Aisha bint Abu Bakr (ra) – The Love Story

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snowcone comm Welcome to over the counter

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hardwood St. Mary ministry phones ology with some data from Mr. Heyman hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen whatever the one that you learn a lot I mean what are people to dealing with suffering along with Saudi with certain radical radical Rasika Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam early he was talking to yourself this human cathedra sha Allah Tada as I get started just a reminder to please inshallah Tada watch the children to make sure they don't knock over any of the equipment hamdulillah Rami it's wonderful to see so many people here tonight despite the weather to learn about our mother it shuttle the Allahu Tada Anna and of course secondly just to reiterate to everyone to please support

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insha Allah Tala the efforts for our brothers and sisters in Syria and in Turkey. So inshallah Tiana, the brothers from the Syrian forum are here so please support them in sha Allah Tada before you leave tonight, and those of you that are watching online please do support Inshallah, tada the efforts through the Syrian forum or through any other trusted organization that is on the ground. But in the Nani Tada. Now we continue with the art you shall know the title and as I said, I'm going to break down the story of it shall the Allahu Tada and her into four lectures. So the last time we spoke about, you shall know the Allahu anha growing up, and then her marriage to the prophets of

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Allah who I knew he was setting up the wedding, and just a glimpse of the amount of sacrifice that would be needed to live in the house of the messenger SallAllahu Ani, who was Saddam, the way that they had to struggle with poverty. You saw the Allahu Anhu talking about the fact that they didn't own furniture, they didn't have utensils, they would not have a hot meal for months on end, and he shall be alone. And he's still talking about how incredible the household of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was. And so what made this household so special, was not anything material, but rather the love that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam had for aren't you shall have the

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Allahu Tada and the way that he brought his character home. sallallahu alayhi wa salam. And tonight in sha Allah to Allah, we're going to focus on one thing, and that is the love stories and the romance and the dynamics of their relationship together. And next we can Chatelet title we'll talk about some of the hardships, including the greatest hardship to add a shadow the law on her being the slander that she had to face and Hadith to live as well as the death of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So tonight we're just talking about the love story, the love that the prophets lie some had for her and the love that she had for the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and this

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beautiful relationship that develops over time. And we can say without a doubt that this was the most beloved person to the prophets of Allah who it was salam because he himself said it's the very famous narration of Omdurman also the Allahu anhu, who embraced Islam relatively late. I mean, this was a man that oppressed the prophets of Allah when he was sent him quite a bit. This was a man that went to Abyssinia to try to undermine the first refugee mission from the Muslims to go and settle and Abyssinia and fought the prophets lie some and yet Subhanallah when he becomes Muslim, it just shows you what type of person the prophets license was. Well sola sai some treated him with so much

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love, that he thought maybe he's the most beloved person to the Prophet sign Sunday, just because of how the treatment of the messenger and his salatu salam was towards him as soon as he embraced Islam and the Prophet sites and I'm used him as a commander in the Battle of that assassin so I'm gonna be honest, wants to prove a point. He asks the prophets lie some in front of everybody ya rasool Allah au Nursia hadn't really like oh Messenger of Allah, who is the most beloved person in the world to thinking there is no way he's not going to say my name.

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And the prophets lie Selim says without hesitation, Isha. And that's something that they did not understand at the time. How are you going to say at Isha, right? So no, no, I'm not talking about your wife. I'm talking about the money out of civil law region, not the not the women. And the prophets lie. Some said well, Abuja, her father of Wilbekin on the outside and home, and the fact that the prophets lie, some said a boo Ha, rather than a Wilbekin her father means he still connecting his love to Abu Bakr to the love that He has for our Isha. So I love Keisha, and then I love her father. Then he said, Okay, then fine, I will work it has been your best friend forever. We

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understand that He said, Then Omar, he said then who he said then it was not. He said, Then he said then Ali, he said that I stopped asking the prophets I send them because I thought he'd never say my name. So it shows you two things number one that was so lost I someone had the capacity to treat people with so much goodness, that they would have thought even after short, enter

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reactions despite a history of oppressing him, that they might be the most beloved person in the world to him, and that the prophets like Selim had no shame in saying that the most beloved person in the world to him was Isha. But all the Allahu Taala on her one Ibiza And subhanAllah the majority Rahim Allah. He says as he narrates much of the story of Arusha he says, Oh, well done, counterfeit Islam, taboo. Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, Aisha Radi Allahu Allah. The first love story we have in Islam is the love of the prophets lice and I'm Isha. Now obviously. Khadija with the low Anna predates, you shall have the Allahu Anhu but we don't have that Sierra so much because it's

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makin Sierra, we have the Sierra have a shot of the Allahu Anhu and the prophets lie Selim in explicit detail, and it was witnessed by an entire community of Muslims over a span of time. And so it's this detailed love story and what Asili is saying, as if to say that if you know this love story, you don't need to know any other love story that this gives you the true dynamics of what a love story should look like in the capacity of loving ALLAH SubhanA Tirana and of course, in the case of it shall be low on her loving the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and he then goes on to mention some lines from Hassan Busaba till the Lolita and Hogan hubba have the soft will would

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demean her for us. Bahat taboo will be Heafy genital Haldimand Zilla Halle Illa to Hiral Kalki webner to be Warsaw heavy Phil Hardy is Canna Isla Molina. He says all the allotted time I'm hoping that this was the person that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was made to love due to how Allah subhanaw taala favored her with a particular type of woods, meaning she had the keys as we said to the heart of the Prophet slice of him, she knew how to show love to the Prophet slice them in a certain way as well. And so she deserved it forever, for all time in Jana to fit a dose because remember to read it, he said, I'm sad to the Prophet, slice alum that this is your wife in this

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life. And in the next she is your wife and Jen as well. And then mentioned that she is the wife of the best human being and the daughter of his best friend, his companion in the cave when no one else was with him. SallAllahu It was Sunday. So the prophets lie some loved her and she loved him in a way that was unrivaled. And here's the beauty of that is that everybody in the community knew it's except that that also posed certain problems for the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam so you might remember when we talked about the unsolved the unsolved use to pay close attention to everything the prophets, like some light, everything that made him happy, and they wanted to make him happy.

