Gardens Of The Pious #238 Oct 26th 2016

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allah God is the greatest

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glory to be open you must to be the best and give his best religion to allah God is the greatest

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glory to Him on any humans to be the best and give his best religion to

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a Salam o alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatu Bismillah AR Rahman AR Rahim all praise you to Allah. We praise Him and we seek His help. So ever Allah guides is a truly guided one and whomsoever Allah leaves us say, none can show him guidance. We are witness that there is no God worthy of worship but Allah alone and a bear witness that Muhammad peace be upon him is his last message. Dear brothers and sisters Welcome to another Live edition of your program. Guardians of the pious. Today's episode is number 286 By the grace of Allah and will continue explained in chapter number 71 In this Blissett series. This is our third episode in explaining the chapter of a tabula rasa Hello Jana

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halen meaning

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humility and shown courtesy towards the believers.

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Today in sha Allah will begin this episode by studying Hadith number 603. Six or three.

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The hadith is a very sound Hadith agreed upon its authenticity between the two great Imams Imam Buhari and a Muslim, a difficult ally. And it is narrated by one of those beautiful companions who have served the Prophet sallallahu Sallam 14 Complete years when he was young. So we have learned a lot from him and he has a great deal of experience from the company of Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him. It is not but

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are other than an assembly Malik may Allah be pleased with him. And Assembly Malika the Allahu Anhu narrated that and the humara Allah CBN for Salam Allah Himachal Ken and Ryu sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, if Allah whatever canali So Anna Sydney Malik, may Allah be pleased with him, pass by some children. And he greeted them. He said As salam o alaikum to them, then he said the Prophet sallallahu Sallam used to do the same. The hadith is pretty short, but it has great lessons to learn from this beautiful Hadith. It shows us number one, the impact of

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the old model when his followers

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we see in our days, those people who say I'm a big fan of this player or this singer or this dancer, so they can wait to see the new fashion they will come up with the new outfit that they will be wearing or if they do a commercial.

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So, the celebrities on the you know, they they do a commercial, they charge millions. Why? Because the marketing people know that the public and defensive this person would blindly follow him would go shopping and would buy the brand that this person likes, because they love him they are possessed with his love or Latina am and will shed the hope Balilla

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that believers are stronger in the love to Allah Almighty. They love Allah more than anything else.

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More than anything else, and they love the one who led them to Allah Almighty, more than anything else more than selves, their own selves. And the Hadith. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam said, None of you will become a true believer not until I become dearer to him then his wealth, his children, his wife, his parents, his family, and even himself his own self onesie edge mine

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now you may know how to come Hattah Akona habila him in Mali he already Amina nasty igmi So those who truly love the messenger of Allah peace be upon him. They're very keen to study his Sierra. Why, in order to imitate him in order to copy his actions peace be upon him sooner Sydney Malik was one of those who loved the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him so much. He said, I have served the Messenger of Allah what

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The news and he says, By Allah my hand never touched anything softer than self, other than the hand of the Prophet sallallahu Allyssa

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and no one has ever treated me better than the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him. He says By Allah, He never hurt my feeling. He never said to me Why did he do this to anything that I did? Or why didn't you do that? Anything that I did not do it? Salah salah. He was very merciful, even with his servants, and with those who are, you know, pretty young, we call them youngsters.

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So Anna Sibley Malik for serving the Prophet sallallahu Sallam have gained a lot of experience. Once he was walking and he saw some kids age younger than 12, maybe 789 10. So aniseed mnemonic, the companion of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam started in giving them the salam Seda Salam, ala Camilla Salaam Alaikum, all of you, how are you?

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And then the prophets then enter Sydney Malik said he did so because Cana Rasulullah He is Allah Allahu Allah selling me a pharaoh and Cana which is a present tense that means the I'm sorry, EFL, who is a present tense that he used to do it can is a past tense, of course, fairly modern Narcos Nassif, but EFL, who he used to do, it indicates that as Allah Almighty said, Can I Morrow Allah who Bill Salatu was the carrier and he used to do that in regular basis.

