Omar Suleiman – Aisha Bint Abu Bakr (ra) – The Early Years of Sacrifice

Omar Suleiman
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Salam Alaikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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As well as security ministry formerly Bismillah Rahim Al hamdu, Lillahi Rabbil Alameen whatever you want to learn a lot, I mean when I prefer to clean a lot more solid Western Mubaraka abiquo silica Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa salam ala alihi wa sahbihi wa salam testing and cathedra sha Allah Welcome to the 100th episode of the first May Allah subhana, Allah to Allah allow us to join an MDR was the 18th was shahada was Sol Hain May Allah allow us to join them in the highest level for those that are Allah Allah Amin, and I see that it's very crowded tonight. So I'm just gonna remind you guys do not knock over the camera or else the people that are watching through the camera will be

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very upset with you. So please be careful adults and kids with knocking over the camera tripping any wires in the process. It's very consequential tonight, so those of you that have your children, please keep your children with you the entire time and sha Allah to Allah. Now, it's only fitting that the next four Halaqaat will be about one of the most special people that we find in our tradition. Someone that the scholars mentioned 1/4 of the Sharia is from a single source 1/4 of our deen comes through this one human being. And this is our mother at Isha. A lot of the Allahu Taala and her so for the next month in sha Allah Allah wants you to think of yourself looking through a

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picture book in sha Allah to Allah looking through the old pictures of your mother and hearing her stories as if you are sitting with a shuttle the Allahu Tada Anna she tells you about her glorious life with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. And when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam left this world is shattered the Allahu Taala Anna was only two decades old. So Subhanallah an incredible life that was lived with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to fulfill the joy of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam and to leave behind such a legacy that we benefit from, until today. Isha our mother, the most beloved person to the Prophet, sallAllahu alayhi wa salam when she

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lived in his time, without any doubts whatsoever allah sallallahu alayhi wa salam, if you went up to him, and you saw the love that he treated everybody with and you asked him, men have been nasty, like who is the most beloved person to you? He would say without hesitation at each level, the Aloha now, he would not stutter, he would not hesitate. And she was also his preferred company, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, whether he was resident or whether he was traveling when the Prophet slicin would cast lots, he always hoped that it would land on the side of the Allahu anha. So she could be with him Salah Hardy, he was salam. And when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was present in his

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home, he preferred no residents like the residents of Anisha a lot the Allahu Taala and her and as some of the scholars said, it was as if ALLAH SubhanA wa Jana gave her the keys to the heart of the Prophet slice, I'm in terms of his happiness. She knew how to make the profit slice, I'm happy. And she spent that entire time with the profit slice. I'm in Medina, bringing joy to His life, something Allahu alayhi wa salam. And when we talk about our mothers on Mahanta, meaning and and we love all of our mothers, there are more a hadith about an from a shuttle, the Allahu anha than all of the other wives of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam combined. And so to tell her story is

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extremely difficult in any limited period of time, because even the Hadith that are not about her, they are through her lens, all of the Allahu Taala and, and they come with that clear love of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam even as she narrates the most intimate moments with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and so when you leave when you read about the prophets of Allah Anya said, I'm through the lens of the shadow the Allahu anha. You love the Prophet slice, and I'm even more which is in and of itself remarkable, because the person that saw him most praised him most you love the prophets lie some more, and you love the woman that's telling the story. Isha our mother

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about the Allahu Tada and there is no other person in our deen, who has a greater number of exclusive narrations about the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam now what do I mean by that? There's one companion who narrated more Hadith than her and that is a boyhood idol of the Allahu Taala and, but above right on most of his narrations are corroborated meaning other Sahaba narrate the same thing. Okay, so you take the entire body of his Hadith uploaded while the Allahu Anhu is the narrator of the largest number of Hadith, but the largest number of exclusive narrations meaning only on a show the Allahu anha saw this and could tell us about this

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There is no other companion male or female. That matches aren't Aisha Radi Allahu Taala Anna, and she was given to the Prophet slice and as a divine gift as we will see, And subhanAllah you will notice it is remarkable. The mission of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam started as he came home to Khadija the Allahu taala. And her in her arms and the mission of the prophets lie some ended in the arms of of inshallah the Allahu Taala Anna and ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada sent these two women at the perfect time the Prophet Seisen them needed a Khadija and there was no other woman that could be to the Prophet slice and I'm what Khadija will the law on how was throughout that time of Mecca, no

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other woman that would be more comforting, that would bear more of the hardship that would spend and give and that could inform the journey of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam and comfort him throughout the way like our mother, Khadija will the Allahu Tada Anna and in Medina, there is no other woman that could bring more joy to the Prophet, slice alum and fulfillment and could be with him, especially in the place of the great sadness that he felt with the void of Khadija will the Allahu anha than our mother. Aisha Radi Allahu Taala and her And subhanAllah it's interesting because even if you look at the names, and I always say pay attention to the names Khadija some of

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you might remember the name Khadija actually means premature. So some of the some of the scholars of language they say that if if a baby came early, preterm baby they said it was Khadija. So Khadija was premature and that she was ahead of her time it'll be Allah Jota Anna, and at the shuttle, the Allahu Allah is full of life. And subhanAllah she brought so much life to the life of the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and to this ummah, by extension until today, the life of a shuttle the Allahu Anhu brings life to the pages of the books of Sierra that you are reading, and so they both come at a perfect time and her and his lifestyle. Allah Harney was salam and both say serve a very

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unique function that we benefit from, and we praise in the life of our messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, she is the daughter of Abdullah ignoramus, man, Radi Allahu Taala and Hall, Abdullah bin Earthman also known as please answer this right of vacuole the Allah or somebody like we need to go back and redo 99 Abu Bakr Siddiq, Radi Allahu Anhu his actual name was Abdullah an Earth man. And her mother was a woman by the name of Unruh man, Ben Tanner, had been Remainer so another way more on Romain been to have been removed from the tribe of kina Anna. Now just like a bow Becca is a nickname for Abdullah. On Romain. Some of the scholars say her name was actually Zeno's, but we

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don't know that for sure. So um, Romain is the mother of alopecia or the Allahu Taala and Homer and she is as she is titled by an imam of the heavy Rahim Allah Bintulu Imam Sadiq Al Akbar, the daughter of the Imam, the great Sadiq, Abubakar or the Allahu taala, and who the greatest human being after the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, after the prophets who the sun has risen or set upon. And there's something profound about that, because I will Becquerel, the Allahu taala, and who wanted to be by the side of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in every moment of his life, and wanted to support the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam with everything that he had. And the prophets

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like some said, No one benefited me more with their money, they're spending their support then Abu Bakr Radi Allahu Taala and, And subhanAllah even his offspring, even his offspring was of a greater benefit to the prophets lysozyme than anyone could possibly be. And that is also from his sick that's from his truthfulness in wanting to be by the sight of the prophets lie Selim, and benefit the Prophet slice them and bring happiness to the Prophet saw the Learning Center and support him in his mission, that he loved the Prophet slice and I'm so much that even showed in his daughter that it transferred to his daughter. And you will notice when we get to part two of this series on it,

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some of the allow that every single one of her incidents of anger is out of jealousy for the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam so it says if it transferred a love transferred for the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to inshallah the Allah Allah and she becomes the greatest source of comfort to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in his home. Now, as we set out, he says mother is a middleman. So this is just a biographical point that Rebecca will be Allahu Anhu was married to two women before Islam. One of them was a woman by the name of Paul Taylor. Taylor. And she is the mother of a smart bunch of Rebecca Taylor is the mother of a smart man to be back here. So it's not

