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So,

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in horns, knocking over here on a dog karate, when I will be learning you should already understand how we see the AMA and in Armenia

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when you

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want to show the world in Lahore, the hula Sharif

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam use

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my back referrals will learn him in a sheath on his regime.

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In the law, he could hold your salon

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lot

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Mohammed

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Ibrahim,

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Ibrahim in

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Donna Ibrahim

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Ali Ibrahim a

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respected listeners.

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For two weeks now we've been

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studying the Hadees of momineen and Chateau de la Juan,

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about her trial

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when she was falsely accused of

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the major sin of adultery.

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This is famously known as heavy throw if the heavy of the great lie. And we are studying the heavies from

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guitar shahadat for the book of testimonies from so here.

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This is the third week. And before we continue since we

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in the middle of the Hadees. I'll provide a quick summary of the background and what we've covered so far. And what are the explained

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prophets in the library was some of them

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traveled

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out of Medina in the month of Siobhan in the fifth year of hedger

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to launch a preemptive strike against

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a tribe known as the Bible study,

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who have been preparing for almost two years to launch concerted attack against Medina.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam marched with approximately 700 have added the alarm in order to launch preemptive strike. He met this nomadic tribe at a watering well known as what do you see, and their

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area of inhabitation was towards the south west of Medina, between Mecca and Medina, but towards the Southwest, closer to the sea, parallel to the sea. And that's when we see it was as well. He, it was a very brief

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skirmish.

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with minimum casualties only one companion died and a number of the enemy died. Following that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam married jawaid ear above the law one her who was actually the daughter of the chief of this tribe, whose name was the hardest ignore the there are

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a number of events took place, and one of them was his marriage to God out of the land, and then the freeing of all the captives as a result.

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Then, when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam made here began his return journey to Medina.

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The hypocrites, especially under the leadership, Van de la ignore waveless at all.

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They believe in no efforts,

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sparing no efforts and leaving no stone unturned in trying to sow discord amongst Muslims and causing problems they stopped. Further enmity between the tribes have also has an edge and between the Maharaja of companions and the unsalted companion so they attempt to and he even made some disparaging

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comments about the prophets in the life I lead with some of them.

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And there was a famous story of the revelation of sort of the one article.

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That was another major incident on the return journey. And then finally, towards the end of that journey closer to Medina.

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In one of the last stations closer to Medina, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam accounts with this habit of the love line.

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And one, as we know that, sometimes he would take some of his wives with him on a journey. And on this occasion in this campaign of when I'm studying, also known as a campaign of mortal You see, both refer to the same thing

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on this campaign have been studying the prophets and the love and he also took along with him, his favorite wife, one woman in a shadow of the alarm, and according some reports also almost set the alarm.

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When on the return journey, they were camped at this one of these final stations before their return before their arrival in Medina, the province under the law it was can't when all of a sudden he decided to resume the journey at night. So he instructed that an announcement should be made for people to break camp and resume their journey. When the announcement was made, on what we need at Chateau de la who was in her attempt, she decided to prepare for the Gen. Make immediate preparations. Following the announcement, She then went to answer the call of nature and went at some distance.

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When she returned, she perchance placed placed her hand on her bosom and realized that her precious necklace, precious more in terms of sentimentality, because that was the necklace her mother had given her. When she comes to me to her marriage, total sort of loss in the love it was some of them. It was a necklace of onyx

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stone, so she realized that the necklace was missing, so he must have slapped the bracelet the chain must have snapped and the necklace dropped. So she retraced her steps in order to look for the necklace. As a result, she was detained in the search for her necklace. And in her absence, the those who were tasked with the responsibility of lifting her holder, raising her holder and placing it on the camel just before the journey, and also lifting it off the camel and placing it on the ground so that she could embark on a land. Those were tasked with this responsibility, since they would never see her as this whole incident took place after the revelation of the laws of her job.

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They assumed that she was actually sitting in her holder in her canopied covered litter, but she wasn't in there. And the reason they never noticed was because one she was liked

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in weight. Furthermore, the there was a number of them, so the weight would have been divided. And it wasn't just her weight. In fact, it was a weight of the litter along with the drapes or curtains in the canopy. So indeed, they would not have noticed. So they assumed she was inside the placeholder on the camel and everyone regime the journey. She was detained when she eventually found the necklace, and she returned to the area where she was originally candidates in the town she noticed that the camp was empty, and

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everyone had left.

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So it was nighttime. She

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sat down and waited, hoping that the someone would return from the camp as soon as they realized that she was missing.

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She then fell asleep.

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When she fell asleep. She had covered herself but during the winter blankets but during the club dream Firstly, undoubtedly her she moved around and the banqueting club moved.

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It was a custom of the armies and other caravans at the time that they would have a rear guard and the rear guard would be responsible for following up after the caravan or the army and ensuring that there were no stragglers no last days.

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Sometimes, no one could be left behind. So on this particular occasion the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam had appointed a young companion known as the founder of the law firm, who was a companion, a pious companion by the words of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam himself, and someone who had embraced Islam not too long before this particular journey. So he had been appointed as the rearguard soul rear guard. And he came along fulfilling his job in the morning, after the break of dawn.

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And he saw a finger lying on the ground from a distance. So he came closer, that was his job. And he was still on his camera. When he approached, and he from above the camera he saw, and when the alarm rang her close up, and he recognized this and she saw her face and she explains how that what can the Iranian public hijab that he would see me before hijab had been revealed. So he immediately recognized me.

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Recognizing that this was the wife of the prophets of the law, it was cinnamon, one of the mothers of the believers. He explained in Maui last night live Roger on, and she awoke hearing his in that in that he went night Roger.

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He then dismounted, not single word was exchanged between them.

