How To Be A Good Husband P2 01

Said Rageah

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What is a pseudo salata? He said from the Baraka of a woman from the bark of a wife that the process of proposal is simple. And her Maha is simple.

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Now go and ask this young lady nowadays.

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What do you want from?

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The most righteous one What are they asked for?

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And these women, they did their homework.

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Because nowadays has 1000 fathers.

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I one had a new

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brother, she was

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just

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she's so righteous, you

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get two witnesses.

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And the man doesn't know 1000 for her and 1000 for him because his hair Mahara? How much is that?

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If a sister She said I want 5000

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dounia girl, you know,

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but she said I want

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and your hand was up

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every year.

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And you have no clue what you're walking into.

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So Hannah law

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and human law from the Baraka have a wife that her mama passes over. There is no difficulties. Go bring your family. I'll go talk let me talk. Let me do you know, credit check. You know, let me see how many times

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so

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then door was is thinking about the MA is thinking about the food and someone's on the door, outside of the door, at the door.

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On a man. He said from the home from the hem from the concern.

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I didn't want to get up. I said Who?

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What am I going to get money for to bring this young lady home?

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on assignment

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for coffee

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every Sunday, pass through my mind except one side side.

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Because from the sun of this shape,

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form the behavior of the shape that he would come home, messy, messy home for the past 40 years

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are by

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our very

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nature for him to expect surgeon who save at the door.

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They said we worried it's not logical. He said when I'm dragging my feet. And I opened the door for it. He said

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the man is right there.

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And he said

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you got married to my daughter?

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I said yes. But before that I got shocked. I said maybe he changed his mind now has he realized to Durham is not really that wasn't a good deal. So

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I said he said Ed, why don't you call me could have

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should have sent someone.

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He said today

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you have hopped over me who's saying this?

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The father in law, the teacher, the chef

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nowadays, when a young man chooses a family and he honors that family and he respects them and in spite of the number of sisters it left on right. And he said I want to move from that family, then the family they think Mashallah Yama noona Anak they think Mashallah, you know, you come to my daughter, who are you? And then when you get married that daughter, you should treat them like kings and queens.

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I say, No, no, you have over me tonight.

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You're a man who got married today.

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And you are alone.

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And I wanted to comfort you.

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Therefore I brought your wife.

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I brought you wife.

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If a man takes his wife nowadays, and he takes her to her husband, what would the sister say? How dare you father, how Chiba mighty you.

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He has to come.

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He has to come riding a white horse.

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He has to come and pick me up for my now ally.

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And he's certified either here we have a she's standing behind him. And she entered and he said to fall very abundantly.

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My daughter into the house and it Bismillah he was Baraka. He was soon at Navy Salam Mohali, he was

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and then he said

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are of higher through different narration. She faked. She passed out

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of shyness. She was she was never alone with this change, man. Another he says she almost tripped because of higher overhead YouTuber.

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And say the university, Sara Marie, goodbye.

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I got concern. So I went through the roof.

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And I said, everybody you should know sorry, the MiniMo. So you've married me his daughter. An old lady said Are you out of your mind? Do you know what he's saying? Do you know what you're talking about? Say the minimum say we've used he refused or worried he would marry? No. On our law you come.

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He said, I said to them, come on be with her. I have to go and call my mother. And the mother came and she said when she hookah he said it's haram to see your face. If you only take care of this young lady. I said to her Auntie woman to really do whatever you want to do.

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He says somehow she is so Hannah law. She kept my wife away until they call me and when they call me. He said I have never seen any women who

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have never seen anyone who knows the size of poron like that.

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I have never seen someone who knows the son of the Navy is a little boy while he was like that.

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I have never heard

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a sister who knows the half of her husband like this one.

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Yeah, this was total package full package, fully loaded system.

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Everything

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when this is a righteous system, whenever you from the long run he was telling me upon come if you say he was a dunya Mata, this Jr. is enjoyment. Am I ready for dunya Mata is enjoyment. Yeah, and he will struggle and then we come to enjoyment. And these are hieromartyr autosol. And the best enjoyment This is the righteous wife.