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sallallahu alayhi wa salam and they noticed the love the prophets like some had for it sort of the Allah and has so what did they do? They would save all of their gifts for the night that the prophets like some was without Isha. So when they wanted to send the prophets like some food, they waited for the night that he was without each of the Lavon when he wanted to send any gifts, they waited for the night that he was with each other the Allahu anha and they did that out of their love for the prophets lice and I'm except that that made the other wives of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam pretty unhappy. So we'll start from this place insha Allah Tada alright, you saw

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the Allah and herbs. He says that for the wives of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam couldn't has been we were two groups, they basically form two cliques amongst them. She said that it was me Hafsa Sophia and soda me have son Sophia and soda, soda and Isha obviously. We talked about the dynamics of their relationship, may Allah be pleased with them. Hafsa and Isha have a similar you know, connection to the prophets like Selim, their fathers or the prophets, like some his best friends, and Sophia or the Allahu anha. For whatever reason she joined that click right. Then she said the other click was own selama and all Habiba and the rest of the whys of the prophets lie

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Selim and we've talked about some of them. And there are reasons for that on selamat Habiba older also spent time together and Abyssinia, right, they have personalities that drew them together. And there was a lot of the Mecca versus Medina dynamics playing in that as well. So he says, she says basically anytime we got into an argument we'd always resort back to these two clicks. Right? So she said that the wives of the Prophet slice I'm starting to complain that the anzar only son gifts on the night that he's without a show. So they said to Onsala model the Allahu anha go to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and tell him and yet more anassa and you will do law who am I can tell

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that told the prophets it sounds like make a hotbar and say, Oh, I'm sorry, bring me gifts. In every one of my households, stop bringing me gifts only when I'm with Isha.

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So I'm selama is entrusted to go talk to the prophets lysozyme and say can you tell the unsafe to do this? So I'm sorry I'm out of the low and I came in if you remember Subhan Allah I'm sad about the Prophet slice I'm respected. I'm sentimental, the Allahu Anhu a lot when it comes to her fifth, her knowledge her scholarship, her wisdom, she's unparalleled all the Allahu Taala Anna write the story of the BIA and so many other things so on Salah model the Allah Allah had a certain voice with the Prophet slice on them that everyone recognized right that the Prophet slice and I'm used to consider what she said very very seriously. So she came to the Prophet slice and and then she told the

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prophets lie Saddam. You know what they said? And the prophets like some stayed silent. Then she came back and said it again. For La Mirada, allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he didn't answer her sallallahu alayhi wasallam and then she said it a third time, and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Yeah, I'm selama LA to the Nithya Yoga for inner who Allah human as Allah Allah Yael why you wanna see the half in rotten mean Karuna rehab. Oh, I'm Salama. Don't hurt me in regards to Isha.

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Because I swear by Allah that the revelation has not come when I was with any other one of the spouses except for you shall have the low on her meaning Allah Subhana Allah to Allah sends you believe it has Salam with the walkie when I'm in her home as well. And there's something there about the idea that the prophets lie some the saying that Allah has privileged her with something as well. The fact that Allah sends the gift of revelation to her or to me when I'm with her is a sign of Allah subhanaw taala his love for her as well. So don't make this a big deal. Don't hurt me in regards to Aisha Radi Allahu Taala Anna, this is not something I can control the prophets. I saw

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them as being fair with everyone but this is not something I can control. I can't tell the Assad when to send gifts when not to send gifts. And the fact that Allah Subhana Allah, you know, has shown some love to each other the Allahu Taala and her in regards to her righteousness and she's one of those who saw deplete it, he's Saddam as well. Then don't bring this up too much. Let it go. So I'm southern model the Allahu Tada and he says, to eat Allah human adaxial Rasool Allah, I seek refuge in Allah or I seek forgiveness from Allah from ever hurting you a messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So that should be the end of it right? Now. They go to faulty model the

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Alana and they know you know, on Southern model the law and has the elder states person, right? She has the wise voice, the voice of reason, that can always speak in the prophets lie some benefits. And people love to listen to her opinion because of how why she is the trouncing or the Allahu anha that's the heart of the prophets license. Right? Everyone knows the position of Fatima with the prophets, including the wives of the prophets like some including it surely ALLAH and oh, by the way, Singh, faculty model the Allah and his relationship with the Prophets license is very different. So they went to faulty map, or the Allahu anha. And they said, Can you go complain to the

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prophets like Selim, about the fact that the unsought are only sending gifts to Him? When he's with it? So will the Allah Allah, so faulty model the Allah and how just out of a sense of obligation, she goes to the Prophet slice of them? And he says, Listen, you know, ya rasool Allah, you know, they're saying, can you ask the unsavoury to send gifts? When you're with all of them and not just with each other? The Allahu Tada and so the prophets lie Selim, what does he say to her?

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He says, Yagoona you too? Oh, my daughter,

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Ella to have been in the hip. Don't you love what I love? So he he knows how to talk to his daughter SallAllahu and he was faulty model the Allah one has a copy of the Prophet slice and um, she looks like him. She walks like him, she talks like him the prophets, like some gives her you know, his spot. She gives him his spot. I mean, their relationship is so beautiful. So the prophets lie some doesn't even need to reason with her. He just says, You love what I love, right? So faulty model the Allahu Anhu says, of course, I love everything that you love. So the prophets lie some pointed to, you shall have the low on handset, heavy, heavy.

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Love this one. So far to metal, the Lavon has said, I love this woman and I'm moving on. So she goes back to the wives of the prophets lie some and she says, I'm not going back the end of that.

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Then they appointed Xena but all the Allahu Taala All right. And as you'll see, once we get to Xena but all the Allah and Husayn have been judged on the Allahu Anhu as a member of the Allahu Anhu and you shall be allowed to had a dynamic with each other. All right, so they used to argue the most. And so Zainab Radi Allahu Anhu comes in and he shall have the Allahu Taala and her says that refer outsole to her that she started to raise her voice and she started to talk down at Isha and she started to say all these types of things in the profit slice. I'm just sitting there, and I saw the logo and he said I was boiling. Like my blood was boiling. I wanted to respond. I was waiting for

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the profit slice and them to give me permission

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The province is um let's zoom in a little the Lavon had go on and on and on and on and she crossed a few lines meaning she actually went a little bit too far and belittling it in the province like some was a fair min. So the province lays on him said, he said go ahead.

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So I settled the alarm on her said so I spoke and I spoke and I spoke until I silenced her. I mean, she literally says what a Skepta I literally silenced her to where she couldn't say anything in the profit slice and I'm set in her not to be bucket. That's the daughter of bubble bucket. Don't involve me. You asked for it. Right? You started talking about her that way. You asked for her to respond to you that way. Right? So the prophets lie Selim allowed you some of the Allah and had to respond in that way. Now, why did the prophets lie? Some I'm saying in a nutshell, Abby Beckett was able Beckett unknown to be, you know, aggressive or angry? No. What was he speaking about? He was

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speaking about apobec LDLR on his intelligence, his beloved, the fact that he was so eloquent that he could structure his arguments, there'll be a lot of talent in a way that you had to love and appreciate the eloquence and the, the intelligence of Abu Bakar. So when the prophets lie, Selim says, if not to be better, some of the scholars say that he's simply saying, Look that's Isha, I can't help you. Once you offended her that way, she's going to respond to you in like manner, and you deserve it. Or he's saying sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that he saw the Allahu Taala and her has a certain eloquence which we will see Subhan Allah and intelligence that came out as well when she

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started to argue back with Xena, about the Allahu taala. And now here's the thing. The Prophet signs some feared volume to an extreme, he feared oppressing people. So sola Seisen was very thoughtful about how he engaged these types of concerns. And he would listen and Subhanallah one of the things that aren't entitled The Allahu Anhu narrates is that the Prophet slice and I'm used to frequently make your art. So she said that he was equitable with his family sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he did not wrong anyone. He gave everyone their equal rights. The way that the prophets Iseman was critical Quran. His character was the Quran hidden wrong. Anyone from his family sal Allahu alayhi wa salam.