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And he held down the four legs of the camel with his own foot. And she then sat on the camel without to hold that obviously, and he then remained, dismounted,

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leaving the camera with the rains, and he resumed the journey.

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They arrived at the camp, where the prophets and the love it was cinnamon the Muslims were based ahead of them, they arrived in the heat of the afternoon.

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And when they arrived,

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word spread balance

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will be a lot one has arrived, and she was being led into the camp with supplying the model of the alarm. So word spread the Muslims, thoughts and the thing of it, but Abdullah hidden all the lead of the hypocrites, of whom I explained a lot in some detail last week. He having already tried to stoke

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a conflict, and having already tried to instigate problems amongst the companions. And failing in that endeavor, he saw another opportunity. And this time too, it was his nature.

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So as soon as he heard that he shouted the alarm on her or saw the actual of the alarm bounce off of the alarm, or entering the camp, he immediately began not just insinuating but rather explicitly making gross allegations against both of them to the extent where he openly said that he has done this she has done this and they have spent the night together. So he instigated this rumor and then his henchmen from amongst the hypocrites would also join the believers and I explained the reasons as to why they had accompanied the prophets alarm it was in particular Jen, they repeated the rumors. As a result, word spread in the camp.

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Chateau de la Huang, he was utterly innocent and unaware of all of this, and she merely resumed her place in the camp and returned with the profits of the law legal system, we had reached this point, so fine. So we will continue.

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No, she says,

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from paddock, meaning, he continued walking, I still find a Bill Martin Jacobi. Jacobi urashima, leading with me the with me seated, leading the mount meaning mechanical Dino jaysh until we arrived

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until we reached the army barracks, the man has little models seen feet

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after they had settled in the camp, resting in the heat

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of narrow means in the center or in the height in the height of the afternoon for Hillerman Hello

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So those who perished perished she doesn't go into detail explaining that oh they said this and they said that's because Hannah lunch human nature. Why would anyone want to traumatize themselves further by reminding themselves even with words and language of their ordeal. So she says for her Luqman Henoch, those who perished perish. It's a very succinct way of describing the ultimate consequence of the whole episode.

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She was innocent those who spoke ill of her patched so for Hillerman, HELOC those who perished perished.

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What can I live with the woman if gab de la hypno ob booster

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and the one who assumed the greatest lie

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while was Abdullah ignore ob ignore said all the chief hypocrites. This is where we stopped for Cardinal Medina. Then we arrived in Medina for state of Bihar Shahada. So I fell ill

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at Medina for a whole month.

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One now so you feel Buddha for your audience having if

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her illness was natural, it wasn't a result of the rumors because she was totally unaware.

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So it was just the hardship of the long and arduous journey and her fragile health, which caused her to suffer this illness Upon her return. So she remained ill for approximately a month

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for Stuckey to be harsh shahara so I remained ill for a whole month

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when nasty if you don't if you odious habit if whilst the people were indulging in the

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words, or in the statement of the people of the great lie, meaning I was utterly innocent and aware, Ill being nursed by my mother in my bed at home. And whereas outside in Medina,

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the city was full of rumors.

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And people were discussing my affair.

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We did even if you were Jerry

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and the law of Armenian, the BIA sort of the law, it looks for the Quinta army in America.

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And what caused me dance,

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in my illness or in my pain, was that I would not see that.

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gentleness from the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. But that's how I would normally see whenever I would fall ill.

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So it was the nature of the prophets of the love it he was one of them to be soft and gentle, to be caring, compassionate and considerate to men, women, young and old, and even children. That was his nature. And he was such with his wives as well.

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So she says that whenever I would fall ill,

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Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would take great care of me. And I would see

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his softness and gentleness and I would experience that and I would live with it. So the only thing if there was any indication,

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during this month of my illness, after my return from this journey,

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although it didn't lead her to any conclusions, she says, but it did cause me some doubts and concern, that the normal softness and compassion of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that I would see in whenever I would fall ill, I no longer witness that during this month,

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in my other one for you suddenly, for your own gain.

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He would only enter

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and say, and in one duration, it says it would only enter whilst my mother would be nursing me. He would enter and he would say Salaam Salaam Alaikum. And then the most he would say is beef with equal. How are you?

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Sure, we'll be shaman that

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had the NACA.

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I

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had no realization, I would not I had no realization of any of this until I improved, so she didn't fully recover. NACA means I improved, my condition improved, but she still didn't fully recover

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for

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whatever reason, whatever was

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So, Alan tabs I and

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the mother of Mr.

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Towards manassero a name of a place. What about resume? What about Rosina, which was our place to call answer the call of nature.

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Now, lane and Ella like

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we would not go out except from night to night

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with adequate public and to uniform. But even when we moved in and this was before latrines were

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built close closer to our homes. What I'm wearing my umbrella, umbrella aerobill a wedding. And our matter was the

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our case was a case of the early Arabs filbur reality of it

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in

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open land or in going out, let me explain this.

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All she's saying is

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I remained ill for a month. And then eventually, after approximately a month, when I still haven't fully recovered, but I had improved considerably. I went out one night to answer the call of nature. And how would that be?

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She says, In those days, our affair was the affair of the early Arabs, which is the nomadic Arabs, they lived a nomadic existence, and therefore they had no permanent residence. So when they would answer the court of nature, it would be in the openness. And people just go to a certain distance and relieve themselves. So she says that even then, in the fifth year of law, we hadn't we did not have any reserved place closer to the homes, which we used as washrooms or latrines. Rather, our examples, the example of the early Arabs, which is that when we would need to answer the call of nature, we would leave the homes and go out a fair distance. So what they would do, they would only

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go out at night again in order to maintain privacy. And they wouldn't go out alone, but the women would go out in groups and they would only go from night to night. Again, we would eat very little. So, that was a very

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frugal existence and eating very little surviving and very little there need to relieve themselves was also

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much reduced. So they will only go out for at nighttime and each night from night to night. Hardly ever during the day. So once a day and it will be at night. So she says that and they would go out and a group of women together so

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she went out one night

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when she was feeling slightly better along with Mr.

