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Sulaiman Moola

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mesilla you will be Cassio de casi or woman you ready to be in a city? According to Vu Salas with Allah, Allah, he was seldom in the La Jolla. He has the Lupita we have Obama when you're gonna be studying set up a local audience. Honorable scholars, respected brothers, elders, mothers, sisters and our young learners and the young half is out that would be graduating today. Surely it is the connection was the one in Kareem that brings honor, respect and glory to an individual. And when a person does regards interest, the support on the left is the result and the recipe of destruction. The honey that I quoted the rest into salani was send them set in alarm a year

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of Obama, by virtue of the Koran Allah will honor and raise and elevate its people. Probably if we look back into the life of the young Somalia that would be graduating today and hopefully inshallah she is a motivation and an incentive for many of our other young girls as well, to endeavouring to commerce, the Quran to memory, then you would take her as an average child as a common child with the usual things that would, you know, involve any other young learner or child, but this is the time where the differentiation comes about and this is the time when a woman comes out,

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to populate kita

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Omaha masala It was said that it is the sheer Mercy of Allah, that he has endowed you with the Quran and he has endowed you with Prophet would

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wait this month. zoomy was a person. It's mentioned in the title, from a simple background from a humble family was not much of fame, recognition or social standing. So one day he said to his mom, he says, Mom, I really don't have what it takes to impress my peers. I don't really have what it takes to get the attention and to get the recognition of people. How can I How can I live beyond all these negative perceptions that people have about me? We live in a world where much is said about beauty. We live in a world where much is said about wealth. We live in a world where people's celebrate revere and honor all these type of accolades. So his mother sat him down and he said,

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adding COVID-19 adding COVID-19 for inala yo febrile V and for Caesar when you do movie and Nafisa listen my young boy, mother addressing the child, embrace faith and religion and commit yourself to commit yourself to Deen. By virtue of that Allah will protect the defectors, and Allah will honor the humble.

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And the young boy Oh wait, this masumi says the words of my mommy is hardened me it penetrated my heart and I said, Wow, this is profound. If I'm shocked to learn, he said he

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saw people who carry on well over the dead.

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I have repeatedly seen that those who commit themselves diligently passionately to the sciences have been a lot gives them honor respect in this world, even if they don't come from very influential homes or impressive backgrounds. And that is the beauty of the it is open to one and all whoever whenever however, someone asked after live now first of the alarm. What is Granger? Let me complete the sentence and then I'll come to this point here. So when Chris masumi said, I took the words of my mom to heart, and I started studying them for will lead to Allah. Allah brought that day that I became the official Judge of mocha mocha llama. I became the official Judge of Macau mocha couldn't

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fathom comprehend, or even my dreams would not run to that

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Have a and really I just had a quick word with the hub. I'm so happy to be part of this event here in the school year and to see the great endeavors that are taking place May Allah bless upper hand competent staff that easier and all the dedicated well wishes and studious students, students that are studying at this institution and making it go from strength to strength. It is important that we enhance empower ourselves, both with academic skills and importantly fortify and insulate ourselves with Islamic ethos and values, or message Valerie allowed mahana the spouse of Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam garnered military law under the law under the Nuffield john Hillier, she was amongst the most

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literate and educated women in the pre Islamic era. Her contribution in Islamic jurisprudence is one of the richest found in the annals of history. Our history Alana's name is synonymous to knowledge, and we know much second Latinas have Rasulullah sallallahu ala Illa, Salah Ayesha Abu Salah Sheree said, whenever we face complexity and difficulty in resolving any honey and we found the apparent contradiction, we would knock the door I used to be a llama. But someone was spoken about less in the field of knowledge and is a woman of green setter was myself more of a lover and how, and you need to know and I just seized the opportunity to remind you it was the occasion of the via the

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Helene is in Buhari when the messenger sallallahu wasallam

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embarked on the journey of power, and the influence has denied him access into Makkah. And then he was halted and much negotiations took place, and not to any abrasion for the moment. And amongst those that came to negotiate was always the most rude. And this is the impression our school needs to create. And this impression as Muslims, we need to create your concern. And boy, here comes a non Muslim hostile for the Roman, but subsequently becomes a devout Muslim when it comes to negotiating. But during the process of negotiation, he rotates his gaze. And he looks at discipline and he looks at behavior and he looks at respect. And he looks at mannerism. And he says which people are

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amazing, these people are amazing. And honestly speaking as Muslims, today in the world, there is a vacuum. That is it's just the body. I mean, just I travel often and I always want my thoughts and I say this in many of my humble dogs, that every time I travel and I get exposure to opposite cultures. It reminds me of the richness of my teachers. When I see people eating with the left hand I appreciate the legions of Mohammed says up to eat with my right hand. When I see people limited to a screen on long haul 14 hours, and they cannot shift their gaze and they munching away that's the time I realized that the messages a lot of them told me to eat as a humble person. So these are

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great, great advocates of our dean and that is the magnetic attraction. I often say that we don't have to put a glitter on too deep. We don't have to put a glow on today. It has its natural glow and attraction. We have to remove the blemish as the scar that we have put at the scene has its own attraction it will just bring people to play live naramata don't see it'll be a lot of said when I came to Makkah people have poisoned me against Muhammad Sallallahu use and so much has done has shown to be

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that I stopped cotton wool in my ears. And I said even perchance I don't want to hear what the man says. And I passed by the gathering Mohammed somos recycleable on. And honestly, the vocabulary of no language can aptly succinctly capture an image of that golden era of Nepal with

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the presence of the gamma, the galaxy of Sahaba. The paragon of Atlas creation, the early hours of the morning and the messengers Alliance and reciting for what a moment and I passed by and he penetrated my heart and I said I want to accept Islam. Ahmad Ahmad was a physician when he came to Moscow people keep away from Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam is a man of evil character and he will value Salah properties with a kind of indoctrination. And we live in in volatile times my young sister You are in a relatively safe environment in the school and May Allah bless your guardians and your custodians and your well wishes that bad for you that whole new that save you that influenced

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you so that you can come up with a necessary skill. But outside the it's a cruel world. It's a vicious word. Allah speaks about a person that the different ploys the different glories that people have instituted through the passage of time to take people away from the deep. Among these floors as well are part of our effort to build as little data we have a new bill Larry, who's in Ireland, enough

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Well, what do you have now have what four Oh,