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But at the same time, he feared it his salatu salam, the obvious leaning of his heart. So he used to say Allah Houma had Kusmi female umbilical, Salah Telone female term Nico, well, M IC,

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O Allah. This is how I'm dividing my time and how I'm taking care of things in accordance with what I have control over. Don't blame me for what I don't control, and that you control what is he talking about? So Allah Azza wa salam, O Allah, you control my heart. Right? I can't be blamed. For the attachment of my heart to it shall the Allahu Taala Anna, but I will be fair in regards to all of my family, right? The profit slice on him is not going to wrong anyone in regards to what Allah subhanaw taala has a lot of Hilco rights but yeah, Allah don't blame me for what my heart inclines towards. And so the heart of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was especially tied towards

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Isha about the Allahu Taala Anna and that's where the story really unfolds, a beautiful attachment that the Prophet slicin has to her and the beautiful attachment that she has to him. sallallahu alayhi wa salam. And so now you have this body of over 2000 Hadith that give us insight into their marital life into the way the Prophet slicin behaved when he came into the home. And it is Subhan Allah such a gift from Allah to this OMA that we learn about the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and inshallah the Allahu Taala and her through this lens. So she says that when the prophets lie, some used to come home, the prophets lie some would enter the house smiling and tearful it his

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salatu salam, and if it wasn't a serious matter that the prophets lie some was discussing. He always found a way to turn it into something that was joking so the prophets I said, I'm kinda mazahub PBTE sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he was someone who used to joke frequently in his home lighthearted sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he had a cheerful nature to Him always in the home. And she describes you know, the life of the prophets lie some in regards to his a bother right? His zoo, his asceticism, she said that the Prophet slice and I'm with someone that used to sow his own clothes used to take care of packs his own shoes. sallallahu alayhi wa sallam can if he had met material he

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used to serve people within his household, and she said that the profit slice and him had one bed, which was leather with palm branches, and I once folded it to make it softer for the profit slice on him but also lost. My son did not like the softness, because it caused him to sleep deeper, and the prophets lie. Some wanted to always be ready for Fiamma live. So the prophets lie some did not like that. And she describes the romance of the Prophet sallallahu Ariosa

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either prophets lie some was attentive in that regard. She says that the prophets lie Selim would grab the hand of his as lodge when he was talking to them, he would hold the hands of his wives when he was talking to themselves Allah Who and he was sunnah. So basically a lot of the things that you think about when you think of the prophets lie Selim, with how he treated everyone else, eye contact, right, being very attentive it his salatu salam, imagine that with his family as well. So she said that the prophets lie Selim would hold my hand when he would talk to me and the prophets lie Selim would face me with his entire body just as he would face everyone else. And she mentioned,

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you know, the way the prophets lie Selim would, would also demonstrate that love towards her no matter what his situation was, And subhanAllah sometimes you can read in the Hadith, these implications. So for example, when she narrated how the prophets lie, Selim would kiss her despite the fact that he was on will do and despite the fact that he was fasting, alright, so the Allah Allah narrates, for example, in multiple ad, he says, and then the via satellite, he said, I'm better than he certainly he said, Maharaja Isla Salah when I'm Yatta wala, so she says all the Allahu Taala and her that the Prophet SAW Salem

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kissed his wives, and then he would go to his salah, and he would not make will do and then she smiled. And around the Allahu Anhu said, Man here Illa aunty, like, Who is it other than you? Right? It's clear that you're talking about yourself, but instead of at least a little bit Allahu Taala and he says that the Prophet slice I'm used to kiss his wives before he would go out to the salah. And he would not renew his will do showing the permissibility of that while the Allahu Tada and Hannah otherworldy Allahu Anhu just seeing the way that she would smile and when she was remembering those moments with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, who would it be, other than you will feed

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you I was a cat. So even started to laugh about the Allahu Anhu when she would start to remember those times with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and she said, But who would control himself the way the Prophet slicin would control himself meaning he knew sallallahu alayhi wa sallam the limits of Siyam the limits of fasting sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and not to go beyond what Allah subhanaw taala had made permissible. She said that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used to drink from the same cup as me. And he would be attentive to put his lips on the same spot that I put my lips and if we were eating from the bone of a sheep, the prophets lie Selim would eat

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from the same place that I ate from and then we would share that lamb shank or whatever it is that we were eating and the prophets lie Selim would always be attentive to that. And Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was playful at all times with her about the Allahu taala. And when you start to see some of these Hadith about the Listen of the prophets lie Selim and the way that he wish he would, he would take his shower sallallahu alayhi wasallam and the way that he carried himself around her, there is an element here that the scholars mentioned, which is very important, which is that when the Muslims moved to Medina, they came into contact with the Jewish community.

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And the Jews of Medina had very strict rules regarding the rituals between husband and wife, very strict rules, and some of the Muslims anticipated that those restrictions were going to carry over to them. And so when I saw the alarm, her narrates, in detail, the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam with her that he always was playful with her SallAllahu it he was salam, no matter what the situation was that the prophets lie Selim, you know, never violated the rules of Islam, but clearly distinguished the rules of Islam from the rules that they were accustomed to of Judaism and Medina, she was doing that to show that there was a departure right that there was a departure

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because many Muslims would give fatawa based upon what they knew from the Jewish community and Medina, thinking that there was a level of strictness that had to be applied between husband and wife in certain situations. And she mentioned Subhanallah you know, even in the last 10 nights of Ramadan when the Prophet slice and um was inerrancy calf, the prophets lie some would stick his head into her home, so that she could comb his hair, and she could oil his hair because she knew that the or he knew that I felt the alarm. I missed him sallallahu alayhi wa sallam so even in his era T calf the prophets lie, some will go, and he'll put his head in the room, and she'll comb his hair for him

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for him and the prophets lie some will walk with her for some time. And the prophets lie some will show her that he's still thinking about her little the Allahu Tada and even as he is engaged in his most, you know, intense periods of devotion. Now let's go through some of the other things. The next genre that you'll find here is the prophets lie some affirming his love for her and being attentive to her in many situations. So there is the Hadith that's known as Hadith on Zara. Hadith on Zara hadith of Zara is one of the long

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This hadith, and it's basically a hadith where it shall be Allah on her comes home to the prophets lie Selim, and tells the prophets lie Selim about a conversation that 11 women are having about their husbands. And she narrates what every single woman said about her husband in detail. All right, so if you read hadith of Zara, right, it's like, literally, you can imagine people sitting around drinking tea and talking about their husbands.