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He said about Prophet is male, he used to command his people to pray and to give him a care. It wasn't once every while or once every blue moon or once in his lifetime. No. He used to do that on a regular basis. That was his main concern, to keep commanding his family to pray to give the care to give any charity and can Rasulullah Salallahu Alaihe Salam follow. Yanni the Prophet sallallahu Sallam used to do it very often. Whenever he would pass by children, kids, youngsters, he will begin them with the salam he wouldn't wait for them to come running towards them and kiss his hand say big Molenbeek share or the Prophet of Allah know the Prophet sallallahu sallam, besides smiling to them

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will say As salam o Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh in the Hadith,

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the Prophet sallallahu ala Selim taught us the importance and the virtues of exchange in the greeting of Islam. And it is also the greeting of allergen and may Allah make us amongst is douleurs to hear Tomio Mel Carnahan Salam, the geeting on the day when they meet him, when they meet Allah Almighty on the Day of Judgment. The greeting of the rulers of Heaven is a Salam o alaikum, Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Peace be with you. And Allah's mercy and His blessings. He said, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in the Hadith, by Allah You shall not enter paradise until you truly believe

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and you will not truly believe until you love one another. Shall I not guide you to something that if you do, you would love one another. It will develop and create love amongst you. They certainly are rasool Allah. So the prophets Allah Allah Allah selama said F Xu Sal Amma intercom, spread the greeting of peace among yourselves that will develop love. And there is a certain Hadith collected by enamel Buhari and Narrated by Abu Hurayrah may Allah be pleased with him? Were the prophets Allah Salam Patos, the etiquette of giving salah?

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Or do we need to learn the etiquette of giving salam? Yes, why? Because everyone should know their rights and their duties.

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So the prophets Allah Allah Allah selama said, you send him a rocky Boyle meshi the one who should begin giving salam to the other if somebody is writing and somebody is working the one who's writing should give salaam to the one who's working on foot. Well Masha Allah jealous and the person who's walking you pass by some people who are already sitting station somewhere. You're the one who's supposed to give them Salam because you're the one who's passing by them.

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And if you are coming upon a sitting what I measures are a meaning. You should not expect those who are in a meeting to give you Salah and first, you're the one who's supposed to begin them with the salam it is your duty. And the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam warned those who like people to stand up for them because this is a sign of arrogance.

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They are used to whenever once the walk in old people will stand up for them. This is not permissible, because this is a sign of

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arrogance. And he said, A serifs should give salam upon Alchemia. So the younger should give Salam to the elder. When I meet somebody who's older than me, and we are both walking coming across each other, without any thinking or any institution, it should be me who begin my eldest Assalamu alaykum uncle, Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh I shouldn't wait for him to give me Salam because, you know, I feel better than him. I feel myself superior to him. That's another sign of E of arrogance. Also the prophets Allah Allah Allah sellin consider exchanging Salam, or beginning the other party with a Salam, a sign of a pleasure from Allah Almighty in case that you are having an

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issue of somebody else.

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So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam has said when two Muslims are boycotting and not talking to each other for three days, Allah Almighty will not accept their deeds as you know that on on Thursday our these will be presented before Allah Almighty, but except these two

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these two who are having an issue are not talking to each other. We're boycotting each other to Muslims are not talking to each other. So Allah Almighty will see to his interest RG I had ain postpone the case of these two had to study until they reconcile amongst themselves. The Prophet sallallahu sallam said about this to your audible Had you already and he turns around, I see the person one day used to be my friend used to be my close brother, or even my relative, my blood brother. And they're not talking to each other. I'm awfully invited to sort of problems and resolve matters between the brothers and the sisters within the same family. Whether you do business whether

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the two they are living in the same place and this any part in my spot, or he did whatever or his child did whatever, to hurt my child. So when you go and you sit with them, you feel sometimes how the brothers and the sisters have so much hatred twitchy towards each other.