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Little Viola

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and where did they go? She says towards a monastic Manasa was the name of the place which was in the direction of the theory.

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So it's in the direction of the graveyard of Buffy. The

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so she says we went out in that direction to answer the call of nature. Who did she go out with? She went out with mister

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mister simply means a mother of mister.

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This lady was her grandmother's sister. So you're gonna abubaker of the law.

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This is an important note because Mr. Viola played a part in the affair of Chateau de la. So Mr. Hat will be a loved one that was a cousin brother of the Prophet Sall Allahu alayhi wa sallam. Sorry, he was a cousin brother of the alarm.

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And

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the alarm arms mother and Mr. Mother were sisters. So she was a worker of the alarms harleigh her maternal maternal aunt, so he went she went out with abubaker the alarm her father's maternal arms, meaning her grandmother, mother sister. So she went out with Mr. Mr. The mother of Mr. Towards Manasa an area in the direction of the beat in order to answer the call of nature

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to animal almost

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namshi faster female.

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So I

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went ahead with Mr. The mother of a euro that was her name. No she walking

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for thought of authority, the middle of the her when she slept in her

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Club. So her cloak had wrapped he had a clock wrapped around her but the end must have been trailing on the ground, and she stepped on it. And as a result, her foot was caught and she stumbled. So when she stumbled, she suddenly exclaimed for 30 seconds, Mr.

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May Mr. Parrish referring to her own son, she said may Mr. Parrish

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fotona her so I said to her,

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who was Mr. Little the alarm to shut off the alarm her her cousin uncle, her father's cousin, brother, and the son of this grandmother sister that she was going out with at the time. So she said to the house I said to her midsummer Baldy, Ill is what you have just said to Sabina, Rajan and shea butter.

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Do you abuse Do you verbally abuse a man who has witnessed the Battle of but

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why does she say that witness the Battle of but but there was the first major battle between the Muslims of Medina and the rage of Makkah, in the second year of his life in the month of Ramadan, 17th of Ramadan. It was a very testing time, because the Sahaba of the Allah had not gone out with the intention of fighting. They had only gone out with the intention of intercepting a trade caravan of the courage. And when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam eventually decided to face the pagans in that battle.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was concerned that the Sahaba of the Allahu anhu, especially the unslotted companions, would not want to participate in an open battle with the pagans of Makkah, because the Ansel had pledged to him that allegiance, loyalty and their support, but only to protect him and to defend the city of Mecca, not to go out and out of the city and actually engage in battle with the Grinch. But the unsolved so how about the alarm, I'm the 100 on hold with him. They reassured him that they would stand by him and not abandon him. And it was a very testing time the Quraysh came, they were hardly armed. They were weak, impoverished, poor,

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lacking armor, arms, and few in numbers, and the British Army was thrice it's the size of the army of the Muslims, fully equipped, armed to the teeth. And they were so confident and sure of victory that they brought along their entertainers and their singing girls with them, since they were confident that they would score and a decisive and easy victory and following that there were parts in the desert. So for the Muslims, it was a very testing time. And it was a test of their resolve and their will and their commitment to the sort of law. So the law leaving Islam in the face of huge arms, and our last panel with Allah, grant of them victory, this whole battle changed a lot. It gave

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credence and credibility to the position of Rasulullah sallallahu. It was a watershed and a decisive turning point for the Muslims.

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And therefore, from that moment onwards, the Battle of better was always celebrated even amongst us, how about have the love, and the veterans of the Battle of them were highly regarded and have always been highly regarded? No one, not even the veterans of

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the second battle that took place a year later, or any of the other subsequent battles ever held the same position or wherever held and the same is seen as the veterans of the Battle of butter where

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this was a greatest Mark they were known as arbitrary human, the buttery veterans to such an extent, they remember Hardy and Mr. Muslim and others. They relate the famous hadith of how they will not be built after the Allah I'm not related by him, but about that how they would not be built after the love and ropes a secret letter when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam the march intended to march against them. He wrote a secret letter to the people of grace warning them of the impending attack. So as a result, the element of surprise had been lost. And it was almost as though the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam his plans could have been foiled. But the Prophet sallallahu

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alayhi wa sallam was informed so he sends out either the alarm or the Sahaba and told them to intercept a woman who was traveling from Medina to Makkah, and she was carrying this letter secretly on behalf of how they would not be above their warning.

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The pagans of Makkah. So when the latter was brought Houthi, when we built the app was summoned, and he had participated in the Battle of whether he was a veteran of the Battle of better. And this was obviously at the time of the conquest of Mecca. So before the conquest of Mecca, so when the prophets and the love it was some of them, some imperative Nabi belta, the letter was produced, and it was read out in the presence of the Sahaba of the Alo.

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How to be belta Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, this was treachery. On the surface, this was treachery. So how did we not be able to I was given an opportunity to speak. So he has he pleaded the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and he said, The Art of salt Allah.

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I only did this because I am not one of them.

