Khawla Bint Hakim & Uthman Ibn Madhun – The Righteous Couple – The Firsts

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now have the last a lot of cinema and also de la vida la he was like me he woman Wilder. So shout wattana Tonight we continue in the first and I want to actually say something that will excite some people that next week in Charlotte's either we'll be starting with Ahmed Rouhani alongside and I'm going to get that out of the way right now. Why? Because I think for the last 10 or 15 holocausts, people say when are we going to talk about almost all the law on who what are we going to talk about online? Why is it that we haven't talked about Omar yet?

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Anyone know?

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Because he wasn't one of the first to embrace Islam, right? His his embracing Islam comes after hamazon, the Allahu taala and who we spoke about two weeks ago, and inshallah tada there is a unique connection to the companion that we will talk about today to honorable Cotabato the Allahu anhu. So it kind of sets us up now to move into our model the Allahu taala. And obviously, I won't be able to do all of the suit of armor, just as we did apobec it will be Allah on home, and it is not may Allah be pleased with them. It will be a few helpers in sha Allah to Allah where we go over some of the ways in which our model the law on who influenced the Muslims early on, or was influenced by Islam

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early on, and then some of the things that he is noted for some of his distinctions as being one of the first to embrace Islam so he will be the last of the first or not the last actually, we'll cover one more companion after him and shout lots out before we go into that hedger. So today we're actually going to cover a couple and that couple is hola been attacking him and rethymnon even neroon May Allah subhanaw taala be pleased with the both hola Vince hacking is commonly mistaken to be Abuja de la. The woman who pleaded to the Prophet salallahu alayhi wasallam about her husband, who knows what her name was. It was could have been something else and mujaddid and a woman who

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pleads

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it's okay to guess wrong by the way. Does anyone know hola been to cola bint Salah sola didn't start another is an majorda solar been tacking is married to Earth mounted in Milan, she is not the same holder, though it is very common to see them mistaken for one another. So when we talk about these two and Charlotte's out I want to mention a few things. Number one, they are considered to be from the first 20 to embrace Islam, some of the scholars put Earth man and Hola, as the 14th and 15th person to embrace Islam. So we're talking about very, very early on in Islam. They are from some of the smaller tribes in Mecca so they are makin, but they're from the smaller tribes of Christ that

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are not considered of the more influential ones. So they're protected by nature of being kurachi but at the same time, they don't have the defense that some of those larger tribes have when they would become Muslim. Now one of the most interesting things about Earth Nam or the local town hall and I think that one of the reasons why he gets lost is because he shares the name with arithmetic and iPhone well the although I honestly do believe that one of the reasons why we don't talk about him so much is because of his name being shared with or if not have an iPhone. Or if man even mother rune is actually the maternal uncle of Abdullah. Norma and hafsa. Bin Toma. Okay, what does that

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mean? the sister of Earth man, Zainab bint Maroon Zainab bint Maroon is the wife of honorable hardtop. Okay, well, the Allahu Allah and so Amaro the law and who is married to Zainab bint mother rune, the sister of rethymnon ibn neroon, and she is the mother of Abdullah and Hassan May Allah subhanaw taala be pleased with them all. Therefore, sometimes, and this is something this is why it's important to know the names of these people, especially when you do heavy literature of the love No matter what narrate from Paddy from my maternal uncle, and he's talking about Earth mount of another rune, and it's under

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That he's talking about earthman or the Allahu taala. And because he is the maternal uncle, so he shares that, that lovely connection of being connected to honorable hilltop or the Allahu taala. And, and when there is none of the A lot of times it will convert it to Islam. We also know that Zainab converted to Islam at the same time, but she kept her conversion secret from Allah subhanaw taala. All the Allahu everyone around him was becoming Muslim, including his own wife, and everyone was hiding in front of him because no one wanted to be hurt by him. Right? So he's thinking about his sister, right? And that's how the story unfolds. His own wife had actually already embraced

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Islam, according to some of these historical accounts. Also, his brother, Abdullah and Kodama. So three of them all embraced Islam. All three of the siblings of Earth man embraced Islam when he embraced Islam, Abdullah Buddhadharma and Xena at some point soon after, and he is of course close to as we said, hafsa and Abdullah, bin Omar are the Allahu taala and Homer. And this is one of the most powerful narrations to just think about probably one of the most blessed hours in Islam, one of the most blessed hours and it's not that one of the narrations says that in the same hour, or if not a bit more their own. Aveda Adnan hadis Abdullah bin

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Abu Salah rubedo abor Aveda nirjala all embraced Islam. Jammie anfisa, Eitan wahida in one hour. That entire group embraced Islam with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in one hour, so I'm gonna say it again. It's not another rune, or VEDA no Harris, Abdurrahman in Abu Salah, Abu Zubaydah in Java, all met with apobec ldlr Tada and one subsequently the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and embraced Islam within the same hour. And they went back to their families and their families embraced Islam as well. So he is extremely close to the very first people to embrace Islam. And he was known as being someone of extremely lovable characters palette, there's something about all of