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He said we stay together for the longest we say we stay together for days. Nobody is gonna visit us her father never came. None of my family came. And then for these days, she was my teacher teaching me the end of the Masai

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she was teaching me then of Abraham Maslow, you know, the narrations. He said early in the morning, you know, first my wedding day is I wanted to get on with the show my father in law, I'm here first, I used to struggle with this. Now I'm here first, I want to leave a positive impression. And she said sit down. I'll teach you there. And

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he say Finally, I left the house and went to the hands of my father in law.

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And I gave him a sauna and he responded. And then he turned away from it because he didn't want to embarrass me in front of everyone. Now this relationship is completely different.

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completely different. I am the husband of his daughter. very adamant before What did he say?

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He said I was a man of a muddy. And he said I could not ask this question. I couldn't get to him as a solo. Yeah, no, I have a lot of money. What do you think about that? One is the one his daughter is with me.

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And then Mary is something that usually comes because of when you think of your wife. He said I couldn't say hi and out of hire. I said, Will you go ask? He said here he knew that I married his daughter. So he didn't want to embarrass me. So he pretended that nothing happened.

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Normal salami, I sat down. And I studied an essay. After the halaqa was finished and everybody left. He said

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yeah, but what?

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How is your wife

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is she's a good wife.

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And I said, Hold on a minute, simple solid. Well, your crown sees what a good friend would love. An enemy would hate. The enemy would feel jealous of what I have. And good friend of mine will be happy for me.

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He said Alhamdulillah

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I went home

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and he said How much did he

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Give the Dow dowdy for his daughter two to $3 and he sent $1,000 home

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for his daughter and his son in law

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now that is good father in law Wouldn't you agree with your brother Scott It was difficult to have to find these guys nowadays very difficult a beautiful Arima onsen and not only that you get $1,000 home

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now we talked about the second thing that a man should look for or sister should look for is that the husband should be half with leaky tabula or

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it Lee's portion of the

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half first category.

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If your husband's sister she's looking for to get married and your husband Mashallah he keeps repeating

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for every cell of our body step back I have an Athena

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and the the Salah

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I heard never ever other than

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the man has to be half

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or at least should know a lot of

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because of loss of Hannah what Allah talks about the people of Orion, he said in a Latina yet Luna kita, homeboy. What are masala? What unforthcoming marathoner home Sylvan Rania era unity gr Atlanta boo

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in La Nina yet Luna kitayama those who recite the bukoba

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How do you know this person is good?

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How do you know? That is somehow sometimes new Muslims have better concept. They understand Islam better? Because I know a Muslim, a new Muslim. She asked this young man who was proposed and how much of Quran do you have?

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Well, audio capital

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and she said Next.

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Next

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is the brother doesn't have Usama.

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What are you going to do with him?

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You don't even have just um

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Hold on, hold on, you're coming to propose to him to propose to my daughter.

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Wow.

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Let me mean I don't know of others. I'm not asking you. I'm not telling you what to do with your life. I would feel ashamed to go

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on proposals assistances. How much foreign Do you have rather?

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And it's like, well,

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I'm working.

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And I think Mashallah, I'm happy. Yeah.

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Oh, so she she the brother should have at least Hold on. I mean, what are all the whole, most of the poor on? The anonymity is a lot

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of fun. What did he say?

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Why would he ask oil

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because the Navy is a hierarchical

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mental

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hierarchy. The best of you are those who learn the Koran.

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Now, if if I'm looking for the best, and the well being of my daughter, when I want him to be a half, or to have most of the Koran

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come across a Muslim colocar interview sobre la de was that in the law Yennefer ob had an archetype of Obama in the lawyer for beheaded cannon. We had an academy of one way about

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a law who raised nation through this speech to hold on and he disgraced others because of it.

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Only two individuals that we should feel jealous.

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Envy for what they have

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a half

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and a man that Allah bless them with a

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you don't care you should not care what kind of vehicle this man drives.

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We should not even entertain his degrees.

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If the Quran is missing is the basics are missing. Then why would I have to worry about that leaves in the tree and the branch of the tree so useless.

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Are the Navy Say hi Rocco Manta lemon

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and this what they say what I have

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Add how to count donkeys.

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Who wants that?

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Who cares about your donkeys and your PhD if you don't have the basic hold on?

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Oh,

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this is the only one you feel jealous

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is a man who memorize the Book of law and a man who have not other than that.

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who they

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are today I'm sorry about who they are.

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When he wanted to marry his daughter, his sister is just looking for someone for his sister.

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And he looked at the people of Medina unsalted mo Hijri.

