How to Relieve Stress

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Allah (swt) says “those who have believed and whose hearts are assured by the remembrance of Allah. Unquestionably, by the remembrance of Allah hearts are assured.” [13:28]
How to relieve stress and be content?

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be useful

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to triple zero

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and the best cure

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and the best medicine

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for depression and stress is the one that our Lord gave

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and gave to the entire world.

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Oh Mohamed, we know that you're upset in your heart from what

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he says

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this is the Cuba This is

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Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa Salatu was Salam O Allah say eat in our Habibi, now Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi adrain

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All Praise be to Allah subhanho wa Taala

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please pay upon His Beloved Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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testified that there is no god except Allah Almighty. Allah testify that Mohammed is the Prophet and the Messenger of Allah.

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And I think Allah subhana wa Taala the one they had gathered the seat tonight, to be from amongst those who seek knowledge.

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And in sha Allah from amongst those who are written to be from the students of knowledge. So could obtain that great portion of goodness in this dunya as the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he says, from an ahahahaha bhanwar Farah so whoever takes this good portion of knowledge, had taken a great portion in life.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala he says

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alladhina amanu upma in nikolova, humbly decree Allah, Allah, Allah hotma in all

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those who have believed his hearts, our shows, are in contempt content,

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by the remembrance of Allah subhanho wa Taala

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no doubt by the remembrance of Allah azzawajal the hearts are assured and the heart's content.

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Allah Subhana Allah created us in a form

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that there is a law of our emotions, our emotions,

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if not all our emotions have its opposite.

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So we are happy sometimes but opposite to that we are sad sometimes.

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We love sometimes I will cry sometimes.

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We love and we hate

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and there are moments in life that we are happy with.

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And there's a lot of moments in life that we are not happy with in which are we which we are said

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sometimes

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we have relevant excuses why we are sad.

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And sometimes

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the excuses from behind our sadness is irrelevant.

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It's pointless.

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Some people

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are sad and depressed.

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Over matters the other

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words they have been sad and depressed.

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And others are sad and depressed over matters that are not worthy of being sad and depressed.

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And obviously the balance between that comes back to your email and your taqwa.

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You find some people

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that are happy with what Allah subhana wa tada has given them every single day, from an income from result from sustenance and are happy.

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And you find others get multiples

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and three and four and five times more than this person who is happy and contented with what he gets once or why he gets a day, but they're not happy.

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He found people happy what Allah subhanaw taala provided for them and sustained them. And others have a lot more than them and they're not happy, they're not content.

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You want people our set of images

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that are worthy of being said and you found others have said over matters, that it's unexplainable. What are you settle?

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By in general, Allah subhanho wa Taala has created us in ways and forms, that there are moments in which we're happy and there are moments in which was said

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all goes back to this heart. How happy this heart will be unhappy sad can be

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and that's why Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was amazed to the character of the believer.

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He Allah is Allah Azza wa sallam, he says our Giovanni amarin moment I am amazed to the character of the believer in Roku low height all these matters are good for him

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in our server to server, a shaker of acana heilala if something good befalls him, will be good for him and he'll be happy. He's happy for it. Something good came from Allah subhanho wa Taala. To me, I'm happy.

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And this is something understandable by everyone then the LA salado services the amazing part is why not sobre la

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la la and is something harmful before that believe he has patience for the sake of Allah. And this one makes me to be so amazed from the believer amazonica in learning moment, and this character that he's happy when something good comes from a lot him say thanks ally return on something bad or harmful before Zim say has patience for the sake of Allah. This particular character is a character and a character for the believer that made the profile a Salatu was set up to say I am amazed. You don't see that character in anyone else besides the believer.

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He does see that character when someone Allah subhanaw taala gives him or provides him or sustains him with something good. He says Alhamdulillah they're coming from the ropey This is from the bliss and pleasure of Allah subhanaw taala

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I want something harmful before him he says Alhamdulillah I will have patience.

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This is only a character of a believer.

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Anyone who has not a man

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or anyone who is from not from amongst the believers. When something good comes to him. He says this is from me.

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From earn sweats

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from earn hardships from sacrifice.

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When something harmful comes on him, he blames everyone on the surface of this world, including a liar except himself.

