Heartfelt Condolences On The Loss Of Your Beloved

Sulaiman Moola

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one if not Rama Radi Allahu Anhu Houma call kala Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, or Guru mahasin emoticon. worku for and Messiah we him. Oh come up Allah Allah in His Salatu was Salam, honorable scholars respected brothers, mothers and sisters.

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The nature of human existence on this earth is that of a test.

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The nature of the test would vary, but from the inception of human arrival on Earth, the ultimate entry in Jannah, including our stay in birth, and the grave is riddled with challenges in juice 15 Chapter 18 Allah subhanho wa Taala says, In Na Na Ma L or the Zenit Allah Lina beluga, whom you whom X and Y Mala, were in Allah GRE Luna ma are learning how to read and Jeruzalem the Anima say these two yard is a synopsis and a summary of human existence on earth in its entirety. Nobody can spell out the complete stay of humans on Earth and the ultimate journey to author into sentences like Allah subhanho wa Taala has conveyed it to us. So what does Allah say my mother's and sisters in

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Jalna ma ll are the zine at Allaha Lena beluga, whom are you whom X and Y Mala? That whatever we have made on this earth, mineral and Hari well as Jerry Well, Moran Dini, we see the rivers we see the lakes, we see the Cascades we see the mountains, we see all this beauty around us and splendor. Allah says we have made it Xena a form of beauty, attraction adornment. why has Allah done this year, Lina beluga? Whom to examine them? What does Allah want out of this examination? Are you home as a no I'm Allah, which one of them performs the best action. In turn, we will. Adhaan it is written what is meant by the best best action. In the huddle the Licari brah we're at the mall is

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DeCarli be the person who uses all these things around him as a reflection as a sign for him to recognize Allah subhanho wa Taala and not to immerse himself into the things of this world. We're in Nanda Germany, Luna Mara in house or Eden do Rosa and then a time will come Allah says everything on this earth will be destroyed. Kulu che in Harlequin Illa wotja Everything will perish but Allah khulumani La have fun. Everyone will be subjected to destruction but the bane of Allah subhanho wa Taala intermedial Adhaan it is written Harvey he had duniya mein Vida Yeti ha Illa Neha Yeti ha ba jetten was to run some muddy maroon were horrible disease, this whole dunya this is this entire

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dunya ba jetten was rule in the beginning it's excitement, it's enjoyment, it's indulgence, but ultimately, some muddiman Waha Boon destruction and everything will be wiped out.

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The Arabic proverb goes as follows. Li do little mouthy word Binu lil Arabi give birth only to die and build only to destroy this in academic language we refer to as Lama Aki but Lama Archimate means the end of this, the outcome of this and the reason why I mentioned this is sometimes people ask the question, that there are two different verses in the Quran. One verse Allah says wama holla PowToon

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Gina will insert Lea Budo that we have not created man in Jin but for our worship. And yet again in another verse of the Quran Allah says wala cada Daraa Anna Lee Johanna McCarthy Amina Jean Nouvel ins that we have created for hellfire, a large number of humans and Jannat. So one verse, Allah is saying, we've created everyone for worship. And in another verse, Allah says we've created some people for hellfire. So how do we reconcile between the two IR the Adama give us the same answer. The first alarm is our alert and the second is our ultimate Alma tool, Jana will insert Ilaria abou don't we have created men and gene for worship. That is the purpose for which we created them. What

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occurred at Zara anally Johanna McCarthy Era middle Jin we have created people for hellfire, meaning this is what they ended up doing with their lives. So example a father says I sent my son to an Islamic Institute to become a half res and an alum. And four years later, you ask him how much has your son achieved? He said no, no, I sent him there to learn all wrong things. I sent him there to learn vulgar. I sent the I sent him there to become an operator. I sent him there to forget his Quran. I sent him that unit. What do you mean?

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I didn't you say you sent him to learn Quran? Exactly. I sent him by design with that goal, but this is what he did. And this is what is referred to as lamea octubre Yasa hubbie lot Dotterel. The poet says, Oh, my brother, don't be deceived by the things of this world. Why follow Rama Ruyan Fado one. Emu, your Zulu because life is slipping away. And the bounties are just withering away. Life is slipping away and the bounties are withering away. So Allah subhanaw taala tells us in the Quran,

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that if we must use our namah Allah has the ability to snatch it. Allah can blind us on the spot valonna sha Allah Thomas na Allah Allah uni him. First of all cassava, they weren't able to move forward from us totaro muda en wala your G rune we can snatch your faculties in your abilities you weren't able to enjoy unable to come back. So Allah can just figure you change you into another creation and nobody law I'm tharla come replace you were known she outcome fee ma Allah Allah moon, and we can put you into another creation which you won't even able to comprehend and fathom. Now someone might say But that's so remote. We never heard of a person losing his appearance. We never

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heard of a man sleeping as a human and getting up as an ape. Well Allah then tells us in the next verse, Oh man, no Amir Oh, no, not kiss fulfill healthy, that when we give you a long life, then we repeat childhood with you in old age, which is a gradual form of this figure in you over a period of time. So slowly, you start losing all your faculties and your abilities in a way that you can't even recognize your own self never, never mind anyone else. Fellow Ramanujan one not remove your Zulu. So what must I do and what must you do? This is what the poet says, are either hamata ll Cobo Regina zetten Salam be Nikka ha Maha Mudra what either Hamilton il Kubo regionals atan for Allambie Nikka

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ba Ma Mu for as long as you love whenever you carry a janazah remind yourself you will be carried one day.

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That is that you will master no armella how you apply it. The hadith in Sahih Muslim imam Muslim Rahmatullah Allah it says had Destiny Abu Hassan Al misma Are you there that I heard from Abu Hassan Miss Malley and I heard from Mohammed bin Muthana and he says, I heard from my husband he sham and he says, I heard from my father, and he says, I heard from Qatada and he said I heard from multigrip bin Abdullah bin Shaffir. And he said I heard from a young been Mr. Al Musashi Radi Allahu anhu, in which the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said the hadith of Sahih Muslim, that Allah says that Hallak to a buddy from afar, I created all my servants, with the ability of embracing the truth.

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For Gita Allah Leto Shayateen then the devil came and indoctrinated and whispered and injected and incited, and the duck the devil then took them off onto wayward path, took them astray took them off the correct path.

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And then the hadith is very long the point on what the sentiments that I'm sharing the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam goes on to say that Allah told me we're in nama Bharath Touka li abita Lee, aka

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What up Bertelli a big O Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, I created you and sent you in this world to test you.