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He looked

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for a person who has passed mama had memorized the Quran half

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so at that time, was over even

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under law heavy Mr. rude. Sandy motiva His servants, moda

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fabric, it was

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only five

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in the law.

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And then he married his daughter with his sister from Christ in she's from the boys. Her father is

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an uncle his shaver, and her brother is unworried as well.

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And these are the chiefs of the college.

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And he married her

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son, the servant, the man who used to be his asleep

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because of the

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cause of the keytab.

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And he said, You marry my daughter, you marry my sister.

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The second person the second, the third action story will conclude with this inshallah

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is

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the story of a lady who came to the messenger of a law and in the gathering of Sahaba male and female she stood up and she said he had a soul a law, I gave myself to you.

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I give myself to you marry me. If you accept your own in Willie, you don't need you don't need anything. You don't need witnesses I gave you I gave myself to you.

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Don't try this at home. This was only for the Messenger of Allah.

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Don't go to Tim Hortons system. Why don't you give yourself to me?

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This was only for the Navy hadn't been associated Navy solid bodies and Associates and maybe it was just us, I want to marry you. You still have to go to her wedding and ask for his permission whether he's a Christian or Muslim, whether you're who you are Muslim, you still have to pay him. You know, she has to ask for all this before the Messenger of Allah was different rulings. So the young lady she says era sobre la marry me

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and the Messenger of Allah He looked up and down. And he said, I don't I have no need for women today.

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And now there's another brother You know, one of those broke so having another low on you know, has no money, bro.

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There was no and that's it, basically. And then he looks after his life. You know, I I want to marry him. She looks pretty good to me. If you don't want if you don't want to marry, marry her. So the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. He said what do you have?

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I have nothing.

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He should go into the phone. Go to your family go to your tribe. See if they can help you with anything. He came back and say out of sola I could not find all of them on what on welfare none of them have anything you know none of them

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he says of Hannah law none for Colorado law is a law Maharani he was suddenly on the

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go look. Anything even a ring that is made out of metal? A ring honey.

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He looked Honiara. sobre la what a hottie mean honey narrabundah

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for Han Solo Maharani, he was sending them and then he said

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Dada surah LA. Like I got it. Yeah. Surah la izadi.

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I have my Isa.

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I can give her my desert as a dowry. He said what she's gonna do with your visa. If you give her your is he gonna be what? lobby Colombia.

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All

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right.

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So if this is the case, what what is that do?

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So what would you do? He's saying, Oh

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matassa B is Arctic in lava lavista.

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And then he says, Allahu Allah, He will send them

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madama kameena

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what do you

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what do you

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know, degrees? He didn't say how many? You know? Are you a good warrior? Do you know how to wrestle nowadays? Kids? Do you know how to play ball? You know, none of that.

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He's like, maka, maka, maka.

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On Surah Surah t Qaeda or Qaeda. I have the sword and the sword and the sword and he listed a surah. Karnataka when

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he said, you memorize them. You like, you know, like, one of the words like, Oh, I know, sort of baccara Well, okay, and if I mean, continue, wait a second.

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And it brings them up. So you don't have to know the you don't have sort of

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here is it? you memorize it? Yes. You have them here. Yes. Okay. cardinham Khan, Academy lactuca p Mama, can

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I marry her to you for what you have.

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So then

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number one,

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or earn

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number two. And then inshallah next week, we will talk about that the man has to be from good.

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The good environment is important.

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Because some of the guys some of the brothers say Why? You know, this guy doesn't want to marry his daughter. He's arrogant. So this is what we're addressing. Sharla next week, span expandable

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man. Another he says she almost tripped because out of higher overhead YouTuber.

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Say

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goodbye.

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Everyone. I said I get concerned. So I went through the roof.

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And I said, everybody you should know sorry, the minister. You've married me his daughter. An old lady said Are you out of your mind? Do you know what he's saying? Do you know what are you talking about?

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He refused. He refused or when he was married? No. On our law you come?

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He said, I said to them come and be with her. I have to go and call my mother. And the mother came. And she said what? He said is haram to see your face. If you allow me to take care of this young lady. I said to her Auntie woman to really do whatever you want to do.

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He says somehow she's so Hannah law. She kept my wife away until they call me and when they call me. He said I have never seen any women that

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I've never seen anyone who knows the size of poron like that. Yeah.