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I am not one of the orangish he was an Arab, but he's from

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the tribe have told you about who occupied the North Eastern Region of Arabia, many of them who were Christians, so he wasn't on the branch, or since he resided in Mecca, he was attached to the oration affiliated to them. And again, as I keep on saying, one can only understand the events of the Sierra and a lot of the hobbies and the politics of Mecca, Medina, when one understands a tribal dynamics, so how are we built, I says, I wasn't a member of our age, but I was attached to them and affiliated to them, because of their accepting me. I don't I didn't have family. So on this occasion, that I didn't have those who could support me, maybe hit family members in Makkah. So he said that I had I

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and others do not have family who can support me and protect me. So I hope that by doing this, at least, they will recognize that I have done them a favor, and they would regard it in my favor. And they would not persecute me or if

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or members of my family etc. So how did Moby want that when he mentioned all of this, He further added Yarra salt Allah, I did not do this as an act of treachery, or betrayal, or because of my renunciation of faith, or because of my displeasure with Allah and His Messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and what are the law and was standing there and he uttered his phrase, which almost everybody has memorized by now that any other sort of law other than wanna

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leave me or messenger of Allah, that I may strike off the head of this hypocrites, the prophets of the law, I'll even send them term to a model the alarm? And he said, No, oh.

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Well, now you three.

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What do you know?

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law law, but the law but the

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law but

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it is quite possible that Allah has looked at the people of but and said to them, Do what you wish for I have forgiven

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that was the rank of the veterans of the Battle of button.

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But even on this sensitive occasion, the prophets of Allah Allah who was seldom responded to this apparent act of treachery, and betrayal of the highest order, by attending Amaro de la I know Omar, he is a veteran of metal. And what do you know, for Allah me? In this version, it says, alarm me but in other narrations that Allah has said to the people are better

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if I

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can do what you want for I have

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so the veterans are better we're always held in the highest regard, highest regard. So Mr. Harold the alarm was one of them. Mahajan, who had traveled from Mecca to Medina emigrated, and he was also one of the participants on the veterans of the Battle of better. So at Chateau de la hora, and how also in order to describe his greatness and his piety. She didn't say anything else, she said to the mother of Mr. But at the Sabina Ludlum, but she hit the buzzer Ah,

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that evil is what you have just uttered. That may miss that perish.

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Now, why did the mother say about Mr. perishing?

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Obviously, the mother wouldn't mean such a curse, but the Arabs lack in any language. Sometimes words originally may have been rather strong. But gradually with excessive usage, the meaning or the harshness of the original meaning is diluted. So even the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he would use phrases such as Betty but your da May your hands be dusted which was originally a

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Quite a strong curse or quite strong word of abuse, or we won't be unto you. Again, it's not meant and this happens in languages. I'll suffice with giving one English example which I've mentioned before. People say Blimey, which doesn't mean anything, but the full phrase is not just blind. It's called Blimey. Call Blimey. And why do people say call? Blimey, you said very innocently. anything happens? Blimey, I saw this Blimey, I did that. Oh, Blimey, he did this, but the full phrase is called Blimey. And the original phrase in English co Blimey means God blind me. So again, it's one of those that he went the other way. It's a curse, but through excessive usage and the passage of

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time, it's lost the harsh and so it's original meaning. So call whenever you do a blinding. It means God blind me. So here as well, Mr. Mr. Harold the alarm on how she stumbled. So when she stumbled as we are prone to making explanations, she said very sinister. wobm to Mr. Mr. Parrish. So I shall be a lot more than has said, Why do you say that about your own son? and evil is what you have said. Do you do you abuse a man who has participated and witness the Battle of whether So Mr. Howe, the alarm rang her reply by saying for pilots, so she said, Yeah.

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Oh, naive and innocent one.

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Old naive and innocent, innocent one. And then this Mary, Martha, Have you not heard what they have said meaning the people. So it's not mentioned here but in another narration? She said no. What have the people said? So,

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the mother have missed the alarm Homer. She related part of what people had said about HR of the alarm on her which is that some of the hypocrites had instigated this rumor but it caught on that she had committed adultery and betrayed were sort of law some of the law it goes along with some final remarks.

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So she says in an iteration that when she said this suddenly for the hangman suddenly fever sees

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first brought me here she says

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if so she informed me of the words of the people of the line for that model than Hana Marathi. So I increased an illness upon my illness for the model Jacqui Lambie remember she hadn't fully recovered. So now

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she became even more ill for an amount of Jacqui liabilities when I returned to my house, the Hurghada your social life and the law legal system, the prophets laws messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam this me for God, for similar then he gave Salaam football then he said, gave the Hawaii football. So I replied it then the inner ear that grants me permission to visit my parents pilot.

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She says what a mahina is in a state of denial Hubbard I'm in Minnesota, Lima. And I, at that time wanted to confirm this news from both my parents. For then the little sort of lies on the law, or some sort of laws messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam granted me permission for overweight so I came to my parents, for me, so I said to my mother, my maid had the tenacity. What are people said about me? For Scarlet? So she replied she knew the mother knee? She replied, yeah, boo. Oh, my child, when he had an F sharp

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lighten the load on yourself or lighten the matter on yourself. For a law E for by a law, law and America County, Morocco. The

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rally is a beautiful woman

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in the region, by a man who loves her, what

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she has co wives in that family her except that they

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they go to extremes against

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Subhana Allah,

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Allah, may Allah be

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purified of every defiling Association, when the finance will be how other people indeed spoken of this.

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Now, let me just explain that. So she went to her mother

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She went to her parents. And then she first spoke to her mother.

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And she said, I'll never tell me. What are people saying about me? Because in all of this, since she had remained ill for a whole month, she was innocent and aware of what's going on. But

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people have been speaking, miss the mother was the first one who revealed this to her. And then she came to confirm this news with her mother. And her mother knew as well. So the mother, she asked her mother that what are people saying about? So the mother never repeated what people were saying,

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Pamela, even in this, there's a lesson for us.