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meant to be back in is the half sister of Asia. Okay, and then on Romain, who gave birth to Isha and under Rama

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On Romain, who gave birth to Irish and drama now patella did not embrace Islam. Okay, so they were divorced on Romain embraced Islam and became a woman of Jannah as the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam described her and then later on, and we'll talk about the death of Oman and sha Allah to Allah at some point later on a snap in to replace the widow of Jennifer toilet, and another woman later on named Habiba, and he would have Mohamed and Uncle film so Aisha is the only daughter of a middleman and she only has one full sibling. I'm gonna be back here who did not embrace Islam right away. So Manuel the Allahu Anhu embraces Islam later on. So for a time in the household, it is a

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Rebecca. And I'm Romain and our Isha and her half sister who grows up with her a smart as well as Abdullah. I forgot to mention Abdullah also from Potala Abdullah and I'll be back here so that is the household of believers. Now, what are some of the names of HLD Allahu Taala Anna, that you will find her in the tradition as the most beautiful one is that she would be called Habiba to Habibollah Habiba to Habibollah the beloved one of the beloved one of Allah Habiba to Habibollah and Masaru Claudia Allahu taala. And when he would narrate from her, he would narrate from her as a Siddiqa. binte a Sadiq Habiba to Habibollah as to decode the truthful woman, the daughter of the truthful

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man, the beloved one of the beloved one of Allah. A Siddiqa been to Sadiq Habiba to Habibollah are the Allahu Taala and our sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam also gave her a very particular analogy. So I also lost my son I mentioned for women who perfected their email, perfected their email, and two of them were from his own family Salalah when he was a DJ, our mother Khadija all the Allahu anha perfected her Iman Felty model the Allahu anhu, the daughter of the Prophet slicin perfected her ima Meriam Alayhis Salam perfected her Iman. And asiyah Ali has Salam perfected her Iman, and then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, for Lulu Isha Allah

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Nisa, he carefully read the Quran and the superiority of at Isha after that so the ranking of the women here our mother Khadija will the Allah Allah is greater than our mother, our Isha, well, the Allahu Allah and we have a narration about that later on. Right so Khadija always stays number one felting model the Allah Allah who is a part of the Prophet slice Allah also occupies that position of the Queen of the women of Jannah. Right? But then the prophets like some said, if you were to compare out Isha to the rest of the women, she is like studied a dish called Read over all other meals. What does that mean? Three, it was considered the most prized and fulfilling dish of the food

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of the errors. So as if to say, he settled, the Allahu anha brought a sense of fulfillment, she filled every room, she brought joy wherever she went, while the Allahu anha and her rank in her superiority her father, her actual virtue is like the virtue of that dish over everything else, I'm not even going to start comparing biryani and Mokulua and things of that sort, because this is gonna get messy here. And I don't want to cause a fitna between the people here. But this is the best dish of all, it's a subtle the alo and then it's everybody else, right. And some of the names that she also had were nicknames that the prophets lie some would call her by and also last lie, some would

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call her at Ish. Ish. And also or wish, which is little Isha. So it's just simply shortening the name of our Isha as well as the release, which is little art Yeesha. She also had the nickname of who made a lot of me wrong. Why from Iraq, from Iraq, because it sort of the Allahu anha was described as a beautiful woman with a reddish complexion. And she used to have a reddish complexion, especially when she got shy or when she got mad. You could easily tell each other the hola and her by her, her redness, right? So she turned red when she got shy and she turned red when she got mad. So she is homemade off. She is also described as homemade art, which comes from the color red. She's

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also Omar Abdullah. She was a very interesting nickname, Omar Abdullah All right, she did not have a son named Abdullah, the mother of Abdullah but she said to the Prophet sighs I mean she looked around and she saw that everyone else is on this person on that person on this person. So she said the Eldest little Allah Jana be Allah. Allah to can Nene Allah to can Nene. Will you not give me a Konya which is own something, the mother of something, and of course, it's common back then you're the father of someone or the mother of someone, even if it's in hopes of the future child or something of that sort. So

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of the prophets why Selim said

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to take the Konya be it Nikki, by your son? Who is he referring to? Abdullah in his Zubayr? Who is the son of a smart mentor be Becca. So your nephew, Abdullah,

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and this shows us a lesson by the way, the prophets lie some said I'll holla Mansilla till your maternal aunt is like your mom. Your maternal aunt has a station in Islam. She is like your mom's or your holla is like your mom. So he said to her, why don't you call yourself on I'm dilla after your nephew, Abdullah Agnes obeyed. And so she took that and, and she loved our beloved and his Aveda a lot. And so that was a special connection that existed there as well. Now let's talk a little bit about her childhood and her immediate qualities here and how that's going to play out. As she grows up, you know, watching the Sierra unfold. First of all, her qualities are very similar to her

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father. So she took after a Wilbekin Well, the Allahu anhu, in many of her qualities, she had a fondness for camels. And this was also a characteristic of Rebecca or the Allah I know hence the name of Becker. Becker is a camel, okay, so she had a fondness for camels, but more than that, she loved poetry. She studied ancestry. These are skills that Rebecca on the law I know had, she was eloquent, she was sharp, and these are all qualities of electrosurgical, the Allahu taala. And who so her natural qualities were like the qualities of her father of Wilbekin or the Allah and who was a deeply perceptive men, articulate men, and an honest man, right. And he loved some of the harder

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subjects of literature and poetry and he excelled and dream interpretation and things of that sort. So when the Allah Anna when she was growing up, she exhibited these types of qualities very early on just like her father, and SubhanAllah. Later on the love of the Quran, the love of charity and the love of the prophets like Selim, three things that are very noble veka like the love of the Quran, the love of charity, and the love of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So what was her childhood like? She's very different, in that the other wives of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam went through a period of disbelief and then belief and we're all previously married. Right?

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You shall the Allahu Allah says, This is my childhood lum article about where your cartoon Illa Houma Yandina Annie Dean, she said, I don't remember a time of my life, except that my parents were Muslims. Meaning I was born muscle and I was raised Muslim. So I settled the Allah Allah was born after the prophets lie, some received revelation. Therefore she says, I don't remember a time where my parents were not upon the religion of Allah, Muhammad Rasul Allah. And she says, Well, I'm your Morula Elena Yeoman Illa. Yet T Tina fie rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Torah in hurry book Ratan Marashi. I can't recall a single day from my childhood except that the prophets lie. So

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I'm used to visit our house, day and night. So every day of my childhood was marked by my parents struggling with Islam, and the Prophet slice and I'm visiting us in our home, at least twice a day, he would come to us and one time and the date, he'd come to us one time in the evening. So this is her childhood, seeing the prophets lie some come over every single day twice a day, so she's getting a pretty good glimpse of him. salAllahu alayhi wasallam well before she will marry him, and she's also seen the plan see seeing her parents sitting with the Prophet slice and I'm she's seeing the discussions about how they're going to escape persecution. She's living through the boycott, she's

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living through the torture, and Subhanallah there is an irony Does anyone remember who tortured her father who tortured Rebecca Sunday? Does anyone remember?

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Someone I just heard a bunch of names. Shout it out.

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Now Bucha Han, who was it?