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The hadith of Sahih Muslim

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and to test people through you,

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Amma Abdullah on Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, for who are in the hands who have only us better Allah either. Ill kavaratti Will Mushrikeen what was the test of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam will he persevere? And will he and you're on the nasty comments, remarks, hurtful comments of the disbelievers. That was the test of Allah Tala upon our Habib sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and of course how I want to be a salatu salam persevered persevered in such a way that people didn't only attack his Naboo word. They even attacked his personal life. They attacked the family that nearly salatu salam didn't have children. As Ben Wilde said that name is Allah ism is arbiter, meaning an

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animal the tail of which is severed, mocking at the fact that nearly Salam had no male offspring to take his progeny forward. They laughed at each aspect of the dean of our Habib SallAllahu wasallam in the early years, when the enemies came and put the intestines onto the back of Nabil A salaam. It was Fatima with a Allahu Anhu who came forward and then she moved it and she said will be to you people will be to you people what pain are you cause into My Habib sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, when they realize Saddam was injured in the battle and the blood was flowing. What did he say? Allahu Methuselah told me for in the Himalaya, Allah moon, ALLAH forgive them. They don't know. They don't

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know. So the test of Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was willing, he persevered. The point I'm saying my sister is our whole existence on this dunya is a test. Of course, our family and in particular, my sister and my brother in law at this time, is going through a supreme tests a supreme trust, supreme in the sense that we all know we have come here to go and nobody plans the death of his or her beloved. But in the remote part of your mind, you do know one day you will have to bury your parent, but in no part of your mind, do you ever entertain the fact that you will have to bury your own flesh and your own children. But again, we look into the life of our Habib SallAllahu

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wasallam for a cue and a direction. And we do know that out of the seven children that Allah Tala had blessed nearly salatu salam with he buried six with his own hands. Nabil la salaam, buried six children with his own hands. I can say this yesterday I met a brother. And he said to me, you know, it is only the one who's lost his child that can appreciate it. Otherwise, people will think you overreacted. People will think you overreacting. And then he said you know, you will smile. And maybe at times you will have a light moment, but you will cry for the rest of your life. And I'm going to say to my beloved sister, and to my beloved brother, brother in law, that

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I often mentioned this

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that the test might be at the time that it happened. A submarine the Saudi material hola patients at the time of affliction.

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When that is the great reward,

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okay, my mind is running with so many thoughts, the greatest comfort we have the greatest comfort we have is a person leaving this world with Imaan

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let me tell you why I say what I say. We do know in theory that the man is the greatest thing. When a person leaves this world with emaan then he or she even if they account is depleted in terms of good in the context of the Sharia, they die with an active account in which all the relatives of this world can deposit any amount of goods

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and when a person dies without emaan and he or she can have all the virtues of this world at the point of death the accounts are frozen

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understand this my brother and understand this my sister This is Allah's fame upon us beyond description. So one person is traveling few friends are going once he's got an account or he's got a cell phone number that schemata got nothing the others they got a handsome amounts, they got handsome accounts. But what they handsome accounts they got no ongoing revenue. After a period of time, the funds will be depleted. This other youngster who had no cash but he's got an active account and his father tops up all that

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I,

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his father crops up all the time. So the fact that he has an active account, this is easy access that wherever he is stranded, you just do a deposit, you just do a deposit. Allah subhanaw taala has given us any person who's left this world with Imaan an open account, you and I in this earth can deposit a process the kindness and the favor and the mercy of Allah upon us. It look Athena has made mentioned under this ayah that I recited in from Surah two to chapter 52 Well Lavina Armano what Jabba tombs are linea to whom be Iman in Allah Hakuna being him Zuri at the womb for Batum translation when Latina Amanu those who perform good deeds, what the bottom do Leah to whom be Imani

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and then they pass on and the children and yet Rhea obviously refers to mature children and not too immature because in mature children are forgiven as it is believers. And the aspect of non Muslim in mature children is something that has been debated in a very robust manner amongst the scholars of Tafseer Rama Krishna more Agrippina Hatanaka Rasulullah. Academically the scholars have exploded there in great detail. So they mature children who have passed on with iman, Allah says if no cathedra has mentioned the narration, I'll have to now be him to re at the home. These children died. They were perhaps a bit deficient in their actions, but the dilute the passport of iman, the

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verse of the Quran, to complete and complement the happiness of their parents, Allah subhanaw taala will promote and elevate the children to the station of piety of the parents warmer and let them know whom in Amelie Himanshi Omakase now who Menominee Himanshi this two ways of doing this year drop, you know, one is in an economy class one is in business class. So the parents is okay, you know what dropped me from business and bring my child and me into premium economy. So we both enjoy so I'm dropping in my standard of comfort. He's getting an upgrade. I'm taking a downgrade and we meet in commonly Allah says no, no, no, no, no. To promote your child into the higher level. We will

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not demote you in any way from the scholars right intercede, we must be very wary about the delinquent children of pious scholars. Because Allah says if that delinquent child died with iman, the chances are he will surpass you on the Day of cuyama because he will stand up with the hisab and the station of his parents and not his own deeds.

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So we must be very wary sometimes we see their Allah ma we see their Salah ha they are pious people in our communities, and perhaps the children have not matched them up but they died with emaan they died with eemaan Then Allah says we will promote them and elevate them, and they will surpass us because of the piety and the nobility of the children of their parents. This is the kindness and this is the grace and this is the Mercy of Allah subhanho wa Taala upon us. So there can be no greater favor than a person dying with iman. You know, there was a non Muslim brother who cried one day and the amongst the few things that I had no answer to tell was this person. He says I came into

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the Diem. And my parents had left without Iman. You can still pray for your late father in your late mother. I cannot pray for my late parents.

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So when a person leaves this world without Eman understand whatever assets he has, his accounts are frozen

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it's frozen because there's no iman maca AnnaLynne every year when levena Armano a year stuff Pharaoh lil Mushrikeen what oh god only CORBA mimbar DeMatha Yun Allahu unknown as horrible Jehane it is not becoming impermissible of the Nabhi all the believers to seek forgiveness on behalf of disbelievers even if those disbelievers were their relatives. So what a great now might have Allah subhanho wa Taala upon us, that our beloved son and our dear nephew, Allah has privileged him with death in the state of iman. Allah has did that we can come back to the point of the month of Ramadan, we can come back to the point of the last 10 days of Ramadan, and we can deliberate and

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labor that but the fact that he died with the state of iman, this gives us a continuous connection and rapport and there is no end to the limits of deposit. There is no end to the limits of deposit that Allah

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has given us so I was saying

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that I was staying in this dunya is an empty Han, the prophets of Allah essence test was that would he persevere and you're on the comments of the disbelievers and the hurtful remarks. And yes, he endured. Well that that's my own nominal levena Oh O'Toole, kita, Berman, publikum, Wamena, Latina Sherco and then cathedra. What interests Bureau what the taco for in Dalek, Amin Nazmul, omo. And surely O Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam you will have to hear a lot of things, nasty things, condescending things from the disbelievers and they will make all these painful remarks.

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And if you persevere then of course, this is an act of great resolute resolute So what is our empty hand? Well, I'm AB Tila or B and the exam to the Ummah via Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam helping you select the corner Whoa, you can the Buddha who will we live a life according to the teachings of Nabil de Salam or not. And the Allama have written something so amazing that this test continues to the extent that even when we in our graves, Allah Mobdro Dini has written this in arm that will carry and I was so amazed by it. He says that when you lowered into the grave, then the question just look at how the scholars unpack and elucidate and expound when a person will be lowered into

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the grave. Then he will be asked Marta Kanohi, harder Raju? What's your opinion about this person?

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So Allah Mobdro deny me rights, that outwardly and apparently the text of this question is very abrupt and harsh. And it's devoid and bereft of reflecting reverence to the messenger sallallahu alayhi wasallam. So it's not been asked what is your opinion on Muhammad? sallallahu alayhi wasallam What's your opinion about this person?

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Who will do who say they're being held in the hand Oh, Lil Miss ole Lee Allah Yota Lacan, De Lima Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam ani Bala Tilka is

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the reason why it says so quick, abrupt, and not so refined. So that the person in the grave doesn't get the answer from the tone of the questioner, making it obvious that it's the newbie of Allah. If a person was asked in the grave, what's your opinion on the man on whom the Quran was revealed? What is your opinion about the best of Allah's creation? What is your opinion of the person called Muhammad and Muhammad, then obviously, Salatu was Salam. The apparent would be that you know what the answer is, he is the prophet of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So the reason why the question would be simple and brief, because that is also a test. And that is the point we need to

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understand and process that this is a place of us that we are here for a test from Allah subhanahu wa taala in every regard, now.

