Sulaiman Moola – Tafseer of Surah An Naml #04 Call your spouse with beautiful names

Sulaiman Moola
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The Bible's language is discussed, including insecurity and respectful language. The speakers emphasize the importance of being in a certain position for a woman to receive a date, and stress the significance of "naive" in bringing people back from the birth of the father in law bin. They also discuss various instances of insecurity and respect, including punished women being too aggressive and too afraid.
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other day in

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our solar Eema knowing what all Al Hamdulillah

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also been luring him in a shaytani R rajim Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim we're in a gala Talaq Palparan me lead on Hakeem in addy Sadat Allah who love him. In verse number six that I just recited before you Allah subhanho wa Taala says to the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam were in Africa and surely you O Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam led to luckily Quran you are receiving the Quran.

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Mill don't hacky Hakeem in a name from the beam that is all wise and all knowing. So in the opening verses, Allah reminded us that it is a clear book and these are the verses of the Quran. In verse number six, Allah subhanho wa Taala conveys to us this supremecy understanding that this is the revelation from Allah subhanho wa taala. When when something comes from someone of significance and importance, it elevates that particular gift that has been given or that message that has been transmitted, there is an aeration where the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam had given someone a date, the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam had given someone a date and he said Subhan Allah,

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tomorrow attunement. Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, a date from the messenger SallAllahu wasallam I will treasure it, I will value it. This has sentimental value, and the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam made dua for him. And of course Allah subhanaw taala then gave him a lot of baraka and blessings. So we're in Nicola to noctel Quran O Muhammad Salah is him you are receiving the Quran from Allah Milla don't eat, you know, don't don't let the opposition of the disbelievers hurt your emotions. The Quran is absolute. It is impeccable, it is flawless. It is.

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It is the speech of Allah subhanaw taala I just have a flush of a hadith that appears on the strength of Umar Radi Allahu anhu, the famous Hadith where he says that

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a Jewish rabbi came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and he said to the messenger, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, or you will be taught, replayed, which is the noblest piece of land and which is the worst piece of land. And nobody SallAllahu wasallam said, us go to HUD Dahlia G Gibreel. I don't know and I will wait till Jabril Alayhis Salam comes and when Gibreel Alayhis Salam came, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam conveyed the question to him and asked him Gibreel I was asked this question, which is the noblest piece of land and Gibreel Alayhis Salam said my name is unhappy and I'm a minister ill that just as you don't know Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam I do not know. But I

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will ask Allah subhanahu wa taala. And then subsequently Gibreel Alayhi Salatu was Salam returned at some point and he said to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam denote to mean Allah, he didn't know when murder and Ottoman haka to I was blessed with such proximity. And your proximity doesn't mean in location, because the narration goes on to say, kind of a new abena who Sabrina Alpha hijab renewed that between me and Allah there was 70,000 values of light, celestial light. And the commentators say that this is not for deed, but it is for tech field. It's not there to indicate literally 70,000 meaning countless amount of news and light and Barkat and you know, celestial

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light. So it refers to proximity in station proximity in station mother know to mean who got to I never enjoyed such proximity in station in station in rank to Allah subhanho wa Taala previously, so we're not saying location we sang in station in Alladhina in the Rebecca you're stuck Bruna and everybody here those that are buying Allah meaning the angels by Allah means in station not in location. So this is key this is academic that's very important. And as mentioned in methodical Tenzin, in entering data big those meaning the melodica data by Allah by Allah meaning in rank in position menzi Latin lemon Zilla Manzi Latin lemon Zilla not in physical place No. Allah subhanahu

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wa taala is what are all what are beyond our comprehension? We do not visualize and image for Allah subhanaw taala nor a location for Allah subhanahu wa taala Okay, so Juanita Alayhis Salam says denote to mean Allah who do not want mother know to mean hookah to I was blessed with that

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such proximity that I never enjoyed it before and the commentators right commenting on this hadith well Allah Xia data karumi He has a hill Mira Lita of women Nabi SallAllahu, alayhi wa sallam, what could he is he doing Mahek bookfi Rama Rasool Habibollah, original Habibie La Ilaha illa Allah, the reason why Gibreel was received what additional elevation imposition on this particular instance, is because Gibreel Alayhis Salam represented being the envoy and the messenger of the messenger SallAllahu wasallam. And a person would give regard to the envoy of his beloved somebody comes to you your surgery or your practice, or your workshop, or your consulting rooms and you know, you

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don't know who he is, you say, just take a seat, you know, what the Secretary will will take down your details and then the secretary informs you that you know, what, the gentleman has been referred to by so and so who is your good friend and immediately things just checked on Russia him in actually him in? Well, what are the Osito buffing the Rama Rasool Habibollah, engineer Habibi because now you are a messenger and you've been sent by someone who is very dear to me.