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It's actually the brother of Khadija. It's the irony.

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Nofal even hoilett the brother of Hadith or the Allahu anha used to tie Abu Bakr Radi Allahu Anhu up and used to beat him up. So her father is persecutor, Wilbekin will the law and who will come home bruised up, beaten up by the brother of Khadija will be Allah Allah Subhanallah the irony and how Islam truly separated the fates of people. You know, imagine you have Khadija on one hand receiving the Prophet slice. I'm an advocate of the law under the best friend of the Prophet slice and we have the Prophet slice on his brother in law beating up his best friend in this way. So she would see her father coming home with the marks of torture. She would see her father defend

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During the prophets lie some with his body when the prophets lie some was stoned and abused in public and she can recall those incidents from her childhood remember Rebecca will the law I know being beat up so much that he went unconscious one day, right? Protecting the prophets lie some around the cab, and literally being beaten to a point of unconsciousness. Aisha Radi Allahu Allah has childhood is marked by her father being abused. In defense of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, she grew up watching her father gather the money from the home and what would he do with the money, he'd go and he'd free the slaves. So she grows he remembers her father in Makkah, going out

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and freeing Bilawal the Allahu anhu, and freeing kebabs all the Allahu Taala and who, and these were, of course, considered people that had no worldly worth, but Lubeck at all the Allahu Taala and who was seeking something from Allah Subhana Allah to Allah. So she remembered the way that when any money would come into the house, her father would go out and he would immediately free the people that were being persecuted from the slave class. She remembered her mother and her father trying to memorize certain najem and the things that they memorize and daughter outcome. So her parents would go out to daughter outcome study with the Prophet, slice alum. And she could remember her parents

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trying to perfect the memorization of Mechi Quran this is her child and and it's very significant because you would see these things playing out later on. And her description of her father is that he could not control his eyes when he would read the Quran. So imagine the daughter I shot all the Allahu anha looking at her father, I will bucket weeping as he reads this revelation from the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. And remember that the most difficult days of the Prophet sign Salam correlate the beginning of her life in that, you know, she was born.

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Obviously, you know, early on after the revelation of the prophets like some but her memory starts like most people's memory start right at the age of 567. Her memory start at the time of the boycott, right at the time of the worst persecution of the messenger SallAllahu. It was. So let's go to the Prophet SAW Selim. And how the marriage is going to come into being.

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Now if you recall, the prophets lie some after the death of Khadija or the Allahu Tada and

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it was unusual for a person of the age of the prophets lie some to not be married in Mecca. Very unusual. In fact, it was very unusual to be married to only one person, right? Because at that time, the majority of men would marry multiple women and the profit slice and them was now in his 50s Going into his mid 50s And he's only been married to Khadija what are the Allahu Taala anha and if you read the life of Hadith double the Allahu Taala and her knowing her love and her support for the Prophet slice um, do you really think she would have given the Prophet slice and have a hard time if he carried out the practice like everyone else used to carry out the practice at the time? No. But

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the prophet slice Salam and Khadija will the Allah Allah had a very unique and special relationship that would not end with her death. In fact, it would continue onwards to where he says entire life now would be a mention of Khadija every single day, who she actually didn't remember, because by the time I showed the law on her really woke up to this world. These are the law on her had already passed away. Okay. And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was in a deep state of sadness, a single father,

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a deep state of sadness and a single father, and it was perplexing why he wouldn't be married sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam. This was not the way that they were accustomed to. Right, not the way that they were accustomed to.

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And then you have a few dreams that happen. So let's start with the dreams.

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The prophets lie Selim for three nights in a row. Karla Odie to key Phil Manami Phyllis Leon Jah be killed Melaku fie Salah Katene. Harry headin and Wi Fi rewire hundra the profit sites and I'm sad for three nights Gibreel Alayhis Salam came to me in a dream and he had a green silk cloth. And he said her the he xojo Touka the dunya will hear Pamela this is your wife in this life and in Jana. So it's not even just the Bushra it's not even just the glad tidings that this woman that I'm about to show you is going to be your wife in this dunya this is your wife in this life and in the next life. And he would show the Prophet sallallahu it was some an image within that cloth for either NTV and

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the prophets I'm just telling you, he sold the Allahu Anhu this one

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After he got married, right, saying it would be your image and the profit slice and I'm said for a pool in Yokohama Mandela you only look if this is from Allah, it's going to come to pass, meaning the prophets lie some did not share the dream with anybody. He kept it to himself he had a dream about Djibouti is I'm coming with a shell of the Allahu anha an image of Artesia and telling the prophets I said, I'm this is going to be your wife and this life and in the next in the prophets lie some did not act upon it. He's still grieving our mother Khadija, or the Allahu taala. And her and the prophets like Sam said, Look, if it's from Allah, it's going to come to pass anyway, like this

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is not something that anyone has any say in at this point. This is clearly something that has decreed. Then you have another dream. And this is the dream of soda then to Samara, Radi Allahu anha soda, or the Allahu Anhu simultaneous to the Prophet slice. I'm having this dream in the time that for the law, the law on her passed away.

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So there has a dream, and she's an Abyssinia

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with her husband, Socrative mom, or the Allahu Anhu. So crime and camera is the brother of so hate and I'm by the way, all the law on will becomes Muslim later on, right? So she's in Abyssinia, and she has this dream, and the prophets lie. Someone walks up to her, and he kneels right next to her neck. So she's laying down and she looks over the Prophet slice them kneeled next to her.

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So she wakes up. And she tells her husband, I cannot even remember.

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I just had this dream that the Prophet saw some came in he kneeled next to me. This is a very awkward conversation. So I can, I'm says, Well, if your dream is true, I'm about to die and the prophets I was gonna marry you.

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She's like, No, no, of course not hinged on what Citron says No way. No, no, that's not what it is. Like, that's not what I'm trying to suggest here. And that's a very odd proposal considering so double the Allahu Anhu was a very old woman, multiple children was not considered a marriageable person. Anyway, this is strange, right? Like, and she's an Abyssinia and her husband is fully fine. And

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no issues to his health at that point. And then she sees another dream the next night. And in that dream, the moon comes into her home and lands right next to her. So the moon falls into her home, and lands right next to her. So she wakes up and she tells her husband, he says, I'm probably not going to live very long.

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While the Allahu Anhu he passed away SubhanAllah. So his time was short after that. And she was late into her 50s, by the way, had five at least five children that we know of. And she Subhanallah what happens to her she goes back from Abyssinia to Mecca, and she lives kind of amongst her relatives. And the thought is that she's probably not at an age where she's ever going to get married again. Right that's the thought of so double the allow I know that her circumstances are that she's probably at a stage in her life where she's not going to get remarried at this point, and she's up to five years older than the Prophet size and then by the way, okay, so, come back to the prophets

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lie some prophets lie some had a dream but Aisha so they had a dream about the prophets lie Selim, no one has communicated this between each other at this point, right? Cola been talking about the Allahu anha

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who is actually a relative of Khadija, by the way while the lower on her so hola and Khadija are relatives and the prophets lie Selim had a special place in his heart for the relatives of Khadija. Right a special place in his heart for the friends and the relatives of Khadija will be low on her. And she's also married to a mighty companion Earth mount in the Netherlands while the Allahu Anhu so holed up in Turkey was kind of the matchmaker in the community. She was the one that would find

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husbands and wives for each other. We need a lot of photos and tech teams today, don't we? So hold on. I think Allah on how was like that matchmaker. Okay. So if she came to you to talk to you, you knew what she was coming to talk to you about.