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One shouldn't just as a shadow, the alarm rang her didn't speak explicitly, of her own ordeal. She never wanted to repeat the rumor or the lie, or people actually set

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is only by reference and by obscurity. She doesn't want to remind herself and hurt herself, or anyone else.

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We as well, and the mother also,

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being wise and intelligent. She never repeated any of the rumors to the daughter, and they're in there is a great lesson. One, we need to be careful of what we say to people.

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Sometimes we tend to repeat

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to our loved ones and our friends and family. what others have said,

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What does he achieve? He only adds pain. He only compounds the problem. He adds injury to injury. He only aggravates the pain, and he solves nothing.

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One of the orlimar rather famously said and I'm quoting the words of the older man, and this is actually part of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has forbidden the mean and the Mima means carrying tales and gossip, which includes all forms. If one person listens to things here, and then goes there and repeats them, listens to things there and comes here and repeats them. Such a person is an A man and a man a tail carrier, and one who carries gossip will not intergender in the words of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and part of the Mima part of that gossip and tale carrying is that we repeat to people what people have said about them. So people will say things about each

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other. People say things about each other.

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People have not spared Allah and His messengers aleikum. Wa Salatu was Salam. So

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people have not spared the harlot, the creators of the creation.

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We all have things to say about each other. And what good does it achieve to go and repeat the same thing someone else you only heard since one of the LMR rather, insightfully said that those who repeat other people's allegations, accusations, gossip, and rumors are not your friends, they are your enemies. But if they were sincere friends, they would not aggravate your pain, or hurt you. And the best example is, if someone spoke of our mother and father, the most beloved people to us, if someone spoke of our mother and father in a disparaging manner in a hurtful manner, would we go and repeat what people have said to our mother and father?

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Of course not. So in a similar manner. Anyway, there's a lot there are lots of lessons and morals from this whole story which I will in Sharla explain and go through right at the end. But for now, the mother did not repeat any of the rumors. She simply said she never told her what the people were saying about her. She tried to explain it away by saying Yeah, when a child it's rare hoping he had he not had an obstetrician

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lighten the load on yourself lighten the burden. And realize that rarely is it the case that there is a beautiful woman who is married to a man who loves her. And that was the case with Cheryl the Allahu Allah and Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Indeed, it would be good to say one or two words about her here. Indeed, she was the most beloved of all the wives to the messenger sallallahu alayhi wasallam.

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She was the only Virgin and previously and married woman amongst all of the wives or the otherwise we're divorcees or widows

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Furthermore,

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the

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In the shadow of the Allah and I was the youngest, and she was also the daughter of

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a lover and his friend, his closest companion, the one who had been kindness to him in his wealth and in his family.

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That's why right at the end, when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in his final few days on Earth, when he was ill, and he carefully and very deliberately, slowly ascended the member, and address the companions. In the final days, one of the words he uttered was that,

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indeed, the most favorable and the most generous and the calendar of all people to me, in his wealth, and in His family is Abu Bakr

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and I have repaid the debts of everyone except the debtor,

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for a lover repay

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what are

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the

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what are the whole little Islamic?

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And in another one, what are your sashimi and if I was to take any one as my best friend, I would take abubaker as my best friend, but no, I will leave my relationship with Abu Bakar as the Brotherhood of Islam, He is my brother and my companion, for Allah is my best friend.

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So

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when I cannot have an Islamic, rather the Brotherhood of Islam is better. So indeed the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam highly regarded Abu Bakar of the Ummah and she was the daughter of a worker, Cynthia, Allah.

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She, she was his most beloved wife. She was beautiful. And

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her mother explained that our daughter rarely isn't the case that there is a beautiful woman by a man who loves her and indeed, he loved her maps. He did love her the most. That's why when he in his final illness, he requested from all the other wives that

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allow me to be nursed and looked after in the house of a show of the alarm her. She was the one who held him in his in her position. And she kept on saying that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam left this world, cradled in her arms, with his noble head rested between her collarbone and her person.

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So she had that pride of honor. And she was indeed his most beloved wife. And the other wives felt this and repeatedly, they were, they would send work to him. As I explained a few months ago in that famous story, earlier on, in Mojave, that we demand justice and the daughter of Roebuck

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even sent him out of the law.

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And family model, the alarm hacking, see the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, first of all, they sent one of the other wives. So she came and pleaded, all of a sudden a model that she came and pleaded with the prophets of the law, it was a

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prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam did not pay attention to their complaints. So the other wife said, you have achieved nothing you've done nothing for us. So they then someone thought they might have the alarm her she was innocently said, go and speak to your father, we demand justice about the daughter of what people knew how much he loved her. That's why people would wait until that that was the background to that story. They would wait until it was his turn to visit shuttle the alarm on her and then they would send presence to a shuttle the alarm her or him whilst he was there. So the other wives felt p Why don't people send presence when he is with us? We are his wives also. And do

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not misunderstand, it wasn't because of their eagerness or zeal to acquire material items. It was a sentiment that we wish to be honored in the same manner when he is with us. So when in fact the model the alarm, said

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to spoke to the Father, the father profits in the learnings from said to her or Fatima Do you love me?

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And she said, Yes, Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Love her or

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if you love me love who I love, and indeed she was the most beloved of all the wives. So the mother said, Oh, my child, lighten the load and burden on yourself and realize that rarely Is there a beautiful woman was married to her husband who loves her well,

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and she has co wives in that family her except that they now here they does not refer to the CO wives. He refers to women in general at the time, it means that people, the women in general, not just the wives in law, family her except that they go to extremes against her. Why am I saying

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Because none of the wives ever said anything about our shuttle the alarm on that occasion, there were some people, men and women, but they were not members of the household. And none of the wives added to the room was all repeated, the rumors are believed in them. Despite their rivalry, none of the wives ever hurt, shall the Allahu Allah in this regard. So the mother tried to console her and said, this happens Don't worry Subhana Allah. So but in one narration, she says that when the mother confirmed to her what the people had said.

