a cup, you don't want to drink from it, you don't want to, because it sometimes makes the water smelly, makes the cup smelly. Likewise, when a person is breathing air out, then it's quite possible that along with that, some spit or, or something would come out of the mouth or the nose, contaminate the water. And this could also cause the spread of bacterias and viruses. So when I get an office fill in, in these bodies, we see that it is not allowed for us to use the right hand when using the washroom or when cleaning ourselves. Now this is
such a private matter, who knows which hand you were using. Who knows? Only Allah knows.
Right? Only Allah knows. So even when a person is using the toilet, you should have a law that a person was not forget a lot in any circumstances, in any state in any place, in any action in any activity. That my lord is watching me He knows what hand I'm using. And I know which one he likes and which one he does not like me to use for now. This is what is meant by Leah Allah mala, who may have who believe, who fears a lot, even in the unseen when nobody's watching. And we should also train our children in the same way. Now I'll take one more thing that we learned about the door of intercourse. Even at that time, a person has to seek refuge with a law against the shape on meaning.
Don't forget a law in any situation in the most private and secret, intimate affairs as well. anything you'd like to add before we continue
even this has not allowed to blow and contaminate the water. So that is like cleaning with the right hand is so much severe than that.
The connection is that if we are not allowed to blow into the water, then how can we make our hands dirty or right handed that is going to be used for eating and drinking. It's been proven that tuberculosis spreads through
bit. So if you're if you're blowing in the in the cup that you're sharing with other people, so you're actually who knows who has what I'm not saying, God forbid, you have such and such. But whatever you have, the other person might be affected by it, even though it's just cold or anything. Yes.
That's an article. I was just trying to think that imagine our religion, I think is the only religion that teaches you everything about yourself. The etiquettes of going to the washroom coming into the washroom, how to use the washroom, how to bark, how to clean yourself, every aspect of cleanliness is taught in order. Listen. So how can we say that Islam is not a good Everything is there from day one, like the fact that you sleeping with your husband? Again, Allah tala tells you, there's something there many times because of lack of education, right? People, they don't have proper hygiene. And because of that diseases spread so quickly, and you know, children, they're sick
adults, they're sick. But if people are given this education, that when you're using the toilet, use the left hand, don't use the right hand. And then wash yourself afterwards. When you're drinking don't blow into the cup. I mean, these are these rules are enough to save people. I feel awkward sharing this, but a while back, they did a survey about the phones, how hygenic your phones are, because when SARS and all the other things spread, they started doing these things. And they found I read something the heading was the phone talk getting dirty. I thought God forbid, what is this? And they said that they found that the phones had traces of filth on it. Because
wherever Yeah, yes, even when people are sitting on the toilet, they're using their phones. In a sometimes you're in a public washroom and you hear beeps and buzzes and you wonder what's happening inside the washrooms, right. So at least spare your phone over there. And honestly, like many people have put on on their phones, or they will read good things on their phones, they will get emails With the name of Allah subhanaw taala mentioned in them, how can you use your telephone in the washroom? I mean, yes, you're spending a lot of time on the toilet. But when you come out, this is why you say ronica? Well, I beg your pardon that I was not able to remember you much.