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It is part of the beauty of our deen that it hasn't left any area of human existence, but that it has legislated and govern that area, so that we have direction and inspiration in that sphere and feel. We only tend to educate ourself with those branches of Dean, when it concerns us. You speak to a grown up child, and you speak to him about the importance of raising children irrelevant, irrelevant. You speak to a man considering marriage, you know, what they are laws of the law doesn't apply to me doesn't apply. He's got no meaning to me. It's got no basis to me. So we shun so much of Dean because for the moment, we don't realize at some point in our life, either us or someone in our

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near circle will be in a situation seeking guidance in that regard, seeking guidance in that regard. So Dean has given us a complete direction in every aspect. And until and unless we do not adhere to the rich teachings of our deen, then a person might intend good in what he's doing. But the reaction might be adverse, the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam Baroque Bukhari Enlil Qurani Well, Quran ojala nouveau. There are so many people who read Quran, but every time they read Quran, the Quran curses them.

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So the aim is not only to read the Quran, the aim is to read the Quran correctly.

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The aim is not only to console the bereaved, the aim is to console them

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You correctly in a manner that is pleasing to Allah not that's appeasing to yourself a i to go there pay my respect show my face say my kind words and move on no no some people every time the Hadith of the Prophet says and every time they opening and closing the Quran to read the Quran is cursing them. Now there's different explanations. One could we as the scholars say they read in diverse law on a two line annual Caribbean, Alaska says on the liar and he's a liar himself.

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So he's reading the verse, Allah Allah Allah to Allah here and a body mean Behold, beware Allah skirts is upon the oppressor and you the biggest Salim yourself. So you are reiterating the curse of Allah upon you. I mean the famous dua that we know and this was the vision of Manasa Hammerhand sobre Hema hula which we commonly read, but he had alerted so many people and you see mashallah people practice upon this. Allahu Mansoor Manasa Dena Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam which Allah mean him. Oh Allah, help those that help your deen and make us from amongst them. And then commonly the second part of the DUA principally Of course it's right. But in our context, we need to

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apply the precaution What's the second portion of the deen who have Dolman has Allah Dena Muhammad and abandon

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and

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abandon and forsake those who have forsaken the deen of Muhammad Sallallahu sallam. So hazard Rahmatullah is to stop people from making this dua because he said in our time, it's a curse on us.

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Because we are guilty of this literally means not to help because if you look at the verse of the Quran II and so Kamala Falcone bellicum If Allah helped you, nobody can overpower you. We're in Volcom we're in your truck NeoStrata calm and If Allah doesn't help you then who's going to help you?

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And this is the verse of the Quran I read it the Janaza youth a bit too long will levena Manu Bill totally beautiful hieratic dunya will fill.

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Sometimes when a person is going through challenges then he says but I'm a believer. Why am I going through this? And we forget. Allah's promise for the believer is not that you will be exempted from the test. Allah said I'll give you strength in the test.

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Allah's promise is not that if you believe I won't test you know, he said I'll give you strength in the test.

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Bigger a hole what bigger a Zulu. Allah only through your help, can I do it? So that's the first comfort. Allah will give a believer strength in his tears. Only Allah makes it possible nobody else makes it possible. The second thing Allah tells us in the Quran into cornuta Allah Moon for inner homea and the moon Kamata Allah Moon whatever join me in Allah He Mala Euro, June, if you're in pain and you lost your son, then that's not exclusive to a believer, even the disbelievers are losing their sons and their family members. But all Muslims for you is reward and Astra for them is playing in this world with no revenue enough data.

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Can you imagine the favor of Allah upon us? Can you imagine the favor of Allah upon us? Third, in the campaign of Ohio, the Sahaba faced a setback. So now they were trying to process like why did this happen to us this defeat and change of events etc. So Allah said to them, Am scum Karahan if you in pain and difficulty, forgot the masala coma chloromethyl Then even your opponents have suffered a loss, what we'll call a Yamanaka will have been a nurse and we rotate in victory and defeat amongst different nations. What are your Allama Allahu levena amanu and Allah wants to make known who are genuine in their faith. We are targeted I mean, come shahada, and we reversed events

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so that some can be favored with martyrdom.

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We reversed events so some could be favored with martyrdom. Wala hula, you hyper Vani mean Allah doesn't like the oppressor. What's the context of this idea? Don't interpret the victory of your opponent as me being happy with him. It was to test you not to bless him.

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Wala hula, your hypovolemia Allah doesn't like the oppressor. So why what's the context here? You say but he won't. It wasn't his victory. It was your test. By default, that's what happened.

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So our stay on Earth is a test. Now Allah has given us our dog in every regard.

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And our deen is based on collectivity. From the time we became individuals, this OMA has fallen.

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From the time we became individuals, the soma has collapse.

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So in the Quran also wherever Allah subhanaw taala speaks about calling people good names. Allah uses the expression of Musa Allah in Arabic language which means amongst yourself let the numbers who will atop little Mizzou and forsaken don't attack yourself don't give nasty names to yourself because given a nasty name to your brother is given a nasty name to yourself.

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So what are the etiquettes when we come and offer our condolences to the bereaved family, the hadith of a Buddha which I just shared with you now understand of Abdullah Bernama Ravi Allah Juan Omar, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said on his guru Maha Sinha Mota come speak about the good of the disease.

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Now what is the prophet of Allah said speak about the good of the deceased and he sufficed on that which would certainly imply don't speak about the wrongs of the disease, but the Prophet of Allah didn't leave it on a subtle note. He concluded the Hadith with a categoric explicit mention what go for and masa we him and restrain your tongue from speaking of the ills

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the hadith is inside a Muslim, I will come as soon as I was walking, what Abdullah bin must Rudra the Allahu Anhu and then

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Arthur Mandra the Elana seen him say he said hello, Maya Abdurrahman, or Samantha the Allahu Koldo Abdullah Abdullah Massoud and he said Kamiya the words of the hadith is first stuck Lau who he took him one side and then he said the I got your wife has passed on. Can I arrange Allah knows a way Joker? Jharia Jarrod, Jerry attend Shabba Can I get you married to someone young and try and see how you know get your life back into into rhythm. So the word first stuck Lau who he took him one side. Imam nawawi says fee. The Quran. The word first Tagalog taking him in seclusion is an indication that if you want to help someone, get him a job getting married. Then take him one side, respecting

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his dignity, then you try and see how you can assist because otherwise if you address it in public, you might end up with more sin than good by hurting that man on something that is so sensitive.

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Take the man once said listen, I heard you looking for a car. You know not not in front of everyone not in front of anyone.

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So our dean is very rich. It governs every aspect of our life. It gives complete perspective. Nebulae Salatu was Salam gets the news that Jaffa the Alonso passed away. Ebola Masaki in the father of the pool, whose generosity was unimaginable. What did then Mariela Nefarian Levine at the terbaru Yeoman Bimota salam ala who are laying him Moolman fit the newest sakar Obama whom Rama model must Bill photogra Ural Cameroon, Mooney Rowley fact today he was Some so called the Castleford to aka that Phil it's amazing couplets cabin Malika, the Alana was saying it in his commiseration and condolences when they and of course, Abdullah bin Raha and

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Jaffa the Alana had passed away in cookieless. They don't forget Varun when put in a Jaffa and Abdullah bin roba the hadith of Bokhari Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam had appointed these three people as the leaders and each one of them Osney do they fell down on the call of Allah? So Cobbin Malik Ravi Alon who said that?