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the commands in the Sierra honestly, that they all had this character that made them beloved to the people. So he's known to be respected, extremely honest in trade, loved by the elites of Christ, even though he was not amongst them. And a man by the name of Lolita, Molina used to refer to her if not another own as his nephew, and used to protect him and used to love him and did not want him to be persecuted. This is the same man who Allah referred to in the Quran multiple times for his persecution of the Prophet slicin him but he loved the earth man and didn't want anyone to touch him out of another room, even years after he embraced us now. So he's beloved to the people. And he also

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has one of the most powerful explanations for why he refused to drink alcohol. Before it's now you really only find a handful of people that avoided alcohol before slump, even the nobles, right? casual drinkers. At minimum, they drink sometimes in their festivals, everything about Jedi culture about the culture of the days of ignorance surrounded alcohol, they drank in their worship, they drank in their parties, they drank in their funerals, everything was drinking for them. Okay. And it's not even that their own was one of the few people who said that's not for me. And they asked him why he would never touch alcohol. He said, Why would I touch that? Which would and listen, when

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he says, You he will actually while you're a COBie man who will add nominee? Why would I drink something that would cause me to lose my mind? and cause those who are less than me to laugh at me? Why would I make a fool out of myself and lose my mind? and cause people that are less than me a nominee, meaning the fools and the people that are considered, you know, the lower people in terms of their other than their o'clock and their characteristics? He's not boasting with his tribalism? Why would I let them laugh at me and make fun of me while I lose my mind in these parties? I'm not interested. So that tells you a lot about his character. And it's actually a very powerful line

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because you don't find many people that thought that way, in the time of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam before the revelation came down to prohibit alcohol in stages, it was so sensitive that you saw the alarm has said that if alcohol was to be forbidden in Mecca, the people wouldn't have been able to handle it. Like that tells you enough about their attachment to a hammock, to alcohol and to wine and the likes. So anyway, we have not another rule or the law of Thailand. And hola Vince hacking or the Allah hotel and the only thing we know about hola in the initial days is that see embraced Islam as soon as man came home, and then she became extremely close to Khadija while the

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Allahu tada Allah and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. She was known for her intelligence. She was known for her knowledge of medicine. She was known to be a matchmaker, which is her most famous distinction By the way, she was the person that would match couples in Mecca. Okay, and jack, Leah and Islam. She was the person

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And that would marry off husband and wife and she was a person who was known for her concern for the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam so she became a close family friend to Khadija, the Allahu taala. And her and to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. Now, if not have been miserable the whole time I'm home when he embraced Islam. He initially did face some persecution, and he was chosen by the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to lead the first migration to habitat the first migration to Abyssinia. Remember, there were two migrations to avicennia, who led the second migration to Abyssinia which was the more famous one

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Jafar or the allot of time, right, so Jaffa will the law and who led the second migration to Abyssinia which was the larger one. But if not been another one was chosen by the prophet sallallahu wasallam to lead the first migration to Abyssinia. And they came back when they heard the rumor that the people of Mecca had embraced Islam. And when Earth man in maroon and Hola. Came back to Mecca. Well, he didn't mahira who again is a persecutor of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. He told him, Look, you have nahi Oh, son of my brother, don't go back to Abyssinia, you're under my protection, no one's going to touch you when you're under my protection. And that actually happens. Imagine a

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man so arrogant, that hates the profit slice. And for whatever reason, due to his luck, his dealings with Earth not have enough room, he loves or if not have another own so much. He says you're protected by me. And I guarantee you no one in Mecca will dare touch you while you are under my protection. And so it happens. Or it's not even my room was so protected by and when he didn't move here that he could go out publicly with his Islam and no one would dare touch him because of the power of an elite, an unbeliever. And it got to the point that he felt bad, because he sees the persecution of the poor Muslims. And as he sees the persecution of the poor Muslims, he thinks to

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himself, you know, what makes it that I'm protected and they're not.

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So because of that, he actually goes to it what he then he tells him, I don't want your protection. Can you please take away your protection, tell people to don't tell people to leave me alone anymore. I want to feel what they're feeling I want to be with the poor Muslims, I want to be with those that are being persecuted. So after insisting within what he did when he didn't want to let him go, and what he said, Fine, you're free from persecution. Now, of course, that doesn't mean that he's going to become fair game The next day, and they know how much of what he did. Molina loves him. So they're still not going to attack him right away. Until it's mom, even mother on one day

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says I was walking around the character. And he says there was a poet, and this poet was the famous lobbied and he was speaking and he was giving his different poetry and lobbied or debate

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as normal the last time who sat down, he heard him say that everything other than Allah subhanho wa Taala is belted is to perish.