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Yes, this is the character of who is the character of the non believer.

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When something good comes to him from Allah azza wa jal he must think everyone except Allah subhanho wa Taala.

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And who sustains him Allah

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who gave him a law he provided for him Allah subhanho wa Taala

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I want something harmful comes to him even if it's from his own hands. He blames everyone including a lot except himself.

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The Umbrella Movement in Milan he was alone. He is the one that says the character of the believer amazes me.

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Something good comes to him. Alhamdulillah This is from a law and something has comes to him he has patience for the sake of Allah awaits for his reward from Allah azza wa jal or for an open

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wanting to come in this world.

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My brothers and sisters, every single human being on the surface of this earth regardless

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their level of status in this world, their wove their richness, their poverty, their strength, the weakness had gone through, waves in life's either happy or sad.

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And when someone is happy,

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they express their happiness in different ways.

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And most of the times, people express their happiness in a positive way.

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And sometimes in a negative way. But the scary part is, when people become sad,

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when people are stressed,

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when people are depressed,

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people are not content in the house. What do they do?

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You ask yourself, what was your last reaction? When you were last stressed?

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Did you remember our laws our journal and become from amongst those who Allah says, Allah be decree law, he thought my job indeed.

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By the remembrance of Allah azza wa jal, indeed by the remembrance of Allah subhanho wa Taala the hearts satisfied and content Are you from amongst those who transgressed starts to swear and scream and shout,

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starts to frown.

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And his face becomes so

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he's expressional face, we have facial expression becomes so, you know, negative

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Are you from amongst those who turns to Allah subhana wa Taala. In a moment, we are so stressed and depressed, or you turn to everyone else beside the laws of origin.

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Even in the vehcile Allahu alayhi wa sallam and he is the Prophet and the Messenger of Allah, he went through stressful moments that are mentioned na Khurana, Karim Wanaka,

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God kusakabe, Maja coloane.

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All Mohammed we know.

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Oh, Mohamed, we know the stress that's in your heart from what you hear from them.

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And the last time is to hear a lot of things, and

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a lot of harmful and he's to see a lot of harmful experience a lot of harmful things from his people themselves to see them and used to hear that and he's to experience them. He's a human being he used to get stressed.

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And there'd be some alarming when something needs to be said over these actions. And Aleksandra said, we know what's in your heart.

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We know.

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We know what's in your heart and we know that you are upset.

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What was the solution that Allah gave his beloved prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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did the last panel, LSAT or Muhammad Gan see psychologists and counselors, so you could relieve your stress? Get on anti depression tablets, get a high dosage of that? Because this is what happens these days. Not that I'm against it saying it's right or wrong. That's not my topic.

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But I'm saying that the best relief

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and the best cure

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and the best medicine

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for depression and stress is the one that our Lord gave Mohammed sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and gave to the entire Ummah when allies or says Well,

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my opponent or Mohammed, we know that you're upset in your heart from what you from what they say. Salas soldier gives him the key and he says For some, for some, for some of our Commissioner Sergio de

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Baca, Hata Tia Kelly, okay, this is the key. This is the medicine. This is the relieving moment of relieving strategy or the living or the relieving thing that you could relieve your stress for. remember Allah azza wa jal and glorify Him welcome Mina surgeon on prostrate to alarm pray team wobbled, Rebecca had to clear clean continue worshiping the Lord until you meet your last moment in life.

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This is the cure

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when you're stressed, remember laws of origin some common law

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when you're depressed, price or laws or general ask allies soldiers

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To relieve your stress

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when you're so worried

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when you're so

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upset, resort to Allah subhanho wa Taala take the cue of Allah gave his beloved Prophet Mohammed de la sala.

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For

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our kimono surgeon, glorify Your Lord Allah subhana wa tada be from amongst does it prostrate to Allah. When you during your moment of stress say Subhana Allah

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Subhana Allah

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when you're in during your moment of being so depressed Al Hamdulillah Allah, Allah thank Allah for everything.