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God, that some of the people said, the non Muslims let's do that. Let's revert to Islam we not Muslims because Muslims and we are prominent we are influential people. When we express our devotion to Islam, it will create a big noise and a big stir amongst the Muslims. And they will say, Wow, see who has come on board this prominent man, this individual and the little after a period of time we abandon Islam and we forsake Islam. In doing so, we will create weakness in the lens of the Muslims, they will think if such a prominent man came into Islam, and then he left his out, definitely he was exposed to some shortfalls, some deficiency, some weakness. So by virtue of this, we can create

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weakness in their foundation, we can shake the foundation, and really today, we know social media and the cyber world. And no person can be you know, totally protected. I often quote this quotation, we are a world and a nation, bless and kiss by our innovation. We are blessed and curse, our glory. No affiliate is intrinsic. It's not accident z is intertwined. It's interconnected. So as much as we communicate, and it's easy to chat and converse and being able to grow and motivate, but at the same time, the exclusion to evil the challenges to evil are so many are so many. So these are the kind of challenges that we face. So anyway, Lima, subsequently becomes the Holy Land who was a physician, he

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came to my company fully indoctrinated him. And he said performance of Allah He was said that he is a bad person. And the only way we can undo the CEO, this negativity is expose people to the beauty of Islam, and really my young girl,

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you need to be proud of your identity as a Muslim. You need to respectfully be assertive of your values as a Muslim, you suffer not a complex of inferiority. So look at this incident of the boron.

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To complete the incident of Lima he comes to the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. He says, I've treated many people can I treat you? The residents awesome, calm, composed, calculated, methodical, it doesn't become impulsive. He doesn't retort he doesn't say anything obscene or unpleasant, very reserved and restrained. He says I've done this and yes, I've done Alhamdulillah in Africa who are sorry, who stopped my young Fernando De La Hoya

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de la. This is a common cause by hiring is usually but we are not the masters of the Arabic language with Mr.

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Bahari I've never heard I've never heard Arabic of this caliber in my life. When I heard this Arabic from you, I'm convinced I'm the patient tell you the doctor.

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I am the patient that you talk to give me your hand I want to embrace your face and instantly he embraces the face of the messages a lot. He was alone. homosexuality, Atlanta that incident I was speaking what it was.

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When he came, he's observing what did he say? online? You must allow someone to comment and in our coffee cup lovers with a minimum, but then it could be how would you How would you go Who am I to legally?

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Listen, folks before I tell you he reports back to his people. Before I tell you about my negotiations. I must tell you these people are very disciplined nation. Muslim, by his very definition, by his very make out by his demeanor by his passion and inclination. He is a very disciplined individual. He starts his day as the flush of dawn at the crack of dawn along with the people who really have something that has sterilized the use of today is sleeping late and there's no early stuff there's no there's no place like that in the life of a belieber the messenger sallallahu wasallam said love some water back Televisa don't have gossip. Don't just chat don't have

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gatherings after Isha sleep early, rise early, sleep early rise early. I think this is so imperative in today's world, where each young boy or girl would sit for hours and hours on social media and chat and just speak away and just kill time and time and it means absolutely nothing to us hasn't personally said I meant the Sahaba. If I have to sum up the Sahaba in one word, God, to Whom a Shahada Roman II mean

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they were a nation more possessive over time than money. When it came to money, they were casually I think it is fine time. Sorry, you're not going to get a moment for me. I've got a fixed schedule. Our situation is the direct opposite time. The night is young. You've said today Joe, relax. What's the house

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What's the Vedic relax? It's all it's yours. You know, it's a young day. It's a young night. And when it comes to money, our first is science, when it comes to money offers the science. But when it came to Sahaba, they were more casual. They were easy. They could spend money. It wasn't given to the messenger sallallahu Sallam and ask for some money. To go to say that our man as he arrived with the dogs is not worth money over years are going to be a lot of having to work with the spouse and says, Don't use too much oil in the landfill. Don't abuse oil, be cautious, be calculated, you know circumspect. So think for a moment the messenger assassin has directed me to this man. While he's

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busy monitoring the amount of oil is using in his lender is he the person I need to really go to? nonetheless, he takes opportunity and he knocks on the door and is ushered into the house. He says I'm the head for and I've been sent by the messenger sallallahu Sallam said not a fun word comes in and says whatever your request is, I will double it

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so the man is triplex is stress free supplies he cannot be consigned there's a dichotomy. How do we reconcile one side you budgeting on oil on the other end you given me beyond my request is that we're going to be able to withhold we don't spend and we told us to send we don't withhold.

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Man I have fell in love with the love of God in love. Women really love this man. The messenger sallallahu Sallam said who's a true believer for things my younger four things you love for love you Love for love. And don't mean that the reception was some young boy coming and deadly the candy before you had come in and offering you some rosy images of life and promising you these things just to sway you. It's a world Unfortunately, when people are driven by lust when people are driven by other other things that are a little tougher, the

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tougher the 1101 Lula Morello arimin was at the Mariners and you're really welcome when

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he was for many years the hidden barrel de la Have you not seen a person who Allah causes to go astray because he follows his base desires despite having knowledge. But only if nearby Rhoda was a great scholar in the previous nations long story short, his nation tells him

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to curse Mussolini's Salam characters. Mousavi Salatu was Salam. How can I dress Lucia is a prophet of Allah. Moses is a great prophet of Allah. They gave him well they give him bribes, they, you know, tempt him, they dangle those and different things and he falls prey to him. And these are the things that have been decorated around us. They have been put before us, to do us to seduce us to drive us to entice us. And then you stamped it a second the handsome gives you second the handsome bribes. And now he starts cursing the Messenger of Allah, but failed to have in destiny has it. Then as he tries to curse Musa alayhis salam, he ends up cursing himself and his own peoples because what

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are you saying he says I don't have control over my gun. I don't have control over my tongue.

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Coming back to that incident of homosexuality a lot more on the on the occasion of a beat. I'm saying the role of a woman. The Hadees I call this message is something you'd love for the pleasure of Allah. You love someone you love someone. You look at this young girl who's in a company now you envy her. you admire her Why? That this is a young girl in my class in my school. I am grappling to memorize a phone number and traveling to learn my work. I'm battling to memorize my textbook, and this young girl carries in her bosom.