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So he said, that's a nice line of poetry. So he told him, so not a great line of poetry. Good job. He's sitting amongst the Meccans. And he said, that's a really nice line of poetry. Now, what he really means by that, in the context of jelly is that everything but the divine will perish. And then he went on to say that every single nirma every blessing is expires. And there is not another normal the alonside and who said kidnapped? You've lied because Janna paradise does not expire. Paradise is a blessing does not expire. When he said that

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lobate said, you know, yeah, Marshall Quraysh this young man amongst you insults me, you're just gonna let him take it. And then someone gets up and says he's one of the foolish Muslims. And then Earth man of another only takes exception to that. He says I'm foolish. I'm just correcting the poetry that he said, eventually, he gets punched in the eye or it's not even met, it only gets punched in the eye. And he had a serious injury to his eye as a result of that skirmish. So I'm worried goes to it's not a matter only says listen, I'm taking you under my protection. And I want you to stay protected. I want you to be safe. I don't want anyone to hurt you. So he said don't

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worry about it. And he said I can take care of all of the different tribes of Mecca. Just stay under my protection and earth not been Maroon all the time and he responds and he says the protection of a lot is better than your protection. And he said the only thing I regret is that he only punched one of my eyes. And the other this I went FISA beaten the other I escaped. So he said the only thing I regret is that this I didn't get punched as well. He said he did so if man resented the protection that he was getting from an IED because he felt the privilege as he was watching his brothers like blood and hubbub and others that were that were being tortured for the sake of Allah subhanho wa

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Taala. Now let's get back to Helena

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Alongside john Kohler, the wife, someone who develops this close relationship with the Prophet sly someone Hadees all the alongside on her and she will become, she will become known for making two of the greatest matches in history. When Khadija with the Allahu taala and her passes away as they get close to the time of the

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holder, or the Allahu taala and her she checks in on the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam and his family and she used to prepare food for them sometimes, you know, realize that the prophets lie some of them did not marry when he was married to the devil, the Allahu taala and so he's alone and the Prophet sighs some took his time to remarry. So she brings food to the house of the Prophet slice alum. She checks on the Prophet sallallahu wasallam and eventually she says to the Prophet sallallahu wasallam Look, it's time for you to get remarried. I think it's time for you to get remarried.

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And the profit slice on was hesitance Why? Who am I going to find like Khadija right? He was so attached to for these all the time, that the profit slice on was not yet ready to get married to anyone else. So eventually Hola. For the Allah tala Anna, she pushes the envelope with the Prophet salallahu Salam until she says, Listen, it's time for you to get married. And I suggest to people for you. The Prophet slicin um, said Who are they? She said, one of them is elderly, but she has a lot of humor and she can bring much joy to your household. She's a widow of one of your companions. And she's not considered marriageable to most people. But she will come into the house and she'll

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basically bring joy to your house right? You know, you've been in difficult times and dark times now the house is gloomy after the death of Khadija hold the hotel and there's a lot of weeping and a lot of tears and a lot of sadness. So she'll bring life and light to your house who was that woman?

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soda or the

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soda been to summer or the alongside and home we already spoke about and her husband who passed away was a saklan even while the Allahu taala and who knows Zelda and Hola. Were friends in Mecca, but they also lived together and Abyssinia.

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Okay, so realize that that community of people that went to Abyssinia, you can imagine how close they got right as the small community of Muslims that lives as a minority in this Christian land. They developed a very strong bond together and you see that those bonds lasted even after Medina that those that were close to each other and Abyssinia even after they migrated to Medina they became the best friends because they already bonded for years together when all they had was each other so hello is very close to soda in Abyssinia. So she said to her, she said to the profit slice I'm Look, I suggest soda into Zima. And I suggest that you saw the Allahu taala Anna who is too

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young for marriage now. But when the time comes, then she will be a suitable match to you. And here's how she introduced I said to the prophets I send them she said to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the daughter of Hulk Allah he like the daughter of the most beloved person in the world to you. And the Prophet sighs I'm immediately knew she was talking about a bucket. So the other person that I suggest for you is the daughter of the most beloved person in the world to you. It is a Beckett acidic, or the Ola hotel and the profit slice on them. He hears her out and she pushes and the profit slice of them says Okay, you know what, let's karenia in the Houma somehow

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humble the profit slice and I'm as he doesn't say, Well, in that case, let me go into start claiming, you know, my spouse's, it's not the profit slice. And by the way, he could have married whoever he wanted, anytime he wanted the profit slice a lump could have had, you know, 10s and 10s and 10s of wives and hundreds and he could have chosen what he what he wanted to, and no one would have disputed who does not want to be married to the profit slicer. But he's so humble. He says, you know, what, mentioned me to their families, and let's see where it goes from there. So, Hoda will be alongside Anna, she takes this. And she I mean, when you talk about an involved role, you know, like

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I personally, I did a lot, I've performed a lot of marriages, when I see like someone that I didn't account for 510 years later, I'm like, I did that, you know, kids came out of that and like I take some pride in that, you know, like, I got to marry those two, like imagine her she gets to walk around and be like soda and

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that's me.