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The Prophet sallallahu sallam said what can eliminate that when he said you already had so this person will turn his back to the other while you're ready to had another person will turn his back to his brother did want to have an eye contact. They don't want to talk to each other. They want to give Salem your little head to head with Ohio Home and many of that will be Salem and the best of them is the one who begin the other by giving Salem oh my god this is not easy. I know Allah it is not easy.

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I know and the prophets Allah seller knew it's not easy. But remember in the previous episode was studied the Hadith, that in which the Prophet sallallahu sallam said I swear to Allah and he had to swear to tell us that there are three facts. Mentor Waldo Isla Hara

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and Metho had to lay Ihlara he who humbles himself before Allah, Allah Almighty vows to reason Teresa's honor to raise his mentioned tourism into a higher rank, because he humbled himself, when myself and any person, my employee, the coffee man, the driver or any person, if I have an issue with any person

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we're fighting, we're not talking to each other. Then I begin by saying a Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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That melts the ice, not just because the eyes that melts the ice, and it softens the heart, unless of the other person is pure evil and it happens but this is very rare. But Allah Almighty says

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in Surah

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facilite so beautiful I will at the start, we'll have to

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edify our ability here. As for either lady very Nicola. Well, no one can know who will you and Hamid

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and Hassan and Sal, the good and the evil are never equal. They're not the same. So if you've been treated

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a terrible treatment if somebody upset you or treated you badly, do not react to him with the same rather edify ability as an repelled the evil and word of the evil with one which is better for either lady vena cava nawada Tune in now while you're on humming as a result of that, the person who used to be playing enemy to you will turn to become not just a friend, but like, if he's an intimate friend. Why? Because of your kind treatment. You're the one who converted him from the position of animosity into the intimate friendship. You become very close friend with him. Why? Because of

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You're kind treatment. So the prophets Allah Allah, Allah says I'm top of the etiquette of giving salam as I mentioned earlier, and he said that when very beautiful practice that will develop love amongst us in the Muslim community is F Xu, Salah Medina calm spirit, the greeting of a Salah. And he would be the first to practice that. But he's Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, he is a messenger of ALLAH. Whenever he is passing by some kids, some kids,

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he will say Salam o alaikum, and give them Sudan. Yes. And this is why NSN all the companions of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam used to do the same because he had been taught by the Messenger of Allah. Not only that, the Prophet salaallah Salaam would spare some time to chat with the boys to chat with the girls to have fun with them, and to inquire about their toys.

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And as an American, the sound had easy said I used to have a younger brother. So he was pretty young. He used to have a bird, and he used to play with it. Look, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam would meet and his brother and his younger brother and said, Yeah, that omega

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and omega this is like a nickname. It's for a person who is an old person and he has a child who is given a nickname after the name of his son. Yeah, about Omega they call me Abu Abdullah man

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because of my son Abdullah man, or Abdullah because our twin so you can say about the lower abdomen. But about Amaya he was younger than Ennis and Ennis was already a kid. So why because the prophets Allah Allah Selim used to give those beautiful nicknames to even the children in order to make them feel like responsible and grown up. And it does work brothers and sisters, when you trust them when you give them confidence when you give them self esteem, and when you support them morally. So he used to say, Yeah, Am I fat and a bird that he used to play with Salah lo Allah salah. He said to a man who complained to him, that

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I feel my heart is harsh is it in Sahara Selia, team,

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MC and Messiah is to wipe him Sahaba roussy Come

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and in the area of Surah

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Ada and number six in the Sahel will also come why with your hands over your heads. In Sahara Selia. Team when you see a child, particularly an orphan, why would your hand over his head and Pat over his shoulder? Give him a hug, that will soften your heart. And another advice to make you humble is when you see the kids and the miners is to play with them to have a chat with them and to do as a Prophet sallallahu Sallam used to do he used to give them Salem Williamson who Allah will see him and he would live with his hands on top of their heads. And that's why those kids loved this great leader they loved him so much. Why then now is now frog

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during the Battle of bedroom the young boys and they say to Abdullah man enough

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Oh uncle, each one of them whisper to Abdullah man and now. I said Oh uncle. What can I see? Abuja

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what can I see? Abuja Hello Abdul Rachmaninoff is the 100 at the Hadith. He said why is it I heard that he used to annoy the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him in Makkah, these guys in Medina and they have never seen Abuja and they know knows Abuja, but because he heard that Abuja used to hurt and know the Messenger of Allah, they want to take revenge from him. They want to kill him.