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What didn't a Assa fun, watch the narla Neferet Levina terbaru young be muda my heart cries my heart cries and really been.

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I'm saying we cannot begin to imagine the gravity and the intensity of the test of Sahaba when they last Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said that Abu Bakar said latest TR Matamata in the Maliki kala Nara Baraka Houma, la noir Walla Walla, Walla, da when we saw some passed away, I wish it was also just chiamata at that time, so I don't have to go back home.

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When when the result son passed away, I wish the same moment as this Tiamat and it all ended. So I didn't have to live and deal with what came my way beyond that moment. And, of course, the most emotional couplet in that he said

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That comely Burdick Amin, amin Eunice Siboney come li be born DECA Minami newness Siboney is that Karatu and Mila uraraka Omar Habib's Allah awesome I don't even know how to quantify or put context to my expression or my emotion to say I don't know the extent of my agony knowing that I will never see you again for as long as I love.

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Sofia the Allahu anha said follow hon Hershey Akaka Baneasa eat dinner. Follow hon Arshi Akaka in an answer with dinner. If Allah gave you little more extension, and you stayed with us for a little longer period, our joy would have no no bounds, wala Qin Umrah who can Amalthea but then who can temper what what Allah has ordained who can temper and change and alter and that's the solace we take. And our beloved by Hafiz Muhammad Rama Talalay said to his father two days prior to this, that about we need to bring a mountain on rebab in Kedah rebab will Kabbalah is the will of Allah. So often a person going through the last moments of his life, Allah makes him say things which he

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doesn't fully comprehend. We don't fully comprehend, but the meaning of this plays out like I always say, when we look at the writings of Imam Al Ghazali. Then his writings have more meanings today than they had the time he wrote.

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Because the things he said is found today they will not people will not like that in that time. What Imam Shafi Rahmatullah they said people are like that now. Let me up a coffee nurse a little macro will Melaku that when you look around here, they look like humans, law room theorbo bathla know whom the urban Imam Ghazali said they look like they humans clad with with robes, but let them just open that robes and you see the beasts and predators and animals. Now you ask 1000 years ago were they people like that? So Allah make them write things for errors in which we are living. So often the person passing away he says things which we don't process at that time we don't process at that

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time. But as he passes on each one of that comes back as a memory as an as a reflection that Allah was making him prepare us making him prepare us for the eventuality and the inevitable.

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So when Jaffa Vilano passed away, what's the etiquettes? What's the etiquettes? I'm saying read Quran read it correctly. And one of the other interpretation is a person who doesn't lead with weed. Right? Because if you're not reading the Quran correctly, then you are not reading what Allah revealed. You read in something else you distort in it.

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Satana Lachman, Hakeem said find a wise messenger or why is envoy and if you don't find a Why is envoy take your message yourself?

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Take the message yourself. You need to give someone a note to give it here make sure the man is smart is wise is calculated if you feel he doesn't have what it takes go yourself.

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What you read in is not what Allah revealed.

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What you saying is not what Jibreel brought what will happy Ansel now who will have done as well. What will have the answer now who will bill happiness? Well, Allah said we dispatched it with truth and it arrived with truth. Leia T Hill Bob's alumium benei a day here when I'm in Hawaii 10 Zero min Hakeem in Hamid. So it's just not the sheer execution of a duty. Everything needs to be done in the correct format with the right decoration what the right way.

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The owner might have written something so amazing. And Allah put this thought in my mind, and I heard this from my beloved who starred Subhanallah ajeeb ajeeb La Ilaha illa Allah.

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So we all know the incident and I don't want to go into that detail of almost Zulema, the Allahu anha that her son passed away, and he was a baby, and he was very ill not process what the Anima tell us.

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And

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she said, Don't tell my husband. Tell I don't tell him. And of course, when he came, he asked, how's the little one? And he said, who was going to be makan? He's more peaceful than what he was. So she didn't lie. She didn't lie. She said he was more peaceful. Okay.

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And then of course she prepared food

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And this is the beauty of the beauty of Deen. It is not permissible for anyone to mourn the death of any person for more than three days. But a woman who will mourn the death of a husband for four months and 10 days does the teachings of Islam. And in that four months and 10 days, the mourning means she will avoid any form of beauty and adornment. But whatever is connected to hygiene and purity, she should continue. So in the state of Florida, she will take a regular bath, she will stay in a clean state, but nothing in a form of cosmetic or aesthetics or beauty.

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And then, of course, she presented the food and he ate, and then she realized the need for privacy and seclusion. And so she presented herself and the union was then consumated. And then in the latter part of the night, and this is the amazing part of the Hadith. And I've said this in so many of my talks, we can talk psychology till the cows come home, and we can talk psychology till the sunsets, but if anybody loved the psychology was almost lame or the Allahu anha the words of the hadith is Fela, Mara and shall be out when she seen her husband's every need was taken care of. As a human he ate as a person he consumed as a man he had a need that was taken care of. She realized he

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was city ated he was covered, he was attended to 10 she said love can I talk to you? La ilaha illa Allah Muhammad Rasul Allah, I, my point is actually something beyond for today's purpose of discussion, and then she said, you know, what, if somebody borrows you something and they claim it back, can you decline? No, never. Okay, you know, Allah has borrowed us, Allah has borrowed us and Allah had borrowed us our Muhammad, Allah had borrowed us for this period will mean Come minute, our famine, Pablo, what is wo Adela masama. So mudita ko knows who you are. So I took you out of the womb of your mother, then some I make into children, then some I take into strength, and some I take

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into old age. And before that some I don't even allow them to reach the infancy and I take them others before they use others before the old age, my knowledge and my power is complete.

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my knowledge and my power is complete.

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So then he says oh my wife you leave me and then

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I am here in my need and my desire. She says no will go to the province awesome and she goes to the Prophet sallahu wa salam and of course the NABI of Allah makes DUA and then the child is born and then he becomes a father of nine children each one of whom becomes a half is of the Quran Kulu whom Cara who Al Quran, so I heard this from my restart, may Allah bless him and preserve our Saturday when Nabil is Salam last Ibrahim Radi Allahu anhu, the racism is crime.

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Muslim loses her child,

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and she can hold her emotions so much that she can feed her husband a meal, and she can be intimate and she's holding back her tears and she's the mother. So of course that only a mother can understand. Does it mean all Muslims subber was greater than the visa lottery was Allah and the other must say no. To Muslim was amazing in her suburb. But Nabi SallAllahu wasallam was an example for the weekend a strong of the soma.

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If nebulae salaam didn't cry when he lost Ibrahim then none of us will be able to cry. Almost lame is amazing but almost saline is not our example. Our example is Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam if somebody can reach that well and good but I look at my nobody why you kept Rama nope, no outset on the way of Allah why you cry? Why you cry? Mojave Buddha he said Javi Ramadan Jalla Allah who feel colluvial ribbon, this is mercy Allah put in our hearts, who Muslim is amazing, but the nibio of allah sallallahu alayhi wa Salam is an example for in humanity in its entirety. Hence, the PLA Salam said in the line Atma and that's the point I want to say, cry, we have to cry, and we will cry and

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we'll continue crime got Ben Malik said watch then Allah Neferet Lavina terbaru yo Mumbi muda my heart cries out Sahaba live Janet more than anyone else. I always say Sahaba were more conscious of death in their weddings that we are in our funerals.