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She fell down unconscious,

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and shuttled the alarm on her, actually fell down, unconscious woman she was very brief. When she opened her eyes. She says At first,

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I shed tears and I wept issue repeating herself now. Aren't you shuttled your loved one who was extremely eloquent. And she's accurately describing her situation her ordeal her plans. What happens when someone is shocked, hurt beyond belief. First, the tears roll down and stream down one's face without any sound without any overt emotion. It's tears of silence shock, and then the emotions bubble. And then a person weeps. So that's exactly what happened with her. She fell down unconscious, very briefly, when she gained regain consciousness. She said a lot when the nurse will be Heather subpanel of law, and people indeed spoken of this, she couldn't believe it.

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This is why

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it's a word used in Asian languages as well. But that

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is an allegation. Even in Arabic and even in Asian languages, the word vaadin means allegation in the Quran is in sort of the mood in the same story. So panna cotta was done on Albion, may you be glorified? How that was done on Alvin. Allah in the Quran actually indicates to the words of Annie shadow Viola and her because when she was told, she says, Pamela,

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people really spoken of this, and a lot of things in the Quran.

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But why isn't that when you heard this? You said subhanak May you be glorified?

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Why didn't use a subpar law just like Arusha subs proud.

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of him. This is a great calumny a great allegation, a great lie. Well done, as you should, as I'm sure you've heard in order to learn other languages, means allegation. Where does the word come from? But for those of you who know Arabic, means to

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silence some utterly, utterly confound and silence someone in the Quran forbidden Latika, referring to the conversation, in which the king was utterly silenced for hidden Levy, ghafar, so he just believed was silence. So what means to silence someone?

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And that's where the word wartime comes from. What that means an allegation, which is so baseless, so removed from the truth, so surreal, that the only response that the other person can give upon hearing about them is silent shock.

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That's why it's called blah, blah.

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So, in a shadow, the alarm fell down unconscious when she regained consciousness. She said, Pamela, are people really spoken of this? And then tears started streaming down her face. Then the emotion welled up in her and she began weeping sobbing loudly. In another narration. She says that my mother was with me, obviously, a worker of the law, and then she said, Our mother, she asked her mother and she regained consciousness. She says, panela people spoken off this. Then she said, has the prophets the law, it was the number heard. So the mother said yes,

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she asked, as my father her.

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The same. The mother said yes, tears began rolling. She then began weeping, sobbing loudly. abubaker the alarm was on the was above reading. She says her father was above reading

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when Abubakar de la new office

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in May

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his pain as a father, that his daughter is being spoken of in this manner. What was his response? I shouted the alarm on her says he was upstairs reading.

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recite

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the vicar of Allah subhanho wa Taala

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recitation of the quarter. So when he heard and shadow the alarm, his daughter sobbing loudly and weeping, crying.

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He said to his wife, what is it with her What's happened? And the mother said, the mother of iron shuttle, the alumni replied that she now knows. So the father will walk out of the alarm has said, Tell her to go back to the house of Allah salallahu alayhi wasallam. So she went back, it's not mentioned here in another generation, as mentioned, she ran back. She then continues to tilaka later.

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So I spent that whole night

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all the way to morning.

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in such a state. Now you're probably dumber, but not a single tear would stop from my eyes will be known, nor would I adore my eyes with the portrait of sleep. It's very beautiful phrase of Arabic

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is what we apply to the what we call in Asian languages. growl is the what we apply to the eyes. And the Arabs have a saying God is adornment. It's a way of beautification. So how do we know means to adorn and beautiful beautify one's eyes with the bliss of sleep? So she says, Now you're only one

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that not a single tear would stop flowing, and nor could I adorn my eyes with the beauty of sleep.

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She was very eloquent from us back. Then I rose in the morning, for the outer sort of lies to love. It was some sort Luz messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam summoned and he Edna of the barley bin, and even though the barley or some of them dizzy then and or some

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of the Allahumma heinous

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when the revelation was delayed,

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so she had gone to her parents number what had to happen she at night she went out with Mr. She learns she then she was visited by the province of the law, it was one of them, and she then sought permission to go to her parents. When this happened to her parents. Her father said go back, she came back I the next day. Then she spent the whole night weeping.

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To morning in the morning, she learned that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam summoned the alarm, his cousin, brother, and all sound of the alarm.

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And samata moseyed was the son of zaidan. The Hadith of the alarm is one time adopted son and son I was his son. He was very beloved sort of sort of law, some of the law it was someone who was actually called headwater sword in law, the Beloved of the sword of law, and he was sort

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of the alarm. Later in later years. He,

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he gave some, he distributed wealth, and he gave Abdullah his son a certain amount, and he gave some organization of your loved one a much greater amount. So I'm delighted. The Allahu Anima asked his father, the father, this was when he was Khalifa. Now Father, you gave me so much he gave us so much. So I'm out of the love. I'm being as outspoken as he was. He said, Yes, the reason is, because

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he was more beloved to the law. So the law while he was sallam, the new everwhere just as his father was more beloved to the soul, the loss of the love it was, then your father was ever lost meaning himself. He was indeed delivered sort of sort of law. And so that was, in fact, the province of the law. It was the main one narration since your son was very young Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in one generation, he told and shadow the alarm her to love Osama if she loved him,

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but if you love me, love

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If you love me, love him. And, indeed, somehow the alarm was delivered to the province. The loved one occasion he injured himself and profits in the lives and took him in his lap, and he was cleaning him up wiping his tears. He was grazed wiping his blood and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was actually telling what some out of the 11 that imagine if you were a little girl, I dress you up in this manner and I do. I dress you up like that. So I dress you up like this. So he really loved what Sam Walton was either the alarm because he was a son.