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And mouth did the same thing. So one came to his right and one came from his left and they both asked him and he said, When I see him, I'm going to point out to him.

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So when he saw up again and said, This is your guy, they both ran towards him, like arrows come out of their bows. Each other form, stabbed him with one of his swords, and they came both to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam saying that enter Fidel to enter Catarratto I killed him I killed him. So he looked at their souls and said both of you have killed killed home. Abu

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why? What is between you and Abuja? Because we heard that and now can you is in the video of Salah Salem. Why do those kids love the messenger of Allah so much because he's to be loved. He didn't just preach things which he did not act upon. Cannot Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam Yeah, follow on he would pass by the kids. He would read them, wipe over their heads and the following

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Hadith will give us some more informations about how we used to treat boys and girls. Likewise Salallahu Alaihe Salam. Now I remember something when I was approximately 12 years old.

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And I was studying in other homeomorphism Quran finished,

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you know more than half of the Quran memorization almost two thirds, and they study in touch with and feel, and so on. Then they went to the masjid, but still a kid 12 years old. And, you know, I tried to, you know, because of the Hadith that we study, the privilege of praying behind the imam or in the first row, and so on the machine was in nearby, but whenever we are done, or mother would say, Go, Go run to the masjid, even if we will be, you know, eating, finished, go to the machine. So when I go to the machine, my biggest concern was this guy, every time I go, I say, step back.

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Why? Said because you're a kid, you're not allowed to stand here. Yeah, but you know, I know most of the Qur'an by heart. And I know this, and I know that we'll get back until one day I met this beautiful young chef.

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And I complained to him, I said, why every time I come in, or this person who's an older person,

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you know, he every time he sees me in the first row, he sent me back, he said he shouldn't, I said he shouldn't. So it's okay to stand in the first row. He said, Actually, I'm very pleased to see you in the first row. It's a pleasure to see you in the first I always want to see you standing here. He gave me a big boost, and self esteem. And he gave me a lot of confidence in myself. And he made me love to come to the machine. And I tell today, I love the show so much. I revered him so much. Wherever I go, I pick up the phone I consultant in all my serious matters. Even when I traveled to the states and I lived there for years, every major thing I call him up is like you know better than

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a family member Subhanallah it is the habit of some of the elders in the masjid, unfortunately, that when they see the kids, they kick them out. Kids are not allowed in the masjid. Kids are not allowed in the machine. You know, there is a difference between a man is a child who understands how to speak the machine, how he should respect the machine, and he stands up in the prayer properly, and so on. So once I was taking my kids,

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with me to the machine,

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and I was going to lead the prayer, and somebody

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forced them to step back, there's only one line. And it's not complete, He said you you're not allowed to stand up here.

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So I brought him to the finish row. And after the prayer, he said kids are not allowed to stand in the facial. Why not?

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Especially if the role is not complete.

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And they know for and more than you do. And their stand up in the prayer standing up in the prayer properly. And with the with the proper etiquette of the prayer perhaps more than you do. You don't understand what kind of negative impact you leave on the heart of a child, when you put him down when you kick him out when you so one day I

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was asked to give the hotbar

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in a mission, I want to this machine where this guy every time he would see me would take me out not only me, all the kids, he hated kids, he would take us out and he would throw us out of the machine. Sometimes he would hold us from the collar like that, and he would kick us out of the machine.

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So now he doesn't remember me, he does recognize me. And he is in charge of the machine. He's the one who ran to open the door for me and open the office and bring me the coffee while waiting for the hotbar. And I keep looking at him and I keep remembering all those bad memories. But I can do much Hamdulillah you have to forgive and pardon. But I just wanted to share with you brothers and sisters, that sometimes you do things without thinking, but those things are awful.