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And the description of the Prophet sign Salam

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SubhanAllah. Look how she describes him. She came to the Prophet SAW Selim, she said Can any Urraca but the Halacha Khaled when the faculty Khadija like it's as if you're so depressed, what's happening to you? Over the death of Hadees all the Allahu Ana, and also last I said, I'm says Kennett, on malaria. What orbital bait that she was the mother of my family. She was the the sort of the core of this household, of course, like I'm missing Khadija. That's what it is. Right? The prophets like some is not getting he's not in a hurry to get remarried after the death of these are the law and that even if it's tradition, and the prophets I

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didn't have much of an appetite for dunya. Like if you think about it well, so last I saw them in his nature, right was pretty restricted when it came to worldly things. So he's taking the lesson. He's focused on raising for multimodal the Allahu anha. He's focused on getting over this and thinking about

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about the next step of his mission,

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but how Allah says, ya rasool Allah, Allah is a witch. Oh messenger of Allah. Once you get married, the Prophet saw some said to who? To who?

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So she said in shift to Bitcoin we're in chapter three even. She said, I have two women in mind for you one that's previously married and one that's never been married. The prophets I send them said, Who are they?

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She said, As for the first one, she said, Isha to Edna to a hubby. Hello, Kyla. He like this is such a beautiful description. He said, The first one is at Isha, the daughter of the Most Beloved of Allah's creation to you.

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Remember the prophets, like some had dreams about Isha. And he didn't talk about it. And she's coming. And she's suggesting she said, the first person I think you should get married to is at Isha, the daughter of the most beloved person in the world to have a bucket on the line. And she said, As for the other one, for soda bean to them, and at big, what Tabasco asked for the other one, you should marry soda or the Allahu taala. Anna, she believed in you and she followed you. She's having a very hard time, like her life is her circumstances are extremely difficult. And they're both going to serve a purpose in your life at this point, okay, now, so that all the Allahu anha

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fits many molds. She was very loving, she was humorous, she had raised multiple children already, she suffered greatly for her belief in Islam. And she was known as someone who is extremely agreeable, she doesn't argue with anybody. So that'll the Allahu anha very agreeable as a personality. And subhanAllah she gets along with everybody even see this later on in the household, the prophet slice, and I'm so little, the low on hand does not have any issues with anybody. In fact, you shall know the Allahu Taala and says that I never loved a woman like I love soda. And she was my role model and she was the person I wanted to emulate most. So inshallah Allah and her loved

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so that'll be alone. And her soda doesn't fight with anyone. She doesn't argue with anyone. She's, she's someone who can come and help out in your situation, oh prophet of Allah. And she also brings a lot of humor and joy. She suffered a devastating tragedy, just like you suffered a devastating tragedy and she's ready to get married right now. So this is someone that can immediately impact the mood of the household of the Prophet, slice them and support the Prophet slice and I'm over these very difficult years of his life sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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So, so that all the Allahu anha the dream comes true. And remember this parable, because it's significant. The moon fell in her house. Right? And if you were to tell soda, and maca by the way, the profit slice i was going to propose to you it'd be like no way. That would make no sense whatsoever but Subhanallah hola are the ALLAH and he goes to her and proposes on behalf of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and you can go back to the story of Sal double the Allah and now we've we've covered her in some detail. Eventually that works out. Then she says 32 on the romance. So I went to Amanda the mother of it shall be Allah Anna. For call to Yeah, I'm Romain. Oh,

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I'm Romain Ma. Allahu Allah communal Heidi will Baraka you have no idea what good news is coming your way? She's a really good matchmaker right? You see how she introduces you to the prophets lie some and how she's introducing now the proposal of the prophets lie some to own Roma. And Allah has decreed some special things for you. What hide what goodness and blessing is about to come your way. Oh, I'm Romain. She says what is it higher? What is it? So she said I was sort of lying Salalah on Islam yet Croatia. Can you believe the profit slice I mentioned Aisha

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and she's ecstatic, amazing news, right? Like whoa, this is not what I was expecting and hamdulillah but she says

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I have to wait for Abu Bakr to come home and I'll be alone. I know. So let's wait for workers to come home. So Hoda sits with Abu Bakr I'm sorry sits with Romain. Abu Bakr Radi Allahu Anhu comes home. She does the whole thing again. Right. And I will record all the Allahu Anhu what's his concern? She's young. I don't know. No. Looks let's look out here. This is he says, Our toss in a hula hula he I'm not too happy. Wait a minute. Can he marry her and she's his niece. Why? Because she's the daughter of his brother like me and the prophets like some are brothers.

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So is that even halal? His question is a question of is it halal? Like he's excited? But are you sure that's halal? Because me and the prophets lie? Some are brothers, right? So can you make sure it's halal first before we go any further? So that's one concern. So she comes back to the prophets like Selim and the prophets like some, I mean, this is a blessing, right? This is a blessing relationship between the prophets like Selim, he says Anna, who were who were Akif in Islam, I am his brother and he

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Is my brother in Islam? But this does not make haram. What the Brotherhood of Blood makes haram. Right? So that's the first thing. So she goes back to Rebecca the law and the law and who is ecstatic, but he has one more problem. And so Hannah, you already start to see the holes in Islamophobic arguments against this marriage right or when they try to make a mockery of this. I will record all the Allahu Anhu says the problem is, I already have promised her to Muslim. Ignore it son. She's already engaged.

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And Wallah he mad awfully for what then cut he's saying I don't break promises. Look, Abu Bakr Radi Allahu Anhu is a Sadiq. He's the trustworthy person.

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And he doesn't break promises and Janelia or Islam in the days of ignorance or in Islam. He's a truthful man, just like the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam. Now, there are a few variables here, what did they used to do it amongst themselves? Basically, what they would do is, and this was usually tribally based, right, you promise to people for marriage, when they're young, and then once they reach the age of marriage, you consummate the marriage, you perform the marriage. That's how they used to perform their marriages at the time very common and still common in some cultures today, right? That you've already picked out. You know, two people being married to each other and

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tribally, they already had this sorted out. So look to em was an honorable man. And I will record all the law on who has the most honorable men. And so Moto M and double bracket had a prior agreement that I shall the law on how would marry debate even more time when the time came? Okay. Subhanallah look how much more interesting this gets.

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More time didn't become Muslim. But he was an ally to the Muslims. Now, of course, the marital laws here are still being sorted out like this is very early on in Islam. Right. So at what point? Does a woman have to leave a believing woman have to leave a disbelieving man? How does this all function? All of that is still being figured out? Right? This is all coming through Revelation at this point. But Abubakar on the law, and who wants to be an honest man, he doesn't want to go and break it off with him on the basis that he's not Muslim. When he really just wants to marry his daughter to the Prophet, so I said no.

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So he says, Look, I have to go and talk to Malta and Malta. And by the way, also, he's an interesting character. multicam was an honorable ally to the Prophet sly Saddam, but he never became Muslim and he kind of he didn't take religion very seriously. Please, I'm just I'm not into this deen and even kind of made a mockery of the deen to an extent, right that, you know, based on tribal connections, like if there's an injustice here, I'm going to help the Prophet slice alum. But at the same time, I'm not really into the whole religion stuff. So back to the law and who is thinking to himself, how am I going to find a way to get out of this commitment? Right? And Allah would make it

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easy for him. Oh, Becca, Radi Allahu Anhu goes to visit multicam. ID. And

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as he enters into the house, he says Marta poodle feed me how the * God like what what are you all saying in regards to my daughter? Aren't you sure you are we still long for what we promised when that time comes? That we're going to marry our children to each other. So Moto M says, Well, you got to ask my wife.