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So you look at her envious of the honor that Allah has given her. And that is something that Allah recognizes. We don't look at the glamour and the glitter of this world. But Allah endorses when we envied people whom Allah is less law has at the end of the day, the messenger somebody who says Allah doesn't recognize that you stretch and envy assigned to anyone but to be well aligned spine that you envy them or TO LOVE

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IT person who gives on

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to the Casio or my dress go in

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those who've been blessed with sigma and one quotation in pathetic if I recall,

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on paper or on the one who's been blessed with sigma meaning for our or the one who has been blessed with knowledge coupled with action. So the action company ments the theory, the sciences,

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exhibit and manifests in this flame, the one who was blessed with that the message has a lot in essence that you can envy such a person. And the second person is whom Allah has given well, but just not well, you envy the one who's well

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Allah has accepted for the deal.

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And even in this world of decline, where people have by and large lost values and morals, and hoarding has become the order of the day, trust me, they are people who have very generous ends. And you've seen them I have met them, I have seen people spending May Allah bless them and accept and May Allah give us the ability to envy them. And if this can happen, my sister by my coming down in this program and martial law, the upper upper Amina that coordinated this year and the entire thing that was put together. So by, by by by hosting this thing, yeah, if this match can happen, that we've changed the focus of glorifying and low gearing people. So till today, it was a celebrity. It

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was a particular you know, what the designer It was a particular fashion artist, it was a woman with this skill or this ability, whatever it is, from today onwards, my envy has changed. Now my envy has changed. My envy is to see a person with character my envy is to see a person with four arms. And trust me, this is a step in the right direction. This is then how our assembly deal is accomplished.

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So Mr. Mallya love and harmony, would love for the pleasure of a load of baloney love and despises, for a lot, I don't despise any other thing. I don't despise someone because of color. I don't despise someone because of creed. I don't despise someone because of religion. Let's have things in principle. Islam tells us to despise this belief, not the disbeliever.

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Islam tells us to despise to have resentment in our hearts, to disbelief as an owl, not the individual, not the individual. The teachings of the message of some of the alarming passers by and people are rebuking and copying a person and he asked them what's this all about? And they said he's committed a crime and gossip, but that's not the way you deal. He said, But do you realize what he has done? He said, we need to despise the crime and not the individual we need to separate the two and I'm reminded of an audio and this is the beauty of the Quran and in my time allows you to do some verses of the Quran our Deen is also we need to study our Deen to appreciate often in my

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travels, I meet with fellow Rambo seals. And every time I meet a fellow non Muslim who reverted to Islam, new Muslims, I asked them, can you tell me what motivated you to Islam? And the only reason why I asked them is that so it makes me appreciate when an outsider can see which I have taken for granted.

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People are coming into the fold value in the discipline of Islam and I will resist it the very discipline I do, there's too much restrictions and you have somebody else on the outside says it's so nice and discipline, this parameters this boundaries, this this board is you know how to behave yourself. So, the verse of the Quran, Allah subhanaw taala speaks in the 19 Jews into the protocol that the pious are those or

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the layout shown our Ll only home now, the pious are those who walk on this earth with humility. That's the first thing. My ancestor the thing that's gonna make you different when you graduate, you pursue your degree, your academic, your Islamic, you are modest. I just got back from Toronto two weeks ago. And at the airport at the Pearson there was a brother who had these four daughters and he said, Jeff, would you have a word with my daughters and just give them some encouragement before I leave I said that's fine. And so he can love you know, we have checked into about to leave and this brothers is uneven scholar growth, his four daughters and elderly. And I was so humbled each one of

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them veils and screen covered modestly. Two out of them are medical doctors and they are qualified animals.

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The other two young girls have completed their A Levels according to the academic levels they in Toronto, North America. And in addition to that, they have committed the crime to memory and they have also completed into Arkansas, Iowa.

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And then these girls, essentially, we attended your two scores yesterday and give us some advice and advice. I'm learning from you more than I can convey to you. I'm just gonna take what you told me what you've done. I'm so humbled by your accolades and your achievements. And I said, That's the beauty and said we practice in our practice with our models. And we divide our day so morning, it's the surgery itself, you know, medically dentists, attending to my patients, etc. and then doing my domestic chores, being an active mom at home multitasking, and then obviously doing

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My teaching and my well as well. So we had an interfaith dialogue at this particular convention. And then I had to amongst other scholars address that from the male side. And some of these sisters had addressed that from the female side, one on one, you know what grew up there having the best of both accommodating the academic side flavored, he was Islamic values. And that's the Quran when Koran was boasting with his, with his mind and his wealth and his muscles. his nation said to him for things in my other Quran, it's mentioned that the Quran codes this as the advance of the nation but in reality this was an advisor to Saudi salatu salam, and then the nation basically just, you know,

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echoed the sentiments of Sally's Salaam in oil Allah Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.

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In Allah, Allah you go refer me Listen, you have seen just don't be proud. Don't be arrogant. My young girl. Don't be arrogant. Allah doesn't love arrogance. Be humble, be respectful, be obliging, be courteous. respect those above you respect your mom, respect your seniors, respect your teachers. Respect. That's key. that's essential. That's Phil Mitchell and integral. Lots of riding along the line.

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Wa Rahmatullahi, WA, salaam dar salam, and by virtue of your honesty, your status, your recognition, secure and abode in alcohol, you've got muscle, you've got cloud, you've got so much. You can bring happiness, a man in a business man in a business that look at the opportunities of Islam, and that's the beauty. You don't have to earn paradise in your house. You don't have to earn paradise in a seminary. You don't have to earn paradise exclusively or it's not reserved to any placid land. You can earn paradise anywhere. Whenever you serve the deen of Allah whatever you do good for you is the reward. So the Quran says our man can maintain

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emcpe fitness, karma method Louisville Paloma the laser behind eg minha the eighth juice the third page ranked on the top. Allah subhanho wa Taala speaks about a person embassador bead who carries the radiance and the importance of deed, he or she walks with deadlines under this condition piece of writing Quran that Islam is a glow and it's a light wherever you walk, you take that life with you, you spread that message. It's contagious by its character, you pass it on to others and they will appreciate the beauty.