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When you're under a lot of pressure,

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Sai Subhana Allah Subhana Allah

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pray to Allah subhanho wa Taala

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What is it when someone gets angry, though will occur with every single word that comes across their mind except settings of how the law

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you know why? Because the moment the size will come down

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the moment the size of

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their lifestyle, social change from upset and sadness into happiness. So Pamela

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subparallel law

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rhombic Welcome. Dean Walberg Rebecca has

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been uralla xojo also says Allah in our near ally, la hopeful la Mola who me as unknown

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la Lima lies on to say it says, indeed the only of Allah, the close servants to Allah, those who are always abiding Allah they obedient servants to Allah subhanho wa Taala love these nutfield them, one is unknown and there is no grief or harm or sadness on them.

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Allah insha Allah Allah Allah hopefully

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the clause seven star laws are done. There is no film them and there is no sadness for them. Why?

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They believed in Allah subhanho wa Taala and had taqwa which means that acted upon they believe, and amazing to the verses of Allah subhanho wa Taala. When he says alladhina amanu.

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He did not to say

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those who had believed because a lot of people believe but disobey a lot so to say that Latina woman or Korea, those who believe that obey the laws of Hannah Montana,

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doesn't believe them acted upon they believe lahoma

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glytone is for them in this dunya

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after

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when you have a man and yeah, by Allah azza wa jal, there's no need for you to be served as long as the laws of this universe separate from you.

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The times that you need to be sad and depressed are those times that you know, not happy for me. These are the times that you should be very, very, very upset and sad that

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these are the moments that you should be stressed over those moments that you know was not happy from your actions.

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And it's amazing how people sleep the night knowing that allies origin is not happy from them.

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Amazing to the eyes, has a cloud the eyes closed and I know that lots of Hannah Tyler's not happy from them amazing to the food they eat. And they know that allies origin is not happy from them and amazing to the water they drink. And Allah subhanaw taala is not happy from them. And I know only Allah Allah hopefully.

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The klostermann still lives there is no fee on them. There is not sadness for them. Why should you be sad when I love the Lord of the Universe epi from you?

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is happy for me when I last please for me, there's no need. There's no reason for you to be sad, because a lot of xojo will fill up your heart with content and happiness.

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A loss of Hannah Donna will make it half full of happiness. A lot of xojo fill up your house full of content. You'll be happy you'll be content, but as long as you disobey Allah subhanho wa Taala by law, if you are the richest, and the most wealthiest and the strongest and the most influential, and the most powerful men and woman stepping on the surface of this earth will love it. You'll never be happy.

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You will never ever be happy.

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You will never ever be happy as Allah subhana wa Tada. He says, Well, I'm an add on Vic

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For in Allahumma acertain Blanca,

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Blanca

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and whoever turns, Allah says And whoever turns from my remembrance from my obedience will make them live a dunkel life. What's the dunkel of just the word sounds stressful?

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The word dunka sounds stressful, miserable life.

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In the law home is a term banca and whoever turns away from our remember as will make them live a miserable life. And if that's a miserable life in this world sudo multi Arma and the hereafter will resurrect him.

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Blind

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will resurrect him blind. kohlrabi Lima has a certain amount of controversy. Oh my Lord. You had gathered me in this walled in a after you had gathered me. blinds wakad condo basura remember is to see in this dorm dunya

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so Allah subhanaw taala replies back to him.

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Tuna fish, Sita WorkCover. Luckily, our matanza because when we send our verses I remember as Do you forgot it, and said, I will forget you. And that's why you are blind, blind in a day where everyone needs to cite a lie. zoa don't make him blind.

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Turn away from the remembrance of Allah, you have a miserable life.

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And that's why you said

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yes. You are sad, not because you lost money.

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And you are sad, not because you had a fight with your wife or your husband?

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Your sir, not because you didn't get the job that you wanted. And you are sad not because you had fight with another people or friends your said because Allah is not happy for me. That's why you said

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what's the point of having all the money of this dunya

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all the money of this world, and the luxury of this world and the culture of this world? And the strength and the power and the influence and the influence that anyone that can obtain in this world and Allah is not happy for me. What's the point of it?

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What's the point? Of course you said, Of course you said yourself because Allah is not happy for me.

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Please, a lot, a lot will make your heart pleased.

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Please, a lot, a lot will make you happy. But you want to commit the sins during the day or not. And you want to be happy and happy for me that's impossible.

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You want to disavow lies, and you want to make a happy return that will never happen.