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A Sahabi in his wedding was more cognizant and aware and alert of funeral that we are in our Jeunesses we don't think of more when we bury in someone as much as they thought of it in the Indian weddings. And this is just not claim I'm making the narration of Selma Viola is famous in this regard. When he got married to a woman from Kinder in the Yemen tribe. So they had all this you know, beauty

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for gifts and the house was draped up and there was all this Deco. So he said a Moon Bay took him under how well a thin cabin to be kinder. Is your house sick that you drape in it? Or is this the new Kaaba so this, you know, it's a happy occasion. You know, you're getting married. He said Mommy Hava Asani. Really, my beloved friend momma's Olsen told me I was loving this world like a traveler. This he's saying to his prospective wife and in laws at the time of Nika.

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We can't say this in our old age.

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Mob, Johanna? Oh, Sonny Khalili, my beloved have even said Allah Allah wa sallam did not advise me to live like this.

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So nebulae salaam, cried.

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Not because almost selenium server was greater than the Nabhi of Allah. But we've seen our Nebby crying so we all can cry. We all can cry, we all can cry. And I was mentioning that point I'll come back to that as well. So many things that you know, I would like to share.

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So supper is at the time of affliction.

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But you will be afflicted with renewed reflections for the rest of your life. And every server will be a test of renewed patience, and every patience will be renewed agile.

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It's not only he passed away now so this is it. A week will be a milestone, a month will be a milestone. His birthday will be a milestone. Today he completed his hips will be a milestone, every location you go will be your memory and all of this will be a test and an opportunity of Agile.

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So Allah says in the Quran, that those who repent, then Allah won't only wipe away the wrong Allah says I'm ready if you committed to wipe it out and take all that liabilities and convert it into assets. Nobody can do this. The best a creditor can do give you grace give you respite or waive it, but you ever had a creditor telling the data listen, you owe me 100,000 Okay, I've waived it now I owe you 100,000 You've never ever ever heard of this? Allah says I'm ready for that if you ready I'm ready

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for hola Erica you but the loan love who say the hem has an ad for hola Erica you but the law who say team has Santa? Allah says I will convert vice into virtue. How warmer Dhaka in Lolly Anna who could llama the Kurama Maga nut Dima was stirred your I was stuck over for Yun Kali budem, buta attend behind the empty bar. Why, for the rest of your life, every time you see the venue of wrong or the person where you did wrong, or the location, you will have a renewed regret and a renewed Toba. So in that way, your former son on a disguised way is actually becoming a catalyst to propel you to virtue.

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Because every time you pass that casino, you just break down Ya Allah, Allah how many of my Saturdays went here? So now you renew in your Toba? So you renewed your Toba so you repenting so that sin is becoming a source of good for you on a disguise note. So Allah says I'll convert all your vise into virtual every location you will pass every memory you will have every occasion where we shared it together will renew that challenge and that test and if we will persevere Allah will increase and multiply many folds the other.

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So Clara was saying

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that when Jaffa the Alon who passed away and these couplets was sung, what do you then add in a formula they had not getting the chance to translate it? What did the narla Neferet Levine, baru Yeoman Bimota My heart goes out to those who laid their lives in Malta salaam Allahu alayhi Moom in fifth yet in May Allah shower His blessings on these youth was sacar Obama whom Rama Moon was below and may the clouds of Mercy rain upon them, photography are all commercial money rolly *a de la ilaha illAllah. Look at the whole of the Shah. He said it was such a sad day. I looked at the moon, almost like the moon went into Eclipse mode. Then I looked at the sun and the sun also became dull.

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It looks like we were not alone in sharing the pain. Even the solar system of Allah was reacting to the death. That's the couplets of cabin Malik. So when

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In this had happened

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what was the etiquettes was Goro mahasin emoticon welcome for and Maasai Nabi SallAllahu Sallam immediately came to the house of a smell of the Allahu anha as part of the Alanna says Argento a genie I had I was needing the flour and preparing the flour. And I just hustled to whom I just watched the Three kids given them a bath prepared them and preparing meals. And I seen the interview of Allah I was happy but there was a sense of panic that hit my heart. So I didn't want to initiate the question Cara here to an asthma Accra at least a year something you know the phone rings at 1am No, don't answer it. Because 1am can mean good, but only ignore it. But don't answer it. You don't

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know what to do.

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The doorbell rings at an odd hour you want to appease yourself maybe it's someone just by passing by maybe it's a pauper. Maybe it's a homeless but then there's a panic in you. So I didn't want to engage the Prophet of Allah because I wasn't sure what I was hearing so I just stood at the side and I kept on

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doing you know what I was doing? And then the visa system called the three children on Mohammed and Abdullah

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and then he started passing his hands over them lovingly and then Asmara they Alana said I'm watching I'm watching and I was observing the love. So I said only we have Allah is their father, okay is the father okay? And that means SallAllahu sallam said that CB o USMA hope for reward hope for reward hope for reward

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and then what did Nabi SallAllahu wasallam do and this is the etiquettes that's what I'm saying that our dean is what the wall so we'll happy with our sober southern right we need him sorta to Lhasa spirit will answer with no Imam Shafi said if there was no other chapter in the Quran, and it was only this chapter, it was adequate for the guidance of mankind. As comprehensive and as brief as the chapter is it outlines our individual and collective responsibilities. The first two injunctions are within our individual life in the Latina ama know what I mean Rosada hat. So Allah says everybody is in failure and destruction. And then Allah minuses from the destruction and failure in proportion

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and in ratio to the qualities you have in the levena amanu. You rescue to a certain extent.

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You are definitely rescued to a certain extent, but you cannot become complacent and stagnant at the point of bringing Iman Iman is you've enrolled for Jana, but you haven't yet graduated for Jana.

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you've enrolled for Jana, you in the right institution, but you haven't graduated. You can't both my child is in the school year, it could be a dropout, he could enter and fall out.

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So you've surely enrolled in the right place here. But we got to graduate and graduation is to die with iman.

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Lavina Amanu those who bring Iman, Pamela Solly heart and then they back that claim whole Quran replete wherever Allah talks of Armin AMILO, Salah had the I don't want to go into all those details. Constantly. Allah says this, then the collectivity of this OMA the font or whatever, so Bill happy whatever. So this summary

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there was so Bill Huck, they mutually exhort each other to do good. Listen, persevere, do it. But there's a way in doing it. There's a way in doing it. And that's the point I'm saying and I'm driving here. Imam Shafi Rahmatullah Allah said the Madani be no Ceca Finn Varady with a nibblin nussey Hatoful Jama.

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Take me in seclusion, and advise me from the morning till the night I will listen to you. But in public don't tell me one word. I'll never listen to you.

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Sadly, today, we lack this. We sometimes hurt the people we want to empower more than anything else. Taka McVie, remarked the sheets in which you put the soul wrapped me envelope me and shout Mitaka Matheny be no sleep caffeine. Varady Jen nibblin Nursery Hatfield Jama. So in the news have been a nurse, no wrong minute to be advising me in public. I'm not convinced on your motive.

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I'm not convinced on your mood. I don't even have my interest at heart.

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And I've said this all the time. May Allah bless our beloved parents, they advise us and the thing that gives me a shiver in my back always is when your parents are gone.

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People will advise put

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You don't know if they have your interests at heart or your jealousy at hearts.

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The only people you know with certainty is your parents. And I say this now is in Malawi, he was giving some youngsters advice. I said your parents can

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in the council, but you can't flow the motive of the council.

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You can flow that

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does Oh Allah has made us This is Oh Allah has made us and may Allah give strength the love of a mother is just indescribable. When Sedna Musala is Salatu was Salam came

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from Mount to and then he observed that his brother Harun was there and the worship of the calf was happening. So he had obviously given his brother strict instructions that okolo funny if he told me please be the deputy was reform while at the web level move CD, don't follow them if they get up to any mischief. So this is the academic discussion where the HD heart process the logical, you know, analyzing of the situation of one profit could differ from another profit in the same time to to another we talk of two imams are having different views. These are two prophets in the same time and era having two views.