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When you look for Allah, Allah you despise for a lower quality law you give for a law woman or any law you will hold a law properly sentimental demand, that's the perfection of a man. So the idea that I was saying that Islam teaches us we despise the crime and the offense and we do not despise or have resentment for the individual, the nation of

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our own self to our own, that by virtue of your well secured abode in the

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dunya and Islamism St. Shannon, this will ignore this word, because if I ignore your mind, who can be the secret of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam? He said

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he will have he he is not from the best amongst you, who forsakes the year after to secure this world. nor is he the best among you who neglects this word in its entirety to secure the heart. But the best among you is He who can strike the mind balance who can sign the fine balance and that's the beauty of the Sahaba came and said

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the wealthy amongst us are gone out would they would they well you Sedona commando suddenly. Commander somewhere

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they observe fast like we observe they perform play like a we perform at a utility we don't have charity. So the proper person to the fullest our salary need to handle it three times a day every prayer. So they started reading the wealthy observe this practice and rituals, they went to the prophets Allah. Allah our brothers are needing something post their salaries in provinces Some said they came to me and they said they don't have well so what can I give them so I gave them a time they needed it. So the wealth is

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given to us also traditional Australian also. So the West the Sahaba Southern leaning, so before Sahaba came back to

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get their mind. You know, I was like you gave him 10 grand and you gave him 20 and then when they meet after September is around example corner those days. Gone are those days now is you know you're talking to your friends.

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And much more and it's a world of wealth and affluence. That's why I often quote that same. He's a wealthy man whose children run in his arms even when his hands on him

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is a wealthy man whose children run his arms that I love you, because you are my father. How about this? My daughter, I was giving a talk to some young kids in Australia in Queensland. So I don't engage them. I quiz them. I said, How many of us kiss your mom today? No.

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Don't do that. Don't kiss.

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Yeah. Okay, that's fine. When I engaged a little further, and I said, How many of us unfortunately, have crossed the gender line and probably kissed across the line? And our smirks and blushes and Yami sorry, yes, of course. Why not?

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And I said, Do you know the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam whenever Fatima the man again, he stood up.

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And he gives how many of us kiss our parents. We've been taught as Muslims to kiss the Lebanon, the disease is so long. It's so loving. Go back and kiss your parents. In fact, I say this in gratitude to a lot. I kiss my parents daily. I kiss my mom's feet daily to the best of my ability. Someone asked Luqman Hakim, people rave about your wisdom. Let me challenge you in gazoo produce for me something heavenly on this earth. Give me something from paradise on earth. Is that up to you right now to enter his mountain raise his mouse foot 2% beneath her foot and project. And he said if there's anything that can be called divine or heavenly one, this is the same we need your mouse.

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What

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is that I salute your vision. I concur with your wisdom, absolute nail on the head.

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When setting, the alarm came, and the messengers alive, someone passed away. And he was going to awali which is the lower end of Medina and I went there and his other spouse was living there. Because the Prophet of Allah indicated some signs of recovery. And I'm saying to you, my young sister while I'm talking for Allah sake, become those who can read. Today we have minimum zero knowledge Indeed, I often say to my audiences, I would have loved I would have loved when I speak on the seal of the Prophet sallahu wa sallam that myself and my audience was on a common page, and I could make an anecdotal reference. And each person could tap into his or her archives, and open up

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that page of history and relate with it. And I make a reference and we move on. But lo and behold, unfortunately, by and large, our knowledge is very limited and shallow. When it comes to the paragon of Allah creation leave alone, the noble companions they have gathered around him.

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When he comes from Hawaii, he walks in the vestiges also discovered, he takes the courage musters the courage to move the clock, you cannot imagine your brain freezes how challenging that moment was a long time ago, but the strength, the composure, he comes close, he moves it. He's seen the pain the most, but he continues themselves the most that the burden that's on his shoulders, Allah has given him that strength. While mahila does elevate away my low visibility burden was the law. I deal with us on a daily basis. If there's something that I will use known as expressions, externals, just give it time give it space, just end on it will come no instant instant it has to happen now, can

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you probably begin to imagine the mental capacity of a loved one. That is why our mother is a tribute to a worker. And she said well, Lani la casa de la Vega be melona salability Bella was here in a Haha, such a colossal and mammoth responsibility fell on the shoulders of my father and the demise of the beast a lot. He was alone, that if that had to come on to the mountains of the world, even the mountains would have gave them and then he comes forward. It moves the clock, and then he gives us the resources on the forelock. Our team teaches us to kiss the disease. Babu does really solid is in the hand of a pious person. It's not so common amongst us today. Unfortunately, like I

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said, we know all the French kiss and we know the Haram kiss and we know the hill lesson case. But when it comes to kissing the pious and our parents and the reward associated, it is unknown to us. And then a homeless girl says, Hi young woman, Lola. Now there are some people that are handsome when they're young. Some are handsome in the jeans. Others are beautiful when they mature. But the best you can say about someone is that he's handsome while he's loving you the only one who's handsome when you ally with equally healthy you

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in Morocco, Ghana, Mali, Sofia will be a lot of the heart of Muhammad sallahu wa sallam said, Oh my God, we all are ready to give our lives and claim our soul so that the life of Muhammad serves and can be extended. But then destiny doesn't allow that faith doesn't allow that. He doesn't allow that. When your time has left it has left. The Quran says, The Lord Asara, whether you stop the moon.

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So to mention that is what I was saying. And that's the beauty of the salon we need to appreciate the hosts of nature that Allah has given us, our Deen is complete, our thing is wholesome. We need to we need to value it we need to embrace it. And we need to say this with conviction, Allah, Allah not with any form of hesitation or reservation or happening henschen so Allah speaks of the bias. And from there I digress, but I'm sure all these points of relevance to myself and to my younger girls and to the staff compliment and to the brothers seated as well.

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Somebody came to him and he asked him for advice. And as incentive puts them in

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the fire brother if you're a person who needs advice, and eloquent has been conveyed to you, and if you're a person who don't need advice the microsite empty my entire cover, and release arrow upon error when uploaded intelligence

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is you know, giving more advice and now we monitor the system Is this okay? Another

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another one of us. You want me to empty my entire bow and arrow, but I'm not hitting target. And if you the person who leaves an adequate has been said in his essay, the graveyard is a silent place with a loud message.