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I have never seen someone who knows the son of the Navy is a little boy while he was like that.

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I have never heard

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a sister who knows the half of her husband like this one.

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Yanni, this was total package full package. Fully Loaded system Pasha everything.

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When this is a righteous system, whenever you spend a lot of money he was telling me apart from if you say he was adonia mahtab. This Junior is enjoyment. Am I ready for dunya Mata is enjoyment. Yeah. And he will struggle and then we come to enjoyment. And these are hieromartyr autosol. And the best enjoyment This is the righteous wife.

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He said we stay together for the longest we say we stay together for days. Nobody is gonna visit us her father never came. None of my family came. And then for these days, she was my teacher teaching with the UN.

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She was teaching me then, of a minimum of seven other narrations you say early in the morning. You know first my wedding day is I wanted to get on with the show my father in law. I'm here first. I used to struggle with this. No, I'm here first. I want to leave a positive impression. Then she said sit down. I'll teach you there. And

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he said Finally, I left the house and went to the hands of my father in law.

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And I gave him a center and he responded. And then he turned away from it because he didn't want to embarrass me

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In front of everyone, now this relationship is completely different.

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completely different. I am the husband of his daughter, without the admin and before What did he say?

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He said, I was a man of God. And he said, I could not ask this question. I couldn't go to Sierra Sala. Yeah, no, I have a lot of money. What do you think about that? What is the outcome? Well, his daughter is with me.

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And then Mary is something that usually comes because of when you think of your wife. He said, I couldn't say it's also higher and higher. I said, as you go, as he said, Here, he knew that I married his daughter, so he didn't want to embarrass me. So he pretended that nothing happened.

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Normal salary, I sat down, and I studied and he said, after the halaqa was finished, and everybody left, he said,

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How is your wife

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is she's a good wife.

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And I said hold he

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was solid. When he

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sees what a good friend would love, an enemy would hate. An enemy would feel jealous of what I have. And a good friend of mine would be happy for me.

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He said Alhamdulillah

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I want home

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and he said, How much did he give the dowry for his daughter? Two to $3 and he sent $1,000 home

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for his daughter and his son.

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Now that is good father in the windy

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skirt, it was difficult to have to find these guys nowadays. Very difficult. A beautiful daughter alima Onsen and our army that you get $1,000 home.

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Now we talked about the second thing that a man should look for or sister should look for is that the husband should be haphazardly kitengela or

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it leaves a portion of the

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half first category.

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If your husband's a sister she's looking for to get married and your husband Mashallah he keeps repeating

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for every cell of our body step back I have an Alpina

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alley the saga

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I heard never

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other than follow

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the man has to be half

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or at least should know a lot of

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because of loss of Hannah with Anna talked about the people of Orion he said in Edina yet Luna Kitab Oh boy. What are camo sala unforthcoming marathoner home Sylvan Rania er unity gr Atlanta boo

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in La Nina yet Luna Kitab of La okitama those who recite the bukoba How do you know this person is good?

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How do you know? Nana Subhana Allah sometimes new Muslims have better concept. They understand Islam better, because I know them use them a new Muslim. She asked this young man who was proposed under how much of Quran do you have?

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Well, audio capital

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and she said next.

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The next

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is the brother doesn't have just a hammer.

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What are you going to do with it?

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You don't even have just um,

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how

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are you going to propose to him to propose to my daughter?

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Wow.

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I mean, I don't know about those. I'm not asking you. I'm not telling you what to do with your life. I would feel ashamed to go

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on proposals assistances. How much do you have rather?

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And as like, well

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I'm working on

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and I think Mashallah, I'm happy. Yeah.

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So she she, the brothers should have at least Hold on. I mean, what are all the most of the port on? The nav is on the long run? He was if you had an iPhone, what did he say?

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Why would he ask for it?

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Because

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nav is a hierarchical

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mental

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hierarchy. The best of you are those who learn the Koran.

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Now if if I'm looking for the best and the well being of my daughter when I want him to be a half, or to have most of the Koran

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come across a Muslim, Johar nav sobre la de was in namaha era for ob had Porky Tabby of Obama in the liar for beheaded cannon we had an academy of one way about

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a law will raise nation through this speech to hold on and he disgraced others because of

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only two individuals that we should feel jealous

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envy for what they have

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a half

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and imagine that a lot less than when

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you don't care you should not care what kind of vehicle this man drives

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with you're not even entertain his degrees.