colleague was basically, she found out that when after using the washroom, we clean ourselves with water. So she thought it was funny. And I never thought it was something that's funny to non Muslims that we use water afterwards. And then that same day, we were discussing about the pinkeye. And I was wondering, oh, I've never gotten a pinkeye in my life. I don't know, how can how do you get a pinkeye. And she was telling me that? Well, it's when a person touches their behind and then then touches their eye, some sort of contamination happens that causes the pinkeye. And then I told her, that's why we don't get the pink eye because we watch. So I remember a sister once told me that she
was in university. And there were a lot of Muslims over there. And every time they went to the washroom, the two bottles of water along with them. And she was like, What are you guys doing? Why do you do that? So eventually, she asked them, and they told her that we wash ourselves. And she said, that makes so much sense. This was her first one of her first exposures to Islam. And she said that this made so much sense to me. I said, this has to be the right religion. And it actually led her to
embracing Islam. And it's within the fifth law as well. Recently, I was learning about reading about researching that how do you get your children to use public washrooms, especially in school? How do you get them to use school washrooms without any fear or, you know, comfortably because for many children, it's a big transition to start using toilets at school comfortably. So one of the mothers who had mentioned that her daughter she would refuse to use the washroom at school, and they could not figure out and finally she understood that at home, she uses the wet wipes. Right? So she feels cleaner. But at school, there's only toilet paper. So she wasn't comfortable using only toilet
paper. She wanted to have that completely clean feeling. So this is why she wouldn't use it on it at school. So then her mother got her those flushable wipes so that she could use those wipes at school and use it on it over there. So it's in the fitrah
and I really don't understand how when children are small babies I mean you wipe them properly with wipes and then eventually you move on to the flushable wipes and then all of a sudden toilet paper mean how it doesn't make sense. You completely clean at the beginning and then you don't wash later. Why not? Yes it is okay. In a situation where you don't have water accessible to you like we discussed earlier it is okay. But it should not be a habit of a person to do that on a regular basis. In exceptional case here there that's different from when they are dirty.
have their diaper, you would find some of the babies instantly change their behavior, they're crying, or they're very uncomfortable. They keep on looking at the mom and they want to go because they want to be cleaned. So I've had this experience
with confidence that yes, the ladder last minute Allah has already created it with these alarms these alerts that now you see, do this this this so the SARS wouldn't spread do this this and there are diseases that are coming up that they have no idea what they are and how to have this done the research that how to take care of it and how to stop it. Unless what Allah put this mechanism in the human being because we are Ashraful Muskoka from the very very start. Yes, now you don't need you never don't at all. So there's something important that must be taught to young boys.
out of love when you know that getting a ping purely.
When you do it out of the love of Allah you'll already apply all
the fears one devil out of love, yes, very true. That one is that out of fear person is doing is observing the proper rules and the other is out of love The Prophet sallallahu Sallam said this. He did not allow us to do it. Alone wants us to do this so out of love. Also a person does this by a stingy evil hedge Arathi on cleansing oneself after using the washroom How will haidara using stones using rocks. So this shows that the use of water is not mandatory. It's better but it's not mandatory. There are other options as well. A person can use chunks of clay and he can also use stones had this inner Mohammed Anil Maki you call ahead the Santa Maria here, if necessary. The near
Ramadan ultimate key you Anja de Avi Herrera, Allah He said it the Berto nebia sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, I followed the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam waha Raja while he had left while he had gone out, he had a tea for his need, meaning once the Prophet sallallahu Sallam left to use the washroom and I followed him for Ghana lay LTV to so he used to not look back meaning it was the habit of the profits on a lot of sediment and when he would be walking, he would not look behind him we would not look back further now to mean who so I came close to him. So that the profit or the loss and he would know that I am there if he needs anything for color. So he said it will lynnie