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is a silent place you don't need to be nobody needs to speak to you if it is there. The grave talking to you that disease or talking to you. One of my scholars used to say probably you need to put a board at the entrance of each graveyard comm

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how many orchards they left behind many documents of the cemetery. How many orchards farms, buildings, rivers, palaces, palatial homes that are behind the references to the people of Pharaoh. But extemporary implications it applies to every person is applies with a person can

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have life that's the better no life will all run

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out sorry. Somebody else comes in heavens and he takes on and then there's no trace couldn't lose. In parlance Solomon Tula Yeomans Rico has

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every home every about every palace every location, regardless of how long it's been, its happiness, its joy, its excitement, ease, you know this, this was the main office, this is where the Spence setting the morning, this is where you would dispatch This is where the fleet would come. And now you go there is

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a soul alarm says you

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mean

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all the smart cars are gone wiped out nothing to remain everything less beginning more and more costly machine that says phrase of the blonde who wells in which 1000s would converge to the late neglected personal machine financial services. Nobody wants to enter a ledger pseudohyphal boom, probably an animal would get in or out would put foot occupied, it would be haunted and deserted. So every home regardless of how prolonged its prosperity is one day sadness will inevitably go.

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We need to ask ourselves so much happening around us. What is our concentration of attention deficit disorder, and it's all terminologies. How long is our spiritual span? Ask yourself that is the concentration span and everything. How long can we sustain spirituality. Within the funeral, it gives us a wake up call. One of my scholars used to mention, he said our analogy is like in the time of marine, so you go and you grab a particular ship and now you're taking it to slaughter and you're going to drop it down in here again the teachings of his saarbrucken the beauty, you know, if we exhibit the teachings of Islam, nobody could ever lay a finger at us.

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my toe My time is over.

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This time relax.

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The teachings of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam was the teachings when we slaughter an animal in the law of character when some other cliche, Allah is for the gentleness, kindness, softness to everything to the extent even if the nature of your engagement is crude by definition, even then has to be governed by gentleness. So what are we talking? The promises is that even if you're in battle and you find him by the battle by himself, he screwed. You slaughter him. It's an act of slitting the throat of an animal. Even they have to be regulated, governed and monitored by softness and gentleness, for either the bathroom for accidental slaughter Be gentle, sharpen the knife, relax,

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the animal be swept in it is seen as a hobby, and he was sharpening the knife. And he said to me,

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how many times do you want to kill this animal? How many times do you want to kill this animal? I often say where's the Prophet sallallahu wasallam says honey, he mentions psychology and leads where the Prophet sallallahu Sallam elementary advisors are what the promises and gave us in the beginning psychologies greatest point, its end results cannot match the beginning serves as the initial and the elementary advisors of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. In the time of Sahaba. They practice psychology, they practice therapy, they practice everything, it was just that it was not captured as an art. It wasn't captured as a skill. It wasn't a dedicated person to do. The messenger sallallahu

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wasallam said when you visit a sick person, the duration of the meeting, but as the sooner the better the need for him to say no so then boost his morale, motivate his spirit. Comfort ease Spain. Why? Your nephew Sula movie, actually he loves the probation translation give him a hope in life, for barely your words of encouragement will not prolong his life. But we'll leave him and enjoy his motivations

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to get the richness of the detail the mindset of love for two days or three days, but you added flavor to the last 48 hours. So it's okay. We said I'm looking good. He said I'm looking spirited. He said I'm looking in in good. He said we're going to play again. Oh, he left me good. Let's see if something left. So so you added value. Now look at the psychology. The professor said at the same time you just have to change your destiny because what Allah has decreed he will die at the same time. But you have boosting the morale of the person. And we can we can speak on so many other elements in the life of the messages. A lot of them I think I was thinking about this year and is

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one two other points that we want to tie up on as well.

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And then these so this analogy you grab the animal and then you bring it and you're about to slaughter it. And when you take the one animal out and then the other sheep in the flock they get a decimal and complex and uneasy and they get stressed that what's happening one out here momentarily, they stop grazing. They just look isolates. What's happening. The sheep goes to close the door. Little time passes, they realize is no inside we say they start grazing 15 minutes past, somebody comes in again. Again, they're going to panic mode, they withdraw, they become anxious they become uneasy whose number is in each one ducks for cover. You grab one, the same proceedings repeated. But

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you know and I know and we all know that before last summer we need to empty them all out. And it's going to be in the butchery because Lance is going to be served up dissolve. It's just a matter of time. My brother that's mine condition and that's your condition my sister so recently in our own soft bamboo cushion and an angel of death interrupts and he just snatches someone that's what the Arabic word said in Habiba Vila laughter we bought a zoo lamb now what about the

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zoo? Forget josina de Hama your uncle really loves Zoo another Zoo that can have a circular shopping

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journey to Daya grupo

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the engine of death comes barging one Nazir and his love of Paul when she bought dinner spa. Allah uses two different phrases in releasing the soul. One is of interest believe and one is of a pious person. One is Allah says he gets deep into him when NASA has a lot of power, and then removes the solar forcefully. Radio and fullcycle actually do and push back on a young man to dishonor as well. Moon while the pious Allah says their soul how it's removed is just like,

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unleashing and tying a knot. You just open the cage.

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You don't have to take the burnout. The world knows what it needs to do. That's how the soul of the pie is open up. You just untied and soul just flies out. The soul just flies off. So that's our condition, the Angel of Death comes, picks up one and he goes for a little while at age 71. Coming movies. Why no funerals in the family? You know what? I'm not coming? I'm not gonna be watching the match. I'm not coming for the comedy show or not going to the carnival. I'm understanding the summer. No, no, no, you know what this period of time is morning and says we need to supersize. So what happened someone was pulled out of the crowd. And the same my analogy and football man Jesus

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also thinks and I'm also you know what, watching over my shoulder and disciplining myself and getting my act together. But then after that, where I said, Now it's time to start grazing, no sign to graze again. sectoring down, relax, you can be so dry, that needs to be able to venture in Yuma it needs to be exciting. So I have my time is running out and I'm flooded with force. But I hope that we are, you know, learn English lessons from the Quran and Sunnah. Our lien is beautiful. That is

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to say, and I, I don't have an iota, or a fraction of an iota of the knowledge of the left now versus the alarm. And I can identify with these sentiments. Can you imagine when he said how profound he was? He said, he Neela

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messaged me on our honeymoon, Mr. Leon, I will sell you a verse of the Quran. And I will be engrossed in the commentary of that verse. And I will be consumed by this verse. And then I'll just switch off I wish the whole world can leave what they have and come and join me and understand the brand. I go into settings.

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Immigration myself, certainly within the room, he has to leave in verse Leilani, will leave every now be. This was not an exaggeration. He says for me to stay awake at night and study around and understand it. It gives me a greater flow of time to see and accomplishment of feeling than to embrace a most beautiful woman as the most exotic location.