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So Moto M, his wife comes and he says Mata poutine What do you say about this situation? For Aquila to Allah, Rebekah and for collet, the Alana in and Karina ha Alfetta in aka 232 houfy Denecke

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if we marry our son to your daughter, we don't want her entering him into the silly religion of yours. And she starts to insult our backyard the law on his new way of life. And she starts to say, I don't know if I want my son getting into this whole Islam stuff. And it might be that, you know, he's she's going to mess him up. Several Becquerel, the Allahu Anhu inside of himself, celebration

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on the outside. He's just keeping his composure and listening to her talk about I don't know if we want this anymore except for Jubail because, you know, she might bring this whole this lamp stuff to him and mess him up. So working with the law on who was holding his breath, and he's listening to and he says my daughter and she says my your daughter, and he says, magical Auntie says to motorists, well, what do you say? And Moto M says in her letter, Coloma Tessmer. Look, you heard the woman she said what she said about your daughter that we don't know if we want her to get involved with or we don't want our son to get involved with your daughter anymore. I mean, this was an

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earlier time where she's gonna mess him up and make him a Muslim. So we're back here on the Allahu Taala and who, you know, basically says fine, it's all fine. It's off. He gets up out of the house. hamdulillah thank god that's done. Now he has an easy way out because the engagement of

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It shall be allowed her to Jubail is, is now broken and he immediately comes home to him Romain, he says call cola tell the prophets lie, Selim, we're ready to go. We've solved it right now SubhanAllah. By the way, this is really interesting because it shows you the trajectories of people. And this is again, I think it's important to understand what's happening in real time in this society, who is Julia Jubail is the owner of why she who killed Hamza, while the Alon, SubhanAllah. Look at the trajectories here, how they ended up going, right Jubeir ends up being the owner of washi, all of the Allahu anhu, of course, May tilba Later on, who would kill Hamza, or the Allahu

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taala. And so basically, what happens at this point in that society is that you make the promise with each other, you carry out the engagement, and then when the girl hits the age where she is biologically able, then they carry out the marriage, right, they consummate the marriage. This was the way that marriage used to happen amongst the Arabs. So I'm not gonna go into the rabbit hole of talking about the age of actual doula and her too much because we already did a lecture it's called ending the debate the age of IHS, you can go back and you can watch that lecture in sha Allah Allah. But Subhanallah for 1400 years, not a single islamophobe has anything to say, including the

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Islamophobes, in the time of the Prophet slice, I'm about the age of the shuttle, the Allahu anhu, as if she's too young, to get married. Because this is actually the most typical form of marriage at the time of the herbs, which was once a woman was physically able, it's the one cross history biological marker that a person is ready for marriage, they would immediately try to get that person married. And in fact, if you look at the ages of similar marriages around the actual the level,

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they're almost all the same. They're almost all the same keeping in mind that by the way, ages are approximate at the time. Just like how some of you your parents may be all somehow born on January 1. And pick the year from somewhere I'm not going to tell immigration services but you know what I'm talking about right? Back then ages are pretty approximate you'll even find this with Michelle de la Anna someone she says that this is taking place on him six turning seven, and then it's consummated nine turning 10. This is all within approximate, but we don't have anything to be ashamed of and all Islamophobes do is they utilize shock value. Oh my god, right. But if you actually read at the time,

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if not Osaka. In his study, he actually says that women around the profit slice and then we used to reach that age between seven and nine with nine being on the later end. warmer climate lower altitude the difficult life in the desert, that girls would reach the age where they were ready for marriage much, much earlier than other people because of the difficulty of their lifestyle. And Alisha herself mentions that the time where marriage would be consummated where she would move in with the Prophet twice and would be the time when she becomes a woman and that's understood without Aisha Radi Allahu Taala anhand by the way, it gets you know, so it gets very interesting when you

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start to look at some of the other marriages at the time and you read the history of this. You know, I'm loving the Omron us. I'm loving Imran OS, his father, I'm driven to ask when he was born just so you can understand how things are different at that time. Ahmed was 12, a 12 year old dad and his mom was 10

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Imam Shafi Rahim Allah said I met a woman in muscle, who is a 21 year old grandmother. Okay, a 21 year old grandmother. So these are things that do not fit culturally and Islamophobes only utilize shock value. But the reality is, is that even if you took the other wives of the Prophet slice and I'm by the way, I didn't I didn't mention this in the ending the debate lecture, but this is something Subhanallah as I was studying the lives of the other wives of the Prophet slice them, if you took their first marriages, they almost all got married around the same time he married the profit slice. And the actual or the alone has the only woman the profit slice I'm ever married, that

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was previously unmarried. At that time, once a girl is ready for marriage, obviously life expectancy, the way that things progress in that society, it immediately would fall into play. So I'm not gonna go too far into that except to say, this is the most normal form of marriage that exists at the time and that's why not a single one of the enemies of the prophets lie some made it made a comment on the marriage of the prophets lie some to actually be low on that. So it's understood now that you shall will marry the prophets lie some later on when she's of that age. So double the Allahu Taala and her marries the prophets lie some at some point. And our Isha will not

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reach that age until after the Hijra. So this is agreed upon in Mecca, but after she is of an age of marriage, then she will move in with the Prophet SAW Salem, in El Medina. However, now she knows that the prophets lie some is her eventual husband. Okay, as she's growing up, now, where do we now see

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This transition into the hijra, I shall the Allahu Anhu narrates a very famous narration of the hijra, told through her eyes through the household of Abubakar or the Alon see seeing things different her vantage point is differently. She says LendUp tullian, Muslim Munna, ha Raja Abu Bakr and Mohamed you're on now what are the Habesha? When things got so tough on us? Remember Abu Talib has died, Khadija will the Allah Allah has died. The protection of the Prophet SAW Selim is really on thin ice at this point. Things are very difficult in Mecca. aboubaker started to make plans to migrate to Abyssinia so imagine Subhan Allah Isha is heading to Abyssinia with a bucket. Our family

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was about to go to Abyssinia and then as they are on their way out to Abyssinia to escape persecution. They reached bug kill humanoids which was an area on the outskirts of Mecca and even Adelina who is the chief of a tribe called Cara Adelina. He meets Abu Bakr Radi Allahu Anhu when he says yeah, I have a record where are you going? And I will record all the Allahu Anhu says Raja and he told me that what do you do and see Hatfield? Muda Robbie, My people have run me out. So I want to go explore the earth and worship my lord, meaning I'm going somewhere where I can worship Allah subhana wa Tada in peace. Even Adelina who's not Muslim. He says Miss silica Yeah, back Leia Raj,

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while your courage but a person like you Abu Bakr, you cannot be forced out. Nor could we even allow you to leave and listen to the words he says. He says in NECA taxi boom, boom autoseal Rahim will take me to the Cal watercolored bleef. What's your inner island? It will help. What does this all sound like? Anyone remember, it's almost identically the words of Khadija describing the profit slice of them. But you are someone who helps those who are in need. You establish the ties of kinship, you take care of the poor, you take care of anyone that's in need. You take care of the guests, the neighbors, why in the world would any society let a man like Rebecca the law on her walk

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out? I don't care about your religion. And I don't care for your religion. But you're too valuable to be allowed to leave Mecca, what's wrong with the people to let you leave Mecca, you're one of the most valuable assets we have in Mecca. So he says for Angelica Jr. I'm going to protect you. interject with Rebecca be balletic go back and worship your Lord in your home. I've got to open the bucket. So I'm going to definitely that goes back. He tells the leaders have boorish. Listen, a man like Rebecca, you don't kick out of your society, you don't ever force a man like a robot, get out of your community. This is a person that deserves the best treatment and he's under my protection.

