Forgotten Etiquettes #25 – Prophetic Psychology

Bismillah hir wa salatu salam ala Rasulillah he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam were bad. We often find ourselves in a situation where we are visiting a person whose critically ill and medically the signs are not looking bright. It's rather looking slim and bleak. What words of hope can we say to such a person knowing very well, that his end is fast approaching? Well, yeah, we look at the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam recorded by Imam Tirmidhi and Ibnu Murgia. Academically Of course, there is a narrator in this chain that is weak Musa bin Mohammed bin Ibrahim, however it is regarding virtue so we can share the narration. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said either

the whole terminal mareel When you visit a sick person for the fistula, houfy edgeley, then give him hope, inspire him motivate him, you're looking bright. You're looking good you'll be discharged soon. For in Nadal Nicola Euro che ah, your kind words will not prolong his life, or your three will be enough sir, but will surely add value to the remaining days of his life. Amazing indeed. That's the psychology of the teachings of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Let's look at the second scenario you need to break news to a near and dear one of something which is not very pleasant. How do you break the news in English we talk of euphemism to be gentle, to be polite to be indirect. So

we look at a verse in the Quran Chapter 12 Jews 12 Verse 41, when Cedra Yusuf alayhi salam was innocently incarcerated, and with him they were fellow to inmates, and both of them had seen a dream. These people were accused for poisoning the food of the king, and the metal was under investigation, and in the interim, they had a dream. Now one of the interpretation was positive that that individual will be acquitted of the allegations, and he will be restored or reinstated as the wind bearer of the king, while the other interpretation was that he will be found guilty and he will be executed. In Ibuka theory it is mentioned when Satan or use of Alayhis Salam interpreted the

dreams he did not say to the one whose death was closed because he was gonna be found guilty like count your days your days are numbered. Rather he was gentle. He was polite, he was you firm. You know he was adopted euphemism in the approach, he said Amma Atacama firstly robber who hombre one of us will be reinstated to present wine to the king, while the other will be found guilty and He will be crucified. May Allah bless us with gentleness, politeness, tactfulness and euphemism. I mean you're blossoming