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Anyway, I was saying to you in verse number six of chapter 27, Allah subhanho wa Taala says we're in Nikola Tesla coil Khurana militant Hakeem in Aleem O Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, you are receiving the Quran. From that being who's all wise all knowing, right? Like like how comforting how soothing, and whenever they oppose you? Well, I don't wanna be methylene allergic Anelka Bill Huck. Well, I don't a cabbie. Methylene allergic inapplicable hug whenever they blurred their nonsense and the opposition, and they blasphemous comments and remarks. Then we present the clear cut truth to you. So they object on it and they say, in Alladhina Dabboo. Don't I mean, Donal, Hassan, Bucha

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Hanim. Allah says in chapter 70, in Surah, Ambia into 17, that those who you worship besides Allah will become the fuel of *. So they said, oh, so those that are worshipped besides, Allah will go to *. So that means recyling is Salam, according to your Quran will also go to * well area to be loved. This is what they said. Now there's two answers to this here. If you look into the Arabic grammar, the Quran says that Abu Duna you know,

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the Quran uses the word MA and MA is used for read that will recall, there the will recall means non living creatures. Yeah, it refers to all objects and items and not humans. And besides that, in the verse following Allah says, in the levena, Saba Katana, who mineral Hausner, in Alladhina. Saba Katella who mineral hearse now, you can humble but I do those for whom we have decreed goodness, they will be kept far away from * and say the night Lisa Alayhi Salatu was Salam in Hua Abdon and in who are in LA Abdon and Amna Li, which are unknown methylene, the Bani Israel that is Ali Salam was amongst the selected beloved noble chosen servants of Allah subhanho wa taala. So Muhammad

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, this is comfort for you. Okay, first number seven, we commence with the first story that we're going to be discussing in this chapter. So there are a few stories. And that is why I selected this chapter as well. Because generally people like to relate to a story and a tale and a narrative. So the Quran doesn't base itself on storytelling. But yes, it does share different stories to drive the message of guidance and the lessons that learned there off. And the story we start off with in this chapter, which is very brief, is the story of Satana. Musa alayhis salam something we had discussed previously in other chapters of the Quran in particular, in chapter

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20. In surah Taha so what does Allah subhanho wa Taala say to us in verse number seven is Carla moves early actually he in the nurse tonnara remember the time when Musa was returning with his wife from Madeon was his father in law bintray Bala his Salam and she was close to delivery as expounded by the commentators in when verse number seven parlor he said Musa Lee to his family

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in the verily I honest to absorb to, at the distance I've seen fire in the * tonnara lonley de Caminha been harboring OBC Harbin perhaps I go there, and I get some information on the sense of direction. Oh, she had been or I bring alive Ember La La Quinta saloon, so that you can warm yourself up bland Lacan tested the fool as the scholars say. So let's just

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jog your memory slightly.

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and just get onto one page here that we follow in. We know Musala salatu salam had to flee Egypt

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due to the circumstances that prevailed, he assisted an individual who was the victim of oppression, and in assisting him.

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He tried to discipline the the guilty party, and he gave him a blow, but the blow was fatal. And he did not intend to flaw him and he did not intend it to be lethal, but it proved to be lethal. And it proved to be, you know, a blow that was absolutely fatal for our cousin who Mustafa Ali. And then of course, there was a warrant of arrest against him. Sedna Musala, his Salah to Assam asked Allah for forgiveness, asked Allah for pardon and Allah subhanaw taala pardoned him Hara German haha if in your terracotta he then had to leave in the cover of night, watchful over the intelligence of Pharaoh, well, whom are you know, Rob was Shama to Naml. And of course the intelligence of Pharaoh

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had the eyes of a crow and they had the smell incense of an end meaning that they were really aggressive and intent intense in the search for Sedna Masada salaam, and of course, he travelled travel until he came to Meridian. And then they he assisted the two girls and we've discussed this in detail in Surah Casa as well in chapter 28, in which it features

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and then he marries the daughter of Chevrolet salaam, and now he's coming back. And that's precisely the point to which the Quran communicates the discussion. Yeah. So remember the time verse number seven out of chapter 27, out of the 93 verses, if Tyler Musa Ali Ali, when Musa Ali salaam said to his family, in the * tonnara, I've seen fire. So the verse suggests to us two things, number one that said, No Musa alayhis salam had lost the direction of the pathway, it lost the direction of the pathway. And number two, Lala, come to saloon, I'm going to bring, you know, a flame alive Amber,

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so that you can warm yourself up. So that is suggestive of the fact that it was a cold night, it was a cold night. And of course, the spouse and the consort of the Nabhi been in confinement, you know, requiring that added care and love and affection, etc. So,

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there are many things we reflect over here. Number one, said no Musa alayhis salam in the verse of the Quran, refers to his wife as household and not when Musa said to his wife. Although the scholars have given different names regarding the daughters of Sri ballet, Salatu was Salam, Sephora and Saphira, etc. But the verse of the Quran says he said to his household, which was a modest expression, a modest expression without divulging the name of his spouse, so that's a reflection, you don't have to mention the name of your wife to a strange person or even in a general discussion or that of your daughter.

