Waleed Basyouni – Those Who Loved For Him and Those Who Left Forbidden Love For Him

Waleed Basyouni
AI: Summary © The speakers discuss the seven categories of philosophy that will be in the shade of Islam, including the Hadith, which is the most authentic hadith about the topic. They also talk about the history of Islam, including the use of animals as bait during war and elections, and the importance of fair treatment for animals and people. The segment also touches on the misconceptions about youth and the importance of learning the Quran and setting boundaries in society. The speakers emphasize the need for individuals to have clear understanding of their roles and respect their children. The course will be discussed in a series of segments, but details of the course are not provided.
AI: Transcript ©
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hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen hamdulillah heptyl movie in Morocco Hamza shaqiri was Niala who

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died I Allah subhanahu wa tada no couldn't mean avanti mean, old praise do to align His praise and blessings and peace be upon our Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he was sending him

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and his family, his companions and his followers until the day of judgment.

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Today inshallah we'll continue talking about that

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second category of the seven categories that we're going to be in the shade of philosophy cannatonic. And yesterday we start talking about an enter for this hadith had eaten Nabi sallallahu Sallam seven people will be in the shade of Allah in the Day of Judgment. And we talked about seven because there's seven categories. And we should also there are seven categories mentioned in this Hadith, which is the most authentic hadith about this topic. But there is other people also will be in the shade of Allah Subhana Allah in the Day of Judgment, and we mentioned that the members to hire him Allah, he said, that is 92 different categories will be in the shade of Allah Subhana Allah

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in the Day of Judgment. And we also explained yesterday, that the shade of Allah Subhana Allah means the shade of his throne, as had been narrated in authentic narration, we shouldn't say that minimal sort of a kind of

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man in the shade of Allah Subhana Allah has thrown in the shade of Allah subhanaw taala has thrown and the first category was just ruler. And we mentioned that justice, it means to put things where it belongs, to put things where it belongs. And also, we said part of being just ruler, to remember that this hadith is not only talking about the governors and the leaders and the Prince and the kings and prime ministers, those are definitely among the first to be held accountable in front of Allah subhanaw taala for being just unfair with their people with their those who they are in charge of they are in charge of as Romero de la Anwar. He used to be so terrified from the responsibility

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that he carried when he said that even if there is a mule in Iraq, a mule in Iraq, will trip because the road was not fixed for the mule properly. I'm afraid that I will be hold accountable in front of a lot of data, I will be responsible for that. And Allah will ask me in the Day of Judgment, why you have not made the road and pave the road in a way of making in a way that it is safe for these animals to walk. That's what he's worried about. Romero, the Allah Allah said, If I die if I die, I make a promise. And Neela ruku Nisa Allah, Allah, wa, salam, ala Daddy, I made a promise that when I die, there is no one knows no woman will be left in Iraq and Iran need any help from anyone else?

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Any anymore. She will not need any help for anyone anymore. Can anybody think why he said the woman of Iraq?

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Why he said that, why he said that if I live in Charlotte, before I die, I'll make sure not a single woman, a single mom, a single woman in Iraq needs help, ever again, I will make sure that they would be rich, they will be sufficient. They'll have enough income that they will not need to ask for money anymore. Why did he said specifically about Iraq. He ruled in Iraq, he ruled Syria he ruled Egypt. Why specifically, anybody knows

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the mother era Iraq.

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A lot of men died in Iraq more than any other region, somehow like their most of the soldiers, and the fight took time that took place. And during that time, was during a time happened in the area of Iraq with the Persian Empire. With the Persian Empire. There are so many deaths, so much death that took place so many people died and left widows behind that. That's why he said no weather will be left in Iraq needs any help from anyone in Charlotte. So what I'm trying to say here, Rahim Allah was looking after every single member of his community and society, even even he looked after the animals. And let's remind you of another model. Omar Abdel Aziz Rahim, Allah who Tana, that he cared

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for his people, to be fair and just with them, to the extent that he regulated he regulated how

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Much the camel can carry and how much the mule can carry a day. He regulated that how many pounds that you should load over the camel and he said if anyone will be caught in the market, overloading the camel overloading the horse or the mule, he will be

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done as a penalty and he will be punished for that locker. And you see I'm not even talking about the the people he cared even for the rights of the animal who lived in His Kingdom. And he cared also for the rights of the people for the rights of everyone. And Omar Abdulaziz Rahim Allah to era and any revival that just what started even getting hotter brother Allah and lava, that in the beginning of a slump, the non Muslim used to pay gcos kind of tax, a form of tax, okay for the protection for the service that they get. So when they grow up old, they don't make any money. So basically, there is no tax that they are supposed to be paying because they don't make any income.