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And it's long. And the profound nature of it that some of the scholars mentioned is look at the memory of it shall be alone, I know that she was able to remember even as she's narrating the Hadith later, what every single woman said about her husband. So they're praising different elements about their husband, they're talking about, you know, things that they wish that they had. And as they're sitting there, they get to a woman by the name of Alma Zara. So, um, Zara starts to talk about her husband or Mozart, and she starts to praise him. And she starts to talk about how when she got married to him, you know, it was as if the whole world had been given to her. And he treated her

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like a queen, and everything was incredible and going great. And the prophets, I was sitting there listening to her go through every single one of these situations.

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So it was almost like someone was paying attention to every single story. And I was just talking about how Amazon is talking about how amazing I was that it was until at the end of the story,

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homes on ourselves, but then Abu Zahra left me and married somebody else.

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And she says while that other husband was great

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he was no elbows on it. Right that she's saying the husband I'm married to right now can't give me what I was was like and as she's saying this to the profit slice almost Allah slice on them is not sitting there. You know, going like I need to get to Salah. I need to go command the next expedition. I don't have time for this conversation. The prophets lie some listens to every single one of her stories and the prophets lie Selim says to her at the end of it all. Come to lackey, Ibiza or n Leon, Misa or N I am to you like Abu Zubaydah was to own czar except I'd never divorce you.

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So the prophets lies and affirms are in that way at the end of this entire story.

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I am to you like I was on I was to Omaha except I would never leave you. In another narration from Abu noraim Alright, so the law asks the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam How is your love for Me and the prophets lie Selim said like the ropes not. And she said that she used to ask the Prophet slice and I'm from time to time because we'll see they used to get into arguments at times she would say character how's the ropes, not

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the profit slice and I'm would smile and you'd say hello howdy how it is as it is like, Don't worry, it's still as tight as the ropes not. And then she narrates the famous story of watching the Abyssinians in the messenger. Now somehow sometimes the context of the Hadith makes it even more beautiful. This was actually the time of eat. She said the prophets lie some came home. And also Allah say salam also took her eat nap. So just to give us a little bit of that, as soon as they're eaten up because they're eaten up as necessary. The prophets lie some came home after Salah to aid and will Salah say some bleed down. And he turned his face to the other side. And it showed the law

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and he said that I was sitting with two girls from the unsought and they were singing the songs of breath they were singing some of the songs from the days of ignorance and I will record all the law and who walked in and I will record all the Allah Tada and who said the instruments of shade lon and the house is also the law. So he made a very awkward, so the instruments of shape on in the house of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam and the prophets Isom, he was taking his nap he turned around and he said Leave them alone or bucket. Let them sink Lahore it was cellar. So I settled the ALLAH and he said, I signal to the two girls that they should probably leave. And then the Prophet sallallahu

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alayhi wa sallam. He said to me, would you like to see them? Now what she meant by that? Is that the House of Allah he says literally where the grave of the prophets I send them is today, right? It's connected to the masjid. So anything that's happening in the masjid, they're hearing it

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and the Abyssinians on the day of their aides. Were throwing their spears in the masjid. Okay, they had a specific type of war dance that they were doing in the masjid. So Rasul Allah sigh some Satsang inshallah the Allahu taala. Anna, do you want to see them? So I saw the alarm who said yes. So, she said the prophets lie. Selim said follow me. I walked behind him. And Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he told me to stand behind him and I put my cheek on his cheek Salah Hardy who was somebody

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and he said do not come you have any other feeder? Go ahead. Oh, Benny our feeder go ahead and keep on going. So she said that I'm sitting with my head on the shoulder of the prophets lie Selim. My cheek is on his cheek and we're watching the ABS

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as Indians with their spears and doing what they do in the masjid, and every so often the Prophet slice and M says, a severity Are you satisfied? Or how spooky Are you done? And I'd say no.

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Now here's what I settled the law on her says she actually says I got bored of it pretty early on. Like, it's not that I really was enjoying the display. They're doing the same thing. I mean, there isn't much that's there. That's exciting to watch this for a long time. But I wanted to know my position with the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. Like I wanted to see how far I could push this. So the prophets I send them said to me after some time, I severity, are you satisfied? And I said, Yes. And then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told me that I could go home after that. So the Prophet sighs I'm giving her that time giving her that consideration where she says, Allah to an

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ally for Kadri, and I wanted to know my position with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and this becomes sort of a subtle the allow and has relationship with the messenger. So I said, I'm, I want to prove and I want to know what I mean to him. sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and another Hadith in Sahih. Muslim. There was the Persian neighbor of the prophets lie Selim, who used to make a particular type of soup. And I installed the Allahu taala. And her says that he invited the Prophet slice them over for a meal and the prophets like Selim said, Can I bring out Isha? And he said, No. So he was very clear that I'm just inviting you. I'm not inviting your wife. So the prophets lie.

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Selim, simply went back home. The next day, he said, he oughta sort Allah, I made this broth I want you to come and eat from it. The prophets lie some said, What have you he? What about her? He said, not her prophets lie. Some went on his way. The third time he asked the prophets lie Selim that question. And the prophets lie. Some said What have you he and her as well? He said Wahhabi he and you can bring her as well. And the mama no we are Hema hola said commenting on that hadith Atlas, Allah Salam used to like to have a shot of the Allahu anha accompany him on those occasions and for those types of invitations. We also find the prophets license paying attention to her. And this

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shows you two things the intelligence of the shuttle, the Allahu anha, and the emotional intelligence of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. She said that the prophets lie someone said to me in Nila Alamo, either Kunti Annie Wailea will either couldn t Allah Akbar. I can tell when you're happy with me and I can tell when you're angry.

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And she says what ktrs of Allah How do you know a messenger of Allah? Carla either quinti and Nila Alia, quality la Warabi Mohammed, were either going to Allah you have Abba polti la Warabi Brahim. She said that the Prophet sighs I'm said to me when you're happy with me, you say no, and by the Lord of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam but when you're upset, you say no. And by the Lord of Ibrahim, it has set up. So I noticed that when you're not happy, you use the name of Ibrahim instead of the name of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. And she said, Well, Allah He Maya Angelou Isla Smokey jasola. She said, The only thing I leave is your name or messenger of Allah, meaning when I'm

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upset with you, the only thing I'll do is I won't say your name in this regard. Right? Like she doesn't curse the prophets. I said, I'm gonna say things to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that are unbefitting between a husband and a wife. So it shows you again the intelligent intelligence of it sort of think about saying Robbie Mohammed instead of Robbie Muhammad, or Robbie Ibrahim instead of Robbie Muhammad, and the emotional intelligence of the prophets lie some to recognize when his wife was upset with him, based upon that. And she also said that I could tell when the prophets lysozyme was upset, or when he was stressed out about something by the way, he

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would stroke his beard sallallahu alayhi wasallam. And he would immediately go towards the salon when anything bothered. So a wife paying attention to her husband and noticing the way that he plucks his beard or the way that he strokes his beard, when something's on his mind, sallAllahu it was and that's also a sign of the paying attention that they had to one another. And she said that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would go towards the salah when anything distressed him, and she said Subhanallah beautiful description of the Prophet SAW Selim that when he was home, he was working sly Salam he was spending time with his family. But when the other man was called Kana hula

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Yanni fauna It was as if the prophets like some did not even know us anymore. When he heard the advanced sallallahu alayhi wa sallam the prophets lie some bolted towards the President. As if he didn't even know us. At that point.

