Nadim Bashir – Khatira – Giving Parents Company

Nadim Bashir
AI: Summary © The speakers discuss the importance of respecting parents and learning to be a good person. They also touch on the history of Islam and its portrayal as a world problem, and how parents are often told not to obey. Additionally, they suggest that parents should show respect to their children and not label them as a cartoon figure. They emphasize the need to correct parents and show their superiority to authority.
AI: Transcript ©
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Just 100 Haymond 100 Allah Hebrew Alameen wa Salatu was Salam ala Rasulillah Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi marine and Murad

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in so Look man, Allah subhanho wa Taala talks about Lachman giving advices to his son.

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And what's beautiful about all these advices is that majority of these advices are about spirituality. First of all, local man begins by giving his son and advice that do not ever commiserate with Allah subhanho wa Taala you have to shake biller initial color Illuminati, we also find that he gave us his son and the advice that remember that wherever you are, if you commit an act on the Day of Judgment, it does not matter from wherever you did and wherever it is. Allah subhanho wa Taala will bring it forth. Yeah Buddha yeah in intercom with kala hubba Muhammad and in fact a comfy soft rotten office somewhere where it will fill out the TB Allah Allah will bring it

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forward. Yeah, Bonilla up the mistletoe mobile my roof one Hi Mancha. Oh my son established your prayers, enjoying good, bring people towards good always encourage people to do good and prevent what is wrong in society. And that he gave other advices when it when it comes to a club. There is one advice in there Subhanallah that does not begin with Yagoona Yeah, there is one advice that does not begin with Oh my son, I'm giving you this advice. And that is the advice regarding parents. Now the question is that why not? Because in all the advice it says yeah, Buddha Yeah. Buddha Yeah. But in the advice that it begins or that talks about respecting parents and what are the rights of

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parents, Allah subhanho wa Taala says well was saying now we Allah subhanaw taala refers it to himself we gave this advice to them why the Allah Subhanallah they mentioned that the reason why Allah did this is because Hallo C'mon, giving all these advices related to spirituality related to solids related to amount of money I Monica in o'clock and character, and he would have also told him, they respected me, it would have come off as if look man is selfish. He's using the opportunity to get something for himself. And this is why Allah subhanho wa Taala did not refer that to look man. Rather, he referred that to himself, Allah subhanho wa Taala that we have told him, the human

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being the human race, not just the Muslims the entire world, because this is a world problem. This is a universal problem, that usually when children they grow up, they become very disrespectful to their parents. One is disrespect and one is disagreement. I've talked about this before. If a person says I disagree, that I this is not the the way that I want to do something, then that is simply a disagreement. A disagreement is not disrespect. Many parents at times feel that if my child disagrees with me in my choice, then that's considered a disrespect. There are two different things. So Allah subhanho wa Taala he says, Well, what sinal in Santa BYD, they that treat your parents with

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the highest level of respect. And then what's also beautiful is that while there's an advice for the in this for parents, that when it comes to your children, do not try to use Deen to try to you know, have them respect you rather, we teach our children that this is what Allah wants from you, not me, this is what Allah is expecting from you. When a person hears that this is what Allah is expecting from me, that any person who has a shred of respect in their heart for Allah subhanho wa Taala they will do exactly what Allah subhanaw taala wants them to do. Then Allah subhanaw taala also teaches the what is the responsibility of a child or a child even when they grow up, they're still they're

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still the son, they're still a daughter to to their own parents. So Allah subhanho wa Taala says, if it comes to the point where in Jaha Dhaka Isla and to sneak a be that if they force you or they compel you to break the order of Allah subhanho wa Taala here in this ayah and so Look, man, Allah talks about shake, but when Allah talks about shidduch it means anything else, if the parents compel if the parents push, and they try to push and push their children, to commit a haram to do something that is wrong, something that has been deemed by our religion as completely wrong, Philip Voltaire Houma now Subhanallah was beautiful about this is Allah simply say, she said, do not obey them.

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Allah do not say be disrespectful. Allah simply said further to to Houma was Sahiba Houma duniya ma rufa, and be around them, while Sahiba Houma give them your sofa, give them your company fit duniya ma rufa in this dunya in a way that is acceptable in society and

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Subhan Allah, Allah, Allah, they say on this based on this is that Allah subhana wa, the old man said is that Allah is not telling you. Allah is not telling us that when you go to your parents, you sit there and you correct your parents, you know, many of us when we grow up, we feel and we know that perhaps our parents might be doing something that is wrong. Sometimes our parents are doing something that is perhaps not the best course of action. Sometimes they don't have the right understanding about something, or they may have a different understanding about something, and compared compared to what our understanding is, and we feel, and we feel compelled that every single

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time I sit down next to my parents, I need to correct my parents, I need to show that when it comes to my knowledge, I'm superior than them and knowledge. When it comes to authority, I am worse, I'm more I have more superiority, even though I mean they have and they are just right now they're weak at this point. But right now, at this point, I am such an I am that and I have such a position as duniya we usually like to, you know, showcase that kind of position. Allah subhanaw is telling us that that's not our job. When you come to your parents, even though they may be doing something that is wrong. Yes, you correct them once. But if they keep on doing what they're doing, and if they feel

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like that they're doing something the right way, was saw Haibo who might fit dunya ma rufa just go there and give them your company, give them your Saba your job is not to sit there and correct them, because at the end of the day, they are your parents. So these are advices that Allah subhanaw taala has given once again this is not coming from local man to his own son, this is coming from Allah subhanho wa Taala to the entire mankind, that every one of us we find ourselves in a position that we are a parent and we find ourselves in a position that we are the son or the daughter to someone else, if we can, you know abide by these kinds of rules. Inshallah, you will see that the the

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relationship that has been fractured between parents and children, inshallah it will come together, because on one end, a parent is teaching his child that this is not what I'm telling you to do for my own selfish reasons. I'm telling you what Allah has telling you to do. Allah is telling you to show show respect to your parents. And not only that, but then as as children. If we go to our parents, no matter what they're doing, and how they live their life, sometimes we may disagree with how they're living their life also, that's not our place. Yes, we can explain to them one time but then after that, we go and we give them our server, we give them our company and we show our o'clock

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to our parents so I ask Allah subhana wa Tada to make us feel amongst those who apply these teachings and who understand these these things and then they apply them and the best way in their life. I mean, no, but I mean, Zack Malachite said I'm only going to label a cartoon

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