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Which is sounds like fair, you don't have income. So there is no tax. But Mr. Rotella said wouldn't be fair, that we've been taxing them all take taxes from them all their life. And now when they grow up old and they don't make money anymore, he will be left like that. And one of the airlines said that's not fair. That's why a lot and a lot of that said that they will be getting money from bait till now they will be getting money to support them financially when they grow up old. He said we use them when they're young, and we cannot abandon them when they're old. So he cared for every single segment of the Society of the society and all the allow anumana him great examples in the

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early generation how fair and just but again, this fairness and justice has to appear in your work with your employees has to appear when you hire someone will you be basically in charge of a group of people with your family. If you run an organization if you run an event anyone work under you? You've been ordered to be fair and just and merciful with them Harlan w Salalah. I'd even send them along them and William and Emily Alma Tisha first sobre la him first Sally along them and William and Emily Laetitia for Shep galley and Aloma fish Gokhale. He said, Oh, law, anyone who's in charge of any group of any people, maybe whatever position that you haven't. And you make things just

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difficult for people just for the sake to make it difficult for them. He said, some of them all, I asked him to make it difficult for them.

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And anyone in charge of any group of people, and he will make things easy for them, your ally asked you to make his life, life ease, and things go smooth in his life. So you can receive the blessings and the drop of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, or the dirt out of the processor against you. It's up to you to choose, especially if you are handling a matter handling a matter.

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And people are tested. Colorado, can you rahimullah, the NASA meanness a shell county said, I have met people, when they were they always talk about ruler, they are not fair. They're not just the not this thing. They are corrupt, he shall Canada him Allah say. And he said and those people, those people, Allah Subhana, Allah tested them, and put them in a trial in a test, that they are in a position to control very few people. And to control a very small amount of properties, and the amount of injustice that they show beyond imagination. He said that hamdulillah and Omar was a bad one among the community that he said that hamdulillah that Allah did not give them a great kingdom

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like real kings and rulers, otherwise, their arrogance and their aggression, aggression will be well greater than what they are doing today. And sometimes you have a store or you have a family, you treat them very bad. Then you turn your back around and you start saying oh, this person is not fair to this person, not just I mean you own family, you're not fair and you're just you and your own store your own your own work place you are corrupt and you are not fair. And you still start pointing finger to others.

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Anyway then the next one is talking in before we go to the Shabbat in particular, I just want to mention something very important point for all of us to remember. One of Medallia shall be my definition Panasonic in one of the way the ship on the devil deceive righteous people like yourself, then they tell them Oh, this is responsibility. The chef said that

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you will no No, no, no, no, not at all.

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Because you will come into the Day of Judgment, your hand touch your neck, and if your fear and just with people that will set you free anyone charge of 10 people's will in the Day of Judgment, you no regret the position. You hear this a Hadith, then what happened? You say I don't want to take any responsibility of anyone. Yeah, maybe there is an event and help come and help this come take the other one. So became one of the shape arms tricks to block people from taking leadership and Allah Subhana we have to balance this. Allah Subhana Allah said in the Quran that that he taught us a duality lm una buena park with Jana little mattina Emma make us an Imam leaders for the Mata P. So

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being the leading other to good nurse or to take responsibility, that is something you should not be running away from it. If you can't, if you can handle it, if you can handle it and handle it, you take it but with a sense of humility, feeling the responsibility upon your shoulder.

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So you cannot take these hobbies reason or justification for yourself to not to come forward especially if there is a vacuum and there is no one to fill this spot for one, no one to fill that spot. The second one colonists are seldom are shabu Nasha Philippa Attila. The second category is a youth who grew up with the worship of Allah subhanho wa Taala.

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There is no doubt that youth is any Shabaab who was autodromo it is the most beautiful time of our life. Youth is the most valuable and the most important part of your life. It is the best part of your life. And panela Youth is a very special period of our life, a very special period of our life. And Allah subhanaw taala told the prophets of Salaam told us that we will be asked about our youth twice, calling the visa lottery, Julie Kadena afternoon, welcome to solid,

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you will be asked in the day of judgment about four things. Two of them are very unique and odd female,

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one shabby female blah, about your life in general. And it's specifically about your youth talent. When the Hadith said about your youth, this is cover the area from 15 years old, from 15 years old, to 40 years old. So some of you may be still feeling good about themselves. You still you you're okay. Still you so this is the period of time that you will be asked once about your whole life and that include this period. And again about it specifically. What's so special about this period of time? What's so special about you?

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What's so special about one it goes very fast.

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He will love yesterday, I remember Oh being 18 being 19 being 20 been 30 you know oh and of the thirds gone. One Stop. He will lie You will not believe it.

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Marcia back to Shabaab Abhishek. inla she can have you come yosakoi contrato La la la la la youth is like what in the old days due to explanation the old days they don't have pockets like us today when the when they were filled this stuff has no pockets w might say where do they put their stuff? Anybody knows where they put their stuff?