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There is another narration

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rubble bucket on the Allahu Tada and who heard one of the arguments of the Prophet sly seminar he shall have the Aloha now.

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Now I'll go back and loves the Prophet slice and the more than he loves it sold the Allahu Anhu because Beckett loves the profit slice and more than he loves himself. And you got a lot of pressure being married, you know to the profits like someone your father's able Beckett will the low unwhole

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Who would literally give his life for the prophets lie summon any moments and who found his happiness only in the happiness of the prophets lie Selim? Several bacchanal, the Allahu Anhu came to visit and he saw He saw the Allah and her raising her voice towards the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So he immediately rushes to grab her like what are you doing? Are you raising your voice on the prophets lie Selim and the prophets lie Selim jumps in front of it shall the Allahu anha and pushes back or not pushes him not shoves him but like moves a little bucket all the Allahu Anhu away and says to awaken all the longtime that I know this is not why we brought you here and I will

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record all the Allah Tala and he leaves the house

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and after some time, he comes to the Prophet slice alone an hour inshallah the Allahu Anhu. And the prophets lie Selim had told that he shall have the Allah and her CI protected you from your father. So he was able to quell whatever they were arguing about by using that moment to say, See, I protected you from your father. Right. And I will back in who laughed while they were raising their voices at each other while I was raising her voice at the profit site. So I'm sees them now laughing.

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And he says to them at Killarney, faesal mikuma comma at hull to Manny, we have to be Kuma let me be a part of your peace the way you made me a part of your war. I want to be a part of your happy moments as well. You guys brought me in for an argument let me enter with joy as well and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says for alpha Anna Okay, okay, come on. Right So the Prophet size seven immediately will take these moments and also allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would immediately bring a sense of calm with Aisha Radi Allahu taala. And her in all of these moments,

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I saw the Allahu taala. And her also mentioned and I'm going through this, these last two stories, which are very familiar. She mentioned how she would go with the Prophet slice LM on journeys. And also la slice I'm used to race with her. And he said that the Prophet slicin would often tell the companions to go ahead, and he would race with her all the Allahu taala. And when she said, I used to beat the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. And then she says, I put on some weight, and the profit slice and then beat me and the profit slice and I'm said, Yeah, Isha had the heebie Tilak, one for one. So it also lost my son was even keeping tabs of our races with each other, even as the

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prophets lie, some is going on some very serious expeditions, and is in the midst of, you know, deep moments.

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And of course, the famous narration of one of those journeys,

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was the narration of when she lost her necklace. And she says that this was in an area of Bayda, or an area of that Jaysh, a far away area from Medina. And he says that

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the prophets lie Selim used to cast lots to see which of his wives would go with him on a journey. And this is earlier on in the Ceylon, so there aren't many probabilities, right? It's a shell of the Allahu Taala or two or three other possibilities max. So she says that I went on a journey with the Prophets lie Selim in this particular expedition of his and

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as the prophets lie Selim rose up in this particular area, I lost a black beaded necklace that a smile of the Allah who had gifted me I couldn't find my necklace.

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So I told the profit slice and um, I can't find my necklace.

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Now, it wasn't how expensive the necklace was. It was the fact that it was a gift to her from a smart well the Allahu Taala and that it meant something to her it held some sentimental value. So it also lost my son announces to the entire army look for the necklace of the soul of the Allahu Tada. And

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so you have all these men that are worried about battle, right that are worried about much bigger things, searching under their camels going through all of the bags, looking for this necklace of it show the Allahu Tada on him. And then they start to run out of water.

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So they start running out of drinking water, but more than that, they're worried about being able to do a loop. So what do they do they all come to a bucket or the Allah hotel

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and they say to Abu Bakr I've seen what your daughter did to us. See, they couldn't go to the Prophet slice them and say, See what your wife did to us. They went out well bucket or the law I know and he became her daughter in that moment, right? See what your daughter is doing to us. She held the entire army and now we don't know if we're gonna be able to pray. We don't know how we're going to make although, and I started the alarm on her says the prophets lie Selim was sleeping in my lap. And I will record all the Allahu Taala and who came in and Abu Bakr Radi Allahu Taala and who was poking me in my lap and saying see how you held the entire army hostage because of your

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necklace? And she said I would have moved but I didn't want to wait to the prophets lie Selim have also lost my son was asleep in her lap. And Abu Bakr Radi Allahu Anhu is like Look what you did. You held the entire army back because of your necklace.

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And then the morning came. And Allah Subhana Allah revealed the Ayat of TM

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On the ayat giving permission on how to purify yourselves without water. And all of a sudden all the Sahaba who were upset with me, they went to Abu Bakr Radi Allahu taala. And when they say Maha there be a worry about a catchy Konya Allah I'll be back here. This isn't the first time we've been blessed through your family. Oh, but can we always get goodness through you? So everyone was celebrating with Odell Beckham because an eye of ease had come down. So that relieves the pressure right? And Subhan Allah Insha Allah, Allah Allah says, After all of that, we couldn't find the necklace and then my camel got up and the necklace was under my camel.

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So the prophets lie some did not yell at her.

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This whole time this whole ordeal and the necklace was right under your camel. The prophets lie Selim. He let that go. There are other narrations of Pamela in this regard. One of them is actually a narration where it settled the low on her says that Hafsa on her prank the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, they decided to prank the prophets lie Selim. And basically they switched. Each other's Hoge. The Hoge is literally the it's like the caravan that's holding on to the camel, right? So it's covered because obviously people would travel in the home and you couldn't see in the inside of it. So I shouldn't have made a deal. They said let's switch houses and not tell the Prophet

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sallallahu alayhi wa salam so so let's say someone go and talk to one of us and think where the other person, right and this was kind of the nature of their relationship, right? Messing with the Prophets lie Selim in a way that was halal, of course, to see what was going to happen. So she said that the prophets like Selim, went to my house thinking that was me. And he started to talk and it was really Hafsa Well, the Allahu anha and then she said, she realized that the joke was on her when we got to the end of the journey and the prophets lie so I'm just stayed would have settled the Allahu Anhu for the rest of the journey. So she said about herself she said, JAL to rich Leia banal

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if I put my my my legs in it, which were plants that used to have a lot of bugs and like scorpions and stuff like that, and she said, Yeah, Rob suddenly Talia Aqua dawn. Oh heylia Oh, Allah, let a scorpion or a snake bite me. I can't even blame the province lifetime for this, like, this is my fault. Right? Like I messed it up. And obviously she wasn't making this drought with Nia. She was saying it as an expression like, you know, I might as well get bitten by a scorpion or a snake right now, like I messed this up for myself and the prophets license I'm ended up spending the journey with Hafsa about the Allahu taala. And