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He's going to worship Allah subhana time be left alone, so I stopped him from going to Abyssinia Subhanallah I stopped him from going to other senior

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leaders and Quraysh have to honor their tribal system. They say you know what, fine, but tell him not to preach publicly. Just tell him worship Allah in his home than

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relieve us of his Riba in public. So we'll make it all the alarm on home goes home, and I installed the alarm on her she describes what happens. She says from the bed early I'll be back when sub 10 MSG then be fina either he were counting your cell li fi or your throttle Quran. Then I'll go back it had an idea my dad had an idea, right? So I installed the law NSS for some time, we just all worshipped in our home.

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But these are people of Derawan or people want to call to Allah subhanaw taala like it's not enough for us to pray by ourselves. So she said my father said let me build a message in front of my house.

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open courtyard and read the Quran publicly. It's still technically my house. So he's exposing a loophole in the tribal system of Quran. And so she said, So Abu Bakr Radi Allahu Anhu would lead us in Salah. So imagine now I show the Allah and her praying with her father and Romain praying with Rebecca. And she said that when he would read the Quran, the women and the children of Mecca used to come and they would surround the house to listen to him read what kind of blowback, Raju and ka La Younique where he either poorer and poorer and what a beautiful description she says an audible bucket was a man who used to cry a lot. La Yummly querini He he couldn't control his eyes when he

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would read the Quran. He had no control of his eyes. So you knew it wasn't just the beauty of the recitation or the beauty of the revelation. It was the clear impact that it was having on I will record all the alongside it and when he would read the Quran and so people would surround and they watch trouble bucket all the a lot of time on hook praying and reading Quran. And eventually, they made it hard for a ducky now they said Listen

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as your guide broke the deal, we said no reading publicly. They went back and forth and Adelina said Listen, you're compromising my ties to Quraysh. I will back it on the allow and was said, For in the rue de la Kajiwara were LWR Allah azza wa jal. So I'll be back research and Adelina. You know what, look, I don't want to put you in an awkward position anymore and I'm not going to stop reading Quran publicly. So take your protection back and I'll take the protection of Allah subhanaw taala. So we continued this way. Now he saw the ALLAH and he says it was that time that the prophets like Selim

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started to initiate the plans for Hijra to Medina so they almost Subhanallah winter Abyssinia and miss that window where the profit slice I'm starting to initiate the Hijra to El Medina. So she says, while we were sitting in our home,

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the profit slice and I'm comes to her house,

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and his head was covered. And he came to our house at a time that he didn't use to come.

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All right, this is really interesting because she used she said that the prophets like someone I was a kid would come to the house every day and every night. But he came out an odd time, a time that he didn't used to come.

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So Subhanallah it's really beautiful because I wish I could capture the emotions the sentiments of her parents like imagine growing up as a child and then your parents like the prophets like sounds coming. Right the excitement, the somewhat of a nervousness, but in all right every time the prophets like some come so she could see that in her parents faces right. So when the Prophet saw some sought permission to enter at that time, and his head was covered, and it was an odd time.

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She said that Abu Bakr said to us, Fida Allahu Abbey will only Subhanallah even in private he says this, Abu Bakr says my mother and father be sacrificed for him. While Allah He magia behalf he had his era in learning there is there has to be a reason by Allah that He has come to us at this odd time. So he's only come to us for something significant. Now at ESA says that the Abubaker had these two camels out back that he was preparing just in case the Prophet sighs I'm asked for he and him to go on the Hijra together. Okay, so just in case, and he's held on to these two camels, without sacrifice without writing them for months, just waiting for the word from the Prophets lie Selim. Is

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he going to need these camels for the Hijra? And maybe just maybe it was in his heart? Maybe he'll take me with him. Maybe I'll get to be his company. So Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he called out

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and he said to Abu Bakr Radi Allahu Anhu that anyone who's with you you should dismiss them right now like I need to talk to you. Okay, like I need to have a private conversation with you.

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Alright, Isha was sitting there. A little man was sitting there and the sister was sitting there and I will record all the law and was said in Mr. Han, Luca, BRB and Yara so low, that it's only your family on Messenger of Allah. It's just us. No one's home except for us the family. So come on in. So the prophets lie some sits down. And the prophets lie some says Allah has given me the permission to make Hijra. Abu Bakr Radi Allahu Anhu says are so heavy Allah so Allah,

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Allah so Allah,

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I get to go with you your companionship on Messenger of Allah, your companionship a messenger of Allah Subhana Allah and the prophets I send him says, Yes,

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you should only Allah Allah. This is the first time in her life. She says, I heard that some people cry when they get happy. But she says that it was the first time or eight to 100 Yep, team in a photo I ever saw someone crying out of joy. I mean, she's seen a lot of pain in these last few years. A lot of tears of pain. So the first time my life actually saw a man cry, tears of joy, what that actually means so I will work it'll be Allah and who is in so much joy Allahu Akbar. I get to go with the Prophet slice on him on this journey where we're probably going to be killed. But I get to be with my best friend. I get to be with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. And then

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he says yes, Allah. I got two camels out back. I'm ready to go. You take one I'll take one. When are we going the prophets Eisen says the feminie of a vicar, but only if I can pay for it. Oh, Rebecca. Look Subhanallah the the manners of the prophets lie some he's struggling himself. He knows Abubakar will do anything for him. The prophets lie some says with them. I know I have to pay you for that camel. Before we take this journey. So Abu Bakr Radi Allahu Anhu agreed. And so you should know the law and has said so we started to pack the house and we packed their bags for them. So she's packing the bags for a bucket. And for the prophets line Salem and a smart are the Allahu Taala and her very

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famously that Anita clean the possessor of the two belts, she was in charge of bringing food to the profit slice I'm gonna wobec it on the way so she tied the two waistbelt Abdullah, my brother is going to go

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and spy on the news of the people of MK and deliver it to them. As for our interest, she was too young to participate in any of the tasks related to the Hijra. So now it's her mom and her that are going to travel with the family of the prophets lie Selim, outside of that immediate Hijra of the profit slice I'm in Abu Bakr so she says, masala spice I'm sent to us Zaid are the Allahu taala. So I saw the Allah and her says aw fab is aided in Hadith. Of course, the adopted son of the prophets like Selim, He comes to us, and he has two camels, with the family of the prophets like Selim. And then he takes the little homes that he has, and he goes and he purchases an extra three so that we

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could all fit as five camels on our way to the Hijra. So this is the caravan of zero the Allahu Anhu that inshallah Allah and he remembers traveling in and I will back here and the prophets lie some have taken off. So she said, it was with Zaid and Fatima and Uncle foon and so the the wife of the Prophet slice I'm at the time on Amon or the Allahu Allah and her the the wife of Xena and Hanifa and Osama may Allah be pleased with them all. So they had five camels. And they started to make their way separately under the care of Zaid or the Allahu taala. And who knows something very interesting happens to a set of the law and in this moment,

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he settled the law on her. She had Subhanallah an issue with her camel.