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Musa alayhis salam felt when they did it, you should take up arms against them and separate from them. And Harun Allah in salaam said in negotiate to enter cola for ruptor Boehner, Bani Israel, I could have well done that, but I feel you're gonna come and say, look, you've created a permanent division.

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And this is the basis that the Allama say how the HA HA, the wannabe. So when it happened, and Musala Salatu was Salam was in rage, and Sedna, how rune wanted to quell the rage of Harun Alayhis Salam, he didn't say my brother or Musa OB of Allah. He said, Yep, no mulata has been at all the sun to my mother. Please just go slow with me. The anima say the adoption of the expression of the son of my mother was calling out to sympathy because mother only means love.

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Benno Parramatta only Allah can give you strength.

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Don't let anybody DC view you can have your emotions and cry. Allah puts a thought in my mind.

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Allah told the mother of Musa put your baby in the basket and put the basket in the Reverend aisle.

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She obligers And she complies. Allah gives her the assurance the style is coming back. Allah gives her the comfort the style is becoming a prophet. For the moment she obliges and complies. She responds in a seeds but her mother would doesn't leave her. She doesn't start doubting Allah, her mother would overtake her again, were us Baja, for me Musa Forli law.

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Allah says after putting the baby in the basket and the basket in the River Nile thrusting on what I said suddenly she just had a different emotion.

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This is the mother of Musa who's on divine strength from Allah. What happened to her heart suddenly, in car that led to booty be Lola

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Roberto Luna in God, she is following through she knows it's Allah's command in a haka that led to booty.

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She's on the verge of telling the people ate that basket, got my baby, bring it back. But she was told that we bring him back she oblige. So this will happen. And that's why I always say and today it's my own house. today. It's my own house. But every time I speak in Janaza homes I say this Yup, that every member of the family's emotions will fluctuate on different levels. Someday the parent might be strong someday the sibling might be strong, someday the other one might be weak, this fluctuation will happen and we need to give strength to each other we need to give strength to each other. So what did Allah say regarding the mother of Musa alayhis salam

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Lola Roberta na Allah tell Bihar we strengthen her heart and that's what we asked for. As Mao would say Allah bow severity Berea Allah bow severity but only Allah can so she obliges she complies she follows the basket is the Allah tells her not like I'm giving her comfort. Allah is giving a comfort alumna inspiration. Then she goes then

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She says

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you know what? Allah says we held her back. So sometimes a person is going on the simple thing in Ramadan is a mashallah look at his office up is so confident he goes on the masala with so much ease using outside Allah knows how his heart condition is in Karnataka TB

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is internal emotion is very different. And I'd say to my niece, both my nieces and of course my nephew as well achieved expression that Allah might have mentioned yet

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because each one misses the disease on a different level.

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So when the basket was in the River Nile, and the basket was sailing, the mother's got your teen on Allah's decision. She's not doubting it. It's her mother woods. It's her mother would. Now she tells

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her daughter, you just go walk and see. But the Allah Ma says the Quran didn't say she told her daughter, the bond of siblings waka lethally oh the Eco see Lila Hi, Lulu.

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Or call lethally Oh, she didn't say the Quran doesn't say what God that Libin de it's Arabic. I don't know if people know what I'm saying. Yeah. So so she's obliging but um, her heart is playing up and down. It's gonna play as long as we don't challenge Allah. As long as we don't question Allah. But the fluctuation within a smile. They could just be an outburst of cry, and within an outburst of cry, there could be a smile. This will happen if this is what's happening to the mother of Musa

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Musa 30 run our mercy one Musa. The Quran says the heart of the mother of Musa she can't think of anything besides Musa

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Lola or Roberto Anna, Lola or Roberto. If we didn't give strength, she would have divulged it and told the intelligence bring that that's my child, but the plan of Allah was the lips got to be sealed. So she devised the plan and she sent her daughter but the Quran didn't say she sent her daughter. The Quran says she sent Musa sister.

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What God let believe the cause See, so the sister was walking the sister was walking. So what's the pain of a sister?

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Her name PLA Salatu was Salam What did he do in the house. He then called the three children. And then he seen the hair was long. So he said arranged for a barber. These children's hair need to be attended to then he said Fatima, prepare food for the family of Jaffa. They are gripped in great sorrow is not only early for prom, the aim is not to burden the family, not to impose on the family, not to cause pain to the family. We need to adhere to the right protocols at the right time. Think applying process to iPhone now do I come now to iMessage now I know you mean well. But if you don't do it at the right time, then it's going to have an adverse effect and he's not going to be getting

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your reward it would be counterproductive it's not only early for the thumb, prepare for the family of Jaffa, Tom and food because they have been gripped in great pain and sorrow. How do you comfort someone? We gave you the hadith of a Buddhahood

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where the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, Guru Maha sin emoticon speak about the good of your disease. The benefit of that is to I always mentioned in my humble talks, one is practicing on the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and secondly, motivating the mourners with a message of action.

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So Evans coming to the house, mashallah, this was his amazing nature. And I can tell you, not because he's my nephew, but if I have to say the Hadith and minnows, Iran Karim, Allah aminos Iran Karim, a believer is saw his passive, he's polite, he's obliging he will comply. That was his nature. That was his nature. As my mom would say, bow ballroom or rubato bow ballroom Erbitux, easygoing, soft, polite, accommodating, kept nothing in his heart. That's the death Allah gave him. There's the talk of mine that I've mentioned and people have seen it and heard it of the brother who made SoHo in London and Iftar in Jana. I seen him die in front of my own eyes. In the month of

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Ramadan in the masjid. I had completed my talk Iftar was at night

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I in pm, after I delivered my lecture, we went to the real of the Masjid. He was sitting there.

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And it was 859 60 seconds for the clock to strike. It was a Friday after a certain Maghrib and the fast would have ended and it would have been Saturday by aligners control is my life in these last few days of Ramadan, as I'm sitting here in New City and he was sitting diagonally across, and I just seen him collapse.

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Some wish for a Friday. Others dream for Ramadan, some hope for a masjid others hope when they fasting, and some take it all together.

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One minute before the first first expired, Allah took his role. And then I had to give a talk immediately. We had Iftar in the masjid day in London that day, and then the paramedics came and they pronounced him late within minutes, and then to break the news to the next of kin. So I asked the brother after breaking the newsroom, I said, Tell me the secret. He said my brother's heart was very clean. I don't know in his heart if he harbored anything for anyone. And I can tell you that of my nephew. He was to clean and pure, innocent and simple. Never had an A or an opinion about himself never kept the grudge or thought negative. So that's the Motorola gave him the lead numerous Rudra

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the alarm who said death in the last 10 days I'm hopeful from Allah straight entry into Jana.

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And we dealing with the merciful Allah, throughout your life, balance, hope and fear. Yep.

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Allah says,

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Yo, yo, Joe Naramata, who were your half owner, Adapa hopeful of His mercy and fear in his punishment, and it must be channahon It must be wings, you balance it. Because if there's an imbalance, then there'll be problem in the whole system and gravity. If you go too much in fear, then you will become despondent. If you go too much in hope then you will become lazy and lethargic and you won't have action, but the other might say close to death. And after dying, it's only hope. And the last few days he's only been talking of Allah's mercy and telling us of how kinda Allah is. So again like Allah made him say other things, Allah made us understand hopefully in sha Allah as we

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say from the tax land was a key Allah Allah He had we cannot pronounce conclusion on anyone our joy as I said from the beginning is more with Emma and and in the month of Ramadan. You know, when when a person gets diagnosed with any condition, then you say shame and you say Allah save me from that. You don't say it loud, sensitive to him and you say May Allah make it easy person got this happened to him a shame May Allah save me. And when somebody passes away, then what you do, may Allah make it easy for him and may Allah make it easy for us also, because what he is going through is inevitable for us. But he died in a way that he left us envious of a death he left us envious of a DEB

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So what is the etiquette? What is the etiquette I'm gonna mention this and try and round up.