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now her jealousy. Well, the Allahu Taala anha in this regard, is where you start to have a whole bunch of her famous stories. The most famous story is the story of Anasazi Allahu Taala and who and so he had Makati. He says that a group of the Sahaba were sitting with the Prophets lie Selim in the house of you shall have the Allahu Allah. And remember the joke was, he said, can't cook. Alright, that's the joke. And I said, well, the Allahu Anhu was very insecure about her cooking. And she didn't like when people would say that to her. All right. And that was her sensitive spot, right to say to her that you can't cook or to make a joke about her food. I mean, there was even an incident

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between her and soda while the alarm on her where I shall have the alarm unhooked and so that'll the alarm and kind of looked at it like I don't want that right. And I saw the alarm on her said Either you're gonna eat it, I'm gonna put it in your face. And they ended up basically laughing and I saw the Allah Anna's putting the food in her face, right? Because she didn't want to eat the food if you saw the Allahu Taala and so the prophets lie Selim is sitting in the house of action, the Sahaba there and one of the wives and one of narrations, Xena, but all the alarm on her sends a dish to the house of Isa which was like the biggest insult in the world. Right in the house of Aisha you sent

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you send the dish to basically suggest the prophets lie some should feed his companions some decent food. So when I saw the alarm and I just sees the messenger come to the house with a dish, I saw the alarm on her comes from behind the curtain in the middle of the Sahaba picks up the dish and breaks it and then walks right back.

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Now somehow, this is a moment where like, you talk about the prophets license composure.

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I mean,

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sisters, please don't do that.

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That's like a major thing about it. Right? Like don't like that's like a major thing, right? How would you do that? So the prophets lie Selim and the Sahaba were in awkward silence to an extreme they were looking at NSL the Allahu Anhu says, We all looked at the prophets like Selim and we're thinking to ourselves, what's he going to say? And the prophets lie Selim says that it's

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your mother got jealous. Your mother got jealous? How unless he didn't. He didn't say my wife got jealous. Your mom because I shall be alone. As the mother of the money, the Mother of the Believers, your mom got jealous. And the prophets lie Selim said to you show the lower Hannah, prepare a dish, send it back and leave the broken one here. The prophets lie some calmly addresses the situation

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Because the sola sai some understood that actually Allah Allah was doing this from a place of extreme love for him. He says love for the prophets. lysozyme was a lot and so her Libra and it's actually in the book of Libra and then we'll hottie this particular generation. Her jealousy of the Prophet slice Allah was well known so the prophets lie some let it go. The red line was Khadija will the Levana right? Subhanallah you find this narration where she says that Allah He I was not jealous of anyone the way I was jealous over Khadija even though I didn't know her.

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And subhanAllah she says that the Prophet slice I'm used to remember her every single day, and also less I'm used to send the gifts to her companions to her old friends and the prophets lie some would be excited to hear the voice of her sister, and the prophets lie Selim. And this is beautiful. She says, Well, best Shahabi baits in La Fille Jana men Casa like I'm jealous because the prophets like some also gave her this amazing glad tidings of the special home in paradise. And, in one narration seaside Cana hula Mia confit dunya Murata. Illa Khadija It was as if there was no other woman in the world except for Khadija. Every single day Khadija Khadija Khadija Khadija right the prophets lie

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Selim can't control his heart, he loves cathedral the low and how long after she's passed away. So I saw the alarm and said that that one day, I said to her, hasn't Allah subhanaw taala given you someone better than that old woman with red gums from Quraysh, insulting Khadija. And that's when she said that the prophets like some stood up and she said his face got red and it was like his hair stood Sallalahu and he was

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like I crossed the line that the Prophet slice and I'm throw something did he curse? No. He says he just said well Allah Hema, but that any Allah who hate him in her No, no, Allah never gave me someone better than her. And he started to mention all of the favors of the devil, the Allahu Tada and so that was the red line of the prophets, like Selim was.

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Your jealousy is there but don't turn that on Khadija will be Allah Tada. And in that way, because Khadija had a special place with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam. So the next three narrations are literally Subhanallah a glimpse into their home at night.

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And let's just say there three Hadith about the shadow the Allah on her waking up in the middle of the night, and seeing if the prophets lie some was next to her. So there there are narrations were actually low on nights out of her love for the Prophet, slice alum. And out of making sure that he was with her. I saw the alarm on her at night moves her hand to make sure the profit slice was there.

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So in one narration, I sold the Allahu Tada and her says, it will tell us to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to attend to Eddie Fisher and he Salalah Are you saying that I was I woke up at night and I started moving my hands around and my hand landed on his head sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and the prophets like some opened his eyes and also la sigh Salah looked at me and he said to me, Kajaki Shavon Okay, the GSA Bong come to you

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you know these thoughts of like, did he leave? Is he with Xena? Where do you go? Uh, Jackie Shavon Okay, did your site bomb come to Asia? And I saw the hola Anna respond that she says for call to America shape on on yellow. So why don't you have a shape onto a messenger of Allah and the Prophet slice and M says Bella, whether killing Allah and Annie Alayhi Salam? He said yes, but Allah Subhana Allah gave me control over him and so he submitted himself and the prophets like some closed his eyes and went back to sleep. It's wondering while one narration so looking around at night, is he there? He's there. Alright, I got his hair. Okay.

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The next narration is a beautiful one. She says

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that one night, I started moving my hand around. And the Prophet slicin Wasn't next to me. So she stood I started getting up around the room and I started touching every place of the room. They didn't have light, right? This isn't like you hit a light switch. So So she said, I started touching the different parts of the room. And she said, my head, my hand landed on the light of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and he was making sujood sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and he was making the DUA. Subhana Allah Allah will be Hambrick La ilaha illa and Subhana Allah humma we hamdulillah Illa Allah and so I heard the Prophet slice I'm making cricket. And she said, I went back to the

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bed. And I said to myself, the abbey we're only in neckla Fie Shannon. We're in Nila. Fiachra

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like oh Messenger of Allah, you're in one place and I'm an I'm in a total different place. One narration Nikka fee was one if he was you're in a valley and I'm in a valley like

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Subhanallah I was thinking one thing and look where you were sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in his arriba and she's almost, you know, putting her

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herself down to say I'm not on your lovely Jada Sybilla like I'm mad at myself because I'm not on your level yet. Yeah, Rasulullah the longest narration in this regard

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is a narration from Mohammed. In your case. He says, I heard you shall have the Allahu Anhu say, Allah had decent humanity run in the beasts of Allahu wa sallam, do you want me to tell you a story about me and the prophets lie Selim?

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For Colina Bella we said, yes. Oh, mother. So she said, One night I was with the Prophets lie Selim.

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And we went to sleep. And I saw the Prophet sites and I'm get up at night. And he put on his garment.

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And he left the house of Allah who it was.

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So I saw the logo, and he said, I got up and I put on my buyer and I followed the profit slice on them, middle of the night,

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to see where he was gonna go. sallallahu alayhi wasallam.