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Can you imagine that? As a young man, he's still chatting, social media is just in chatting with girls. And it's all hidden under a pre tax of the most handsome boy, the most handsome girl and ours can run by and you have no clue and time is short. And you're getting to know one another. You feel excited about it. There was a youngster who had come to me and I say this to my sisters because the social media has paralyzed the world. You know, the devil just wants us to do the opposite.

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It's just you, you have this crave and this itch and this passion and it's not I need this, I need that. In essence I need to disobey Allah. That says it. That's it son is just look at the pattern. So the message is a logical signal to the male masculine, venal cabanes Okay, now, the trouser or the garment from the top that dangles below your angle is in hell. That's 100 of the messages somebody was alone. That's what he said to the main. Now what the main is so that if you raise your trouser above your ankle, it's not cool. It's not keeping well. There was one scholar he passed away May Allah preserve him and grant him a lot of boredom. He said one day I was walking and my cause

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was meltdown, meltdown. And that's, you know, ideal. The Prophet sallallahu wasallam paid tribute to rain sad. Lola to Germany he is a he is a sad he's so amazing. Just two issues about him that he is too long and the throat is too low.

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Understand this yet understand this carefully. What did you say is so amazing. There's two things. If I look in my life, probably two things would be rice.

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I was just reading now we are crazy. He was a great scholar. He was to say though the age. He says Colonel de nieve whom

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I studied my life and I looked at myself and I realized I had about 40 odd sons in my life.

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What causes them to lonely legalism being me

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and accompany love it I have asked allow forgiveness for every sin of the spotty 100,000 times.

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Now, personally, when I was reading, this was what appeared to my mind if I were in my life, safely, I can tell you I have 100,000 students and I haven't asked forgiveness for the dental.

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I don't want to speak on your behalf. I'm speaking on my own behalf.

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He said I have 40 odd sons. And I've asked Allah forgiveness 100,000 times. The Hadees Federation is the highest bar in Babylon.

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where a man said the time is going to be so bleak, so challenging, the trials are going to be so much

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lower. Don't do

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In the use of brokers for it, Larry, none will be rescued from the trials of this period like the one who bends Allah like are wrong in person banks.

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Allah says My son is going on a Saturday night gala saved my daughter. She's saying she's going with a friend's. And I speak with a cap of being the father of four adolescent kids. So I'm not I'm not speaking in any capacity where I'm oblivious or I'm not cognizant of what's happening. The other day I gave a talk and I came out and I said, You know, I speak with a cap of the father of three teenagers. So brother came to visit notion you don't qualify to be the father of three teenagers. What do you mean I don't qualify for three kids? Is it your wife?

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As a maybe their mother gave you that? Why they I don't know. You can decide for yourself.

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What are we saying? Carla meaningful? What are Barun I had 40 odd sins and how much I repented. So today on social media, we can so consumed and we get so taken aback by this year, we use the focus, we lose the essence, what what, what am I doing what what has happened to my time?

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so to speak about that ayah and then to just try and bring it to a culmination, Allah subhanho wa Taala says about the bias, and that was someone who suffered you have the homeowner that those who carry the message of the they have handled in the war for a long

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time, Ilona

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the mayor.

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Nevada, in Nevada, Masako Padma in that Allah subhanho wa Taala mentions that the pious along those lines, do not assume there are two commentaries to desire. I'm just going to speak on one they don't attend evil gatherings a believer, he doesn't attend any evil gatherings. When it whenever I send when you send momentarily, we become oblivious of them.

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Otherwise, as believers, you know, consciously enter a casino and cloud a bow in doubt in fornication and around knowing very well that allies watching me and I'm going to die is for the moment the person is indulging. He said but you you type and be diabetic. He said, you know, someone said, I follow the Muslim diet. He said What did you eat everything and ask Allah to make you lose weight. I follow the Muslim diet.

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So a person who's got diabetes he forgot about his diabetic state is a good friend of mine. He said I don't understand people I say what do you mean is I offered him chocolates I say I'm selling chocolates, you know, this nice exclusive blend forever Oh, applause to support the human

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condition. So identical problem is on the house

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is on the house. Is it the main home See?

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Now like whenever we do diabetes,

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then I realize is focused on diabetes more than his body.

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Like brother, I would have supported you would you know my medical condition? Relax, you don't have to break you don't have to pay

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my elevators among those who can spend, spend, spend, don't be those who hold your own ideal home has the attribute of a monopoly key hose. If there's one good idea better brother in Toronto now, elderly Old Age Friendly man, Mashallah well retired. He said, My life was a life of sudden vice translation. I don't even meet you're getting to sell me something I can do quickly that can expedite my growth. That can give me a good advancement. I only had 30 seconds I have my host behind me and other people around me. So I have to say something and I was ushered out. And a lot of this thought in my mind, and I can say this safely from the text of Ron. And so now, I said if there's

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one thing that can turn you quick forgiveness is generosity.

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If there's one thing, in fact, the undulation that suggests that it is believed that an infidel in hell will be subjected to eternity due to disbelief, but his generosity will bring marginal reduction to installments.

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His generosity in the world because of what he was generous, it will bring a Trump downstream in his punishment or in calculus, who will buy or sell a Gunilla Zippo town this person is somehow for good news on the D

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wave

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if you have too much wrong and falls and mistakes and you really want a lot to consider in this world

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And in alcohol, Mohammed, we need research and we said make your hand generous. Make your hand loose and spend, just spend and contribute whatever light has given you spend and spend. And the rewards of that are multipoles. May Allah make us among those people that our hands are open and generous, we can spend. Abu Zaid said that I was making the law. And then a youngster nudged me. And he said, uncle, can I lose you? And I said, Wait, man, that was done. So illegal. How do you define piety, abstinence? You know, I say this. When we look at the lives of the buyers, what consumed in the queue, what consumed their thinking, what goes through my mind, I'm sitting here My mind is running.

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I travel often I'm sitting in the first lounge lounge in Dubai. And I see this Arab family walking in husband and wife, two kids with two nannies My mom used to be Messier now. For first class tickets flying you know me 1000s of dollars you do it that's on my mind glance. When I see people you look at this phone, you look at his scarf, or his slender leather in

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our mind runs on a different level of

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management. The analysis I was,

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I was sitting in our

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millions of birds, I rotated my gaze and looking at them, we would sit and think if so many people imagined what each one may imagine what the ticket purchase must be. Imagine what the airlines may imagine what the agents may imagine how much food they consumed during these are all my exams, and management,

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beautiful site

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and minimum salary.