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The profits license best relationship is best friend, someone he loves more than anyone else after the double the Aloha. Goodness he like he said, I made that connection. She could say that right? That's her claim. But coda wants to go about this strategically. So Hola. While the Allahu taala on her first she goes to soda, about the Allahu taala and her and she says to so that, you know what would you think about being married to the prophets lie Selim and so it almost fell down like Wait, what? Why, you know, because again, so there was not

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Considered even marriageable to most people at the time.

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So she said to hola you think he'd want to marry me? The Prophet slice? So double the alonside on her response? and says, Would you want to marry him? She said, of course.

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So hold on hold the level on her says I got it from here.

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Hola goes to summer not so the hola goes to the father of Zelda. And he was an old man he was considered very rough, a man of very few words, just very rough. He was he was a, you know, blind at the time, really not, you know, not involved much in society, but how law or the law and how wants to go through the proper channels. So she goes to the father of soda, but the Allahu italiana. And she says to the father of soda, that, you know, oh, Uncle, I have some good news for you.

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He said, What is it? And he wasn't even Muslim at the time. He's thinking about tribes and he's thinking about nobility and thinking about lineage. She says to the father of soda, that Muhammad ibn Abdullah Abdullah palazzos, he makes it a point to mention the lineage of the Prophet slice on like, you know who he is. He's interested in soda for marriage. So right away, he shouts out and he says cufon Kareem said a noble max. He doesn't care about the religious part of that, like, wow, okay. Mohammed Abdullah from Ben Ohashi the tribe, right? He's a noble match for a soda. So he says, you know, to hold on the line. How does she want that? Because he knows how close cola is to soda.

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Does she want that? So Fela replies that she would want that. So he told her to call soda his own daughter. And he says to so that this woman claims that Mohammed Abdullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam wants to marry you. Are you interested? And she nods an affirmation that she's interested. So this is one she gets so married to the Prophet sallallaahu Selim. That's her first match. Okay, so panela everything all the hate all the goodness that would come out of that marriage is as a result of her. Then she goes to the mother of it shall hold the other one. All right. One little man who was the wife of Rebecca will the Allahu taala and who and the mother of a subtle the alarm and hold

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us really smart she likes to build up suspense. So she goes to Oman and she says mother at holla at a commoner Haley well Baraka wow you people are so lucky. You're so blessed what has Allah subhana wa tada chosen to send to you of goodness and blessing. Hayden Baraka romances What is it? What are you talking about? So she says that I heard the prophets lie some yes guru I

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heard the Prophet slice on mentioning he saw the Allah on

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an omen oh man was ecstatic. But, well wait a minute, I have to wait for a pullback to come home. We've got to talk about this as a family. I mean, let's let's let's discuss this. And by the way, this is one of the you know, probably one of the most conclusive proofs that there was absolutely nothing wrong whatever the age of it sold the law and how was it was completely appropriate that time she got married because being suggested from hold level the Allahu taala on her. And she was certainly of marriage age at the time she married the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that's the first conclusive proof the second one is that when double beckel, the low tide comes, he's obviously

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you know, he loves the idea. But But he has two things that he says he says, number one, isn't he my brother? It's panela. But the profit slice is my brother. That's how close Wilbekin was to the profit slice. And I'm, you know, how's this gonna work? Because, you know, he's considered my brother. So isn't this his niece? And of course, the profit slice explains that as close as you get, you know, when you say, my brother, my sister, that that does not do away with the ties of mom, or does not involve any of the actual rulings of the Sharia. When it comes to that, which makes a person how long or hell and what was the second thing that Oh, buckle the law and was concerned

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about?

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Anyone remember? I did a lecture on the age of it shuttled the a lot of time. We went into detail with this. To me, it's one of the most, I mean, it's just so panela such an easy way to dismiss the islamophobes. I tried to come up with a lot he was so young when she married the Prophet slicin. Anyone know?

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He she was engaged.

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He saw the Allaha was engaged. And she was engaged to a debate even more time rhodiola hotel, and I say debate even multimember rhodiola on hold, but jubair became Muslim way later at that time, he wasn't Muslim.