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So she said,

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that as I followed him, I saw him sallallahu alayhi wa sallam go to the buccaneer, go to the graveyard. And he raised his hand sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and he was making dua, he was supplicating for the people in the bulkier cannula. How beautiful in the middle of the night. Well, Sula, sigh, Sam goes out. And he raised his hands. He's making drought for his companions who have passed away.

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So I saw the alarm on her says, I was staring at him. And then the prophets lie, some put his hands down, he finished his drought and he started to walk home. So she said, so I had to run home without him noticing that I followed him salAllahu alayhi wasallam and get back in bed and act like I was sleeping the whole time, right? So she said, I'm running and running and running, and the profit slice and I was walking really fast back to the house. So I'm running, I'm running and I'm, you know, running out of breath. And then she says that when we got home,

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I got under the covers. And she said, I was breathing so that the cover was going up and down.

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So the province my son walks in, and he sees me under the cover, and I'm breathing hard.

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So it also looks like someone says to me, yeah, so why are you out of breath?

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So I settled the law I didn't answer and the prophets lie Selim says, that took between me Oh, lay off behind me a lot even heavier Look, you're either going to tell me or Allah subhanaw taala the subtle and the AWARE is going to tell me

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so I saw the Allahu anha tells the prophets lie some of the story. And the prophets lie some so So you were that black shape in front of me because I saw the ALLAH and he was wearing a black abaya. And she said yes. And she said that the Prophet slicin and put his finger on my chest and he said you thought that I would be unfair to you? And I said no, you also Hola. And he said some hola hola and USL and that Gibreel restaurant came to me when you saw me leave but Djibouti Ronnie salaam did not enter the home, because you were wearing your garments for the house, meaning wrt Salam did not enter out of HYAH out of modesty towards you. So he called me to the edge of the door. And he told

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me that Allah Subhana Allah Allah has commanded you to go and seek forgiveness for Bucky or to go and seek forgiveness for the companions who are buried in a nuclear and I didn't want to wake you up. Subhanallah I installed the alarm on her says that the finger of the prophets lie Selim that I felt, you know, hurt by it right. Now, someone might say and I'm gonna put this out there because Islamophobes might say that the prophets lie some hit her. Right when she sang hurts. Like he physically abused her like he punched her hit her physically hard. SallAllahu wasallam but it's very clear that she's talking about the regret that she had for questioning the prophets I send them or

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even thinking that way when she followed the Prophet slice and I'm because she is the one who narrates Mount La battlesuit Allah He Salallahu it alayhi wa sallam Obeah de che and cut in and Yuja he the feast of Villa wala Dora the Haldimand wala Murata. She's the one who actually marries the Hadith of the prophets like some never hit anything with his hand, except when he was in battle sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and he never struck a servant's nor did he ever strike a woman. So clearly she's saying that I felt the pain of the of the finger of the prophets lie Selim from a place of regret right that I followed him that way. And clearly the prophets lie some was not happy

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about the way that I followed him in that regard.

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She says that one time the Prophet slicin came home after a battle, be a seed and he had a prisoner of war

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and the Prophet salallahu it

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It was Salem asked me to watch that prisoner. So not let the prisoner fleet and this is like in the midst of the moment, right? I mean, they're trying to settle things down in the midst of the moments. So she says that some of my friends came and I got busy with them. And the guy escaped.

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So the profit slice and I'm came home and he said nothing. I said, Where did the prisoner go? Where did the captive go? So she said hello to Andrea Rasulullah I got busy I got distracted from him on Messenger of Allah. And the Prophet sighs I'm set cutter Allahu yedek. May Allah cut your hand and he ran out of the house on the lights and I'm to go find the guy. Now this is in the midst of a serious moment, right? The prophets lie Selim literally has to go find a prisoner of war, but flood his house. And he was using this as an expression of the Arabs he wasn't actually making sure that Allah subhanaw taala sever hands.

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So I settled the Allahu Taala and

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she sat down and she was looking at her hands like this.

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This isn't authentic. How do you muslim I'm a generic she said so the prophets like said I'm came back Lana Kalibo yada, yada. And I was moving my hands like this. And the prophets lie. Selim said to me, Malachy Edgenuity like what's wrong with you? Are you crazy? Did you lose your mind?

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And she said, Yes, so Allah, delta and AOL Messenger of Allah, you may drive against me for Anna or Kalibo, yada, yada. So I'm looking at my hands to see a yo yo Quran, which one of them is going to fall off? Because I know you're serious. So when you make dua against me, I'm like, Okay, which one of these is coming down?

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So the prophets lie. Sometimes she says Hamidullah as naughty he praised Allah subhanaw taala and glorify Him. And then the prophets lie Selim raised his hands to the sky and he said Allahumma in the Russia Oh Allah, I'm human. Have a double camera you have double Basha. Sometimes I get upset the way that people get upset for a young man walking in omote Minuten they're out to allergy further and hula who the cat and what to hold on. So if I ever say something in the midst of a moment like that, that would be a do against a believer, yeah, Allah let that be a source of mercy and purification for them. Subhanallah so even the dua of the prophets lie some if he said an

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expression that could be interpreted as a draft against the person

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from his Lama Salallahu Alaihe Salam that would end up being a mercy for them and a means of elevation and purification for them. So that was the Darat of the prophets. I seldom one time against her in that regard. The other famous narration of his sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. She said one time I saw it also last I saw him after his salah, and he was pleased sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he was in a very good mood. So I said the other sort of Allah Hattie, O Messenger of Allah make they're out for me.

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For offering a day he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam our call Allah Allah familia Isha Mata cardamom and then behave in them behind Juan Mata. Assa wanna Assad was on

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the Prophet's life and raised his hands and said, Oh Allah, Allah, Allah for the Isha, Oh ALLAH forgive Isha not to cut them in them behalf, one to occur, what proceeds of her sins and what is yet to come. One that is somewhat one that Anna and that which is private, and that which is public, Oh ALLAH forgive her for all of her sins. So as you saw the alarm on her said, I was so happy that I spun around and I fell in his lap out of joy

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Subhanallah This is the sweetness of their relationship.

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So she said my head was in his lap, and I was looking up at him sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and Ursula sai sallam said to me, Are you pleased with this? Are you happy with this new app? She said, How can I not be happy with this new app? Right? You just made your point that Allah forgives me for all of my sins and the profit slice and I'm says, well Allah He in her ladera OTT on my teeth equally salah I swear by Allah this is the dua I make for my OMA and every seller.

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So this is your app that the profit slice and made for each and every single one of us may Allah subhana wa Tada include us in this era of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam. Now in this love Subhan Allah. It's important, especially when we start talking about some of the unknown qualities that actually allow on her heart. That the thing that she loved most about him sallallahu alayhi wa sallam more than his smile more than the way he would treat her was his Redonda was his worship, and she used to marvel at his about salah who it was.