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His one time adoptive son zeta mahadasha. So he's summon these two because they were close members of the family in the household, people who trusted people who he loved people who he hoped and trusted would give him honest, sincere advice. So he's someone valued. Nobody thought about Simon, when he went when he was delayed, not spamela. In all of this, imagine, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was waiting for an indication from the heavens. He was waiting for revelation. But no revelation was forthcoming. So since

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he was praying, he was hoping, and this was the test of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam imagine, he was the most beloved messenger of Allah. He received revelation from Allah. He was the closest to Allah, the dearest on Raw, yet he was subjected to this ordeal and this plight.

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He was a man of dignity and

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and he was a hurt in the most beloved member of his household.

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He was in anguish.

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And he was waiting for deliverance. He was praying for deliverance. And yet, on this occasion, where he was even delayed for a sort of laughs and Lala it was

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this was his test.

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And what a great test.

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So, the way it was delayed, receiving no revelation, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam summoned value of the love of animals simultaneously, that'll be a la Han coma. And he is the shirahama. She says, Yes, the shearable Murphy therapy,

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consulting them and seeking that advice about separating his family

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about separating his family. So why do these seminars do the alarm? I'm also model the alarm in order to seek their advice, or what should I do? Should I keep Anisha? Or should I release separate from her divorce?

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And the way she says is, she automatically fed up

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seeking that advice and consulting them about separating his family? She never said about divorcing me or separating me. Again, look at the choice of words. She can't bear to bring the words to her lips of the prophets of Allah it was separating her or divorcing her. So she references this by saying, seeking that advice about separating his family

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from Mount samata, Shara and he Villa de Anima, Phoenix, a human and would love him.

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So, he advised the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam of that which he knew deep down in his heart of

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love for them, ie the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam his love for Chateau de Allah. And what what did he say? So he said for Carlos sama, sama sama said, Look, they are sort of LA. She is your family or messenger of Allah. And by that you didn't mean to say that, look, you know, I don't want to get involved, or it's your family and that's not the meaning. The meaning is, look at your soul, Allah, the old messenger of Allah, she is your family, ie, Allah brought her into your Nikkor you being who you are, she is deserving of you. You are, she is deserving of you, and she is worthy of you. So what can be said of a wife that Allah has brought into your Nikkor of that caliber? Looking

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at a sword Allah in that was his own testimony in her favor, that she is worthy of being your wife.

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Okay, on a sort of lunch she is your family or messenger of Allah.

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Allah Hara we do not know anything about it except good. Why did he ask or Sam? Like I said, well, Sam Walton was a that'll be a loved one was beloved of sort of lust of the love and he was treated like a family member would come and go in you the inner workings of the household. This is why he asked him, and he also asked the idea of the alarm, so as to enable the alarm and what did he say? What maryjane and that's really football. So he said, you're sort of law on messenger of Allah. Then you leave them your loved one yourself. So

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Allah has not restricted things for your messenger of Allah. And women besides her ancient are many.

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Here we don't have the full advice but we have in other narrations, he said to the Prophet, similar

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lavaredo syllable messenger of Allah,

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Allah is not restricted. So you're not bound to keep.

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And there are many other women that you can marry. So divorce

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and married someone else.

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Then he couldn't explain in a moment. And then he continued, was telling the jury at the dock

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and ask the men need, she will speak the truth to you.

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The maid was burying the alarm.

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Now, on the surface, it seems to be a lot more advanced was rather harsh, because he said to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, Allah has not restricted you in any way. And there are many other ladies besides Arusha. So it's not mentioned here, but in another generation, divorce and marry someone else.

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But he also added and asked the maid she will speak the truth, tea,

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were the words of the alarm, I'm harsh, now. We have to understand something.

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I need to be a loved one and the others. were witnessing the pain and the anguish of a sort of lie.

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Especially since revelation was not forthcoming.

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And so, see you then earlier the alarms main concern was the health and the well being and the emotional state of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam because after all, he was a human being

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the Messenger of Allah was a human being

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last season

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alone, let the words not grieve you. He would be grieved. He was very sensitive from some of the love it was soft, humble, compassionate, and sensed.

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It was very sensitive.

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Someone so that when a law reveal sort of thing.

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Yeah, you're gonna be you're limited by the law or luck.

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That doesn't mean metadata as virgin

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or messenger of a low profits. Why do you make haram for yourself? What Allah has made? Hello?

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Why did he do that? The

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magic in the Quran says seeking the pleasure of your wives, appeasing your wives. And how did that happen? Maria, one of the stories is that Maria sorry, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam have started the alarm around her.

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argued with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. So in order to appease have started the alarm, and the other one is the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam went to the extent of saying and this is the equivalent, these aren't the words, but this is the equivalent of saying, okay, okay, I won't do it anymore. That's what he did. He said, Fine, to keep you happy. He didn't say to keep you happy. But that was the end result that Okay, I won't do it anymore. So he made something haram upon himself, which was Allah.