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So most of them had mentioned, or he had, you know, consulted and Milton and apobec

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you know, as a family, right, they had agreed at a time that it should hold the law and how would be married to debate and military

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So he wants to get out of this engagement How does he get out of it? Well, debate refuses to become Muslim at the time. So the engagement is broken off by debate and multiminer issue of the Allahu taala and on the basis that he is not yet a Muslim

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Okay, so hola are the Allahu taala and she coordinates knockin at the profit slice I'm just go to a whole bucket with Ilan himself and have this conversation of course he could. I mean, he they just you know, these are the two that are gonna make kids laugh together, right and go through all these things together. But cola or the allow Tatiana is taking this matchmaker role all the way to the end. She goes back to the profit slice Allah mentions the objections, she comes back to elbow Beckett, and they are ecstatic. Of course, you know, Russell's lie seldom is going to be related to me, of course, this is perfect. And when he told me a long time it would come of age, then the

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marriage would be consummated years later, after that, but she was the one who made the match between the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam and sell them and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and Isha so I just want you to think about this now we know that God died he said I'm also would come to the Prophet slice Allah. And they're also lost I'm sorry, saw Jubilee Ronnie his Salaam showing him how he shoveled the lavorgna in a dream. And that's where I saw the Aloha used to take pride over the rest of the wives of the Prophet slice that I'm that I'm the one that got married off by Djibouti right gibreel Allah His Salah is the one who showed me in the dreams of the

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Prophet sallallahu wasallam so that's one of the ways that she would take pride in in you know how Allah subhanaw taala facilitated that marriage. But hold on all the Allahu taala Anna is the one that is working this out on a practical level. So she is known for this and every single Hadith from our shuttle Viola Han everything we take from our mother is Ella Han. It may be that Allah subhanaw taala assigns a share of that good to Hola, or the Allahu taala and her for being the one to bring them together. That's enough to say wow, like Subhana Allah how much good Has she probably attained by every narration from it shall be alone, about the profit slice of him as well as everything that

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the Prophet sallallahu Sallam did? himself. So this is the household of hola at Earth man. Even mother rune May Allah subhanho wa Taala be pleased with them. Then the heads what happens? how little the Illa NFC does nothing else in life she's good. I mean, she married off you know, she formed the first two marriages of the prophets lie some after the death of Khadija about the Allah tala Hana, but then they make their way to Medina and they settle in El Medina and by the way, this makes them from the people who did three hits of us free headshots. They did the Hitler the migration to Abyssinia twice, and then they did the hits a lot too and Medina hunedoara as well. And

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they settle in El Medina and hola continues to maintain that closeness to the household of the prophets of Allah hearty wisdom. She's a confidant of the Prophet slice Allah. She is someone that the prophets lie some trusts deeply. And she's someone that continues to check in and continues to be an involved person in the life of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam on earth not have been ruined or the alota and who is a close companion, the beloved Companion of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Now when they got to Medina, Earth might have been Maroon or the Allahu taala. And

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he began, became more involved in the deen. And as a result of that, he actually wanted to be a monk or something of a monk, meaning he wanted to remain in celibacy. He wanted to pray all nights fast every day. And he didn't want to be involved in the dunya anymore. So he's one of those people. You know, the Hadith of the three men that came to the house of the Prophet slicin inquiring about him, some of the narrations say one of them was actually or if not, then by their own will the Allahu taala and seeing, you know, how he could basically abandon this dunya abandon the life of this world and focus solely on the worship of Allah subhanho wa Taala. And the way this became known to the

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prophets lie Selim was that one day thrown out on the low tide on her visited out he shuffled the Allah on her as was common, as was common. And she was wearing you know, beat up old clothes and she looked like she really did not have anything to do with this dunya right. Just it looked off. And so I saw the Allahu Allah and he asked Hola, or the Allah and what happens? So she said, my husband and his man has no need for this dunya he fasts all day, he prays all night and he no longer has any chahatein no longer has any desire for companionship, he's gone. Basically. He's spending all of his time and everybody very similar narration about a Buddha and,

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and the story of Superman and fantasy. So he took that, that path, where he just wanted to worship Allah all day, fast all day, pray all night, and completely abandon companion

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If at that time so our issue about the Ola hotel and had told the Prophet sallallahu wasallam about what Earth man, even though their own had done, so the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he summoned Earth man of the maroon or the Allahu taala. And, and he said, la silica Theo's, which one has Santa? Do you not have in me a good example, the best of examples. And restaurants are better jasola of course, a messenger of Allah. So the prophets lie. Selim said, I fast and I break my fast.

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I pray, but I also sleep. And I enjoy the companionship of my spouses. So, you know, why are you turning away from my son? No. So it's not the mother or the law of Thailand, what that point is, is the eldest a lot, I'm not turning away from your son. And he abandons that lifestyle, but that shows you where his heart was at. And also that the profit slice of him is also getting involved in her, you know, Home Affairs and helping her out, right, helping her out after she was the one that connected it said to the profit slice, and I'm so surprised that she married it. So the profit slice, and then the profit slice on became aware of a dynamic of her marriage through it. So it'll

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be a lot of time. So it shows you the way these two households are connected. So after the profit, slice on talk to talk to him, he sold a lot of data and said that sometime later, Hoda came to visit. And she was dressed so nicely. And she had a good sense to her. And she just looked like a completely different person. So I said to her, what happened to you, she said, basically, now I'm treated the way that a woman should be treated.