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The etiquette is speak about the good.

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When you come to the house of the disease, I remember your late son I remember your late brother I remember your late father, we were together in the path of Allah We were together in the masjid we were together out in Hajj. I seen him doing this action that is the dog of Tanzania.

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I know what you're going through. No, no, no, that's not the up. That's not how you can't comfort anyone. You mean well, but that's not right.

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Even if you've experienced a similar situation, you don't ever tell someone I have been through the so I know you trivializing their pain.

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You trivializing their pain. And even if you went through the same thing, they could be very ancient of the intensity of the affliction in relation to the surrounding dynamics.

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So I know what you've been through. No, look at all the ahaadeeth you won't find that anywhere. I know what you've experienced.

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And that means Salallahu Alaihe Salam offered comfort. We take guidance in a cue that harmony nebulae Salam buried, but it's not like nobody Salah is I'm told the others have I will I have also been through this year, no Nubbins of Allah Azza gave comfort to eat Sahabi in his own way, and he came to the aid and the rescue of that particular Sahaba the Allahu Anhu. So the famous incident of Abdullah bin Zubair, the Allahu anhu, right, who was this great giant legend stalwart, and this amazing Companion of the Allahu Anhu and he comes to meet his mom on the eve on the eve. And he's having this dialogue with his mum, and as our beloved Hafiz Muhammad was speaking to his mum and he

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said, but only it will be over tomorrow.

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But below What are you saying? It will be over tomorrow but by what by What are you saying? And these are things that Allah makes them express which only Subsequently, we realize the indications that were incorporated in those sentiments.

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And we ask Allah to Allah says Allah gave strength to the heart of the mother of Musa and Allah gave strength to the youth in the time of, you know, in the tail of the people of calf. What about Anna Anna Palaui him? May Allah give them that strength, that divine courage, that divine energy to go through it? Let's be frank. You know, in Ramadan, I say this to people, every time you traveling and you meet with non Muslims, and they tell us in I don't know how you people fast? And my answer to them is not it's easy. I tell them you know what, just as you don't know how we fast trust me even we don't know how we fast

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because if we were a nation that could fast, then every woman would want to marry a muslim man because he's the most patient man supposedly. But it's the furthest from the truth.

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We are people that cannot wait for food five minutes. We have people that are fussing on our food, but suddenly it just goes into discipline mode. It's divine intervention that makes this possible. How can we sit and rally around to secure their happiness and say like it's me now actually, you know what, by the way, let me explain to you because we started at an early age and you just got to program all these theories it's Allah that makes it possible chapter close

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you better your whole life to finish the three Kedah have one Ramadan

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now I'll keep it tomorrow a tomorrow is off leave it I know tomorrow we got visitors leave it a tomorrow is weekend now we'll see next week and nowadays are getting long now. Now we'll see next winter what before you know it the next Ramadan? And yeah, then Celica Siobhan Fela sama inland Ramadan Shavon is gone now with Ramadan. It's just like Allah, it's Allah. So this is the amazing part. Allah gives you the strength, Allah makes it possible and then the sunsets and then the thirst is quenched and the body is drenched and the reward is secured. The Hub dama obertan little water bottle Andrew, so to go through this, it's not humanly possible. It's not humanly possible, but yes,

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what Allah somebody asked me if the Mimosa parameter Lolly is questioning in the grave possible. Is it merrily they really are luckily.

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Yet government's Savall mumkin militarily may relate to it dunya is our mumkin NATO copper Mecca Moonkin Olga, I can't even ask you in this world women ask you in the cover. And Allah if you don't believe in it, there's no eemaan in Na Na Lin. Cool, cool. Oh, hi, Jonathan ohada Oh halacha me Mike Brophy. Sudo Recoome if you think I cannot create from the sand the nevermind sin take your dead body and convert it into steel. Nevermind steel make it into stone, nevermind stone, put the dead corpse into some material from which you consider the resurrection to be most remote and see what I do. First of the Quran

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what I know is gone far more often than in Loma Barone, Zona con JD the coal Kuno Hi, John rotten. Oh, hi dee da. Oh, hello can Nima Yakubu ruffian sudo recon? Firstly aku Dona mejor e Duna. Cool in the FATA rock home? Oh Allah ma ra tell him the One who created you first will create you again. So yes, it I'm saying this is how you consoled someone. And these are categoric words. And if you don't know any good observe silence. You know, Allah allowed me in my life few times, where I had the privilege of being in a gathering, where they were two great scholars. And my anxiety was piercing through the roof, because both were giants in their own field. And I said I want to watch now how

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each one into x. And every opportunity that Allah gave me both been great order mind scholars, I observed that they both remained silent by aligners control with my life. I said today only because he's a hazard in his own capacitors. And now they meet it and I'm like, Okay, right. This is something for me to learn now. What's the protocol? Yeah, he's so great. He's so amazing. He's so learned, and they just kept quiet. And the whole Maginnis was silent half an hour did the silence who's going to speak He's not speaking this has written up speaking into silence. Say the right word. If you don't know the right words up up.

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bring joy to someone remove someone's pain. Don't be insensitive to any person. Allah make us amongst those who can remove the pain of people.

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Allah say to Allah give you strength in you

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Have difficulty Allah make it easy for you. Allah give you strength. Allah show you your disease in a dream

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state now I've not been said Amara, the Alana who passed away for one year every day I made dua to Allah Allah want to see Amara in a dream.

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This is not something Omata you knew from before where he was. There's not like like when you see him in a dream, then at least you can get comfort. The narration isn't higher to Sava

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not like okay, I need to see and take solace. No, you know where Walmart is, you know, where Walmart is from the word go. But I just wanted to see him because of how close he now buses and of course the dream gives that peace and tranquility and that comfort. So you're the son comes to his mother and he says,

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Oh, my mother.

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First she feels and she feels the armor. And she was blind. She was 100 years of age. Right? Asthma? Probably Allahu anha. The daughter of Abu Bakr, of course, the sister of our Isha the Alana, but they share the different mother, the mother of Moldova, and Abdullah bin Zubaydah, the Allah man Houma. And so she feels the armor and she says, My son wants this armor. What am I feeling? So you said no, my mum in the battle, I don't know they might mutilate my body. So that's when she said the famous proverb, a Shaolin monk bufala. Ulema has Sal hope that when a animal is slaughtered, and then you skin it, it doesn't feel the pain. When you died on Allah's name, what they do with your

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body, you won't feel it. So then he took out the armor. He took out dharma. Then he said to his mother, or my mother, I say the following words to you not to trumpet myself or to say how great I am. But to give you advanced condolences of my death, La ilaha illa Allah.

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Yeah, that's the deal.

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To give you advanced condolences of my mouth, I'm going I won't see you who will comfort you I'm telling you from now. So what did he tell his mother? Cooney, Allah 13 Annapurna de la mia Ahmed etea and Amman Karen Pato only today I'm telling you, I never told you but because I'm dying, I'm telling you what the Grace of Allah in my whole life. I never deliberately disobeyed Allah once.