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And so you find the narrations of the prophets lie some leading her and Salah you find the narrations of the prophets lie some teaching her the Quran and teaching her the Tafseer of the Quran. And living the Tafseer of the Quran cannot follow COVID Quran sallallahu alayhi wa sallam his character was the Quran. You know the Hadith Allahumma Anta Salam omenka salam to Bartok the other God will come that's narrated from it shall have the line that the prophets like some would say this after his salah. She was the one who witnessed the swelling of the feet of the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam, when she saw the Prophet sighs I'm in PR

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For so long, she said Jada sort of Allah. Allah has forgiven you for all of your sins. Why do you pray so much? By the effort? A corner and then Chikara? Yeah, so shouldn't I be grateful servants? She is the one who narrates the pm of the prophets langsam in Ramadan and outside of Ramadan. And in one narration Subhan Allah she was asked about the Clam of the Prophet slice I'm in Ramallah, and she said, well, so allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam never exceeded 11 records in Ramadan or in any other months. But he used to offer for Rakhine sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and she said, Don't ask me about how beautiful are how long those records were. Alright, so total we evangelists I say it's

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gotta be eight.

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You got to pray eight like the prophets like Selim to write, and that's why there is there is one, there's expense in this in this hadith, right? And how this hadith has been understood by the emails, right? She said, Don't ask me how long and how beautiful the records of the prophets lie somewhere. Four records long, gorgeous, and then he would take a break Salah hottie was salam and he pray another four records and she would say don't ask me about totally hints about how long they were Hasni hidden men how beautiful they were. And then she said he prayed through that guise of wisdom and don't ask me how beautiful they were. And how, how long they were. And she said, And one

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night I said to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, they are still Allah. Don't you sleep?

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You know when you don't you go to sleep like Subhanallah it's it's beautiful. Like I'm watching you pray all night long. I'm seeing this beautiful connection you have with Allah subhanaw taala Do you sleep at night? And the prophets I said I'm sad. Yeah, Isha my I sleep Willa Jana mocha will be my heart never sleeps. Yeah.

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So now more I need my I sleep.

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But my heart never sleeps. Subhanallah and that's why in this love story. You have the beautiful narration where they asked, You shall the Allah Jota Anna Anna, tell us about the most amazing thing you ever saw from the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, tell us what the most incredible thing you ever saw from him was? And she could have said so many things. suck at it for Beckett. spamela She got quiet. And she cried for a long time. Now think about it. Think about how many memories went through her head when the Sahaba asked her that question. And he talked about someone talking about their husband after death. Like he says life for 50 years was talking about her husband after death

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and teaching about him. Sallalahu So sometimes those memories brought her a random smile random laughter sometimes they brought her tears she missed him she longed for him Salah is that imagine? she longed for him on a nightly basis what then of life without the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam for a second that for decades. She got quiet and she cried for a long time

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until the people around her cried as well.

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And then she said ask for it also lost my salon. I'm gonna hook kulula agile. What wasn't amazing about him. Everything about him was amazing. His whole affair was amazing. Salalah Hardy was his whole life was something to marvel at. But she said that there was this one night. Lemme Cana Lila told me terminally Ali there was one night call Alia Isha he said to me or Isha? The Rini utter Aberdulais literally Robbie, can I get up and worship my Lord tonight?

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Meaning the prophets like some from the very beginning of the night wanted to start his Eva and the habit of the Prophet slicin was to sleep the first part of the night and then wake up for Salah. But that particular night the prophets I seldom asked her permission can I get up and pray?

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And he said all the Allahu Tana And her knowing that the prophets like Selim is showing courtesy and showing a level of honor towards her. And even though she remember at night, I says the woman that wakes up and goes whereas Yeah.

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Right. Listen to what she response. She said Lola he rasool Allah, in Nila Hibou quarterback, O Messenger of Allah, I swear by Allah I love being close to you. What a horrible NASA work but I love even more what makes you happy?

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That's the most beautiful response that she could possibly give him. Apparently you start to see why the province lies. I loved her so much. She said in the little hippo quarterback. What will humbleness of luck I love your closeness. But I love even more what makes you happy?

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So go ahead you have a single mom.

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So she said, he got up some Allahu Allah He was salam. And he started to pray. And she said, I watched the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam pray. And she said, first and foremost, the eyes of the Prophet slicin and started to flow.

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Salaam yatta yatta ki hut, Bella hedgerow and then he kept on crying Sal, Allahu Allah. You

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As salam until the area that he was praying in got what from his tears Salalah Auntie Muslim, how beautiful Subhanallah His beard was soaked with his own tears sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and the tears started to fall until the place of his Salah got what as well?

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Well um yes Elliott key had to bail out. So said everything was soaked the garment of the profit slice on the beard of the Prophet slice on the ground in front of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So she said as I was watching the prophets like some of them crying so much, you know like a concerned wife would do right like what are you crying about? So much like what happened to you right that something happened Did someone say something to you? Did someone hurt you? What is it that caused you to cry this way?

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So she said the auto Silla Why are you crying so much? We'll cut the love for Allah who like Mr. Takata Melinda Ambika, Allah has forgiven you for all of your sins past and present.

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And he said, Yeah, if Allah corner evidencia Cora I should not be a grateful servant. Verily, Allah revealed to me last night. And I weighed on Lehman Cora, well, I'm here to affect coffee. Woe to the one who reads it and does not contemplate it. In a hawker center. It will all work the laughing lady wouldn't have well food Killa tea Teddy refill battery, Remagen fairness Wilma Anzahl Allahu Muna, semi even not for ARB Hill automatic dmlt however, Sophie Hammond Calida watashi Rhea, he was to have in moussaka the bonus tonight what are the ayat in the coalmine yardian on the 160/4 verse of Soto battle indeed in the creation of the heavens in the earth, and the alternation of the day in

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the knights, and the ships that seal this that sail the sea for the benefit of humanity, the rain that Allah subhanaw taala sends down from the skies reviving the earth after its death, the scattering of Allah's creatures throughout the world, the shifting of the winds and the clouds drifting between the heavens and the earth. And all of that are Signs for people who reflect

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this is caused the prophets lie some to cry that way. This is because the prophets lie some to get up and pray that way. And I saw the alarm and he said, that was the most amazing thing I've ever seen. That was the most inspiring thing I've ever seen from him. SallAllahu wasallam. And so this love story that exists between the prophets lie seminar II shall the Allahu anha was not just one of loving each other because of character, but it was also a home that was filled with the revelation from Allah subhanho wa Taala and inshallah to Anna next week we'll continue and we'll talk about all the way until that very last moment in the house of actual the law and her with the Prophet

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, we ask Allah subhanaw taala to be pleased with our mother, inshallah the Allahu anha, to be pleased with all of our mothers to be pleased with the companions of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and to send his peace and blessings upon him and his family Allahumma Amin Desikan, Aloha, Utah, and in Charlottesville, just a reminder to everyone to please support your brothers and sisters in Syria and in Turkey. As you go outside, you'll find the Syrian forum there and they're collecting donations, and I'll see you all next week in Sharla. Santa Monica Council