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You know, 100 of the profit slice on top two are smarter than Maroon or the allowance. And he went back to being the way that he was supposed to be as a husband. And as a companion. Another incident that takes place where there's not another one or the other. And one of the eye art that we reveal on a concert that we recite on a consistent basis was revealed in his presence of the love and Ambassador, the Allahu taala. And Homer said that one time the Prophet slicin was sitting in his courtyard, and earth might have been Maroon or the allot of time who passed by, and he smiled at the Prophet, slice alum. The prophets lie, some smiled back at him. And the prophets lie, some told

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them, why don't you come sit down with me. So the father basically come sit down, so they sat in the courtyard of the profit slice, I'm basically in front of the place where the profit slice and would sleep. And there's not a lot of data and who said, we started to have a conversation, and then the profit slice and looked up. And he looked down. And then he looked to his right, and he looked to his left, and the profit slice, I'm looked back up, and earthmen, the neroon or the Allahu taala. And he said that, you know, he did it again, where he looked up to the heaven, and it was as if the Prophet slicin was trying to hear something, he was capturing what was being said to him. So he said

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that I said to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, Yasuda, Allah, I use, you know, I'm used to sitting with you, but I've seen you do something today that I've never seen you do? And the prophets lie. Some said, What is that? He said, I saw you raising your eyes to the heavens. And then I saw you looking to the right and looking to the left. And then you looked back up, and it was as if you were trying to capture what was being said to you. And the prophets lie Selim, when he said, he says to Earth man, did you notice that? And if man had been Maroon or the law of Thailand who He said He noticed it now? What does this tell you about the Prophet slicin when he would sit with him?

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How was he when he would sit with him?

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This is a very easy answer. By the way, it's not complicated. How was he when you would sit with him? very attentive. Right The Prophet sly some would look you in the eyes, he would not look away if you know the profit slice and would not you know we even know that he had a ring and he threw the ring to the side because he felt bad that he was being distracted by the rings. So the profit slice on was extremely attentive when he was sitting with you. So this was odd for the Prophet sallallahu Sallam to look in this way. So the profit slice on them he tells her respond in Mandarin or the allowance how to handle he said Juliet it his Salaam came to me

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shortly while you were sitting, that debate it his Salaam came to me during this time while you were sitting with an earth mammal the a lot of time and who said he was to luck. What did he reveal to you? And the prophets lie Selim said that he revealed in Allah yet Maru Bradley what ersan what eater is in Cordoba, Lion her and in fascia he will moon Carrie will bury your Illuminati will come to the Quran, which you hear every single Friday, that Verily Allah subhana wa tada enjoins you Bradley will ascend with justice and excellence, and to spend upon your relatives, and he forbids you from lewdness and from wickedness and shamelessness. And he exhorted to he admonishes us so that

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you may take heat. So if normally a lot of times responds with something very powerful and very beautiful. And you know, you think about Subhanallah the journey of yaqeen in the heart of certainty in the heart or if not even your own all the time.

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He said, It was at that moment that faith overwhelmed my heart. Like he man walked out of he called me like faith really took over my heart like I already believed in the profit slice. But is that the manner his faith increased? He said, faith overwhelmed my heart. And he said, and I truly loved the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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So how long I mean, that's, that's a very interesting insight from him, because I've already told you about everything he's been through. This was the man who in Mecca, said, you know, they punched one I wish they punch the other eye, who's already migrated three times for the sake of Allah, who wanted to abandon this dunya for the sake of Allah. And he said, You know, I look at that moment. And something about that moment that I are witnessing revelation Come on the Prophet slice I'm in that way. He said, he man penetrated my heart, it overwhelmed my heart, and I truly loved Muhammad Sallallahu it was up to who I love the profit slice of the true love at that moment. So it shows you

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some Pamela, that no matter how close you get to Allah and the messenger, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, you can always get closer. And Subhanallah you might think that you've reached the point where your faith is connected, and then a loss of parents are connects you further that the journey of certainty is a lifelong journey. It continues to penetrate the heart, as long as you are nurturing the heart with that which solidifies emotion inside of it. So this is even true. In the case of one of the first people to embrace Islam, who saw everything that happened with the Prophet sallallahu. It was set up, up until that point, that's how the majority of what we learned about

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Earth might have been within the allotted time and who after that, and hola is about death. Because there is man, the mother on the outside and who did not live long after the hyjal Okay. When they migrated to Medina, he is considered and this is a very interesting first, by the way, he is the first of the mohajir team to die in Medina, the first of those who migrated from Mecca to die in Medina, it's very significant, very significant. Right, these people left their homes for the sake of Allah subhanho wa Taala. Obviously, you know, people in Medina, the consob, were used to death and burial in that sense, but he is the first person who came with the profit slice them to die in