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So Allah even told him, of Prophet of Allah. Why do you make forbidden upon yourself what Allah has made lawful? And why do you do that? Only because the volume of data as logic, you seek the contentment and the pleasure of your lives. I eat at peejoe arms, he was very soft, extremely sensitive. He was a human being a last last age Do not let their words grieve your messenger of Allah. People said things it would hurt him, he would grieve him. So imagine his states. On that occasion when these rumors were swirling around about his most beloved wife. So there'll be a lot more and seeing the state of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam, and only being concerned for his

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welfare and his well being, he said, O Messenger of Allah, it was equivalent of saying, we can't see better to see you like this, and for how long can this continue? You will not get if the way the revelation is not forthcoming, then you will not get a definitive answer. If the revelation is not forthcoming, then you will not get a definitive answer. We can only tell you so much a messenger of Allah, we can tell you that we only know good about her. But if your revelation is not forthcoming, and this continues to hurt you to grieve you and to play with you, then our messenger of Allah Wouldn't it be easier if you then do not if you then not restrict yourself since a lot is not

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restricted you and you do not divorce her for your well being this is not to suggest that we

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Except to believe anything that's being said about, but in the states of agony and confusion and uncertainty, because will lie This is what doubt of death. This is what doubt does. All it takes is for someone to come and whisper something and retreat, that's what's referred to in sort of the mass will are all the way up in mass Milliken, NASA and NASA mission was worse than

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saying, I seek refuge in the lord of mankind.

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The Sovereign of mankind,

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the Dead Sea of mankind.

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From what, Michelle, from the evil of what or who it was worse, was the retreating whisperer. And was was the whisper amass the retreating and what's the meaning of it was worth 481 miles from amongst the jinn and from amongst the man, it's the SWAT some cameras, from the jinn, we understand well from human beings. You know who that was wild masses, is someone who comes and all he or she has to do is come forward.

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Cast, one word, whisper one word, and retreats, come back, whisper another word, and retreat. That's all it takes. And then that seed of doubt, once is planted in the mind. There's fertile soil there. Man ruminates man things man reflects, man ponders that one gem and seed of doubt, grows, it's fed, it's irrigated, and it grows, it sprouts into a bird. And then a plant, a stem, a stalk, it has branches. Soon, it's not just one tree, there's a whole forest of dams in a person's mind. And it all stems from one seed of that. And where did that come from? Someone had to plant it, that gracious farmer was none other than Allah suas. Or Hannah's the retreating whisper comes.

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casts one seed of doubt, whispers one word and retreats. Allah protect us all.

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Once there is doubt and uncertainty, the quality of life is reduced. So that dance was there for the sort of loss of the law, our legal system was hearing these rumors, undoubtedly one can understand his agony, his pain, his anguish, that he goes to the extent of asking your loved one asking someone as young as Osama the son of z.

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That what what do you know? What do you know? Is there anything you can say? Do you know anything he has ever been to Joshua the allowing her? How do you know anything? Have you heard anything? Have you seen anything? See the fragility, see the sensitivity?

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Even of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam. So early, it will be a loved one was witnessing this? And he felt so concerned? Is that a messenger of Allah? How long can this continue? We've never said that. I'm pero. I'm explaining that this would have this is equivalent to saying how long can you continue for? How long can this go on? For? Why the why this confusion? Why this pain or messenger of Allah? Allah has not restricted you. And therefore Wouldn't it be easy if you for your own sake, that you separate from this whole situation? And you separate from her if this continues, but and this is why I say he did not suggest that the rumors were to be believed in any way. Because he

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added, however, if you feel that you still want to make further inquiries, then the best person to ask is

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called Maria, the maid and she will speak the truth to you. She knows you've you've asked me and I'm telling you, there's nothing wrong. We know nothing wrong about her when I'm nothing but good. But for how long can this confusion continue on messenger of love your own sake. Allah has not restricted you. Why should you restrict yourself willing to bet that if you separated from her and relieved yourself of this pain, but if you still wish to make further inquiries, ask Maria, the maid. So the prophets of Allah It was then summoned to buddy era of the Ummah and

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just bear with me, it's just one more sentence what happened when she when he's somebody to hold the alarm? So for the out of sort of love, and the love of

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam summoned the body either. But do you know how the love was made? Who would come and help in the house of Allah shadow the Eliana? She was very close to her

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So he said, Yeah, buddy. Oh buddy, hello, ATP, Harsha and URI buki. overeater. Have you seen anything in Arusha which causes you to dance? For pilot Marina to Sabrina replied la one lady Martha COVID name by He who has century with the truth, nothing in a moron

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experiment and the harder it is to sin than a gene for the dodgy no Fatah.

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She said, it says, I've only seen one thing. I have not seen anything which I can criticize about her. In her I mean her Ameren as a missile. And he had up in Napa for those of you understand Arabic, I have not seen in any shadow of the Allah.

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Anything, which I can criticize ever, more than the following more than what more than that. And the hotjar person, she is a young girl. She is a girl of young age, very young girl. No more energy. She goes to sleep when being tasked with the responsibility of the dove.

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For that did that you know for that goal, so the goats comes and eats it. What does that mean? It's mentioned elsewhere. She says in an in another narration. She says the artist will not I don't have anything to criticize about. By law. We know nothing of her been good. She's young, she's innocent. She's naive. And what happened once. The one thing I can criticize is that once I was

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I needed some dough. And after kneading the dough, I had to go and find some wood to light the fire so that I could cook the bread. So I said to her look after the dough until I come back with some to ignite the fire to light the fire. So I told her to look after the dough. When I came back. She was sleeping and the goats have come and eat and Adele. So she wasn't she's naive, she's innocent. That's the only thing I can criticize about her.

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For karma Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam so that same day after consulting ad, or sama and Maria de Allah, the province of the law it was seldom stood on the member and spoke to the congregation for Sahaba of the law. It

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will end there. That's another chapter and inshallah we'll continue next week.

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May Allah azza wa jal give us the feet and Stan the words of Allah and His Messenger some of the lahardee

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What's the law most of the manner after he was a Vietnam human while he was

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a lot more behind the commercial and like in that and stuff, it'll go on to be like

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