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You want to fall into the haraam and you want to make you happy that would never happen.

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And that's why my brother and sister

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when you're sad and depressed

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ask yourself and ask yourself that question before you look into your bank account how much money you've got there.

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And before you make an appointment with a psychologist or a doctor, and before you see and speak to this person, that person ask yourself what's your relationship between your allies so just because of the relationship your said

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because of your tongue

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been drawing from not remembering a lie so adelia said

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that when he turned back to Allah subhanho wa Taala and please Allah you feel the happiness in your heart from the moment to remember law.

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What law he from the moment to remember Allah subhanho wa Taala from the moment you knock on the gates of Allah azza wa jal and pray to Him, you filter you for the taste of happiness in your heart. Allah subhanho wa Taala he says, Minami la sala Han Minda, Karina

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Menon, Phelan.

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He's the answer from a law.

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He is the answer to you from Allah subhanho wa Taala analyzes or just says whoever does a righteous deed from a male believe or a female believer Allah subhanho wa Taala promised falana here now will verily and indeed making live a happy life.

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Whoever does a righteous action

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whoever does the good deeds and actions and there are believers and Subhan Allah Allah azza wa jal connected the good deeds and actions to the belief good deeds and actions without a man. It's pointless.

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It's pointless.

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A large soldier says whoever does a righteous deed from a male believe or female believer, Allah promised him No.

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No and look at the words for Allah first means immediately will make them live a happy life.

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30 will fold

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immediately will make them live a happy life. There are good days and believe it or not, you will be happy.

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gerace is excellent believe in Allah, Allah will make you happy.

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Stop committing the heroin and Allah subhanho wa Taala will make you happy.

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Because the

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the sins that we commit are darkness in the heart and darkness in the hereafter.

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Mama had mercy on Mr. Malik when he saw him I'm sure he said your pony. In the Rafi Topeka neuron Fernando Marcy.

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He said all sudden, I could see a light in your heart says do not extinguish the light or turn off other sins

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or sun. In America, same America same theme mhfa. Or sun could see light in your heart, nor in your heart. Certain extinguished the then turn it off by disabling allies and committing the scenes.

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Because darkness in the hub brings sadness

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and darkness in the heart bring sadness. Darkness in the heart brings depression. Darkness in the heart brings stress. But light and nor brings happiness, light and nor brings comfort, light and more brings calmness and tranquility

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and darkness his sins and lightness, his good deeds. He can expect to do wrong and be happy. lower low.

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Have you ever done something wrong? And you were happy from doing? Have you ever said something wrong and you felt happy in your heart?

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Have you ever fall into something wrong and he felt happy in your hearts will lie that will never happen?

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or sudden a law had put light in your heart that is lightness in your heart. So then extinguish that with the sins.

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The Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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he says in this beautiful Hadith

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narrated

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by Anasazi Allahu taala

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he says

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the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said men Ghana hello to him.

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Jarl Allahu he knows

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what Gemma Allah who Shambhala will utter to dunya Hiroshima.

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My woman cannot dunya Hama jhala long fucker obey nine a will for Karla he Shambala while I'm yet to him in a dunya Illa mapa de la la

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la he's so beautiful words, if we just understand them, give me your heart and your mind. The Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says in this hadith

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that will resolve all our problems. He says Allah is Salatu was Salam. Whoever is concerned about the hero.

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Whoever has the concern and the worry over the hero, and this is the positive stress, to be concerned about the al Qaeda to be concerned over that moment that you stand the problem lies origin.

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The problem Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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He is saying whoever is concerned about

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Allah subhanho wa Taala will make him wealthy in his heart.

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What's the worth of the heart?

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The warmth of the puck, the warmth of the pocket is the dollar.

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The warmth of the heart is what is content and happiness.

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The worth of the pocket is the money

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and the warmth of the heart is what is happiness and content.

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Because all the money of this world would never make your heart rich,

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whoever is concerned

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and that's the believer that's concerned over the pleasure of Allah Subhana Allah, Allah azza wa jal will make him rich in his heart.

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Not only that,

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Allah subhanho wa Taala

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will gather and assemble his mentors under him.

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Your financial, your marriage, your family, or your matters, your social matter will be all under your control.