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that state to die in the state of being a refugee, and being persecuted and fleeing for the sake of Allah subhanho wa Taala. And the Prophet sallallahu wasallam was very emotional, very emotional over the death of Earth, not of another very emotional we take so many narrations of the grief of the Prophet, slice alum from the death of Earth man, the mother in law, the law, and some narration say he's the first to be buried in rebirth here. And the correct opinion is he's the first mohajir to be buried in a book here in Medina, not the first person, but the first of the Maha Geodon because we know of the death of consumers and they'll have them for the long time. I know some of the inside of

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that passed away that were buried in a book here, even if it was outside the bins, rara a few of the people of Medina before him, but he's the first of the Maha Jeannine to be buried in the book here next to the Prophet salaallah Hardy, who was sometimes Majid and when the prophets lie some learned of his sickness Rasul Allah slice them entered in upon him and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he actually was there, comforting or if not another one or the Allah tala, and as his soul left his body. So it also loss Isilon was by his bedside when he passed away and obviously, the only thing they say is that he died of a fever, some sort of illness that overtook him, when they you

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know, sometime after they migrated to Medina. And when the Prophet slicin witnessed his death, they say that the prophets lie sometimes, eyes began to flow with tears. So the tears started to drop from the eyes of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. And also last night, some gave us a sooner By the way,

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even there no matter See, this is not necessarily as soon as they say it establishes the permissibility he kissed the forehead of Earth, madam and made their own all the time. So the narration the permissibility or the, the the, the act being liked, recommended act of kissing your loved one on the forehead after you do the listen after they pass away, is taken from this narration of the Prophet slice Allah with Earth man of another rune, or the Allahu taala and Subhanallah they say that the face of very phenomenal the amount of talent who was was was at ease and joy, and the eyes of the wetness from the tears of the Prophet slicin was still fresh and moist when he kissed

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the forehead of Earth man had been their own or the Allahu taala and the Prophet sallallahu wasallam took him and also loss I sell them himself

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took part in the burial of Earth mondamin with the rune or the Allah tala, and it was first companion who migrated with him to die in in Medina.

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In alibaug, here, and another act that is established from the death of Earth man of another animal, the law of title is the permissibility, of putting a stone on top of the grave to market. However, the prophets lie, some forbade writing into the stone. That's why some of them are not allowed, at most, maybe a name or a date or something of that sort as an identifying marker. But the prophets lie Some said, Bring me a stone, of a different color, something that I can put on top that will distinguish his grave. And also the last little lahardee was something he called him on a temporary IE, on the grave of my brother, which is a means of affection and also the loss of I sent him set

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and I'm going to bury next to him, whoever dies of my family.

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It's kind of lost when you go to the buff here. Where would the grave of Earth mount of another room be when you go to the book here with the wives of the Prophet slice him and his children? So he's somewhere right in the middle of the family of the prophets lie some that passed away, in Alberta here as soon as you get into a book here. So this was the first time where this is the proof the evidence that we take, that it's permissible to put some sort of identifying marker not out of extravagance, not to write into it or to put some sort of, you know, decoration, but to do so simply to mark the great is from the death of Earth month, then the rune or the Allah hotel, and the

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Prophet salallahu it he was selling he said to him after he passed away, he said, Rocky McCullough who yet Earth man, may Allah have mercy on you on you, oh, Earth man, now have hopped Amina dunia what a far better mentor. So beautiful, beautiful statements of Han Allah. Not azopt Amina dunya, what are our Sabbath mink, the dunya was not able to touch you, nor did you touch the dunya the dunya took nothing from you and you took nothing from this dunya like you came into this world, you took nothing of it, and it took nothing of you. And the explanation of that, that the scholars mentioned from the eloquence of the prophets lie some is that the dunya takes of you and your good

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deeds or your character. Right, it might take away your character might change your substance, it might change you as a person, your faith, your character. And whether it's mom or the dad and who he did not allow the dunya to ever change him as a person to ever change his substance to ever change his character. nor was he seduced by its wealth. And also we find that when or if not even the rune or the law of time, I know passed away. Oh my Allah Al Ansari, who was the Ansari woman in whose house the family of Earth man settled, remember the mahadji loan settled in the homes of some of the onsite Alma Allah comes to the Prophet sallallahu sallam, and she says Jada sutala I saw Earth man

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and another rune in a dream. And he said, I saw I even touched

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like this river that was just flowing for him, like he's looking at a river that is flowing for him, and the Prophet slicin and said that camello those are his good deeds. My lost pounds, give us rivers of good deeds Subhanallah the flowing good deeds of him like how, how beautiful to be described to panel after your death by the prophet slice of him like, it's as if he has a river of good deeds, like they're just flowing to him in his grave right now. from every direction, all of the hate that he did is coming to him, but all the Allah to Allah and him and his wife, Hola, radi Allahu taala Anna. She has a beautiful poem. for him. It is very, very hard to translate. It's very

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eloquent. But she says yeah, I know Judy be demmer invitee mamnoon and Rosa tears man in the room. So first and foremost she says that on the tragedy Oh, I pour your tears without pause later mamnoon so you know without ceasing let your eyes pour out the tears and nausea tears man NEMA their own on the tragedy on the death of Earth man in another room. And she says to the level men therapy the succeeded phone, barbell back here hula who are actually I think I might have mixed it up.