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Where the hanger? No, actually their sleeves is long. Okay, so they put things here

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they carry it like this. So for a glance why when you read in the history or the paragraph he said he carried like a bajada he carry his at his cat in the basically his sleeves he used to put it here and walk with it somebody has his must have kind of been hijacked by him a lot he characters must have in this asleep because they don't have pockets. That concept was not exist. So the moment Rahim Allah said, I can tell you I can describe you

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how fast it's gone with anything except something I was getting into my basically sleep. Okay. And it fall without even realizing. Can you imagine you carry a lot stuff? Very easy to lose it. That's right, because it's not very safe. So he said this like this, you carry something then you all of a sudden I don't know what is it? It's gone. That's what's you with it? Look back. How old are you? Whatever your age is. Do you remember 2015

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2013 just started now it's 2014 2012 God 2010 God, remember when you just came to Qatar?

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Now it's been how many years? Do you remember we just start studying, we just start working. When he just got married, I just got a baby. He's all gone. spousal abuse goes very fast. And shabam, especially that period of time, it takes a long time. You know, when we were kids, little kids, it takes forever to be, you know, it takes forever to graduate from elementary school. You know, the kids say, I can't wait to be in middle school, I can't wait to go to high school, I can't wait to go to college. When you go to college, it's just gone.

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You start a job, freshman and just gone quickly. Somehow, that's one thing about you, to you, during this period of time, your period during this period of time, take them and share what two quarters but it is the peak of your desires, desires of every area, it's the peak and your desires. Wait until we get to 30 and see how much you care about money. And you care about saving we care about you know, in 20s you care about you know it teenagers and 1819 your sexual last is if you think about marriage, think about house. This is basically the desires and the underarms about the thing that we like and desire we want. And the last as well, the so strong during this period of time

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period of time. Also during this period of time, there is this period of time, that is something else unique. What it is, I think it is one of the most busiest time in our life, I believe it's one of the most busiest time in our life. Why? Because there's so many things you are busy with, you want to study, you want to look for a career you want to, you know, build your reputation, you'd look for a wife, a start a business, that's most of the people get distracted with so many things. And also last point about youth. This is the

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live, or this is the age group

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that targeted by almost every single main business and entertainment business out there. They design it mainly for you the best consumer, the best custom, if you look around us, the whole entire cinema games. apps are mainly focused on this age group 15 to 40 years old, you've basically to keep them busy, to keep them entertained, to be so much shallot also introduced to them so much. And so many

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organizations and Institute's they have nothing to do but to keep these people attached to the dounia more and more.

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In the same time, I would like to cite there's a great misconceptions about youth.

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First misconception misconception about youth. So many young people in college in high school, they think that they are just the kids. You know, I'm just a kid chicks. I'm a nice cool 717 18 armor kit, whatever that means I'm a kid. If you're 17 years old, and you die now you will be exactly exactly judged by Allah the same way 70 years old man, or 50 years old man, or 60 years old man or 60 or 50 years old woman. If you're 1718 don't think it is different. When you reach the age of puberty you will be hold accountable in front of Allah the same way any adult will be held accountable. Sometimes they see people they say a girl She's the chief. I'm still young, you know,

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shallowly, let me just when I get married, I get older, you know, kind of free ride now free live a brothers in the university. I'm still young, I'm still Yeah, I know. He's still in but you became already in front of Allah subhanaw taala his eyes, you're an adult, you're responsible person, you're a personal level hold accountable in the Day of Judgment. So this misconception about you know, oh, still young, she doesn't need to work a job. She doesn't need to do this. He doesn't need to follow the sun in every aspects thinking that just because he's young. That's not true. Number two,

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one of the things also misconceptions about

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youth for misconception about youth that people think maybe there's few people think that way. People think that religious people, only old people.

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Young even you see even it has a historical background behind it. But in our culture who said this is head when you say head or is the head I immediately think of old men or old woman

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Had we been think of someone old? Okay, because they don't see that she's a young man could have went to you too young further on, see someone I mean, remember so many times, people say you're too young to have a beard, you have too young to do this too young to go, are the youth, what expecting from youth and not to be practicing not to be very religious people,

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as of the norm that the youth will be cyanea good to have nothing better to do in life. They don't like bad things. That's not true. That's not true. As a matter of fact, the people through the history of Islam who carried the dean in every aspect, I mean, that literally, in every aspect, if you look at the role model and every aspect of religion, and learning and teaching in jihad, passivity law, and you've talked about, for example, and set up a charity community service in LEED leadership position, you will see in a bad righteousness in all this area, youth, almost taking the lead, all was the main examples, not the old people, not the old people.

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Also, one of the misconception about you is I found it, that youth cannot carry responsibilities.