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You will be control of them, not them control of you

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a lot,

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or all your matters in this world. And Allah subhanaw taala put it in your hands, you'll be control of them, you'll be at the top of things.

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Not that you're running around, trying to fix your marital problems your children, your parents, your social problems,

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your studies, your work, your career, your finance, your house, running here, and then he can't even get hold of anything.

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But when the when the alpha is your concern, Allah has promised you that he'll put in your heart richness, you will be happy and content and Allah subhanho wa Taala will assemble and gather all your methods that will be all under your control.

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And not only that,

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not only that, and the column says what to do.

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And the dunya

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and everything in this dunya will come to him running.

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If your concern is that dunya will run to you.

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If your concern is the loss of the junior the junior over under your feet.

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If you're in this dunya for the Savior, then Allah subhanho wa Taala will make you the master of the dunya

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and Allah azza wa jal will make you the servant of the

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whoever has the concern of the afterlife and the pleasure of Allah. Allah subhanho wa Taala will put richness in his heart and Allah azzawajal will assemble and gather all his mentors under him. And Allah subhanaw taala make the dunya run to him.

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By no other hand.

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Whoever has the concern of the dunya all his concern is the dunya

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all he stresses the dunya

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all his worry is the dunya the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he says the jarle alone obey nine a Allah azzawajal will make poverty between his eyes in his heart.

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Aloha make him always pour even if it's got all the money of this dunya

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Don't you see people so Wolfie Subhana Allah that are slaves, 24 hours working 24 hours, then even get the chance to come the money.

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They are so wealthy and don't even get the chance to see their children

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are so wealthy and then even get the chance to eat a proper meal.

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They are so wealthy and then even get the chance to sit down and rest the reality

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dapu

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And not only that, some people are millionaires. They've got enough money

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if they want to buy every single thing they think of and dream of every single day they still have access of money. But still chase money.

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What's the point? You've got all the money

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you've got so much money. Why is too stressed out over giving getting more money.

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gifts we know the experience that everyone knows, sees the heels of them, and they're never happy.

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They're never happy.

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They would never ever even get the chance to taste why peppermint ice is rest and comfort.

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And they're so rich. You think that I've reached the cell walls that are so comfortable. They're not the RHS that our theory is they have a lot of money but I'm not comfortable. They're not relaxed.

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They're not happy.

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Why? Because the dunya is this stress,

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the dunya is they worry,

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Allah subhanho wa Taala made them poor in the eyes of Allah subhanaw taala made poverty in between the eyes, the even if the hell all the money of this dunya was still poor,

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even if they have all the money that are still stressed,

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what

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Allah subhanaw taala divorce on his mother's, has not control of his wife has not control of his children has not control of it, he has not control of her husband, when I say control.

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connection has no connection, lost connection between him and his wife. She lost connection between her and her husband. They lost connection between them and their parents lost connection between them and everyone has no control over everything is just all over the place.

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doesn't know what's happening,

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gets divorced, gets married again then gets divorced again. Children are on drugs. Parents disowned him. Socially, no one wants to talk to them. All these methods are all divided.

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And then what?

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And then allows or says, Well, I'm used to him in a dunya Illa. Khurana law is only going to give him from the dunya what's written for him That's it.

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In other words, Allah who restrict His

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provision,

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lots of how just give him more he Allah subhanaw taala wants to give

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happiness, we have the wrong concept of happiness.

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We have the wrong understanding of happiness, happiness.

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We have the wrong understanding of comfort and tranquility. We think that money is happiness.

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We think

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that power is happiness we think that influences happiness. We think fame is happiness, what law a law knows. And a lot of you have experienced no one is happy with just money and now I'm just happy with fame.

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He every single day the richest people commit suicide Why?

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The most famous people on drugs Why?

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If they were happy Why did I go on drugs for

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if they were happy with

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me suicide for

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war is that

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dunya is their worry

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dunya is the stress

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dunya is that concern?

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But some Harmon law

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you're a woman you're a believer.

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That's your concern every single day is how to please the laws of origin you sleep the best sleep

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you wake up the best.

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You eat the best.

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Your heart is the best.

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Your comfort is the best

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Subhan Allah

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when you please a lot zoa jell O Allah puts happiness in your hands.