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All right. You don't necessarily get to pick the right camels at this time. You can't be picky. You're just trying to get whatever you can get to get out right. You're trying to flee literally death. So her camel had a hard time following with everyone else in taking orders. And I installed the alarm on her was not very big. She wasn't very heavy. So at some point she says in the hijra, the camel that I was on just took off.

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So I was about to get lost from the rest of the pack. And she says in my mom calls out, wow Russa who

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says so beautiful. She says his bride the prophesy sums, right not my daughter.

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That's the province of my son's wife over there. Like we can't lose her. This is serious. Now this is much more serious than just my daughter. And I installed the alarm and hazard the camel just bolted with me.

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And I was about to get lost. And then she said that a voice came and told me MC key grabbed the reins. And literally the camel stopped and turned around. And basically an angel walked me back over to the crew to the group. Allah who I don't know if this was Djibouti or it has salaam there's nothing to prove but an angel the voice of an angel said hold the reins and then moved her camel back to the rest of the family of the prophets lie Selim. And Abu Bakr Radi Allahu Taala Anna, so she said. So we made it to Cuba.

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And we stayed in our place. The family of Abu Bakr, the prophets lie Selim, at that time with his family. They hadn't yet consummated the marriage, the message was built, and then they made their way to El Medina. And I know that we're coming close on time. So I'll try to wrap up at least part one in sha Allah to Allah just at least we get to this part, which is significant, the actual wedding of our Isha and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So time goes on.

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And she says, we're in Benin, Harith Ibn Al Hassan. We're in an area of Medina called Benin Hadith, in Al Hassan. And she says, her Tamara Casati hat Wafaa Allahu Germain, that I got sick. And some of my hair fell out. And then she, she changed. So basically, she reached that age where she matured while the Allahu taala. And she said her hair grew back beautifully. She, you know, she she was able to come over some of that illness, some of that sickness. And she says, For tetany on me on Romain. So my mom, I'm Romain cane. Carla, we're in the laffy Ooredoo Hatton, where Mary Sawa Heba to Lee fissara heartbeat. So she literally says like, I mean, I was like, on a swing.

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I'm with my friends. And this was the time, time for the wedding. Now she's reached that age where again, girls move on to that next journey. So she said, so my mom calls for me. So I came to her woman, every man to read and I didn't know what exactly she wanted. For after that, be ready for Oh katni da da we're in de la en hijo.

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She said that she took me by the hand. She took me to the door she said I'm still panting

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Because I ran to my mother, and it's time for the wedding, right? Like, it's all now about to happen. Subhanallah so the time has come for the wedding to take place. So she said, I started to pants, and she said had second bound on FC. And then I calmed down a bit.

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And she said, from Africa that she and her mother had to be he alleged he walked up see, then she took some water, she washed my face, she washed my washed my head, some Kolodny a doubt that either and this was one minute on sa fee baiting for Pune. Alhaj, Haiti when Baraka wa Allah say retire, said so I got into my house and it was a bunch of women from the facade, and they were singing the songs and they were ready to get her ready for her wedding. So they had the hairdresser these things cross culture Subhanallah right, the hairdresser, everyone's gonna get me ready. So she said for us limit ni la Hinman for us, Latinum and certainly, she gave me to them and then they got me ready.

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And they basically fixed me up, right so I was, you know, in my mind, I knew Okay, now's the time. She's about to marry the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and they're singing billhighway well Baraka that now it's with the blessing of Allah Subhana Allah to Allah and with goodness. And she said, Then they took me to basically the feast the wedding

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and a snap into his ear or the Allahu Anhu on Zarya. We actually did an episode about her recently. Healthy buttered unsalted the order of the women She's a strong woman. It's not been to Z in a second all the Allahu anha she says in ni a yen to isha to Rasulullah and so I some I was the one who prepared it so for the profit slice on them so she was the woman that was kind of coaching I saw the low Anna for the next step. So did her hair got ready, got her dress on, everything is being prepared, and the prophets lie some comes in

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with all of his beauty sallallahu alayhi wasallam and of course this is a first of many in Medina This is the first wedding and Medina the first time you're seeing the prophets lie, some get married talk about setting expectations in society. The first time the unsought who loved the prophets lie some more than themselves are participating in a wedding. The the way the wedding is conducted is going to set an expectation. You know the the dress of the prophets lie Selim, the way he carries himself so the prophets lie some enters and the prophets lie Selim is the most handsome of grooms are they his salatu salam and inshallah the Allahu anha is nervous as anyone would be in the

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situation. And she says For Allah He now a jedna in the whole Illa cada Hanneman lovin you know, we found that the wedding of the prophets lie Selim, he had a bowl of milk from Saturday not available the law and

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they couldn't afford any animals to sacrifice. No fancy meals, sorry dinner law, the law and who remember used to operate the soup kitchen and Medina. He sent over some lemons and milk for the wedding feast of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So this is now the unsolved the Saudi women gathering around it shall the Law and the Prophets lie Selim is there. So the prophets lie some he drank from the bowl of milk, some now Allah who are Isha and then he handed it to Asia, and Asia or the Allahu anha like froze up, she got che

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and a smart said to her later the other Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam who the men who don't turn away the hand of the Prophet, slice and drink from it. So actually, Allah Allah said, so I drank from it, Allah HYAH and I was still super shine. And then I put it in my lap. And still, she's like, what happens now? The profit slice and I'm says, Now when he Salahi back, give some milk to your friends. You put it on your lap, pass it around. This is the Feast of the prophets. I said, um, this is our wedding Sullivan, it's milk. So next time someone asks, you know, I'm not gonna go there about how your wedding should be just ask the Renaissance or whatever hotels you do. And can we have

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milk for our wedding? Pass around bowls of milk. This was the wedding of the Prophet slice.

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So she

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puts it forward to her friends. And they said learners to he were not hungry and the profit slice of them said, that hedge Marina do our annual cat even like, don't lie about being hungry. I know you all are hungry, go ahead and drink from the milk. It's okay. So they drink from that milk. And subhanAllah you shall have the Aloha Anna she describes that moment. She says for a UniSA he can Hawa and the hula Mini, which of the women of the prophets lie some was as blessed as I I got married to him and show well, and it was engaged him in show while and then the marriage was consummated in Shabbat. So this was in the month of show well, and the reason why she says that, you

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know, there are two things. One of them I will ask him says in the Marchetti, how NASA and you're defeated Nisa Fisher well, they thought oh,

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men walk around Fisher well and examine in a way that some of the people, you know, had these superstitions where they didn't get married and show well, because they said that there was a plague that hidden show us some time before. So some of them said that or that the month of Chawan was a month of good fortune, or that it's the shahada of eight, right, it is the month of eat Chawan that right after Ramadan, so it's a blessed month in that sense. So, inshallah Lila and her moved in with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. And the only thing I want to cover from this part now, because next week we'll get into the love story in sha Allah Tana. This is a series that talks about

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sacrifice Subhan Allah, the wedding feast of the Prophet sly seminar. So the Allahu Anhu was just milk. They didn't even have animal sacrifice. The Maha Isha was the mother of all the ways the prophets like some 50 dirhams, not much at all. And she

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talks about the difficulty of this household.