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And that's, that's wrong. So many times we don't trust the youth. That's why they run away from us. That's why they feel that the youth are being used by US adults and older, not trusted not to give them the responsibility. You know what, it's okay for them to make mistakes, but let them build their own experience, your role is to advise you role is to help. And I think we need to invest in the young generation, and to give them an opportunity and to empower them and to lead from behind not from the front. And a lot of time I have seen in so many people who work in that field, especially with the youth they use them more than they just trust them and give them a leadership

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let's talk a little bit about the concept of a youth who grow up in the worship of Allah subhanho wa Taala in the worship of Allah soprano God, there is a hadith reported by a bizarre

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we are Ella and it'd be awesome and it's not to who J Dilla but it's a bit it's a sound it's not that didn't me so solemn said, Yeah, Jumbo buku minchah, bitlis, Allahu Samba, Allah Subhana Allah will be amused by a young man or a young woman who are committed to the religion practicing the religion and they have not gone or done anything wrong in their youth time. Any during the youth time, it was all devoted to Allah subhanaw taala deal with righteous they were guided during that period of time, because it's kind of hard. As I said, your desire is strong, your desire strong, there is so much pressure from outside, but you still manage to protect yourself. You still manage

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to say no, you still manage to you know what, commit yourself to the right cause to the right thing. That's you if you are like that a brother or sister here if this is who you are now, Allah Subhana Allah is proud of you. is proud of you. Well agistment Allah subhana wa tada when the last one amused by something, not because it's something he didn't know about. No, in the La Jolla gentlemen punto de la de la tierra, be leery Allah Subhana Allah will be amazed by how like

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wondering how people are so giving up hope and Allah even though the change is so close to them. So Allah Subhana Allah has has wondered not because he doesn't know No, because he knows, he knows how things will happen. Allah Subhana Allah is wondering and amused by this young man or young woman because he knows how much pressure on him how much pressure on her how much reward waiting for them, but they still standard course. So it's not something negative is not something negative, as some people thought. And now that

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you have to lie to Anna,

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because this is a fact this quality was mentioned even in one of the pirot the

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bell agita was her own rasa bell to

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Allah wa is how to mean so to him was so clear to him because OBD II can't what he salad Yeah, and as I said this another on one of the verse referring to a Lost Planet Allah this equality which is something belongs to

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him according to His might and great use and perfect, it's a perfect it doesn't carry a perfect meaning.

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Anyway, so when you look at the youth who grow up in the worship of Allah, the worship of Allah subhanaw taala Well, the thing that I always ask people about when you think of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam okay.

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And his companions around him

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who How do you picture this? Do you think how many young men around the process and and how many old man around the processor?

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Any What do you think? 5050 6040

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you know, NSF, among the components of the processor, only two men had gray hair abubaker Normal.

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That's only to men as a gray hair above a Corolla. And the rest of the people who are around the process seldom are young and youth. That's completely different picture than so many people think that didn't come hang out with like or stay with the old people. No, actually, most of the people that were the Prophet Mohammed Salah are young, young age, as a matter of fact, most of the most critical tasks that it was handled in Islam, it was handled by people in their late in early 20s 1819 years old.

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It is something amazing, even from the beginning from the day one, I did not be thought about just a young boy young teenager, when he decided to stay behind the prophets of Salaam, okay, and the person migrated to Medina, and he left and nobody told him to take care of the things that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam left the trust things that the money that people have trusted them with, so he can pass it back to the people who who would this money belong to this money belong to

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and maybe still allow any value is seldom you see even people come forward to the battlefield when they are 14 in the business of them said no, you can't come 14 You're too young has to be an adult. And you will see people have even tried to sneak and like more of them are worth they just young boy's mother was the manager sneaking the battlefield of better American health. He said while I'm standing on standing, I see this young man whose his sword his sword is as any long it's dragging in the in the floor.

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dragging on the floor.

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Safer apollomon

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Alley I'm terrible. Uncle Do you know what your head is in America man? What do you want from him? He said I heard that he used to curse and talk about about the prophets Allah Allah Allah. Allah Allah Allah hola and right. Faria Casa de Sahaja Hi, Tavis, if he had, if I see him, I will not leave his site unless I hit him with my sword.

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Then he said another man came and told me the same thing

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with Amanita Anisha Allah. So today,

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I wish that I didn't even work one of the hairs of their chest. It's an expression of their abuse to say and I'm nothing compared to them. That's under human health. One of the first and people accepted Islam. Either I show a personal agenda,

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a quote, in relation to two young boys

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who lived in their home and been taught about the prophets of Psalms live in Makkah that he was bitten assaulted by these by this Abuja.