jaren evalina bring for me a head on rocks stones, a STEM field be here. I wipe I clean myself with it. A Stanfield is from Nevada, Nevada is to shake off the dust off something so a STEM field we have meaning I can remove the field from it. I wonder who or it's like well at Dini and do not bring me beardsmen with a bone wala Rosen nor dung, don't bring me bone or dunk for a day to who so I brought him I came to him big rain with rocks, Bill toffee, at the edge of the Abbey, my garments, my clothes for our bar to her. So I placed them Elijah up to his side meaning on his side, what are allowed to earn who and I left him meaning I turned away from their fellow man other than when he
finished at vero who beginner he followed up with me and he used them to clean himself. We see here that the Prophet sallallahu sallam, he went once to use the washroom and a boohoo Raider or below or on who he followed him. Interesting. If this happens, we would think I mean, you're stalking them you're leave them alone for some time at least let them use the washroom in privacy at least. But you see there is a difference in the intention. One is that you're stalking someone. And the other is that you're following them around to make sure they don't need any help any assistance that perhaps you can be of assistance to them. And when you go to help someone with the right intention,
you're getting your budget, even if you don't get to help them, but inshallah Allah will also give you the opportunity to help them. So like a Buddha or no, he followed him the Prophet sort of autism did not look back. But a Buddha came close so that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam would sense that somebody is there, and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam told him to go bring the rocks. So he really wanted to help the Prophet sallallahu Sallam so he got the chance. He got that opportunity
is one of the people with the most knowledge and you're so close to prophesies and that he knew his walking habits that how he used to walk. And it just shows you that if you want knowledge, you'll strive right and get to know
at any cost,
then we see that when he went out to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam Prophet sallallahu Sallam did not look back. Why? Because it was his habit. Why would you not look back when he would be walking? Have we ever done that many times? I hate to do that a lot. We're walking somewhere, and we're looking somewhere else. And we bump into someone, and then we apologize, or we bump into something and hurt ourselves. Yes, because he had no worries. Okay. It shows that he was focused on whatever he was doing. He was not distracted by things or people or so if ever you're walking behind somebody, and they turn back and look at you, how do you feel? Did I do something wrong? Did I say something
wrong? Is it okay for me to come here. So the people behind you, they will feel awkward. They might feel threatened, they might feel uncomfortable. So when we're walking, we should avoid looking back. Because it can cause other people hurt, discomfort. Another thing is that, when we're walking, we should look straight and not look back, because we are not made responsible to look at and watch over everything. Okay? Because sometimes want to have control over the whole situation. So we're looking everywhere scanning the whole place, every person that's walking by in front of us on the side behind us, I mean, who said you're in charge here? And who said you have to look over and watch
over everything and everyone you don't have to. Right? So move on. And also, if a person keeps looking back, it shows that they are afraid.
Right? Like it was mentioned, he had no worries, he had no fears. So why would you look back. So when you keep looking back, that shows that you were afraid. And in fact, it will make you even more afraid. So for example, if you are walking and you pass by a room, and you look into it, and as you go back as you keep moving forward, you look back again. And then you'll be Why did somebody come out and you look back again, you will not be able to focus on where you're going and you will be even more afraid. So it's an IFB. Right, it's not something that's praiseworthy, it's a fault that a person could have have keep looking back. So, the Prophet sallallahu sallam, he was free of this
Arab. Now, we see here that Abu huraira did our and when he went the Prophet sallallahu sallam, he did not see him, because of the Prophet did not look back that means he did not see a Buddha. But he knew that who was there, why? Because a Buddha came close. So he sensed him, he must have felt his movement or maybe he coughed or something. So he recognized, he knew that Abu huraira Who was there? So without even looking at him, he said, Bring me some rocks, and then later brought the rocks and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam again did not see him, what does it show that a person may ask and respond in labor, meaning when the other is not present in front of you?
So for example, if there is any guy that has been taken place over the telephone, over Skype, is that valid nica?