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Yes, barbell back here. Allahu sukhna wahat okkadu wa Ashleigh, Katara boho minbar de 15. So she continues and she says, All eyes pour your tears without pause on the tragedy of the death of Earth man and another own glad tidings to my lost loved one who we just buried to one who now lives in the pleasure of his creator.

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And it's a very long and very beautiful. I skipped the line. I'm sorry. So I'm going to read it again. Yeah, I know. Yeah, I know Judy B Deming Lady mamnoon Allah Razia tirath montigny Mela rune and Britton Butterfield one Hi, Lee. So this is the line that I missed to the one who now lives in the pleasure of his creator. Now you live in the pleasure of your Creator and to the tuba human factory, the shock Seamoth phone bah bah bah clear hula hoops sukhna avacado wash rocket auto boom in 30 to 15 that basically

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The Earth opens up, it brightens up to receive him after the tribulation, the fitna of this dunya. And what a pure abode. This buck here is for a person like Earth man, even though their own about the Allah hotel and who also lost it. Sam loved him and praised him so much that it said that one of the daughters of the Prophet sly son passed away the profit slice on comfort and said follow in the path of an abroad and in the path of Earth mounted Maroon, or the Allahu taala and to the, to the ultimate abode of agenda so the prophets lie some is even, you know, connecting those that come after that passively after its might have been that their own or the allowance that I know that they

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follow him into agenda. May Allah subhanaw taala allow all of us to follow are from Adam and with their own will be allowed to enter into an agenda. After the death of various management of their own or the Allahu Hola, or the Allah hotel Anna was left behind in Medina, and she was in this obviously precarious situation at this point. And she is one of the people who offered herself in marriage to the profit slice. So she's a matchmaker, and she offered herself in marriage to the profit slice on but also lost my son would marry people, obviously, in various situations, the tribal alliances that took place through the marriages of the Prophet slicin and other things. And

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so the prophets lie some did not marry her. There are other women that presented themselves to the Prophet slice Allah. And this is how Allah subhanaw taala According to him, and Kathy Rahim, Allah and others, one minute tune in what about nafsa Khalid Nabi, that a believing woman who presents herself to the Prophet slicin, to be married to him, he shall the Allahu taala and he says, This is referring to Hola. And some of the scholars mentioned that one of the things that we take from this is the righteousness of hola that Allah referred to her as in Ratan Mena as a believing woman. So Allah subhanaw taala praise her eemaan praise her belief, even though she was not one who would

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actually end up marrying the Prophet sallallahu it was set up and there were many women who wanted to marry the Prophet slicin but the prophets lie Selim did not marry them. So hold on all the time, who remained unmarried after the death of Earth might have been met. There will be a lot of Thailand, and she narrates several of the Hadith that we have until today, one of them the rules will be Kelly Mattila eternity in sharlee mahalo. The Prophet slice have said that when you stop at a place and you say, oh, there'll be keti Mattila. Tamati Mousavi mahalo I seek refuge in Allah is perfect words from the evil of what he has created, that nothing will harm you until you depart from

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that place of yours. Also some of the Hadith about Listen, for women in particular, she narrates some of those Hadith and she became a teacher of some of the most prominent of the tab every one of them was on would have been had the disease like him a whole lot on. So we talked about her relationship to honorable Cotabato. The Allahu, obviously through her husband and the children of our middle of the law town. And Omar bin Abdulaziz Rahim Allah narrates from her and narrates from hodl the law refers to her as an emerald asylee

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again, a form of praise the righteous woman, so I'm gonna have another disease would would refer to her in that way. And she is also the Allah Tada. And on top of being one of the first to embrace Islam and those that did the three heads that was a hadith narrator a teacher of the tambourine. She is, of course, you know, known and bathed in light Allah rewarded for the role that she played in the Prophet slice of life more than anything else being the matchmaker for the first two wives of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, after the death of Khadija adiala Hotel Allah Allah, may Allah subhanaw taala Have mercy and be pleased with her and be pleased with earthman given that

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there will be a long time I'm quoting May Allah subhanaw taala join us with them Allah I mean, inshallah to Allah our next Sahabi is almoner Maha Bob a lovely Allahu Tada. So you can stop harassing me and saying when are we going to do a homer we're going to do tomorrow the LA hotel and trust me it is a joy to speak about honorable Fabiola. I know the brother in law of Earth not in another room all the time. So inshallah tada with that, go ahead and I'll take questions inshallah this

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