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And when they saw him the strike, and when they showed the went and they strike,

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Obi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam an agenda to establish, harass Alabama. What Selma

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said early is one off that young men and Islam who played a major role not only in hegemony, even in Medina, even in the Battle of Al Azhar, he felt and he and he killed one of the leaders of

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Quraysh armor

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would capsule katiba he killed him and he still at that time, as I said, it's still in the young boy. Pilot Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Amin Alba learn the Quran from four people from four people. And among them Abdullah bin Masood Abdullah

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was what young boy young man, teenager boy,

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teenager. He said. I like to hear the Quran the same way it was revealed to me and he will listen to the live episode. What's on the live show do you think is old

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He just barely make the 20s

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and still very young man very young man. Also

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an OB sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said about Morocco in general. More other than Japan had Mr. Marula. Yeah pull up and hussaini under biasanya code yet to Mel piano you have to do moolah below to head off he was studying measurement. He said that more than deficit I heard the prophets of Salaam saying that will add up New Japan comes in the Day of Judgment ahead of all the scholars with the distance like the distance of throwing a stone

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wire the Digital Cinema Camera with Amanda Tasha Sarah

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18 years old and he became Muslim. And he died on an upward upward journey that I will give you the opinion that it mentioned the latest age 32 years old. After mongkol karma terbinafine the rising sun 32 years old. He died. Some said 28 Some said earlier than that, but the latest date we have 32 years old, became Muslim 18 years old and die 32 years old. carlina bisa solimo

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Tara, he's the one who knows the halal and haram the most in my own in the Nation of Islam in the Nation of Islam.

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Or the Allahu anhu urashima

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he was a role model he he was one of the main teachers in Villa de Sham in the in the Syria and in Damascus in Damascus Rahim Allah to Allah and he died with the plague with a thought when he saw his son Abdul Rahman. He said yamane my son, this is something good Don't be mad because whoever doubt our own is dicer Shaheed

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He reminded his son and he said what you are going to do?

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He said, this is the truth from your Lord. So don't be among those who lose oh but no dad in no

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color abiti citizen to Lima Siberia, he said my father, you will find me among those who are patient. Those who are patient meraviglia jabber or the Allahu Allah die later on. After he got injured. He got injured then he got the plague as well and he died.

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You have Osama bin Zayed throw the alarm and voila. Another great companion in Nabi sallallahu Sallam let him lead the army to to fight the Romans. And he was not 20 years old yet in this army, Abubakar varoma. In this army, yeah, the earlier we said trusting the youth giving the Youth Leadership

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that's what you're talking about. That's what you talking about. You have Muslim women in Romania, our Savior for Islam, the first ambassador in Islam, who may be so solemn center, Medina, Muslim in Romania.

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One of the leaders among the companions is still a young man. lucky to have alfetta masala I have seen this young boy in Medina. Wonderful Medina to Makkah, Murphy Makita up Parramatta man, as we say in English, any spoiled boy

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spoiled boy he lived in a very luxurious life, like a love of luxury.

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But when he became Muslim things change and he was a leader z had been sabbat Gemma gonna be so solid memorize the Quran zeytinburnu Talbot is one of the responsible people of collecting the Quran Allah Baba Casa de campo de la la inika. Shaban afternoon, Lana to him. You're a young man, a wise young man who have never have doubted him.

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And I give you the responsibility to collect the product. And again, you talk about someone in his 20s Can you imagine in his 20s taking the most critical responsibility for him my

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children must have to document the Quran was given to someone still in his 20s.

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This youth are they allowed

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any role model compared to our youth today, compared to the our Shabaab today? What's their what is what kind of responsibility that they carry? And is it their fault or our fault? Or it's something shared responsibility between both of us? How are we raising them? How are we raising them, and it can go on and on Abdullayev is a bit of the lower Anwar arva. A young man another young man is amazing, can lay over her feet a lot and nobody can challenge that the love is so bad. In one of three areas. Any one of these three areas fill a bad

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bidness used to be one of the great worshipers. Can you call it Daddy? Daddy Karla Mujahideen turbo is kind of Abdullah was a layer above him and above about 100 on us electrical level, anytime he see people not abandoned any field or area in the act of worship, he will care to do it for for Fantasy Life will be to say there is a flood came. So what he did perfect will be to see baccala Mahabharata.

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He said he will eat one day it was flooded and he made a laugh swimming. Every time passed by the Blackstone, he dive and he gets the Blackstone because you always look at the area that abandoned nobody making part of that there is an old dude.

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He was praying and a huge rock fall and next to him destroy part of the mustard. Yeah, Paula Hyman fella, Tim Ancelotti, he did not even look at that

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destruction or that rock during the war with the the war with the with the with the Romanians.