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And I used to hold the law and he would, of course, fall madly in love with the profits of a lie. So I'm as a wife, they already knew the Macan, the status of the prophets lie Selim, right she'd seen him in that way before but now is their husband and we know that the love that he is going to have for the prophets like some is unlike any other love right? This is a love story like no other. But I saw the ALLAH and he basically tries to overcompensate for the poverty and the fact that she wasn't a very good cook, or I'm just gonna put it out there. This is a well known thing about actually the Allahu anha so women can be wonderful in many ways. She She just didn't really cook very well. So

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she used to comb the hair of the prophets lie someone she could she tried to bring forth his will do. She would try to serve the prophets lie some and she says, and I found the prophets lie Selim. He used to repair his own clothes and his own shoes, what kind of he had met the ally he and the prophets lie Selim was serving the people in his household like what a man some Allahu Allah He was something Subhan Allah what this man was like, that the prophets lie some did not expect to live like a king. The prophets lie some was someone who was actually competing even in those things, and it would have been a natural expectation but the prophets lie Selim is someone who is serving in his

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own household, and this is one of the most powerful Rewi out in this regard. All right, you should have the Allahu anha she used to say to her nephew, Ergebnisse Zubayr. And this is by the way, the route by which we have much of the Sierra, you have enough tea in Pune, Lenin guru Eid al Hera famille de la familia de la, la SATA, Hiler. Fish, rain one all Kedah fi abbiati Rasulullah sallallahu sallam

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said, Oh my nephew, we used to look at the moon, moon after moon after Moon meaning what months would path pass? And we never lit a fire in the house of the prophets license. Meaning what? We never had food to cook.

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Like can you imagine Subhanallah she saying this was the household of the Prophet slice on them. We wouldn't have anything to cook. Can you? Can you imagine your life? Two months three months without a hot meal? Can you imagine that? Is Pamela This is the profit slice I'm gonna follow the law and look at the love story. It's not based upon these material things. She said months would go by so Ottawa says yeah holla summer Karina your issue. So how did you use to live on my aunt's? How did you use to make it she said a sedan. Uh, tomorrow will mark the two black things tomorrow. And water. I mean, water did not used to look like this. Alright, that's how we survived in the

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household of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. And she then goes on to say, but we had some neighbors from the unsavoury that were good neighbors, sometimes they'd send to the Prophet, slice alum, some Lebanon, or some, you know, some of the milk from their animals and they serve that to us. Her possessions in this house, Mohammed bin, I'll be back it says that I shall have the Allah who only had a few dresses. She had a red shirt that she would wear at home. And she had a black overcoat so like an abaya that she would wear when she would go out. This was a show of the law on his wardrobe. The First Lady of Medina, right, that she had a red shirt and she had a black eye

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buyer. And she had one dress for the festivals that was yellow, like a yellow was dress that you would wear to the weddings and to the occasions of the women of the facade. You saw the alarm on her said we had one bed in the house of the Prophet slice and um, and it also served as our mountain our couch. What does that mean? So that we had this Hasid this one thing that we would fold up at night and sleep on. And then during when the day came, we'd spread it out and we would sit on it with our guests and we'd spend the day on that same mat and then we'd fold it back up and we'd sleep on it. It's Pamela and she says that our in the Hydra in this apartment of ours. On the profit side, some

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would pray he would pray on the Hacienda at night. And the Prophet slicin would tap my leg when he wanted to do sujood and I move my legs so he could do so do sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and you know

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was beautiful. She never complained about poverty. This was a sacrifice that she grew up with Beckett and this is the sacrifice of our messenger so lies on them. And this was a test that Allah gives to them. And please don't go home and throw out everything from the closet and say, See, because you can't be the profit slice of them. But this is to appreciate the sacrifice to appreciate the zoo had the asceticism that they had a few other things because she had some possessions. I should not be alone. And when she moved them, she brought her her old dolls. She had her dolls as well. All right. And the prophets like Sam said, what are those? She said How old are you banality?

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Those are my daughter's All right, those are my daughters. So the prophets like Selim said he saw some horses and of course their their dolls back then were not as defined as our some horses that had some wings on them. So the province Isom said Maha they actually what does that she said horses the prophesy some said horses with wings. She says Mr. Olympia and then a viola he said a man can are in the hooligan law who

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didn't you know that the Prophet of Allah said a man as I'm used to have horses with wings and the prophets lies I'm starting to laugh like she's saying to the prophets. I'm like what you don't know. Like Soleimani salaam, his horses had wings, that engineer, right? I'm telling you, oh prophet of Allah, that the Prophet of Allah said a man, his horses had wings and the Prophet slice I'm just starting to laugh. Subhanallah about this. And the last thing I'll say about this as she was a woman of incredible sadaqa she inherited that from her parents. And you saw the law and how was a woman who love to give despite their difficult circumstances of the loved one is obeyed. Or the Allahu

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anha he says Mara ate on a tiny edge with them in Anisha. What USMA? Would you do Huma machteld If he says that I've never seen two women more generous than my mom are smart, and my aunt Isha, but their generosity was different. He says Mr. Issa can attach metal sheet in a sheet head to either candidate stem or into her class. I'm not What Am I smart? For cannot learn tomsy crochet and Leland.

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He says that as for our Easter, she used to collect whatever she could. And then once it became something presentable, she'd give it in charity. asked for my mom, a smart, nothing lived to see the next day in her home. So my mom and my aunt, were both so generous competing, and charity. And I saw the law and when she would have a few coins to give, what would she do? She would perfume, her coins and musk. She'd give them a charity. She said because this goes to Allah subhanho to Anna, right. And the story, so many stories, the story of the mom who came to the house have a shot of the Allahu anha. And she had two daughters with her. And Isha looked in her home and all they had was three

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dates. And she gave the three dates, and she's telling the profit slice of the story. And the mom and the two daughters, they all take a date and they start to the the young girls, they swallowed their date so quickly. And then they pointed to the date. And the mom said, so what did she do? She split it into two, she gave it to her daughters. And he saw the law and he was sharing the story with the profit slice. And when he came home like she used to share the stories of sadaqa from that household what we would give and the profit slice and I was so amazed by this, this woman. And this is the hustle of you no fear the Fire even with half a date. Because Pamela that one action entered

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her into Jenna just that one action when she looked at her daughters and she took that date, and she gave it to the two. And finally, where she tried to combine her love of sadaqa with the love of the prophets lie Selim. She said one day we finally had lamb in our house. And someone came and knocked on the door. So it was always quick, quick, quick, but she knew the profit slice and loved the shoulder of the Lamb. So she said I gave all of it away but I kept the shoulder for the profit slice. And when also last night and came home, I told the prophets I said we had lamb that came to us. I donated all of it feasable Allah I kept the shoulder and she and the prophets license said

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rather the only thing that you have let go is the shoulder because the only thing that stays is what is given for the sake of Allah subhanho wa Taala so this was a house Dear brothers and sisters that was built on a unique type of love. In sha Allah to Allah next week, we're just going to talk about the love of the Prophet slice I'm gonna show the Allah on hand all the incidents that speak to that may Allah Subhana Allah be pleased with our mother, son his peace and blessings upon our messenger Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Zack Milan, Ohio Santa Monica Moroccan to line with Qatar

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