Is that yes, as long as you know that the other person is there. Okay, because some people wonder, did recently somebody asked me, and I was like, I don't know. I don't know if Anika over the telephone is valid, but it is valid this had these proofs was because the prophet SAW this and not see a Buddha but he knew he was there. So he asked him a question, he made a request, and I will read and responded to him, right without even the profit sort of autism seeing him in front of himself. So, as long as you know that someone is there, you can communicate with them. And requests may be made a question may be asked and answer may be given. So for example, in an HCA question is
asked, right, do you agree to marry this person? And they say, yes, there is a job and qubool and so on and so forth. So that may take place when two people are, you know, one is in one continent and the other isn't in the other as long as you know that it is that person, right? So for example, you can see over Skype or whatever. The next time somebody asks you, you know what to say. But don't give this theory because it's kind of difficult to understand. But we see that the profits or losses and he said Bring me some stones and do not bring me born or dunk so he especially forbade born and why the bone is the food for the jinn and dung is just bad, you don't use it to clean yourself. good
reason. Bonds are like it was said food for the jinn. And dung is the food for their beasts, the beasts of jinn. This shows the superiority of human beings above that the meat you eat and the bone that you leave the gin. We eat that and the dung that is the dedication of your animal
is food for their beasts. And we also see that this dung of cows of sheep of camels, basically off an arm, the animals that were allowed to eat, this dung in itself is actually live in itself is clean their urine, their dung is clean, which is why people use it even as fuel. They use it to plaster their walls, it's used for various reasons. If it was impure, we would not be allowed to use it. Otherwise, the houses would be extremely filthy, especially when you would go to a village, which is what some people do. They go to a village, right? No women, I can't touch this. There is no way I'm going there. It is clean, it is quiet. Can you eat bone? Can you use bone? Of course you
can, you are allowed to take stock out of it, you're allowed to use it to, you know, to crush it, or to take some whatever out of it, you make medicines, or whatever, you are allowed to do that. But whatever we leave, that is food for the gym. It doesn't mean that save the bones, put them in a plate and in that empty room in your house so that the gyms can have a feast? No, that's not what the meaning is. The thing is that if you put failed on a bone, that's not fair, I mean, that bone could be food for someone for one of the creatures of a loss of data. So this is a reason why the prevalence of autism forbade that don't bring me a bone, because filth should not be put on the
bone. It's not fair. I mean, somebody else could use it. And this shows that, when wiping ourselves clean after using the toilet, we can use any material as long as it's not one of these two, and it's not something that could be of use to others. So for example, toilet paper, some people say, Oh, how much paper are we wasting, but that has been made for this purpose.
Okay, but if let's say you take some expensive, some really nice tissues that have been made for you know, that have some cream on them some lotion, and then some fragrance on them, so that when people have a call, they're blowing their nose, their nose doesn't get bruised, right, the skin doesn't come off. So if you're using such lavish things for wiping yourself, yes, it's not how long but it's not something that's a good idea, because it could be used for a better purpose. So this hadith shows to us that we can wipe ourselves with any material, water is ideal, but wiping ourselves gate mud can be used, stones can be used, any material can be used as long as it is not Food For others,
it is not abused to others. So what he forbade was born and done out with regards to the bone. Like it was mentioned earlier that it's food for the jinn, we learned that if the name of Allah is mentioned, when slaughtering the animal and when eating off that piece of meat, then when that bone is discarded, and a jinn, let's say Muslim when he eats it, then he will find it full of nutrition for himself full of meat for himself. Yes.
throw it in the garbage or something, but unless Potala has put everything, it's amazing, nothing was told that we discard, we don't dirty it. And then unless montella feeds it to the gym. It's just recycled, right? Otherwise, can you imagine how many boards there would be left in the world. So many animals dying. So many people die. Now a person might say that, you know, this bone I, I threw it in the garbage in the garbage was there for a whole week. And the one was still there. So we didn't eat it. Or let's say a person says okay, this bone was here for years and years and years. It's these many, let's say hundreds of years old. Jen did not eat it. So remember that this is a
matter of lay, the bone may stay as it is. The dung may stay in the barn for years and years. Okay, but how do they eat it?
What nutrition to the find on it? Although this is a part of unlike the messengers have a lot of semi informative so we believe in it. The thing is that what is your property over which you had mentioned the name of Allah, the jinn, they're not allowed to take it. If they take it it is theft on their part. So they will be sinful, they will be held accountable. And yes, they are capable of stealing human beings belongings and using them and benefiting from them. But if they do take some of it, it would be wrong on their part. So let's say you have food in a bowl in a plate, you have a drink in a cup, and you left it uncovered, let's say during the night, then should you eat from it?