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And those things they leave a black.in The memory of our children to the point that I have one person who is working in one of these media production he tells me that that why is he practicing? You know?

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Because when he was a child every time you go to the machine, they will kick him out. So once his Christian friends invited him

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to go with them to the church, they play soccer, they play karate and all of that when he went the pope welcomed him

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and he treated him like his child so he became possessed with the love of

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The church with the Pope, and his heart belonged there.

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I don't blame him, as long as he was a child. But now, when the person grows up and understands the the reality behind things, he should be wise enough to make the right decision. And we shall try to correct those people who miss three the children. And this is entirely an Islamic have nothing to do this lamb here is the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam, we should be learning from him. And we should be following his footsteps and guidance as Allah Almighty said

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luckily they can Allah comfier. Rasulillah he posts what on Hassan indeed, in the Messenger of Allah for you, Muslims, a role model, a good example. Why just to learn about him and to enjoy studying his biography and that's it to follow. And then Canaves allah how a young man with a Corolla Kerala Cassia the following Hadith brothers and sisters Hadith number 604 and 604 also narrated by Anna Sidney Malik Radi Allahu Allah, he said in Cana tell me to mean in in Medina city letter who will be editing the video sallallahu alayhi wa sallam set on Polyakova he Hi Sasha.

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Powerful Buhari, beautiful, beautiful. He said, peace be upon him, a servant girl

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in El Medina, will take hold of the hand of the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him. And she would take him wherever she wants to take him to come, come, come, I want you to help me with this, I want you to fulfill that for me, I want you to buy that for me. Who would do that and to whom

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geria Anna. The word geria means a young girl.

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And Emma means a slave woman. And abd

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a main slave. As you understand that was very, very common slavery was something very common in every nation in every society. And we discussed repeatedly before how Allah Almighty in the Quran and the Prophet salaallah, Selim saw his practices, prescribed, freeing the slaves.

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Fact Karaca, our PA mafia minima Messiah, and this is one of the acts which will make you eligible to be freed from hellfire on the day of judgment. And a lot of mighty made many ransoms for some sins or violations of ones also known as freeing the slaves in order to free as many slaves as possible. But there was a slave woman and she would come not only one or three, and area, Lana, Indiana, would come and get hold of the hand of the Prophet salaallah Salam, and she would take him wherever she desires. Come with me, I want you to help me with this. Could you please buy that for me? I don't have money. And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam wouldn't mind. Wait a minute. This

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is something very important. And we have to shed some light on that because some people say, look, here the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam used to keep his hand in the hands of a woman she's an AMA, she's a slave woman, but she would get a hold of his hand, keep her hand in his hand. Which means that this like handshaking, and it is okay. Is it true?

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Is it what we understand from the Hadith? Okay, let's see, what the prophets Allah Salam said in this regard, and what has been narrated in this regard, by the companions of the Prophet sallallahu sallam,

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the Prophet sallallahu wasallam in the sound Hadith said in nila, also if you're on the set,

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I do not shake hands with women who are not my mom. And my ham is a woman whom I'm not allowed to marry for good.

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Your sister, your aunt, your mother, your grandmother, your daughter, your granddaughter, your cousin? No, because you can marry to your cousin if you want to. It is permissible. So can I shake hands with her? No, it is not permissible in Islam.

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The Prophet sallallahu sallam said inshallah also if you only say and when did he say that? He said when he was sitting and accepting the Pledge of Allegiance men would come and shake hands with him over here, okay, I give you the Pledge of Allegiance not to associate with ALLAH in in worship and not to do this not to do that and to do this and this and that. Although you're listening, but women would say that verbally, why and the prophets Allah said, I'm sitting, I'm not shaking hands with any form. Aisha Radi Allahu Anhu also said that the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said to the women who came for the baya for the Pledge of Allegiance in Vallejo.