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When you please Allah subhanaw taala Allah makes you content.

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When you please Allah subhanaw taala Allah azza wa jal bring you satisfaction.

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When you please Allah subhana wa tada Allah subhanho wa Taala makes you from among those who is happy, Allah who relief your stress.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala will take away your depression.

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Allah subhanaw taala will make you concern and that is a word to be concerned.

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law he Yes, there are moments that we are stressed.

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And these moments are the things that we're stressed over.

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Our moments are things that needs to be stressed over.

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But this difference when you stress as a matter knowing, knowing that Allah subhanho wa Taala is there for you. And he is the one that's gonna solve for he is the one that's going to

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take you out of that stress and problem.

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And there's a big difference between someone who's stressed and doesn't have to resort to

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well lahemaa brothers and sisters, our only way of happiness or relieving stress from us is to please to please Allah azza wa jal

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turn to Allah subhanho wa Taala and Allah who tend to

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be with a lot of love it will be with you. Do the righteous deeds and actions and Allah subhanaw taala give you happiness

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Allah subhanho wa Taala he says, woman you're talking to her nirjala who Maharajah? Why are Zukerman Heisler

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and whoever fees Allah subhana wa Taala lies xojo will make for him and create for him and provide for him an opening.

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If you are stressed fear loss, origin or loss of handle a title or make an opening for you.

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If you are stuck in a problem, Fear Allah subhanaw taala marzotto will take care of the problem.

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If you have depressed fear Allah subhanho wa Taala marzotto will make an opening for you out of the depression. What are your thoughts on life our hospital

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says And whoever relies on my mother Tina for him. What more do you want? That's most efficient for you to run our lives origin. Rolando Muslim, I know Tyler, anybody everything?

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rely on allies or gentlemen Allah subhanaw taala give you everything.

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Rely on Allah subhanaw taala no lies those are graduate everything.

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And listen to this last Hadith the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he says in this beautiful Hadith Manasa humming comb, Amina and feasts are being more often fee just said they are in the hoopoe to in the hoopoe to Yami he forgot his her years at ladonia law. The proper Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is given us the true

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understanding

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of what's of this dunya

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when you tell people dunya this world people want to be so wealthy and they've got no limits to the wolf, or so famous. They've got no limit to their fame. So strong have gotten a limit to the strength.

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Well, in every cell Alliance enemy says whoever wakes up early in the morning

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and some interaction says whoever sleeps at night.

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Six seek he was in his house. He has secured he has you've got a shelter, the shelter in gear.

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And then hamdulillah you are secured in your house. You've got a shelter, you've got a mattress, you've got a family and you sleeping there.

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more often. You just said to him

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and you are healthy and humbler

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you still healthy. As much as you see yourself unhealthy, still a lot more healthier than others

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in Tohoku to me and you've got enough food for the day. Not a fridge for the next month.

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You've got enough food for the handler you've eaten.

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Whoever wakes up early in the morning,

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secured under his shelter

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secured in his house, you have a house, the shelters you

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healthy in your body.

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And you have enough food to eat. What is the process Adam says? He says, as if the entire dunya had came to him

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the entire dunya empty? This is the dunya

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have a secured shelter.

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enough food to eat be healthy, you've got the entire dunya

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What can you get more than the What more do you want from this dunya?

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I'm saying this does not stop you to become a good wolf, the rich, influential Muslim No. But is that your primary stress? No. My primary stress is the hereafter.

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My primary worry is how can I please allies our job? This is my primary stress. And if Allah azzawajal opens the gates and the doors for me to become what Al Hamdulillah at least when I become wealthy for the sake of Allah, I'm pleasing Allah. Look at the difference.

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When I become wealthy for the sake of Allah, every every single dollar that goes into my pocket will be rewarded for it and hamdulillah because it's for Allah.

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Because my stress is the hereafter.

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But my entire stress is this dunya my entire stress is this world. My entire stress is always competing with others. I'm never gonna finish.

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And then, of course Allah subhanho wa Taala while my stress and my worry and my primary objectives of dystonia was the dunya be the slave of Allah Don't be the slave of the dunya

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let the dunya serve you do not become the servant of this dunya

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let the Don't let the do

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under your feet did not become under the dunya is the Muslim, the Muslim the difference between the Muslim who feels Allah azzawajal and wants the pleasure of Allah and those who don't is the Muslim has the dunya in his hands,

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controls or however he wants.