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What are you about what are you talking about on facade is eloquent. Very good speaker. Very good speaker. Once he was in Egypt, medic Habesha Sudan. That time you call and Giorgio is the king in the Sudan, or southern of Egypt and that part of Africa. He said, this gene called he said to ever kill the Muslim leader, I will marry him to my daughter. So instantly I'm delighted, smart, sharp with tongue, he said and whoever killed him among you, I will give him his kingdom and his daughter

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Palawan kawana a woman nicomachea

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very in a very shot. Without his official job. Nobody can challenge him and bravery. He is the most brave person you can ever think of. Muhammad Abdul Kasim. 17 years old when he took Islam to the land of most of us here are most of you guys belong to 100 Islam in a village descent to Pakistan and to India, 17 years old, the first man to Korean

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actually documented to carry Islam to this part of the world.

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Omar Abdullah as I mentioned earlier, young man yeah and he died in his 4042 years when he died. What sleep look at the things that he accomplished in his life, documenting the sin now our two gentlemen ended atop the blue she has an aroma, the first one who collected the sun efficiently Omar Abdulaziz when he was the ruler of Medina, he made

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a group or a committee led by English observed to collect anything to be sallallahu Sallam

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and you want to go like you see in the area of L knowledge. Al Bahar you you had this webinar about how to give effective teach Hadith when he was 14 years old and 50 1am young man does not have a single hair in his face. And he given Federer aluminum shaft and given federa and he was not didn't grow any hair yet in his face. Very young in age.

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And in America, he mahoma he used to get fatter when he was 21 years old. He was giving efficiently a cushy, a chair in Medina, Medina and Mr. rasulillah salam and became an official Mufti 21 years old, the Malik Rahim Allah

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when you look at the Dhamma, and the scholars, you will be also amazed by how much they have achieved and, and stood up for the task, take that responsibility. They didn't say, Well, I will argue with you anybody on the dominant babila live as long as I can. Let me enjoy my life. No. And also because the society give them the chance, the community, the state, that the country the place that they are and have empower the youth.

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And this is something we're only known for the alum and Islamic school today in the Muslim world in the Arab world, especially the percentage of youth is unbelievable. is beyond is beyond 50% of the population or youth. This is completely different than a country that I'm living in. And the western America or in Europe, will you see the youth percentage is what 10 15% or sometimes even way less than that. Versus the Muslim world. Very young, very filled. Have you any fresh blood, but the point is what you do

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with them, how you prepare them, how you make them grow up with filled of responsibilities, responsibilities.

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When you look at it, is to me an example I give but maybe last example I can give you, Mohammed found to have a mala to add. This man have carried the snom also to the west that Europe, Eastern Europe. It wasn't he wasn't very young age. He reached Romania when he was about 21 years old. He reached

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Belgrade when he 25 years old Athens when he was 27 years old.

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And by the age of 30, he was already subtle as one of the most well respected leaders in the world. Very young. But again, the point is that the filt they were raised, Heather Bishop Yann kanak, my alma

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And he passed by a poet, Carla.

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Carla had had a blue key is this your son? said yes.

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Then he said to her sitter,

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half of the alley for in either cupboard for ineta, who shall

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take good care of him? Because if he grew up, I think he will lead the

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pilot movement called a tabula rasa and Melaka and medical.

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What a loser if he's going to to leave the Arab only

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what to lose. I want him to lead the world.

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I want him to lead or hustle. Now he lived the world through the law and voila.

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So the point is how you raise your children? How you raise your next generation? how you deal with them? Are you drugging them with nonsense things? Are you making them irresponsible? Are you just making them live a spoiled life?

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Are you really raised them to be men and real and woman. And by the way, youth also give example of a lot about any men had definitely some examples, unbelievable leaders among women, when they were young and their age when they were young in an age. I mean, admin Kibar for perhaps one of the great scholars. Among the enough is

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a great woman by the name Fatima summer kondia. Her father, Mohammed, a seminal MD, who wrote a very famous book called

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one of the most important textbook in the Hanafi phip. Her father, her father, when he issue effect to up he used to sign the federal law and his young daughter who's 20 years old, about 20 years old. He used to sign with him the conductivity maccabiah

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had been sitting in his sister kind of been sitting when the students asked him said go to my sister asked her, I said, I'll be alone. I'm 18 years old in the process, someone passed away. Yep, Hola, boo. Musashi. Metallica, sobre su de la Sundin vishay in Nevada during the shoot, I mean, they never disagree upon something that companion unless it unless found out she has knowledge about it, has knowledge about it.

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So the issue here it is in even among woman, it's amazing.

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To have saw

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she memorize been to Siri memorize the Orion when she was nine years old, nine years old.

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And that's not far we I know people in our community. Girls memorize the Quran today, memorize the Quran and 10 years old.

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And boys to memorize the foreign and 13 and 12 years old.

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But it's never only about memorizing the plan. It's way bigger than that. It's way bigger than that. So how can we how can we do that? How can I guarantee my youth myself people allowed me to grow up in the worship of Allah Allah Sparta in a cave here called wala dayco vintage insha Allah subhana wa.

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And a lot of youth asked me this question, just how can I stay committed to the deen with all these things around me today?