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to Kuna law Allah He must set you had Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam yet and Marathi on top layer and now okay now you were your own Nabil Kalam and this is a Hadith agreed upon its authenticity collected by both alcohol a Muslim she said the Prophet Salah salem said okay, okay, I accepted the pledge of allegiance from you verbally and pull up Nevada to Hakuna and he will do that verbally. And she said by Allah Lao will lie man Mr. And Mrs. mere touch the hand of the Prophet SAW Salem never touch the hand then let alone the entire body of a woman who's not lawful for him Subhanallah right right no Kenny will be your own level clan, but he used to live there via verbally only by the

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words without handshaking like in the case of men. So what do you understand from the previous Hadith in Canada will enter

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in Medina letter could be yours Allah Allah Allah Salem. Well, it's very simple to explain that the beautiful da which we say in it, Allah whom MCOs be a Dena Lake, aka del Cara Mia Alec. What does it mean?

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Does it mean that hold our hands and drive through when we ask Allah to take our hands? Yeah need to guide us to support us to keep us on the straight path to give us help to direct us to the right direction. Who is the ad in a like take our hands on guide us on to you? Does he do that physically? Or here will mean a metaphor Yeah. And he control us to do what is good. Okay, so when we say incarnate will Mr. Medina lotta who do beard interview so seldom does not necessarily mean that she would hold his pot or his hand and keep it in her hand. Maybe his arm is closed, or a metaphor. Yanni she would ask him and he would go with her she doesn't have to hold the hand of the Prophet

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salaallah Salah we're gonna take a short break and sha Allah will continue with this conversation. In a few minutes please stay tuned.

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back our phone numbers Area code 002 Then 023 treble 5131 or 132

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will enter Sydney Malik also narrated in another Hadith that there used to be a woman he said a number of attend kind of Yaqui has shaped Yanni a woman who is not mentally stable.

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This woman Karla tiara, Salalah, in Li like a Hydra.

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She wants came to the Prophet SAW Allah Allah sent me she said, I want you to help me do something.

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The Prophet salallahu alayhi salam, now he's talking to a woman. She is known in the community as maybe insane, mentally unstable. And you see the woman who learn who the IEA took a sheet for whom if he had to acquire monarchy, Allahu Akbar, it said or the mother of so and so again, he gave her a cornea and said, whichever road whichever street you choose, take it I will follow you. I'll come with you any where you want me to go with you? In order to fulfill your need in order to assist you. Then enter Sydney Malik said for Halima rasool Allah is Allah Allah Selim energy I had tacos with hagit Allah.

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So the Prophet SAW Selim got up to talk to her in private, until he heard her entire story. And he fulfilled her needs. And he saw what she wanted. And he promised to do whatever she needed Subhanallah all the time she wanted, and he did not interrupt her at all. So maybe he was sitting with his companions discussing a very serious matter, but a woman who is mentally unstable, comes to him and she says, I need to talk to you and he doesn't mind. So whether a child, whether a girl, whether a slave girl, whether a youngster whether a person who is not mentally stable, is asking the Prophet sallallahu Sallam for any need to be fulfilled. The prophets Allah, Allah would pay close

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attention to them.

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Especially after Allah Almighty said, I have so whatever and I will. When I would rica Allah, Allah He has all these

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images that we have seen from the previous Hadith, or to prove one thing, his humbleness and humility. sallallahu alayhi salam, a man is so humbling in fear while he is told

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come to him and the Prophet salallahu Salam says, My dear brother, take it easy. How would I learn if Sikh Inanna entered Newmarket in Canada Kulu Khadija the Maccha I'm just a human being the son of a mother or a woman who used to eat the dry meat in Makkah, I belong to a very humble family. We're very humble people. Yeah. And you're very ordinary people. He is not acting is not pretending. But the Prophet sallahu wa Salatu Salam is behaving with full humility and humbleness. SallAllahu Alaihe. Salam Salam aleikum, wa Rahmatullah.

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Sister Fatima from Nigeria.

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So no one is

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concerned. Mr. Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh. Welcome to the program.

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Thank you for having

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us. The higher end one handler everybody is fine. Alhamdulillah thank you for

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Hello, okay for the program to take.