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But those who do not see a large Origin

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The dunia has them in their in its hands. Big difference when you have the dunya in your hand. And when the dunya has you in intense, big difference. And this is the Muslim in Allahu alayhi wa sallam. Durante la la sala Johnson, a prophet said I miss sent a messenger an angel, messenger to the problem Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to tell the Prophet a salatu salam that Allah gives you the option to be the most wealthiest man ever stepped on the surface of this earth.

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And the results of the whole dunya is

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the process of good chance.

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Never saw some said no, no, eat one day, thank Allah for eaten stuff one day and have patience for the sake of Allah. This is the this is the happiness of the dunya.

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This is the happiness of the dunya

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to be content and satisfied with the pleasure of Allah, because nothing will fill up that heart

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except the pleasure of Allah. The Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he says, if the son of Adam had one value of gold, will ask a lot to give him a second one. And if it's got a second Messiah login method one and it's got a third one say Allah give me a fourth one. And he's got for sale like give me five. And he's got five to say I'm like, give me six. And then the professor salami says, and nothing will fill up the belly of the son of them except the dust of his grave.

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Or this what's although

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my brothers and sisters we need to understand the meaning of happiness and being stressed.

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Why am I stressful?

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Some of us stress ever What? Why is stressful?

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Well, it has an Airbus three so I am so stressed

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his face frowning and upset. He told him Why are you so upset and stressed? He said, You know, I'm just stressed.

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You know, I'm being disharmony things on my head. So Hassan Abbas tells him

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Is there anything less than going to come to you from your, from your resume that Allah had written on you? Can anyone else take anything from this physical Allah has given you a lot zoa jen

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has written for you and amount of reserves. Are you going to get less than that? No. Are you going to get more than that? He said no. He said are you going to live

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an extra day that the AMA had written and he said no. Are you going to live less

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than the days that Allah had written he said no, he said what is stressful

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what is just so in the hands of a lot is a lot written on you how much you're gonna get you're not gonna get more you're not gonna get less

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100 or even though you're gonna die you're not gonna get the extra day not gonna get this day. It's already been written

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stress over something that's where they've been stressed.

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Stress over the

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stress over the moment that was standard profit losses that were done. Please a loss of planetary you find happiness in your heart. While lahemaa brothers disobedience is stress. haraam is stress. Do you how long you'll be stressed? It how long you'll be stressed. See how long you'll be stressed? How long you'll be stressed. Kimmy haraam you'll be stressed falling. stress. That's why you stressed

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come out of the hat on you'll be happy

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to Allah you'll be happy. glorify Allah, you'll be happy I

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hope you are when you open the Quran and read isn't that the most beautiful moment during the day and night is when you read the Quran according for some babraham the Arabic akumina surgeon. Remember law is origin

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and when something comes to befalls you say in the law or in the LA Rajon tanto la

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be with a loss of Hannah hautala

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and the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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also told us that when someone is stressed as one of the companions came teams a lot he will send them and he said

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messenger of Allah I am so stressed when he saw him in the mosque, but remember he said O Messenger of Allah block all the stress of this donor came on me. So the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said,

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say every morning, and every evening, this door Allahumma inni also became an HMI wellhausen while adze while castle, walls are becoming a new world, was becoming available today in your region, or Allah ask refuge in You from the hand from the stress. And the Hassan Hassan uncertainness. While it will kassala also asked you to protect me from

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laziness and

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laziness. And

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I've been unhealthy and also ask you to protect me from being a coward and being selfish. And I also asked you a lot to protect me from the debt that people are asking, and the other powering of paper over me. This is the dryer the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam had told us say every morning and every evening learn it. It's in a Buhari and many of the fortress Muslim books and the books that you can get from any bookstore or dalla is every morning and every evening, make this door and insha Allah, Allah azza wa jal will take your stress away from you. Allah decree law he took my inoculum indeed by the remembrance of Allah, the hearts will feel assured and content and

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happy allama tandem melodien SME on call Faith w na sana subhanak Olam, no shadow and you

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