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For a CD, I just wonder from these millions, how many of them are walking around except the house and

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their mind

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to get their mind where my mind mind says Mad Money minds is running at a different level.

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So I went to sleep.

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In the dream our sole employee, everybody's head is accepting of one person.

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So I was happy to know that Marcela, double kawakita were accepted, but one is rejected. And obviously, I have to tell I will be the exception.

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So I went into greater panic. I was uneasy, I was anxious.

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Why? That night, I said, I was totally in the dream, that the exception is not you. But it is a person from the side of this identity in this location. So I was relieved that I was not denied one. But at the same time I was concerned for the individual implied in my vision and dream

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pages it may have gone up in the morning, I started making my way. And finally I came to a tribe in the scamp in this place. I said is

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this person by the name of our absolutely easier precisely? Can you just pay me by all means? They walked me through and I find the man they perform in prayer. I come up close to him. I said, Can I have some time? off? COVID

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says Well, I don't have good news. To break this news to you and says no money and W pious man and double. What you need to tell me is that the

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person has two great views of cancer you have two different views of threatening views of death. It's not an easy thing. It's not an easy thing it can be according to be to be respectful to be euphemistic to use the right phrase, there must be euphemism in the manner in which you communicate. Drop it down. You've got to be gentle. Sometimes we apply euphemism in the wrong place. I was in London, and then I picked up the paper it was at my hotel room. So they said that now you know what obesity is killing the world. And one of the reasons why obesity is killing the world is because we highly behind euphemistic terminologies we need to start telling people You bet. I'm not saying I'm

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quoting the article, or paraphrasing it playing semantics playing with words one minute, one minute instead. So they said that obesity is a threat to the world and is killing the world is causing chaos in the world. I just mentioned last week and the dog I landed and I'm sitting and I'm quite exhausted and your man is walking is really big and round. And he has this T shirt and one that boldly prints that I'm not fair I'll just puffy

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fluffy salami. Good luck, my brother. And then another gentleman passes by and he's like, Don't disturb me. I'm married sufficiently to serve.

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You know the Prophet sallallahu wasallam said my sister when a woman annoys her husband then he's damsel in paradise says don't alert him because soon he'll be really come to us. I can get a lot from the male side.

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Now, but obviously he needs to look up to you as well.

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My sister, and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said the best among you what is the benchmark to excellent z? What is the yardstick to excellent z, he displayed excellence in all spheres of life. But he says the yardstick is if your wife considers you to be good that you're a good man.

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hydrocodone, hydrocodone, the elderly, and I will make a claim only at the level of display. I'm the best for my wife. I am the best The only human in the annals of history that you can pick up his cyber for public life, and you can go home and was he designed to hide?

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As my wife says, you know, if I tell people about you, and I say yeah, I also know of you. So you scratch my back, I scratch your back.

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you scratch my back, I scratch your back. Yeah, if you want to if you want to throw out dirty linen,

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linen, so just so so. So that's how we both are holding but we know the skeletons. We know the skeletons. But Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam are my words, there's nothing you can get him of God. Everything of us is shining in spirit and proceed is also how he dealt when he was intimate with your spouse or your child or your loved one. Or any other spouse. The Prophet sallallahu Sallam life was amazing. And it was awesome. Anyway to mention this and laptop.

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So management says I said Listen, I haven't got good news. My brother is in 3d, many that are sold everybody's house one person. And then I thought probably it was me. And subsequently, I was told that I'm not the one. But apparently it was a person with this identity. And I have been referred to so many gentle, euphemistic, polite and sensitive and we need to learn to communicate things in a in a sensitive way. sensitivity is important. I had two sisters that came home. And she said, I have a request to you communicate to the buyer, my wife and I said that's fine. And in my talks, I give it all the time. And we may have another thought, I'm going to say this as well. Because often I get

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feedback and the talk that I gave in one place, and the recording travels elsewhere. So it's all in the hands of the law. So when she says that we are married for a long period of time and allow it we all have kids, and we've made peace with the degree of love, but society Is so insensitive to us. So we've actually had to form a club of childless couples. Because we are ostracized we marginalize people make comments or what's wrong, go to a doctor. Leave me to my private life. I know what I need to do. And I'm grappling and badly now crying my husband lives in the hands of a lot. And I've made peace with it when people are so insensitive. And we we've actually had to shy away from

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events. Now, can you imagine that some of the teachers are believer, a believer is never ever a believer and never ever uses these type of terminologies, asking why was the person who made the derogatory reference to the messenger sallallahu sallam, and he said, Oh, you don't have any male offspring. Your men have girls on a flat road boys to you. And it hurts the Prophet sallallahu wasallam and use the word arbiter, and the arbiter grammatically, linguistically, it means an animal the tail of which is seven. So an animal is the thing that you talk about. So the implications were like your progeny won't prosper your thing is top dog there's no male offspring present your name

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forward. And I was looking at guru giving you you know, General updates. Did you know Did you Did you know The most common name in the world mamas.

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What you told me and what do you have to agree with?

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General Information and back in the days I often say when we were kids and you open up a rapper or a chocolate you have some nice general information, and I subconsciously read it every time you're a munch on the ground, you open up and you use some nice facts, medical scientific knowledge. What about sports?

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So what about sports who won who lost at least his own in three mean?

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So Allah revealed the verse And Allah said in

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this obscene cultural history since opinions. That's what we've given you for suddenly not being performed by a one how to solder the animals in naturally, aka, the one who despises you. He's saying, we'll be chopped off. We need to be sensitive. My sister, there is a family that I know of a young girl who's who's who's, unfortunately being divorced. And, you know, she has a little child. And again, the stigma in society, the taboo in society, not to embrace someone was a child. I gave a talk in North America, it was a large audience of 25,000 people. And I spoke about the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu sindo, in which the messenger sallallahu Sallam said get married to a woman who

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was single and a sponsor and was not previously managed as a bit of a girl.