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Go ahead, sister. Fatima, please. I guess my husband, I'm having a trouble with my husband when he comes back from he doesn't like to do Salam I have talked in in many times. I've heard it many times, but you will see this. So my question here is should I be the one to do this alarm for him?

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Okay, should I just ignore him? I don't you mean that? How long have you haven't been talking to each other?

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How long have you been talking to each other? How long you have?

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And how close I know we've been married to him. He doesn't like to say to a llama. But if I talk to you do it for two to three days when you just go back to your hotel. Okay, be the nice person be the nice part. Okay. You're always like that. And take the initiative if this is going to resolve the issue and Wallahi This is the Fatima This is not a sign of weakness. I'm glad you called to ask this question just to show the viewers that when a person whenever there is a couple, a husband and wife or brothers or sisters or partners, and one of them is feeling like I'm not going to begin the setup. So the other person always take the initiative always tries to be concise as Sir Mr. Like, in

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order to break the ice in order to reconcile. This is not a sign of weakness. This is a sign that Allah loves you more. This is a sign that Allah loves you more this is in the Hadith. Well, hi Ruhama, then Yep, that will be salon as discussed in the first segment, the best of them the best before whom the best before Allah the Almighty, the bearer person is the one who starts giving salam to the other who takes the initiative. He is better before Allah subhanaw taala. So if this is going to resolve the problem, Sister Fatima, go ahead and begin him with a Salam say As salam o alaikum, and even say, I'm sorry,

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I'm not saying that. The wife is the one who has to do that. Every time I'm saying here in public, that I'll be more than happy as I always do. If I've ever done anything wrong, to say to my wife, I'm sorry, forgive me to say to my parents or to say to my own children, okay, sometimes I confused things. And I may punish again, one of my children for you know what I thought is right. Then I realized that I was wrong. So I apologize. I say I'm sorry.

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So apologizing is not a sign of weakness. Rather, it's a sign of being realistic, is a sign of being a true Muslim is a sign of being responsible, a responsible person would do that. So sister Fatima, no problem. Take the initiative, and give him Salam. So that do not give a che plan a chance to laugh at both of you. Because you haven't been talking to each other for days. May Allah make it easy for you.

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we're talking about the humbleness of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam

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in how he treated everyone in the community and I hope by studying that, that leaves an impact on how we deal with others, and how we should humble ourselves before old people Mantova it Lehi, Allah for those who are actually looking for pride. If they know that by being humble, Allah Almighty will raise them into higher ranks, and will make them honorable. They won't be humble especially for that. But we humble ourselves because it is a fact that we are all the servants of Allah subhana

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Tada, we will just born a few years ago and soon we will die and we will vanish. This life is not worth it. This life is not worth showing pride and arrogance, because in fact, in fact, all of us are created by Allah subhanaw taala and are simply human beings. And this is how we should perceive ourselves and our reality. The following hadith is Hadith number 605 And in SVOD New Year's Eve Radi Allahu Anhu called So Elijah Isha to radi. Allahu anha Mercan and Nabil Salallahu Alaihe Salam eosinophil Beatty toilet, Ken a goofy me naughty Yeah, Annie feed naughty

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so either hubiera to Salah hora de la sala or Allahu Buhari.

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The Mother of the Believers are Isha, may Allah be pleased with her, who was asked,

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What did the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him used to do at home.

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She said, he used to keep himself busy helping his family members, his wives. And when it was time for the prayer, he would get up to pray.

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In another narration, it described that his condition once he would hear the other factor and now referred to as if he does not recognize us, why because what is more important has come.