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One thing for all the youth and I'm now directing my talk to the youth.

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Don't ever think because you're young it means you have a long life in front of you.

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Just keep this in mind. Not because you're youth you're young. It means you have a long life in front of you. Now Allah and maybe some other women Kabir Masha? Allah hv dunya Kanika hurry Barbarossa we live in this dunya a stranger you know death is not far away from any one of us. Allies not far away.

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Any one of us, a doctor told me, he was with a younger 21 years old or 22 years old. In the hospital.

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He said, I sign off the paper so she can go home. Her labs good, everything is good. 22 years old

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is it I make my round.

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And by the way, by the end of the round, the alarm went a run, I rushed to her room. And I saw another face than that I just saw maybe 40 minutes ago.

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And we lost the girl she died.

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I said, I just signed the paper that everything in the lab says she's fine to go home.

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So don't ever think that there is a very long and you like almost remember death. That's one to

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remember that you are a very important element in the society. Don't ever underestimate your role as a young man, if you're 20 if you're 30 don't ever underestimate your role. And I want to tell you something about leadership. Leadership is never ever, ever ever about titles. Nobody ever give you permission to be a leader. You will lead yourself because leadership is about making a positive change in the society around you had

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what his name

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long Saldana, Mohammed there is a very famous

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leader as a Roman leader.

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Anyway, is a very famous he said something interesting, he said

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I would rather I'd rather to have an army of deals led by a lion, then to have an army of lions led by a deer

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an additional pursuit

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to photo masala

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library said an army of lions led by a deer I don't want but give me an automatic dears led by alarm. I want that that's what I want. So Allah Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam came with something better. He came with an army of lines led by line Salalah some cool new camera and mocha Luca Massoud. Each and every one of us a leader. He sets a lot of

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each and every one of us as leader, he has a leadership. So as a youth, you don't need someone to give you permission. You do need someone to give you permission to make a positive change in your life and people around you. And don't ever give up on yourself feel the sense of responsibility that you have. Number three, our four in knowledge, youth need knowledge, it's an excellent, you cannot lead without knowledge. And knowledge should not be an obstacle knowledge should be an acid. Sometimes knowledge became an an obstacle, Ababa, Hana is hackable, I need to learn. I spend all my life learning I need to learn, I need to learn I need to learn and he don't contribute anything. Do

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you think anymore? I've lived 14 years old, 14 years old in Islam, if he said I need to learn, I need to learn I need to learn and he does nothing. No, yeah. So my brothers and sisters, learning is an important factor here to learn and to have the solid knowledge in every area or any area that you're going to be specialized on. Also make sure that you commit you want to grow up in the worship of Allah, make sure that you commit to the ibadat to the at least at least, to the principle to the pillars to the great obligations of Islam, and you avoid the major sins in Islam. Avoid that major sins of Islam. And regarding to L one of the most important thing about the good understanding of a

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snap, one of the most dangerous things for our youth, that they have no good understanding of Islam, and a woman with a human heart that Islam is so dangerous for our youth. When somebody think that you know what, in order for beauty a good Muslim I need to go kill on a fight and you go and we see today how we go have extreme groups around the world and extremists left and right because they think that's what Islam is all that's what's really you know, what out what about our poor if indeed, it means that we can violate the rules of Islam. It's just misunderstanding. He doesn't know what he's talking about.

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It's sad does a lot of people today misled because they don't have good understanding of the religion. And today

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the informations are so much but so little. In America Cassiopeia.

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There are so many information so much information out there, but so few out there because

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elements of good understanding correct understanding. Today you can google any piece of information. But the point is not google it is not knowing its exist is understanding correctly with Erica Shafiq Rahim Allah said enfocado, LACMA photography surekha exist in the books but the keys to understand it, it's in the heart and the mind of the scholars and the students knowledge, there is no way there is an Ummah will succeed. If this abandoned the scholars are turned around the map behind their back,

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to make sure that you understand the deen in the correct way.

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Also, being around good company you surround yourself with people have, they are highly motivated.

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They have high goals in life not cheap. Not people have nothing better to do in life. They tried to kill time, while time slowly killing them. So this is something important in the Bissell Salaam, Allah Subhana Allah Allah Allah who was severe enough second Allah Dena drew now below that he will or she, you redo now watch her. Be with stick with Be patient, because it's hard to hang out sometimes with good people all the time. You need to be patient, to have some patience, you have to absorb. Stick yourself with those who remember the last one a day and night.

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And the next point, always teach yourself to make the catalyst that will make you a worshiper. That make your worship or philosopher know what to be kidding for the time educating yourself. Be proud of your deen all these meanings are part of part of your identity as a worshipper, as a person who submit himself to Allah subhanho wa Taala.