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I never deliberately disobeyed Allah once. Wama amela before I shall, I never committed an act of immorality. While I'm young Delphi Amani, I never perpetrated a breach in any trust. While I'm yet the unmad little Muslim in Walla moron hit my mother, you can walk with your head Hi. I never oppressed the Muslim or non Muslim. When Omar bin Abdulaziz was in the throes of death he told his children in acuminata Morona we had him in Al Muslimeen Oh, I live in Medina him in LA oh and Allah Komali him haka my children I'm not leaving money, but where ever you walk, people will salute you because of your late father. That's the money I leave behind for you. When most isn't Muslim or non

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Muslim, they'll say your late father I'll stand up for you. In the come Latimer Runa be I had him in mineral Muslimeen oh actually the meeting him in LA oh and Allah Komali am aapke because of the life I lead, and then he said,

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Well, I'm your Qunar endo che on Arthur Mridula. He has the agenda. My mum there was nothing that pleased me more than pleasing Allah subhanho wa taala. I loved by this year, and I don't think I will see the sunset today. Then he said, what are called alligators get ugly enough. See, by Allah. I'm not saying this year to exonerate or trumpet myself, but I'm giving you advanced condolences. We're in nama according to who li o de fille Allah Azza Allah calbeck So when you gon let my words ring in your ears, let my words ring in your ears. But my son told me this my son told me does. This is such an emotional recitation of the Quran of our Bailu and I was reading it I don't know how many

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times I heard it in this two days just non stop as beautiful soothing. In fact, if I can just omit here

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it was just too emotional. Yeah.

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It was when I saw

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out the mother in law

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who

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will proceed cremation is

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gone as well. So, honey, Mo I know.

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You're mad

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about the

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law holding the law.

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So if I have to just take one ayah from what he left us worth was the Rama saw back in the valley come in as mill OMO. All my family or my parents makes a bar on what Allah has tested you with, because that is from the matters of absolute resolute

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so oh my mother, I only say this to you to bring comfort to you and what did the mother say? And we'll end with this and make dua, the mother said

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Alhamdulillah Hill levy Jai laka Allah ma yo, hey, Bo, what will hit bow? All praise belongs to Allah Who shaped you and molded you in a manner that is pleasing to Him and pleasing to Me. We say to you below what nebulae Salatu was Salam said Our eyes are full of tears and our heart is full of sorrow. And surely we're in now before erotica Muhammad Lama has known your gap your absence your separation has left us restless. But we will only say that which Allah is pleased and that is in gnarly law. He were in LA Raja Arun, then Asmara, the Alana raise the hands and she made dua for her son, and then he went and she passed away. And I'll just translate this dua and then we'll engage in

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to our she said, Allahu Morahan Allah humara Allahu Morahan to lotta yummy he was sure that the Navy FISA delay when NASA Nyan Oh Allah you reward my my son for his long nights of prayer and reward him for his his exerting himself in worship. Allah humara hum. Lama who would you are who fee Howard Jerrell Medina T. Womack Ganga who saw him, Allah you reward him for his hunger and his thirst in the scorching heat of Makkah. Allahu Morahan Bira who be a be he will own me. Allah reward him he was an amazing child to his father, and he was dutiful to his mother Allahumma in need God salam to Hooghly Amrik Allah who may in need but salam to Hooghly Amrik worthy to Bhima some Tala for a fee

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bunny I let you hit the wall but saw it in Allah I have handed him over to you and that was exactly the news to ah and pain those words and sentiments that Allah I have handed him over to you, Allah whom these are the words of Asma Allah who may in need consult them to Holy Unbreak Allah who may need but salam to Hooli Emery alive handed him over to your world worthy to be marked as some remark Assumpta and I'm pleased on what you have decided. For a fee bunny Eileen hit the wall but sub it in Allah grant me the reward you have promised for any person who loses his child and make supper

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who said Alana wala houbara from Attica or hamara Amin Allahumma Villa Hi, hyena we're making it in our Shahidi now we'll go up now with Selena what can be you know, with the Karina?

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Islam aumento of feta woman fatawa fuego allyl Iman, oh Allah You grant us and the family and the parents and the grandparents and the uncles and the siblings the strength to live up to what you have declared in the Quran. As you have declared death to be a type of a test of Allah for us all but come mostly but to promote the Sunnah Houma member this Salah tea for your customer and a beloved, that the mercy but of mouth the trial of mouth has struck of Allah and you have said that your beloved servants are those Alladhina Eva Assad but whom masiva when they are struck with a trial Carlo in LA he was in Illa urogen rune upon whom for whom you have said Allah Akbar, Allah in

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him Salawat to rub the hem Rama, that your special blessings and your mercies

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descend upon them. Oh Allah. Oh Allah you grant our Hafiz Muhammad the highest abode in Jannah. Oh Allah, Oh Allah we are so optimistic of your pardon given the beautiful death and the peaceful ending that you have given him Oh Allah, Oh Allah as we have been told in the Quran, that everything is on the antibiotics and the outcome and you've given him such a beautiful ending in such a blessed month of Allah. We ask You through Your grace and Your mercy envelope him in your special mercies of Allah overlook all his shortcomings of Allah grant strength to his parents heart in Busan, Allah boozer mo Allah grant carriage to his siblings Allah grant courage to his uncles and family Allah to

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his grandparents of Allah to his cousin and so to all that is left behind Oh ALLAH and Aveda and grantee Maha abode in general Allah, Allah Allah with disease that have passed on no Allah in the recent past with the distant past, Oh Allah, you grant them all Jana to refer those Allah, Allah grant us all the ability to include him and all our disease in the two hours of Allah and Allah Allah is you've given him a death in the last 10 days of Ramadan in this beautiful state. Allah you bless us also Allah with a beautiful death of Allah grant us a death in your obedience to Allah, Allah you divinely give them strength, Allah, every turn, every tourist, every memory, every closet,

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every cupboard, every every posture of Allah will evoke that nostalgia and revive those memories of Allah. Allah at each moment Oh Allah, you give them comfort and strength Allah Allah we take solace when our Habib sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was in pain in the last moments of his life and Fatima the Alana said well carrabba bata worker Barbata worker Babita Oh my father you're in so much pain, you're in so much pain and nobody saw some don't Fatima lady Salah a BK caribou and Bedelia home. Fatima today is the last of the pain in the life of your father after today will only be peace and comfort. Surely that was Your Habib sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, but Allah He had the name of

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Muhammad and he had your Quran in your in his chest to Allah and surely the fact that you had given him the Quran, O Allah is a sign of your kindness and your mercy and your edit fever upon him. When Nabil a Salam was bearing the Sahaba and the martyrs of Ohio he said a you whom a thorough us then lil Quran, are you home? exaro oxen lil Quran, oh my Sahaba from all these martyrs, which one knew Quran more bury him first in his honor. Allah you gave him this beautiful name. You gave him your Quran you gave him this blessed month Allah, Allah Allah hopes no no limits in your kindness Allah our hopes are that you will have pardoned him of Allah We beg you We beseech you employ you envelope

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him in your mercy and fool the family with divine strength and courage and patience and endurance. So Allah, Allah who may Nana's Allah caminhada de massa Allah caminhada Dukkha whenever you can Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam when are also becoming coalition Remus da they come in who are happy to go into b You can Mohammed on sallallahu alayhi wa sallam until Mastan were illegal but what a holdover La Quwata illa biLlah Hilary loving him. So the Hannah Baker believe is that Yama Yossi phone was salam ala moana, Sunny and will hamdulillahi rabbil aalameen erotica or hamara