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That is the meaning of Allahu Akbar, Akbar is greater, bigger, more important, more significant, bigger and greater than what? Then

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your rest, your break your business, your job, your school, your education, your classes, your wife, your children, then earning money, of course, Akbar then all of that. So the words of the day then are very important to understand. So that when Allah Almighty says Come to success, he is calling you to achieve success. Not only success in the Hereafter, but success in both lives in this life and in the hereafter to Okay, so this is one thing and the most important message in the Hadith. Now, the questioner asked whom? Aisha Radi Allahu anha. Whenever the Sahaba wanting to verify or inquire about anything about the personal life of the prophet Sallallahu sallam, what goes on behind

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closed doors, they would go to his wives, and they would ask them

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Aisha Radi Allahu anha said, when she was asked, How did the Prophet sallallahu Sallam used to treat his family members? She said can hear goofy Magneti Adela

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and Mina Hitman service at home, he was always busy serving his family serving his family. We know that the prophets Allah Allah, Allah Selim, at all his children from Hadiya or the Allahu Anhu.

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With a faulty man, may Allah be pleased with her or recoil or consume or Xena, right? four daughters. And then those who were born of the boys, Abdullah and I will ask him or Ibrahim Ibrahim and Al Qasim they died

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you know, very early. So whom were the prophets Allah Allah Allah sent him sir when she said actually

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his wives what would he do at home? What did he use to do at home Salah Lawson and can elsif well nallah yup Carl Silva. In another Hadith explain that the Prophet Salah Salem used to patch his own clothes. If there is something that is torn, he would fix it. Something that has a hole he would patch it. He shoes, they need to be cleaned up. They need to be patched they need to be sewn. He would say do and do that. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam would do this handiwork and at home yes he may neti

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which includes everything else. Jani, it is not ashamed to do the dishes. No, it is not. It is actually when you do that. You are imitating the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him for a minute Yeah.

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It is okay to vacuum the carpet and the the the couches and to do the dishes and sweep the floor and do all of that. I'm a man. Rasool Allah is Allah Allah Allah Salam was and he is the greatest man ever walked the earth. And He is the dearest to Allah, the Almighty, the most beloved to Allah Almighty, yet canovee Minetti Allah, as long as he's at home. He keeps himself busy helping his family members you ate, pick up the plates, clean up the table. Do the dishes, you know, do

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some help. Guess what, that is not only a sign of humbleness and humility but also it develops love. Your spouse knows that you are helping and you are like you and her are one person. Remember once since we studied this hadith and we learn the lifestyle of the Prophet SAW Selim, we do our best to try to imitate the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him. I had a conference in Dubai.

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And I had a chance to take my wife along and she was pregnant. So some people saw me carrying her purse her actually hand back. Some people came to me and said, What a shame shame. You're carrying your wives, handbag or purse. I say what is wrong with that? I said in you know, this is not right.

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You know, she's the one who should be carrying your computer case or whatever. I said no, but Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam used to do more than that Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam used to do more than that. Once he knelt down and he made his knee to build up his leg and he made his knee like a step for one of his wives to step on in order to embark on the back of the camera. Did he do that? Yes. And once again, whenever he was traveling with the, with the caravan with his army, the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam asked our Isha Radi Allahu Allah to take aside the wood, head of the Army, and he asked to raise her. And they both raised and she won the race. Then a few years later, when

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our Isha grew older, and she put on some weight, he said, Let's race again and another chance. And he beat her and said, had he been helped? You know, when you know that the prophets Allah Salam used to do the things, you realize that we're arrogant. We're arrogant people.

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Who are we to be arrogant and to show pride to show pride before even our children and before our family members? Is it because you are a busy doctor? Is it because you're a business owner? Is it because of whatever reason?

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No doubt that you will never be even equivalent to the messenger of allah sallallahu sallam. So he's our role model whom we should follow and copy his practices and follow his footsteps. Salatu Salam, may Allah make Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam our best role model to follow a colocar we had our Estelle Fulani, welcome Salah Allahu ala Sayidina Muhammad in one early he was salam and until next time Assalamu aleikum wa rahmatullah wa

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have a

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love of God is the greatest

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glory to Him. He bought me humans to be the best and gave his best religion to allah God has been greatest, the one and only glory to Him

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to humans to be the best, and give his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgiving all about and in paradise? We're shipping cows fire and stones, sending their best with the cheapest

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day ignore that forgetting all about how bad guys were shipping cars fire and stoves, selling their best were the cheapest