I Accidentally Offend People – Q&A

Perfect things I don't think silence is going to help because if you become overly silent and eventually you will explode it will be worse than you were before Yeah, that's happening. Okay yeah because you're overdoing it

gonna start first of all I'm in need of some help man. Oh yeah. Coffee Shop publicly speaker there and you have a very good sense of speech and talking right? I just bought beauty in the lectures or knows APNIC as a big thing with 80k words hurt more than swords Yes. Yeah, but call them and have them unfold yeah in this with this with the guard strat in the guards without meta questions like a not a question but x data just goes downwards that K I am very blunt or maybe is with a yoga we just have heard a few people recently. Both come span Mac coffees are located. Okay. So I'm like the thinking the way I should talk and how I should act. So many go then I was like, let's think before

they speak now. Like and asked us why okay, I don't talk at all. Now my social media don't cowboys? No, my boys will be any you're an extremist. Either you run people over or you never start the car? Maybe.

So what did apne personnel

do up here? Jenny? Oh, say you give in your evolution of being a public speaker. Right? If you can give some tactical advice to someone? Well, not so much public speaking. But communication. Yeah. I think you should be yourself. I don't think you should be afraid to apologize. I think whoever you've heard, you should tell them, hey, I have this tendency to be blunt. And I'm really working on it. And I'm going to try to, to manage it. So I think you should try to reconcile with people that you've caused pain to. That would be a good first step. They can also point out to you in what ways you tend to be

insensitive, and you can become mindful of those specific things. I don't think silence is going to help. Because if you become overly silent, then eventually you will explode. It will be worse than you were before. Yeah, that's happening. Okay. Yeah. Because you're overdoing it. Yeah. So just don't, don't, don't go overboard. My experience as a public speaker has little to do with this problem. Because nobody tests my patients when I'm publicly speaking when you are quite blunt, I think you're tend to say whatever's on your mind. I hold back a lot.

Hold back a lot.

And then some stuff leaks out.

Zach lovella I'll try doing that. Okay.

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