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If the Quran is missing, if the basics are missing, then why would I have to worry about that leaves in the tree and a branch of the tree so useless

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are the Navy he says hi Rocco Manta lemon

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and this what they say what I have PhD how to count donkeys?

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Who was that?

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Who cares about your donkeys and your PhD if you don't have the basic hold on?

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Oh

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this is the only one you feel jealous

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is a man who memorized a book of the law and a man who have not other than that.

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who they

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are today I'm sorry about

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when he wanted to marry his daughter, his sister was looking for someone for his sister.

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And he looked at the people of Medina the Ensenada Maha jury.

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He looked

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for a person who has passed mama had memorized the Quran. Half

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so at that time, was over even

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under law route. Sani motiva, his servant, motiva Hadith, fabric in Minitab

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only five

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data in the law.

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And then he married his daughter with his sister from Christ in she's from the polish. Her father is

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an uncle his shaver. And our brother is unworried. When

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these were the chiefs of the polish.

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And he married her

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son, the servant, the man who used to be his asleep,

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because of the

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cause of a tabula.

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And he said, You marry my daughter, you marry my sister.

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The second person, the second, the third action story will conclude with this in sha Allah

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is

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the story of a lady who came to the messenger of a law and in the gathering of Sahaba, male and female, she stood up and she said he had a solo law. I gave myself to you.

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I give myself to you marry me. If you accept you're on inwardly. You don't need me. You don't need anything. You don't need witnesses. I gave you I gave myself to you.

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Don't try this at home your effort. This was only for the Messenger of Allah.

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Don't go to Tim Hortons system. Why don't you give yourself to me?

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This was only for the Navy had even for societally solid bodies, and Associates, and maybe even sisters, I want to marry you. You still have to go to her wedding and ask for his permission, whether he's a Christian or Muslim, whether you're who you are Muslim, you still have to pay him or her. You know, she has asked for all this before the Messenger of Allah was different rulings. So the young lady, she says era sobre la marry me.

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And the Messenger of Allah, he looked up and down. And he said, I don't I have no need for women today.

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Now there's another brother You know one of those broke so have you know the alone

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has no money?

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There was no and that's it. Yeah, basically. And then he looked after his wife, I I want to marry me She looks pretty good to me. If you don't want if you don't want to marry, marry her. So the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he said what do you have?

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En la? La I have nothing.

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He said, Go at Evita, Anika FOMO go to your family go to your tribe see if they can help you with anything. He came back you say auto sola I could not find all of them on what on welfare none of them have anything.

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None of them

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he says upon law none for Colorado law is a law Maharani he was suddenly on one ohata we had to go look anything for even a ring that is made out of metal. A ring honey.

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He looked Honiara sobre la what a hottie Manhattan's narrabundah

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for Han Solo Maharani he was setting them and then how he said

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Dada pseudo la like I got it. Yasuda la izadi

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I have my visa

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I can give her my is that as a dowry is to do with your user. If you give her your is he gonna be what? law Baker law MonaVie

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right.

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So if this is the case, what what is that do?

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So what would you do? He say no.

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Matter his argument in Lavasa lavista

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University

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and then he says Allahu alayhi wa sallam

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madama come in and

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would you

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know, degrees? He didn't say harmony. You know? Are you a good warrior? Do you know how to wrestle nowadays? Kids? Do you know how to play ball? You know, none of that.

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He's like, ma ma ma ma Kamiya

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con Surah Surah. T Qaeda. Al Qaeda. I have the sword and the sword and the sword and the sword.

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Karnataka when

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he say you memorize them. You like, you know, like, one of the words like, Oh, I know. Sora tillbaka. Well, okay. I mean, continue. Wait a second.

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And it brings them up. So you don't have

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the you don't have sort of

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here is it? you memorize it? Yes. You have them here. Yes. Okay. cardinham Khan, Academy electrica. Pema makanan is a go, I marry her to you for what you have.

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So then,

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number one,

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or

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number two, and then inshallah next week we will talk about that the man has to be from good.

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The good environment is important.

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Because some of the guys some of the brothers say why, you know, this guy doesn't want me to marry his daughter. He's arrogant. So this is what we're addressing. Sharla next week,