No, you should not why because from another Hadees we learned that during the night. I don't remember the exact wording but during the night, some evil may descend and it may have entered the container the vessel so you don't know it may have
So any harm could have entered into it could have contaminated the food, so it's best to avoid it. I remember once we had some drinks, and
there was a bottle of pop or something like that, and I believe it was left uncovered by mistake. And my sister when she took it, there were ants in it. And it was I don't know if she actually drank from it or what, but my father had a good time laughing over there. And then he told us that he taught us that Hades, when you leave something uncovered in the night, then there is some evil that descends in the night and it could have contaminated could have entered the food, or the drink or the cup. So we don't eat of that. So be careful before you go to bed. Just make sure you take around of the kitchen, because you don't want to throw food in the morning. I was just saying I think it
was like an instruction to cover your vessels of food. Because there is something that designs in the night and connectors. I think it's just to cover the food and to put away Yeah, the bones and the dirt separate know, when we throw our kitchen garbage, for example. We don't have to make sure the bones are separate. No, we don't have to do that. Because the more a person shows humility to the gym, the more they
are Ah, we have not been told. I mean, you might say that, oh, I might as well you know, there's no harm in being nice. Yes, there is no harm in being nice. But it can cause damage to you. I remember somebody mentioned to me that their house somewhere, there are some gin, for whom they prepare food. Yeah, and when they don't, they get upset. And they will break their things and their windows or whatever I mean, a lot of damage will be caused so they have to keep preparing food for them. Otherwise they will get upset. This is something that's not right. Because this is like serving the gin the shouting and they're getting gaining power. Because I do hope that he taught us don't use
the bone for this purpose. You want to throw it throw it but don't use it, too. But feel free to clean yourself. And also if you think about it bone was food once upon a time so have respect for it. It was food once upon a time so don't use it to wipe yourself clean. And why not dung because dung like mentioned earlier it's food for the beasts of the jinn. And yes, like I mentioned earlier, it is thought here but it is filthy as well. So I hid in the sense that if it's on you, it will not make you in a position where you cannot pray that you have to take a whistle that you have to perform will do no, it does not break your will do it does not make your clothes dirty. But it
doesn't mean that you clean yourself with it. Because I mean, it has come out of an animal. Right and it's not something that's clean and you don't want to apply it on the private part because it could really cause disease or an infection or something like that. So filled cannot clean fill. The layer you Stenger below thing is to inject should not be done with dunk, dried, and caked down. It should not be used for cleaning oneself. How does a woman or a man called Joe Hayden and Abby is Hulk, Allah He said, Lisa will obey the Quran who will Akina Abdul Rahman ignore us Woody and Avi? And who semirara Abdullah yaku he said, at an abuse Allahu alayhi wa sallam Allah is the Messenger
of Allah sallallahu Sallam once came to the washroom for Mr. Ronnie then he ordered me and to be selesa Dr. Jordan, then he commanded me He instructed me to bring three rocks three stones forward to Heather Rainey. So I found two stones. welcome us to Sally sir. And I searched for the third ilta masa to seek to try to find something. So I searched for a third but for them I did who I could not find it for 102 so I took Rosen dung for a day to be here. So I brought it to him. So I came to him with it for a harder harder rainy so he took the two rocks were unlocker Rosetta and he threw away the dunk. What color and he said hey, Rex, this is unclean Rex is something that is declined
something that is thrown away. So this is rejected. This is not clean. What color Ibrahim will be use of an AVI, Avi is Harold had destiny.
Now we see that the Prophet sallallahu sallam, all of these are Hadees they showed that when he went to the washroom there was somebody or the other, either accompanying him bringing his water or bringing the rocks or whatever for him. This shows us two benefits. One is that those younger companions they learned the etiquettes the rules, the faster on and secondly, it was also a chance for them to serve the pockets that a lot of
it's a pentacle long we'll be taking a shower later he learned esta hydrocone salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.