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There is also a few words I want to say to the parents. few words that I want to say to the parents. Number one,

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choose the right spouse

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to teach your kids from the beginning to have high goals in life.

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Don't aim low or aim high. Be good role model. A lot of parents say chef, kids, they don't listen. I agree kids, they don't listen. But what you don't realize kids watch

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kids watch if they're not listening to you, they're watching.

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So be make sure that you are a good role model to them. Make sure that you free your home from above the wire from the things that take your kids away from the dean from being close to almost panel, but make sure that we teach our children from the young age that to hate

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and consume Shahada overload with karlovy Vary matter we do them in body

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provision of New Albany and nabooda last now,

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Ibrahim A moment more hidden in his children's are Muslims not only Muslims, his children's are prophets and messengers and he is worried that they might fall on the ship. He wants to teach them to hate

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he wants to teach them to eat so this is something you should be very careful about to care about. Don't say don't take it for granted well i don't think these were granted in this day with this globalization don't think for granted. I have seen young Muslim from Muslim more from Muslim country they are their father for father parents or Muslims from a Muslim family or the below the the left Islam and some of them almost left Islam. Why because they go to the online start listening go to listen to some of these channels and speaking about other religions raising doubts about Islam and they lose their Deen they lose their Deen

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so what you need to make sure that we don't ever take things for granted. Man eminent mythos lnf sci fi anyone think that you will never be a hypocrite he will end up a hypocrite addressed to the Latina menos hivelocity La Colonia Sharon sinefa. Everybody worried. Inhofe machinic to eat having it feel in your heart from shirt is one of the sign of the towhead that's why Brahimi tamie said woman yet mineral betta Abba Ibrahim. Ibrahim worry about chick who can feel safe after Ibrahim at a center. Also make sure especially those who don't speak Arabic make sure that your kids know Arabic know how to be a Muslim and very important your children to know Arabic. Why? Because this is not

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your arm. This is the language of the arm.

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And it can you imagine a generation comes completely cut off from the Quran. Even among our kids, the only people who speak Arabic speaking that's not the pymble albia they speak non English 24 seven

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There's no point

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from your kids, especially you live in Qatar. And this is a great network, you live in a Muslim country, make sure you take advantage of teaching your kids how to speak Arabic basics. They don't need to be any poets and civil white, but basics so that you can understand Arabic.

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As well, it makes sure that you be positive with them, and aspire to them. Don't let them waste their talents and their time in things that will destroy actually the talents. Make sure that you spend invest in your kids education, invest in your kids education, and let them care for time have good principles. From that early age from the early age. Make sure that you have a good communication with your children. Somehow lawanna Shabaab once told me, he said I never ever, ever hamdulillah Did you fall in Xena

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never ever in my life. And I said why?

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My dad My father always told me when my son anytime you want to get married, let me know.

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Are you up to each other?

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anytime you want. My father told me that. So I know. Anytime I want to get married, I know that I can go to my father, I don't want to get mad at me, man. So I never thought about the Hara, smart Father, have a good communication with his son with his daughter.

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Keep that line of communication open with them. Make sure that you are a friend. I know it's not easy. It's easy to be said. But it's hard. But so many parents, they start this late to start building a communication rapport with their children. But you should start from early age. Take them vacations, travel with them, listen to them. Listen to them, respect them. So they can trust you can be basically

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listen to you and also understand that we live in a time that our kids know more than us. Any

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I can't believe I just think about when I was young, can I tell my father Oh, I know more than you.

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It was

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me, he will not. But the reality is all my kids know more than me.

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Before I don't my father knows more than me because my father read more went to college studied experience in life. I know more than my kids in certain areas. Okay, but today the globalization of information or access to internet give them access to information beyond your beyond you.

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So don't start giving photron medical and politics and you know, and all these things because they know more than you you respect that they're quite different today, the youth and then what used to be before and you have to adjust yourself to that, to respect them and to respect their time and their generations. And that's will allow you to win them so you can have a good influence on them.

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I think it's important to reach out to teach our kids how to love Allah, how to love Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. And sometimes it's also more important to teach them why they should love

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one man at one time a person told me in America, he said Misha had been the reason

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and why why should I love him so much? And he's serious, he should just why tell me what Tell me four reasons why should love him and I give him I give a lecture after that says why we should love the professor. And I realized I always say love the Prophet love the Prophet because I take this for I know why because as Muslim, but so many young people, they really don't know why they never read his life. They never know what he did. So they can relate to it. So that's that's something we need to teach our children this type of

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principles and insulted and put it in their hearts.

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And I plan it to be this way. As to I know I have seven categories and only cover two, but I plan to take two and get into details a little bit about at least one of them was today as an example of how this course can be expanded, but tomorrow inshallah to Allah, we will go very very briefly over the rest of the categories we touched upon very important points, inshallah tada in relation to the rest

Amazing lecture about love of Allah.

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