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so rare, it is something good there is a sense of protection over the female members, but we need to say and qualify this Yeah, because I deal with it a lot. Insecurity is is is is is not healthy. So protection is good, but insecurity is dangerous. You need to be protective over your spouse, she needs to be protective over you because you're contracted in marriage, and you are loyal to each other but insecurity is not good. Where you every few minutes having to video call each other with Who are you Where are you? insecure? It's denovo Kathy Ramona been in Nevada Bonnie Eastman. And of course, the day youth is the worst of it all the cattle to person as the Hadith says Olivia yet hula

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only revealed that he will not enter Jannah who is a youth who is a cattle person or province Allah isn't the one who's casual with his female members. Oh, no, there's my wife you can meet greet that's my daughter. That's my sister. That's my knees. Yeah, chit chat. Gossip, easygoing. Anyone? Everyone hugging embracing friendly, one big family and that's it. No, no, no. So it is important to be protective, but at the same time not to be insecure. Anyway. So the first reflection year we take is Al modest reflection without an explicit mention of the name. We also learn and look at the respect Islam affords to a woman to a spouse to a partner, to your better half.

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In chapter 20, in surah Taha, he said, for Carl le I helped him go through pause here. Now the word uncle Sue is in a plural context. And likewise, in this verse here, verse seven. He said, Latin Latin test alone. I'm going to try and bring something

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From the alive Ember, so you can warm yourself. Basic Arabic will indicate to you that the word ohm Khufu, in surah Taha is addressing his wife in a plural form. And year in surah. Nirmal is saying I'm going to bring some live embers so you people can warm yourself. Now looking at the beauty and how they dissect what was the wisdom of the adoption of a plural expression, when speaking to one Subhan Allah, The Scholars say it is to denote respect. Speaking to your spouse, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, when he would ask his spouses, he would say hello, in the comments. Is there any food in the comb? Right?

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In a plural forms,

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he would refer to his spouse's his consort in a plural form.

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In English, probably we use the word same, you know what you, for your dad and you for your son and you for a senior. But in order in order you would say to and up, I mean, I'm not too familiar with Africans, but the little that I know, you're going to say E for parents as a parameter over se e. You can say, yea, there's there's a there's a difference. There's a distinction in the communication, and how often it is the lack of that respectful expressions that unfortunately, you know, what breaks down the marriage the way he spoke to me his body language, the expression of words. I've heard so many times, you know, in marital conflicts, the sister say, I'm on the

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receiving end of such vulgar language, if you can only talk with respect or vice versa. You know, sometimes the men would say when she opens her mouth, it's just like a barrage. And it just comes like a ton of bricks firing down. So here we learn in verse number seven.

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Respect, use good, dignified language when speaking, when saved Namo. Saleh Salatu was Salam embarked on this journey of he is to meet the creator of Hadith pronounced both ways at the confluence of the two oceans.

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And with him, he took his servant and the servant was you shall be known, but the Quran didn't refer to the servant as a servant. The Quran referred to the servant as a young man, a young lad, tell someone, a young man, a talented man, a muscular, a healthy person, telling Otellini, a boy, a child, a Camilla, it's derogatory, it's it's it's hurting, to the self esteem of that person, but dignify him with a respectful term. So that's that's the takeaway point here. Speak to your spouse's with dignity. The second thing we learn here is that let me get a flame so that you can warm yourself, how cognizant and how considerate are we of the needs and the emotions and the desires of

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those around us. So we know the famous Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam Isha the Allah Allah says that he would get up to perform Salah in Tana Rouladen a Jaffa away, then he would get up softly, discreetly, gently, politely, he would tiptoe in a way that it does not disturb my sleep in any way. He's going to engage in prayer, converse with his Lord, but cognisant that my spouse is resting and sleeping. May Allah subhanaw taala make us amongst those people who are considerate to the needs of those around us. I'll leave you with this verse one a 10. So wouldn't football obey not come and do not forget and omit common courtesy amongst yourselves or SallAllahu wasallam ala Nabina

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Muhammad, while early he was happy he had Malyan well Hamdu lillahi rabbil aalameen

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