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And as I got off, and I realized the sensitivity of what I said, and this is the game for

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Engineers and well who hire? And she said, Surely the Prophet has said this, I believe, and I don't doubt the veracity of that statement, but I am divorce, did he not encourage the wedding of divorce girls? And instantly I told her, I said, sister, while that is the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. And he only managed one woman that was unmarried, everybody else that you met, he was previously married with children as well. And she said, just you've comforted my house and you've taken to tears of pain to the tears of joy. So these are, these are stigmas, we need to rise beyond that our Deen is so great. We need to be sensitive. How do we speak to people? Why don't we speak to

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people? We don't just ask things to people and hurt them in the laughter I will kill him and he will selectively sometimes you make a comment in a remark and you offend the person. And the message is Madison says you don't think much of it.

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As I just told him, somebody needs to tell you but you touch a sensitive nerve. You've offended him. He frankly is grappling with something Are you sensing? Oh, okay. So nothing no luck. So driving the same car. As

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he said, All we know is that when we go

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to golden Selinda, wherever Allah gives us an injunction Allah tells us how to achieve it. Do you believe fear Allah, Allah Hama, sepia? You

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have so

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many laws to prepare for tomorrow? Yeah, can you help me no harm. de la Are you believe you're

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either going to speak the kind word to say the correct word. on social media points I just mentioned this year. It's important in social media as well, when we speak. We've lost the eloquence of speech people look unclear, vague, ambiguous, abbreviation to clean

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you know is a thumbs up is a tongue sound is the same this way is how you call them with the proper sounds and was very explicit in speech was an implicit, somebody's not the door. And I said, Well, let me say who your neighbors have done

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the studies over to suddenly who so often, due to the intense use of social media, we've lost the grip of communication, table manners, communication matters is like out of the window is going out. So since our choice of words, our communication, our respect, our engagement, and elderly in middle class, a young child, a male or a female, all these lt consent govern our life, to conclude on this note, because my time has really no left and I've gone way over my time, and I appreciate your patience. And most of the girls are just so focused on you and insulting. So he addresses the basic with this person, and he says this, and I'm afraid that I will solely believe that your ideas are

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rejected. He said, It's not the first time I've been told this news to me probably news to you.

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The brutal truth, the harsh realities, this has been a vision that has been seen by a pious person year in and year out. And this dates back to my youth was a young boy. It was the last night of Siobhan. It was the night of Ramadan. And I came home and I was drunk. I was high. I had popped by boats, I had taken my alcohol and I was in my own world. And my mom said to me use different nurses Obama for to sudo su casa Khurana, Amanda set, even alarm lot of my son, people are changing their lives and closing that chapter. They embrace in Milan, the most simple of people are making Toba and on this night, look at your state. And I was so high and I didn't have my balance and my composure.

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And Allah forgive me raise my hand and I flogged my mom. I slept my mom, and my mom fell down and she passed out.

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And it's been that day and just say, Emily, I don't love your husband, not acceptance.

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But the truth is, I have no other place to go. I come back here begging alone with the hope that my mom's soul will forgive me my mom's soul will pardon me. And one day, Allah's mercy will get the better of me and there will be some hope and rescue and amnesty for me. So the point that I was saying is look at the pious where their minds evolved, where their minds are and what a big lesson for us what a big lesson. My honorable mom always says this. She says if you speak of parenting, you exclude some people from your audience is not married, or it doesn't have kids. But when you speak of obligation to parents, nobody's excluded because everybody was on the earth as far as whether

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alive or dead.

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If I speak on parenting, and like nowadays in the demographics, I don't read an article. They say if you want to do

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a workshop on parenting it might be in your interest to call grandparents more than parents. Because they have become the caregivers, they become the caregivers. That's the world, you know, manage rates of one slide. So they move on to the old folks, that's my blood, that's my value are all on a claim on my flesh, my blood, my value system, etc. So, if you speak on parenting, and it's a topic of its own, and we grappling and we learn, and we try, we seek and we encourage our youth, you exclude some you include some, but when it comes to kindness to parents and duty to parents, nobody's excluded because our duty continues. We ask Allah Subhana, Allah to bless this institution,

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we ask Allah subhanaw taala to reward the well wishes in the donors and all those that are connected to this event. And I believe that our young girls will be completed the plan and then we will conclude on behalf I'm grateful to the opportunity. And I would like to thank the staff, the management, and those are coordinated my quick, short, three messages today. And I hope and I pray and I wish and I'm optimistic from my Creator, that these words would not go and alerts and they would not go without impacting on my life and your life. Because that's the reason why we've come in it's not my words, Colombia, Morocco, Morocco column that's an Arabic proverb. The speech of the

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king is the king, no speeches,

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the seats of the king, and that's the speech of Allah.

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The founder who opposes the question, if my words can penetrate your heart, and those words are going to penetrate your ability, it's not like it's not meant to you My brother was in London attending the program. Again, I shared his experiences to motivate people, for nothing else. Surprise my dog and elderly man 60 odd recites.

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So I'm intrigued by the old age men, but I don't ask too much. So let's say I have another program in London. And the So generally, it's a young boy from the reuse class or someone who graduated is called on and the younger eight 910. And he leaves the plant and we've seen young young kids, we've seen young young kids, you know, cleverly memorizing the Quran, and five, six. I've seen in North America, myself, a six year old child brought to you and memorize our six year old child, as a parent, what's the formula, they said, when my wife conceived, we decided to take in the devil box out of the house, and we took the bold step, and the environment was clean and pure, and our child

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memorized the Quran.

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So the next day I go to the program again, and here this man comes in, he recites the plan again. So I asked the whole site, explain this whole, you know, what's this all about? He says, This man of Pakistani, decent British National, at the age of 16, decided to come in sales.

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And with the grace of Allah is memorized the use of the Quran.

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Then two, three years later, I go back, it's in the back of my mind, I will meet no man. I said, Where's this man? Can I meet up with him? You said yes. So we meet up with him until he says 27.

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There we go have another.

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Our Time goes in all other things here, our brand and really many, many, many couples, many professionals have asked me as to conduct and discourse, you know, the young academics. So no, I want to study Dean, I'm 35 or 30 seats by staff. Now, when will I end? I said, That's the problem. We're not selling to him.

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We want a diploma. We don't want the master's degree. We don't want the BA we don't want anything. We want to be engaged in learning the way the lender is pleased with us. Or not out for a position or a podium on a platform or an accolade or an achievement or a graduation, I am engaged in the mentor will know.

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revealing a song he who dies or she who dies while engaged in the acquisition of the sciences of the World Bank One below the profits in the day of the

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